Chris: "I Don't Believe all of Your Feelings are Valid" 😯😳 | The Never Ever Mets

Chris: "I Don't Believe all of Your Feelings are Valid" 😯😳 | The Never Ever Mets | OWN

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@bobbiedm5369 20 күн бұрын

Sandia.. go back home .. heal.. its better to grieve the loss of a relationship than to grieve the loss of YOURSELF!

@ndileka216 20 күн бұрын

Wrote this comment in another video.

@Brikapri 19 күн бұрын

Whew, say it!

@nagwajama6388 19 күн бұрын

I felt that

@Beebuzz623 18 күн бұрын

💯 He is soooo full of himself & he hasn’t shown any empathy or compassion wth he is not ready for intimacy & connection with this attitude!!

@nyakatomoreen5497 18 күн бұрын

Your right surely

@mmzv817 20 күн бұрын

Sandia and Safaree don't have a romantic connection

@gcchair7634 20 күн бұрын

lol Safaree 😂

@kadeijadalrymple137 20 күн бұрын

Lmaooooo

@dasmilingoddess 20 күн бұрын

I kept trying to think which celeb he looked like. I kept thinking Bryson Tiller, but you hit the nail on the head 🤣😂💀

@RahYisrael99 20 күн бұрын

None at all. He's telling and showing her exactly who he is, yet she refuses to see it.

@salome9124 19 күн бұрын

I see what you did there

@maureen1031 20 күн бұрын

Chris cannot see anything but his way of thinking.. run Sandia!

@cateyes5009 20 күн бұрын

Leave this man alone…NOW!

@Beautyroom300 20 күн бұрын

He has a nasty smug superior attitude. Girl run. He wants you as a robot not a person with feelings. I see abuse.

@AfricanWifeinPakistan 20 күн бұрын

Narcissism vibes loading ... This is what they do.

@Hannah-ds5mn 20 күн бұрын

I have been there 😢😢😢

@jeannietimberger2556 20 күн бұрын

Live with one. It's hell

@sharonmwrites3021 18 күн бұрын

Yes!!!!!!

@toribabe1000 4 күн бұрын

Live nd work with one

@doniellemadaris3159 20 күн бұрын

This interaction was so sad because he is demeaning to her. This show is crazy. There’s still a couple in the house where one has said he’s done, there’s no romantic connection. Then why are they still in the house? I don’t understand the concept of the show now.

@meganrenee5581 20 күн бұрын

Not a good representation of healthy dating. It’s making me lose hope.

@aChum7145 20 күн бұрын

You are so on point! I was thinking the same thing it's very toxic and unhealthy.

@traumaqueeen 20 күн бұрын

Maybe they need couples coming in and out. Every week, a couple can decide to leave or stay. They have more couples waiting to get into the house. IDK

@janedeane3656 20 күн бұрын

maybe thats the point of the show...to illustrate how cat fishing and online personae have created a 'safe space' for people to hide who they truely are and lead people on for even years at a time without being honest

@Neisyjay 20 күн бұрын

This situation is not emotionally nor mentally safe for her. He's narsacistic and reckless with his words. Then he makes her feel that there's something wrong with they way she feels. I think she has a self-esteem issue because she continues to accept the disrespect.

@Lunar123424 16 күн бұрын

I was about to say that! Narcissistic, gaslighting! And this predator feeds of this women her insecurities

@MrsDove-cn2hw 20 күн бұрын

He doesn't want her

@shefreen1 20 күн бұрын

He doesn't LIKE her.

@shefreen1 20 күн бұрын

He doesn't like her.

@iriemo721 19 күн бұрын

At all. Doesn’t like her, doesn’t respect her, doesn’t think she’s attractive, doesn’t feel connected to her, doesn’t desire her.

@jaydeeapril2394 9 күн бұрын

I said this..His type is those not so soft ladies.

@meganrenee5581 20 күн бұрын

Gaslighting 101. Smh.

@EAO-ql8hk 20 күн бұрын

Y’all need to understand men that do this completely understand what you’re going through. They’re just not willing to admit their wrongs since they don’t believe it benefits them, so they’d rather lie and play dumb and gaslight. He completely knows what he’s doing.

@wellok5778 20 күн бұрын

The guy is s0 arrogant - like he is doing her a favor "liking" her

@hamptonsfnst2014 20 күн бұрын

She seems bright but her self esteem must've been left behind because he does not like her. Whatever connection they had beyond speaking their mothers' tongue did not transcend to this experience. It is what it. Let it go!

@katrinaraymond9726 20 күн бұрын

Unfortunately Chris is not that in too her, it's sad to watch!

@hudihoodz 20 күн бұрын

they taught him a word "insecurities"

@sthembilethanjekwayo_za 20 күн бұрын

And he's holding onto it for ddear life. 😂🙄

@dasmilingoddess 20 күн бұрын

😂🤣💀

@Neisyjay 20 күн бұрын

RUN and Run FAST

@WorthyofMoreWithLitaV 20 күн бұрын

He’s so emotionally unaware …. and lacks emotional intelligence. Geesh. He has a lot of growing up to do.

