christina perri - the lonely [official lyric video]
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13 жыл бұрынcelebrating 10 years of lovestrong. relive the entire album: christinaperri.lnk.to/lovestr...
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so many of you asked for the lyrics to "jar of hearts" when it first came out that we thought it'd be rad to make lyric videos for some of the tracks from lovestrong. + here's the second for "the lonely."
video by: elliott sellers - www.elliottsellers.com/
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Lyrics:
2 a.m., where do I begin
Crying off my face again
The silent sound of loneliness
Wants to follow me to bed
I'm the ghost of a girl
That I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl
That I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Too afraid to go inside
For the pain of one more loveless night
But the loneliness will stay with me
And hold me til I fall asleep
I'm the ghost of a girl
That I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl
That I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Broken pieces of
A barely breathing story
Where there once was love
Now there's only me
And the lonely
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Named iTunes’ “Breakthrough Pop Artist of 2011,” Perri earned critical applause and an increasingly fervent fan following with her extraordinary debut, lovestrong. Highlighted by the 5x-platinum-certified smash, “Jar of Hearts,” the album - produced by GRAMMY®-winning producer Joe Chiccarelli (The White Stripes, My Morning Jacket) - entered the SoundScan/Billboard 200 among the top 5 upon its initial 2011 release, while also proving an unqualified international sensation with top 5 success in Australia and Ireland as well as top 10 sales in Canada and the United Kingdom. What’s more, the official “Jar of Hearts” companion visual has drawn over 340 million views via Perri’s official KZfaq channel.
Perri followed lovestrong. with the worldwide hit single, “A Thousand Years,” exclusively featured on Summit Entertainment/Chop Shop/Atlantic’s THE TWILIGHT SAGA: BREAKING DAWN - PART 1 & 2- ORIGINAL MOTION PICTURE SOUNDTRACKS. The track was a multi-format radio favorite, with top 10 airplay at Hot AC and top 25 spins at CHR/Top 40 outlets nationwide. “A Thousand Years” was of course accompanied by an equally popular companion video, now boasting over 1.1 billion individual views via KZfaq alone.
HEAD OR HEART, Perri’s acclaimed second album, arrived in 2014, highlighted by the RIAA 2X platinum-certified single, “Human.” Hailed by Billboard as a “delicate alt-pop ballad that should delight supporters of (Perri’s) breakthrough single ‘Jar of Hearts,’” the track proved another colossal hit for Perri, lighting up the Top 10 at multi-format radio outlets nationwide, while also ascending to Top 10 status on the iTunes Store. In addition, the “Human” companion video proved a true online phenomenon, now with close to 186 million views on Perri’s official KZfaq channel.
Christina recently released a brand new album, songs for carmella: lullabies & sing-a-longs, on January 17th via Elektra Records. The release was timed with her daughter Carmella’s first birthday. The album sees Perri performing a number of timeless standards alongside beloved Disney favorites and a brand new version of her 7x RIAA platinum-certified classic hit, “a thousand years (lullaby),” in addition to a new original, titled “you mean the whole wide world to me.”
Christina also earned applause as an extraordinary live performer via a series of worldwide headline tours, with sold-out shows in North America, Europe, Asia and Latin America. Other highlights include high-profile TV appearances, festival performances, and treks with Ed Sheeran, OneRepublic, and Demi Lovato, as well as “The Girls Night Out, Boys Can Come Too” co-headline tour alongside Colbie Caillat.
#ChristinaPerri #Lovestrong #TheLonely
© 2011 WMG
@messahessa6004 7 жыл бұрын
Do you know that feeling when you have lots of friends but you feel lonely? When you want everyone to leave you alone, but you just want someone to care. When you feel like you've finally lost hope.
@ms.marthapeck2598 7 жыл бұрын
Mira Heslin I feel that every day of my life. it goes great with my social anxiety.
@Sirri_Wolf 7 жыл бұрын
Mira Heslin yes I always feel like that
@jess78037 7 жыл бұрын
Me 24/7 anymore
@melaniejones2037 7 жыл бұрын
Mira Heslin i feel like this all the time...it's strange and scary tho
@mitp5634 7 жыл бұрын
me everyday and i dont know what to do to escape the loneliness i feel in my heart for next year
@Sarahbeth.sfxmua 7 жыл бұрын
anyone feel like the friend that's always "just there" like you are always just a little bit off from your friends. the one that sits at the end of the lunch table, the one that sometimes gets forgotten, the one that always walks a few steps behind the rest....yeah, me too.
@Mizy2183 7 жыл бұрын
SociallyAwkwardSarah this is exactly me :( but nobody notices and PART of me doesn't want to reach out . Honestly the amount of times my friend left me or forgot about me and I'm always pushed behind them when they are walking and even when they're talking I can't relate because I just don't connect with them anymore ... :(
@RavenBlack666 7 жыл бұрын
YEAH..SAD BUT YUP THAT'S ME,😢
@kiara3155 7 жыл бұрын
Me, except I never see them anymore thanks to our scheduald so I have no where to sit at lunch
@jess78037 7 жыл бұрын
Me
@videoedits1893 7 жыл бұрын
SociallyAwkwardSarah
@MattyQueenBee 3 жыл бұрын
This song will NEVER fail to make me emotional 🤧
@hollein3755 3 жыл бұрын
BRoO it reminds me of my dreams me too crying
@tigresstns3766 3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@gajalaimaaa2004 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't listened to it yet so lets see if i cry
@ChildOfMercy 3 жыл бұрын
@@gajalaimaaa2004 how’d it go
@ItsEmma9440 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@seriouslythough859 5 жыл бұрын
Everybody’s like “I am so lonely oh such misery, I have no friends” But honestly I don’t think it’s about being lonely in the sense of actually not having anyone. The line that hit me the most is “I’m the shadow of the girl I want to be most “. Because there’s nothing worse than losing yourself, your dreams and hopes and desires, your will. Only then you are truly lonely. There’s always other people. But there’s never another “me”
@stn6408 5 жыл бұрын
there is not always other people... trust me
@savid3089 5 жыл бұрын
@@stn6408 We Finns want to be alone, but it is not allways loveless lonelynes. Sometimes it is..... when heart has been broken. (Sorry bad english)
@yassinelmarzoqi1911 5 жыл бұрын
Can relate , got what ur talking about. But as human beings we're differentl and each one of us has his or her way to label suffering and pain . It doesn't matter cause at the end of the day it is suffering and we all been haunted by the same ghost.
@savid3089 5 жыл бұрын
@@yassinelmarzoqi1911 so true 🌻
@zainabobaidan85 5 жыл бұрын
I had to take a screenshot that’s some big words 🖤
@inkasonata7911 7 жыл бұрын
It's weird how stranger care about you more than your actual human being family, friend and other
@cloudysystem3942 6 жыл бұрын
That's what most people don't understand about the internet.
@lilimiller2995 6 жыл бұрын
I think that's because they can't see you, so they don't judge you on your looks. People judge you based on what you look like, because they only want to care about the pretty people.
@danielavilla3827 5 жыл бұрын
it is not weird
@ncacadmus 5 жыл бұрын
Nah
@marekkanaman5394 5 жыл бұрын
yes I understand people judge because we are different. then you have to be the one to reach out to others.
@connierasmussen3491 6 жыл бұрын
depression is when you don't really care about anything anxiety is when you care too much about everything and having both is just like hell :-(
@cloudysystem3942 6 жыл бұрын
It's worse when it's the type of depression that makes you care so much that you burst into tears doing anything. Then add anxiety to that.
@georgia7636 6 жыл бұрын
I hate that both go hand it hand, like evil twins.
@V0idSyn 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve had anxiety my whole life and I’ve had depression for almost 4 years
@emrel4109 6 жыл бұрын
Joshua Sherman i got anxiety and depression almost 6 years and still counting.. i cannot sleep peacefully because my brain always thinking something..
@V0idSyn 5 жыл бұрын
Finally someone that understands and wants to help, not someone that tells me to deal with it or someone who wants to compete. It’s not a competition, it’s supposed to be a call for help
@inactivecringepileleavemea5764 5 жыл бұрын
In the words of my grandmother “I see right through you.. I see how alone you feel in a room full of people” And yet.. I still do..
