How to be classy | For Black Women

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My online style and color consultancy service is finally up! If you want to hire me as your personal style consultant just head over to www.cocoastyling.com/
Remember, if you just have simple questions about my videos just post them here in the comments or dm me on instagram
Hello, welcome to Cocoa Styling, a place where you can find styling tips for dark skin women. This video is part of mi dissecting styles series.
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How to style your body shape • How to Dress Better | ...
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I’m a certified stylist and a fashion designer as well as a woman of color, and my job really helped me out figuring some things out and I would love to help you guys as well. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to comment down below or DM me @cocoastyling and you’re also welcome to suggest video topics.
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@nakkie326 3 жыл бұрын

1. Less is more 2. Always dress for the occasion 3. Avoid skin tight clothes 4. Avoid spandex 5. Don't show too much skin (relative) 6. Invest in basic color pieces 7. Wear the right dress size 8. Wear the right jewelry 9. Watches 10. Learn to walk in heels 11. Always do your hai 12. Keep your nails in good condition 13. Wear the right make-up 14. Wear your colors 15. 5 minute no makeup makeup look 16. Etiquette and manners (listen to the video) 17. Smile (listen to the video) 18. Turbans (listen to the video) 19. Wigs (listen to the video)

@maamedansowaa1520 3 жыл бұрын

🤗

@Abbyyena 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@Phinanollytv1 2 жыл бұрын

I have listen 🎶 to the video and I like it 👌 I need to be seeing more

@goddesson.youtube6793 Жыл бұрын

💕💕💕

@AtizayFantezi_Art 6 ай бұрын

Skin tight clothes is all i have 😭 i have no natural curves i neeeeeeeeeed.

@latajanee4410 3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad I found this because I’m trying to dress class and not boujee. That’s a cute style too but I’m getting older and trying to make a wardrobe that I won’t have to replace every few years

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad!

@beautifulqueen748 3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that

@MissDopeful 3 жыл бұрын

Girl!!!!

@indigo6485 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you on that

@maxinefowler1186 3 жыл бұрын

My Mother taught Me this. I guess Mothers don't do that anymore. My Mom wore a mink coat to go shop for Groceries. I am Black, and I went to work for the World's largest Airline. Next, I worked for a Bank, the Man that hired Me said I am glad that airline showed you Black Women how to dress. I said my Mother taught Me, he laughed said that's a fairly tale. I said no, stop being condsending.

@samanthamponela6466 3 жыл бұрын

It's been hard finding videos that show black women. Thank you so much!

@nikstarules5481 3 жыл бұрын

So true!

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you guys are enjoying my videos😊

@CallMeSaamm 3 жыл бұрын

Righhhhttttt

@vsilv489 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I was thinking the same thing.

@deegoldendust1677 3 жыл бұрын

It’s nice to see my photo being represented in such a elegant way. Who would’ve known I had to be on the cover of someone’s KZfaq video. All-around great video

@PeukinsPoint 3 жыл бұрын

Love that you specified the difference between boujie/classy.

@MeMe-ht2hd 3 жыл бұрын

Correct, for the young female who watches this or older and might not know the difference these examples sets them up for success, because they know what to avoid and what to aim for based off these visuals. Cocoa Styling, does an superb job, I wish her health to continue to bring these videos to us.

@ItsMeTotally 3 жыл бұрын

This is much needed in the day-and-age of Cardi B and Megan the Stallon who I both enjoy but do not like them to be representing of all black women. We need balance as white women and every other group to be shown not ONE WAY as black women. Not all of us are sexualized and actually many of us want quality gentlemen as well.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! That's why I like my Style series, all sort of different styles and aesthetics with examples that look like us

@ItsMeTotally 3 жыл бұрын

@@cocoastyling Thank you, and please keep doing what you are doing. I support this channel 100%.

@leannewheeler5351 3 жыл бұрын

@kj 100% truth!

@codishaa 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@lisas9462 3 жыл бұрын

@kj Neither is this influencer.

