Why You're NOT Here to Belong.

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Why You're NOT Here to Belong.

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Ай бұрын

Discover why you’re not on the planet to belong and what you’re really meant to do here, as a Lightworker.
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💥 What belonging is.
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@ChristinaLopes Ай бұрын

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@eve3056 Ай бұрын

Wow, that explains a lot! One of my favorite Quotes: Why fit in, when you were born to stand out (Dr. Suess)

@websurfer5772 Ай бұрын

Perfect avatar for this video. 😊

@London_Gray 28 күн бұрын

This is a powerful video. It hits on so many key points in my life, starting from age 5. I always felt like an actor in a play, even with my own family. Now I dont think Im going crazy. I love the feeling of belonging to myself, and that not being excepted anywhere is okay. I feel stronger, and its a true game changer for me. Thank you

@chrissybilleiter Ай бұрын

I just quit my job of 10 years last week to start living authenticly. Going to raise my children with a strong connection to the earth, her energy, and spirit. Not an easy road, and people I know may think I'm crazy, but as Maya said, the rewards are worth it. I'm also learning to activate my merkaba through Drunvalo's writings. I want to remember everything and be a guiding light for those also standing alone. 💜✨

@chrissybilleiter Ай бұрын

@@LimitlessMagic777 I would definitely say you're the lucky one. Take the opportunity to figure how to make money doing something you enjoy. I don't have anything financed, have low monthly bills, and have a years worth of expenses saved in preparation. I don't know exactly what I'm going to do, but I'll be trying different ways of making money off my land (herbs and tinctures are where I'm starting). It's a little scary as I've never not worked a typical job before, but I'm trusting my intuition that tells me I am on the right path.

@theoriginal7727 Ай бұрын

HECK YEAH!! so much love to you. It’s the right choice.

@taylorfruge5633 Ай бұрын

Sending you so much love and support!❤️

@lindatallon9217 Ай бұрын

I am unapologetically myself.....all day........every day of my life....

@tina74166 Ай бұрын

Me too ~ @lindatallon9217 🙂

@lsisak7651 Ай бұрын

Yes it seems as if I am an alien at times. I was not meant to fit in that is for sure.

@lucieledoux6789 Ай бұрын

I don't understand at 64 still don't know why I so keep trying to feel loved and belonging somewhere in this world.

@lillimol Ай бұрын

It's so difficult, especially if you were raised to be a "good girl*, like I did. I am 32. I know I think differently from most people and there is absolutely no group I can feel I belong. Yet I still try to constantly fit any group's I end up in energy so that I can please them or avoid confrontation.. not sure if that helps, just felt to share it!

@angelagoodwin5758 Ай бұрын

@lillimol I can attest to the unhealthy effects of being a "good girl".

@colleen2b Ай бұрын

I can relate. I'm in my 50s. I believe I am worthy of love but no one can see that

@websurfer5772 Ай бұрын

@@lillimol You're really right to link being a "good girl" to a feeling of belonging. Society's been telling us this all our lives. Even "bad boys" say they want to marry "good girls."

@ProZarobitok Ай бұрын

Never thought I fitted in in my home country or family. Was abused probably because I unknowingly challenged the old templates as a child. I’ve spent many years trying to fit in, but the discomfort of NOT being authentically myself became greater than the discomfort of not fitting in. It’s a strange thing unless you’ve experienced this. It’s a feeling when you can’t pretend to fit in anymore and the only way to live is to be yourself. I learned to take care of myself, and feel comfortable being along. This all reminds me of when Jesus said “I am not of this world" in John 8:23, we are not supposed to belong because we are not of this world, we come here to challenge the old, and most people are uncomfortable with change. I’m looking forward to becoming stronger and learning what new templates I’m carrying into the world. Blessings to all of you on the same journey ❤

@joannmoorebreathtolifecoaching Ай бұрын

I am in the sixth decade of life on this planet, and, honestly, have never felt like I belong here, have never "fit in" (particularly with most of my own family) and have been doing my best just to carry on, not absorb other people's energies while still serving and aiding where possible (because it feels good, not because of other people's opinions of what we "should" be doing). It's been an interesting ride! Thanks for the video! It's something to watch again. Blessings! 🙏

@stacyr6573 Ай бұрын

Same here

@sagebay2803 Ай бұрын

same!

@blueturquoisett8448 Ай бұрын

Been in hermit mode for a while now, stopped trying to fit, I am learning to accept my role/purpose ❤

@arpinehunanyan5930 17 күн бұрын

Same ❤

@TrueSelf1111 Ай бұрын

I am standing ALONE. All pieces of myself.

