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confessions that cancelled the wedding - REACTION
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@skiesc1606 Ай бұрын

It always baffles me when people say they're "Christian" then follow up with the most un-Christ-like words and behaviour in the same breath.

@ChronicallyofflineRavenclaw Ай бұрын

Yes as a Christian- it is very frustrating to hear. It’s like they’re Christian by title only, not by how they live. It’s very sad and gives us Christians a bad name.

@sarahmiller4084 Ай бұрын

The dude thought he was Christian. Maybe.

@melrobertson2743 Ай бұрын

They believe Jesus and God exists, but they don't have a RELATIONSHIP with them

@user-mp9hv7ft4g Ай бұрын

Who are you to decide what is and isn’t Christ like. #glasshousesandall

@MidniteSpectre Ай бұрын

@@user-mp9hv7ft4gif someone is hateful, they are not a Christian. If someone is intolerant of their neighbors, they are not Christian. If someone is unkind or cruel, they are not Christian. We have a book we read to know how to act. Granted it's a smidge misogynistic but still, there's some good stuff over there.

@Helloeleee Ай бұрын

Nobody: Lucy: "If you wanna be my lover ❤ you gotta get with my friend" 🎶💃🏽💃🏽

@countrygirl5579 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 why was I also singing this!?

@MsLul123 Ай бұрын

Why am I singing this as a spice girls songs ?😅

@ElleD308 Ай бұрын

Jajajajajajajaa 😂😂😂😂

@joannieb3155 Ай бұрын

I just spitmy drink out!😂😂

@cattherat-ss4kv Ай бұрын

Currently with a guy who can pick me up like I’m nothing. I mentioned being worried about gaining weight because I love when he does it and he wouldn’t be able to do it anymore. He said “if I can’t pick you up anymore for whatever reason it just means I have to go harder at the gym, it’s not your issue”. Liar needs to learn from him

@Sonnenanbeterin1991 20 күн бұрын

Aww thats cute😊

@laylammorais 19 күн бұрын

He's a keeper, for sure! Wish you the best 🥰

@gramplolo7530 13 күн бұрын

So cute, I love that for you! I hope I can find someone like that :')

@dragonflymagictarot1180 10 күн бұрын

😂

@skeletalremains3860 8 күн бұрын

My husband used to crack jokes that he would love me even if I was 300 pounds, that he wouldn't take me anywhere, but would still love me. 19 years into our marriage I suffered an autoimmune disease that spiked my weight. My husband loves me, supports me, and helps me through this difficult time with grace. I'm more hard on myself than he could ever be. He reminds me that part of our wedding vows included "until death due us part" and that everyone knows old people sag and wrinkle beyond recognition, and that I'll need an extra 40 or 50 years to get there because I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever seen. He adds the part where I gave him his greatest blessings in five daughters, who gave him grandkids. Ladies, recognize good men where they are and help them become great men for your legacy!

@kitkitfoxling Ай бұрын

i think the reason he said "youre exactly my type" is because he figured she was so much younger than him he thought he could shape her into what he wanted and manipulate the ever loving crap out of her. glad it didnt work. good for her!

@frostfyrespirit_0653 24 күн бұрын

THIS LITERALLY THIS

@BettyAlexandriaPride 11 күн бұрын

Yup.

@krystleconner5690 Ай бұрын

“This ain’t build a bitch!” Lmao best comment ever

@HiThereLindsey Ай бұрын

Hehe Bella Poarch

@WhatTheWHAT524 Ай бұрын

🤣

@rolandhansen812 Ай бұрын

That's exactly what I was gonna say.

@arnishascott2438 Ай бұрын

That's the best comment of this year so far

@Mika_Kagehira. Ай бұрын

That made my day LMAO 🤣

@themayhemofmadness7038 Ай бұрын

Mike slapping his ass made me laugh. 😂

@Twinkletink83 Ай бұрын

I was so thankful to see another man besides my husband (who will also do that in public 😂) do it too

@kayleighandhercat1351 Ай бұрын

@@Twinkletink83I want one of those! I like weird (in an amazing way) men🤣

@Micaelaacuna Ай бұрын

I read this comment and had to rewind just to watch hilarious giving all that entertainment for free😂

@angelica.86 Ай бұрын

I loved that whole moment ❤

@Twinkletink83 Ай бұрын

@@kayleighandhercat1351 they're the best!! I hope you find yours sooner rather than later 💜

@stephanieferguson723 Ай бұрын

When my husband and I were dating and started talking about marriage I felt like it was super important to be honest. I told him my mom struggled to have the 2 kids she had, my sister adopted her kids, and I had no clue if I would be able to have kids myself. We discussed if that was a deal breaker for him and it wasnt so we were on the same page about adopting or fostering if necessary from the start. 20 years later, 2 kids and several miscarrages and 2 tubal pregnancies and he is still my rock.

@christyjohnson5618 Ай бұрын

My heart aches for you. My 4th child was still born. My daughter had a miscarriage 5 years ago, and an ectopic pregnancy last month. Those were her only 2 pregnancies. Im heartbroken for her.

@nightshadewinter6915 Ай бұрын

I had a tubal pregnancy in March which ended up in a miscarriage. It is one of the hardest things ever to get through

@tweedyb569 28 күн бұрын

Hell yea !! Sorry to hear of your struggles but dude that’s what a marriage is about holding each other down in the best possible way !!

@gypsygem9395 12 күн бұрын

❤

@TheJudiBambiPurrsParadox Күн бұрын

But she DID discuss at the start of the dating, that she didn't want kids, was not religious, etc. That doesn't work if one of them lies to hell and back.

@keriyah123 Ай бұрын

It's giving "if you wannabe my lover, you gotta get with my friends" in a literal sense😂

@udraj914 Ай бұрын

is that even a thing? never heard of it. really, who does that?

