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What touched me in this video: 1. The mum who is very articulate and wise and the way she explained everything in few words 2. Syrian girl who said " I'm muslim before I'm syrian"

Bro, the care and the advice he's giving to those childs, that's next level dawah

Men these days can’t handle one wife and you’re encouraging them to have more !! please don’t destroy your marriage over your desires . and also it’s not only about if man can provide . He should support his wife financially, emotionally and physically . He should spend time with his kids and protect them .

I have been benefitted a lot from your channel and gotten closer to Islam. Alhamdulillah ❤

I personally believe that a man should be more concerned with the easier/smaller sunan(Sunnah plural) before moving to the responsibility of a 2nd, 3rd, or even 4th wife Before I explain why I believe this I want to quickly state the 2 responsibility required to have 1-4 wife’s. 1: The man needs to be able to provide provision whether it be housing, food. And the wife’s own money for her needs. This applies for 1-4 wife’s. 2: The man needs to be equal with all the wife’s Now as to why I said a man should focus more on the smaller sunan is because of the fact that the human heart is not 100% fair all the time, the exception is the one who had 11 wives. It's also a big responsibility. Proof for this is: Narrated ‘Urwah: ‘A’ishah said: “O nephew! The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would not prefer any one of us to another with regards to spending time with us. Hardly a day would go by without him visiting all of us. He would come close to each woman, without touching her, until he reached the one whose turn it was, then he would spend the night with her. I am sorry for the long “Essay”. But I want to conclude with. I am NOT against the idea of a man having 1-4 wife’s but I would not encourage myself or any man to put such a hefty responsibility on themselves. Reason being you WILL be accounted for on the day of judgment for how you treated them and how equal you were between them. And to me that is a scary responsibility. Barakallahu feekum.

Man the kids in this video are so wholesome. ❤

the attitudes of men and women with regards to multiple wives is telling. Western culture has hit men and women hard in terms of a negative attitude towards this sunnah. For a man 1 wife is never enough and for women a second wife is competition. It doesn't need to be this way.

All the problems we have in our ummah and we talk about having 4 wives

Muslim: I told my wife, she's enough as 4 wives for me SQ: I hope not in size 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The thing is, so many people read "2,3 or 4 wives" but forget what text that come after that.

THE ENERGY IN THIS VIDEO MA'SHA'ALLAH

Brother surprisingly the kids seem to have answered more maturely ...ماشاءاللہ تبارک اللہ

This has been a hot topic. In my opinion, men should focus on priorities first before even thinking about having 2nd wife. If he cant take care of his main wife like a queen, why would he find another wife which will give him more tests?

As a man I'd like to reminder men that Allah says "ولن تعدلوا" It means whatever you do you gonna be unfair and this gonna be accountable in the day of judgment so if you don't have to have more than one like in case of wars for example you don't have to do it its heavy weight

That mum was good bro. She's the type of mother inlaw anyone would want to have. And she seems like she's raised her daughters. That would be a great family to marry from, just by the way the mum spoke and her energy was on point! May Allah give them all barakah in this life and the hereafter. Lovely video brother SQ! ❤️

The real purpose of 4 wives or a man having 4 marriages is to support women who need it. Like divorced women and widows and orphan girls. And also having four wives is a great responsibility because the man needs to provide for all of them and the kids from them as well. So it’s not something everyone is capable of doing.

I love this. I come from a Catholic background and Italian background. I have friends from all over the world, have different beliefs, and finding out about my friends and their life and their background has taught me that everyone is basically the same. What I mean by that is we all love our families we all love our friends, and we all want to be, happy and peaceful with each other. This video is so beautiful. Thank you. I think I actually learned from this video. It has also proven to me that the world is small. I agree with the word that is being spread by your video. Let us love one another Salamalaykum.

Alhamdulillah... In my experience, your dawah (WAYOFLIFESQ) is different from the other dawah. So much learning. May Allah bless you and make your memory sharp always. Love from Japan

As a women i wouldn't be okay with my husband getting another wife because i know myself and i cant handle it.

As salaam u alaikum brother. Ive just recently come across ur videos, n I think they are amazing. U are doing a wonderful job informing ppl about Islam. N I love ur confidence n style. May Allah protect u amiin. We need cool down to earth ppl like that

Alhamdulillah i was working late night and was bored then your new video popped up. I have a dream of meeting you in person In sha Allah 😊 May Allah bless you

The kids conversation made me cry, maa shaa allaah

Masha Allah I liked that mum in white dress. May Allah protect her and family.