@danimurnani Ай бұрын

this has been big lesson for me... the more I understand mySelf, the more I feel I don't belong to anything or anyone in society. My guides told me recently "you're not meant to fit in... stop trying"

@fezbork Ай бұрын

I think the first song I ever heard in my life was Pat Benatar "We belong to the light...."

@justmai5078 Ай бұрын

You just described me 2:49: Being told I need to belong caused me a lot of suffering. Thank you 🌸

@lauriewhitlow5506 Ай бұрын

That's crazy! I woke up around 3am. I had this dream/ vision that I was not of this world. I wrote about 6 pages. Then you are on my feed and have this message. Thank you. I really appreciate all you do ❣️

@CHARLENE_WYATT Ай бұрын

I totally agree with you. This is true for me too, I am not made to belong and it brought me so much unnecessary suffering to try to. Thank goodness I woke up and realised who I am! Xxx

@FractalSoul1111 Ай бұрын

If you feel like you belong here, then you are still heavily immersed in the human experience and persona. To not only feel, but to know this is not your true state of being; nor is it your true place of being. Many people have this detachment in today's world because, whether they realize it yet or not, they are here to awaken and remember.

@taft7877 Ай бұрын

I love this! 😘

@Els-ku9np Ай бұрын

It's all about authenticity. This gives others permission to be themselves, and so little by little changing the world. The internet connects all of us so we don't feel like we are alone. Thank you for creating this!

@Astral106 Ай бұрын

That's me. Trying to belong and being like everyone else is what causes all my pain and suffering growing up.

@rockymtncampergirl641 Ай бұрын

as RJ Spina said “quit trying to fit in, you weren’t meant to stay!”

@callyoop1186 Ай бұрын

I so agree! I have never really felt the need to belong, in fact i feel way more at ease and happy alone, with nature and beauty and amazing things, i get my love. When I'm driving alone I'm at peace enjoying all the wonderful beauty of the day and i get joy seeing things like horses running in a field etc. Thank you!

@jdeburen Ай бұрын

At some point I stopped blaming myself for not fitting in and also stopped judging those who wanted to. I like many others have come to usher in a new reality that is a true paradigm shift, one rooted in love and authenticity.

@tina74166 Ай бұрын

@jdeburen Totally feel the same~ It's ok to stand alone- anyway-if need be~😊

@user-xd2iq1ng6p Ай бұрын

Just be the unique light that you came here to be and shine bright🌞.. Be you ❤ love yourself. You are magical and powerful ✨️ Enjoy! 🎉 Love you 😘

@tina74166 Ай бұрын

@@user-xd2iq1ng6p 💞

@sebastianornowski333 Ай бұрын

I've never felt like I fit in anywhere, also I've lately realized why I act a little silly and quirky around people, I'm doing it intuitively to raise the vibration in the room. Thank you 💕✨

@DebbieB2023 Ай бұрын

I've felt that way my entire 66 years. Over the decades I've sought out groups that seemed to have people I thought I might "fit in" with. I've always pondered things that it seemed, no one else did, even as a child. I had a hard time even bringing myself to attend group gatherings of any sort, even if it was something I was really interested in, be it of a spiritual nature or a passion, like trail running or hiking. If I'm even able to get out of the car to attend, (many times I just can't and I attributed it to being a loner)...but I've gone to places I thought might hold some key and I'd belong....I don't. I simply find it very hard to fit in. I never do feel any sense I could fit in or belong and sometimes I might feel sad, but mostly I don't. The only thing that's changed now days is I don't necessarily feel like the outcast or misfit ...I rather like who I am and the fact I don't need any group, people, club to make me happy or give me a sense of purpose and I don't do social media at all, it's just not me and that's good too and better even, I believe. It took a lot for me to go through Reiki and becoming a so called reiki master but I only use it on myself and distance reiki to people. I mostly use reiki on animals and on people crossing over. I could never use it as a 'business' and take money for it. The word, Tribe, ...I thought oh now I'm supposed to have a tribe? I don't..and I don't really think any one needs to belong in a tribe either. It's okay to just be who I am, even if I just do my own thing...

@leroidelanuit Ай бұрын

Hi Christina, I must confess something: I went through a very painful dark night of the soul that changed me completely. During this transformation, your videos kept popping up out of nowhere, as if they could read my thoughts. As usual, I questioned them just like I question everything else, especially that they used to match each state i am in. But when I got exhausted from seeing all these painful transformations combined with nothing but disappointments and more struggles on the actual ground, I decided to close the door on spirituality and started calling it the "la la land." I began working on myself emotionally and mentally, not believing in spirituality anymore. Yet, I cannot deny the cycles I see. I cannot trust or believe in them anymore, but they are there. Also, I cannot deny that i miss a core part of my energy that i am eager to have it back, my radiant spirit. This has lasted for more than a year now, and your videos stopped popping up until a couple of days ago. This video appeared, and I tried to ignore it many times, but in the end, I surrendered and decided to watch it. Guess what? Again, Every single word you said matches my current state. Even the books you mentioned, I have read them. Honestly, I am not looking for belonging anymore, despite feeling a loneliness I have never felt before. I am seeking stability. I need to feel some security in order to shine. We cannot thrive in survival mode. I hope that soon all the obstacles will be resolved, and I can spread my wings wide to the wind again.