@anviagrawal979 3 жыл бұрын
It's good that you have someone who cares.
@ethanjayceh.fajardo3666 2 жыл бұрын
You're lucky you have a grandmother like that. Not even one can see right thru me.
@radhikavardhan7296 2 жыл бұрын
That what she said me toooooooooooooo
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 Жыл бұрын
my cousin who was my best friend / older sister figure to me was the only one in my family who right through my fake smiles and the mask of fakeness i wore everyday and saw through the unhappiness of being at family occasions and gatherings cause she knew i always felt like the black sheep of the family , i still do but i am more stone cold , cold hearted and emotionally unavailable towards them cause i've had enough of their bullshit , lies and snootiness and fakeness . lies and emotional pain changes people and reshapes how we are , this song is hauntingly beautiful and soothing
@reiirei-xh6up 5 жыл бұрын
This is so related.. Putting a fake smile, fake laugh, and fake happiness is hard.. People just don't understand what depressed feels like :'((
@jakubsinga1923 4 жыл бұрын
😟this was me
@jakubsinga1923 4 жыл бұрын
Me😢😢 i need help😣...i had social anxiety 😟.. I'm sad..i am scared...since 2013 when i was 14y old ,untill today... I don't understand..why ?...I am nervous when i walk alone & my body shaking when i think everyone look at me & I'm afraid/nervous to talk to teacher,doctor & etc...😖😞..please talk to me on FACEBOOK "Jakub Singa"
@themilkman7664 3 жыл бұрын
yeah and if you are open about your emotions you are faking it.
@jennieslaysmerapmonkillsme4709 7 жыл бұрын
Do you ever have one of those days, where nothing goes wrong, but you feel like you hate the world, and you just feel like breaking down and crying?...
@trollgold6011 7 жыл бұрын
Jennie slays me Rapmon kills me hearteu I think you have depression
@jennieslaysmerapmonkillsme4709 7 жыл бұрын
Aisha Osman i do?
@pandapersonpandad4412 5 жыл бұрын
I HAVE FELT LIKE THAT A lot
@flor1602 5 жыл бұрын
YES! I always feel bleack! ALWAYS
@EL-gr3vg 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. All the time.
@commonogre9724 9 жыл бұрын
The worst thing about this song is when you can relate to every line...
@fiaria3780 9 жыл бұрын
Ikr!
@shannontutt0267 9 жыл бұрын
This is me
@ponyjelloink8394 9 жыл бұрын
Christina Marriott I don't feel like I do, yet ik i do...
@autumnapathy2436 8 жыл бұрын
Well- I don't, since I'm a guy and all.
@xyzshantaram 7 жыл бұрын
Common Ogre I totally agree. This is why I like Christina Perri's songs so much. So relatable.
@sugasinfireration5863 4 жыл бұрын
"I am the shell of the girl that I used to know well" I resonate so much with this line. My friends and family know me as the happy go lucky girl that jokes about everything and that will catch you when you fall. Now I am just an anxious mess who is great at hiding behind the mask of the girl I used to be because I can't bring myself to destroy the picture of the oh so happy and strong girl.
@gixxeraddict4836 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you. Thats basically my whole life 😓
@Lee-vc6ji 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate 😞
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 Жыл бұрын
sums me up in a nutshell perfectly except ... , i am no longer smiling , not happy , not happy with having to be around most of my cousins or family events , occasions or whatever . etc . now i am just a girl who focuses on herself her needs and her cat and her direct fam . i used to be lonely in different senses of the word . now i just don't care , can't be bothered and honestly don't care what anyone says or thinks or even does about it cause they don't get that they caused me to be this way and caused that alienated and lonely feeling and reason for me being so cold and distance . i despise their fakeness and bullshit with a fiery passion and every fiber of my soul and my personal being . simply put my opinion is this -----> IDGAF & DON'T WASTE MY TIME WITH ANY OF THAT NONSENSE AND LIES. i am not a girl who has the time nor the patience nor the care for anyone's lies and bull crap . either be honest and real with me or piss off
@andromeda3780 2 ай бұрын
I feel you 😢 may your heart find peace ❤️
@kyletheredpanda 3 жыл бұрын
The worse sense of loneliness is having people who are physically there but don’t get wat your going through. It creates a bubble of isolation.
@katiebuck3053 2 жыл бұрын
Omg you wrote exactly what I was feeling but couldn't put words to it myself thank you
@youyouny3819 8 жыл бұрын
It's one of those days again when music is my only friend :'(
@wassupdude3233 8 жыл бұрын
For me that's everyday...
@killerchogiwa3028 8 жыл бұрын
+Sabrina Hernandez im the same way .-.
@wassupdude3233 8 жыл бұрын
+sleeping with emo finally somebody who actually gets me!!
@marivicomandam43 8 жыл бұрын
+Youyoun Y same
@andreamalikdehoran6685 8 жыл бұрын
same):
@Iris-zs5es 8 жыл бұрын
I remember a year ago I would listen to this while I cried myself to sleep wishing for death now I want to go back to that old me and say "Hey, things will get better. It may be harder at times but it will get better." I feel very proud of myself. I went to listening to this while crying and cutting to now. Listening to it while I think to myself that I am strong. I did it.
@youdontknowme3365 8 жыл бұрын
congratulations ♡♡♡
@Iris-zs5es 8 жыл бұрын
you dont know me Thank you :)
@maaikevantspijker8048 8 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you 💖
@shabora112 8 жыл бұрын
I hope I can overcome this too, like you :/
@ailusil1361 8 жыл бұрын
Lilly 112 i hope to do it too..stay strong
@novelmel1933 5 жыл бұрын
when I was depressed in high school this song (along with her other songs) was my comfort, because it described how I was feeling so clearly. now I'm in college, it's been around 2 years since I last heard this song. I'm no longer depressed but this song will always have a place in my heart. I can gladly say "I'm okay" and mean it. I'm okay. thank you Christina
@elainamichelle3825 5 жыл бұрын
been there
@alienate1130 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who gets goosebumps when sings "dancing slowly in an empty room... "?
@copyrightfreemusic7766 2 жыл бұрын
me too
@Le-mv5dh 2 жыл бұрын
my bro could jump when he starts to hear this lyric...
@izhannajmuddynazhmanvictor903 2 жыл бұрын
no
@chocolatier8247 7 жыл бұрын
"Happiness can be found in the darkest of places, if only one remembers to turn on the light"
@nagitokomaedont8856 5 жыл бұрын
What if I'm a Slytherin? XD Then Dumbledore doesn't like me.
@bleach187 5 жыл бұрын
Samantha Griffin harry potterrrrrr
@dnyandevnipurte192 5 жыл бұрын
💎❤
@madelynparkerministry 5 жыл бұрын
That quote helped me so much
@madelynparkerministry 5 жыл бұрын
@Anna Jones the switch is what makes u happy
@cobaltcat4227 7 жыл бұрын
This song makes me so sad but I can't stop replaying it
@tainamichelle2683 6 жыл бұрын
cathy cat same..
@kaka9102 6 жыл бұрын
REHAAAAAB!!!!
@mahamumam5444 5 жыл бұрын
Me toooo
@flor1602 5 жыл бұрын
Samw
@josiekamens5757 6 жыл бұрын
Loneliness a poem I wrote.. No one around~ It's pitch black And there's not a sound Except the heaving breathing coming from someone Trying to hold in her feelings get away from them. Just run Tears streaming down her face~ She thought she had at least one person left, But she discovered they chose a different place. No one understands her, And teary eyes are making her vision blur. Nothing is clear, but it doesn't matter there's nothing to see, Because in this darkness there's only one thing that there can be. With her is only this It's the cold bitter loneliness
@nymeriawulf2247 5 жыл бұрын
beautiful! great job!
@october5848 5 жыл бұрын
Damn thats good
@MusicwithEm 5 жыл бұрын
hey, this is really good. can I put it in a story I'm writing?