@saramyles4750 3 жыл бұрын

can you do a version of this video for plus sized women ... ive noticed that sometimes wearing loose fitted clothes can make plus size women look bigger

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

That's a great idea!

@JustOnePageAway 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you including the beauty of natural hair.

@softshell812 3 жыл бұрын

My tips are: if you have a clothing staple that's good enough quality to hang on to for a while: GET IT TAILORED! $15 Investment will make you look so much more polished. Also, DIP NAILS. Short or almond, chill and neutral dip nails take 20 mins.

@pamhatch160 8 ай бұрын

This was an amazing tutorial. I am clearly a white woman . Most of my girlfriends are black women so I wanted to watch and see the styles recommended. I took away classy styles and advice for myself as well . What a beautiful video. I'll share with my girls too. Thank you Cocoa.

@latoyairaborofficial 2 жыл бұрын

Soooo glad you mentioned that it’s ok to wear your natural hair. I’ve been trying to find classy hairstyles that don’t make me look like a teacher Or a toddler. Do you mind creating a video about how to wear your natural hair in a classy manner?

@cocoastyling 2 жыл бұрын

Great idea:)

@alexandrajames3174 3 жыл бұрын

This channel was much needed and I hope it continues to grow.

@yupthatsme89 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I found this channel. I'm to enhance my wardrobe for my 20s.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard!

@shameshaj5984 3 жыл бұрын

Lots of Love My healthy beautiful Women!☀️

@_CDeville 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so obsessed with channels like this!!🥰🥰

@kaylahreed8899 3 жыл бұрын

What other do you know of?! I love this one as well

@Wooddweller 3 жыл бұрын

I am so tempted to change my style to the classic style. I am 30 and no longer a teenager but I am having such an issue with trying to grab the attention of my future husband. Wherever he is.

@AbdulKareem-uy6hk 3 жыл бұрын

My Sister, you will find him. Less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin and attire...

@MologadiMakhafola 3 жыл бұрын

He will find you with the classic style. Mine did 😍

@adorablebelle 3 жыл бұрын

1. Less is more 2. Always dress for the occasion 3. Avoid skintight clothes 4. Avoid spandex 5. Don't show too much skin 6. Invest in basic color pieces (she offers color analysis for black women!) 7. Wear the right dress size 8. Wear the right jewelry 9. Watches 10. Learn to walk in heels 11. Always do your hair 12. Keep your nails in good condition 13. Wear the right makeup 14. Wear your colors Bonus Tips on... No makeup makeup look Etiquette and mannerisms Smile Turbans Wigs

@taj6090 3 жыл бұрын

Suggestions for tips on other styles - Dark Academia - Preppy - Romantic - Edgy - Boho

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! I will definitely work on those as well

@angellover02171 3 жыл бұрын

@@cocoastyling maybe cottage core as well

@angellover02171 3 жыл бұрын

@Baddie Kayladoll is it?

@SisterSister18 3 жыл бұрын

It’s weird because I’m such a creative person that emboy all styles I can’t just pick one.

@thecomplexion7524 3 жыл бұрын

Sporty

@queenofthesouth4205 3 жыл бұрын

Great video. Thank you for showing us at our best.

@TULIP.1689 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! I am streamlining my wardrobe to be all classic. To do a classic style you can wear things that skim your figure but DO so tight it looks like you were poured in. If it’s gaping or pulling anywhere it is TOO tight! Focus on good quality basics. Less is more with this style. You can find great pieces second hand. Window shop the better stores so you can recognize the labels if you happen to thrift. Quality is better than quantity. You don’t need labels and too much flash with it. You don’t need designer necessarily especially when you’re starting out. You could even sew your own clothing and it would be just fine. Stay OUT of the leggings, hoodies and the like. You can wear slimmer sneakers preferably in a solid colors. Unless you are doing something active stay out of the athletic wear.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Those are great tips!💖 Quality over quantity is definitely important in this style, but that doesn't mean it has to be expensive, especially with timeless pieces, they are easier to find.

@renatamitchell9535 3 жыл бұрын

I love a classic look that never goes out of fashion. Thanks for this video. 💝

@yvettekirkland5950 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with everything. Loved this!

