Once I was arguing with my mom for branded shoes .That day my mom said to me "First deserve then desire". That line changed my life ☺😚
@satyam68842 жыл бұрын
🥰
@shivrajsir86892 жыл бұрын
Right 👍
@debjitpatar13262 жыл бұрын
Wow
@aena59952 жыл бұрын
I m a girl and my mom says the same 🤣😂
@sulemankhan82272 жыл бұрын
Its nothing but kanjoosi at all 😂
@abh1roy2 жыл бұрын
The real freedom comes only when you are financially free 🙏
@cryptonews52532 жыл бұрын
financially free and Real freedom are not relatable Bro. i wish you understand one day thankyou. No negative thoughts that i know what you want to say
@ManishKumar-ed3lt2 жыл бұрын
If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho. It's real slavery. Jobless person is more free than u. Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki. In that state you will be free. But to reach that level is very tough
@coppersulphate49672 жыл бұрын
very true..
@EnSabahNur-ir5mw2 жыл бұрын
financially free keya hota hai C @@@dakar
@knozy85692 жыл бұрын
@@cryptonews5253 kya kehrah 🤣, financial freedom is first aur konsa freedom hoota h
@Siddhart312 Жыл бұрын
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
@devilisbackk Жыл бұрын
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
@punitdhaila1417 Жыл бұрын
Good bro 🙂🙂
@mayankdixit5376 Жыл бұрын
Go bro ♥️
@kedarsingh1040 Жыл бұрын
Keep it up bro
@ZaidKhan-su3ey Жыл бұрын
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
@maverick_echo17612 жыл бұрын
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under a condition that he PROVIDES something " - Chris Rock.
@justinholmes17372 жыл бұрын
Feminazis will disagree
@arnavsamaddar6638 Жыл бұрын
Exactly God will destroy this anti men world soon
@croncol36 Жыл бұрын
🥶true
@shaizilwarsi7852 Жыл бұрын
Then have multiple wives to get more love multiple children multiple dog That will multiply the love you get
@AmongUs-qt3uo Жыл бұрын
@@shaizilwarsi7852 Dogs suck
@sachin084252 жыл бұрын
"Women don't care about you , they only care about what you can do for them!" Only your mother will love you unconditionally ! Always remember this!
@sdevi47592 жыл бұрын
Ohh really your mom ur sister and your female friends don't care about you. I am shocked
@sachin084252 жыл бұрын
@@sdevi4759 here the word women is used for wife/girlfriend and not for mother or sister .
@v.s.sengar77872 жыл бұрын
True bro very true
@Indian2.52 жыл бұрын
Humans* Not only Womens but guys too buddy.
@sachin084252 жыл бұрын
@@Indian2.5 men love idealistically whereas women love opportunistically.
@pranavkhakhkhar2 жыл бұрын
1. Career 2. Health 3. Relationship Three major pillars of life, focus and never forgot.
@shilpykumari64192 жыл бұрын
Bro health ki spelling sahi kr lo
@divinesoul13132 жыл бұрын
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
@aatifshah84762 жыл бұрын
@@shilpykumari6419 👌💃
@aatifshah84762 жыл бұрын
@@divinesoul1313 may be he lost the gem. & sure he will regret later full of fake world if someone is caring abt him.. that's fortunate thing ..
@divinesoul13132 жыл бұрын
@@aatifshah8476 I think..love vo h ...jo apki kamiya bta k apko improve kre...buttering to koi b kr leta h.
@Hawk34789 Жыл бұрын
No school is teaching this as straight forward as this I wish someone was telling us 15 years back
@Shashank_More2 жыл бұрын
6:40 true , If you dont have 'Aukat' duniya ko ghanta parak nahi padta if you are even there or not . So build the aukat first !