The kids, mom, and dad are all very wise in this video. They all have given good answers

SubhanAllah😂 it takes a certain type of man and woman to do polygyny. It is not for the faint of heart but it could be a beautiful thing if all involved have the understanding of what it comes with, and are secure within themselves as well as have a level of emotional intelligence to handle it. There is a lot of barakah in it if done for the right intentions and a grievous punishment if it's done wrong. Even though it is permissible by Allah doesn't make it a joke. Great video! May Allah continue to bless you and your endeavors.

THE VIBES FROM THIS VIDEO IS OUTTA THIS WORLD!!! May allah reward you immensely brother ❤❤❤❤❤❤

I have been benefitted a lot from your channel and also I found comedy and interviews and reviews of people in Islamic way …. Keep going n growing!! Lots of love from Pakistan 🇵🇰!

4:23 the most beautiful moment for her mom😭💕

Thank you for making these video's. Masha Allah

Mashallah!!! It is so refreshing to see this style of Dawah!! May Allah bless you and your family immensely,brother. Dawah can be fun too!!!

Alhamdullilah I found a channel like this, a very practical way of practicing life as a Muslim! A very cool way of giving people a Dawah

Wooooo I loved that one May Allah Bless all those brothers and sisters Ameeen!

Always love your content 💯❤️

Your knowledge, enthusiasm, and the way you conveyed the information made a significant impact on all of us. It's evident that you've put a great of effort into your work. Your presentation not only informed us but also inspired us to think critically and look at things from different perspectives. Once again, thank you for your outstanding presentation. Your dedication to your craft is truly commendable.

This topic does annoy me alot as its always missingly told and spread. I can assure that nowadays 95% of men do not require OR are allowed a second wife in islamic ways. And i am open to argue with anyone who says otherwise. The guy in the video saying "first of all its halal" i have doubts that his reasonins for a second wife is halal. He did mention that one of our duties is to extend and reproduce, which I agree, but if that was his reason I want to ask him if he would have taken any woman without caring about her looks at all?? If not that intention goes into lust and Seytan only has covered it up with an excuse to make him believe that what he is doing is halal. "ofcourse there is always jealousy" no thats not what those wives are going through, what they are going through is "unhappiness" "lack of self value" "uncomfortable" "insecure", a healthy jealousy that we can't get rid of is the jealousy that is only within a person mind from their view. But this is straight accepting another woman into your privacy into your life while your first wife is unhappy with it. Islam is not a simple religion, it takes care of both men and female equally. Ask those men then, what if your wife want a divorce because you can't satisfy her in intimacy, do they know that it's a valid reason. A woman can lose their interest if the husbands shows interest in another woman therefore she might not be satisfied anymore. Every aspect and every possiblity is covered in islam. Dont just cherry pick things that fits you and educate yourself.

I worked in UAE as a teacher and its sad to see the emotional distress the kids r in due to fathers having more then one wife...no attention given to them.. Before going ahead with something as such it can never work if u r not truly helping those women in need... So u simply do it for desire u r already weak.

Having a second wife sure is halal but not everything that's halal is good for us. It always depends on the situation, like sugar is halal too but when you're having certain health issues it may cause you damage... When a man has a healthy relationship with his wife and children and everything is going smoothly for them why choose to create chaos by marrying another woman and start a new family, that's gonna be hella hard I mean nowadays keeping one marriage going well is taking so much effort both mentally, economically and physically. I think that the times we live in right now makes marrying more than one woman a disadvantage for everyone most of the times (of course there are some exceptios). Personally I can't imagine sharing my husband with any other woman and if that's what he wants he has the right to do so but not with me around, I'll have to say goodbye to him.

Allah's Messenger(ﷺ) said: "The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women." Jami at-Tirmidhi 1162

The little kid who sent salawat just made my dayyy!!!😂😂😄😄😄

Okay, but the beauty that Allah put into this yemeni girl. Ma sha Allah. May God makes her heart as beautiful as her appareance. Ameeen 🤲🏼

Something I’ve never understood about polygamy is, what woman would ever want to share her husband? Maybe I’m wrong, but it would hurt me and my mother if my father wanted to marry another woman. This is why I feel circumstance is important when it comes to polygamy.

