Sometimes you need to look inward to move forward. Choose you. Thanks for watching, please subscribe if you'd like to see more! :) ★ My Links ★ Twitter: / oohgaryc Instagram: / oohgaryc
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@cherrywallis2 жыл бұрын
I love this message. The relationship with ourselves will be our longest one, we're the one person that we have to live 100% of our days with, so yes - choose you. Listen to your heart and your feelings, live life to its fullest. Surround yourself with those who make your life feel brighter. Love you Mr C! ❤️
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu love you xx
@brogantatexo2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more with this. We are all so hard on ourselves, but looking inward and taking care of YOU first is so important. Thank you for sharing this ❤️ Grateful to have you as my friend. #ChooseYou
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
And I’m grateful for you. Love you x
@las67662 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you have no idea how many hearts you touch. You're a sweet soul and WE LOVE YOU!!!
@doreenpitre64722 жыл бұрын
Gary...you have spoken the truth. You have to choose yourself. We have to get rid of what and who is not positive in our lives. Love your videos and look forward to each and every one !!
@Traveler-nu8xc2 жыл бұрын
Oh Gary, if only younger people, like teens could hear this message and know it’s truth. You are the very perfect you! Such a good message. Would hope to see your face for another 40+ years ! Bless you love 🥰
@jessackroyd19902 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I definitely don't champion myself enough. I also don't like looking at myself. "you better get used to it!" 🤣 Love it. Another video with another great message 😊
@jayneestrycker86912 жыл бұрын
What a lovely, proactive message, and so true! Love you to the moon and back, Gary. Please dont ever unfriend Adam! 😊👍💖✌🎅🎄🤶🎀🎁❄⛄😊
@LoLoDash2 жыл бұрын
Amazing message! Thank you Gary for always being so YOU! Love to you, Gary.
@nina-annakatink96272 жыл бұрын
I can’t begin to put into words what watching this has done for me. I really needed it today. I’m forever putting other people first, always have, I’m a big softie. But after watching this, I realise it’s necessary for my own mental well-being to choose myself, and it’s not being selfish to do so. I’m so glad I found your channel, and thank you for being the kindest, and genuine lovely human being you are. Much love from Liverpool xxx
@jeanettesmith7652 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this so much. I am 67 and still struggling with this. Thanks for sharing, Gary!
@adventuresinlove14322 жыл бұрын
If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love someone else! Love yourself Gary C!
@dizzymiz2 жыл бұрын
I today uploaded my first ever video... it has taken me so long to gain the confidence, and I can honestly say it's down to watching you (and Adam of course). Your videos are therapeutic and a personal inspiration. I'm about the same age as you and only now getting to know the true me, what I like, who I like and more importantly who I don't! Thank you for the motivation Gary 😁
@vcjtx2 жыл бұрын
💕 Excellent message, Gary! We are our own worst critics when we should be our best champion. #chooseyou 💕
@The_Disney_Ginger5 ай бұрын
I'm glad I found this video. I really needed this. Thank you for this. It's so easy to get caught up in the ones we idolize and look up to, but we tend to suffer due to losing sight of our inner champion.
@charlottesreadsthings2112 жыл бұрын
I recently had the obvious realisation that ourselves are the only people we have to be with 100% of the time. Made me think a lot more and work on just being kinder to myself and taking myself out on little solo trips. Hope you're do it well, Gary!
@debbieblincoe98802 жыл бұрын
Gary I'm only 10 sec into this video and I'm already in tears! This video is so powerful and amazing and so are YOU!
@9763922 жыл бұрын
Well thats the best message delivered over 6 minutes and 43 seconds, that hits the spot! A great message to everyone, mirrors are not just for the vain, but are a true reflection of the person you are on the outside. Your message is about that and the inner you and it really hits home. A true growth message. Thank you Gary for your words, your thoughts, and for simply being you. Take care, stay safe thanks for posting.
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derek x
@lizzieizzard2 жыл бұрын
You are always a ray of sunshine - Thankyou for adding some much needed sunshine to our lives xx
@ElizabethH12312 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree, and love how you ended this. It's so very true! We will be with ourselves longer than anyone else, so we owe it to ourselves to treat ourselves with kindness. Thank you for this lovely message!