@keriyah123 Ай бұрын

@@udraj914 You know the song Wannabe by Spice Girls

@racheltinnion512 28 күн бұрын

@@udraj914it doesn't actually mean get together with them just means you need to get along with them

@roxanap314 Ай бұрын

"If you prove that you're mature enough to get married to someone, i will allow you to break that future marriage off in order to date me" -- Lucy on a smart day, basically.

@faycoleman9023 Ай бұрын

Yup, it honestly seems the "friend" is the main problem here. Granted, calling off the wedding and reevaluating the relationship is probably for the best. But either way, Lucy is a snake.

@cosmicrae Ай бұрын

I also don't understand Lucy. She's a manipulator.

@what.the.whatever Ай бұрын

What I think she failed to realize is that if he really wanted her, he would have made it so it was her and she didn't feel the need to do all that nonsense but joke was on her I guess

@Mouthy.krybaybee Ай бұрын

Been tripping on too much of herself lol

@mazikeen7379 Ай бұрын

Frienemies are usually the best friend. She's trying to break up the marriage so 1.She can win the bet. 2.She wants to be the bride and thinks this will get her there. 3.She's extremely jealous of your happiness and wants to be you. I would bet that she's done/said things that have sabotaged you before. Lucy is toxic

@dezelias Ай бұрын

The amount of people who try to "wait out" or change someone's mind about not having kids is ✨️rancid✨️

@lindapatton4478 Ай бұрын

If they tell you they don't want kids and you do want kids. be polite and end it there. You might be able to be friends, but a more serious relationship is not going to happen. Bow out graciously.

@teresamcmurrin8672 Ай бұрын

If I'd been on more than one date with a man, I'd let them know that I did not want children. Period. Almost always, the response was a smug smile and "you'll change your mind". I DID change my mind--about dating said condescending doofus ever again. I wasn't about to build a relationship on "you'll change your mind". I doubt they would either if it was them that was expected to "change their mind".

@SoManyRandomRamblings Ай бұрын

Agreed.

@SoManyRandomRamblings Ай бұрын

@@teresamcmurrin8672 exactly

@SpiderLegs666 Ай бұрын

But then if they are pursuing you knowing damn well you want kids and they don't, then who is the asshole is that situation? Lol I've def been there before and sometimes they're just immature men that don't know what they want, but they do want to waste your fucking time 😂 Glad I dodged marrying him..I was willing to give up everything just to be with him..I've since found my beautiful and extremely intelligent husband who is amazing with kiddos. And he wants them just as much as me, if not more lol it makes me feel so loved ❤ I wish this for everybody! The feeling of being complete and not wanting for more.

@greatestever247 Ай бұрын

Bro really said ‘I’m a Christian. & you need a boob job’. The fact that he is 36 & she is 23 should’ve been a red flag from the start. (I’m a Christian)

@kay-jay1581 24 күн бұрын

The age gap was also the first thing I noticed!!! 13 years is way too much. I do know some couples that have significant age gaps but have happy and successful marriages. Still the age is still a hurdle I would tread really cautiously.

@Sonnenanbeterin1991 20 күн бұрын

I know a couple with that agegap but she was 32 and the younger part. Both are equal in the relationship. But in cases wete the girls are 14 up tp 25 years the qge gaps are horrible. They think they are mature but most time arent and those men take advantage

@GoodnessGraciousify 20 күн бұрын

The fact that after three years of dating, he now says he's a Christian, proves he is not a Christian. If his so-called faith was important to him at all she would no that within the first month. Also, his priorities are directly against the teachings of the Bible. Uggh.

@donnakawana 20 күн бұрын

An... I'm a Christian 🚩

@greatestever247 19 күн бұрын

@@donnakawana ? Him saying that or me..?

@Alyrulz421 Ай бұрын

“I’ll tell him, you want me to tell him? Give me your phone” 😂 you made me laugh out loud at work, Charlotte

@OriginalContent89 Ай бұрын

Love your profile Pic! MCR is the best!

@phoebesmith8154 Ай бұрын

Imagine saying ‘we’ll get counselling on it after the wedding’ which basically means ‘I’ll get my pastor to change your mind later’.

@Kayenne54 Ай бұрын

More like a room full of religiosas brainwashing her. I've actually had a work friend, who invited me to her wedding; she was already dressed dowdily, having to wear a scarf, with long unflattering skirts, and him and his friends just sat and let the women wait on them. The wives never actually sat down the entire "wedding". Don't know why she invited me; I couldn't talk her out of her enslavement by then...

@jengsci8268 Ай бұрын

@phoebesmith8154 - That last one. Maybe it's not a pastor. Maybe it's a cult leader. And jah, that girl should run, not walk, as fast and as far as she can away from that crapweasel.

@SonjaElizabethTeal Ай бұрын

Yup

@valeriekhall Ай бұрын

Heavy on the "SUBMIT," light on the "die for your Bride as Christ died for the Church." They always leave that last little bit out.

@daveockerman6425 Ай бұрын

Mike needs to dress up as Luigi with that magnificent mustache. If he does we all need to see!

@leeshajoi Ай бұрын

Can we get Charlotte to dress up as Princess Daisy as well?

@viviannehoffmann6005 Ай бұрын

And charlotte can be daisy!

@paulagoeringer9466 Ай бұрын

And her as princess daisy. That would be a cute couples costume idea.

@knowyourlove5613 Ай бұрын

Yes please!!!!!

@kimczariki3786 Ай бұрын

😂😂

@luinloki39 Ай бұрын

"This ain't build-a-bitch!" LMFAO I'm dead!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

@K8-comfortcorner Ай бұрын

Second Queen was given a heartbreaking gift to know the truth about Liar before walking down the aisle. My heart breaks for her & the damage caused. If her own parents have done enough for her to break contact she is already vulnerable around trust. This is a diabolical betrayal that will amplify her pain. Rise like a phoenix Queen. You are the light.

@rosesigner Ай бұрын

'Men will f•ck a pie', killed me!!! Charlotte's more spicy attitude lately is awesome, yay for being a recovering people pleaser!

