She lost me when she said that he left while she was pregnant for a year. Sis come on and you took him back? I’m in disbelief. This woman is beyond delusional.

He’s still married He was missing because he was probably locked up for not paying child support on his other children

They can contact anyone to come to this show like mistresses and stuff but couldn’t contact the so called ex wife to ask if they are divorced?

I’ve lost respect for this court. He leaves for a year while she’s pregnant and he loves her? Absolutely no words. How disappointing.

He believes his own lies🙄 that's a DANGEROUS MAN!!

This was the worst episode I’ve seen... he’s lying & he’s fake crying 😂😂😂

Missing for a year? A whole year? My entire pregnancy? Nah you don't have to tell me I'm done. That's more than f'd up!

If a man left me for a year he had better stay gone.

This man is a great actor. This man was in a relationship for that year and yes he is still married.

I know he cares about me but he ran off for almost a year.... ok

Running an online dating platform I hate to say this but “we met on Facebook ...” is usually the start of a drama filled tale. 😩

why would you leave your HOME to go stay in a HOMESLESS shelter? lol

"he gives me foot massages, they dont get that...so I know he loves me ".........I am.... lost for words

I don't believe him. I can't believe that this beautiful woman has allowed this goofy way to many teeth in his mouth dude to play with her emotions. If you can't trust him leave him like he did you when you were pregnant!

You have got to be joking. If I disappeared for a day without telling my mrs she would be sick with worry, then when I turned up she would probably throw me out of my own house. This man is the biggest liar I have seen on this show and the Cutlers have her convinced he loves her and is truthful! Come on now. And please stop with that "cheating yourself out of a good relationship" line at the end of every single show.

I honestly have a feeling that he is hiding something pertaining to his marriage & the type of lifestyle he is living. 🤷🏽.

A massage is more than a disease, your children, your heart! If you know your man is cheating and you let him get away with it he will continue. He has already showed you you are not the love of his life. Move on!

Okay honest question.. How are people living life? I watch a lot of court shows and relationship shows and some of the stuff people do, put up with, and settle for, is just unbelievable. What am I missing? Don't people want more out of life? Smh 😒

That man a liar sis!! Run sis run!!

This guy is hiding something. It seems like he is about to cry. What is really bothering him?

If a man left me for a year, he couldn’t give me a good enough reason for being gone. He was on social media responding to other people and ignored her texts, calls, posts-while she was pregnant. Whether he cheated or not I wouldn’t take him back. What about a divorce...the word wasn’t mentioned in the update. Wow

Man, this dude is still married!!! Did they just encourage her to stay with him.....get out of here!

They need more clarity on where he was for that year and why he’s not getting a divorce. This is all weird

He can't be trusted!He lies for no reason and you think a massage is love wow!

This is a JOKE. Stop encouraging these women to stay with cheaters!!

Wow, she should have never gotten with this guy. First off, he has other children with other women already. Secondly, he disappeared for a YEAR, while she was pregnant with his second child with her. During that YEAR he was with another woman. Thirdly he might be still married!!!! She needs to drop him NOW!

I don’t believe him still lol

If he loves her so much, why did he leave her for a year without saying a word?

I also have to say she is a very beautiful woman👏

Hi sir in the back with the purple flower in your lapel🙋🙋🙋🙋

Cheating is not just intercourse.. Also why can't he answer where he went or finalize his divorce if he loves her like he says he does?

He still lying! If he can leave while ur pregnant and for a year at that....no ma'am!

She is gorgeous and deserves better!!!

He is married...🙅🏾‍♀️

The dude behind the girl is fiiiinneeee

I’m actually hurt for her. She need to wise up. Cant believe the judge said she believed he love her. that’s some hurtful love right there

From paternity court to couples court. Hi all 🇻🇨🇻🇨🇻🇨 in the house

Sis, please. After all his antics, he's still married. Every divorced person knows exactly when that paperwork was finalized.

Self esteem is so important

Judge Lauren Lake Would’ve Handled This Case The Way It Should have been !!

He's married and have a girlfriend and the girlfriend is taking him to court because she thinks he is cheating on her? WHAT IN THE WORLD IS GOING ON!

When you are trying to have a relationship and family with a married man, who never showed you divorce papers, you pretty much deserve what you get.

What’s the point she’s not going anywhere. A woman doesn’t need a lie detector test to tell her if her man is cheating. If you’re not prepared to leave let him cheat in peace

I'm still trying to understand why he was gone for a year and left her for the whole pregnancy. I never left my woman for a day much less. Took her to all her appointments and was there for childbirth as well as the few extra days after childbirth in the hospital. So I don't believe his bs about caring about her.

This dude is all the way still married and shes still believing his lies...smh

His past is coming because he has settled it. Its coming straight to her front door. She wont have look for it.

Why would he disappear during your entire pregnancy if he loooovvveeee you soooo much? Why would he leave you and go to a shelter without one visit to you, didn't go with you to any doctor appointments, didn't hear you cry or groan during your pregnancy? Wow......that is hurtful. And he says he loves youuuuuu? WOW..!!

Run! Lady, he is suspect!

So you two sitting on that bench is just going to disregard that this man is still married and y'all ok with it???!!! And.. y'all two going to tell her to stay off of social media because "haters are going to hate". You two need a polygraph test because y'all telling a lie and being deceptive.!!!!! wth.

First of all, she nah go anywhere because she stayed with him while he was gone for a year during her pregnancy. I cannot take all these couples coming on here with this foolishness and still I watch🤷🏾‍♀️

He’s cold. She took him back after being gone for 1yr... no no no no.. stay gone

That man's a liar and a cheat,leave while there's still time.

So everybody is being picked up on Facebook now?