Heeeeeey .. Those little pieces of advice for the kids made my day. I love your content. After watching a couple of videos, I admire you man. You are solid, confident, and aware! Not sure how you know a lot about Yemen though :) This is my first time using/committing to Patreon but I believe you deserve more. Keep doing what you are doing!

and all i can say is Jazak ALLAH Khair brother SQ. Watching your videos boosts my energy. May ALLAH increase you and preserve you and your loved ones.

Having 2 wives can be a beautiful thing. Me personally, I don't think I can do it because I want to be involved in my children's life and it's hard to do that having two families. For the people that want to do it and can do it, masha'allah for them. But it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Having one wife is hard enough as it is, having 2 is a different ball game.

Just what I needed to start the day. Loving the positive vibe

You are so good with people and with kids. Alhumduliliah!!!

It touches heart when young kids quote hadith ❤❤

Alhamdulillah, Im able to see that Itge truth of slam is widely spreading everywhere throughout the world world from this. Jazzak Allah Khoiron

My brother u doing amazing work for real may Allah bless u

Masha Allah Keep it up Brother Much Respect from Kashmir

Great video and beautiful way to really show us different thoughts about polygamy. Yes it's allowed for men in Islam. One thing is wish he had included was: marriage is peace. From what I have understood, the goal of marriage is to find peace in each other. Of course there should be respect & love. But that comes from Allah. If I'm not completely lost or misinformed, I think that's the first purpose. So if you have all those things in a marriage, and you choose to add someone else to your life, you might lose that peace. For me personally, it would be the end of my marriage. Respect to the women who emotional and mentally in a place where they'll be ok. But it's not everyone. Allah knows best:)

Yoooo this is DOPE 😂 🔥 Halal Hitch approves this message

You never get bored while watching SQ

i am just single but this beautiful wallahi may you all get showered with rahmah and maghfirah ameen ameen love you for the sake of allah seeing these young childeren growing in islam and learning deen is masha allah

This is ridiculous! And honestly very disprespectful. There are limits to this youtube nonsense and the fact that you are doing this is disgusting. Using islam as your safety net to get away with this is very obvious and you should stop right away. Have respect for these women, they are somebody's sister /daughter or even mother. Have some shame.

I love this, it was so interesting hearing people's responses. very enlightening

I'm I Muslim , before I'm Syrian . Ohh I love to hear this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ God bless you'll 🙌 and you my sister

My best friend husband has 3 wife’s and she hates it but loves her husband and Allah of course. He sends money to his other wife’s but he did not have kids with them or visit them often. He supports them financially only.

MASHAALLAH! Excellent, that's a dawah in context very effective...Amen!

i freakin love this guys. We are one no matter what. ONE GOD FOR ALL

Am watching this on a Friday and I really live the advice about the parents. Jumma Mubarak and jazakalaihir

I love this street Dawah show, Funny , cool and Exciting

The woman with the six daughters really gave good insight on how us men need to be

The way he talks makes anything he says interesting I love his energy

ماشاء الله على النساء المسلمات...قمة في الأخلاق❤️ May Allah bless you my brothers and sisters in Islam

What a beautiful interviews ❤❤❤❤ enjoyed so much,Love from London

lovely reminder loved it bro so much may ALLAH guide us on righteous path

6:51 Oh man so cute kids ❤️😀 I love the them🥺 May Allah protect them and bless them🤲🏻

Very sweet video with very sweet people.. may Allah swt sweeten our lives here and in Hereafter and make all the hearts happy and satisfied. Ameen SQ Jazakumullahu khayra as everytime

We should marry twice, thrice or 4 times if Allah gives us the opportunity to. There are plenty of widows, divorced & poor women who need our support.

Maa sha Allah 🤲❣️🌸 Loved your videos Sheikh 💚

MashaAllah TabarakAllah.... I really love the way and the way our Sister in the eye speaks and demonstrates her honesty . May Allah Subhana wa tá ala always protect you and always show you the best way. Amien💚🤲🏾

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Amazing content, mashaa allah.keep it brother 🙏

Real legend...🥰♥️🕋 Love you from 🇦🇫

Amazing work dear brother. May allah give you more strength

I loooved it !! especially the talks with the kids subhanallah !

I know it's allowed to have four wives, but how could you ever hurt your wive like that. I would never do that to someone i love.