@jordandupree420 Ай бұрын

Freaking American pie 😂🤣😂

@sngray11 Ай бұрын

One of my guy friends recently told me that f-ing a folded pillow with a mulberry silk pillow case on it can be an enjoyable experience for a single man! 😂💀

@jengsci8268 Ай бұрын

@@sngray11 Sure doesn't take much to satisfy that part of them. 3 basic needs: Food, sleep, secks. Not necessarily in that order.

@lindageorge8209 Ай бұрын

My mother used to mention rice pudding and my father in the one sentence. And if it wasn't rice pudding it was a hole in the mattress.

@raynobles3736 Ай бұрын

Jesus im dying laughing in this comment section

@clarajeanjackson9111 Ай бұрын

they took "if you wanna get my number, you gotta get with my friends" too literal

@IvyAnnVanRooyen Ай бұрын

That's what's up

@tonichan89 Ай бұрын

*if you wanna be my lover

@bosslady88 Ай бұрын

LOVE me some Spice Girls!! ❤🎉

@shinymommy Ай бұрын

I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂

@BettyAlexandriaPride 11 күн бұрын

@@tonichan89 Don't you love it when they get the words wrong? 😂

@EvansClan2009 Ай бұрын

“The math isn’t mathing, but the math never mathing for me” I ☠️

@lornaroberts8215 Ай бұрын

"This isn't Build-a-B*tch" - never heard that before, I love it!

@debbiethompson14 Ай бұрын

I stopped dating 7 years ago. Because they would always tell me how wonderful I was, then proceed to give me a laundry list of what I needed to change.. FXXK THAT🤣🤣🤣

@evelynneufeld7610 Ай бұрын

Hugs❤

@user-mp9hv7ft4g Ай бұрын

You were the common denominator. 🤔

@ricebeansrockroll882 Ай бұрын

I stoped dating to and the peace of mind! Golden

@parkerbrown-nesbit1747 Ай бұрын

Before I met the man who is now my husband, I had stopped dating for 5 years. I got really tired of dating boys. The odd thing is that love came along when I least expected it to. We celebrate 34 years of marriage next month.

@someone3187 Ай бұрын

@@parkerbrown-nesbit1747 Good for you. How did you meet?

@courtneyray4620 Ай бұрын

“Here is your out, WHY DONT THEY EVER TAKE THE OUT?!” Never felt anything so hard in my life

@moniqueengleman873 Ай бұрын

I always give THE OUT to all my loves. I don't feel like I own a man and vice versa. Have 20years under my belt. I will never get married again. I LOVE my freedom.

@marshawargo7238 21 күн бұрын

She is The Perfect kind of date!!! Here is how I am & if you have a problem with Any of it, move on to the next, because I'm not changing!!! Kinda like a job interview, here is my past, this is the way I am now & here is where I expect to be in the future! If any of this is problematic for any reason, it was a nice meal & I'll see ya on the flip flop, Aloha... Nobody wasted any time or money or emotions! What A Dick!!!

@user-lx1yc2cq7f Ай бұрын

"This ain't build-a-bitch".....I absolutely love that!!

@sheenaldeo Ай бұрын

When Mike did the mouth thing, I died. He’s so perfect for you Charlotte 🥹🥹

@bjrnegillarsen1380 Ай бұрын

Someone needs to introduce Lucy to Liar, they truly deserve eachother...

@professionalinsomniac8338 Ай бұрын

👍 Yep

@BelovedLigeia Ай бұрын

"This ain't Build-a-B***h" frickin PUNCHED a cackle RIGHT out of me

@jodyhunter3491 Ай бұрын

Ahhh...yes...I call it the laugh cackle of smite 😂

@vintagepanj Ай бұрын

Best comment by Charlotte 😊

@ShebaSync Ай бұрын

Anyone else smile when they see Charlotte and mike together 😂❤ they literally are the female and male version of each other

@jelizmason Ай бұрын

That little interaction with Mike in the beginning was *chef's kiss* - you two are so disgustingly ADORABLEEEEEEEEE

@AmeliaRoberts-sc7hl Ай бұрын

@reachout_CharlotteDobre Why are you acting as if you're Charlotte? She literally replies on her own account.

@THEMrFill Ай бұрын

that last story, I *_LOVE_* the way he said that she had to change, but wasn't willing to change in a single way - not THAT is some toxicity! girl hasn't just dodged a bullet, she's dodged the entire shooting range!!!

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

Girl didn’t dodge a bullet. She dodged a bullet TRAIN

@kristiesteele3243 Ай бұрын

I wish my ex husband had been honest before the wedding. He would have saved me some time. At least I didn't have kids with him like his newest ex wife. His mama always said I was the problem. I guess she was right 😂

@user56gghtf Ай бұрын

Yep 💯

@Catherine.Dorian. Ай бұрын

And you never ever get plastic surgery for someone else. Ever see the wife of some billionaire who had her get cosmetic surgery to resemble a cat and when it was done he divorced her

@lindapatton4478 Ай бұрын

It was bad enough he wanted her to change who she was. But finding out he was in touch with her parents (who she hasn't talked to in almost 10 years for good reason) was the final nail in the coffin. Send him to the ranks of ghost town. She doesn't need that toxic in her life. I hope she tells her brother why she is calling off the wedding. I want to hear the brother's take on this.

@kJ-cp9qb Ай бұрын

“If you’re willing to essentially go through with and marry someone you don’t even love and emotionally destroy them because I’ve told you to do it and that’ll make me definitely date you.” It’s giving very much the vibes of “if you love me/care for me then you’d do a,b,c for me to prove it” She went out her way to use her bff as a pawn in her little cruel intentions plot, she is not a bff, she is an enemy.

@mage1439 Ай бұрын

It'd be a real shame if something awful happened, like her stubbing her toe, hitting her shin on the corner of the coffee table, and banging her funny bone every day for the rest of her life.

@yasminni485 Ай бұрын

Even the Devil himself would be embarrassed at this plot.

@sds6303 Ай бұрын

Very sociopathic even psychopathic behavior. He didn’t have to go along with it either.

