Dude your channel doesn't suck. I'm going on my first solo Vegas trip tomorrow because, in part, to your videos. I'm pushing myself past what I would have ever thought of doing because of your attitude to life. You should know you have a positive impact in real people out in the real world. I hope you're doing well man, and I'm really sorry to hear about your Father. Your audience is here because of your authenticity and trying to give advice to other travellers. We will still be here for you no matter how long it takes for you to grieve the way you need to.

Grief and sorrow does change the attitude. I hate when people say GET OVER IT. No, work through it. There is nothing like a Dad and son bond. I love your channel. That’s all sir.

Video should have been titled A Tribute to my Father. He deserved every word you said. Father and son relationships are everything. My Dad was the greatest man I have ever known and now I work hard everyday to bring the same joy to my son that my Dad brought to me. Your videos are amazing in part because your Dad was amazing. You are him. He is proud of his son.

I’ve been a follower of the channel and a follower of you since the beginning. The fact that you are a real person and not some flashy fake personality is refreshing. Thank you for sharing a small glimpse into your life and I think we can all appreciate the understanding of your loss. Thank you for being you.

James, I’m not a typical KZfaq commenter, however I felt compelled to tell you how much my wife and I appreciate you and your videos. We’ve been watching for years and you’ve inspired us to pursue travel and ignited a greater passion for adventure. Thank you for your hard work, resiliency, kindness, and desire to inspire us all. Obviously nothing can replace your dad, but throughout the rest of your life you will be the beneficiary of moments and reminders that you carry his love with you everywhere you go. I pray that this will bring a measure of unmatched comfort whenever you need it most. Thank you for what you do, keep pursuing your dreams, and safe travels my friend

You're actually really good. Please don't be so hard on yourself. Your perspective, observations and recommendations are top notch. Sending an honest review from Vancouver BC Canada

First and foremost, you and your family have my deepest sympathy. As a true supporter, we’ll be here for you and the channel REGARDLESS!!! Stay strong and live life to the fullest.

Man I tell you what, there’s a lot of less than desirable people making content on KZfaq. Obviously I don’t know you in person, but you really seem like one of the few really great and genuine people out here. I hope the best for you in whatever you decide is going to be best to put your effort into moving forward. Sorry for your loss brother.

James how amazing that you’re able to turn something so heartbreaking into a positive! That says a lot about your character, wishing you peace and happiness ❤

Sending you love, brother. You have provided joy to others...and I hope that you reclaim your light. The very best to your entire family.

Brother, thank you for being honest, real & vulnerable. I’m like you, I had the best mom & dad anyone could ask for. Seeing my dad suffer through dementia right now is heartbreaking.

I loved the ending when you showed photos of your father. He's in heaven . Thank god you got the last bit of time with him.

I lost my dad to cancer ten years ago, and I feel the pain and struggle to keep going. Appreciate your dedication to keep going despite the circumstances and wish you all the best for the future. Just remember to do what's right for you and your family and the rest will take care of itself. Your mental health is the most important thing, just look after yourself.

Beautiful Tribute James. Thank you!

Sorry for your loss Coolist. The bottom-line is that you reach your highest point when you are in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. These are the most wanted/watched videos by far.

So sorry for your loss James. Growing up, I used to dwell on my biggest fear of someday losing my parents. When those days came, they were worse than I ever imagined. All I can say is time will ease your pain if you let it. I really value your content and hope you find the inspiration to continue it.

James, thank you for sharing this deeply personal part of your life. Your wonderful Dad raised an equally wonderful son. Sending you all good vibes & love & best wishes for the future!

I am so sorry about the passing of your dad. He sounds like a great man and an amazing father. I was lucky enough to have one of those. It's also cool he got to see you live out your passion. Take the time to grieve and I'll be here for your next adventure. Thanks for being vulnerable and the update.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad. May he live on through you. Have really enjoyed your videos and took a tip from one of your prior videos and had booked a resort a year out and saved some $ got an 8 night for what we paid for a 6 night this last year.

This is exactly why you never judge someone so fast you just never know what they are going through. Remember you are human stay strong. My condolences.

