Just goes to show no matter how chill or cooperative someone is.. they can still be psychotic

Please cover the Timothy Crook in Lincoln case Adrian x

Absolutely awful person.

​@@wolfrahmphosphoros5808 Was there an evaluation done?

Should have been condemned to Scaphism or Brazen Bull

Agreed. A 35 year old woman should know that you can’t fix another person with your own external influence. When people are really broken they are broken on the inside so only they can really fix themselves. They could be supported in doing this but influence alone or sheer force of will cannot fix another person. And this guy is a lost cause for sure…

In my experience, more women than men think they can change a partner. It is not your responsibility to raise up a neglected or damaged human being. Think of yourself and your children if you have them and move on. You will always deserve better than a damaged person that needs fixing. It could save you a ton of grief, even your life.

True

My thoughts exactly. You can't change people.

Fr. I once dated a woman with narcissistic personality traits. You absolutely cannot change nuttybar people.

liking this so he sees it

How does him staying in jail will make your shitty disposable life any better?

​@@gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203looks like someone forgot to take their meds today

​​@@gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203elsewhere your opinions are decent. What happened here? Is it because the first comment got 45 likes ? Jealous...

He got 28 years, not life so he is definitely getting out.

She put what she wanted before her childrens safety amd they paid the ultimate price for their mother's selfishness. He was a walking red flag and she ignored it all because she wanted a relationship, also falling pregnant within weeks of meeting someone is never a good sign someone makes sensible decisions

A predator always looks for young naive, single woman with kids.

​@@rossicourvosi218they paid the price for her selfishness? Look at you, blaming the victim on the internet... Good for you.

@@qp4fg855 she put the kids in danger by bringing him around them. Did I miss something?

@@qp4fg855 its not "victim blaming". Its very obvious that his a monster and noone is trying to absolve him of the ultimate blame..... that being said... any woman that brings a man with that many red flags into her home with kids is damn right selfish and stupid at best. Im sorry but its true. If i decide to walk through the ghetto at 3am with a Rolex and an Ipad and cash on display.... then i cant expect sympathy when i get robbed. Doest mean all the blame is on me (the victim), it just means i as a grown adult had accountability to not make such a stupid decision.

Seriously. He sounded like he should have been saying, "Sorry, Mate, I lost control of my truck and crashed it into your car. It's a bit of a mess, I'm afraid."

Probably still high after the acts he committed..

I bet his tough facade will drop pretty fast in prison.

​@@dragonlord83he might drop the soap faster than the facade.. what a turd of a human

The main problem is he will get put either in solitary if he asks or on a wing with a load of other nonces and muppets like him. No doubt if he wasn't protected someone would happily get revenge on him but in the UK we treat these freaks like vulnerable kids...the irony. Fingers crossed though someone gets their chance.

@@dragonlord83along with his drawers.😊

That part. Last sentence. 💯

It’s truly terrifying!

Its off putting almost how calm he is especially for such a vile, callous man. While injured too...

bro killed for no reason and gave himself up in the most nonchalant manner lmao

You would think he is just talking to a friend 🤷🙄

the banality of evil.

and then they all shout victim blaming. well if the shoe fits. its obvious she did not committ the crime, but c'mon…he was a total loser.

so true

How dare you blame a woman for making stupid choices? Women must be allowed to do whatever they want and only men must be blamed!

Human relationships are full of nuance.

she lived in a low crime rated place and wanted to make changes in her life of course she should've been more careful but you cant blame her he manipulated her as well its so easy to talk when its not happening to you blaming the dead mother is not gonna solve anything yall are focusing the wrong part here

Yea hearing that part about the mirror broke my heart it’s disgusting and that little girl didn’t deserve that 💔

I was thinking that... Because there's no way this kind of thing just happens out of the blue

Single mothers should not let their new boyfriends anywhere near their children for at least a year after beginning a new relationship. Unfortunately, many pervs target single mothers to go after their children. Poor little children. That mother did them wrong

Plus his record with the girl in the foster House.

We don't know his _true_ motive - none was presented during his sentencing hearing (after he pleaded guilty) and the police never really established one. You don't need to prove motive for a conviction, however. There is a theory - and it's only a theory - that he had been "doing stuff" with Lacey. Terri found out and confronted him. I have absolutely no idea if that's true. Or alternatively it could just have been a coke binge, as this video describes. The only one who knows the whole truth is Bendall and that's not forthcoming from him.

100% and if the mother had bothered to look into him before moving her children in with that creep, she might have had a clue that he wasn’t interested in her, he was interested in her daughter.

I agree

Which man?

​​@@ilonagasiorska7112Damien Bendall

Courts act retrospectively rather than using preventative measures

He's got a whole life sentence and has put someone in a coma with a claw hammer while serving his sentence. Not sure how he can be punished any more.