@brianpatrickofficial 5 жыл бұрын
Wow
@TheMercedeslady 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.....
@neilclaytonsimpliciano4328 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not Happy I'm not Sad I just feel Blank
@3ldad226 4 жыл бұрын
The most absolute relate EVER
@themilkman7664 3 жыл бұрын
yeah the best i can feel is happy for a moment then nothing ust a split second but most of the time ifeel empty sad and worthless
@Dai-cu3rg 3 жыл бұрын
And that’s what scares me the most because I know I should feel something but I don’t.
@blackspiderman1887 3 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend just got married................all my childhood friends are married................Im still single and too afraid of hurt to try another relationship. i can relate to the blank feeling. Just nothingness. No pain. No happiness. Just an empty hole realizing everything you had is no more.
@Sam-rk3ng 3 жыл бұрын
Holy shit
@lilangel8843 6 жыл бұрын
anyone just feel alone but you have "frends" and family around you that you know they love you and you want to talk to them but you just cant get the right words out.....or is it just me....?
@ryanwarren9802 6 жыл бұрын
lilly trust me ur not alone when u only have like three real friends but only have one to talk about stuff and who will listen to u.....then u try ur family they make fun of u Bc u "like" someone and get to scared to talk to them any more......then have one real friend at school but doesn't understand anything u say.......the only friend without a phone....the only girl who is diffrent from EVEY other girl in the school Bc u didn't grow up with sisters so ur not a girly girl ugh I hate it.....they make fun of me when I'm not listening then there is a guy who likes u and u don't like him and can't think of a way to let him down easily 😔 Sometimes I feel like I have depression....but I really don't I fight with my brothers all the time then when I get upset I say things I don't mean and then go in my room sit infront of the door and cry ur heart out 😭😭😭 Bc nobody NOBODY understands u then ur too shy to stand up for ur self or ur friends........it bothers me.....so Lilly trust me when I say this.....you are NOT alone u don't have to go through it alone I'll be here for u if u need to talk I promis I listen I'm not like other people....so if u need me just talk to me
@moonlitmocha491 5 жыл бұрын
Just remember your okay itll take time to heal
@daniq9280 5 жыл бұрын
No it isnt. I left my old school and my friends this year and I miss them a lot. I want to speak to them but nothing comes out of my mouth
@moonlitmocha491 5 жыл бұрын
@@daniq9280 Practise in the mirror?
@ankitashilpa6022 5 жыл бұрын
Speak it out to someone whom you know will understand.. you'll feel lighter then. :) Don't lose hope.. just fight it.. don't give up yet.
@kikic.6950 8 жыл бұрын
3 am... can't sleep. I have this empty feeling and I can't sleep. I wish i had somebody to hug to tell all my secrets to and feel safe being myself.
@emeraldgrey1597 8 жыл бұрын
I wish I had one too
@yasminy.7243 8 жыл бұрын
feel hugged 😌
@naomi-art-stuff 8 жыл бұрын
I will hug u and listen to ur secrets and rants ^.^
@CupaCheeto2 8 жыл бұрын
Wish I had one too
@arelim3801 8 жыл бұрын
Sweetie that's depression, I had a empty feeling when I had it
@shenhana9909 6 жыл бұрын
"Depression" Depression is not a joke Depression is when you're crying inside but you're smiling outside Depression can Kill Depression is hard to fight Depression can make a real one, fake Depression Can make a good one, bad "I am suffering from depression" she said No one listen, No one believe No one cares " Why? why does the world hates me?! "she said crying Her family ignore her Her friends Leave her She was there sitting in the middle of her room with a rope hanging above A blood on her wrist A knife on her heart A gunshot on her back A tears on her eyes ",Thank You. " The last word she said before She hang herself on the rope She died. But still no one cares.
@iix.unknwn3254 5 жыл бұрын
True...I'm crying inside and smiling outside. I wish everything was alright but it's not I want it to stop but it can't it will stay inside of me forever...😭💔 It's really hard to fight depression and I know that everyone hate's me And they make me hate myself (I'm Here For Nothing I'm Only Here To Feel Pain I'm Here To Feel Sadness I'm Here Just To Be Afraid) (I Was Supposed To Be Loved Cared Safe Good Kind) But now i can't be happy..💔
@mayamartinez1164 5 жыл бұрын
♡
@followerofchristjesus2265 5 жыл бұрын
Alexis, I care... I want you to keep fighting. I OVERCAME depression, it is possible. Put your trust in JESUS. Read the book of Matthew in the bible when you have time. If you need a friend just reply, and let me know. My name is Ruth by the way. JESUS LOVES YOU, and So Do I. Please keep fighting, you are a survivor, not a victim. You have made it this far for a reason, so don't give up now. I will pray for you.
@orangey0000 5 жыл бұрын
😢
@followerofchristjesus2265 5 жыл бұрын
@@stutichoudhary3575 Please don't let go, keep fighting. I know it is easier said than done, but we all have purpose here, so don't just give up. Be the change you want to see. Nobody's is perfect; everyone has a struggle, but we all have to choice to keep pushing and not giving up. Sometimes we have to be by ourselves for a while, and that is time we should get to know more about ourselves by asking ourselves questions, or simply just taking a moment to breathe. There is no perfect answer for our struggle at times, but I know for fact that there is hope in JESUS. Just relax, forgive yourself and others who hurt you. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't give up on yourself or God. I will pray for you. Just take it one day at a time, and think of all the good stuff in your life. Change your outlook on life, think positive, love yourself for who you are. You are survivor, so keep fighting .. I will pray for you. Stay blessed in the name of Jesus.
@Savanna_hgardin 4 жыл бұрын
This songs deserves more recognition.
@JesusComesFirst_21 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think so too
@akhbarzullah 8 жыл бұрын
Anyone cried when they singing this song? 😢 This song kinda represents me.
@julita9528 8 жыл бұрын
Same here :(
@biraffe445 8 жыл бұрын
Me to :'(
@jahanaraakter6773 7 жыл бұрын
yes I cried everytime
@biraffe445 7 жыл бұрын
Same😭😢
@rainbowart1646 7 жыл бұрын
im criyng right now
@jasminm8244 8 жыл бұрын
Everyone who reads this is beautiful and something special ❤️
@armadildo5740 8 жыл бұрын
not me
@melodysmith7191 8 жыл бұрын
+the gaming fire don't say that
@armadildo5740 8 жыл бұрын
+Melody Smith but im not beautiful
@naomi-art-stuff 8 жыл бұрын
+the gaming fire if you ever find that little voice trying to say that you're not beautiful, just imagine that that's Donald trump talking, then you'll realize how wrong that little voice is
@user-nu9em3ol5n 8 жыл бұрын
Ikr! :3
@onlyisraa 3 жыл бұрын
2 yrs ago i was alone crying in an empty class this song made me takeaway all the bad feelings that I kept for half a year my life was messy and unbearable back then listening to this song again made me grateful and aware of how powerful i am for getting through the hard times🙏🤗
@copyrightfreemusic7766 2 жыл бұрын
me too.stay strong dear .u worth a lot . bless u
@aylsenvalentino9585 4 жыл бұрын
You hit rock bottom and just need someone to be there. Not to speak false words of “encouragement” Not to discuss the pain Just to be there
@monsterloverx6451 3 жыл бұрын
i know there are people out there that say, if you need me just talk to me, sometimes, its not better to TALK about something, its better to tell about something, so... if you need someone to BE there with you, not judge you, not encourage you, just listen to you, and be there with you.... im here? Sorry... i dont help alot of people, and i hate talking, i just like listening and being there for someone
@Anita-nz7ow 6 жыл бұрын
Deep down nobody is scared of dying. We’re only scared of what comes after. R.i.p to those who lost their lives because this world was so fucked up they were willing to deal with what ever was waiting for them on the other side rather than live their life.
@alphaboi7163 5 жыл бұрын
ana v nah I’m scared of dying my guy
@carone4183 5 жыл бұрын
Im scared of dying im scare to live too
@carone4183 5 жыл бұрын
depression will slowly kill me im thinking of taking my own life because nobody care my friends leave me my family dont care of me so why do I have to live?