@ms.annthropic6341 Ай бұрын

For an off and on FOUR MONTH gf too! Not that there would ever be a situation where this would be justifiable, or even make sense, but that is just mind boggling to me! 🤯

@DYLANJJK94 Ай бұрын

I wish it would backfire for the “BFF” and the couple fell evwn more in love and the OP and him got married after all and had beautiful babies if it accidentally happened, maybw not but if it did, then it messes with the BFF even more. Lol

@joanamaria3280 Ай бұрын

As a Christian myself, we don't claim that man... he clearly doesn't understand what a Biblical relationship is...

@lilblondie12874 21 күн бұрын

Omg! You & Mike together ❤️ I wish you two nothing but happiness! ❤

@ScurvyRascal Ай бұрын

So, she didn't want to invest her time finding out if hes marriage material. She wanted her best friend to do it for her so she could still have fun in the meantime. He, should have been honest with OP long before now. As soon as he realised he liked her, he should have come clean.

@alexaczigany9470 Ай бұрын

That "friend" belongs to the streets. I bet she will stay single in the end. What a crazy bee

@martibee8984 Ай бұрын

There's still the possibility he's lying to save their relationship either for Lucy or because he likes the benefits of being with her.

@imjuliewaters Ай бұрын

But he also thought the whole thing was a joke and never took the bet as legit. He continued dating OP and fell for her, asked her to marry him, etc because he actually liked her, not because of a bet. So I get not telling her in the beginning, but as soon as he realized Lucy was serious about it, that's when he should have told OP.

@Tea_laBlue Ай бұрын

He should have, but if he is telling the truth about breaking it off with Lucy a month before making it official with OP, then I have a lot of respect for him for doing that. At least when he was was serious with OP, he was actually serious

@ScurvyRascal Ай бұрын

@@imjuliewaters He slept with her best friend. He couldn't not tell her that.

@naowright9308 Ай бұрын

On the second story: I really appreciate the woman's honesty. She was honest and upfront at the begining. He calls himself a Christian but does not have Christian values.

@danerysstormborn5383 Ай бұрын

Yes! What a delusional person

@SWolfmoon Ай бұрын

The vast majority of Christians don't have Christian values, unfortunatley...

@victrola2007 Ай бұрын

Mike is "The HOT Mario" ❤😂🎉

@Missmonkey88 Ай бұрын

Seriously, he's one of those fake Christians. Jesus knows the truth, dude, you ain't fooling heaven. So glad that girl got away from him before it was too late, thank goodness.

@beckydrogowski7479 Ай бұрын

"This ain't build a bitch" LMAO Charlotte, I wanna hang with you for a day! You crack me up!!!🤣

@ladyclairee2424 Ай бұрын

The second story really made my jaw drop at the girl getting married and the friend admitting it was “a bet gone wrong” sent me straight to the grave 🪦

@tifjohnson4358 Ай бұрын

That dude has a savior complex. He felt you needed saving and he'd be the one to see you through the process by helping you change everything about yourself. He didn't look at your early relationship statements as boundaries, he saw challenges, and felt there was no way you would turn down his guidance. Or he's an effiing idiot! Either way, glad you can run now before it's too late.

@chrisbuttonshaw2088 Ай бұрын

he was also 34 and she was 21 when they started dating..... he wanted to CONTROL and change her. he wanted a toy not a relationship

@edelleaa Ай бұрын

@@chrisbuttonshaw2088 yeah i immediately noticed that and wondered why nobody seems to be mentioning it... thats already the first red flag right there

@shaheenzannat3839 Ай бұрын

@@edelleaaand also which brother sets up their 21 yo lil sister with a 34 yo man!!??

@morganablackwater2017 Ай бұрын

Its not a "saviour" complex its NOT UNDERSTANDING that shes a HUMAN not a toy. If a dude wasted my time like that I would ruin his life... Im so angry about it I can't find words for this whole nonsense

@captainfluffypaws7068 Ай бұрын

Sadly there's men out there who waste their time trying to change child free by choice women

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

The ONLY PERSON you should be competing with, is YOU from who you were yesterday. Women need to band together. We are in this together.

@jenniferkovalick2959 Ай бұрын

I agree! As women we have enough problems, we don't need problems from other women. We definitely need to stand together!

@lollyann7630 Ай бұрын

Amen sista❤❤❤❤

@rosegoldhiips Ай бұрын

Once I started seeing life this way, it was like a dense fog was lifted. We should all be girls girls!

@KayJoyy Ай бұрын

👏👏👏👏

@ThundaStrack Ай бұрын

Oh, how very well said. Exactly what I feel but didn’t know how to say it! 🙂

@hopethornhill3905 Ай бұрын

I feel so bad for the last lady. I’m also an up front person with dating, same as her, and it sucks that someone was so willing to lie to her (and do it so well). I hope she finds someone who truly values her lovely self ❤

@ThisKnottyBelle Ай бұрын

My ex decided AFTER we got married to reveal how he really felt about kids and religion, which were 180° different from my views (and the views he supposedly held before we married). I was shocked because we had discussed these things ad nauseum before we even got engaged. Needless to say, we divorced after a year and a half of marriage. Better to know now than after an expensive wedding.

@greyedrose Ай бұрын

When I was in college, a girl in my dorm was dumped by a dude. He had given her this kind of list of reasons. It was totally unnecessary for him to do. Another girl on our floor said the dude had done the girl a favor. For the rest of the year they all called him FavorBoy. (He was actually really gross and he was narcissistic but SHE was a lovely lovely person.)

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

Don’t you love how that happens? Somehow they usually look just as slimy and smarmy as they are on the inside, and they somehow always get someone who is just a fresh breeze and such a wonderful person. It breaks my heart when that nice person is trapped… but I’m so glad in this instance, she was able to be surrounded by such a positive support team. Girls need other girls. To lift them up, show them strength, allow them to see their inner worth. Is beautiful when women don’t compete with women.

@gr33ngirlsea Ай бұрын

Eww. That's like that episode of Friends!