@divaren9467 Ай бұрын

Hahhahahahahaha it feels like reading my own story, sorry I have to laugh, cause now I know I'm on the right path. Her Vids found me and once I was fed up with spirituality believing the universe isn't there for me anymore her Vids sort of disappeared. Now that I'm gaining back trust in the Universe and in myself, my growth, her vids are back on my "sight"

@openyourmind3763 29 күн бұрын

I feel the same way about Christina's videos...I am pretty practical but open, and it seems like these videos pop up with the exact content I need to hear. I have listened to a lot of folks over the years, and Christina stands out as among the most attuned and genuine.

@ChildofGod98765 Ай бұрын

Me too never fit in. Lord I come to you asking for your blessings as a single mom because I’m raising my children with courage, despite the challenges I face. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Lord give me strength as I struggle to pay my rent every month and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children I’m ashamed Lord help me. I ask that you bless me with your wisdom and guidance, as I navigate parenthood on my own.💕💕

@Leesie77 Ай бұрын

I hope one day you might be able to change the focus from speaking about struggles and giving them attention instead to accepting the lessons in those struggles and speaking your power and energy into more positive ways. Thanking God for Him guiding you and giving you those lessons to walk through so your spirit strengths as it becomes bigger. Speak as if it’s already happened, been provided and experienced. “Lord, I thank you for those lessons even the smallest of them while I’m on this beautiful journey on this earth with you always beside me. Thank you for always making sure my financial obligations are already fulfilled ahead of time. Thank you for reminding me that it’s always in Your timing and not mine. I’m humbled by your presence, kindness, grace and easy forgiveness. I ask you Lord that you continue to help me grow in your unconditional, pure, raw, easy, powerful and gentle love so that I may know you more everyday as I learn to know myself as well.” When we change the simplest way to simply speaking from having the focus switch from what we don’t have to what we do have just from a solid knowing it will happen in the future because we have belief and faith and living as if we already have what we are lacking and have experienced the experience of it already. It creates space to allow it to come into your life. Positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative. Be present in this moment, not the past or the future. The past is gone and we can’t change anything about it, the future isn’t in this very moment it hasn’t happened yet. Both past and future can cause stress that is unnecessary and keeps your attention stuck either way rather than focusing your attention in the here and now present moment. Keep going Momma, you got this. You ARE enough! You DO matter! You DO belong! You are ALWAYS exactly right where you’re supposed to be in this very moment! You ARE valued! You ARE worthy! You ARE beautiful inside and out! You ARE loved! You ARE perfectly created to be exactly who you are! You ARE already whole, never broken (our spirits (the truest self) is powerful, pure, perfect and whole). Have a beautiful and blessed day, week, month, year, decade, lifetime ❤❤❤

@antoniapushparaj Ай бұрын

Na tato, na mata... Indian philosophy🌹 I am...Who I am! I was there, I am here and I will be🙏 I am one with the Cosmos... Great insights Lopes🙏🙏🙏

@shreyatarot Ай бұрын

Yes just to accept that you don't belong to certain places and being with my authentic self. I don't want to fit anywhere where I don't belong.

@rebecca_stone Ай бұрын

This brought me the peace I needed tonight. I tried out NOT shaming and pressuring myself over failing to 'fix' this perpetual outsider feeling. And it's been such a peaceful and nurturing few hours. Thank you!

@deborahluikes6348 Ай бұрын

Brené Brown is one of my most loved guides here on earth. Her work helped me so much, I do not even have the words to discribe it. Maslows hiearchy of needs also my top human need system. So, this is by far one of my favorite video's of yours that I have ever watched. I find this video to be 100 % spot on. I'm at my most true authentic self when I have no expectation or need for belonging and belonging becomes a byproduct or a "nice to have" while I'm fully being my authentic self. Through my spiritual awakening, I now know what Brené meant with, 'We are all inextricably connected'.

@andrearenee7845 Ай бұрын

The path of the Indigo. 😇🥰 Peace to you.