He probably convinced her that he had changed his ways and deserved a chance to better in life. People like him can't be rehabilitated.

​@@CaraHTheRealCieher stupidity has cost 4 people's futures

​@@rossicourvosi218Nope, stop victim blaming! She was short sighted, but the blame belonged to the killer.

@@hazelbasil6451 She was with him for a substantial amount of time to see behaviors and patterns to understand what kind of a man this animal was. So, with that understanding she 1. Knew he was a violent lowlife druggy 2. She let that lowlife druggy impregnate her 3. Move in with her 4. Let that animal around innocent children who are entirely dependent on her for their safety. If you want to live a risky life with a lowlife then go ahead it's your choice, but the moment you force innocent children who have NO choice into your dangerous lifestyle then yeah you're taking some responsibility. Yes she was a victim, but also an enabler at worst or a fool at best. This isn't to take blame away from the killer, he's 110% responsible for the disgusting things he did but she CHOSE to share a life with such a lowlife, those kids didn't get a choice. They are the only ones without blame.

I see ur points and they are all valid to be fair especially the bit about exposing the innocent kids to this demon. If she had feelings for him too strong to see past the danger she was in and was willing to take the risk or she thought she could change him, she should have at least kept the kids away and risked her own safety only. That being said, she could have been and most likely was manipulated and controlled to another level although you'd think even then, could she have done more to alert authorities and/or family & friends?

Look it up, most places in US life without parole is a 25 year sentence and they can actually apply for parole after because they served their “life” sentence

Rarely. They usually get parole. Then do it again!

The US is barbaric

@life_in_pieces8720 Not someone who is consider high risk to reoffend. And Life without Parole is just that, no chance of parole

I work in a prison,,,,,they live a good life in prison. 3 hots and a cot,,,,cable tv, tablets , drugs (smuggled in) and all the free time and games,,,,,,Its not punishment

esp. nowadays

Lol your kids will grow up to be outcasts

@@PatrickArcato they will be alive outcasts

@@sonquatsch8585 That's quite a low standard 😂 just meet the parents first genius, these two were obvious red flag just by a quick look

@@PatrickArcato u got what i was puttin down.

Because he wasn't black? Yeah shocking!

@@PatrickArcato and what exactly does it have to do with black?

@@anastasiabolshakova7584 You know it 😉

@@PatrickArcatoutterly ridiculous comment

Ah, yes, victim blaming.

@@kinsan89it’s not victim blaming. Women like Terri need to start taking responsibility for their poor decisions. Her # 1 job was to protect her children and all children in her care. This exact horrific story keeps repeating itself. A conversation must be had about the role mothers play in perpetuating these tragedies.

@@kinsan89 oh give it a rest her job was to keep her kids safe protect and guide them and she failed miserably in protecting them, my mom was a single mom and she never brought a man home she dated when we was all grown and left the house, i am not saying every SM should wait till when the kids are grown, but a lot of kids that are murdered by her bf the mom has only known him for a short period one SM knew her bf for 6 months before he molested her daughters

Totally victim blaming she was in the house with them. She didn't leave them alone with him. If she had she'd be alive.

@@kinsan89 its not "victim blaming", its accountability which apparently people like you belive grown women are incapable of having. Its very obvious that his a monster and noone is trying to absolve him of the ultimate blame..... that being said... any woman that brings a man with that many red flags into her home with kids is damn right selfish and stupid at best. Im sorry but its true. If i decide to walk through the ghetto at 3am with a Rolex and an Ipad and cash on display.... then i cant expect sympathy when i get robbed. Doest mean all the blame is on me (the victim), it just means i as a grown adult had accountability to not make such a stupid decision.

Agreed. Had to take a break from the video after I heard that.

It made my soul hurt when I heard that. Like what the fuck. Almost like that little girl is in a better place ( I hope one exists ) as this world or rather these humans are soooo fucked up and twisted it’s scary to even share a planet with them. I find all human behaviour interesting but .... Kind of wished I’ve never watched this one.

You haven’t seen or heard shit if that’s tough for you. Yea it’s nasty, but it’s nothing new

​@@wm1573whats the point of this comment? To brag?

did you read the original comment? whats his point then lol@@k.m512

Its interesting how he claimed to have did what he did, on the phone to police, yet they didn't come heavy handed… with weapons drawn. H,mmmm

The poor children had a stupid mother. Period.

unbelivable

​@@finch45lear Have some respect

@@seriousman7282 have some respect for truth.

These young party moms still think that way

Touch grass, dude.

@@tcritt wow you're so edgy, commenting "touch grass" on a murder case. rot.

@@hughjackson8866 I'm saying that if watching so much KZfaq is making you so distrustful that you can't engage normally in society, you need to touch grass, which is true. Of course it is.

