CPTSD and Coping With The Grief & Loss of a Pet

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RICHARD GRANNON

RICHARD GRANNON

Күн бұрын

Losing a pet is one of the many devastating, traumatizing life experiences virtually all pet owners will at one point go through, in this video, we will discuss how to process the grief, feelings of sadness, and the philosophy one ought to take in the face of loss
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Timestamps:
• 00:00 | The Question
• 00:44 | The beauty of animals and being in the moment
• 01:26 | The reality of a shorter lifespan
• 02:02 | Khalil Gibran, The Prophet
• 03:15 | The Philosophy you need
• 10:18 | Thank you
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DISCLAIMER: THIS INFORMATION IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTHCARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS VIDEO DISCUSSES GRIEF IN GENERAL.
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@grinklar10
@grinklar10 Жыл бұрын
It can be harder to lose a pet than a person because they are truly innocent and unconditional.
@techjunkie68smusicandtech56
@techjunkie68smusicandtech56 9 ай бұрын
absolutely and I allow myself to grieve and be sad when it happens, I have experienced a lot of loss of pets as I have always had multiple cats around the house and they absolutely help with the grieving process, I talk to our cats and express how grateful I am for their companionship during the grieving, as they're part of it too. They are missing their companions too.
@Chris.Treborn
@Chris.Treborn 9 ай бұрын
So true my friend.
@mandygreen9152
@mandygreen9152 7 ай бұрын
yes i agree they love you unconditional, my sweet cat hase artrose he is 15 years now and i don't know when is is no longer whit me 😪 he got medication for the pain, but it is hard to see how he walks he is the love of my live!
@sweetjellyasmr1
@sweetjellyasmr1 5 ай бұрын
EXACTLY! The love is so pure, so genuine. It’s so hard to go through this 💔 I hate it.
@commoveo1
@commoveo1 4 ай бұрын
So agree 😢! ✨❤️✨
@craigfrober316
@craigfrober316 Жыл бұрын
It can be especially difficult when your pet had shown more humanity than most people around you. All we can do is be grateful for the memories and to have been a part of their journey.
@bethetruth6428
@bethetruth6428 Жыл бұрын
😢😓🙏💖 can relate. xo.
@7uc1f3r.
@7uc1f3r. Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jeanmariesworld4358
@jeanmariesworld4358 19 күн бұрын
My dog was my whole life. I was home with her and she was in a stroller because it’s hot ❤ here in Florida. She likes going shopping and gave me company at home. My vet gave her a rabies shot the Jan. He said she was he healthiest 15 year old shihpoo. No diabetes or n heart problems. I’m went back three weeks to get eye drops and the vet gave her another rabies shot three weeks after the first one. Couldn’t he look on the chart. I was busy trying pick her up to put on the scale. She died at my home just shook and threw me four kisses and died. Any advice would be helpful. He admitted he shouldn’t have given her two shots
@darcybarwick3766
@darcybarwick3766 4 ай бұрын
My dog was my life … he was my family .. I’m truly devastated , I cannot stop crying . I see him everywhere . RIP Humphrey
@KalebJurickovich
@KalebJurickovich 2 ай бұрын
Long live Humphrey
@pitsnpistols1005
@pitsnpistols1005 Ай бұрын
I’m sorry! I lost my pitbull 10 months ago and I miss him everyday. And today I took my Bearded Dragon in for surgery, come to find out his tumor grew and is touching his heart so there’s nothing they can do. Im so crushed. I love them Both very much.
@thetexassaint6571
@thetexassaint6571 Ай бұрын
I lost my Bro Oso of 14.5 years three days ago. How blessed we were to have had the time we did with these majestic and truly innocent souls
@76TomD
@76TomD Ай бұрын
I lost mine 2 days ago. The best part of my soul is gone.
@donnabelitz3105
@donnabelitz3105 Ай бұрын
I understand, I'm so sorry for your loss of Humphrey.
