I hope the bar is open!

It's normal for there to be time in between for photos and such. They would just have drinks and canapes and maybe some background music.

She is rude every single scenery

most men don't understand spending thousands of dollars on a dress for one day. She shouldn't have taken him along

No need to have vision after vision only for over going the groom's money...where is her's - her parents - her family's share???

@@MsJubjubbirdMost women with an ounce of intelligence don’t either

@sngray11 She has no right to have him to see her shopping wedding dress the bride Steph broke wedding tradition never take your husband to be and watching her get her wedding gown she's the one is rude to him to see her wedding dress she should wait until the wedding and wait she walk down the aisle in her wedding gown she should take her mother and not him

He was a jerk. Completely ruined her dress shopping experience.

WHY would any woman want her Groom to be there to see and help pick out her dress!! ☹

My husband was / is this way…we’re renewing our vows and I’ve lost 300 lbs since we’ve gotten married. And he was on his phone….. playing games til it was time to take pics of each dress…. I hate it…. I don’t even want to do it now…..:-(

@@sharlaoverton5799 oh babe I'm sorry you dont deserve this kind of treatment, i hope it gets resolved

@@sharlaoverton5799 300 Pfund! Wow! Respect! How did you lost soo much? Please, tell me.

It would’ve been sweet if he’d taken her style into consideration, or even if it was for sentimental value instead of just money. She’s clearly into glitzy stuff but he’s made a plain band.

@@cattherat-ss4kv but that's what a wedding band is meant to be. It's usually a plain band. The diamonds are for the engagement ring

@@MsJubjubbird people don't always have to go with traditional things.

@@cattherat-ss4kv no but adding all the extra diamonds and stuff is just about being more showy and parading wealth. It's not necessary and just an extra add on. If they're trying to stay within budget then its not necessary for the add ons just to show off. As he said, the money is in the engagement ring Wedding bands are usually plain

@@MsJubjubbird I know in her case at least that's it but I know a few people (me included) who don't like plain bands and would rather have a cheaper one with some sparkle. Or just in general rather have one half the price that's more their taste

no chance it will last he is so obsessively controlling

Wth that's controlling as hell

This guy has got to be mentally ill, to be spending his time counting Toilet Paper. Unbelievable, you couldn't make it up.

She can if it's his credit card details.

Lol well does she work? Maybe she should put in her part and bring some bread to the table too 🤔

I give it a year then divorce time

@@goldenbeesshe’s a nurse they make good money

We don't know the parents situation

The bride's mother was rude. It's easy to understand how the bride developed into such a selfish self-centered person.

Wedding planner looks like a young Rodue O'Donnell

It;s hard to know without knowing what their debts and financial plans are

It's all his money & only her demands

Sounds like a great marriage!

@@juliakneecegregg3825 I feel truly happy to be with such a beautiful man. Our needs are simple. Our love beyond words. We've been together since 1985. Honesty even when it can hurt, shared support regardless of the storm. Changing in the truth of time, but never the chaining a free spirit. Commonsense, conversation and respect. A treasure without measure or value, because what we have no one can ever buy. Bless you're heart Julia.

Are they still married

i hear yuh

That’s a very good point, and those flat backs were horrible.

There were no talented, crafty people prior to 2007? We didn't have the knowledge? Woman & men have been doing these crafts for generations. I am not a professional, however, I have helped numerous friends with their weddings, bridal showers, baby showers, retirement parties and birthday parties. Every one of them had guests asking if they had professional help. Without any previous experience in party planning, I was elected to handle everything for my parents 50th wedding anniversary party. Think wedding reception for 150 guests. I was elected to handle everything by my brothers who would put up the money as they didn't want to be involved in the details, at all. I rented the venue on a cliff overlooking the ocean (got a great deal, booked so far in advance). I selected the menu, the bar setup, sent the invitations, chose the table setup, linens, seating arrangements, designed & created the table flower arrangements, designed the 3 tier cake but didn't make it, made all the favors, hung about 500 balloons attached to long coordinating ribbons that hung in a two story alcove above the dance floor (had help inflating the balloons). The venue staff advised no one had ever done that before & advised the idea & look was magnificent. I hired the DJ, coordinated the music play list to work for all ages invited. I designed a huge banner printed with my parents photo, names & wedding & anniversary date. I handmade a guest signature book, decorated a long cake table with lots of mementos from my parents 50+ years together. The food was presented beautifully, had a chocolate waterfall, so many more small details. My brothers & the guests were mentioning that "beautiful" party for years. All this done by someone with no experience who worked in an office but had a love of creating beautiful things. Took me over a year to plan it. All of this before 2007 with no internet or KZfaq for ideas, etc. As far back as I can remember women & men were creating beautiful art, crafts, clothes, etc. Most of the women I know are way more talented & creative than I am. I have been to many parties, events, weddings that were stunningly beautiful & you would think were done by top tier professionals. Some people are just blessed with these talents/skills. It didn't just miraculously start after 2007. Yes, there are lots of crafts & DIY projects online, some of it is new & much of it has been around for a long time. People just now have a platform to showcase their talents. :) I've been told for 30 years that I missed my true calling in life. I think I agree with the statement but it has been fun to do it on the side. :)

they would have a drink service and canapes in between the ceremony and reception for the guests. It's normal for there to be a gap between ceremony and reception for photos

why would he marry her? She's so selfish and he seem defeated

I would like to know too.

It appears they are still together, unbelievably.

@@charityebel657 Im happy if that’s true. A little shocked but happy. 😂

Yeah it is

Agreed. But can he deal with her.

haha

we don't know what their other financial commitments are. They could have just bought a house or be planning to have a family. Nurses generally get paid crap too.

Water

his hands or nothing

New Zealand has a decent pension for seniors. These guys are also older so their parents are likely to be retired. I think less and less parents are paying for wedding as the marriage age increases

@Kristy Corell Totally agree. I'd much rather take a great honeymoon than have a big blowout wedding. I'd rather take a couple weeks "lazing" around with my new husband in some fabulous location not spending a year stressing over every little detail of the wedding planning. Does not sound fun to me.

I think the groom is being cheap

@@ayla9905agre

@Ayla it's their wedding, not just hers......compromise.

She’s a nurse