​@@tcritt While I agree that it shouldn't impair your relationships in society, what these videos should teach you is to be more aware and for what signs to look out for. Though to comment "Touch grass, dude" after just watching a murder case shows lack of empathy in the individual. If you wanted to be helpful actually try explaining to them rather than being blunt.

@@hughjackson8866 oh, but telling someone to rot is the height of internet etiquette. lol. Get down from that high horse, buddy. You can't reach the grass from all the way up there.

Ah, beta!

Happens alot to single mothers. They're desperate for any type of attention that they neglect that a predator is really after their kids.

Yep. I like Adrian’s channel, but surely all the victims cannot be all sparkly, shiny, and shooting glitter from their arse. All the young mothers are painted as angels. Sorry, but there are very few mothers like that out there as plenty have flaws such as their need for companionship superseding the need to keep their children safe from predators/abusers. Sure, they may love their children, but their responsibility to their children should come first; their maternal instinct should have kicked in to override their need to be in a relationship over the welfare of their children. And yes, the police have a responsibility, but based upon his past crimes he didn’t come across as violent person towards women and children. In situations like this, the responsibility still rests with the mother most as it’s her job to ensure her children’s safety, not to assuage her desperate need for companionship. And many of these women likely suspect or outright know the men are trouble but they think they can fix them. Or they overlook the flaws just so they can be in a relationship to the detriment of their children. Those children deserved better from their mother!

Bet she wished she stuck around her kid's old man in her final moments.

She knew he was trouble. Her mother warned her about him before he moved in. She must have seen his drug use especially when he was living under her roof.

​@@doodahgurlie thank you! It hurts to hear, but it's so true. Respect towards this channel, as you said, and I would never expect Adrian to tell his stories any other way. But with all the videos he has on his channel, some are just bound to be semi-lousy parents. The only reason we get flak for having viewpoints such as this is because people think we are victim blaming. Not at all! Nobody should go through this. There's just a big difference between reasoning on what you can and cannot work out (cause nobody on this earth is perfect, and that's a part of what love is.) and someone who has one too many red flags, yet you decide it'll work out... Somehow. Hell, this channel is just a tiny piece of the iceberg. Go look at TV documentaries and whatnot. Same deal. All these murders, and not a single victim that's less than "angel" status. No wonder some love playing victims for life.

i said the same i was told i was toxic

I agree, she didn’t deserve to die but she was a poor mother for moving her kids in with a guy she’d known for five months who rocked up wearing an ankle tag. What the actual hell.

@@tainkirrahe Thank you for supporting a non PC comment. I was a Child Protection SW and this happens so, so much.

I agree, I like to know a bit of the back story etc. 😊

Agreed! I've learned a lot about different places from these videos. 😊

@@missdrool yeah I have too.

I love his summing up statements. He really lets rip and says stuff I think about ✌

The phrase I prefer is “expecting the worst, hoping for the best”. Idealism without grounding in realism is naivety, which is only acceptable in children. You can be optimistic and see the best in people, but ignoring red flags, putting yourself or others at risk, is not okay. Not taking the proper safety precautions is enabling the worst in someone who is struggling. (I say this as someone who is optimistic, idealistic, and sees the best in people naturally- I’ve learned the realism and practicality to be able to help others and protect myself.) The problem with seeing the worst is that it can lead to trust issues, anxiety, and paranoia. It’s all about balance.

​@kellybraun7048 You say it ❤

She used TikTok so at least there's one less tiktoker

@@PatrickArcato you’re a psychopath, i saw your other comment trying to stirr up a racial fuss. Shame on you 👎

@@PatrickArcato All edge, no point. That's you.

Of course stranger to stranger we are all proud of you keep it up your stories are great well edited perfect well deserved

Agree, except for the “dude” part.

​@@EarthFirstGoVegan What's wrong with that?

@@paulbell3682 Chronically online twitter addicts find that offensive probably for some weird reason.

The trick is to always deny probation, I mean they are convicted criminals, don't risk it!

Well said

100 %

Yes I seen it also .😊

His mother didn't name him Coffeehouse.

Same!

@WaitingtoHit clearly and your mother didn't call you waitingtohit 🤦‍♀️

@@jdartistry90 You don't know my actual name, so it would make no sense for you to call me anything but my screen name. Our host's name is Adrian, and we all know that because he says it in _every_ video. Therefore, it's weird that you're calling him something else entirely, a name derived from that of his channel. I guess you need everything spelled out for you. 🤦‍♀

Yep. She just had to "fill the void" with some good ol' dingaling, no matter the cost. A story old as time itself

I agree 100% Thought that from the very beginning 👍

100% agree. This man literally wore an electronic tagging device around her. You would think that would make anyone curious enough to at least conduct a little bit of screening on his past charges and criminal background

If she was loving and caring she wouldn't have allowed this bloke into her home,I agree with you,she was selfish and defective

I just wrote a long process of thought on this matter, then saw your sage comment. Mine was similar, but way longer...lol. What I find disturbing is how Adrian kept on & on about what a wonderful, loving mother Terri was. I'm certain Terri was a generally nice person, but it is nothing short of a TRAVESTY Adrian just keeps yammering on about Terri being a good mother. Farthest from the truth.