@leesae83242 жыл бұрын
Love your honesty Gary C! People with mental health conditions (I am one of those people) need to be more selfish.
@MrLourie2 жыл бұрын
Hello Gary, I agree completely. Personally, I was never a fan of reality tv, and celebrities don't excite me much, except for Barbra Streisand whom I've admired and followed since I discovered her music when I was just 13. Anyway, you've offered us another wise and kind message and I wish you continued peace.
@patdavidson5161 Жыл бұрын
Hi Gary, Someone told me I should look at myself in the mirror every morning and say out loud “I love myself just the way I am” because you need to love yourself before anyone else, self acceptance is difficult 😔🤗❤️🏴
@debra3332 жыл бұрын
Hi, sweet Gary! I'm so glad you sent out this message. I had any sense of self-love, self-care, or self-confidence drilled out of me by controlling parents. Only now, while I'm in my 60s, have I been able to see the harm in that, and truly start putting some weight behind ... me! Ugh... It's so hard, but worth it. Love you! 🫂
@ilovemaxie2 жыл бұрын
Your message = so important, timely, brave, and humble. Good job you!
@kimpuccia58372 жыл бұрын
Mr Squiggly arrived in NYC today … he’s adorable. Can’t wait to frame and hang . Also your message is lovely and brilliant. Keep the messages coming because your authenticity is your best quality . You are so empathetic and caring you are helpful to so many , including me . Be kind to yourself ❤️🇺🇸
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for getting a print! 🙏🏻
@jenniferharris39232 жыл бұрын
You are the sweetest thing! So uplifting and positive. The world needs more Gary Cs ❤
@HartStreet4Ever2 жыл бұрын
When you choose yourself you can never be alone just because you have yourself. Be yourself.. love yourself & choose yourself.
@melissagaylor46922 жыл бұрын
I'm still working towards that point and I'm going to be 51 in a few months. Gary, you are a guiding light for me. I found you through watching Adam's Disney vlogs, and I'm so happy I did. Very insightful and inspiring message. Much love from Nebraska!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@michelleehrlich52032 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the encouragement and wise words, Gary C. You're so sweet. It's tough to be with myself sometimes. xoxoxox
@kayatwood51832 жыл бұрын
Not how you knew that I needed to hear this right now. The how isn't important the fact that you shared it is. Thank you so much. You are an inspiration.
@dbeiler55252 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Gary! I really needed to hear this today. You are so wonderful.
@katesykes27962 жыл бұрын
After I had my 2 mini breakdowns I found out who my real friends were. I struggle everyday and find I back out of meeting up with people as I just Don't have the energy. I love watching you videos as it reminds me I'm not alone. So from now on I chose me ❤
@liamwoz18612 жыл бұрын
Don’t see what anyone could say was bad about you Gary. Keep choosing you because I think you’re definitely worth it. Old video so you won’t see it but thought I’d say it anyway. A few months ago I was done! With everything, couldn’t see a way forward I’m also 41 and think I was probably having a midlife crisis or something but then it was like a lightbulb moment, I walked out on my job and started over with my happiness at the centre of everything so now if I’m not happy I remove myself from it and I’m much happier for it. I’m rambling but yes keep choosing you Gary
@shereeriley52372 жыл бұрын
I love your message! You are always so encouraging and always saying exactly what I need to hear ❤️
@KB-kp8dv Жыл бұрын
Thank you Gary. Because of this video I walked away from my emotionally abusive (now ex) partner. A few weeks ago, I was in floods of tears and logged on to youtube. I was looking to escape the nightmare I was in for a little bit and this video just popped up on my recommended. It was like a sign telling me, 'its ok to choose you.' I was so scared to walk away because I thought I was selfish to put my own mental health above someone else's. But your words helped to give me the courage to leave and I've never felt so free. So thank you lovely Gary, you are a wonderful person.
@garyc Жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself x
@littlebigadventures45182 жыл бұрын
So true, Gary! Such an important message 🥰
@anniesteffen68232 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being an advocate for mental health and be willing to share your heart to help others😎💜
@leighannlambert69302 жыл бұрын
Choose You - such a great message. We do need to put ourselves first & take care of ourselves. Otherwise if we don’t take care of ourselves, how can we take care of others? Took me 60 years. Love & Hugs
@michelehood88372 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this reminder, Gary. It’s important.
