Let this be a lesson to all women. Never tell your current man your ex did things better than him, he won't be able to get it out of his mind.

I spit out my juice when he said The dogs don’t judge him and they listen 😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Wow... women need love when they're least lovable, men need applause when they're least deserving 👏🏾 judge Lynn

At least I could get a coach bag🤣🤣🤣. Lawd have mercy🤦🏾‍♀️

I think she probably is one of those gals that belittles him to the point that he can't respond to her anymore. He lost that loving feeling🎶🎶🎶

"MARCUS!!" sorry I had to say it he reminds me of him from why did I get married and Angela is always yelling or hollering at him "Marcus!!"😂

I can watch Judge Lynn all day everyday. She needs a new show

this is interesting i miss the real life cases because the new episodes are just drama and ppl that want tv time😔

her EXES couldn't be that good, bc they're no longer with her... LEARN already bc your husband is about to be an ex too... loll

"Women need love when their least lovable and men need applause when its least deserved" so true that's why I love this show. I can't say that I have been following your advice but I need to.

He works for himself so child support can't be taken out of his check and it's hard to track how much money he makes. Why would you marry someone who has such a heavy financial obligation?

When someone compares you to an Ex simply ask "Then why didn't you do your damnest to stay with the Ex if they were so great" and forget about it! When a woman says she expected more financially, and the man has several kids he's paying child support for, and he wasn't banking before marriage I simply shake my head, and know they aren't dealing in reality.

I don’t understand how this woman can treat her husband like he’s a piece of crap and EXPECT him to warm up to her. What if he did those same things to her? She knows damn well she would not be in the mood on demand as she expects of him. Men have feelings too!

"I love them cause they don't judge me" 😂 that's EXACTLY why dogs are man's best friend

Sex isn't a cure all when the relationship is having problems. !My ex did the same. Wouldn't listen and belittled me. it turned me off sexually. I started sleeping in the extra room. I eventually just left. Not going to stay where I am not appreciated. Heard or respected.

What Lynn Toler said about men and women it's so true. Men are socialized to not own up to their shortcomings. While women are socialized to own up to their shortcomings even if those short-comings don't really exists. Men apologize too little. Women apologize too much.

It made me sad hearing him say she belittles him. The sadness in his eyes, nobody should feel like that. If it was the other way wrong she would be rolling

Love classic Divorce Court. The new ones are ok, but ain’t nothing like the classics.

When she stop paying the rent and bills he did not want her anymore. 😒

She knew he had kids to take care of

the man has four children that he has to take care of soooooooo I'm not sure how much financial support that he can put into the household and be able to afford his wife the nice luxuries that money can buy.

I watch this show way to much but it's so good

I think this couple has a few flaws but nothing to divorce over. Stop comparing him to your exes, and start banging again 😂

The million dollar question that every couple should've asked themselves is: WHY DID I GET MARRIED?

She complains that he's not making her feel desirable, but she also takes every chance she gets to belittle him. It goes both ways. If you don't make your man feel desirable, he's not gonna want to have sex with you even if he does find you attractive. More women need to understand that

He don't want that girl no more.

I hope they get it together because their problems are not insurmountable; all it calls for is some give and take and improved communication; which involves both talking and listening.

Judge Lynn , you’re beautiful🤗. Please spill the beans on your eating habits, exercise, and skin/hair care routine😎...I’ll listen 👂🏾

Her: You feel like my brother not my husband Also Her: He got 4 kids..I dont have any Pay attention to the subtle red flags

He ain't listening, something else going on...I would love to see updates on these couples.. would be a good learning opportunity

He lied... he’s not attracted to her anymore 🥺 he talks real slow & seems like he has a hard time voicing what he thinks...😒 & I hate when people say “you all ways do ___” that leaves no place to go

This Woman , Lady , Judge! Is Too Much, I Love Her. And I Can't Stop , Help Feeling That She Is A Great Role Model For Woman , Who Needs That Love And Support. And That Sterness , when you acting a fool.!!!! Peace And Blessings

She has no children and you don't even want to give her one? I could never marry someone with four children. I would feel guilty that I get the short end of the financial stick. He acts like he is the woman in the relationship smh.

Some men and women only get married so they can be comfortable and treat their partners wrong. If you don’t show up when your wife is sick and ignore her when she needs you the most and she has to beg you for love then your love did change. No one should beg their partner just for a hand hold 🤦🏾‍♀️

Dude just be honest and say you’re no longer attracted and stimulated by her 🤦🏾‍♀️ Save us all some time talking about stuff that’s relevant but not really. Sure, she shouldn’t compare you to exes and she’s probably a nag BUT you know damn well that’s not why you haven’t touched her in FIVE months!!!