Cocaine makes people go completely crazy, I've seen some friends search for cops inside cupboards and walk with no shirt during winter armed with shower cords

Really? Victim-blaming a woman who was murdered? 🙄 get a life

@@horseisjustcats.tapedtogether Fact of the matter is all of those children would still be alive if she hadn't let some worthless loser move in after five minutes.

people like him pray and manipulate women like terry because she was wanted championship he used that to his advantage could happen to anyone so dont victim blame we all say we wouldn't do that blah blah but you don't no till it happens where someone with charm, charisma and able too manipulate you too do the same things.

​@@horseisjustcats.tapedtogethermaybe the victim shoulda used her damn brain.

terry can go to hell it is them poor kids i feel for they never got to live there best lives because of the idiot poor mums choice in men she was warned he had a bad rep in his neighbourhood, any mother would have steered clear of an animal like that

Oh cry me a river

Thank you!

Same here. I've been "stalking" CC's page all morning! I was here within 11 minutes! of Adrian's upload. 😂

Great channel. Thank you

Dude you can fix something in other people but this would be too much for anyone

Thank you so much!!

Making money, views and drinking coffee off people tragedy is disrespectful

she didn't 🤨

Tattoos don't make a bad person. Or are you referring to the knuckles tattoos? The alleged nazi tattoos were on his thigh. Likely not visible to about 95% of the people who see him

I think they do teach it now, but when I was at school, I learned more about cave people and the ancient Egyptians, than the first and second world wars, the Nazis, and the holocaust. We didn't have television or radio at home (or even electricity and running hot water). And no internet, computers, mobile phones then - not even a landline. I was considered bright and when it was English lessons, I spent my time alone in the teacher's little office, just off the classroom, where I could read, think and write about more advanced stuff. There were loads and loads of books and poetry that I was free to explore. I was twelve and I came across a book called, 'I am David'. It was the first inkling I got. I am Roman Catholic, and to me Jesus Christ was a Jew and they were the chosen race. I had never heard of 'anti-semitism'. I think this awful man having Nazi symbols engraved on his body could have done with a better education.

@@talpark8796 Right! I wonder just how lonely she was that she would cast aside her family's concerns, and not heed warnings about all the terrifying tattoos this guy had nor his extensive drug use. Poor lady and kids. At least he admitted to it and turned himself. It would have been worse (although not much for what he did) if they had to find him and then have a lengthy trial to prove he did it while he was claiming innocence or even saying it was the victims' fault (which some lie and do sadly). R.I.P.

Football tattoos are normally a clear red flag

Omg! Will you be ok?

It only gets worse from there

​@@M1K45ALiterally

@@mazystarr lmao

Me too - I had to stop early in this video because this is just too dark for me.

It’s not set in the USA

@CashelOConnolly I mean across the pond I go I guess . Just got excited FULL ENGLISH BREAKFAST

​@@CashelOConnolly and Brits say that Americans think they're the center of the Universe. 😂

@@SkunkApe407I’m not British

@@SkunkApe407I’m Irish and live in Ireland 🇮🇪

The problem is it comes across as victim blaming but when is some accountability going to fall on the shoulders of the women who bring these degenerates around their children. My heart goes out to them all but ultimately saying she has no accountability is just simply false. Someone maybe a victim, a good person, but if you make poor life decisions, you hold some accountability.

@ maritzagonzalez5348 I completely agree with you! Our children are the most treasured beings that God has given to us, and there is no way I would bring in a man into my house with my children in it, especially meeting him for just 5 freakin' months! That's insane!!! R.I.P ALL 5 VICTIMS!🙏

@@JuuzouSuzuya142 People have to decide if it's more important to not "victim blame" or to talk facts about real risks in this world so men, women and children can stay alive. It's frustrating that so many people are more focused on the former than the latter.

Yeah, she had to have known he was smoking weed and drinking at the least. That alone doesn't belong in the house where children live (or any house, preferably), let alone being consumed by someone who the mother knew had a criminal past. I'm not shy to victim blame since I don't feel empathy (part of my autism) so when Adrian or anyone else frames her (or any other similar "victims") as an innocent victim it grinds my nerves. She's almost as responsible as he is for what happened.

There's plenty of men that are good and children can benefit from having another "parent" around. It is a matter of doing your research and taking time to get to know the person before you let them move it.

Thanks for listening!