My condolences, Coolist. I personally can say you helped me have the best vacation of my life at the Lopesan resort, which got me through an extremely difficult period in my life last year. It was exactly what I needed to power through and get my mind right. I owe that to your recommendation. I wish you all the best.

My wife and I are big fans of your channel. I don't comment much on videos but I felt compelled to do so now. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 14 years ago so I understand what you are going through. I hope the pain goes away and you are left with the wonderful memories you have had with him.

Honestly I love your channel and your videos… I’ve been watching your travel videos for over the last 3 weeks. I’ve probably watched 20 of your videos in the last 3 weeks. Don’t ever give up on your goals, your content is gold and your tips. We all experience difficult situations in life.I lost my father at 25 years old and he never saw me start my construction business. I never truly realized how much he meant to me until after he was gone so I do understand. Do what makes you happy brother, take time be with your family. Do you!!!! But keep in mind he would want you to be happy and succeed on your channel, that’s 100.

My wife and I have enjoyed your videos for years now and it has helped our planning, hotel selection etc. When at the hotel, my wife even asks are you going to try that drink that Coolist had in the video? We also re-watch videos months after we visit a particular hotel and reminisce about the pool, room and foods as you visit them. This was a touching video, thanks for sharing that part of yourself with us. I know it won't be easy when this day comes for me and I will have pretty big shoes to fill as well. I appreciate you sharing that deep, human side of yourself. We are here to support you and can't wait for the new content whenever you're ready!

So I'm only a minute into this video but if you don't think your content makes a difference, it really does. I've talked to multiple people on vacations in Mexico and Punta Cana and so many of them have referenced your videos when they were making vacation plans. So, your content is definitely reaching people and makes a difference in trip choices.

I am so so sorry mate. We don't know each other obviously, but this hits home and I am so sorry for your loss. You're a fighter and always keep it real, don't feel ashamed about having to go through what will be one of the hardest times in your life.

So sorry for you loss! You never get over the sadness of losing a great parent but have so many great memories to hold onto.

I had a dad that I felt the same way. Think about him every day. You gave me a few tears. I wish I could meet you one day. You lift my spirits.

James, me and my wife are sending you our deepest condolences. Filming this video was an incredibly brave thing to do! I admire your vulnerability and honesty putting this out there. Me and my wife LOVE your content, we stumbled across you a few years ago while looking to travel to the Dominican Republic. We've watched all of your travel videos and must have watched your Punta Cana content 10× at least. Following your advice, we booked our trip to Royalton Bavaro and loved it! I'll add that we had our honeymoon in the Riu Palace Montego Bay Jamacia and was so excited to see you visit. We were over the moon to see you enjoy it. Sending you some love, brother. 👊🏻💚

I am so sorry for your loss. Everyone grieves differently and sometimes you just need to breathe. Your videos are the best! Your channel has helped me plan so many vacations.

Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom almost 4 years ago and it truly sucks. Although you and I travel very differently I've found your content to be incredibly helpful in making travel decisions. Thanks for all your videos.

Well damn. I'm watching this through blurred vision. I lost my dad in 2020. It was swift and brutal - three months from the time we found out until the time he took his last breath. I'm sorry to say, it still hurts every day. It sounds like we had similar relationships with our fathers. My condolences, James.

You’ve inspired me to self care. To have that dinner alone and not to feel shame for it. You make me want to indulge and enjoy my life. I can’t stress enough, you’ve helped my personal mental view and perspective tremendously. So sorry to hear about your father. All the love in the world headed your way my friend.

Mama Coolist, you have an amazing son that produces incredible, honest travel videos that sometimes create friendships even he's over at another sunny beach. Our household went to Lopesan Costa Bavaro three weeks ago, and I met a gentleman from the UK while watching the sunrise over the party boats just offshore. About five minutes into the conversation, we both found out the reason why we were there was because of some KZfaqr that goes by Coolist highly recommended it. James, your content is amazing and it was so cool to talk about it with a stranger that soon became a friend. We're going to try to cross paths again next year from opposite sides of the globe. Regarding your father, my dad beat Stage 3 Esophageal cancer, and I get to cherish my bonus time with him. I'm happy to see that you had the opportunity to do the same. I am anxiously awaiting your journey back to happiness...keep up the good work!