She is carrying the weight. So when She got sick, he could not take up the slack. He is dependent on her. He has four children to support. Essentially, she is taken care of him and subsidizing his children's care.

Judge Lynn broke that thing DOWN!!!!

You never ever compare your Guy/Woman with your Ex

It's wrong to compare your husband to your exes and it's just as wrong to not want to share anything with your wife and make her insecure. At least she acknowledged her behaviour and said she'll change it. He was constantly denying all wrongdoing. You can't tell me that he couldn't have told her politely to not compare him to her exes. He seems like the guy who bottles stuff up inside and never says anything about his feelings and expects people to understand everything. They both need to respect each other more.

I think they relationship will end because her comparing him to her exes is a deal breaker, and if it's been 5 months it's just a matter of time before he dips off...he loves the dogs more than her....

He only with her for financial gain he probably can’t even afford to live on his own paying all that child support.... she needs to step Naw Sis Run 🏃‍♀️

She's impossible and refuses to see what the problem is. He's telling her you damaged hi ego

If the exes were that great than that’s where your ass would be. He seems to be more worried about the dogs walking out of his life than her. I don’t see this lasting it seems like no positive emotional connection

Uhhmm... I dont know...but he's gives me some questionable vibes...He needs to be honest with her about some things...Ima let it go right there...😳

Let’s get some words/phrases out of our vocabulary for the sake of building healthy relationships: ALWAYS NEVER EVERYTHING I DESERVE

First and for most you don't ever compare your spouse with any ex. That is a disgrace.

He doesn't seem all that. And the women who go for guys on child support, should accept the fact that he'll never be rich. He's a whiney little boy.

I wonder how she would feel if he verbally compared her to other women..especially how they look what they do..what if he belittled her. we have to treat others how we want to be treated. simple things..like today i told bae how i appreciate how he checks on me..little things go a long way.

Emasculation never works! I thought we were old enough to understand that. He might as well be single because I'm sure he can get that feeling from everyday life! Smh🤦‍♀️

Step out the “I feel zone and do the right thing.”-Judge Toler I love it! So hard to do. Hopefully he’s still attracted to her. I think he might not be

Comparing your partner to your exes is pretty cold. If there is something your partner doesn't do that you like or were used to receiving, there is a right way and a wrong way to tell them that. Don't say "my ex did this better", say "I really like xyz and I would like you to please do that." It's not about your exes or past experience, it's communicating what you both enjoy and what feels good.

The Wife should have known better than to marry a man with 4 children who has a job "spinning signs" 😩

I need to know the medical condition because 82 pounds in 6 months is wild

He has 6 children and Momy and Dior needs their daddy!! 😭💕

Loving someone and being attracted to them aren’t the same thing. I’m sure he still loves her, and not saying he can’t be attracted to her glorious curves, but if that’s not what he is attracted to, then he needs to say that cause he took forever to answer that question like he was trying to say the right thing not the truthful thing

Ex ! Comparisons will get you divorced

Moral of the story; don't judge and you can get a tummy rob. 😁😁😁

Love this... get your coach bag girl!!!!!

sounds like mental abuse...that's hard to get over especially coming from your mate

I think he no longer wants to be with her 5 months he's lost interest because he don't even want to try

OMG SHE IS A HUGE TURN OFF. that man deserves better.

He’s cheating. Period.

I wish he'd just say he's not attracted instead of dancing around it..

The man was trying to say that the woman still has her exes phone numbers.. That is wrong. Secondly, you compare your husband with your exes, it means one day, you will revert to them for emotional or financial help.

Her comparing him to the exes was a factor of her not feeling wanted our loved during her crisis... similar to a woman having a baby and her man being turned off by her new size. It sends us into depression.. she crossed the line when she openly compared him though. She should have just told him how she felt and want she needed, not what somebody else did.. As for him, he should have really supported her through her trauma, and she still living with parts of it and it is causing her mental anquish (her new weight). She needed a lotta loving during this time. This dude just mooched. He was with her for easy sex and a place for him to stay and a place for his kids to visit cause God knows he cant afford to pay child support for 4 kids, and a place to stay that will accommodate them.. He thought she was gonna let him ride out doing the least. He wanted her there for him and his kids but he couldn't be there while she was sick and thought body changes which turned her insecure then hurt then angry. THEN he got the nerve to blame her for making him feel bad, but he doing everything to make her feel bad and dont wanna see that he is the catalyst. He is terrible. She says his kids, cause he makes sure to care and support his kids while she is left with a ghost of a husband who won't even hold her hand. She loved and accepted him flaws and all, buy he couldn't love her through her flaws cause I dont think he really loved her cause true love would have seen the hurt and need in the eyes of their lover..