@someone3187 Ай бұрын

@@gr33ngirlsea Not really the same. In Friends that list was never meant for Rachel's eyes. It was for himself and she accidentally saw it. People who are trying to break up sometimes write pro and con lists about someone to get a clear head when emotions are interfering with a decision. This Favour guy instead did something else. He humiliated the girl with his break-up reason list he intentionally gave her.

@PaulaR-mp9di Ай бұрын

I still remember my first husband telling me before our wedding that he had been thinking of becoming a priest and was sometimes still conflicted!!! My reply to him was that I was not going to compete with a calling to God and that if he still felt that way we should break up. He said no. In hindsight it was the beginning of his ongoing resentment of anything he felt our marriage (and later, child) kept him from doing - his infidelity with a good friend was the last straw that ended everything. Admittedly, we were both young and stupid and now are happy with others. We have maintained a cordial relationship as parents. The insight came too late to prevent the wedding, though.

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

Well that’s just sad. I’m sorry you two went through that. I’m grateful you are happier apart and parent well together. That’s a blessing. But to be competing with God… that’s such a hard life to have. I couldn’t imagine how either of you felt in all this. How muddy. ❤ glad you’re both in better places.

@rebny7801 Ай бұрын

"we have maintained a cordial relationship as parents" Tell me you are decent people without telling me you are decent people. I am glad to hear that.

@someone3187 Ай бұрын

He sounds pretty self centered, so, good riddance. Don't regret the past. You got children out of this marriage which is a blessing.

@arose92795 Ай бұрын

Dude was really like "you have to get off meds that likely help you be the very person you are, just because sometimes I'm not strong enough to lift you up and it makes me look like less of a man to my friends!"

@Livingshadow2009 Ай бұрын

Lucy is toxic AF. honestly sounds like she was emotionally abusing OP's fiance, and didn't expect him to actually move on with OP. the fact she was willing to hurt her friend in a twisted effort to mess with Erwins head once more, speaks volumes at what kind person Lucy is: 'if you get her to love you, you're worthy of me'. This was no bet. this was an abuser losing control of her victim, and not expecting said victim to actually move on with the friend she wanted to hurt. Hope OP keeps the man, but ditches the 'friend', I'd also find out if Lucy has done anything similar to others because this kind of behavior is not normal.

@theonecalledshunpo3178 Ай бұрын

That little snippet of Mike makes 100% sense why you work so well.

@i3blu3mOoN Ай бұрын

I'm getting divorced, I was screaming "Why do they never take the ouuuut" with you cause, FACTS. This is why when someone mentions something about a "crazy ex" I need to hear the whole story. I wouldn't blame any of these women if they had a psychotic breakdown and went nuts. It's hard.

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

So hard. And they don’t take the out, because their ego won’t let them. Narcissistic tendencies can ruin deep. Lol

@user56gghtf Ай бұрын

@erikarussell1142 I don't think it's ego. I think people genuinely don't want to admit that not everyone is nice. Especially when they're with narcissists. The stuff evil people do is so illogical and makes no sense so much it causes some do deny reality. Even though a spade is a spade. Also when they tell other people about the situation sometimes those with other opinions advise them to stay even though all facts point to "NO. RUN!!! DON'T LOOK BACK..."

@withcharmtospare Ай бұрын

@@erikarussell1142it’s the sunk cost fallacy in motion in a way. Probably also, hey the problem has been brought to light, now we can move on. They don’t understand it’s a habit formed before they ever got together and it they can lie easily about changing, as long as you still stay they have the power they want.

@mairablanc2856 25 күн бұрын

Here I am waving at mike as if we were on facetime 😂 You guys are so cute!

@pistachoo. Ай бұрын

17:25 "This ain't build-a-bitch!" bwahahahahahahaha!

@user-ig8bc1dq3c Ай бұрын

With that last story, it was the details about the parents that got me. Childhood trauma isn’t just a myth and he’s an absolutely not for me!

@MphoenixE Ай бұрын

Yeah. Can't even understand him doing that and then giving them access to her so she can be damaged again

@morganablackwater2017 Ай бұрын

What? It got me that he was an old creep trying to control and groom a excessively younger woman. That alone makes him "got me"

@user-ig8bc1dq3c Ай бұрын

@@morganablackwater2017 I rarely actually pay attention to the ages of the people in the threads. Was there an age difference?

@shiramarie6770 Ай бұрын

@@user-ig8bc1dq3cyes! 23 to 36 I have seen plenty of age gap relationships that have worked out fine but this........

@flowerdream2732 Ай бұрын

@@user-ig8bc1dq3c Yes. OP is 23, her fiance is 36.

@tinamarisia123 Ай бұрын

I snorted laughing when you said " this ain't build a bitch". Brilliant comment...

@jdwinks40 Ай бұрын

First story, throw away the friend and possibly the man. Definitely the friend. The second story? Throw away the whole man. Ghost him and hock the ring at a pawn shop. He deserves no explanation. If he's too stupid to figure it out, that's a him problem. Sell the ring because he definitely owes you for wasting so much of your time! What a clown!

@laibaandleeb9978 Ай бұрын

Charlotte, i have always wondered what lipsticks do you use, they always look soo smooth and good on you!

@whimsysimsy Ай бұрын

By the sounds of it, Erwin met OP, liked her, it come up in conversation with Lucy who got jealous, freaked out and made up said bet, Erwin was like, "whatever, crazy Lucy". So Lucy brings it up now making a big deal out of it because she doesn't want them to get married. So literally not marrying him is playing right into Lucy's hands and giving her what she wants, a shot with Erwin. Dump Lucy and you'll both be happier for it.

@gothic_oma Ай бұрын

I agree with you.

@diane.loves.you. Ай бұрын

YUP!