@anshusingh25172 жыл бұрын
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
@satyambhartee31892 жыл бұрын
All the best
@ShashiBhargava-yv8yb2 ай бұрын
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
@rahul.........aur maze ki baat ye hai ki.......aukaat banne k baad ladkiyan zyada bhav deti hai 🤗
@gurleensekhon3192 жыл бұрын
I don't think so ..looks matter more for us!!
@saurabhnair85292 жыл бұрын
@@gurleensekhon319 u r right.......lekin insaan ko shakal se zyada akal se smart hona chahiye
@saurabhnair85292 жыл бұрын
@The Quiver if we have multiple girls as friends.......then people will not ignore us, they will not insult us
@pronaygayen6308 Жыл бұрын
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day.... I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
@wariskhan-gw2nrАй бұрын
Cheetan sir iam from Pakistan and iam 💯 agree with your point when i was in Pakistan see all these things and now iam in Germany.. Now everyone want to talk me and gives respect❤
@akansha63712 жыл бұрын
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone.... It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
@anandhujayan25462 жыл бұрын
💯
@SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz2 жыл бұрын
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
@sandeepmann58992 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind,,wat Shivam yadav said ,,, ok ,🙂
@wanderingnomad12 жыл бұрын
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
@syedilyaz97412 жыл бұрын
Bhai which aspirant ?
@RahulSharma-pn8is2 жыл бұрын
6:48 Golden lines...🔥💫
@dr.u42262 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct Sir , Career+ Health+ Relationship = AUKAAT
@FrostYourSoul79 ай бұрын
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
@rajibdeka22072 жыл бұрын
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
@Stiwari217222 жыл бұрын
100% right 👍
@knightwing20242 жыл бұрын
Kya bkwass Hai ye sab kuch ladke hi kare 🤪 bhai kya gyan de rhaa hai tu
@gurleensekhon3192 жыл бұрын
100000000% true
@rajibdeka22072 жыл бұрын
@@knightwing2024 you will not understand. And that's OK. It's not for everybody👍👍👍
@knightwing20242 жыл бұрын
@@rajibdeka2207 tu ladki Hai issliye Esa bol rahi Hai pta Hai mujhe bkwass bawandar chup ekdum
@parteekranga32382 жыл бұрын
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy. But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
@unknown-kx6fp Жыл бұрын
Ekdam correct bola sir Aapne . Bitter but truth 😓 Without Aukat koi Kisi ladke ko koi Pyar nhi krta , respect nhi deta 🙏
@mayurpabale9532 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Bando ki aukat unke wallet se hi banti hai.. kadva sach!
@varunthalla97642 жыл бұрын
Content is valuable and what chetan sir said is obviously correct. 'Men only valued whn they achieve something in their life'.
@swapanarakshe38652 жыл бұрын
Applicable to girl as well
@sdevi47592 жыл бұрын
@@swapanarakshe3865 yes girls should also focus on their growth
@mr.incredible17322 жыл бұрын
@@swapanarakshe3865 Nice 🙃
@stevebellingham23192 жыл бұрын
@@swapanarakshe3865 I am a simp I value you bcz you are a girl. Now show me any a girl who can say the same for me 😀 .....
@gourmondal58122 жыл бұрын
@@stevebellingham2319 not just any girl...only beautiful girl with a good character!!!
@dhruvitdhodia22792 жыл бұрын
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
@saddamhussain-cs9cn2 жыл бұрын
Hands up to your comment.! Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships. And I love chetan bhgat...
@ajijulrahemanshaikh3832 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right bro 👍
@adarshpareek88642 жыл бұрын
But you will always have more options to choose from Hence higher chance of getting someone better
@saddamhussain-cs9cn2 жыл бұрын
@@adarshpareek8864 You said true that money gives you power to change the relationship if not working. Thanks it helped me a lot.
@lalitjoshi29752 жыл бұрын
Yes , you are right. Same thing I am also experiencing in my life. But I don't want to earn money just to be loved by some girl.
