@Rene S hit the nail on the head!!!

@ She could then date a younger man. Lol

@Rene S *DID YOU WATCH THE SHOW GENIUS HIS EX WIFE NO 1 IS HIS AGE AND SHE SAID THE SAME THING 🤧🤨*

Brittany Norris ..I Feel You & Agree But People Treat Us Like We Allow Them Too . She Must Learn To Stand Up For Herself If Not People Are Going To Always Run Over Her.

@@sallysharp4126 *EVERYONE IS A PROBLEM EXCEPT THE B.W 🤨😂😂😂 JESUS CHRIST YOU CHICKS ARE PATHETIC 😂😂😂 SHE'S LIKE COME ON GIRL BECOME A SASSY MOUTH NARCISSISTIC POS AMAZONIAN LIKE US AND LIVE FOR DRAMA 😂😂 I REPEAT NOBODYYYYYYYYYY WANTS A B.W IN AMERICA*

In that order

Amen

I think he was laughing because was her expressiveness and him not understanding the depth of what she was saying. Like his understanding was so shallow that he couldn’t get past that.

Without empathy, he's a humanoid. No feelings. It's all about him. He needs to go. She needs to be free of that nonsense.

Damn u don’t rly think every narcissist is evil or has the intention of being evil 😒

YASSSS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Maaaaaan. She needs to tell all the abusers in the world about themselves!

This works in sooo many cases, relationships, parenting, friendships and so on... really love that quote

@@DerEisenhammer And l think it hurts way more than a stranger because that person is getting hurt by someone close to them. “It makes her feel that she's less than by the one person in the world whose opinion matters most to her.”

Absolutely

The best lines I heard

She’s a free spirit he doesn’t deserve to be on her path.

He’s evil. This is my third comment. He’s disturbing me with his arrogance. She’s an angel. I’m praying for her liberation and that her innocence be protected. He’s not supposed to be with her. I hope she reads this. Leave him!

my mom was divorced twice and married 3 times shes a great person.

@@kennedicampbell8505 It's more the fact that he was given a second chance to make a marriage work and just blatantly disrespected her

She is gorgeous she can do better

Yes.

I’m 22 and I get terrified if I’m flirting with someone I find out is 18-19. Been burned too many times by the youngins

True

I've dated younger and I've dated my age and I can tell you the person my age was more immature than the younger ones....you can complain about immaturity and it doesn't mean it's because of an age gap.

Ronni, here rather a narcissism or NPD is a problem not age.

Not being able to focus or being disorganized, sounds like she might have a touch of adhd or add. Also low self-esteem. Or she could have some type of disability.

YEAH AND RHATS WHY THEY ALL NEGATIVITY WITH THEIR WVABUER WHEN THDEY AN THEM BRADS IN THE HAT WHEN HE WENT 😂

@@face1647 Lol My guy. She doesn't have ADHD and my sisters and myself and my brothers have ADHD. She doesn't show a single symptom. ADHD is much more than just disorganization or focus or anything it's much more serious.

@@Fallerin Have you researched candida? My son was diagnosed with ADHD. When you get a chance research it. Candida is a fungus (yeast) that can come from being on antibiotics, birth control pills, too much sugar in the diet among other things. Can cause yeast in the gut to be unbalanced. Kills off good bacteria. Bad bacteria increases and becomes fungus and puts holds in the gut. Which causes leaky gut. Research leaky also. What's in the gut gets into the bloodstream. The bad yeast, food particles and so on. When she mentioned crone's disease, it clicked. Do any of you have sugar cravings?

@@Fallerin Not diagnosing, just information I've learned about.

I pray she gets more confidence in herself and gets someone who truly loves and respects her 👍

Omg I am just like her personality wise and my hubs is a serious man too but not that bad 🤬 I wanted to slap that fucker for her

If she wants one.

Agree!

That means nothing you just attract a no good man quicker

She is 27 yrs old and a mother. She's not a "girl"...she is a grown woman

@@xochi8560 she looks young though and sweet.

@@xochi8560 first off I said girl cause I wanted to clearly see 👀 she's a grown woman duh 🙄

you do know they are actors.

She is, but she needs to either dye her hair black or bleach it again.

Okay🤦🏿‍♀️

So if he didn't promise to love, honor and cherish her, what DID he vow??? They must have been in lust. I see no love there.

​@@fancybrooks3156 if he is a narcissist he understands only lust, not love or marriage. maybe he prepared special vows: 'you will obey me, give 'narcissistic supply' and worship the ground i walk on.' They will make partner fulfill their marriage vows but have millions excuses not to do it by themselves. They see marriage as form of one sided slavery, to serve them. narcissists manipulate, and at the beginning do 'love bombing', 'mirror' victims behavior to perfection. He could make her feel she met a soul mate, a doppelganger. she could genuinely fall for him, believe, trust, love and cherish.