@roxannae32 жыл бұрын
You have a beautiful face, Gary C! Thank you for sharing such a powerful message with us. Keep growing!
@hayleysianful2 жыл бұрын
We watch yours and Adam's Disney vlogs with our 6 year old daughter. Yesterday she said ' I love Gary. He is so funny and makes me smile!'. Keep doing what you're doing and being you.
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Aww bless her ❤️
@brookeg.35662 жыл бұрын
I celebrated 41 this past spring, not gonna lie, I needed to hear this today! You're absolutely right! Much love to you Gary C, thank you for sharing you! And happy birthday 😍
@bradleyheer2 жыл бұрын
Gary, thank you so much! I'm getting ready to publish my first SciFi book. I am self publishing, which means lots of work. It also means putting myself and many years of work out there in the public. This post has boosted my confidence in just doing it. Thank you so much!
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Good luck with your book! x
@coricross6822 жыл бұрын
Hey Gary! Thanks for the reminder! I’m 43 and am finally setting boundaries for myself and choosing my peace over everything else. Love ya!
@kimpuccia58372 жыл бұрын
I’m 56 and after my lunatic sister hung up on me last week because I went out to dinner with my daughter , my son ( 26,22) her boyfriend and my husband fir her birthday I decided it is time to set boundaries. I’ve had enough of her yelling at me . The way she has a family , I do too . Never respected that , we all have to answer to her as if she were Queen Elizabeth, and we’re American 🤣
@brendaoneill33192 жыл бұрын
Love this message Gary.. during my “ winter thing” I really can’t engage, takes every ounce to meet family, some of my friends simply can’t understand and I feel them moving on. Thank you for being candid. 💙
@joentwistle54172 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Gary ❤️ I'm learning this more and more with every day
@lohnro2 жыл бұрын
Your spot on Gary...I have experienced that more so during the pandemic. By nature Iam a giving person and I feel like its taken me along time to realise that I really haven't given to myself. I don't know of its out fear of being hated or what. I mean I would always give up my seat for someone else, I have never been one not to, a lot of people don't. It's the only analogy I can think of that describes how I feel. There are definitely times in my life I should have not got up and give my seat away. Take care 🙂
@leehamilton83442 жыл бұрын
Choose you, well thought out message. I think it begins when you learn to say no. God bless and take care.
@koriewilliams70762 жыл бұрын
I am 38 soon to be 39 and no kids.. so many of my lessons were learned in my 20s, bad and good so you are not alone. I'm better today though because it all! Love you Gary! And at least you can sing and you are naturally funny!!!!....my talents are not near as cool. lol
@DannyDalimore2 жыл бұрын
Well said Gary, it’s so important to know your limits. Check in with yourself from time to time. Surround yourself with positive people who love you for you. Cut out people that bring you down or give negative vibes. I did a few years ago and best thing I did. Very inspiring message Gary! None of us are perfect and it’s a learning curve. We are learning everyday. Your a good soul Gary! Xx
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@debragundlach17492 жыл бұрын
You tell your memories and stories as your growth. I see it in you in so many vlogs. You talk the truth but you have to know how you help me and others. Thank you Gary so very much for being you helping me to try to be me. Love your friend Debra ✨ you are the best!!
@shelfj2 жыл бұрын
I love it when you speak, Gary. You make the problems that other people are having so much clearer. Thank you for all you do!
@melissamalone6122 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this message Gary, I’m 43 and just starting to realise I have to like myself, I too don’t look in the mirror much and definitely don’t like looking at myself in photos etc but I’m beginning to try and accept who I am and your messages really help.
@TheDisneyPrice2 жыл бұрын
So inspirational, Gary. Thank you!
@lauraambrosi39232 жыл бұрын
I DO look at you, and I see you!!! I see a very kind loving special deep thinking individual!! Someone who cares enough to try to make others feel better about their lives and themselves. You are a so called CRUTCH for me. You as well as Adam are what my family calls "MY HAPPY PLACE". When I needed boosted up or I want to escape the real world I watch your videos and I get through. I believe we all have that THING that we go to. I dont ever want you to turn away from your reflection anymore. It is beautiful and you are a beautiful person.