@noora853 Ай бұрын

This video came to me when I needed it. Love you Christina I also truly believe that the topic of belonging often gets filtered through a human-centric perception, where society becomes fixated on the human experience and neglects the vast, miraculous, and magical natural world. We are surrounded by powerful living forces, such as the intricate communication system between trees through their roots, and the complex lives of ants, birds, whales, and other wonderful beings. Even the powerful weather changes and the energetic vibrations they carry are part of this natural wonder. There is so much divine intelligence in this lifetime and many teachers who do not embody human form, from whom we can all strive to learn and connect. Much love.

@deannamadrigal7503 Ай бұрын

Yes, I know I came to hold space for mother Giai as she has gone through her planetary transformation. I now live completely immersed in nature. I love how you talk about these things so understandably. Thank you Christina I'm 64, coming into this knowingness and my life is so easefull and beautiful these days. I'm blessed and super grateful for where I'm at in my life now. It's been a rough road to getting here for sure.

@nanasabia Ай бұрын

Dear one, the kind of life you are describing is the one I am striving for..what are your advices from One woman to another? I lost the partner who would support this kind of life and don’t have one who would now. I tried alone but it is to hard. Any supportive ideas? 🙏

@rdhawke Ай бұрын

I’m not a joiner…as an HSP I prefer to be alone or only with one other person at a time. This works for me extremely well. During the eclipse this past April 8th, I was blessed to be somewhere I could be completely alone. Not a cloud to be seen, horizon to horizon. I laid in the grass put on my eclipse specs and reveled in the experience…I wept w 0:03 ith the beauty, joy and magnificence of creation. Another click on my bucket list accomplished. 😎👍🏻 (I’m not unsociable though. I just don’t fit. Didn’t someone once say to be IN the world but be not OF it?)

@lindatallon9217 Ай бұрын

I am an old soul....an indigo child....a queen....royalty...

@jbgoth Ай бұрын

That happened to me. The merkaba. Everything about me shifted. I now live with a quiet mind, love for all and connected to the Universe. Blessed

@minniemimi88 Ай бұрын

Wow, I grew up fascinated by the beauty spots (or moles) on my body because, if I connect them with a pen, they form triangles.

@AmeliaRomero-le7jf Ай бұрын

You belong you helped save my life during my awakening with your videos in 2020-23

@LeandaPringle Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! I am entering stage 3 and I can physically feel what you are describing here. I shifted one day when I walked into the elevator at work with 4 men all dressed similarly and I clearly stood out. Usually I would cower to the back and feel uncomfortable but I didn’t this time. I was completely amused and I realized that my purpose was to be a ‘glitch in the matrix.’ It was so liberating!

@DouradaBambina Ай бұрын

❤Love this ❤ this is a temporary illusory home. We never gonna belong here, thank God! No one deserves to live in duality for eternity ❤

@inadhara Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. My father always says to me: “why can’t you just be normal like everybody else? You should’t try to be different at all times.” Well, I really tried being normal. But it just didn’t work out. I was just always different. I was bullied in school and my dad said it’s no wonder when I am this way. I have now realized that I was just forced to be around the wrong people and at the wrong place. I am now grateful to have a supportive community around me where I am valued the way I am. 💜🦁

@websurfer5772 Ай бұрын

You're explaining why I was shut down my whole life.

@deastover898 28 күн бұрын

Omg thank you so very much for this!!!!! I can’t even begin to explain how much I have suffered from thinking something was wrong with me because I have never felt any connection with people. I have never had any close friends or even family except my mother and brother. My kids have always been my focus but as a single mother. No partner has stuck. No job has lead to attachments. No one has ever excepted me my whole life. At 44, I realized I had two people that understood me. My mom and next door neighbor. But I can live without them too. I have dreamed of having a home of my own and not need to see anyone else if I don’t want to. But pipe dreams are what that is. I take care of my parents and daughter and grandson. I am a total people pleaser and peacemaker. ❤

@Ascending_Leo816 2 күн бұрын

I feel better alone to my thoughts. And when engage in tve world I feel like im under a magnifying glasses burning holes through me in judgment. Peace ✌️ to all that are feeling not connected. Love you all. ❤❤❤

@kathleendrake6500 Ай бұрын

Humor is healing at end of video it was funny when you sang video is over. Radiate love, detach or un-attach, shed or let go of old beliefs or programs, become FREE to love and belong to self, and awaken or ascend. Let your light shine or let your cleansed Merkaba light grow. I no longer want to hide my light. Yes. I want to be Template Changer or I call it just making a difference in the world. Yes. My identity, purpose, and path or journey are becoming clearer each day. Humor, light-heartedness, or becoming open rather than old ways were serious, dense, and ego or negative thought matrix driven. My whole being feels lighter and I am emanating or shining more light and Christ-Consciousness. Feeling excited, hopeful, and energetic for 1st time in a very long time. The light at the end of the tunnel is me finding my worth and belonging by finding my purpose and identity. The veil or covering is being removed. My authentic or true self was there all of the time. It was just hidden by the programs of family, false friends, culture, jobs, or the matrix. I am letting go of people, places, and things which no longer serve me. Interesting the mystery is resolving itself slowly, but surely for me. Thank you for your wisdom, mastery, and guidance to ascend. Gratitude, compassion, and connection is increasing. Love and light.