@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын

Love this video!!! Black women come in a variety of ways! Time to let the world know

@naomia472 3 жыл бұрын

First time on this yt channel just subbed and liked. I absolutely loved this video it made me feel fantastic!! Like a queen! Thank you Mrs cocoa!❤️

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Yay! Thank you!

@veronicapurcell6239 3 жыл бұрын

These looks are so functional, and versatile while being quite beautiful. Very much enjoy and appreciate all the care tips. Thank you so much for sharing.

@CC-pu6qn 3 жыл бұрын

This is my first video, subscribed. I’m light skinned but I’m here for this. Any type of black female empowerment, I’m here for it!

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome! And thank for your support:)

@viviancovington7813 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely brilliant! So helpful. Thank you.

@oluwademilade6863 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this .

@indriadrayton1132 3 жыл бұрын

I love understated outfits...

@gypsymoon474 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! 🥰❤️ I love these tips!!

@cnashford2 2 жыл бұрын

I was brought to your channel thanks to my love for the dark academia aesthetic. Your videos are so great! Thanks. - a new subscriber

@Queenshar40 3 жыл бұрын

Happy I came across this!

@wendyrs1087 3 жыл бұрын

Black women so beautiful

@Asteriyea 3 жыл бұрын

Love the pictures you selected to demonstrate your points. Keep up the good work!

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

@JanelleMac 2 ай бұрын

This is great advice! I just subscribed! ❤

@janeecelamadieu1136 2 жыл бұрын

I love classic style but I also love the Academia style and classic glam styles too

@juliennelomocso6294 3 жыл бұрын

came across your channel and i am in love ❤❤❤ this is so revolutionary! 😍 I hope this channel grows!

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

@tinaswisphers3433 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for creating this video! and this channel dedicated to black women! this means so muuchhh!! ive been searching for a channel like this!! also your accent is so pretty!!

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@normajean7882 3 жыл бұрын

Every race of women. Telling. the black woman how to dress. What colors not too wear on their dark skin what you know with your accent. Scared too help the white woman because millions of them need help. But you are looking at their best and our worst. I don't need you. Go figure

@lisas9462 3 жыл бұрын

@@normajean7882 Thank you because I agree. Within the first few minutes of the video I knew that this wasn't a blk influencer. But she uses the name Cocoa styling for blk women and even gives a reply that she is blk. OK...Rachel Dolezal.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

@@normajean7882 Well, if you read the description you would know that the reason why I made the channel is that I am both black and a fashion stylist.

@deniseoates7147 3 жыл бұрын

Very good content and with melanin skin women in mind, very valuable information. I really like the selection of pictures used. Thanks for sharing and blessing to you and all in the many days to come,

@Bond_MrsBond 2 жыл бұрын

Wow this video makes me feel so good🥰🥰 thank you!

@naydrasnowfield8404 3 жыл бұрын

I’m 17 and even though I wanna dress classy, I don’t wanna look too serious for my age. Do you think this would be right for me?

@cocoastyling 2 жыл бұрын

The classy style work for everyone, however, you can mix it with a few preppy elements to make it a bit more youthful. This is my video on the preppy style:): kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o5iUi8yWx52phKs.html

@naydrasnowfield8404 2 жыл бұрын

@@cocoastyling thank you so much!!!

@Victoria-up6vz 3 жыл бұрын

Girl, I just subscribed ❤️💃🏾💃🏾

@Cristina.Antoniuc 2 жыл бұрын

Keep going girl. It was aesthetically pleasing to watch. We absolutely need more content from you 😍🌹

@So_IJustGotHere 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for creating this channel. So excited for more videos to come

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome! I'm so glad you like my videos:)

@msmarvellous9597 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕

@cecel_reis 2 жыл бұрын

i appreciate this channel so much

@stoneychi8648 3 жыл бұрын

*Just got this recommended after watching Anna Bey and I'm glad*

@shaniyaweaver1072 3 жыл бұрын

This was surprisingly helpful. Thank you

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@elizabethngato4643 3 жыл бұрын

