She's been married for 38 years? Wow! She doesn't even look a day over 38😅. Loved the video👏👌❤️

Also, can we just talk about how deep the statement “KNOW WHAT YOU ARE FORGIVING” is!!! ❤️

"I will not bekezela for the sake of the kids. I will bekezela for myself if I WANT to bekezela" I wish more women could hear this. Young and old 😭😩

Situations are different and people are different so don't apply a blanket approach. Know yourself, know your person and take it from there.

Who else asks for part2 with mom?!

I like that she says forgiveness needs to be a conscious decision because ultimately you need to be accountable to yourself even when the decision you make isn’t the right one.

“Those are the signs of the type of marriage you’re going to have” Mommy started on a high note ‼️ Seeing where you got your good looks, Mrs M 😍

Mommy must start her own KZfaq channel, some of us unfortunately have not witnessed our parents as husbands and wives and have no template. This is needed and is necessary.

Thank you so much for this video. You have no idea how much this means to me😭😭😭 .I've just came out of a 3 year relationship with my ex as I found out he was cheating on me for over a year! I did everything for him...went over and beyond for him. Without even realizing, I lost myself in the relationship and because of that created an environment for myself where he was the only person I had in my life. In my family we dont talk about feelings and stuff. It's more of a "these are my parents and siblings and we just respect each other"...so I cant talk to them. I also dont have friends as I alienated all friendships since I made my whole life about him .So after finding out and because I don't have someone to cry to or a support group to lean on, I've been battling with going back to him just so that I dont fall into a deep depressive state...especially during this lockdown state. So from the bottom of my heart, Thank you Thank you THANK YOU 🥰🥰🥰...this video has given me the strength to love and respect myself...not all of us have open hearted and wise women such as your mom in our lives to seek advise from. Thank you again🙏🙏🙏

When mom said you "forgive for yourself.. " and when you want to bekezela its for yourself... Amazing perspective. 👏👏👏

" I can't not bekezela for the sake of the Kids, I must bekezela for myself" I felt that phrase. It's profound & powerful to love yourself first ladies & gentlemen. Do not allow marriage /relationship turn you into a living ghost. Value yourself still

WOOOOOOOW... this is what we need to hear from our elders... Let’s break the cycle of disempowering women with phrases like “bekezela” and “monna ke selepe o a adimisanwa”... I loved everything your mom said this is absolute wisdom... “but before you forgive, you need to know what you forgiving” #bars... mommy def needs to come back...

Thank you mama for sharing such wisdom. Husband and I have spoken a lot about this topic and it is harder for one to leave when married. I personally can't tolerate or stomach infidelity. When praying for a husband I begged God to not allow me to get married if he knows I will face that. I've seen how it destroys families, even when parties have been forgiven. Maybe my view will change with years of marriage, but wow, for now, I don't think I will stay. Not because I wouldn't love my husband but for my sanity and wellbeing.

Your mom?? That’s your sister 😂.she’s beautiful ❤️

"you need to know what you're forgiving", your mother👏👏

😂🤣🤣🤣when she said danger yoohh ... WALK AWAY from Danger guys ...

Beautiful interview with mommy. I wish it was abit longer. She oozes wisdom ❤️. Can we have a part 2 or maybe have her talk on inlaws😉Thanks Buli for an excellent and life changing videos❤️

"that person was doing it before you got married, and you turned a blind eye." wueh! This applies to most such relationships even dating. The signs are always there...

This was so enjoyable. A different perspective from what women of your mom's age normally tell us

When it comes to cheating I believe that family background plays a big role. A man who is born in Polygamous home and his siblings follow the family trend.... It will need a very strong focused person not to follow family curse

“You need to know what you’re forgiving” 🔥 Thank you so much for this video. A very fresh perspective.

#RoadTo10k or kanjani! 💃💃♥️😃 We like before we even watch

Impela indlela ibuzwa kuba phambili 🙌🏾 ... wise words from your mom 🙏

Thank you for the video Sis Buli; both yours and moms stand points are valid, thank you to her also for imparting wisdom from her 38 years of marriage 🙏🏽❤️

Your mum aged so beautifully wow! Your future is bright sis✨😊 looking forward to this one!

"If he wants to be there he must go there"❤️so much wisdom I'm really enjoying this chat

Thank you so much for this ❤. Advice coming from a place of wisdom! Loved the conversation.

Really loved and appreciated mom's honesty ❤️🙏

Yoh! Mama is so wise. I love her ❤️.. everything makes sense with her 🥺🤞🏼

Super dope segment with your mom. Her gems are coming from a place of growth... thank you for this please do more and if you can get your dad involved too. especially on such topics

I love your mother’s perspective. She’s so empowered.

Mom said “dont ignore the signs,dont turn a blind eye” ... what happens while u dating will happen 10x when u married

A part 2 with Mom is necessary Thanks Buli for this insightful segments 💕

We know Mommy and she is an amazing woman. Learnt a lot through this video. Thanks my friendie 🌸

The wisdom . Mom needs to come back for another session . loved this talk 💙

My heart is full. Kwa know your worth is the pitz I'm glad I've never settled.

Your mother’s perspective is a reality. So much sense

Wise wise words from mom... i’m 27 and married and i’m truly grateful for this

I love this perspective... Very eye-opening 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

That blouse Jeso Madam 🙆‍♀️

Hubby said he enjoyed this session with mama (I did too), we're looking forward to the next one ❤️🙏🏾 You both look stunning by the way - as always😍

Wow!! You’re lucky to have a mom like her Mrs 💕 Now let me shush and learn one or 2 from this beautiful Queen

Love this, talk about pearls of wisdom. Thanks buli and love your mom 😀.