@sippingsun Ай бұрын

YES 🙌🏼 Thank you for this teaching, @ChristinaLopes ! As I’ve been navigating my spiritual awakening, I’ve been acknowledging the People-Pleaser within me who has served the Belonging Committee for decades now. With love, compassion, and respect, I encourage her to retire so that I may perform the work for which I am intended. For about 3 years now, I have been distancing myself from family and narrowing my Friend Zone (not that I’ve ever been one for many “friends” because when they’re aligned, I pour my heart into them) so drastically that it’s pretty much just _me_ now staring into my own eyes, my own being, and truly finding the connection and “belonging” I’ve sought outside myself this entire lifetime. I SUN·SCRIBE to these words: “You don’t need a “community”, you just need to commune with your Higher Self.” ♥️ xxMeryn

@darlashaw1061 Ай бұрын

OMG!! You've clarified the confusion of the past 72 years. Thank you!! I've learned just recently to accept myself, good, bad, dark light. Very freeing!

@Spooky_Psyche Ай бұрын

Brene Brown has an entire book about learning to belong to yourself. It’s called “Braving The Wilderness.”

@carolmonez4955 Ай бұрын

I also since childhood never felt like I belonged, or fitted in with anyone or anything! As I grew up I accepted who I was. A loner and friends were their only when we got together. My own parents seemed not to accept me as family as I became an adult! They are gone and so is my brother. Not accepted by my brother was a doing by my dad, making sure he could get a argument going between us, then sitting back and watching the separation happen between us. He did this with my Mom also. I love who I have become and love Mom and my brother. As for dad it still sparks a trigger in me at times and have been working on me to let go.

@larinlifecoach Ай бұрын

So true, and for this we are many times cursed..not understood. But aas said...i belong to myself and God..inside me.

@malunachow Ай бұрын

Exactly the same I discovered about belonging. And my experiences give me many proofs for that true.

@BohoWarriorYoga444 Ай бұрын

wow I can so relate. Always have felt like I don't fit in anywhere. Different in every way. going through the loneliest Time in my life right now. No family. I am getting restless in existing this way. Need to get that mercaba powered somehow!

@katararose8724 Ай бұрын

Square peg in a round hole. Yep, that's me! Where was this explanation 60 years ago?😂 Well, now I don't feel so weird. So, that's what's wrong with me, or right with me. I'm dyslexic too so either one will work😂 Thanks for the explanation. I love when puzzle pieces fit together!❤😊

@Joey-be8eh Ай бұрын

You’re right. The hierarchy of needs also isn’t a hierarchy because you can get all those needs met at any point in your development.

@TarotWithDelilah Ай бұрын

The ending of this video is priceless 😂 Such a timely message ❤

@dr.ada-adamichalweinsteinp6709 Ай бұрын

One of your best videos for me.. As an Israeli Jew psychodramatist that works with Merkaba... and more, you gave a great explanation .. you gave me the chills 😂 thank you sooo much 🙏🏻

@sourabhabhat8145 Ай бұрын

Damn accurate.. I always adjusted, kept others as first priority now iam trying to come out of people pleasing or fit in phase❤.. It actually gave me peace

@coolbreeze5683 Ай бұрын

When she said it's not the longing to fit in that causes suffering but the pressure to feel like you should long to fit in that causes the suffering (I'm paraphrasing), that hit the nail on the head for me! I've always felt like that my whole life. I loved my alone time and I felt like I experienced and reached moments of bliss while making discoveries in my own life. What caused issues in my life was people telling me what I should want and about how horrible loneliness is. They were projecting their feelings on to me. They might have felt lonely but I loved my solitude.

@AB-ko9en Ай бұрын

This lesson that you shared was so intense I had to watch little bits of it three times. I had a session with you five years ago after my daughter passed over and my divorce and you told me if I don’t follow through with my ascension my daughter would stay within this loop, and of course the open heart chakra. I did everything you said and today’s lesson is brilliant. I have a dream of coming out to Portugal and being with you and the group someday.❤❤❤❤

@melissasmuse Ай бұрын

A few days ago I legit was meditating and heard the word merkaba , then visualized it around my body. Insane synchronicity!