@miaglasford9310 5 жыл бұрын
Carone ცატჰყ please don’t hope your I know I don’t know you but we all feel like that sometimes always here to talk x
@johnnavidad1457 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve already accepted whatever happens next, what I’m terrified is how will I die and how painful will it be that could come with it.
@jackiemiller6886 7 жыл бұрын
Does anyone feel extremely lonely? Or is it just me?
@chloekidcats4468 7 жыл бұрын
Me
@Tei_022 6 жыл бұрын
Jackie Miller *Cough* 😔
@lilimiller2995 6 жыл бұрын
Everybody does sometimes. 😊
@kaka9102 6 жыл бұрын
🎶👌🏿🎶
@aquariumlove6405 5 жыл бұрын
Jackie Miller same Well i have a best friend but i just cant talk to her about my mental illnesses
@isaac-4074 4 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is even worse when you used to have those friends who you imagined you'll be together for a really long time, and now everyone has another group, but you the only one who stays alone.
@Jokerandharley67 2 жыл бұрын
Strength is when you finally begin to find comfort and love in your OWN presence. We come into life alone and we also leave alone. Learn to truly love and enjoy your own company. You will be Ok trust me ❤️😊
@Phoenix_316 3 жыл бұрын
I was a “depressed” Emo when this came out, I cut my wrists and made sad edits while listening to this and MCR” got through that. Now I’m finally super happy, the wounds have completely healed, and my word is filled with positivity and colors!
@Jokerandharley67 2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you 🙂
@michaelshoney 2 жыл бұрын
awww i'm so proud of you!! you nice keep going 🥰🥰
@jrmckim 4 ай бұрын
Mcr is the best
@restisconfetti9084 8 жыл бұрын
I keep pushing people away so can't even complain that I am lonely. Fear of letting someone close to my heart so I am hurting myself slowly.
@dhdhsdf9968 8 жыл бұрын
+Faye Kennedy don't people who are lonely have a mom or dad to take care of them?
@cc-bk3tx 8 жыл бұрын
+Lillian Jenkins sometimes yes and sometimes no it depends but if anything it normally reaches deeper than that
@peculiarjane6490 8 жыл бұрын
I do that all the time to and I don't know what's wrong with me.
@cc-bk3tx 8 жыл бұрын
Audry Red19 sometimes its a good idea to let atleast someone in, now not everyone as i made that mistake but if you let the right person close than you are rewarded well
@cloudysystem3942 6 жыл бұрын
People can be lonely, even with parents. Sometimes parents just make it worse.
@zainebn919 8 жыл бұрын
OMG.. tears fall whenever i hear it ..
@theoneperson5800 8 жыл бұрын
same
@KaayKat1 8 жыл бұрын
+Victoria l Like EVERY single time.. LOL me tho
@penelopeapostolidi6759 8 жыл бұрын
same
@daniak4283 8 жыл бұрын
+Victoria l omg me too!
@michaelhoogendoorn3179 7 жыл бұрын
I almost feel guilty when this song brings tears to my eyes cause I didn't even cry at my grandma's funeral. This song just hits me in the tear ducts and reminds me of the girl who left.
@mabelhans254 4 жыл бұрын
Depress, sad or not. GROUP HUG🙆♀️ 💙💚💛💜❤🖤
@JigokuChou 4 жыл бұрын
I remember being depressed and crying to this song, cutting myself. Went through a lot, but I'm finally happy and slowly starting a family. It gets better
@farhanakaonine3124 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you get all the love you deserve.
@ceccva 3 жыл бұрын
i dont know u. but im very proud of u
@copyrightfreemusic7766 2 жыл бұрын
i'm happy that u are finally happy. stay strong.bless u
@michaelshoney 2 жыл бұрын
Awwww you made it!! 🥺... I'm so fucking proud of you 😘🥰
@carlyrose6397 8 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how a song can come into your life when you need it
@sbrnlss 8 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who prefer to be alone?
@benturner4348 8 жыл бұрын
+sabrina Judging by the comment section, yes. I know what you mean, though.
@n0namenate 8 жыл бұрын
+sabrina No, it's completely natural to want to be alone, usually for the peace of mind. I also need my alone time and I think a lot of people do. One thing I've realized is you have to be completely respectful to yourself. Don't doubt your abilities and behaviors, or just don't be too hard on yourself. Respect your mind and body while alone. That's from my personal experiences. :)
@chantelpurnell8503 8 жыл бұрын
no
@mei_locked 8 жыл бұрын
no..
@christiesinclair3695 8 жыл бұрын
No.
@benayagarcia653 3 жыл бұрын
"don't promise when you're happy don't reply when you're angry don't decide when you're sad"
@Aparadam 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is my favourite Christina Perri song. The tune is hauntingly beautiful. I love the piano in it. It's been years and I just keep coming back to it. Well done Christina.
@puneethnk2287 2 жыл бұрын
The lonely and The words🔥❤️
@sowen8190 8 жыл бұрын
This song makes me cry... This song describes my life...
@rainbowart1646 7 жыл бұрын
same ♡♡♡
@misstina9271 7 жыл бұрын
This is so me.
@rainbowart1646 7 жыл бұрын
+Rainbow Art me right now beacause my bff is a bitch!!!!!!
@IamChrisLol 7 жыл бұрын
I was jumped at skool i was crying this song means alot
@brii4nn.a434 7 жыл бұрын
BlareBlueDragon ShadowBlackDragon aww i feel sad for u
@mystie1769 8 жыл бұрын
I always feel sad for some reason and just put on a mask and act happy but in the end it makes me feel worse that people don't understand how I feel and after a while the sadness ebbs away becomes no feeling and I feel nothing at all
@elliephant1003 8 жыл бұрын
I hope things get better for you
@michellek.5234 8 жыл бұрын
Same. I thought it was only me who felt that way.
@Vampbvtez 8 жыл бұрын
Trust me it will go away I had these feelings last year if you don't already have a therapist or a guidence consuler trust me it will help if you aren't able to obtain a therapist or guidence consuler maybe talk to your parents or,a teacher it will get better I remember always. having to be happy for everyone else but,eventually you'll be able (hopefully) to realize that you have to be happy for you and,don't be afraid of expressing your other emotions. I hope you're doing better❤
@jasmreow 8 жыл бұрын
+Mystie the wolf artist you should write a song
@mystie1769 8 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Ly I have literally thought of so many songs just off the top of my head and that comment made me think of illuminati
@user258x3 3 жыл бұрын
I dont know why Christina is so underrated her songs are full of meaning and people cant see that.I have had depression since 3rd grade and it really sucks.Sometimes i self harm and even tho i want to stop i just cant.Sometimes i listen to Cristinas songs and it helps a lot because in her song she talks about her expirences and that way i know im not alone.
@Emily-dv7xi 5 жыл бұрын
I have severe Anxiety, mostly because I'm afraid to be alone yet I tell everyone... I love being alone. Part of my anxiety is the hypochondria running in my veins. I feel like I'm not normal and everyone says I'm healthy. One thing I also struggle with is admitting to myself the things I don't want to admit. I admit, I am lonely, but I'm afraid to let other people in my life because I don't want to try get hurt like I did once. I'm afraid to admit that I'm healthy because the anxiety and hypochondria is taking over my mental health. I'm afraid to admit this, but I feel like I've developed an eating disorder too because I skip lunch. In a week, I lost 3 pounds, now about 4 and it has done nothing but make me worry more about my health. I'm afraid to admit I may have depression because I'm so lonely and I block myself and my mind from all these things and I've thought about what it would be like not living here on Earth anymore. I know I'm in God's hands, my parents are together and I'm not abused, heck I'm loved. But the amount of attention my little sister gets affects my loneliness and makes it worse. I'm afraid to admit I'm an attention hog and beg for attention because I don't get enough already. I am afraid to admit this all to myself that all of this is correct and that I need help, and that I'm too afraid to tell anyone... Even my trustful, loving, amazing parents.😔 (And no this is not for attention 🙄I wanted to express my feelings and inner thought in a way where I know if some people are nice enough and care, they will take the time to read this and possibly comment, which does not happen.)