He sounds like a Narcissist.

LMAO!!! I almost fell out my seat. He's a bit petty.

Space1TV .!. Fine where?? 😂😂

nikki kelly 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Space1TV .!. He look washed up

nikki kelly Dear you are most gorgeous

Very I was Like woah whaattt😍

i see many narcissistic traits in his behavior, story. narcissists are cowards, select for victims kind, emphatic, also young, inexperienced, vulnerable people.

I don't think it's the age factor because his ex wife is about his age and still experienced that. It's mostly on the personality basis

He did the same to his ex wife though. I think he just likes trying to control women and he found someone who can pick on (regardless of age because there are women older with the same tendencies). I don’t think they age helped though

@@marienguessan8520 yes it’s very so much personality, but he’s also a predator as narcissist typically are. He tried it with a woman his age sure, but he also figured he could pray on the vulnerability of a young 21 yo BLACK young woman to project and exert his power and control over and was able to get away with it for 6 years, even succeeding in tearing her self esteem down. So yes age very so much has a lot to do with it. Why else do you think older men seek younger women?! It’s because of their lack of experience, vulnerability and easily to control.

@@TRene-up9zq I'm not saying age is not a factor but it is not the primary factor nor the most prominent one. How long was he married to his ex wife?

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Nailed it 👏🏻

Very Charles Manson-esque

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She's out of it. Didn't you hear what was said at the end. She's looking forward to the new chapter in her life.

Whiteboys exploit everybody and if you dont understand that its your problem

She is fine woman, he is so narcissistic, he is wrong for any wife. no partner will satisfy him.

He sounds NARSASISTIC

@@RG-iw7py So happy she got away from him he was beating her up emotionally

Yeah he is a a hole but if your can find dunb ass women and run them so be it

​@@jjblack4905 narcissists are master manipulators, really it's difficult to recognize them because they do what normal people do as well only with them it's repeated pattern of certain behaviors. they pray on good, kind people. also well educated, professionals who can listen without prejudice. look up 'narcissism red flags', sam vaknin, joanna kujath, Vital Mind Psychology, Michele Lee Nieves Coaching, dr les carter ... it's a lot of knowledge but once these women will learn what are they dealing with they will see how predictable their partner is

@@RG-iw7pyYou are right they are predictable as hell that why it was funny watching him you know exactly where he is going

I don’t feel sorry for the Ex wife!! She’s right there by his side. 🙄 She needed to be over there with the current wife!‼️

They normally get good women to scar for life

This right here…😞🥺

I don't think his ex wants him back

Calvin McDougle @ all

No but he needs a haircut.

Your right people like him need a dog , dogs are very obedient.

He needs a dog

He doesn’t deserve one either

Lol. She should put the onion on him

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That’s funny!

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Only Caribbean people write the sound of sucked teeth, but I'm going to guess you're Guyanese and/or were raised by them. I'm from a small idland myself

No please. Im from barbados

@@ashlei9522 its not about his hair...its about his attitude... And his attitude sucks and is verry controling...

LOL

And he thinks it is funny to say "all her personalities" about the Cybal comment. What a jack*ss

Jazzy Jeff Real Talk because he’s always “right” he has two divorces on his resume.

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 facts 💯

Right fighters never win

WusPopN Mane? When you get married it’s BOTH of your property. You buy everything together so when you split everything is split. 💁🏽‍♀️

Exactly

Except that she's the stay at home housewife?

Exactly, so he can find a reason to put her down. I bet he is still waiting for that $7 bill to get paid.

@@heyryanisonx3141 Just because she is a stay at home mum doesn't mean all the house duties and responsibilities fall on her. You do what you are good at. If he makes the money and knows she forgets to pay bills, he can simply take over the responsibility of paying the bills.

@@rachelpaul28 my thoughts exactly.

@@rachelpaul28 Jesus Jesus

This case is an example of what is wrong with many white women's notion of feminism. Push comes to shove, they will be standing right next to the wrong often yet thinks he is always right, white man. For this reason white women and their bootleg whitened feminism may get on down and away from me.

Michaela Dale her connection is still with him not her. If they divorced she still has to deal with because of their children. She never have to see her again if they split up

@@fp2361 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 boo preach it louder to the people in the back!

Ok you got a 7.00 bill pay it

He has to be in control and it’s not what you say it’s how you say it. He married a younger lady and she may have issues. But I’m sure he has issues himself

Women are always attracted to guys like this. It's obviously not his looks ?? What is it ? Maybe he's an "asshole", and there is an attraction to that.

@ stfu clown.