@Julieber1 Ай бұрын

Christina, I’ve tried to force myself to be normal, like everybody else belong part of the 3-D world. But when I realized that I couldn’t fight, and opress the feelings of the intense need to be an anime girl, I knew I didn’t go through this world. I also had noticed the hotter I tried to belong my true authentic feelings, inside of being and feeling liking anime girl the more painful it got inside. Nearly trying to fight it and run from it. You killed me a few times in this body. It’s not just an intense need to be an anime girl, but I also feel like one and feel the soul of an anime girl. So I figured that I must be a Starseed/Blue Ray that’s the only thing that makes sense.

@unicorntears6514 Ай бұрын

Since my spiritual awakening in 2020 and feeling the love the exists beyond my human comprehension, I no longer feel that I don’t belong. I am one with the earth and everything that exists and there’s nowhere that I don’t belong. I no longer need to seek human love or acceptance, I’m exactly who I should be and I’ll allow the universe to continue to guide me ❤

@nathaliecordell2609 Ай бұрын

This resonates so deeply. I've always struggled with belonging for as long as I can remember. Even though it wasnt necessarily painful, I often feel like an outsider, even in my family. Before I watched the video, I was thinking to myself: "I do belong, I belong to myself and I belong in the world". Little did I know that Maya Angelou, whom I love, said it!! Thank you so much for this video and helping me reframe this natural feeling. ❤

@lenaeliss Ай бұрын

its just semantics, it is really connection and relationship, could be with a person, an animal, nature, God , objects etc. When you say you don't belong here ,meaning this planet there is still longing that you are a part of/connected to somewhere else, bigger, omnipresent and eternal, so literally still belonging somewhere, even to this spiritual community😇

@user-kh9xj3hz3m Ай бұрын

Thank you Christina. Your gift for articulating this truth is very helpful. ❤

@yhys6793 Ай бұрын

I couldn’t agree with you more. What you said is absolutely my whole life experience.

@missbb5432 12 күн бұрын

omg...so glad I don't belong... never have... never cared... as a result, life has been blissful...I've always had a sense of who I am and whose I am... yay!!

@megblackwolf5470 Ай бұрын

I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. I've always been an outsider and lived as a bit of a hermit most of my life. I'm 37 and going through a bit of a dark night of the soul. It has me questioning myself and my life's choices but I have no alternate way to be. It's left me feeling a bit trapped. I have lost many many friends due to my deconstruction of Christianity and pursuit of alchemy. I have one friend left from my old life. I've lived in forests, on mountains, in wild, remote places. I connect with nature. I talk to trees and plants. They are my friends. But thank you for this because it gives me courage on my journey, to embody this person. My greatest fear is I will not fully be myself in this life. Thank you.

@taft7877 Ай бұрын

Absolutely agree with this!! Since I was a child, I didn’t feel I belonged to my family, I was not emotionally attached to any of them and I was okay with that. I have friends but I don’t need to see them all the time. I’m perfectly content living my life and don’t need to belong anywhere. The one issue with this is that spiritual teachers tell us we need to find our community. Well, I haven’t needed community before so why do I now? I absolutely believe some of us are on the earth plane because of soul contracts but we originated from a place where community isn’t emotion based, but functional based. I can get along with anyone, but I don’t suffer fools or BS. Thanks for this video.

@tanii7813 Ай бұрын

Every word in your video gave me goosebumps. I am speechless ❤

@Donz168 14 күн бұрын

Good to know many of us felt this way. Since a child Ive always felt like i didn't belong to this earthly realm. Thanks for your insight.

@alicefelice_ 23 күн бұрын

That is exactly I have always felt " not belonging to a place, society , community". I belong to me and my soul. I never accepted the belief that "belonging" to a society, place, group is a "necessity". No it is not . I am a special edition (and each one of us we are) and I do not need to belong a place. Love Maya's qutation "The price is high, the reward is great". OMG as well Maya just mentioned " I belong to my self. I love my self" Yes lady !!! Thank you Christina. I have started to follwo you just two days ago (and I am inmy awakening process since a bit more than 4 years) and I have saw many YT videos and have listened to many podcast of yours from your site. This is one of my faves.

@LittleThao Ай бұрын

Thank you for this timely message. I always feel like a rebel at heart. I hope my merkaba activated soon so my blueprint can come online!

@EShadowmystic Ай бұрын

This video resonated with me, and I really needed to see this viewpoint. I have never “fit in” like you, though I kept trying. Now, I realize that I was never meant to. So freeing! Thank you! You, Christina, Michael Singer, and The Law of One have changed my life.