@esterl.1393 5 жыл бұрын
Well dude, stay strong 👍 ( FYI I read everything)
@_gabby5504 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww, I wanna give a you a hug! Please stay strong! Don't hurt yourself because of your thoughts! Think of the good things in your life. ❤❤❤
@lex.07 4 жыл бұрын
i am the same your not alone
@elih6087 7 жыл бұрын
When I was younger I would listen to this song and also sing it because I thought it sounded beautiful. But now I listen to it and I feel the lyrics. Somehow. Oh, how I didn't get the meaning in the past. I think there's many who feel like that. Here are so many suffering, lost people with deep wounded souls. It could break a person's heart.
@sebidpr7472 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was fine before I knew that song... It made me thinking about my life. I hate myself now and started cutting. Believe me... don't think too much. That'll crash your mind forever. You'll never feel fine again. So please just enjoy what you have. Later you won't be able to do it. Don't end like me. Just be fine and enjoy life.
@elih6087 7 жыл бұрын
I can tell you that I hated myself too. Sometimes Im in front of the mirror and become angry. But I learned and still know it doesn't matter. It just does not matter as long as you have people liking you the way you are. And if someone judges you based off your look, that person doesn't deserve you. You're great the way you are. But if you wanna loose some weight or whatever, do it. As long as you do it for yourself. Don't ever change yourself for someone else. Keep that in mind. I've not had it easy in life, but I never ended cutting myself, cause it's a waste and I knew I'll regret it. A waste of time and pain. Cutting may make yourself feel better for that moment, but later on you'll look at them and hate yourself even more. And also, it's not the end for you. It is NEVER TOO LATE to get help. You can still stop. It is like an addiction, I know. A cry for help, but just open your mouth and ask for it. Even if you don't know people in real life who help, you can call Hotlines or seek for help in forums. You can do it. Youre strong. Good luck
@alfiatulfadhilahzhafirah3275 5 жыл бұрын
When l was youger l would
@kimmiruby0927 5 жыл бұрын
Same here! I didn’t understand it when I was younger
@Loviekinz 8 жыл бұрын
I don't even feel lonely... I don't feel anything. I am emotionally disconnected.
@hence5572 8 жыл бұрын
It's not cool at all honey, when ur unemotional means that u lost ur faith in everthing, its not worth living anymore, an empty body with no soul. If you see that as a way to run away from pain then ur dead wrong , it might work at first but then ur slowly being destroyed from inside
@galaxywolf9513 8 жыл бұрын
Same
@karolina12gordynska3 8 жыл бұрын
me too😅😅
@gilbertorocha7239 8 жыл бұрын
this is the worst we can get
@rayanequinzel2385 8 жыл бұрын
same here...
@JamesWatkins-vp7bv 10 ай бұрын
First off, this is a mesmerizing hypnotic melody that traps my mind somewhere between a Tim Burton and James Bond film. I can feel the struggle between excitement and pain. The lyrics are powerful, cutting straight to the point. This is a true work of art, all around. Thank You. P.S. You have to listen to this in surround sound, close your eyes, clear your mind, elevate the volume, and you achieve perfection.
@Farell18Pl 7 ай бұрын
Been here crying 11 yrs ago and I'm still here crying today 2024 this is a masterpiece ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@dasmaikey1186 7 жыл бұрын
Just found this song again. I used to hear it when I cutted my arms bleeding...so many memories right now...to all the people hurting themselfs: It's getting better. I promise. People will come and people will go. The ones who are important will stay. Believe me. Stay strong and try not to drown in your own tears. Love you all.
@cloudysystem3942 6 жыл бұрын
The worst part is when those who make it worse won't leave while you're forced away from the ones who love, cherish and heal you.
@chxrming9845 6 жыл бұрын
I would really appreciate if you had the time to read this and possible change your life. When I was 16 I met this girl. And I had feelings for her. We were best friends so it would be weird if we dated. She unfortunately did have a condition which could possibly kill her (cancer) which she was diagnosed with after a few years after we met. She didn’t have a good chance of living but I kept my hopes high. She fortunately did beat the battle and we threw a huge party for her. We had a couple of drinks but unfortunately... some girls put drugs in her drink. I went home thinking everyone was ok and I woke up to hear that she unfortunately passed away. I never got the chance to tell her how I felt. And this party was only a month after she was given the good news. It’s been 7 years now amy. 7 years. Happy anniversary. 😭 this is the reason why I suffer from depression and still to this day have suicidal thoughts 😭
@devinmusic313 5 жыл бұрын
that's horrible. I hope you feel better soon.. stay strong. It will get better.
@moonlitmocha491 5 жыл бұрын
Amy would be proud you're staying strong
@fragilefragile2600 5 жыл бұрын
No dont die😢
@krakkikuthdncers3525 5 жыл бұрын
That's so bad.. I'm so sorry you had to go through all this!
@mariev.2156 5 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. Amy will always remain in your heart and I am sure that she is watching over you now and is very proud of you. You are so strong, keep fighting. x
@dark-harvet4897 4 жыл бұрын
This song means more to me now than it ever did before. This song, aside from the obvious themes of loss, is based on the feeling of being utterly alone after losing one's self. That "Lonely" feeling doesn't just come from having nobody around, it can also come from the feeling of not being able to talk to anyone even if surrounded by loved ones. The main point of the story within this song is that someone was heartbroken by loss, and now they've sunk deeper into the Lonely than they ever did before.
@blupaduddle3806 6 жыл бұрын
Recently lost all my friends. I feel like I'm always being judged. With social anxiety and depression, I ain't doing to well right now. This resonates with me a lot.
@elizabeth8616 Жыл бұрын
You okay now?
@jrmckim 4 ай бұрын
Hope you are okay
@matie5671 8 жыл бұрын
I don't come to seek attention, or to ask for help or to even share my story. All I wanna say is it's rough all over.
@asjeable 8 жыл бұрын
yep...
@campyroll9588 7 жыл бұрын
★Ziggy Stardust★ I SWEAR IF THAT WAS A OUTSIDERS REFERENCE YOU ARE MY NEW FRIEND
@gabbys3507 7 жыл бұрын
YES
@asjeable 7 жыл бұрын
This time of the year is so hard....
@mixiao5753 7 жыл бұрын
★Ziggy Stardust★ mantap
@kc-jq7jw 7 жыл бұрын
Dear the 2k who disliked: Clearly you have never experienced what we have. The cloak of loneliness
@user-hl8gu8cg9e 5 жыл бұрын
😭😖😭😟😟 crying seriously 😞😞😭
@georgetabandrabur1990 5 жыл бұрын
This should be pinned :/
@caitphobia 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't dislike the video but I see why someone might want to. I think it's mainly because it's hard to read the lyrics. To the people that came here for a lyric video it's not much of one. I do appreciate the art behind the video but for others it might be hard to do so when you want to read the lyrics as she's singing them.
@bamboozledan 5 жыл бұрын
I don't think the people who disliked the video would even scroll down the comment section.
@caitphobia 5 жыл бұрын
@@bamboozledan facts
@roimko 3 жыл бұрын
I am here again after 10 years. First time, I listened I cried. I was such a very lonely, frail boy back then but now even as an adult I am here again. Loneliness really knocks on my door hard today. Hello old friend...