I could listen to you talk for hours🔥

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@maserati925 3 жыл бұрын

Good video, most of these tips I have learned from my mom🙂

@mindfulkento 3 жыл бұрын

Hi ! I found your channel yesterday and I subscribed immediately because I love the content and the fact that you are focused on black women. Can you do a video about accessories please. I am a fan of accessories more than clothes. But sometimes I have the impression of doing too much or badly associates them.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Sure! They are also a very important part of an outfit

@bcoral8101 3 жыл бұрын

I'm completely biased, but wow...black women are fine AF

@amplyfesociety2570 3 жыл бұрын

Truly enjoyed this video.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@TheChefSteph 3 жыл бұрын

Very insightful video with great tips!

@looksbysellox Жыл бұрын

lOVE IT, Thank you

@whatscbg4875 3 жыл бұрын

Well done. Beautiful esthetic. Classy. Black. Beauty. 💜

@MeMe-ht2hd 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you , for saving our community in the day-and-age of the trashy look becoming so mainstream. The more regular black women explore this classy look it changes what we attract, how we feel, and what could be. I have noticed since I dress more classy people actually treat you better, and the people I attract now are of more quality. Who wouldn't want an upgrade? Let's get her channel to a million subscribers, send these videos to your friends, family members anyone who can benefit and grow, it's only a copy and text away, Let's go girls!

@kristelk5802 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video. It was awesome

@FeliciaFollum Жыл бұрын

Ok that last Boujee style with the lock knots was sooo cute!!

@Pursuitofsimplicity 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent. Please keep up the good work. It is needed.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, will do!

@ashgas1898 2 жыл бұрын

I love your channel!

@AbdulKareem-uy6hk 3 жыл бұрын

As a Married gentleman (outsider), I hope I may contribute to this wonderful channel.... Ladies, less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin, attire (clothing that fits well to your body type) and most of all have impeccable etiquette...

@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 жыл бұрын

This is a true statement; however there are so few quality men.

@AbdulKareem-uy6hk 2 жыл бұрын

@@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 , interesting observation. However, that said, I believe it is down to upbringing and a lack of Masculinity and traditional values... The quality men are out there. I meet them daily....

@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 жыл бұрын

@@AbdulKareem-uy6hk I agree with the first statement, but the second is a little difficult for you to gauge. Keep in mind you know those men a friendship basis. You aren't looking to date them, so there will be characteristic flaws that you're oblivious to.

@AbdulKareem-uy6hk 2 жыл бұрын

@@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 , ***disclaimer*** I never mentioned these men I see daily are my friends. Secondly, both male and female, usually judge ones character based on mannerisms and the way one conducts themselves. Thirdly, how do women today judge a good character? What is one's definition of a quality man today? Lastly, perhaps the "few quality men" today are either Married or those that are single may also find it a challenge in meeting quality women 👀

@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 жыл бұрын

@@AbdulKareem-uy6hk of course, any logical person judges a person overall on mannerisms etc. Also keep in mind you can also meet a person's representative as well. I've dated a man whom everyone would give him praises on his kind gestures, his outgoing personality, his "big heart" little did people know he was suffering with a personality disorder and a whole host of other issues. He kept these things under wraps. No one believed he was like this. A good quality man is a man who's honest with himself and what he wants. A man of integrity, one who's selfless, you get the point. I can agree, trying to find someone of quality is like a needle in a haystack. Too many people again, put forth their representative to use you for personal gain. Neither side trusts the other.

@carolnewman8590 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

@codishaa 3 жыл бұрын

I needed this video. Thank you

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@milliemi4759 3 жыл бұрын

Great! Video and advice. Thanks so much for sharing. I think I'll subscribe ☺️

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! And welcome:)

@susannakitto5655 3 жыл бұрын

I liked and subscribed before watching anything

@JayLeiRay 3 жыл бұрын

This was so helpful 😍

@Rosefleur5346 3 жыл бұрын

I Love this video , thank you .