@mrl1593
@mrl1593 7 ай бұрын
Lost my dog 3 days ago. Been crying everyday since then. I miss him so much
@Ichigo-gp9vq
@Ichigo-gp9vq 3 ай бұрын
How are you now
@joerogan5433
@joerogan5433 3 ай бұрын
So sorry my friend. Me too. It cuts like a knife.
@coltenvan7948
@coltenvan7948 3 ай бұрын
Lost mine 2 days ago I’ve had her almost all my life since I can remember I’m 18 now and she was still jumpy and full of energy at 15 we had to put her down bc of cancer and financial issues I fr don’t know how to cope with it she was like everything to me and she had a emotional attachment to me I love her more than anything and would give anything to bring her back ima try to stay positive and work on things but not having her by my side hurts so bad
@thinkforyourself7262
@thinkforyourself7262 3 ай бұрын
Feel you my dog got ran over two days ago, it’s horrific
@raq540
@raq540 3 ай бұрын
Ugh me too 😢
@gempath5533
@gempath5533 Жыл бұрын
I think the death of a pet, can be worse than the death of a person, depending on the person. Animals are innocent and good and absolutely genuine in their love. They are the closest thing to Angel's on this earth.
@singingchannel2648
@singingchannel2648 Ай бұрын
true
@darcybarwick3766
@darcybarwick3766 17 күн бұрын
So true
@estherphill1076
@estherphill1076 15 күн бұрын
@gempath5533 Agreed and i think the only grief above that is losing a young child
@corb5654
@corb5654 Жыл бұрын
I have always grieved the loss of my pets far deeper than the loss of humans...
@seer1623
@seer1623 10 ай бұрын
You are spot on; just lost my beloved cat Tequila, 20 years young, a week ago today and the pain surpassed the grief of the death of three immediate family members combined, all of whom screwed me over in a variety of ways. Cats and dogs just want us to love them; they have no sinister agenda.
@marion5198
@marion5198 10 ай бұрын
​@@seer1623 l do agree !
@energyisenergy
@energyisenergy 10 ай бұрын
💯
@unocualqu1era
@unocualqu1era 10 ай бұрын
"It's just a pet" some say. They fucking wish they were 1/100th as nice and innocent as my pet. Fuck 90% of people I just want these little animals to live forever but I can't do anything
@marion5198
@marion5198 10 ай бұрын
@@unocualqu1era Most animals are so much better than people. I have no idea where this " people are more important than animals " comes from. Open up your eyes folks !!! Maybe our sweethearts will come back one day ❤️ like us.
@sw6454
@sw6454 Жыл бұрын
My two doggies protected me from my narcissistic husband and now they have both gone, it’s a very lonely life. I did promise my last dog before he died that he didn’t have to worry anymore and protect me because I will make sure sure I will be ok. That promise to him has kept me going during the really dark parts. The bigger the love, the bigger the grief.
@orianemeijerink6983
@orianemeijerink6983 7 ай бұрын
That's really beautiful, animals really are our best friends, and im glad you are honouring their memory by protecting yourself. I also hope you got out and are safe❤
@susanraeisi1459
@susanraeisi1459 6 ай бұрын
I truly believe it that animals come to our life when we need them the most and leave when their purpose is complete. I went through a tough time of my life 10 years ago and just before I start that period I met my dogs( both rescued) one died 6 months ago and one is close to leaving me. I miss my dog that’s gone and I cry everyday for the one with sickness. I know I would be completely lost if they didn’t come to my life
@geomcc39
@geomcc39 5 ай бұрын
its so hard ! lost my Caroline yesterday to most people she was a dog, To me she was my Sanity I do not trust anyone that don't love animals. My Caroline was at the pound for over a year ,everyone took her back she was a hard dog to train. But I never gave up on my furry little girl. I had 12 good years she was the best !!
@colleendensmore7731
@colleendensmore7731 Жыл бұрын
When my parents died and when I left my marriage, it was stressful. However, when I lost my dog, Lily, it was just pure agonizing grief.