@KibaSnowpaw Жыл бұрын
This song is so hauntingly beautiful and it really hits close to home. The opening line "2 a.m., where do I begin?" perfectly captures the feeling of being lost and alone, crying off your face in the middle of the night. The imagery of the "silent sounds of loneliness" following you to bed is so powerful and relatable. The pre-chorus "I'm a ghost of a girl that I want to be most, I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well" is a heartbreaking admission of feeling broken and flawed. It's like we're trying to hold on to the person we used to be, but we're just a shadow of our former selves. The chorus is so poignant and asks the question "can the lonely take the place of you?" It's like we're trying to fill the void left by someone we loved with loneliness, but it's just not the same. The line "let you go and let the lonely in to take my heart again" is so heartbreaking because it's like we're resigning ourselves to the fact that we're alone. The second verse is just as powerful, with the line "too afraid to go inside for the pain of one more loveless night." It's like we're so scared of being alone that we're willing to endure the pain of being in a loveless relationship. The bridge "broken pieces of a barely breathing story, where there once was love now there's only me and the lonely" is so raw and emotional. It's like we're looking back on a relationship that was once full of love and now we're left with nothing but broken pieces and loneliness. Overall, this song is a beautiful and poignant reflection on loneliness and heartbreak. It's a reminder that it's okay to feel broken and flawed, and that we're not alone in our struggles. Thank you, Christina Perri, for this powerful and relatable song. #ChristinaPerri #TheLonely #Heartbreak #Loneliness #Brokenness #Flawed #Love #Relationships #Sad #Haunting #Beautiful #Poignant #Raw #Emotional #Powerful #Real #Authentic #Reflection #Music #Song #Lyrics
@sarahparson1 9 жыл бұрын
beautiful. i've been here, once before. the lonely feeling, goes away. & you are all you've got left, you have to pick yourself up again. anyone who feels this way, need to know that. it gets better. you can get through it.
@flamurbeqiri3725 9 жыл бұрын
Sarah Parson I'm on this position, and I think you are right😏.
@sarahparson1 9 жыл бұрын
Flamur Beqiri awh its hard, it takes that time to heal everything, stay strong, and change to better yourself and kill whoever you can with kindless. Love is the best weapon :] Best of luck to you, thanks for your input it was nice to hear.
@flamurbeqiri3725 9 жыл бұрын
Sarah Parson you have experienced on this.. and I will try your advice: Thanks:)
@sarahparson1 9 жыл бұрын
you're very welcome! the whole world goes through pain, all it takes is a little hope to carry on! & keep holding on, everyday cause you and everyone else s worth it!
@JacobVanWie 9 жыл бұрын
save it bitch
@akrutimishra2430 7 жыл бұрын
Christina perri is someone I can listen to thousand times but would never be bored
@isabelleharte889 5 жыл бұрын
akruti Mishra I will love her for a thousand years 💕
@nymeriawulf2247 5 жыл бұрын
akruti Mishra same
@nymeriawulf2247 5 жыл бұрын
Sailingaway yt I'll love har for a thousand more
@shp.sampark 3 жыл бұрын
This song makes me think of a girl in a beautiful yet simple white gown. Long hair and thick eyelashes, mascara smudges beneath her eyes. She dances with "the lonely", a tall man in a black suit. He has no face, so he is quiet and calm, but he stays with the girl, not torturing her, but rather giving her comfort, so she can let go of the people that hurt her.
@nativechique7589 Жыл бұрын
❤️
@sophiagodfrey4136 3 жыл бұрын
The more I listen to this song, the more I think that it's not about someone missing someone who's gone. It's about someone who's never known love, but knows that they miss it, if that makes sense. The person is someone who is so scared of being unloved that they act however they have to so that people like them. They are afraid that their real self isn't good enough, so they try to pretend to be someone else. At night, all they can think about is their crippling loneliness and depression. "...The pain of one more loveless night..." doesn't refer to being without someone. It's about hating themselves. The person they dance with, The Lonely, is the fake version of themselves that they abhor, yet cling to. And they are afraid that one day, everyone that they love will find out. And all the friends they hold on so tightly to will leave them. Alone.
@silentkilleraf4664 6 жыл бұрын
I don't have any friends... Music is my only one friend...
@sleepy3074 5 жыл бұрын
SilentKiller AF sadly me
@jager6444 5 жыл бұрын
Then u do have a friend dummy
@jajathegreat7158 5 жыл бұрын
I can be your friend 🙂
@neelamkankane9887 5 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@jajathegreat7158 5 жыл бұрын
@@neelamkankane9887 hey...i can be your friend!!!😊😊
@madelinelegge1960 7 жыл бұрын
Is it just me that goes from being depressed and overthinking and crying to suddenly just empty and numb and it's like you can't cry or do or feel anything and it's just this cycle that keeps happening and I want to snap out of it but I can't
@RueNakamura 5 жыл бұрын
2 or 3 years of depresoon then a month of being numb then back to depression again My life
@bpsilalahi648 5 жыл бұрын
I never thought that I would feel this feeling, Anxiety, lonely, depressed. I'm very happy when I'm in high school. I have a lot of friends. There is no single day that I feel lonely. But, when i'm in college it's begin to fade away. I never blame my parents or my friends for who I am now. I mean, they are trying to help me. They try to talk to me. But, it's like I'm the one who push them away. Now, I barely talk to them. I spend most of my day in my room. I don't know if there is someone out there have the same feeling as me. But, I hope you will get better. You know what is funny? When I'm in high school, i always want high school to over cause I want to get out, go from my hometown and see the world. But then after knowing how world works and it's treated you, I just wanna come back to past. Because NOW is so Hard and I don't think I can face the future.
@ritchielbautista7276 4 жыл бұрын
omg , i remember depressed me crying at night listening to this :))) Well i thank depressed me because here i am rn , stronger , happier , bolder :))❤️
@maddikammerer7257 6 жыл бұрын
I've always related to this song, but it has a whole new meaning for me. My boyfriend died in an awful car accident a month ago, and this song hurts so much to listen to yet it makes me feel something on the days I feel nothing. I miss you so much babe, every part of my body hurts and I feel so overwhelmingly lonely the only thing I want is to tell you I love you again and hug you and kiss you. You didn't deserve what happened, not at all. You were the best man I've ever met. You taught me to love life again when I was at my lowest point, and you loved me unconditionally and thank you so much for showing me what real love is and always sticking by my side. I miss you so so much, not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. RIP Andrew😇💔 07/23/1994-10/27/17
@mimis1629 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss ! My grandma died a couple of years ago in a car accident so i kinda feel your pain. Be strong!
@andtheroadtorecoverybegins6290 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry
@whatsherfaceva1268 5 жыл бұрын
I’m really sorry! Wishing the best for you! My mom was disabled in a car crash, so I definitely feel your pain.
@deen2175 5 жыл бұрын
:') may Allah stregthen you
@miaglasford9310 5 жыл бұрын
I hope your okay😔😔I’m so so sorry😞
@spottedstar8332 7 жыл бұрын
I know probably one person will read this but did this pull anyone's family strings? Because this pulled mine. During the entire song all I could remember was when my mom called me a "mistake" when she thought I was out of range...
@licklebee 7 жыл бұрын
Spotted Star I'm so sorry. You're definitely not a mistake ❤️
@alex-vd4vm 7 жыл бұрын
I feel you..I feel that I was adopted and hated by everyone in my family and my mom also hits me
@madelinelegge1960 7 жыл бұрын
When I lived with my mom she used to be very aggressive and abusive and would constantly tell me how worthless I am so yah
@raqueljvrleal 7 жыл бұрын
BeTheRoseToMyDagger what? she Hits you omg i am so sorry did u try to Talk to someone about it?
@alex-vd4vm 7 жыл бұрын
+raquel leal no,im scared that my mom would actually kill me
@debbiekaren7058 3 жыл бұрын
Being in an abusive marriage for nearly two decades was the DEEPEST loneliness I have ever lived. It only took 6 months for him to quit “trying” (if he ever was) and filed the divorce after I finally started setting firm boundaries even while still committed to making it work... just not the parts that were no longer going to work for me. It took 14 months of grieving that loss - the loss of the illusion that there was ever hope - but even during those 14 sobbing months, I felt more love from within than I had in those 19 years together. Now I’ve met someone new, someone real, someone who respects me, believes in me, admired me and is worthy of admiration himself. A man of character and integrity. (Yes, they do exist!) You can walk away. You can live through the Lonely. Life is meant to be lived, not just survived through.
@LovesMike33 2 жыл бұрын
You're Blessed. Been through the same. No Guy seems interested in me. And I don't want to be alone. 😢
@debbiekaren7058 2 жыл бұрын
@@LovesMike33 That new guy didn’t last more than a few months. It takes a lot of time alone to heal and to learn how to trust yourself. And love yourself. Just remember you can’t give a gift to anyone if you don’t first possess that gift as your own. Learn to feel fulfilled and loved from within and from God. Then you’ll possess true love to give to someone new. Authentic self love is very attractive to others.