@traveler7929 Ай бұрын

I lol’d because probably the most uncomfortable I’ve been in a group setting recently was at the Portugal retreat last year. Definitely felt like a misfit there, but it was very interesting and enlightening and difficult on many levels. I’m very comfortable where I live and with the work I’m doing and have a handful of my soul people here. I wish the same “home base” to all other misfits.

@kwalla2429 Ай бұрын

This is very freeing. Thank you.

@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Ай бұрын

First of all, THANK YOU! I've been in a bit if a funk for a couple days and this message helped brighten my day. Secondly, for me, it's not so much a need to belong as it is I just feel lonely and isolated because I simply don't resonate with the people around me anymore. I can relate, as I remember what it was like before my awakening, but to live in a world that thinks they are awake when in reality they are still dreaming, is weird and lonely at times. My only comfort now comes from meeting others online going through the same thing. I share my journey on my own youtube channel hoping it helps others on their journey.❤

@tina74166 Ай бұрын

@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife I just want you to know that your words on a few of your videos did help. I did subscribe, and I know it's very challenging and often frustrating too---having a small YT channel-I have one too. It was 3am here, when I woke and found Christina's wonderful video. I was feeling very alone in my thinking. I actually love being alone, and hardly ever feel a feeling of loneliness, but it sure is nice to see that so many here are so like-minded. So, I send a big THANK YOU, Big HUGS, and lots of love to both of you! Hope you can FEEL it! 💞🤗🤗💞Actually, this goes for everyone here, and I'm hoping to read each comment and hopefully connect with more! That would be amazing!!! 🙂

@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Ай бұрын

@@tina74166 Thank you, it feels good to connect with like minded people. I will check out your channel too ❤️

@tina74166 Ай бұрын

@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Thanks sweet soul. I was still very tired when I left that comment (I did get some sleep) and I realized I wanted to say more. For one, you & your channel are awesome! You speak with such clarity & insight and I know you will be reaching the right target audience, when timing is in divine order. So please, keep it going! It's all normal to feel as you do. My purpose is more through my 'Spirit Writing' (Automatic writing as they call it) so most insight & inspiration are in descriptions, under in Vlog.. 🙂Been taking some time in silence since my B-day, and hoping to feel inspired real soon to discover what's next. (I've had to reword my comment--hope it still makes sense. Hehehe)~ I hope we can stay connected. I would love that 💗

@tina74166 Ай бұрын

@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Seems, I'm not able to say more to you in this comment- sweet soul. Thank you and I hope we can stay connected💞

@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Ай бұрын

@@tina74166 Thank you for your lovely message of hope. I, like you, feel the most important thing we can do is stay true to ourselves and encourage others to be authentic. That is how change happens, within each person first. You can leave comments on my videos too, I just monitor them and approve them to keep the trolls at bay. I've had a problem in the past with internet bullies so I'm more strict now. Happy Belated Birthday my beautiful friend ❤️ Namaste 🌅

@zirelis 8 күн бұрын

Thank you for explaining it so clearly. Now I understand why I am the way I am. Have no need to belong any longer. In my younger years I often wondered why I felt so different

@omnipotentone5628 Ай бұрын

My soul is here for an adventure, an experience. Make the most of it, be serious when you have to, and be silly when you can. None of us are getting off of this ride alive, lol.

@dianegriffen2756 Ай бұрын

Just... thank you.

@psychedelicartistry 11 күн бұрын

As long as you love yourself and who you are, it is better to be alone and in good company than to not be alone and in terrible company. We are indeed social animals, but I focus my efforts on lining things up for a better life where I am more likely to meet people who align with me, and try to keep my closest friends at a count of one hand worth of fingers or less.

@alicedegreef8371 Ай бұрын

This absolutely resonates for me. I feel like this since I was a child. Never fitted in, feeling different than others. Always feeling like a watcher. In Human Design I am a Reflector and that is an exact match with what you are explaining.

@InnerKnowing777 24 күн бұрын

This brought tears, knowing that am not alone and that I belong but to myself was the best revelation. Thank you ❤

@pamchesler242 Ай бұрын

You just accurately described the way it was when I was back in high school. I always felt like I didn’t want to be there other than the sports that I chose to play and I actually enjoyed the education part, but I couldn’t stand pressure to be popular to be in a certain group, it’s like a little microcosm of the entire world. It’s that’s where we learn these things and I never fell like I wanted to be a part of a group other than the entire collective. I never felt that I needed to be a part of a group I always wanted to be an individual to be myself to be genuine and much of that Became silenced as time went on because that is and was the general collective way of being everything in our societies geared towards the opposite it’s geared towards playing a role that doesn’t really feel genuine, but you play along if you want to be accepted. When you reach your point, where you just don’t care about being accepted by anyone else but yourself that’s when you feel free….