@redbird14able 16 күн бұрын

Right. Emotionally he’s a 4 year old.

@tyisha2105 20 күн бұрын

He don’t want a relationship so let him invalidate someone else.

@LaLa13971 20 күн бұрын

If you’re experiencing this now, put a pause on the wedding. Your feelings always matter even if they come from a place of insecurity. Learn techniques to cope with them but never let anyone dismiss them.

@gcchair7634 20 күн бұрын

They aren’t getting married. None of these people are engaged, this is not Family or Fiancé.

@AmberColeman-gq1wn 19 күн бұрын

@gcchair7634 All the more reason for her to drop him and drop this show. He isn’t worth any of this.

@janedeane3656 20 күн бұрын

Sandia is too good for him and he knows it. Thats why he demeans her, because if he does that and then she leaves him it would have been expected in his mind.

@xpnn 20 күн бұрын

That man don’t want her. He’s gaslighting her. He invalidates her feelings. Sandria needs to pack up and go home

@ashunt29 20 күн бұрын

He is not it! She is volunteering to stay in this situation.

@hudihoodz 20 күн бұрын

what the hell is she still doing with this guy!!! OMG

@ChanelNo5568 20 күн бұрын

She need to go find someone that like her. He is not interested in her. Also I don’t like him. He thinks he is more than what he is. Run girl!

@nagwajama6388 19 күн бұрын

Temu Big Sean doing the most in every episode at this point!!!!

@EAO-ql8hk 20 күн бұрын

This one is an eternal gaslighter. His gas never runs out

@sattasana7753 20 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry but I just don’t do well with people being demeaning or condescending to me. I don’t care who the hell you are. Love doesn’t hurt like that baby girl. Please run Sandia, do not negotiate your feelings with this man.

@reeladee1698 20 күн бұрын

Yeah. No to that. 100 percent valid. And it's not worth your time or effort. Because you're clearly not worth his.

@aprilfields7398 20 күн бұрын

As messed up as this is, it's better she's finding this out now rather than after investing long term. Run far and run fast!!

@Ms_Lady3 19 күн бұрын

Sandia & Brandon would be a great match! Both of them are emotionally intelligent & solution oriented! Give their partners to one another because they both lack empathy & are wreckless with their words...

@AshBoogie24 20 күн бұрын

These ladies have to run from these men !

@chocho4344 20 күн бұрын

This guy is not feeling you girl just go home

@natureislegirl8947 19 күн бұрын

Why is she wasting her time on this boy? Cuz he's the one with insecurities just with a macho front. No substance

@ntandwenhledlungwane7367 19 күн бұрын

😱😱 he down right said “ I don’t believe all your feelings are valid” no Sandia run Infact sprint away from this man

@dennasmith8329 19 күн бұрын

That’s what your going to get from this narcissist as long as you deal with him. Let go , let go of him devaluing your feelings 😍🙏💯

@princessr988 19 күн бұрын

Sandia I am literally praying for you and hope that by the time this show has aired that you have left and not turned back this is heartbreaking to watch 😢

@musicneurons7807 3 күн бұрын

Amen. Me too. We've all had our guilty pleasure - now pick yourself up and find an equal.

@PhetogoNoore 19 күн бұрын

She needs to work on her self esteem, this man is disrespectful.

@lucys6996 20 күн бұрын

Poor fella. He's gonna be single for a long time.

@madchen521 20 күн бұрын

That was ny thought. He thinks cause he smashing that he is winning, but he is gonna be the man that is too old for the club. He has zero respect for women, and he said as much on the show. Run Sandia. She is a cutie and needs to feel more confident

@shefreen1 20 күн бұрын

Forever....

@dasmilingoddess 20 күн бұрын

The sad part is he'll keep jumping from woman to woman(supply to supply) They don't know how to be alone, just keep damaging each woman they come across 😩🙄

@danyelgarcia3689 15 күн бұрын

Poor fella??? That's the way he may want it. If anything I feel sorry for her.

@jalisapoindexter2562 19 күн бұрын

Please run and don’t look back.

@ArienMoon 19 күн бұрын

Girl i know hes fine but leave him be. Cause youre beautiful as well! And will find another.

@meghanwilliams4295 20 күн бұрын

I don't like him. Just part ways.

@kaynana26 19 күн бұрын

He’s showing her who he is and it’s up to her to either see it for what it is or paint it a different picture to hide it

@Voiceof-L0vE 18 күн бұрын

Sometimes, good people can't see what they don't have in them. Or sometimes it's hard for the mind to accept that humans can be so monsterous.

@Voiceof-L0vE 18 күн бұрын

Girl...RUN!!!!!

@tamelaj1984 18 күн бұрын

It's better to lose a lover than to love a loser

@ShaniceIsBack 19 күн бұрын

Oh no! RUN!!