I’m so sorry about your Dad. I lost my mom unexpectedly 2 years ago so I’m happy you had a chance to spend so much time with your Dad before he passed. I found your channel not too ong ago and love the videos!

I’m so sorry for your loss man. I went through the same thing losing my father and it’s probably the loneliest feeling I ever had. Your parents are your biggest fans in life! You will never get over not having them but you will learn to think of all the good times and that will keep you going! He may not be on this earth anymore but he will always be with you! I’ve never commented on any of your videos but have liked everyone I’ve watched! You have helped me and my family with so many vacations and we appreciate you so much for what you do! I’m glad you’re doing what makes you happy and I know your father is looking down on you smiling! You my friend are sincerely the Coolist!

What you focus on grows. Rightfully so, for the past 18 months, your emotional connection and relationship with your dad grew the most. Now that your focus is back on Coolist, because during good times you were consistent and invested so much, it will experience tremendous growth in the coming year. Thank you for providing entertainment, joy, travel data, and a community for us to connect with. May your dad RIP, and I'm sending good vibes your way.

Sorry for your loss. Hang in there. 2023 I lost my Dog then my Mom and 2 months later my Grandmother. My best advice is keep going. Your videos are important to people; not only for advice, but some can't make it to these destinations and get to experience through your channel. Peace.

My condolences. I lost my dad to stage 4 cancer in 2020. Was the worst time of my life. Stay strong brother ! Praying for you 🙏🏼❤

Yes, noticed. We are so sorry for your loss. Thank you for letting us in and knowing why you haven't been you. Thanks for sharing. May you be blessed with peace and happiness in your life.

My condolences. My mom passed away over 30 years ago and I still do not talk about her to others. It takes a lot to talk about this on camera for everyone to see. Wish you the best in your journey.

My condolences James. 💜 My father-in-law is in comfort care right now and I know how this affects your whole life. Take time for you and do what feels good for your soul.

You were integral when I planned my upcoming trip to Punta Cana. I'll be at Breathless in 2 weeks because of you! I didn't get a notification for this video, I saw it when I came to your page to look at your Vegas videos. You're helping me plan my first trip there, too. I'm sorry about your loss. Your channel doesn't suck. You do help people and make a difference.

So sorry to here about your Dad (Best friend). I understand you completely. Keep up the amazing work at your on rythme You’ve been through a life changing event.

appreciate you james!

I am really sorry for your loss. My dad was similar and I lost him 20 years ago. It hurts like nothing else. Keep making your excellent content, we are all here for you. ❤

I came across your videos this week while researching Sandals Resorts and subscribed to your channel. This video is a great tribute to your dad. I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you continued success. Set some time aside to spend with your mom too. We travel a lot and I'm looking forward to reviewing your channel's content and future videos.

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad! I don't know him, but I know he had to have been an amazing person because he raised an amazing man. You're such a ray of light, and I enjoy following you channel.

So much respect for you for opening up. I lost my Mother to Cancer 5 years ago last Wednesday, I know she is with me all of the time as your Father will be. Followed you avidly for 2 and a half years now. Looking forward to many more. Respect James 😊❤

When I lost my father it hit me hard...he was my rock. Take all the time you need to gather your thoughts. All your videos are always informative and entertaining.

So sorry to hear about the loss go your dad. I lost mine to stage 4 cancer 12 years ago. It never gets better but it does get a little easier as time passes. There are still times that I go to call home to talk to him and forget he’s not there. This was a brave video and I congratulate you on your courage and openness and the fact that you stay positive. Watching your videos and traveling has inspired my wife and I we are going to try and start our own channel soon. We will be making our first video in Key West at the end of July. Take care of yourself, stay positive and keep making great videos.

God bless you James. Family first, always. Love your videos & have used many of your recommendations on my own trips. I think your content is awesome!