@saydvoncripps Ай бұрын

I was in the army. I met another WRAC (Women's Royal Army Corps..British army). She was a lesbian and I'm straight and we only had to look at each other to go into howls of laughter, we were both into star wars and nuts. We would go out, I'd chase guys and she would chase girls. I'd never had a friendship like it. The whole predator, rival thing just wasnt there. I got married and she was posted and I never saw her....for decades. I got divorced came home to London and despite her being Scottish, she's here! Married with 2 sons! Who would have seen that coming? Turns out, she was bi and settled for a great guy. We meet up, still make each other giggle and cry with laughter. A friend I've had for...omg...40 years! Yikes!

@anonymouse6703 Ай бұрын

I had a lesbian best friend once and I loved our friendship because there was never any of that weird female competition that I often run into, and there was so much laughter. Our friendship ended for a different reason - I went into a deep depression and she took it personally when I didn't feel like leaving the house to socialize. If it weren't for that, we probably would have remained friends, but I guess it's a good thing that I found out that she won't stick it out with me during the real moments in life. Anyway, you're so lucky to still have your friend and I hope you both continue to cherish the friendship :)

@MoxyVerve Ай бұрын

@@anonymouse6703that has happened so many times with friendships there are very few who are actually willing to stay for long term health challenges

@srsmedic8285 29 күн бұрын

Best friends you ever have are one from the military.. I’m so glad you’re still close with her

@LaurenRAVENSHousley Ай бұрын

Omg I love the Mike cameos. Y’all are precious. Excellent banter & you guys keep it rolling & fun. ☺️ you both look super happy ❤

@ariah457 Ай бұрын

Awwh seeing Mike made me smile it’s nice seeing you together! I’m happy for you Charlotte

@cosmicrae Ай бұрын

Story #1: Can we call her.... Lucy-fer? Coz she is the great deceiver. 😂 Like she's the snake, and the couple is like Adam and Eve. 😂

@melchiorlise2466 Ай бұрын

YES

@shutup21 Ай бұрын

Yes you're a Creative 😂

@valeriekhall Ай бұрын

Let's just hope twins don't run in the family...😬

@catlover2223 27 күн бұрын

Definitely!!

@revgurley Ай бұрын

Y'all, there are people out there - therapists, ministers, independent officiants, who offer premarital counseling. I don't care how long you've been dating or living together - DO IT (counseling). My spouse & I just celebrated 28 years married, and I think a lot was settled early because we'd already talked about all the tough stuff (finances, illness, sex & family, etc). And no, we who offer counseling are NOT judging you and whether or not you should get married. It is purely for bettering your communication and discussing the tough stuff you either don't feel like talking about on a "regular" day, or a topic that is best discussed with a neutral 3rd party to stop any arguments and keep things progressing.

@ChronicallyofflineRavenclaw Ай бұрын

Yup! My husband and I went through this too and it was such a good start to our marriage because we got harder conversations out there that we didn’t even think about before. And we had someone there to mediate for us. There were tears and arguments but after working through things we were so much stronger as a couple and had a direction to go in together.

@SoManyRandomRamblings Ай бұрын

Plus therapy works better when not already in conflict, as opposed to using it as a "last ditch effort" to save things.

@melissasheppard6674 Ай бұрын

👏👏 happy anniversary 🥳 (belated lol)

@sethra777 Ай бұрын

Yes!!! We did marriage counseling 32 years ago & celebrated our 31st anniversary 2 months ago. We were very young (me 18, him 21), and our deacon initiated conversations about topics we didn't even know we needed to talk about at that age. The number of times we've looked at each other and said, glad we started working this out with Deacon Pete, are uncountable!

@bitsyeddy6641 Ай бұрын

My sister is a minister, and while my former husband and I never went through counseling she sent us a questionnaire she gave to couples pre-marriage. Kids, finances, religion, …. …. It was fascinating and very useful. Ultimately we divorced for a variety of reasons, but I still consider him a good friend and even attended his wedding to his current wife. - who I am now also good friends with. Thank goodness not everyone in the world is crazy!!

@rebeccawhalen8855 Ай бұрын

We love the mike cameos! ❤❤❤

@chandlerkailee93 Ай бұрын

That moment at 18:20 when I spoke out loud and said 'Give me your phone' at the same time Charlotte did. Just saying, typing a text to that dude will be simple! And yes, I make commentary to myself at times. And no, I will not stop. It's my routine for the morning when I watch Charlotte's vids.

@andreaturner7207 Ай бұрын

Charlotte here to teach us that in this world there is no shortage of “THEE AUDACITY.” Love you Charlotte, and thanks to Mike for getting into the videos with you, it’s a real treat, thank you both 💕

@mustbetheSUN Ай бұрын

She should have a THEE AUDACEETEE t-shirt on her merch store

@CharlotteDobre Ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

@LadyMarigoldWithers Ай бұрын

Ah the old ‘wait around and see if she changes her mind about fundamental life goals’ otherwise known as ‘I am so freaking awesome, how could she not want to change everything about herself to please me?!’ Been there. Waste. Of. My. Life.

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

A waste of a human if you ask me… and waste of your energy, time, breath, and patience as well. Lol

@ASHl33164 Ай бұрын

Mike looked like he could be another brother of Mario and Luigi who wears blue 😂 Edit: Let’s call him “Mikey-o!!” (Stage notes: Read in high-pitched Mario voice)

@mikaylajohnson5170 Ай бұрын

We love candid Mike appearances! 😁

@anyaburke6636 Ай бұрын

Love seeing Mike in the videos! Ya'll are so cute together! Love that he matches your energy.

@TheGrumpyOldWitch Ай бұрын

"This ain't build a b*tch" 😆🤣😂😭 I am TOTALLY going to use that phrase! Girl you crack me up! Thanks for the many years of laughs and internet-based gossip! Charlotte you rock!😎🤘

@jenha7891 Ай бұрын

You two are sooo adorable together❤

@celina9287 27 күн бұрын

Sidenote you and your man are the absolute most precious couple! I love how he didn't mind being in your video and give you a kiss. That was absolutely adorable❤❤

@turtlebirdrox Ай бұрын

In the 2nd story with "Liar" when he sat her down to say they'll work it out after the wedding, my mind went immediately to that meme with Captain Holt from Brooklyn 99 where he goes "Oh... Nooo....." Lol

@lizstokes9091 Ай бұрын

Happy Mother's Day to any Momma's watching today!! Pet moms are included, animals are family too ❤

@paolacordova5335 Ай бұрын

Gracias 🌈🌞💐 Thank you 🌈🌞💐

@sillygirlkc Ай бұрын

Oh thank you! 😍 And happy mother's day to you and the other mommy potatoes!