@pratham3718 Жыл бұрын
The word aukaat is very very important in man's life 💯
@manukumar-pq1gu2 жыл бұрын
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally". "Chris Rock"
@eric-theodore-cartman61512 жыл бұрын
As a berozgaar engineer, I am living this today and what you said is 100% true.. But I haven't given up just yet, I'll rise and shine..
@abhishekchaudhary40582 жыл бұрын
U will rise
@Sumit_XDF2 жыл бұрын
Kyu engineering krli 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😂😝😁😂🌝
@shiddhantgaming79582 жыл бұрын
@@Sumit_XDF seems like some immature asking the question
@totlaseth42032 жыл бұрын
Hey, u got this okay
@justinholmes17372 жыл бұрын
@@Sumit_XDF look just becoz the nation cant provide jobs doesnt mean ull blame engineering.....
@22gauravkumar702 жыл бұрын
Unfair, Bitter but Absolutely True. Hope more people talk about this openly.
@nature-lj4sj2 жыл бұрын
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
@rakshapatle3852 жыл бұрын
Focus on carrier and health ... relationship musibat hai..single rho khush rho.. .after success relationship thik hai.. lekin pehle nhi..Agree?
@iswarchandrasingha41004 ай бұрын
Agree brother
@srish25362 жыл бұрын
If without aukaat boys don't get "love."..❣️ ..then girls don't get "freedom".🕊️
@GirishKVerma-dj3sy2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ujjwalmittal95552 жыл бұрын
Haaa freedom is important for girls nowadays
@AnkitaSingh-em9ct2 жыл бұрын
@Whatsapp Backup I think by freedom she meant self -dependence
@rahuja38722 жыл бұрын
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ??? After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her . Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
@ganeshlal37372 жыл бұрын
Freedom and independent is different....I think independent is better word that is you don't depend on another person for your happiness
@anshulsinha36292 жыл бұрын
Agreed with Chetan Sir. I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that. 3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message. Living well is the best revenge. 😉
@ruturajkadam51642 жыл бұрын
Can you give some key points of your journey..... I am a fe cs student
@anshulsinha36292 жыл бұрын
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on KZfaq for guidance. You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
@sachin084252 жыл бұрын
@@anshulsinha3629 Tech Dose by surya pratap kahar is best for DSA
@anshulsinha36292 жыл бұрын
@@sachin08425 Okay.
@anjusoni77422 жыл бұрын
Sabhash 😎😎😎
@abhishekbansal91172 жыл бұрын
Every word is precious for a young man whos is lost and confused with life and love.
@Maddyvlogs4422 жыл бұрын
Lines Kaash m tumse pyar kr paati matlab y paise se pyar h insan s nhi sir big hats for u 🙏..
@rohitsocialist2 жыл бұрын
औकात it's not only word it's define life 🔥🔥🔥
@ommjagadishprasad56262 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
@shashanksinghal49012 жыл бұрын
Thank You very much for making this video!!
@akshaychavda7818 Жыл бұрын
Indian youth ladko ko aap jese guider ki zarur he taki aapko sun ke ladki pe time waste karne ki bajaye careers pe time de, you’re great sir
@vickysingh58952 жыл бұрын
Those who have the ability to hear the bitter truth, no obstacle can stop them.....THANKS SIR...👍🏻👍🏻
@Maharshi_Riemann_RC2 жыл бұрын
Chetan is the brother who we all want in our lives ❤️
@adityadapurkar2 жыл бұрын
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore . STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE. keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
@poojaopiy13952 жыл бұрын
yes... mujhe meri aukat se zada chahiye and thanxx to u sir for guiding us
@Anpadh_Hai_Kya2 жыл бұрын
Chetan bhagat is like that teacher who shows your 'Aukat' in every lecture. Hats off to you Sir.