He is pathologically a liar. If he's divorced, ask him to provide the "Annulment of Marriage" that readily available at the court for him to request for.

If someone is more trouble then what they bring to the table leave them. Better to be single and happy then not and in misery.

She is really beautiful love her hair

The conversation should have stopped after he left her for a year WHILE she was pregnant AND did not respond at all to her messages, calls or anything. Until that situation is resolved, and the truth comes out, she should want nothing to do with this guy.

Judge at times not always right. How do they know he loves her. He does dissapearing act and then comes back as though nothing i wrong

That dark chocolate in the back ... Whewww heyyy 😍😍😍😍

Bro is that just J Cole

"You know i love you" *starts crying crocodile tears* he was caught and now he is playing innocent to make her forget about what he did. And by the looks of her smile,she fell for it

This guy is full of it! And that makes me think that they should've done the forensic thing with his phone as well.

Maybe the man is on Drugs and just dont want to say that. I'm just saying. Drugs make people disappear for a long time. This show is crazy. But he lieing about something.

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️Girrrl u need to RUN!!And don't never ever ever ever look back🤥

Why the judges pushing them to be together...he is a compulsive lier...he will do it again and again...girl move on with ur life !!

Ms. Smith.....sis.......did you lose your common sense along with your edges? Gone for an entire year during your entire pregnancy but you know he loves you because he gives you a massage after work unlike the other women that are hitting you up? If these 2 bobble heads don’t go on and get smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

The gentleman in the back is handsome. Hello sir

Naw he's lying about something. If he loves her so much, why is he still married?

Him rubbing her back doesn't negate cheating. Man you young heathens.

Y'all know y'all wrong for saying that shark mouth fool look like J. Cole!! 🤦🏾‍♀️😲 Don't insult J. Cole like that lol

He needs to grow up. She needs to woman up and leave him. He's not treating her right. Honey, what he won't do, another man will treat you like the queen you are. But take him to PC to get the financial support.

I don't know about this one. I mean the test has proven that he hasn't slept with anybody else. But he left her during the whole pregnancy. He's not there for me emotionally and she's hurting inside. There's a problem with trust with her. Which I think it's rightfully so. She was getting ready to leave him and go to a different state. Obviously she's giving him another chance and I wish them the best. I hope I'm wrong but in the back of my head I see clouds😕

COUPLES COURT"CAN SOMEBODY EXPLAIN TO ME WHY AFTER A DIVORCE A PERSON IS SO DESPERATE FOR A BABY AND BEING MARRIED?

He ghosted her while pregnant and she forgave him? This dude has her rightfully suspicious.

All the way from Jamaica [yam head, man clown, gugubat, battaears] these woman have no sense. 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

I’m sorry but the judges were way off on this one. He loves her? Come on now Judge

All she wants is a massage

Just want to say the chocolate brother behind the girl....is all type of fine👑👑

Something is not adding up right!

I am in 5 min and No. It doesn't matter. I would RUN!

He disappears for a year with no contact and "The Cutlers" encourage her that he loves her and that's supposed to be acceptable? I guess if Mr. Cutler disappeared for a year Mrs. Cutler would take him back and Visa versa. Kind of lame. Remember polygraphs are sometimes faulty which is why they aren't admissable in court. He needs to take a few more tests. The Cutlers need to take off their rose colored glasses. Pollyanna advice.

Mrs. Smith, he ain’t shyt!

I’m trying to like this show but they give terrible advice. They’re not being real with these people that come on the show. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ disappeared a whole year while she’s pregnant and he’s still married. Trash 🗑

What was he doing for a year tho?

This episode is the best.. Only, because I know the guy personally. Yes, the man is still married, but he’s not involved with his wife.

Some people throw the word LOVE around so loosely like it's a game because if he Loved her so much, he wouldn't have left her for almost a year and while she's pregnant that.

I don't trust that polygraph examiner 😑

He comes to court, doesn’t want to come clean, all the while having an attitude, ohhhh irritating!😡

I'm sorry I'm confused. What man leaves the love of his life during pregnancy for almost a year? Where is the divorce papers? Yes there are haters but he has too many instances. His demeanor is not truthful. He was surprised they checked back 10 years. The best thing she can do is go to new state and leave him. Because eventually what you do in dark does come to light.

After everything this little BOY has put her through...she really needed someone else to show her that he's no good?

Ladies, is your self respect so low that he can leave you for a year while you're pregnant and you consider taking him back?....Is this what happens when your Dad is not in the home to tell you can do better and you don't have to accept this or are you making a fool of yourself just to get a flight and be on TV?

This woman needs to go on about her life

I had an ex who, years later, got in another relationship. They’ve been together 10 plus years and she doesn’t know his past. I new every thing about his criminal record because I new him since I was 12 so that’s about 26 years. He changed his life around years ago so she never new that side of him. He never told her and said that she doesn’t need to know...that was his past. Woman, please do a background check on the man you are dating. Check criminal records, credit, what ever you can check. So many people end up in a damaged relationship because it was damaged before the relationship ever started (try and find who and what you are dealing with)!

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️why are they here again?? He could have lied at home! 😒

That guy is something else! He said he's been in homeless shelters A.K.A.other women's homes!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

So disappointing. Their only advice for her is to stay off of Facebook. He disappears for a year while she was pregnant and that's the best advice they could give her?!?

Don't fall for the crocodile tears. Leave him. The cutlers gave the wrong advice on this one.

She needs to leave he crying and sorry now because he was caught.

Why do the judges sometimes try to keep these couples together? That beautiful woman should be encouraged to find a better relationship! They really coddled that boyfriend.

That first question was loaded. They didn't clarify in a relationship w/ who. Because he was in a relationship w/ her. Now if it said other than her i can see where they have a point. My ex- sent me fake divorce papers too. Lol!