@kayleighandhercat1351 Ай бұрын

Thank you, you too!!! I’m only a cat mom but it’s definitely appreciated❤️

@heatherburson Ай бұрын

Thank you!😊

@sassyg9133 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@ryan_m_k Ай бұрын

Omg charlotte, seeing you happy makes me so freaking happy! Honestly melts my heart. You deserve it ❤❤

@ladygoodmen Ай бұрын

Yaaaasss 🙌 I live for CD’s advice on female friendships and competing for men. It’s so true - the amount of times I’ve been duped by a “friend” and found I was inadvertently in a competition with her is ridiculous! They will go for anyone, regardless of whether they want them, just so other women don’t get happiness. Jolene springs to mind. Choose your friend-family wisely 💜

@MrsWellner Ай бұрын

Last bride to be needs to look man in the face and say, " don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you."

@Scarlett.Granger Ай бұрын

Nah just ghost tbh. Seems safer and this guy has taken some crazy pills.

@WhatTheWHAT524 Ай бұрын

Haven't heard this saying in a very long time!! Love it!!🤣

@EH23831 Ай бұрын

She’s only 23 - she’s got plenty of time for find an actual sane person…

@kathydurow6814 Ай бұрын

Unless she's worried about her safety. Which I would be tbh. He sounds toxic.

@MrsWellner Ай бұрын

@WhatTheWHAT524 thank you.

@alouzan Ай бұрын

"This aint build a B*" goes right up there with "my flabbers are ghasted!"

@laurenvernier7028 Ай бұрын

Aw I love an appearance of Mike(: especially when you both did weird tongue thing lol just relationship goals, being yourselves(:

@alenamurray7488 7 сағат бұрын

I absolutely agree with your theory about people showing their own self-doubt, lack of self-esteem, and thoughts when they talk to treat others like this. Prople project their own thoughts and emotiona onto others and its usually more about them than you.

@msbee5183 Ай бұрын

"This AINT build a b!tch" im fkn rollin! Well i started a pre roll when Mike stopped in, now in in full potato roll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤

@familyhome8715 Ай бұрын

we can all collectively agree mike and charlotte are the perfect pair ..... they jjusf fit together like 2 puzzle pieces.....

@bethanyjuelthediaryofadaughter Ай бұрын

I am going to get so much hate for this but I don't like Mike 😶‍🌫️ I keep getting vibes like he is using her for notoriety 😳

@bethanyjuelthediaryofadaughter Ай бұрын

He isn't very funny 🤷🏼‍♀️

@catherinedamaso1502 5 күн бұрын

I wasn't always updated with your videos since I'm kinda busy. But i can't help but say that find it really endearing to see your SO having the same vibes as you do ㅠㅠ Wish you all the best, lovelots 💛

@VickyF_ Ай бұрын

Ok for real i cannot get over how PERFECT you and Mike are. He is such an amazingly uninhibited guy who is soooooooo on Charlottes humour level 😂 I'm now very invested in you both....which is not very normal for me but I'm totally here for it now! ❤

@Loralie571 Ай бұрын

'Liar" said that he thought she had time to change her mind on things like having children and becoming Christain. He knew, and remembered, her feelings on all of the mentioned items. In this case 'ghosting' would be appropriate.

@lotstodo Ай бұрын

Agree. I've always been 100% certain I didn't want kids. Can't imagine some man assuming I would change my mind. I'd ghost him.

@AK20741 Ай бұрын

Holy ghosting....

@lotstodo Ай бұрын

@@AK20741 You deserve all the likes!

@Kayenne54 Ай бұрын

Sociopaths do that. They lie. They lie about lying. But they'll always out themselves if one pays close attention, or patiently wait. He's a sociopath.

@sandinewton1896 Ай бұрын

Can you imagine how fortunate op of second story is, that she got to see and know exactly who she was betrothed to marry, before the ceremony. This gal dodged a bulldozer!

@tonichan89 Ай бұрын

Kust regretful that she had to waste several years of her life on that man 😩

@SupercaliFreyalistic 29 күн бұрын

I love that you have a reddit!Charlotte and the guys from Reddit on Wiki are my favs!

@kassijayne2519 Ай бұрын

Love when Mike joins you. you're too cute. 🥰

@plutoniumparker3849 Ай бұрын

Mike's endearing smile when he came to see us was so cute, we love him

@davishropshire5361 Ай бұрын

“This ain’t build-a-b*tch” made me LOL 😂

@ancairinadumitru3306 Ай бұрын

Charlotte, you and Mike are so cute! You deserve all the happiness in the world!

@OptimisticFanatic15 13 күн бұрын

“you dirty little piss ant” IM WHEEZING KXBSBCKFKDKDJ 😂

@catzie17 Ай бұрын

“This ain’t Build-a-B!tch” 🤣 I love that!!

@saraaraujo2271 Ай бұрын

imagine the last guy was lying about all those demands just to make her call off the wedding, like it was his main goal all along

@lilacfawnx Ай бұрын

My husband said same thing

@kiorodjirane8517 Ай бұрын

It would be completely dumb. Why not call the wedding off by himself if he is willing to appear as such a dumb & awful people ? Because if it was his goal he will be aware at how he would look like after such speech. But either way, if it was his goal or not, I don't get it and already lose faith in humanity long time ago so... ^^'

@ladyseason2565 Ай бұрын

Why I thought this

@Nick-wy2uf Ай бұрын

u gotta point 😮

@kaitlynharley8605 Ай бұрын

Just wanted to say thanks💛 3 weeks ago I had an emergency c section and I’ve been at the hospital with my NICU baby ever since. Spending 3 weeks in the same hospital room can really make someone question their sanity, your videos have helped me pass the time and laugh. You’re making a difference in the world!