@Artemis583 Ай бұрын

"True belonging is the spiritual practice of believing in and belonging to yourself so deeply that you can share your most authentic self with the world and find sacredness in both being a part of something and standing alone in the wilderness. True belonging doesn't require you to *change* who you are; it requires you to *be* who you are". ~ Brené Brown, Braving the Wilderness 🩶

@SacredSoulHealingArts 28 күн бұрын

Oh look someone explaining my life 😂 I’m so thankful I got comfortable with myself and loved myself through it all and now I help others do the same. I often joke that my center is like the island of the misfit toys. We all seem to gather together and create that safe home space for ourselves and each other through our sisterhood circles. It’s interesting you mention the Merkaba bc I use that regularly in meditation. Thanks for sharing these gems of recognition ❤

@websurfer5772 Ай бұрын

My natal chart says I'm to go it alone, but it also says that this is rare. Thanks for this video. I have similar feelings as you do about this. "The price is high. The reward is great." ~ Maya Angelou - Whoa.

@melodymerritt8419 Ай бұрын

belonging is also know as "fitting in". And we are not here to "fit in". We are here to expand our love and wisdom because we are particles of god, and that's what happens when we incarnate on earth. At least that's the aim. Love your channel.!

@Marty22408 27 күн бұрын

My god, this is the first time someone actually described me. I always felt different. Interestingly, I never once thought what is wrong with me,I just thought why am I so different. At the same time, I always wanted to belong, especially with my friends. My whole life, I was living in a kind of war with myself, always going against my feelings, just to align myself with others. I am now sure this is why I got breast cancer. I brought the stress on myself, but in my eyes, it is positive to know I was at fault, because I am in control now. When I look back at that period (four years ago), this is when I slowly started my spiritual awakening. This was also when the whole world broke down and I started seeing things exactly how they are (I was always sceptical of certain things, but I was asleep on so many other things). My friends are completely asleep and I no longer vibe with them - I feel anxious whenever someone contacts me amd I feel calm when I don't hear from them or see them. I really do not feel the need to belong with them anymore. I am learning to be comfortable wherever life takes me, I now know I will be okay. I have a happy marriage and I am also now learning to not depend on my husband for my happiness, I am on my way to feel happy on my own too, so I feel I am growing and my marriage is growing. I started meditating daily and I feel full of energy now, I am much more calm even in usual daily situations, work etc. My mind is racing with new information, knowledge, but at the same time, it is calm. I have recently discovered your channel and I love it, you already answered some of the questions / worries I had. Looking forward to explore more 😊❤❤

@linvisions24 Ай бұрын

This makes so much sense to me now…I have felt this way since I was a child…

@tarafaulkner Ай бұрын

I just love the golden Buddha analogy. ❤❤

@brendadrew834 Ай бұрын

Thank you Christina, I feel better already! lol I've always felt like I haven't fit in or belonged to any one particular group! Now, in my mid 70s, I'm also beginning to feel "I belong to myself"! I also feel I belong more in nature and with the beautiful song birds i.e. messengers from God, angels on Earth, that come to my feeder! My favorites being the red cardinal which was my dearly beloved late mother's favorite bird and the little cute chickadees here in New England! Blessed be~♥🐦♥

@TheKirkneal Ай бұрын

I am a 1st wave Blue Ray. I belong everywhere yet nowhere. Belonging to the tribe(s) on this planet in this current timeline occurs to me as quite scary as humans can be such barbaric savages. At the same time I remain very social, useful, loving & contribute as I can to others given my extreme empathetic nature & purpose here. I’m here for a bigger reason hence my tolerance for those who are victims to the regressives hell-bent on destroying & controlling all in their way. Thank you Christina, 🙏K

@marie-claudenicolier1867 Ай бұрын

Totally agree with you. I had always feel that l do not belong here and to no one, nor even to my parents nor my 2 sons belonging to me. Happy of listening to your vidéo Christina.... 🙏🙏

@Fromsoulcomesspirituality Ай бұрын

As if your work didn't help me enough during my awakening and lost days... It just keeps getting better

@cmw3791 Ай бұрын

I also love Mission Impossible. Let's rotate this Merkaba. ✨✡

@anastasiadmuhovska5207 Ай бұрын

Thank You, Christina, you help me so much! 💚 I listened very carefully to everything you said in video, and I felt such a burden from my heart. At first I fought with myself, tried to understand what was wrong with me, and then I accepted myself and live the way my soul feels. Now, after your video, everything fell into place, and I understood a lot. Thank you very much! Again and again!! Because of you I find so many answers on my questions. You are precious diamond in this world, and you have deep and kind eyes.✨ Everyone, keep finding light! 🌞