Kevwe Tony imagine still grouping human beings into a group just because they’re black 🤣

Sunflower please go read some books instead of hearing a new word and applying this man is nowhere near being a narcissist

YES HE IS! After awhile my ex narc never wanted to agree to disagree. I didn't know that was the beginning of the end. Whether its actually narcissist, I'm not sure but its definitely TOXIC behavior.

True

you hit the nail on the head. He is ok working with special ed students because it makes him feel superior. He has no compassion or empathy for others.

I believe they said her EX boyfriend was the comedian (as sated at 6:10). He appears to be a lawyer. But yes I agree with you on all the above characteristics!!

Thank you :c I was looking for this. I’ve been living with that for a year and a half now. It really is hard, we can start completely questioning our abilities to function and to reason through things. The more time is spent questioning our reasoning skills the more they get diminished. Because even when we are able to reason through something well, we start doubting ourselves and think that we are probably wrong so we try to correct it and think too hard about it to the point that nothing works out in the end. It’s not only that the delivery might be condescending, but also imagine someone keeps telling you how to do EVERYTHING. That means they don’t trust in your ability to do anything at all. It feels like we are entirely unreliable and completely lack any kind of agency. At some point, we don’t even want to try doing anything anymore because we know we’re not gonna be allowed to complete it without getting that look of disappointment/distrust. So we never get the chance to prove that we learned anything or that we are able to do something at least. It’s almost like living with someone who is constantly looking at what you’re doing and judging every step, every move, every decision, everything you do. It’s this feeling of being constantly watched. The worst is that the feeling is not only a feeling, it’s reality.

@@mariamaalouf2138 Hey!! I’m sorry you have to deal with that . Hope God (or whatever you believe in) equips you with everything you need to leave that horrible situation, and be great .❤️💞

@@Gnabaj02 I appreciate it ^^ yep hopefully I'll be moving out of there In a year or so. I just still can't believe Julia was able to deal with this for almost 6 years. I hope she is feeling better now that she is no longer living with that.

EXACTLY! And what does he do to uplift her? He said he used to a year-and-a-half ago, what about daily? SMH

Yeah, he’s not trying to help her though. He is abusive.

that's sad

I AGREE

I love how after the Judge gives her ruling Megan hold her head n shoulder high n just walked.out the room without even looking back..great move this man is a.fam MORAN point blank period argument dunn

Very true💯

RUN FAST I'M SO SORRY I DIDN'T KNOW

😢 god don’t like ugly he will reap That ex who think she won will too

LOL!!!

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HAHAHAHAHA this is too good!

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Rozell Vousden not petty petunia 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I'm shocked

Why she's not getting a divorce.

i was dying when i heard that, i was like, "isn't the vow the most imposrtant thing in the begining of a marriage ?" xD

He said that... WTH some people just don't want to see themselves as wrong

Goal Digger His child and apparently she’s the only one that pays the bills and car payments. She also brings love to the home which is something he can’t do.

She’s 27

True

True

Yes ADHD marries narcissists

Exactly he just married her so her could control her

poshpearls23 he’s a FOOL!!!!

Uh uh smh

Exactly hot mess ❤

I’m happy you left him, too

I hope I can get out with all of the whits I'm left with. 11yrs and I've almost become too exhausted to shower anymore.

he is a white boy what he cares

​@@jjblack4905 narcissists you will find in every nation, group, creed.

Cool ass name 😆

@@jjblack4905 there's men in general who are like that

@@nicnic6703 thank u

Lexie D 🤣

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lol

Huh? .. don’t gone somewhere? But, yeah toxic!!! ‼️

@@thesun-N-moon8885 like "don't go on somewhere" I think. It got me at first too xD

Because he has no respect for his current wife, and still has love for his past wife.

Kemisha Anderson narcissists don’t how to love anyone! Especially other than themselves...

@@bw_locked_in_arms_globally5732 Tru

I am so sorry ..I had Friends have Crones..God help please!! I can not describe the pain & discomfort i saw them suffer!! At least on the Job..everyone was nice & supportive!! It could be anyone! Stress aggravated the Disease!!

And even when he does he still doesn’t listen that the crazy thing and you can tell because all three women in that court spoke to him his failures and he refused to accept it

I think the illness is what incapacitates her from seeing her full potential.

​@@creating1_c1999 it could be psychosomatic illness caused by him. immune system is affected by prolonged stress.

He won't. It's more ammo for him to degrade her with.

Exactly, like pay the bill yourself 🤷🏼‍♀️

If the genders were reversed I bet you would say she needs to leave if he can't pay.

@@sugarplum2467 Nope. They have the money. She just isn't paying the bill.

Sugar Plum lord I swear the slow ones always out themselves where you come from with this cause you make no sense

Yep!!

Solves everything!

Exactly. I was like if she isn't doing it/remembering wth are u not🤔🤦🏽‍♀️

Goal Digger 😂😂😂😂 he can make his own..not as well as I can, but his own none the less.