@imhelensakura 29 күн бұрын

I love how mike and charlotte are the *right* amount of crazy 😂😂😂😂😂

@BigPrincessSam Ай бұрын

The fiancé’ with the list of changes and demands - I had to break it off with someone just like this about 6 months ago! He was my HS sweetheart & we had remained friends over the years. All that time he talked about how much he loved my spirit, my authenticity and so on. The first time we went to visit someone from his family he asked me “are you wearing that?” Granted, I am a very feral woman 😂. I cut/rip all my shirts & have a mo-hawk. Think of MadMax & punk 80’s in general. But I always look like this, 24/7 and when I share things on social, I look like this. His family knows exactly what I look like and how I dress now, it wasn’t like they were going to be shocked. If anything most people get shocked when I dress normal 😂. That was the beginning of the end. Don’t tell me you love my authenticity and then try to tame me! But he was exactly like this & im just thankful I got away. It hurt like hell, I’m still in love with him, but the healing I’ve done since I cut him off is just undeniable & I do hope he finds his way in life eventually ❤.

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

That’s when I love you, but I love me more; comes into play. I’m so glad you decided not to water yourself down. Love that you that you know you are. ❤

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

Is that you in your pfp? Because you are beautiful… I don’t blame you. Throw the whole man out. So sorry my friend. That is painful and hard. ❤

@BigPrincessSam Ай бұрын

@@erikarussell1142 I tell myself this every time I get overwhelmed with grief from having to walk away. Thank you for reminding me ❤️❤️❤️

@BigPrincessSam Ай бұрын

@@erikarussell1142 yes it is me and I really appreciate that!

@Orquet-qj2nf Ай бұрын

You dodged a bullet. I did not dodge a bullet and I can confirm that if yours is like mine, yours was out to do all sorts of things like destroy who you are, turn you into a stepstool to lift himself up, and try to absorb who you are through osmosis. Assuming my hunch is right, yours and mine are predators out to take from others what they don't have in themselves. Like authenticity. 🥴😵

@pixiestxNyomouf Ай бұрын

That third story, Liar, just reminded me of a meme I saw the other day on YT "women dont pick bad men, they just lie about their entire personalities to bait and get you". People were pointing out how they would find stuff out (like basically how they really feel about them or how they truly are as people) AFTER they got married or got pregnant or had something happen further down the line. Another being just agreeing with whatever you say when asking "what do you like to do?" when dating and building their persona around yours. The way he did that to her and she was so upfront about her issues and boundaries 😔 This man is a MONSTER. He reminds me of the saltanat case going on in Kazakhstan rn (tragic but please check it out if you can to show support because the perpatrator was the ex prime minister) because why would you get with someone and unearth all their traumas, insecurities and traits just to weaponize them? The reaching out secretly to her parents is as disgusting as it is a breeech of privacy. That monster is the definition of those men who like "a challenge" as in breaking women 😢 I'm sorry she went through that

@erikarussell1142 Ай бұрын

Yeah my ex husband was the same way. He asked me to marry him when I was 17 and he was 21. I got pregnant after our engagement and because I live in a certain state, we got a letter saying we were common law married (together for over 2 years and shared several bills and now a child). And he claimed me on taxes as a spouse so he could claim head of household. So that was it. He threw a huge tantrum, left for a week saying he was at his moms (he left the state to go to his gf place… she called the day he got back and she said he told her I was just a roommate) and all the while he lied so much he didn’t even tell me his favorite color until after we filed for divorce and he claimed I knew nothing about him and I never cared about him. Lol!! Which is rich considering he used to lay out my outfit for the day and would tell me to speak when spoken to etc. when he got home at 3,4,5,6 am I was expected to be waiting for him with a bucket of water for his feet and warm plate. He expected his clothes cleaned folded and pressed, but I wasn’t allowed to put them away because that meant I was going through his things. It’s insane how insane he was towards me. But when I snapped, all of a sudden I am the crazy psycho bad guy. Yup. I know that story all too well.

@pixiestxNyomouf Ай бұрын

@@erikarussell1142 I am so sorry you had to go through that. It makes you truly wonder what goes through their minds. The "you don't even know me" argument is a rich one 🙄 as if that absolved him of marrying someone, but I know the hypocrisy of "emotional cheating" being used for/against things. I say of that to say, it seems like maybe e are better without answers? Or maybe there are none, but that does not mean there are excuses or justification either. 😡 I hope you are in a better place with your child from one potato to another 😊

@juanita_rocksteady2761 Ай бұрын

Last paragraph is 💯. Instead of getting a pickme he went all in on a woman he thought he could break down and pump a bunch of babies into. These so called "Christian" men make me laugh.😂😂😂

@cariciaangela3052 Ай бұрын

Saw that video about that sad thing that happened in Kazakhstan. Really sad

@coloraturaElise Ай бұрын

This is classic narcissist behavior!

@melissajames1229 22 күн бұрын

I love you guys! Please bring him in more videos!

@p4y454xul4 Ай бұрын

You and Mike were definitely made for each other ❤

@heybooks.1503 Ай бұрын

Charlotte: What did you just do? 🤨 Mike: 🤪 *flees*

@Zion_Nyko Ай бұрын

"What did you just do?" I'm sure you shall see while the video is editing. Mike is being the goofball xD

@Mewse1203 Ай бұрын

I have my two boys saved in my phone as The Younger and The Older

@tatiannalee689 23 күн бұрын

@@Mewse1203 this looked like you meant to make this a public comment, not a reply. Lol

@Mewse1203 23 күн бұрын

@@tatiannalee689 100% 🤣😂

@leapingmidgets 25 күн бұрын

i just have to say; the portion where mike came in frame…. favorite portion. yall are absolutely adorable together. i’m so freakin happy for you Charlotte!!!