Love your conversations with the children ❤

Your channel will grow man! Quality content 😂💥

That was absolutely insightful. Thanks🌸

Why convince them. In islam he should marry one. The second third and forth are with some conditions. Not only sharieah. Dont olay with deen.he is not allowd to do it without the conditions

Salaam! This was an interesting video to watch but I think it is a complex topic that was summed up a little too lightly. While I understand that islam does permit this, I also know that most women are not okay with this. There’s a few things i’d like to point out here : 1. mental health - i think it’s safe to say that people now are much more prone to falling into things like depression, anxiety and other mental health illnesses. All which have been on the rise. I think if my own Husband married another woman, i’d be so mentally disturbed, I would go into depression and then end up neglecting other aspects of my life like being a good mom, or working, taking care of the home or whatever else I am obligated to do. It would make me question or wander why i’m putting in 100% for someone and he’s only putting in 50% only to distribute the other 50% somewhere else. After all, Marriage is hard work and really does take 2! 2: I think that for daughters who see their Father’s have 2 wives and see the pain their Mothers endure, they loose faith in men and ultimately have their own trauma. I have a few friends who literally have no faith or desire for men anymore because their Dad’s couldn’t stay loyal to one woman. So then they ask, if I can provide and work for myself and be financially independent - why marry at all. I think somewhere marriage looses its sacredness in that, instead of looking forward to it, women run from it. 3: when your husband gets a 2nd wife, everything you have gets divided if he’s just. If he has another wife and kids, that means you each get 3.5 days with him. That’s 3.5 days as a woman where you’re on your own with your kids - kids get less time with their father vs a structured marriage where they have a greater presence around (speaking in generalities). 4: i don’t know about you, but where i live life is EXPENSIVE. It’s almost impossible to run a home on a single income anymore so if both of us have to work to provide a decent life, does that mean his financial responsibilities i have to pick up the slack for? As the first wife, you’re literally giving up half your life! Time, resources, emotional capacity - women are a lot to handle lol let’s be honest ladies! imagine your husband not being able to be there for you while you’re going through something because he also has to take care of another woman. I’m just stating things from observation and analysis, i understand that for some people it may work. Some women are very career driven and actually like having their own space, some women don’t want children and their husband does so he has another wife. Situations are different for everyone. But in any case it is not easy to do, a pretty bitter pill to swallow actually. So for those doing it, more power to you. For those in it and struggling, may Allah reward you for your struggle and for those of you who are honest enough to know you can’t handle it - that’s okay too, it’s Sunnah not Farz so if he doesn’t do it, there’s no sin! I think it’s important to cover practically how this plays out , I appreciate the light heartedness of the video but I would love to see a more in depth video of women who are going through it and happy, women going through it and are unhappy and women who refuse to do it at all - perspectives really open the mind. Also, love the energy you bring in this video, keep it coming :)! Peace & blessings of Allah be on all of you 🥰

His dawah is on point!!! What I notice though is people in this country who were raised in this country, they will ask a revert were they born Muslim, but when they are given dawah to non -Muslim they say to them they believe that everyone is born Muslim. Im like huh?

As a newly converted Muslim woman in her 20's and already living in Michigan, I was debating on moving hours south to Dearborn. After watching this, I'm just getting my passport.

Your energy is just addictive bro

Love this content! ❤️

Man I have to say I thank Allah I found your channel and your beautiful content I almost got tears when you spoke to those kids about respecting their parents. Jazak Allah khayran.

Multiple wives isn't because the first isn't enough.. there are more women than there are men, and it's a man's job to take care of women. So if another woman is widowed or any such situations... Then if a man is able he's supposed to help protect her. It's sad that a truly Nobel deed has been tainted by the greed of man.

Syrian women are very understanding MashaAllah

I really really liked that portion with the kids that you did! That was the best part!!!

11:47 why I feel that this intelligent man is from kashmir.. 🖤

Halal pickup line: I'll give you a ring, I'll give you my deen, I'll take you to jannah, I'll make you my queen

The moment I saw this topic, I quickly jumped into this 😂, four wives is kinda good if you could handle 😀 Thanks brother sq for bringing this ❤️

Once again great video bro alhamdulillah.. and what that lady said about what men need to do for their woman. Always ready is really hit the spot 🙏🏿🙏🏿

the energy in your videos is crazy, mashallah....good job..love it....

Nice work keep it up 😍 love from Pakistan 🇵🇰 Brother

Beautiful beautiful dawah bro Good job

Wowew....MashaAllah subhanAllah and this was such such a beautiful way of giving Daawah wow MashaAllah m astonished❤️ May Allah SWT bless you more and more!