Kathy that's so typical for narcissists :D

He looks like Dorothy, from wizard of oz.

@Jon Harris funny lady

He has kids with the ex, so I guess she can't totally go away-- but she shouldn't have come to court with him. No reason for her to be there really.

Cosmic Giraffe yup!!!

Yes I saw it too.

Yes I caught that too... he's a very controlling devil ...and can't admit that he is the cause of his troubles period..glad the sister Left his dusty behind 🤪🤪🤪the judge hit him hard and she saw straight through his lying behind ‼️‼️‼️‼️

I had to go back and see it again, and your right he did it ...smh

Oh my goodness so true

That's country culinary lol my mom does the same thing

Haaaaa😂😂😂🤣 lol I can't stop laughing, it's soo true

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And he meant that!

narcissist married vulnerable, kind woman to control, abuse her. he could cause her number of psychosomatic illnesses. he cares for his needs only, not hers, not her well being.

Yup. I heard that too. Reiterating what her therapist says to her is just down right mean. This poor young lady never stood a chance with him. I can’t imagine that he ever loved her. Just knew she’d be easy to manipulate

you still have to run it down to the dummies out here

​@@jjblack4905 dummies? knowledge about narcissism, NPD isn't as common as it should be.

She did say she has health issues

And its crazy how he taught special ed but can't appreciate that maybe she didn't have a good teacher who could have helped her with those issues so he should be. Its disgusting to hear him say, "I don't have patience for adults" when someone of his profession should know better than anyone how many adults didn't have that help when they were kids & WHY special ed teachers are so important.

@@OSMRDucksLIB more like how man adults have Autism, the the function as a child in an adult body

to me it sounds he is a narcissist, controls, emotionally and psychologically abuses her affecting her immune system, possibly causing psychosomatic diseases. please look up 'gaslighting', trick used bu narcissist to confuse and abuse his victim. see 'red flags of narcissism'

He is HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!! PRAY SHE LEAVE HIM FAST!!!!

Well unfortunately she has to because they have a child 😭but I pray she finds her self worth and confidence to stand firm for what she deserves

Yup

Asshole smh

he's a piece of work

Yes he did

to me he looks like a narcissist, or NPD person

look up 'narcissism red flags', sam vaknin, joanna kujath, Vital Mind Psychology, Michele Lee Nieves Coaching, dr les carter ,,, :) ba amazed, amazing and well educated

No man on Earth can denounce and belittle his woman like a good ole white man. Women seem to think it's attractive especially black women. Years ago when I was a kid I heard a white man tell his wife who was a black woman to shut her dick sucker lol we were in line at Kroger she looked so humiliated my lil brother and I laugh our ass off.

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Lol exactly

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I think that's what the ex-wife wants

Wife #1 is beat down too and now she finally feels good because he’s just using her against his 2nd wife.

I dont think she want em either

They might as well reconcile, their still one flesh for life. The 2nd so called marriage is adultery anyway.

​@@sheranda77 if he is a narcissist both women aren't married at all. person with NPD does not get idea of (unconditional) love only lust will really understand. in his eyes marriage is a way to tie some woman to him, make her fulfill marriage vows which he is not going to respect at all. he may mimic behavior of person in love, do 'love bombing' but he can't process what love is really about.

to her yes. his narcissistic behavior could give her various psychosomatic diseases affect immune system by prolonged stress.

@@RG-iw7py I feel like they should just work it out and realize that they have different mindsets

@@naomireber256 Well, in case of narcissism as 'Narcissistic Personality Disorder' it's not that easy. See what about narcissists say: Michele Lee Nieves, Dr. Les Carr, SoulGPS, Joanna Kujath, and many more. They do abuse others, have no conscience, are compulsive liars, are charismatic manipulators, etc.

@@RG-iw7py yeah I guess it right but u know she kind of needs to step up a little bit...I also feel like he should step up too...she was definitely hiding ssomething tho because she looked so scared

Being with a narissistic partner can and does make you physically sick. Her illness is directly related to his verbal, mental and emotional abuse. It's very insidious and devastating. And it's clear that her self-esteem has been severely affected! Bless her heart....she needs to leave and get away from him as soon as possible. She needs time and space to heal her spirit, soul and body. He is dangerous...smh he isn't even listening to the Judge.

Hexanbeast 💀💀💀💀💀😂

I don't even know what means but it made me chuckle😂

What's a hexanbeast? Sounds like my sister.

@@lonelyronin2428 Hexenbiest comes from a TV show of 2010s named "Grimm" (which was a very good show) and used as a German term to identify a type of female Wesen who are witches. The male version is a Zauberbiest.

K Y-H But no face tattoos! The braids are Willie Nelson all the way!😁🎈⛄

K Y-H 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🥃🥃