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Laura, I appreciate it x
@RynLovesHistory2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Gary! I really needed to hear this :)
@katrinay5322 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message. I started watching you when I found your Disney vlogs with Adam but I really enjoy watching and listening to your messages. Keep on being you!!!
@donnap88892 жыл бұрын
Gary C what a wonderful message and absolutely true xx
@botita232 жыл бұрын
Thank you Gary! I just turn 41 on tuesday! And this is want I need it. I choose me! Thank you!!!
@LiftUpNotDown2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully we all reach an age where we do what works for us. Follow your passions, enjoy the things that bring you happiness and also not to give a damn about what others think about the way you live your life. I’m also in the forties club and I think a lot of us realize that what we’ve been through doesn’t define us and we do change and that’s a good thing - it’s called evolution.
@stefflovesdisney59922 жыл бұрын
Gary you are a champion to me. Your bits of wisdom on mental health inspire me❤ you are so lovely 😍 Thank you, I always feel your genuine love!
@b3cka4evr2 жыл бұрын
A beautiful message spoken by a beautiful person ❤️ thank you, Gary x
@BillHeslin2 жыл бұрын
Message received, Love you and thank you. No need to go on, we are all starting to choose ME. And I did notice the Dream away t-shirt. You are an inspiration and thank you.
@irulp2 жыл бұрын
What a nice and necessary message!! Thank you for reminding us this important message!!! xxxxx
@katiegraver51792 жыл бұрын
Love this message, a lot of the time we strive to make other people happy, which is great. But then we forget them most important person ourselves. We so busy making sure are friends and family or doing well and happy that we forget to stop and ask ourselves “Am I okay?” “Do I feel uncomfortable/anxious?” We deserve the happiness we give to others.
@extramagicemma77042 жыл бұрын
What a great message Gary. I have done this exact thing today! Had the hardest interview of my career and hadn’t slept all weekend. They rang me back within an hour and offered me it 😭😁 felt awful about leaving other colleagues in the lurch, but I’m a single 33 woman and have to do what’s right for me!! Celebrated with a nice bubble bath, clean sheets and a curry. You keep being you Gary, and remember… treat yo’self! 💜
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Emma! X
@suetaft90022 жыл бұрын
Thank you Gary for such wise words. You are an amazing person.
@louisemills42582 жыл бұрын
You've got such a way with words 😊 I've cut people out of my life who have been just negative and I am better now because I did that. We all need to look after ourselves, take care xx
@sarahhh92__2 жыл бұрын
Lovely words Gary, so important to choose you 💗💗💗
@disney_overload_k2 жыл бұрын
I love this message. You're spot on with what you said. I've spent a lot of time over the past few months choosing myself and prioritising making myself mentally ok xx
@paulajayne4442 жыл бұрын
You are amazing, I agree, always choose you, Love you Gary C xxx😍🥰❤❤
@debragundlach17492 жыл бұрын
You are awesome and help so many! One of the people is me. Happy belated birthday Gary🎂
@Chrissyhappy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Lovely message Gary. Very true. 😊
@richardprescott86282 жыл бұрын
Gary , I’m a long time watcher and love your channel you seem to give me the messages I need to hear at just the right time and in the right way please please keep doing what you are doing I just want to give you a big hug xx thank you Ruth ( I share my account with my husband)
@princessplushy96492 жыл бұрын
So happy, I've just joined your KZfaq and am thrilled because I just LOVE your personality! You are beloved...
@helenshappyplace10642 жыл бұрын
you ABSOLUTELY are my crutch! you and adam got me through all the lock downs. I have gone through a huge self love campaign over the last 18 months and its the best thing I have ever done!! I can not wait until you get to Disney, hoping it will be soon! and jus FYI you have a beautiful face and a beautiful spirit and shouldn't be afraid to watch it back. try to see yourself through your fans eyes xxx
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’m glad you are being kinder to yourself x
@graceoline2 жыл бұрын
Like a hug from the inside. You have no idea, Gary. Or I guess you do. ♥️ Thanks for being my little crutch.
