I absolutely love the honesty/vulnerability approach because that's REAL. Comes naturally to me but I can imagine this can be hard for some guys.

Very thoughtful questions, Alec, and Zan's answers were insightful. It's obvious that you both care deeply about the subject. Thank you for sharing your life energy in this way. We're all better for your work here.

We all know deep down inside of us what the answer is. Even if its difficult to get women for some men (including myself at one point). It's really not about women it's about you and the way you are going through life. The part where it is hard to connect with women is just a consequence of that fact as with many other issues we men may have. It's about connecting back to your true self like when you were a child and what is stoping us from doing that I believe, is walking away of doing what you know in your heart what you are supposed to and instead you walk into to the comfort zone where you feel safe. I know this because I am one of those men. We listen to Zan for motivation but ultimately we have to take those small steps of stepping out of our comfort zone and jumping into life as it happens. It can be small things as well like stopping the procrastination of tasks that will better your life. Anything with deeper real meaning no matter how small increases your confidence. I hope my words can help someone one day even if it's for just one moment I understand how easy it is to fall of track because I am that guy and so are many others I wish you the best.

I love Zain's philosophy

Great Interview.

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