@pinky9440
@pinky9440 8 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is tremendous and it comes and goes, but it feels like it would never end. I hope you feel better now.
@thetexassaint6571
@thetexassaint6571 Ай бұрын
I understand. I’m an only child and I was surprised and super saddened when my beloved father passed. When my dude Oso passed a few days ago…shit, the first week I was crying every literal hour. Almost two weeks later I’m down to a few times per day. What an epic journey it was. I had no idea it would change me forever and be so beautiful. The sorrow and sadness I have now is worth it. Worth the thousands of beautiful moments. I didn’t realize that until this moment…
@darcybarwick3766
@darcybarwick3766 19 күн бұрын
I understand
@davidhorvath8022
@davidhorvath8022 2 ай бұрын
I put my dog down today 😢 I was and am extremely grief stricken. Could not stop crying very ugly tears, gut wrenching ache. I loved my Brady girl, she was a sweet heart. She was a part of my soul that got ripped out of me. It is so raw
@Voltedd
@Voltedd Ай бұрын
i just put my puppy down yesterday.. she was only 2 :( i feel for you man.. I hope everything gets better! Sending much love!!!
@singingchannel2648
@singingchannel2648 Ай бұрын
I feel your pain...nothing anyone can say or do can take it away....it just hurts and the heart aches,...I miss my Ari boy, such good dog😢 Passed away 3 weeks ago
@animalliberationCLBB
@animalliberationCLBB 4 ай бұрын
I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you; but instead I am deeply honored knowing you spent the rest of your life with me.” -Camille Marcotte Just ❤to everyone. R.I.P. 🐈‍⬛ Blacky
@howdoesitgetbetter
@howdoesitgetbetter Ай бұрын
Thank you for being so supportive. I found the quote you posted under some other video, it meant so much to me that I made a beautiful print out of it and inserted it into every framed photo of my souldoggy that I have in my house. Thank you.
@animalliberationCLBB
@animalliberationCLBB Ай бұрын
@@howdoesitgetbetter 💝💜they don't want us sad and crying, they are really fine now!! It's like they are with us just in another room where we can't see them,but they are with us! Much💝
@howdoesitgetbetter
@howdoesitgetbetter Ай бұрын
@@animalliberationCLBB Yes, my brain comprehends this and yet I cannot cope with the emotional pain and how much I miss my souldoggy. We were together 24/7 for 16 years, travelled through three continents, survived Fukushima earthquake and nuclear plant incident, sailed in North and South Pacific ocean together, so many memories that I will cherish forever. No bond with human is this deep, magical and Divine!
@animalliberationCLBB
@animalliberationCLBB Ай бұрын
@@howdoesitgetbetter no one can ever take these moments from you both 💎there are always in your ❤️!! and you will meet again! I'm still so broken after the loss of my cat. He was special. I cry every day almost one year now.💔 But they are fine and don't want us to cry! True the love is different so deep 💜
@howdoesitgetbetter
@howdoesitgetbetter 28 күн бұрын
@@animalliberationCLBB Thank you very much for your kind, warm and comforting words. It is so true that they don't want us to cry because even while alive, my sweetest, dearest souldoggy was extremely worry about me whenever he saw me crying. 🐕🐾🐾💞💖
@itsawowman_
@itsawowman_ Жыл бұрын
What helps me is remember to be grateful. We are all here for a finite amount of time, but we have had the chance to be part of their lifetime, enjoy their existence, and have the privilege to get to know them. Which is all we can truly have. My condolences to everyone.
@dannyduggan4324
@dannyduggan4324 16 күн бұрын
Really like this way of thinking. Thank you.