Sorry for your loss James, sending love and light from Ireland 🫶 your videos have shaped so much of my luxury travel, so thank you 🙏

Thank you for the best vacation advice..As someone that took a Cancun trip last year after I lost both my parents,that was a rebirth and a reconnect with my other half. Our parents give us the greatest memories and coming from modest beginnings myself helps us grow. Keep your chin up. Heading to Punta Cana this year.

My condolences Coolist. I know it’s been tough loosing your dad. You’re amazing and thank you for sharing this with us. I love your content and I’m glad you’re rejoining the platform.

I'm sorry for your loss. A beautiful inspiring message. Keep going, brother 💪 you are an amazing content creator and more amazing human. God bless you!

Take things one day at a time James. It never goes away, but it does get better with time. You had a great father it sounds like, and one day you will pass on the lessons he passed on to you. That is the beauty of having that kind of dad. His light and wisdom lives on in you. Peace to you as you walk this journey man. Been there and I feel your pain.

Although this was a difficult video for you to make. Please know it is so refreshing, encouraging, uplifting to hear you speak about your father and your relationship with him. Kudos to your dad,(and mom) he (they) raised a fine young man. Keep chasing those dreams. 0:13

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know my husband was devastated when he lost his Dad/bestfriend. I completely understand how you are feeling I then lost my husband 14 months ago suddenly in his sleep. After 31 years growing up with him I need to find myself, joy and purpose as well as honouring his life 💔💔

So sorry for your loss. I lost my best friend my mom September 2022 and went on vacation July 2023 with my friends for my first birthday without her on this earth. And although I enjoyed my friends. There was a part of me, still a part of me today that will forever be sad. I try to live in the moment. Let myself cry when it comes, but I continue to make good memories bc I know that's what she would have wanted. Prayers to you. Grief is a life long journey 🙏🏾

Sending you lots of love James. Sorry to know you arn't feeling the best on the inside. Also sorry for your loss. Thank you for everything you do! I understand burnout too well... I hope you find personal some peace. 💞 You deserve it! We appreciate you!!!

James, I'm so sorry. I always relate to you because I'm from Milwaukee. I live in socal now but we are still all one big family. My girlfriend tells me she can't believe how it seems like everyone from Wisconsin is the nicest person ever. It is wonderful you got to spend that time at the end though . My father grew ill, suffered from MS and was hospitalized. I was on my way out there but the medical team said he "was gonna be alright " . He passed 2 days later, not a day goes by I kick myself I didn't go. Then my mom passed in 2019 , in Houston in the parking lot of a brewers / Astros game . Not a day goes by I don't think of them. Thinking of ya man, always look forward to your videos , take care

so sorry for your loss. I loved seeing the photos at the end.

Sorry to hear what u are going through.Stay positive and u have a great channel.

Thank you for efforts during such hard times. You have been a key reason in my grown family becoming closer. I use your content to guide my travel decisions. We went from never traveling to traveling together several times a year. You're appreciated, stay honest, we will be here for you. God Bless

Awe James, I'm so so very sorry for your loss. I haven't been on KZfaq in a bit and this is the first video that crossed my path. Big hugs ❤ I lost my Father 4 years ago, it's devastating, nothing like anything we've ever experienced. It doesn't get any easier, we just learn to adjust and cherish the memories ❤

The algorithm has not failed me. You do pop up in my feed. 18 months? I found you within that time. I came for the travel advise, but you stayed for the human connection that we all sorely lack. Don't be so quick to discount that. I'm sending you the biggest digital hug, handshake, whatever... Find some stillness. Reflect. Appreciate. Thank you for what you do. You've made a difference in my life and others. No matter how big or small.

Oh man you just made me cry so hard and then the pictures at the end...so sad and yet so happy because you can see the joy in your face when you are around them. So tough cuz it makes me think of losing my own parents and how hard it will be. This is my 1st time commenting on your stuff although I have been watching you for a long time and have watched your videos numerous times. You travel and have the same interests as my husband and I, so I know I'm getting honest like-minded content when I watch your videos. We are set to go to Royalton Chic Cancun in December and so excited that I have watched that video, Royalton Punta Cana, and the comparison videos so much lately its crazy! Thank you for your content and for keeping going...it sounds like this has been a rough year and half for you and yet you still put on your game face and get done what you need to. Thank you for being you and hope you find inner peace! Sending good vibes your way!