He slow as hell

He's hiding something and using that as a coverup to make it her fault

😬🤨🤣 Not one of those ex's asked to marry her. Do she work it takes two in this day.

Can't wait to see this classic episode of Divorce Court

Judge got him good. "Oh so you said right here on this form that women are more emotional so men lead and make decisions? I don't agree with it, but why don't you act like it?'

I miss joe 😊

I hope this man is doing okay

'i feel like he's not attracted to me anymore'. I wonder how he was in the first place..

Judge Lynn was cut and dry, and saw the situation clearly. It's unfortunate but not impossible to unlearn the unproductive ways we communicate with the people we love. I hope they lean into change and love, and not resist it with "He did ... she did" back and forth.

That woman doesn’t plead her case by comparing her husband to her ex’s! She should talk to her doctor about her weight condition because her weight problem will take a toll to the rest of her health. My daughter gain 70 pounds because of her medication in a matter of 5 to 6 months and she felt miserable. With a change of medication, a better diet and lots of exercices she returned to her initial weight (135lbs).

To the wife: He's your husband, not your Dad. He is not the same person, nor was he raised in the same household! My Mom did that to my Dad for almost 25 years, & the other 3 men she was married to for a very short time. It's also hectic for any children you may have through time. I know! I was one of 4 kids who had to deal with Mom's behavior.

Judge be dropping Jewels

This case is sad he feels belittle. She should not compare him to her ex. But you dont get married for the sex😯 an then say we dont do it because she does not like wat he is doing

What should be ask if he compared her to his exes how would she feel?

Is it just me or does it seem like he's still not saying whats really going on, it seems like she might have called him the ex's name during there "wrestling"

I think she really does belittle him. So bad to compare your partner with your ex. I mean there’s a reason they’re your ex and not in the picture anymore.

I'm surprised he stayed that long 🤔🤔😅😅

5 whole months!!! Come on sis can't be that naive, he's not touching you he's touching someone..... weak ASS excuse he keeps trying to push he should've went with she gained weight and he's not attracted to her any more,would've been more believable than that B.S he's saying........ he seems to me that she isn't his type (she has the wrong body parts)....

This woman complains....but she is not only unattractive but she is also criticizing him all the time. What does she expect???!!!

He's just no longer into his wife and she doesn't get it.

These people are Sweet. They are both intelligent and they love one another. They are right for one another.

Dude got to just come clean

THERE IS TOO MANY EXCUSES FOR WHY MEN CAN'T EXPLAIN HOW THEY FEEL YOU'RE NOT A CHILD YOU'RE A GROWN ASS MAN IF THEY CAN EXPRESS CHEATING OF THE OTHER PERSON AND HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT IT THEY CAN SIMPLY EXPLAIN HOW THEY FEEL ON ANY OTHER DAY OF WHATEVER CIRCUMSTANCE IT MAYBE 😑 IT'S ALWAYS SUBSIDED FOR THEM AND ONE SIDED 😒.

She may be funny but im sure she belittles him every chance she gets.

If you put "nice things" first, you possibly loss your dwelling

, let me get this straight they've been together nine months as husband and wife and they don't touch each other the whole X thing makes sense because if you can prayer your significant other to your ex that's a turn off at least for me having said that you have to be comfortable within yourself you don't need that man to be happy I happen to like my woman heavy as long as it's not all over the place and you're healthy then you can be as heavy as you want

is he worried about seeing her dogs?

So. If she's paying the Bill's guess what????? She goin to have an attitude of entitlement. Hes not attracted to her because hes not the head of household she is. It's simple.

Parents stop telling your daughters a man will provide for them, the man that loves them will, you wouldn't have to beg or stress, however taking care of yourself is sexy and beneficial to your mental health and esteem.

Umm no. She needs to leave him. He isn’t even answering the questions just dancing around them. He has other stuff going on and needs to take care of his kids and get a real job

0:22 oh my 😮

@vincent, I totally agree

She got a good man.But she gonna clean him out

This man is so immature

It happens sometimes.