@sharma245242 жыл бұрын
Being a girl I know this is so fucking true men are always judged by what they do how much they earn but girls do not have this same things completely agreed to each and every pt what u said by the way this video was sent to me by my brother 😜
@DEEPAKMISHRA504712 жыл бұрын
There is a statement..."aukaat me rahna.... now i realize.....there should be aukaat 💯 within us....... thankyou for inspiring ❤️.
@livethelifewithbijay2046 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir 🌱
@yashkumbhare49382 жыл бұрын
Exactly after 1 year, I will be back here with way more success in my life. This is the promice I make today to myself... ✨
@anjusoni77422 жыл бұрын
Yes ,mai bhi aaunga
@freedom48132 жыл бұрын
God bless you Bhai ❤️👬
@yashkumbhare49382 жыл бұрын
@Ajey Mishra i will be waiting
@harshadkabade80392 жыл бұрын
Yes i also come💯💪
@indeedmyself3 ай бұрын
What happened?
@AnjaliSingh-sg4tc2 жыл бұрын
Right sir chahe vo girl's ho ya boys,jinka aukaat nhi hota use koi nhi puchhta ☹️🙂
@gagandeepsharma79722 жыл бұрын
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@gk08082 жыл бұрын
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
@abhinavyadav519 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you sir 🙌 I will build by Aukaat !!
@gautambhardwaj56382 жыл бұрын
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
@sarathi16382 жыл бұрын
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
@mamatagoswami16412 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
@dilipsachan86692 жыл бұрын
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@divinesoul13132 жыл бұрын
Same here
@MegaGreatape2 жыл бұрын
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households. If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
@sumitpal88422 жыл бұрын
That is the main problem because you see yourself as girl so please assume yourself as Atma and aatma never discriminates between Boys and girls.
@ranojoynandy56362 жыл бұрын
@@MegaGreatape yeah but if they want their own achievements then the thing is different.
@vinaydhake02052 жыл бұрын
Really adds value , very important video. Khud ki life jeeni hai to khud ke pairo pe khada hona padega ... Health , personality aur most imp financial freedom hogi tabhi zindagi me kutch ukhad payenge....
@Ishika_jain2 жыл бұрын
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all .. Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta . Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
@mayankbhardwaj9782 Жыл бұрын
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still. Me apni side se he example de rha hu. Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye. Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain. Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
@advaitsathe2 жыл бұрын
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
@tilakram6192 жыл бұрын
I wanna just say that: 1. working on health continuously last 1.5 years. 2. Improving my skill from 1 year to become Web Developer 3. Relation: parents and some countable friend.😊 and perusing 2nd year of my college. Can I get feedback from Mr. Chetan Bhagat.
@Viceroy90s2 жыл бұрын
add 'Sir' in the last...🙂
@miliangamimg7058 Жыл бұрын
Bhai sath mein project kar sakte hai kya? Aap fronted ho ya backend ya full stack
@darkthakur21242 жыл бұрын
Ye feeling..toh mujhe bhi thi ke ladko ki aukkat banani padti hein jo itni aasasan nhi hein compare to ladkiyaan...Thanks Sir for telling this publically
@rahulapawar5334 Жыл бұрын
Hello Sir, I totally agree with you. Recently a girl rejected me for silly reasons. I work in a company. That’s it I just work. But after seeing this video I feel that I need to step up and make it as a passion and climb as much as possible. I never disrespected any girl in my life it was the first time I shared with her my feelings but it was rejected. I became demotivated. But now the journey kick starts again with a boost. One fine day I will sure come over here and respond on my comment . Thank you once again to divert my feelings, view and thoughts.
@RDBclub402 жыл бұрын
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
@Pawans212 жыл бұрын
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
@biswarupbanerjee72472 жыл бұрын
Start with Small business...Then go for big
@Shok33n2 жыл бұрын
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
@caddmium2 жыл бұрын
Choose well and Stick to one of those ideas and pursue that throughout the odds.