@hicheese1666 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the only 2 songs I have cried at. The line the really hit me was, “I’m the shell of girl that I used to know well.”
@hicheese1666 2 жыл бұрын
Literally everything you is me exactly
@jrmckim 4 ай бұрын
Hope you are okay
@emmaswan4673 8 жыл бұрын
Does this describe social anxiety or is it just me? Hell i can't even be myself. Too scared to even try.
@eschelar 8 жыл бұрын
The only way to beat social anxiety is to fight it directly. You need to find some small microgoals that challenge your comfort zone. The more you stay nestled in your comfortable comfort zone, the more you will reinforce your social anxiety. Time to break out of that shell. There are lots of channels to help you with this. Elliot Hulse worked for me. You need to break that shell because if you don't, *nothing* else will get you out of it.
@emmaswan4673 8 жыл бұрын
+CosmicVelociuKimty That must have been horrible! I don't really know how to help but I hope things get better
@eschelar 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the funny thing about problems is that you actually need to solve the problem with actions that have the potential to work. And then persist and work hard at it. There are actually many actors who started acting because they wanted to face their social anxiety. Guess what? It worked. They still have to struggle with it (Samuel L Jackson still fights with his social anxiety, James Earl Jones too) in spite of having found great success by working hard on the problem. When you have a problem like this, you need to find the right solution for the problem and then persist, keep going at it. Check out some motivation videos by Elliot Hulse. He talks about this specifically in some of his videos like "How not to give a fuck" or "how not to be a pussy" or "how to make other men respect you". Note that he does not advocate tackling insurmountable issues. He talks about building a pattern, starting small and working with attainable goals. I couldn't go to the mall and start singing. But I could go to a mall and say hello to people. I could go to the mall, buy some candy and share it. I might be able to go to the mall with a friend and do a "free hugs" thing - although that's probably my limit. However, after I had tried it a few times, I am sure that it would get easier. And that's the correct solution for the problem: find small goals that challenge your fears and do them one at a time until you have the strength for the next one.
@emmaswan4673 8 жыл бұрын
Dj Snivy I was always pretty quiet but that changed in 7th grade for me too. I began to be quiet and extremely uncomfortable around classmates and people in the hall. It was so unbearable that me and a few others began to eat lunch in the library. I wouldn't eat in the lunchroom because I was just that uncomfortable.
@eschelar 8 жыл бұрын
If you guys had parents worth their salt, they would have told you that this is a normal part of growing up. Things change as you grow up and you need to work hard to assert your personality. Youth is a time of experimenting to find the edges of your personality and the points that define who you are. This process is falling apart as we put too much weight on how we *feel* vs what we *are*. Everything worth accomplishing requires facing uncomfortable feelings and difficult challenges. At some point, you're going to need to learn how to push through them. Or like many other young people, you too will become a useless consumer sheep of no real value to anyone. Learn to stand on your own two feet! The time for that is *now*.
@wolfgirlinfinity9412 7 жыл бұрын
This the story of anyone else's life?
@chloedebulois9060 7 жыл бұрын
me
@jo2556 7 жыл бұрын
Wolfgirlinfinity Oddish mad* 😡
@chrisleon3639 7 жыл бұрын
me
@makiah4344 7 жыл бұрын
Wolfgirlinfinity Yes
@anniemazher1121 7 жыл бұрын
Wolfgirlinfinity mine
@user-kh8mr1rl4r 4 жыл бұрын
This song is so beautiful, I mean, look at the lyrics. It describes so many people's lives, and how they're having to deal with so much everyday. All of you out there, don't lose hope, things will get better soon.
@abdulahadfiaz9108 4 ай бұрын
whos' here in 2024 !!
@stampandscrap7494 24 күн бұрын
Me. Still on my regular playlist.
@selinazgherea1474 8 жыл бұрын
at day i laugh but at night i cry myself to sleep because my mom is depressed and she tried to commit suicide and its so hard and she tries her best but i feel so lonely. i wish that one day all lonely people become happy and not lonely anymore.
@tranminhchuong1303 8 жыл бұрын
Fighting!
@uwuningkai 8 жыл бұрын
Damn this make me cry
@whyuri_7 8 жыл бұрын
I wish I could do something for you, your story makes me wanna cry
@chinoredjuntima4331 8 жыл бұрын
😢 i hope so
@kikic.6950 8 жыл бұрын
I'm here. that's happened to me too. Kiara.Carrizales 4@gmail.com. email me?
@LiminalSpaceLover 6 жыл бұрын
This song speaks to me on so many levels. Like the empty room is my mind. The loneliness can be overbearing sometimes. It can get to be too much so I "dance". I've shed so many tears that I can no longer cry but in my mind I cry rivers. I'm no longer the same as I used to be. I wear a mask everyday so that no one can know or see my pain. I also sing everyday to keep all thoughts of 'him' at bay
@Mezzy.. 10 ай бұрын
If christina ever sees this, I just want you to know how close this song has touched me. I hope you are doing well now wherever you are in life, and that you created a piece of art that resonates with a lot of people. ❤
@sruti19jan 2 жыл бұрын
Loneliness looks like having tons of people around you to talk to you, take care of you, to love you, but none of those gestures reaching you, and you still feel alone, and alienated and unable to love back
@orlandonegron5311 8 жыл бұрын
It's actually sad how this song speaks to me on how I'm feeling lately I'm only 15 years old and I'm already stressing on what to be in life.... I wear this same mask everyday to keep everyone happy but really inside I'm just hurt.... I'm a nice person to everyone and give everyone something so they can smile but never gave back when I'm feeling down... I'm always isolated from my family and doesn't really bother trying to talk to them and create a bond with them. And when I try to tell them how I feel they just push me around and tell me to man up.... But that doesn't really help....
@orlandonegron5311 8 жыл бұрын
And no I'm not doing this for attention or trying to get likes yes I get it seeing comments like these can be annoying but at times people just want to share their story online because for some people for them feel like they can actually express their feelings
@ciellemarie6242 8 жыл бұрын
I totally feel like I can share with people online because they don't see you in real life... I hope things get better for you xx
@exoplasmicreticulum 7 жыл бұрын
You don't need advice. Just ...learn from it. You'll end up so much stronger.
@doltsaka9244 6 жыл бұрын
You and me are the same
@lilimiller2995 6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I stress out about life, too. Remember, you just have to live in the present, and cross that bridge when you come to it.
@willroycee 7 жыл бұрын
loneliness is a good thing. loneliness is always there when you need it and not ever leave your side and will not break your heart or ever get you hurt. Loneliness is my only friend because everyone else is full of shit. I rather feel lonely than have a chance at being hurt. If i'm not hurt, i'm happy. But when my heart stops beating, i'll be smiling.
@ceo-of-misamo 6 жыл бұрын
Roycee Prince same
@lilimiller2995 6 жыл бұрын
You seem very down to Earth, but just try to get some friends and be happy. 😊
@RueNakamura 5 жыл бұрын
@fun DIY you can be depressed at any age...
@flor1602 5 жыл бұрын
@@RueNakamura true
@flor1602 5 жыл бұрын
It's hard for me to just go to my friends and say,"ILL RATHER BW LONELY" Because I don't want to hurt theme at all so I stay with theme Does anyone feel that?
@panicasaperson2502 3 жыл бұрын
Depression culture is saying that you're lonely and thousands of other people saying "same", yet none of yall reach out to each other bc guess what? We all have anxiety.
@unerklarlichwaffle4869 5 жыл бұрын
Depression isn’t a emotion it is a state of mind that effects me every day. Honestly I am surprised I have made it this far.
@tiaratrotter9971 7 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else have to change friends every year because none of them are real friends?
@tiaratrotter9971 7 жыл бұрын
+Adelli well I hope you make one soon, and I hope i make one that lasts
@joeybuglissa 7 жыл бұрын
Tiara Trotter I only have two friends that I've kept (TRUE friends) and I've had them for five years. All the others... They leave after they get bored with my friendship. So... I have to get new friends every year in different classes, but I do have two really good ones...