Condolences to you Coolist, beautifully said and we are here for you. Looking forward to you getting a second wind and the great informative videos. You are the BEST, great energy and giving us the most information, especially for us that don't travel a lot.

James your channel is valuable I found our favorite vacation stop because of your videos, also found some places that we wanna definitely see. The passing of a loved one is life changing, let it change you and make you better but give it the time that the grief needs. Yes your the black lab on this channel but in life your a son and that is gonna be hard if don't take the time to address it. Keep talking about your dad, re watch all the Ted Lasso episodes and think of him, or just hang out with family, bring them along on one of your excursions. most of all love yourself and hold on to those cherished parts of growing up and being a son. make connections with your family that will fill you up.

Really sorry to hear about you dad 💐 just want you to know I’ve always appreciated your videos and the thought and meaning you put into talking about the places you’ve been to. Your channel helped me plan and have a great time on my first Caribbean trip with friends; even since then I always look forward to watching your content.

your vids helped me book my first all inclusive, still my go-to channel for travelling.

Take a break bro, everybody needs it even if you are every time in paradise but hey no for to long, your videos are so amazing and your life is amazing. I will do anything for have it.

Deepest condolences for your loss, James. My father was in the hospital for one year straight, pulled through after countless complications, and lived another seven years before the complications caught up with him. Like you, he was an amazing dad and left this life way too soon. He is always in my heart and prayers and his influence on me lives on in my day to day choices in life. It has been many years since his passing. There will always be an empty space but, surprisingly, he remains as much a part of my life now than when he was alive. In time, you will see just how great he was because of how great an influence he had on you. That means he is always there when you need him. Always. Go do you!

I just stayed 3 nights at the Wynn in Las Vegas. It was not my 1st time there but I went back due to your videos. Thank YOU!

We watch every video, keep it going James.

I’m so sorry about your dad. I have to tell you that even what you’d consider your “lousy” content, is good to me! Yours is the only travel blog i pay attention to. ❤ 4:30

Never commented before but love your channel so I subbed a few months ago. Losing someone so close is void you’ll never fill. The beautiful thing is he planted so many seeds and taught you so many lessons you can embrace. Your dad sounds like an amazing human. What an incredible legacy .. it’s your time to represent ❤️🙏🏾

James, I would like to send my prayers to you and your family regarding the loss of your father. Remain strong and continue with your journey. I will keep supporting you and your channel. I am looking forward to seeing your upcoming content. I always enjoy your content. Be you and keep doing your thing James - that is why I started watching your channel, and will continue to watch. Thanks🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪

Most of your followers on vacation. On your awesome suggestions

Allow yourself to grieve and process. I was in a very dark place after my mom's passing. Everyone handles grief differently. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Thanks for sharing your heart and being vulnerable with us James. Always appreciate your videos. Deepest condolences on your loss.

First off, my deepest condolences. That is rough stuff, and I have been in your shoes. I lost both of my parents at an early age. My mother when I was 15 and my father when I was 29. I'm 55 now and it still hurts, but as you said, I was lucky to have been born in the US and had them as parents. I appreciated you opening up and explaining why you thought your videos were off, but you didn't need to. I wonder, and find it remarkable how you even mustered the will to do any videos with everything that you had going on. Kudos to you showing your personal human side. Took a lot to do that. Too tell you the truth, I didn't notice any downgrade just the length between videos was more. I thought it was just being tired from having that much fun partying, eating, and drinking all the time. Anyway, I just want to also thank you for sharing your passion for travel, showing us cool stuff, and your honest opinions. It really helps narrow down hotels that are out there. Someday my wife and I hope to take your advice and hit one of these hotels. That's if, like you said, the new 1 dollar still is a 10 dollar bill or more the way it's going. You are awesome at what you do and look forward to more. Keep your passion going, and take time for yourself to heel. Stay safe and take care!