Wisdom from mom is amazing, we learnt a lot, we ready for part 2

I came here as soon as I can 😀..... Your mom is so beautiful (just like you) ❤️💕

This provided a wholistic perspective and insight which we may easily overlook...thank you👌

Wow!! So much wisdom from mom, can we have part2 please. Love you Buli❤

Such wisdom from your mom 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Mom has so much wisdom, in this situation I'm on team Buli but mommy explained it so well and her reasons are not toxic to oneself but are about what wants. Mommy is so beautiful My God

Wow, mom amazing... I've learnt so much, completely shifted my perspective...tough truths

This was beautiful. Thank u mama❤️Loving the content Buli❤️u two are amazing😍

Wow we need part two please. Such wisdom Mama thank you

Wow this is your mom❤️❤️ I admire ous Makoena, very humble, experienced and my favorite person at work. I really really look up to her❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for this Buli, thanks for sharing mom's wisdom with us ❤️ #38Years I agree completely with mama, everyone has their personal threshold when it comes to dealing with all kinds of things in marriage/relationships, it's your personal conviction that will make you stay or leave. With regards to "staying for the children" I believe children are highly intelligent and they can tell when things aren't okay, so if staying portrays a negative image of a sad mom or dad then is it really worth staying? So in as much as it is totally about you first, I think it's also important to consider the kids, maybe even have a conversation with them, to make them understand why you're making whatever decision you're making so they don't grow up carrying a burden of you staying for their sakes or wondering why you left.

I cannot believe we had to wait this long to see Mom! So much wisdom 💯 “ You need to know what you’re forgiving” 🔥 “I cannot bekezela for the kids, I need to bekezela for myself” Very real ! Would love to see Mom more often ♥️

Aus' Makoena❤️❤️❤️ absolutely love her. She's so graceful, her voice 😍😍 This was so insightful.

You’ve earned a subbie I loved this watched it just when I needed a bit of advice on something I’m going through

WOW Buli thank you for bringing your mum to offload some wisdom to us. why arent pple subscribing to your channel its full of wisdom.

Yeaaaaaaaaaaahy... A very tough one to make💭 Marriage is not the Faint hearted 💯

Please mama should come by more often.. really love and she is very pretty!

Wow 10min of watching already i can say the mother is sooo mature. Is she a psychologist or what? She's deep and she speaks like a mother of power and yooh I can't find words to describe. Thanks for the Video before getting married.

Lol I’ve been wondering where your young Sesotho references/inserts were coming from, until I heard Mom’s name 🤣 You definitely got her wisdom, you talk like her shame

Fresh chat and really amazing

Aaaaaaah! Your mom is beautiful✨ Your mom is WISE!

Love love Mama Mazwi♥ such wisdom.

Wow, ur mummy has hit the nail on the head, I found are take very intelligent , it is true that the signs are always there from the onset but most people always have the thought that they can change them.

I always see your mom at church :) but I’ve never seen you :( .... Your content is always on point 🌸🙌🏿

My fave youtuber💕💕💕

Your mom is a wise woman indeed

Thank you so much Buli for this❤ mom is a wise woman.

"You need to know what you are forgiving" 👏👏👏

Momzy is beautiful and is spitting truths!! I'm subscribing.

"Hmmmmm hmmmm hmmmm!" indeed 😂😂

WOOOW!!! Much needed Buli

Fountain of wisdom. Mama ❤️

Mom is so lovey, thank her for us. Yeah that was good for thought hey.

Gemz on gems shuuu 🙌 shoo it's not easy hey but I love that mom says check the red signs, you will find that you knew and just turned a blind eye. Know what you forgiving ... #Roadto10k#notificationgang

mama mazwi is the most awesome woman I've ever met sweet and a great adviser. And yes Buli Makhubo learns from the best. #bestmom #bestdaughter.

My perspective was changed as well, I enjoyed this❤️

This is so informative 👏🏽. Thank you

this was really worth watching, thanks mama and Buli

So much wisdom from Mom

Very wise words from mommy!!👏👏

I love what your Mom says,He was not ready for marriage if he wants to live a single life in marriage

What a beautiful interview with your mother 😍🥰

Love your content, so helpful... Keep them coming

Loving the black and white on the both of you ladies 😍🔥

Aah Buli this was too short 😩 We need part 2 with mommy plz 😃.... Anyways, thank you.... Gems were dropped here, thanks mama for your wisdom 🙏

Thank you so much for a lovely vlog.Mum looks like she is your friend she hasn't aged at all.Can we have part 2 please.

Your mom is so beautiful 😍 and wise. I agreed 100% with what she said I just wish my mom is like her yaz. My mom is the Bekezela no matter what type 😩.

Thanks Mama, wisdom right there....

loved this. its really not that easy to throw your toys in marriage. hence marriage is scary and sometimes not for everyone.

Loved it so much had to download to listen to again

I’m your new Subie been binge watching I must say your content is rich and deep

So much wisdom 🙏🌠

So much wisdom ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

A very objective view from Mam'Mazwi. Siyabonga for hosting this Mrs Makhubo. #GemsWereDropped

Your mom is so wise. Please bring her back again.

Buli... what an amazing video, your mom is so gorgeous, full of so much wisdom! So many women need to hear this, I have forgiven a cheating boyfriend because the bible says... eventually you just have to choose yourself and your peace.

My heart is full, what a beautiful video