@mitp5634 7 жыл бұрын
Tiara Trotter me
@tururucm12 7 жыл бұрын
Tiara Trotter same here buddy
@majesticwolf5653 7 жыл бұрын
Tiara Trotter ya but the only real friends I have are my animals
@emilianuotio6603 8 жыл бұрын
I remember this being one of the first songs that made me realize I had depression. I contemplated about showing this to my parents to make them understand I needed help, this song just made perfect sense as to how I was feeling about my life as a whole. I was depressed for five years. Now I can almost find the courage to say that I'm not ill anymore, after making it through the first winter without being depressed. Listening to this song feels very nostalgic and sad but it also reminds me of how far I've come. I just wanted to take the time to tell the people who are depressed and listening to this right now that things will get better. No matter how many times you've heard that sentence and how hollow it seems, I promise you that it is true. Have faith in yourself and the strength that is inside of you. ❤️
@cloudysystem3942 6 жыл бұрын
When I see comments like this, my tears turn partly to ones of joy and love. I hope one day I'll be able to find my way back to the light. I healed once, but depression dragged me back into its clutches.
@vianeyverde 3 жыл бұрын
My headphones are acting kinda weird. I can't hear Christina singing, but I can hear the background music. It sound like a bunch of quiet voices. It sounds beautiful as well. It's like she's trying to reach out to people, but they can't hear her. It's like "a quiet lullaby".
@vianeyverde 3 жыл бұрын
Got new ones. Earbuds instead.
@amna2861 3 жыл бұрын
I knew i loved this song the first moment i listened to it many years ago, but i don’t think i understood it completely and felt it immensely until i was diagnosed with severe depression. this is definitely depression, and the lonely expresses it beautifully. 🖤
@copyrightfreemusic7766 2 жыл бұрын
me too.stay strong dear .u worth a lot . bless u
@amna2861 2 жыл бұрын
@@copyrightfreemusic7766 thank you.
@oopsitsjordan1601 6 жыл бұрын
I used to be a social butterfly, but that was in first grade, and now that i'm in seventh grade i'm to afraid to get up from my seat to get a pair of scissors
@elitegamingandmore3723 5 жыл бұрын
oopsitsjordan I’m in 8th grade now
@pandapersonpandad4412 5 жыл бұрын
I feel the same
@samyrahossain7015 5 жыл бұрын
oopsitsjordan that is completely me
@sya995 5 жыл бұрын
oopsitsjordan that is so damn me
@Eli-qm5is 5 жыл бұрын
I feel you. I will literally wait an hour to use the washroom because I don't want to get up in the middle of class
@yoimea 7 жыл бұрын
I don't know if many people will see this comment. But, I just hope that you're doing okay. I know it's really painful to be said that you're not good enough, but it's way more worse if you, yourself, insult yourself. No voices are as mean as your own voice to yourself.
@laartjexx 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for that, it really cheered me up.
@cloudysystem3942 6 жыл бұрын
You're an amazing person, thank you for that. It took a long time, but I eventually learned to love myself. The only problem is that I still get hatred from others and now it hurts me double. When I hated myself, it felt like my spirit vs my body. Now it's just me and I feel more alone than ever.
@Outropluto 6 жыл бұрын
Thankyou this helped a lot i wish there were more people like you💜
@humphreyangh 5 жыл бұрын
It is true...nothing hurts more then your own voices in your head start to insult you...
@tavytt1493 4 жыл бұрын
Why i feel so relatable 😭
@mizumigachalifemusicvideos7139 5 жыл бұрын
The ones that always help you out of problems are the ones with the biggest ones. The ones that gave you all of them are the ones that have less. The ones that are always happy, when anyone is looking are the saddest one.
@dinhmieunambo 7 жыл бұрын
I hope you guys here will get better soon! 😢💖
@nguyentan114 7 жыл бұрын
U too :)
@iigirl15isbest82 7 жыл бұрын
All of us will dissapear :'(
@Jmonster267 7 жыл бұрын
IiGirl15 Is Best at least let yourself know that you existed by living the way you want.
@christopherbradley6532 7 жыл бұрын
IiGirl15 Is Best That's why we pass on our genes to our children. So a part of you would live within your descendants! I'm implying find a mate and do some reproduction
@3hotrachas 7 жыл бұрын
rb hudson thank youuu
@sophieturner26 8 жыл бұрын
This hits me hard. My best friend hates me. She was my only friend. And now I'm all alone...
@emahhincks3038 8 жыл бұрын
Don't let her bring you down
@sophieturner26 8 жыл бұрын
+Emah Hincks I'll try x
@rafaeltsar2332 8 жыл бұрын
me to :')
@cheofbowland 8 жыл бұрын
+Singingsophie99 Stay strong
@sophieturner26 8 жыл бұрын
+che williams Thanks xx She wasn't only my best friend but my girlfriend. We talk... But it will never be the same... 💔
@Della_B 4 жыл бұрын
The part "Broken pieces of.. A barely breathing story.. Where there once was love.. Now there's only me.. And the lonely.." It's making me cry
@haileyrenee1354 3 жыл бұрын
I forgot about this song. I used to cry to this in like 7th grade.
@JustStating1987 8 жыл бұрын
When you no longer feel anything and everything is paralyzing...then an only then you'll know you've gone numb.
@jelynvanessacardona6753 6 жыл бұрын
The Lonely" 2am; where do I begin Crying off my face again The silent sound of loneliness Wants to follow me to bed I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again Too afraid to go inside For the pain of one more loveless night Cause the loneliness will stay with me And hold me till I fall asleep I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again Broken pieces of A barely breathing story Where there once was love Now there's only me And the lonely Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again
@wietekeheeg8835 4 жыл бұрын
Listening to this after 4 weeks of quarantine....knowing another 4 are coming......yup I feel like this
@alderfire2028 4 жыл бұрын
;-; school just ended for me. I've always been depressed but now I just can't, cutting at 2 am, crying and not sleeping i just cant anymore ;-;
@alokchahar2054 3 жыл бұрын
@@alderfire2028 there is another 6 months (from the future )(Oct)
@Wendy-zd3rz 3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 8 months, how are you now? Hope you’re still hanging on and haven’t given up :)
@kierranichole683 4 жыл бұрын
Used to listen to this song every night and stay awake and cry until 4-5am. I was self harming every day then and was struggling with bulimia. I attempted suicide 3 times after I was raped. That was 7 years ago. Now I’m with my boyfriend of almost 6 years and we have a beautiful son together who turns 1 in 3 days and I’m getting married in 14 days. I haven’t self harmed in years and have since recovered from my eating disorder. It does get better. I promise 💙
@erin1099 8 жыл бұрын
Song actually starts at 0:33
@yolenmy12 8 жыл бұрын
bless u
@quiayratreadwell8042 7 жыл бұрын
Project FYERBIRD thank you soo much ♡
@chrisleon3639 7 жыл бұрын
Yes Bless your soul young child
@clevelandawhite5419 7 жыл бұрын
Project FYERBIRD
@DW-yy1bl 7 жыл бұрын
*t* *h* *a* *n* *k* *y* *o* *u*
@reshan9203 6 жыл бұрын
Christina Perri is so talented.the song truely represents a wounded soul with a bizarre beauty of sadness and loneliness.her voice can stirr up the emotions
@ingridrucita 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I just feel the urge to listen to sad songs for no reason. I don't know why
@copyrightfreemusic7766 2 жыл бұрын
me too.
@kimchichu7715 3 жыл бұрын
Hey you, the one who's reading this I know u feel alone I know you feel sad I know you need someone to talk to but no one to trust I know you feel weak I know you feel depressed I know you feel like it's okay if you die, no one will give a shit I know you feel like losing and gave up I've been there No one to trust but need some one to talk to about this feelings I talked to God, I pray every night, I told Him everything, and it feel.. lighter, my shoulder feels... Not as heavy as before Just try to pray and let God helps
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