NOPE!! Your channel will NEVER suck! Now let me finish watching the rest of this non-sucking video🤩😂

I lost my mom in 2019 and I have never been the same. A part of me is gone when I loss my Mom. Grief is different for everyone and grief as no time. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and my prayers to you and your family. You need to do what is best for you and take your time with it. I hope you still continue with the channel. I will be waiting for whenever you come back but right now you have to take care of yourself. Just remember grief as no time. Take care of yourself.

So sorry for your loss 🙏 Your channel is one of the best I love how realistic and authentic you always are and I look forward to all your future content.

James, I feel you’re one of my besties! Sending virtual big hugs and luvs! Xoxoxoxo. Thank you for all you do showing us the world. Your passion is definitely a Gem!❤

Very sorry, James, to hear of your loss. Your love of your father comes through loud and clear. It was nice for us to hear of your relationship stories with him. Just seeing the pictures of him at the end of this video, it seems clear where your moral principles emanate from. Thank you for sharing, may God bless you and your family... and may he have already welcomed your dad home with open arms.

Hey Man, my heart goes out to you and your family. You are great at what you do and I lost my dad, who was 93, three months ago and I binged a lot of KZfaq in those two weeks after and namely your videos of your traveling and reviewing all over the place. It took my mind to a better place during a dark time so what you do makes a difference to lots of other people in ways you might not even think of so keep moving forward and know your videos sometimes mean more than just reviewing a cool pool scene. Your communication skills and mojo are exemplary. Keep up the good work and stay strong. You are admired by many.

I am so sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person and I am a huge fan of your videos. I’m wishing the best for you and I am keeping you and your family lifted in prayer.

James, thank you for this heart to heart peek at your personal life and the realness that that has been with your dear father and best friend's passing. How devastating it must have been and still be to you and your mom. To have that deep, complex, and rewarding relationship with your father must be so special. Congrats on that forever bond. And thank you for always sharing in specific, colorful ways that make you and your energy and opinions so clear, useful, and entertaining. Your dad and mom must be so proud of you, your character, and your dedication. God bless you all.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I just started watching you a few weeks ago and I love your content! I’ve been binging it. You’re doing great work!

James, I am so sorry for the loss of you dad. I can relate in some ways, but it is not easy. Your video do not suck and you did your best under what your were going through and any of us that care and support you we all would understand. Congrats on chasing your dreams and your videos have helped us decided on a resort. I love your energy and honesty and care that you put into you hard work in every video. Looking forward to what is coming next. Your the best, stay strong!

As a new subscriber, I appreciate your openness regarding the matter. Losing a parent is one of the most difficult situations to encounter. My advice is to take things a day at a time and know your true subscribers will be with you along this journey. My prayers are with you.

So glad you got to spend a bunch of time with him in his last few months. I’m hoping you find happiness in reading these comments and how much your fans love you and your videos, no matter how much time passes!

So sorry for your loss. I feel your pain and can totally relate. My Dad was diagnosed with cancer 14 months ago and we lost him 3 months ago. The stronger the love, the stronger the pain of loss. Glad you got to spend time with him while you could. You'll never regret that. I enjoy your videos and look forward to traveling more as I try to regain happiness again. I pray you will have strength and comfort as you grieve the loss of your father. It's hard.

James, I’m so sorry for your loss. Grief is a hard thing to overcome but know that it won’t last forever. Your father sounded like such an amazing person and I’m sure he would be so proud of what you will continue to accomplish. I also want to add that I don’t go anywhere on vacation without checking your channel first! You have been such a help for the past few years for me when it comes to planning vacations and I’m sure you’ve also helped so many others around the world! Always rooting for you and I can’t wait to see your future content! 🤍

James, it was really refreshing seeing a more personal side. Much love as you go through the process of grieving. So much of what you said rang true for me in the loss of my father. My description would have paralleled yours. It is a gift to him for you to find your joy again.

Sorry for your loss James, I get it completely. Losing a parent or loved one will always change your life. I have been through this as well and time will heal all.

My condolences Coolist , I lost my father to terminal brain cancer. Standing in front of him and he not knowing who I was , was the worst feeling in the world! I know what you’re going through and take your time coming back, you have loyal fans! We’re like family ❤