@evelinaiuliano3547
@evelinaiuliano3547 3 ай бұрын
It's 5 months and I'm still grieving. Depression, not sleeping, crying 😢 all the time. Miss my Furbabies 😢
@singingchannel2648
@singingchannel2648 Ай бұрын
its really raw still since my boy passed away in April....my heart longs to have him here, I understand, how grief can throw us into a rollercoaster of emotions... for me this has been the most extreme grief I have felt from the loss of a loved one, because of our deep love connection. I feel your heartbreak💔
@BigBossIvan
@BigBossIvan 10 ай бұрын
My best friend is gone. The worst part is my parents, I take such good care of, poisoned him. My father, specifically. It was an accident, but so unnecessary, so stupid, such a nightmare to wake up to and wonder what went wrong at the animal ER... I can't stop wailing in the night, away from my wife. I don't think I can ever forgive this. My little friend, my only real friend, had so many more years to go.
@scorpiolove674
@scorpiolove674 Жыл бұрын
Animals are beyond humans when it comes to unconditional lifelong loyalty .
@yollaurban
@yollaurban Жыл бұрын
So true.
@Chris.Treborn
@Chris.Treborn 7 ай бұрын
Gaysexisdisgusting
@Chris.Treborn
@Chris.Treborn 7 ай бұрын
@@yollaurban you wish honey
@commoveo1
@commoveo1 4 ай бұрын
✨❤️😢✨
@lindseygrace11LoveAlchemist
@lindseygrace11LoveAlchemist Жыл бұрын
I lost my cat Tibbles on 10th January this year. I had him for 15 years. He was killed in front of me by a staff dog that had got off his lead. I can honestly say Tibbles was their with me through all my life traumas and heartache. I love him so much. He helped me to open up my heart again ♥️ So much love and comfort to all of you that have lost your beloved pets. ♥️♥️
@TrishCanyon8
@TrishCanyon8 Жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@Steph_UK
@Steph_UK Жыл бұрын
So sorry. My sincere condolences ❤
@BuddhatheRockstar
@BuddhatheRockstar Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@h.p.dominocus
@h.p.dominocus Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I wish you the best.
@dawnandhallahavingfun5313
@dawnandhallahavingfun5313 Жыл бұрын
So sorry😔🤗
@bluenetmarketing
@bluenetmarketing Жыл бұрын
I lost my dear little precious Penelope Jack Russell last week. She was my everything. I could face anything because she was there to come home to each night, and now the house is empty and my life is empty and cold. Some people have no idea how broken people are without the unconditional love from their warm, happy dogs and cats. If Penelope isn't in Heaven when I pass, I want to go where she is instead. I can't go through this soul deep pain again.
@maryhampton4410
@maryhampton4410 Жыл бұрын
God gave us pets to show us a little about Himself. They are not fallen. Find out about God, not only His love and companionship, but all the rest. He never leaves us and I am never alone. I too have grieved for losing my dogs. Believe me when I say that their goodness cannot be anywhere else than in heaven. God Himself planned for our salvation so we could all be together for eternity. Find out about His plan.:)
@stevefurness6303
@stevefurness6303 Жыл бұрын
I had a parson Russell terrier and like your Jack small on legs big on personality. It's been 6 years since he passed I miss him every single day
@bluenetmarketing
@bluenetmarketing Жыл бұрын
@@stevefurness6303 The Russell terriers are so heartwarming and special beyond words. Sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure they are playing together in Heaven right now.
@bluenetmarketing
@bluenetmarketing Жыл бұрын
@@maryhampton4410 Amen and amen. Thanks, Mary.
@stevefurness6303
@stevefurness6303 Жыл бұрын
@@bluenetmarketing of that I have no doubt probably getting up to all kinds of mischief
@h.p.dominocus
@h.p.dominocus Жыл бұрын
I lost a 15 year old Tuxedo cat named Max early this year. Never had such a strong bond with an animal before him. He was unusually empathetic towards humans and always sensed if something was wrong. He would put his paw on my heart when I was in the middle of a panic attack. Putting him down was one of the most traumatic things I've ever experienced in my life. The weeks following I started having multiple panic attacks every damn day and night. I never felt so out of control. I'm mostly ok now but still have random moments where the weight of this loss re-emerges in very vivid flashbacks. My heart goes out to anyone currently dealing with this.