@Allison_Forte2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Gary. I love “choose you”. You are absolutely right, at the end of the day it’s just you. Love yourself, surround yourself with people who boost you up not tear you down. I’m in my forties as well and there comes a point where you just get tired of playing the game. If you don’t want to go somewhere don’t go even if it makes you look bad, don’t be afraid to be yourself. There’s only one you and like you said, you may have to live with your self for a very long time, enjoy it, love yourself for who you are. ♥️
@sole32092 жыл бұрын
♥️ Thank you very much for your words Gary, you can't imagine what they mean to me in these times. It is difficult to love yourself, but thanks to your words I finally see a light at the end of the road. ♥️
@amandajbryant20972 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying what many of us needed to hear. X
@pennyarcand46422 жыл бұрын
I have been waiting for this message although I didn't know it until I was watching this. Thank you for the reminder Gary. You are a beautiful soul. ❤❤❤❤❤
@kayleighcheek11802 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary I am the same as you I struggle with anxiety and depression and I don't have any confidence thank you for everything you do you are inspirational and amazing
@clarejackson66292 жыл бұрын
Gary, I needed to hear this tonight. Lots of love to you XX
@hotdiggitydogs7822 жыл бұрын
It's so easy to think kindly of others, but it is often difficult to extend the same kindness to ourselves. Thank you for this beautiful message! Sending hugs from the US!
@andybaistow93682 жыл бұрын
Your absolutely spot on with what you said Gary, we do have to choose ourselves. And we have to love ourselves before we can love anyone else....you do absolutely right and you do what you have to do, I've also had to put a barrier up to put myself first.
@rainbowdashley2 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this today. I appreciate you and your personality, so very much.
@DJSultiva2 жыл бұрын
Best quote ever from Samantha (sex and the city) "I love you ,but I love me more." Gary, you are my inspirational pumpkin xx
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Love it! :)
@joyce522 жыл бұрын
Gary, it took me many years to learn to "Choose Me." We all have the little nitches we get lost inside of throughout our lives. Mine was different than yours, but yet somewhat the same. My earlier years were filled with heartbreaks of all sorts because of things I chose and situations with people who did nothing but pull me down. I grew up in the country and we were very poor and when I moved to the big city, I somehow needed to find another ME to fit in. I did nothing bad or against the law, but things I did not really like and people I really did not enjoy being around. My life continued like this for years. I then began to realize that I was not doing myself any favors by doing what I thought was expected of me and ignoring the things that simply made me happy and content with myself and MY life. It was so good to see you so happy and content and I hope this continues for you. 😥😁🧡
@willhackley1682 Жыл бұрын
Great message from a special person. Thank you.
@marcialarson70592 жыл бұрын
A fantastic video Gary. I only wish my granddaughter came to this realization. No matter when anyone tried to help and tell her she was worth something it didn't matter, she left this world in her 23rd year. I miss her so badly, Your videos help me a lot.
@garyc2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss x
@4medicaldoctors2 жыл бұрын
You are a light Gary! Thx! Love watching your videos❤️
@kristinakrzepek36282 жыл бұрын
Gary! Thank you for that reminder, I often put myself last and never do for myself what I do for others.
@jaykayinmk2 жыл бұрын
I'm 48... and my turnaround in life happened in 2018 after a heart attack. I've learned to take care of myself and not to be so harsh to myself too (depression). You're a wonderful guy, Gary.. and you're doing great. Be happy, love yourself and above all else... keep being the great guy that you are...and thank you for making this video (big hugs at ya!)
@TheRebeccaMcD2 жыл бұрын
This is a great message Gary and it was just what I needed to hear, so I am going to take you advice/message and run with it. You are so wise, kind, intelligent and insightful. And you have a gorgeous face so you should bloody look at it. xxx
@crystalpetal252 жыл бұрын
Thank you Gary C xxx
@jessmcneilly2 жыл бұрын
This is such an important message to put out there. It takes a while to find yourself in the world and who you truly are but once you get there, it’s a beautiful thing!
@Deancolby2 жыл бұрын
Bravo- Gary! Nice to see you-Well said! So glad I found your vlogs! Thank you for sharing -Happy Holidays! Sincerely, Dean-xo
@sirrobertrobertson22702 жыл бұрын
Happy belated Birthday Gary. Your a wonderful person. I am now fully vaccinated so I can travel. Stay safe. Cheers.
@heloise1212 жыл бұрын
im so grateful for you being a mouthpiece and a crutch x
@vegasnine992 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting. This is great. Thanks for your vulnerability. It will help others. It’s helping me.