@tpsingh57732 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sir. thanks a lot sir for this . Sach me aisa lag rha ki aap bde bhai ki tarah mere se hi kah rhe ho Abhi se Chutiyapa nahi . Bs hard work 3 videos dekh li or abhi studies kar rha
@dhruvbhuwanta35612 жыл бұрын
Bitter truth tha sach me 💔
@prajwalkaluse93602 жыл бұрын
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
@chahakpugalia49312 жыл бұрын
Sir , I am a girl and I think today girls also need to build their aukaat, if they get resources, and things are changing, if we don't then the society will fit us into that stereotypical image of conventional women . I agree with you 🙂.
@tejasverma6222 жыл бұрын
What women desire from men - which is mostly related to their status, is very very different from what men desire from women. It's a very simple psycological difference. So girl building their aukaat is more of for themselves than for the man, where as it is moral duty of the man to do so. Ig that's my observation!
@chahakpugalia49312 жыл бұрын
@@tejasverma622 I respect your opinion. But I have a question that why is it not a moral duty for girls to build their aukaat or image and why what a man or a woman desire of each other is so important. Because in our journey from birth to death , we are our own catch , in all the trials and tribulations that we face , it's totally ours . And tbh at the end it's just us. People just cross our paths , giving us memories. So let's do sth for ourselves rather than thinking about attention or desire or anything else. Let me know what do you think.
@World187502 жыл бұрын
Agree...but a boy will be judged on the basis of his financial status and girl will be judged on the basis of her looks by society....No body cares if boy is down to earth and has good sense of humor....this is untold truth of society
@CEBAdityaSingh2 жыл бұрын
@@chahakpugalia4931 yes..everything you say is absolutely right...but the thing is we are not talking about ideal thing that what should girl do what is justice and what are ideal things ....here we are talking about present situation. The bitter truth of this society at this present time is that making career for boy is moral duty and for girl is just for increasing their personal luxury.
@GG-be7ks2 жыл бұрын
I came to comment same thing, these days people don't value girls even if they are great at housework. my cousin is perfect housewive, she takes care of kids, elderly in laws, they don't need cooks, nurses, tuition teacher, someone to drop or pick kids, pay bills, pay taxes etc because she does all these, she sleeps at 11 because her husband will come home late and she gives him hot rotis and then wake up again at 5:30 to take care of in laws. She is very pretty, socially active and maintains good relation with entire extended in laws etc. She can cook for 50 people alone etc. But her mother in law still taunts her for not being a working woman.In smaller towns and certain type of business families, non working woman are accepted, but for urban woman it is same pressure as men.
@Raja2 Жыл бұрын
Huge respect sir.. Accidentally I found this video .. Thanks to God and you too ❤️
@englishzenex44732 жыл бұрын
Single man in life till today....my heart seeks to meet you...bhaiya.... you are so great 🙏
@sourabh35402 жыл бұрын
कटू सत्य वचन- चेतन भाई🙏 ज़मीन-आसमान का फर्क पढ़ जाता है भाई जी लोगों के स्वभाव में अब "औकात" ना हो😓
@RaviGupta-ld1tz2 жыл бұрын
11:07 to 11:19 it's not bitter truth for a man who has self respect and responsible... It's the eye opening line.. 👍🏽
@nikhilchandra462 жыл бұрын
I agree sir..bitter truth..bina aukat k kuch v ni milta👍
@yashpagare3682 жыл бұрын
I just repeatedly watch this video so that I could not forget a single word from this video
@curioussaroj39832 жыл бұрын
Only women, child and dogs are loved unconditionally "A man is only loved under a condition that he provides something""
@dipanshu.__2 жыл бұрын
True🔥
@freedom48132 жыл бұрын
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance) A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬 A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@jkshallinheritearth38832 жыл бұрын
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣 & for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