@braklola
@braklola Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@jeremyeichelberger9243
@jeremyeichelberger9243 Ай бұрын
🖐😪🖤
@iTadakimAsu85
@iTadakimAsu85 21 күн бұрын
I'm dealing with it right now. His conditioned deteriorated quickly and didn't want him to suffer so had at home euthanasia. Had him 14+ years.
@h.p.dominocus
@h.p.dominocus 21 күн бұрын
@@iTadakimAsu85 Im so sorry that had to happen. Sending you positive thoughts as you heal from your loss.
@Games-df5uh
@Games-df5uh 6 ай бұрын
I lost my dog at 5:45 AM from a stroke she had. I walked in the room she was in and I saw her on the floor shaking on the floor and she was still alive. I wanted to save her and I was to scared to do anything. I was trying to call a 24/7 vet but it was too late and she died in my hands. I have been crying ever since that night and I just can't bare with this sadness. I miss her so much and her life was taken at a young age. I had gotten her back in summer and I still remember taking care of her when she was just a baby. I have learned to accept the sadness and let it overtake me but to also remember how such a great dog she was.
@davelaseer1344
@davelaseer1344 25 күн бұрын
Watching cat die from a stroke 1 night and unable to save her made me felt totally helpless & heartbroken. We rush her to the ER but they couldn’t save her as her heart has just stop and her vein collapsed so they couldn’t even get an IV into her. I am so lost without her. And still grief after a year.
@verschwenderin
@verschwenderin 6 ай бұрын
I just lost my pet today. She was everything to me and it is true that my grief mirrors the immense love my dog felt for me and me for her. I know time heals in some way but the pain is never truly gone. My heart goes out to all the ones who lost their furry family.
@singingchannel2648
@singingchannel2648 Ай бұрын
💔
@jaydee8697
@jaydee8697 Жыл бұрын
Oh man … I lost my 12 yr old lab last December frig it was like relearning to walk again in a way, so much old crap came back up I thought I was done with 😢 Was the longest, healthiest relationship I’ve ever had, didn’t realize how much I relied on that relationship until it was gone
@fr33bird.33
@fr33bird.33 7 ай бұрын
I am right there with you. My dog was a few months away from being 16. So many years and memories and unconditional love and adventure. Now all just a memory as of 10/26 😭
@jaydee8697
@jaydee8697 7 ай бұрын
@@fr33bird.33 hugs, sorry for your loss, a big loss indeed
@chrisdaniel5004
@chrisdaniel5004 6 ай бұрын
I feel your pain.
@judithgee7011
@judithgee7011 2 ай бұрын
Your words could be mine.
@mamandapanda185
@mamandapanda185 Жыл бұрын
I'm so fkn scared of losing my feline soul mate. I got him, or he got me, already as an older cat when lockdowns began and have become scarily attached to him. I've never loved anything or anyone like this before. I'm saving this video. :(
@mint_soup9743
@mint_soup9743 11 ай бұрын
I lost my sweet dog recently. I held her in her last moments. I was glad I got to be by her side and that I was home when it happened. I pray I get to see her again someday. I've had many pets but she was something so special to me. I find peace in that she's not suffering but the grief is so real. I feel... hollow. It's hard to believe it's real. We buried her under her favorite cherry tree where she'd like to lay in the shade.🌳 My heart hurts beyond words.
@thetexassaint6571
@thetexassaint6571 Ай бұрын
My dude Oso went to sleep and was next to me on the floor, with my arm on him as he passed . Of all the violent and brutal ways people and dogs can go in this life, what an incredible thing to be released from his battle worn body of 14.5 years. I’ve had to learn how to live again as he and I had a lifestyle together. We moved into many states many times . I understand the empty hollow feeling. I made vow to him to is all my resources in the next world to find him, and to continually pray for hep in doing so. Delusional perhaps but i genuinely don’t believe so. It’s not even two weeks since and I’m down to only crying a few times per day, versus every single waking hour. We are blessed and they were too to exit so peacefully…I’m forever grateful
@mint_soup9743
@mint_soup9743 Ай бұрын
@@thetexassaint6571 bless you and it will get easier I promise, how lucky we both are to experience such tremendous love from our respective companions. Really angels in our lives. Im so glad you were there when he went.