@laneice777 18 күн бұрын

Girrrl run!!! He’s rude and gaslighter.. leave him now or you’ll unfortunately lose yourself!!

@safistyle.art.fashion.imag577 18 күн бұрын

Yikes!!! Girl, run, run!!

@faithrhime4463 19 күн бұрын

Chris was just a red flag from the beginning….. I don’t know why Sandie is still keeping up with his nonsense

@goddesst5405 19 күн бұрын

He doesn’t like, respect or love you! Run!🏃🏾‍♀️

@summernight7587 18 күн бұрын

Totally Gaslighting her

@tshidithebehli1546 19 күн бұрын

Run run run

@ShonaM2023 20 күн бұрын

He is a very good looking man but Sandia needs to open her eyes…. follow your gut girl.

@madchen521 20 күн бұрын

That is what he thinks. Dude is basic. Sandia needs to be with someone who respects her.

@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 20 күн бұрын

Good looking? 🤔

@PhetogoNoore 19 күн бұрын

She deserves better

@bridgetb5423 16 күн бұрын

Narcissist behavior, trust me, run Sandia and quickly.

@Queen-of-the-Burbs 19 күн бұрын

He’s right. She’s insecure. But not the reasons he says. She’s insecure because she’s still trying to peruse someone that is not emotionally mature enough for a relationship

@WilliamOgletree 19 күн бұрын

It’s best to leave

@meandmy2cents309 19 күн бұрын

This dude is terrible. She should pack her bags and go home. There is nothing safe about him. Just a terrible person 🤨

@michelleezell2189 19 күн бұрын

They must get paid good, because I would have went home.

@Tyda777 15 күн бұрын

Sandia get up!!!

@eventsblogger3680 20 күн бұрын

Safareee talks too much plus a red flag

@marymuriuki7193 14 күн бұрын

That's how you tell a weak man

@BeeJ3 20 күн бұрын

Run Sandia😮!!!!!!

@ruthelliott8363 19 күн бұрын

Where did they find these people!? Chris especially!? 🤦🏾‍♀️

@alexandrambako7348 19 күн бұрын

100% my baby daddy 😭😭😭

@oliviabrown261 20 күн бұрын

You in danger, girl. Run...do not stop from this narcissist!!!

@SunshineKK99 19 күн бұрын

Ofc everything is her fault...that's a HUGE red flag!!

@salmaambursa2894 11 күн бұрын

Girl leave him alone

@athena4519 17 күн бұрын

Yikes this was actually scary to watch. Run fast girl! I don’t even think he likes you

@user-nd3tg5zn1b 19 күн бұрын

Wow he should never be in any relationship ever!!!

@hlaluminobambela9237 19 күн бұрын

He doesn’t like her. That’s all. Yall must stop using words just to use them. Words mean something and you guys throw around psychological terms like they are nothing

@carrotjuice4196 18 күн бұрын

Leave him please he is not for you why wait your tears for a human who thinks your opinion is not valid. He is very rude that is clear. Run I had that experience, always I do not make a point he does. It gets worse by day, you will be nothing I was told. Happy being single now so he can not look me down ever again.

@kayf9612 19 күн бұрын

Run girl run .. this man don’t care

@nakiabruton5319 19 күн бұрын

Woah 😮

@bLOOP-be5ld 18 күн бұрын

He doesn't like her

@SunshineQu33n 20 күн бұрын

Ti cheri ou met kite-l. Ti neg sa pa bon pou.

@paulinebondet 13 күн бұрын

Where is the full episode 4

@TechTualChatter 18 күн бұрын

The messy women are making her feel like Chris and Jody have more going on than they actually do. That’s why he feels like that

@devathadiva8139 17 күн бұрын

He is a narc and he will break you down

@positivityandflow 14 күн бұрын

First, let me say that I do music, not psychology. LOL, but this interaction seems disconnected. They are not addressing each other in real time they are addressing people who may have hurt them in the past!!

@Purpose-es8ce 17 күн бұрын

Her expressing herself makes her insecure? Ok

@nileswilliams7127 19 күн бұрын

Well he is not wrong

@a.d.morton4624 19 күн бұрын

😂🤣😂 Girl RUN! He’s a strong independent black man. Let him be that and bask in his own ambiance of nothingness. 😂

@Suresurely 18 күн бұрын

Chris is a narcissist

@ibehgrace8408 11 күн бұрын

He is sick!

@joyce9857 7 күн бұрын

🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

@lovenessfrank95 19 күн бұрын

Ruuuuuuuuunn bbbby ruuuuuunn

@KpTheG 20 күн бұрын

I like the concept of the show but it misses the mark for me….

@awesome.andrea 14 күн бұрын

Oh he's horrible.

@sylviarosario6503 20 күн бұрын

This show is fake. They had a pretend couple on a podcast that said it’s scripted. It was the guy who roughed up the girl. I can’t remember their names. They both said they sent in their audition tape and they got a check.

@deneshadi 19 күн бұрын

What podcast so I can go listen?!