@wayofwisdome92 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sir बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
@getfit.with.paajii2 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sach bol rahe ho sir aap, thankyou so much 🙏🏻
@DD-nc3oc2 жыл бұрын
Ek tarah se accha hi hai Pyaar chahne ke saath saath aukaat bhi ban jayegi
@seeratarora7022 жыл бұрын
Solid video 💪🏻 If the videos were ranked, it would be ranked as No.1. You are great sir, my life is changed due to you. Thank you so much ❤
@rahulkumarsaini67062 жыл бұрын
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
@abhisheketam3 ай бұрын
brutal reality check for every man 💗 [ ye duniya insan ko nahi uske kabiliyat ko dekhti hai ]
@rbsitsolutions Жыл бұрын
I see many video on KZfaq for motivation but one of then this video is real motivational
@sandipmukherjee252 жыл бұрын
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
@pankajkumarbarman7652 жыл бұрын
"Aukaat" is everything 👏 Agreed sir.. This video will definitely change may perspectives 👌🙏
@harshjain59822 жыл бұрын
Totally totally agree with you sir, I'm gonna put all your words in my mind from right now and gonna work for my future, my career and continuosly improving myself coz aukaat toh ab banani hai!!! Thank you so much Sir!!❤️
@zkssjgntncoy4kj Жыл бұрын
Thanks man. Its just impressive. From last 2 and half months I am totally depressed and my health is about to die due to my aawokat in front of my soulmate. Thanks for this crore rupees valuable advice thanks a lot with my all heart to you . ❤️.
@ChetanBhagat1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Glad you found it helpful!
@tusharkhengar72482 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mota bhai for giving us the bitter medicine to make our life healthy❤️
@mdfarukh51382 жыл бұрын
You just defined everything in direct way with simple words. Thanks alot sir.
@NoobsDeveloper2 жыл бұрын
True story. Just realised few weeks ago after losing job at 28. This video just reinforced the reflection.
@chandarsingh05 Жыл бұрын
practical aadmi practical batein, your bitter true words are very effective
@Mohammad_Afridiii2 жыл бұрын
Agreed You were calling us little brother Dost thank you sir for all this love and care like our parents ❤️
@beingias022 жыл бұрын
When I used to read Chetan sir's books, I used to feel the need to have a best friend like Ryan, Sam, Govind, Krrish, Gopal, Madhav.... Listening to you now who is guiding me to achieve good things in my life feels like I got my best friends 😊😊😊
@Ceoguywithai2 жыл бұрын
This is like an Older brother that I never knew I needed . Thanks Chetan 😊
@soumitchakraborty092 жыл бұрын
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
@rishiraaj.5802 жыл бұрын
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
@AnkitKumar-st2zi2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree sir...... U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother.... It means a lot for us........ Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Sarkartraining2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this very important message in such a powerful manner 🙏
@suvamadak820 Жыл бұрын
Sir,u r not a motivatior u are big brother of us. Thnk u again🙂
@ChetanBhagat1 Жыл бұрын
So nice of you. Thank you!
@bjayknowledgehub61632 жыл бұрын
As always sir, straight from heart without being filtered.....your every video guide us in our lives to make it more vibrant sir 🙏🙏🙏
@shahbazshaikh33842 жыл бұрын
Remember binge reading his books.. And now the same with these amazing vids. Thanks Sir !
@paperbrain52732 жыл бұрын
Most underrated Deserve million likes
@arizakram65172 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much sir.
@krishnamondal30172 жыл бұрын
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path. Thank You Sir😊🙏
@yasharthsingh77252 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with you 🙌 Thanks sir for inspiring and guiding through your videos. Not just watching , but also applying them in my life ❤️
@ravishaw6405 Жыл бұрын
Love sir ❤️🤗 Your right
@dominatorgaming29802 жыл бұрын
Just started watching your channel and I would request youtube to pls recommend his videos to more people, because it is very hard to find a channel with such real content with proper guidance, love and respect ❤ Chetan Sir.