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@mkalinecpf5206 3 жыл бұрын

I think this is wat l really wanted, l having struggling with colour match 4 my skin

@Bezvlel 3 жыл бұрын

This is such an excellent video

@Phinanollytv1 2 жыл бұрын

Wow I really love this

@nubi688 3 жыл бұрын

GREAT VIDEO!

@arimorr 3 жыл бұрын

Just got to this channel! I love it. Is it best to pick out a particular style? I didn't realize until now that I had an affinity for dark academia, Boho, unisex clothing. As I am getting older I have heard that I should pick a particular style, but I don't want to put myself in a box. I do however, want to dress more classy and feminine.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

The best style to chose is your own personal style! You can take inspiration from lots of aesthetics, you don't have to commit to a particular one. I will say that understanding the basics of the styles and aesthetics that you like can help you give them your own personal touch:)

@ShesooBreezy 2 жыл бұрын

Love this game, queen. 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾 💯💯💯 💎💎💎💎

@unapologeticyogi9439 3 жыл бұрын

Subscribed! Blessings queen.

@FaonaBonne 3 жыл бұрын

This was helpful

@fashiontisiconic586 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this video 👍🏾👾

@thanksmudyira3547 3 жыл бұрын

The best video i do not need to watch other videos now.

@mariedunkley4750 3 жыл бұрын

This is so Great!! You’re a sweetie so classy! Thank you for these great tips! Love seeing my people with such chic styles.

@shirleyowens9936 3 жыл бұрын

Love it!!❤️

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@DearNiquo 3 жыл бұрын

This an amazing channel. I am obsessed.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@ms.ppettigrew3167 2 жыл бұрын

I just viewed the video and I must say that I am impressed. In an age where everything is sexualized, to be respected one must present themself respectfully. I am a older woman and I must say bravo young ladies.

@aspiringfemininity8626 3 жыл бұрын

This was an excellent video.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@empoweredwoman1021 3 жыл бұрын

I so happy to find you. Please do videos for older women.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Great Idea!

@shante4954 2 жыл бұрын

Great job

@shakejackson7513 3 жыл бұрын

Wear what makes you feel good!!

@Phinanollytv1 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video 📹 please do more on how to look simple and classy to a luxury event 😊 I have already subscribed to your channel

@DriveByConversations 3 жыл бұрын

Really good tips thanks 😊

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@AMaudeThing 3 жыл бұрын

Great I came across your Chanel. Cool tips.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

@gabrielle7374 3 жыл бұрын

I love how you didn’t just say “don’t wear this” and ended the conversation at that - you gave alternative suggestions for clothes to wear. This video helped me so much! Thank you!

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! I think it's important to have many option, not everyone likes or looks good in the same garments, so it is important to have alternatives for everyone:)

@lyfeasmemecsit6203 Жыл бұрын

🤎Thank you !🤎

@krys_tal1845 3 жыл бұрын

just found this channel, love

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome!!

@pinkcarterinc. 3 жыл бұрын

Great content 💕💕

@Renoclark 2 жыл бұрын

Pretty good channel, keep up the good work

@_tshepiiyy 3 жыл бұрын

Just found this now... New subbie😊💕

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for subbing!

@shellylen4582 2 жыл бұрын

What are those green harem pants. Been looking for those for a minute

@natasya0618 3 жыл бұрын

So beautiful

@matifadzagondo157 3 жыл бұрын

I love your channel 🥺

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

i'm so glad!

@TheGetRight 2 жыл бұрын

as a man i loved this video

@luadiva 3 жыл бұрын

a common issue which deserves more attention that it gets is tropical climate classy wear; most times we are treated to images that are very metro NYC, which is *beautiful*, but we need tips for Classy Miami or Summer in Houston, when the weather is unforgiving, and we run up against negotiating the Spanx x Humidity collab lol. I love a structured blazer, but as soon as I see lining inside? I'm out. So, loving your channel, glad I found it, and just sharing the need.

@cocoastyling 3 жыл бұрын

Great point! I'm in a tropical country and I definitely need to wear fresh clothes, I should definitely make a video on looking elegant in warm weather