@Missdaisy247
@Missdaisy247 Жыл бұрын
Cats have been constant companions throughout every day of my adult life. Saying the final goodnight to my beloved Kitkat after nearly 20 years was so painful. Always missed 💔
@karenlewkowitz5858
@karenlewkowitz5858 Жыл бұрын
Zack, my best friend, a schnouzer jrt, was suffering kidney failure at 15 years. We had so many good times and were connected heart to heart. He left peacefully 2weeks ago. This is a difficult passage
@phoenixd9679
@phoenixd9679 Жыл бұрын
💜🙏🌹🌹
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss🐕🐾💞🙏🙌🌷
@EuropaThePirateTwin3
@EuropaThePirateTwin3 Жыл бұрын
I have accepted the death of my wonderful dog Honey, but since she died in September 2019 I haven't been ok. I've sat with the sadness, the grief and the change, I've been in counselling for many many years anyway delaing with the trauma of childhood sexual abuse at the hands of my father, but I'm always reminded of her and the pain doesn't seem to be getting much easier. I have anxiety, depression and CPTSD, her death was handled so dispicably by the vets, and I watched the life leave her beautiful big eyes. She was only 12 , (I'd had her since she was a puppy) and apparently had a very sudden and aggressive onset of cancer. I find that more than ever I pray that God will take me in my sleep and let me be with her. She means everything to me and I'm still devastaed over 3 years later. We don't deserve dogs. They're too good for this world. I stick around for my family, but I'm just reminded that they will die too, and I will have to go through so much grief again anyway. It's a hard thing to come to terms with for me. Much love and hugs to all of you who are missing your baby/ best friend 💖
@marilynminer677
@marilynminer677 Жыл бұрын
There are so many companion animals in need of homes and even just loving interactions. There are senior animals in shelters whose "owners" had to leave them behind, as well as all ages. Please find a way to spend some time with them, visit them if you cannot bring them home. Wishing you the best.
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry the vets didn't give you the comfort and help you needed. Honey knew how much you loved her💙
@dawnandhallahavingfun5313
@dawnandhallahavingfun5313 Жыл бұрын
Richard, this came at the right time for me. I just lost my Sheba on December 2. She was more than a pet- she was a service animal and companion for me. She helped with both my physical illness and my ptsd. I'm lost without her right now.
@mercedessanchez6844
@mercedessanchez6844 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. Much light for her and a hug for you.
@TrishCanyon8
@TrishCanyon8 Жыл бұрын
Condolences 🙏
@heavenstobetsy3843
@heavenstobetsy3843 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for the loss of your beloved dog. Prayers to you. Maybe think about another sweet fur baby soon. I have been there.
@mariabekos3484
@mariabekos3484 Жыл бұрын
Dogs are so awesome. When the time is right a new buddy will light your days once again.
@h.p.dominocus
@h.p.dominocus Жыл бұрын
I felt the same way when I lost my cat this year. He was my emotional support during some rough times and having him leave so abruptly really messed me up for months. It takes time but you will get through this. ♥
@ginarivera9921
@ginarivera9921 Ай бұрын
My dog Pepe just passed away yesterday. The pain is hard to bear. He's been with us, with me for 14 yrs. 😢 I, we didn't see it coming, so unexpected, so sudden. I love him so much. 😢😢😢 He's been my companion since I became an empty nester 2 yrs ago. I love him so much.😢
@mishalscott7192
@mishalscott7192 4 ай бұрын
I lost my dog today, and this video is truly comforting. I am really grateful for the time I shared with my dog.❤🐕
@connysieben
@connysieben 2 ай бұрын
i feel for you !
@Krisztina.Williams
@Krisztina.Williams Жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this one. I had my German Shepherd Emma for over 10 yrs. She was my support animal and was by my side all the time. She was so incredibly in tune with me and was so loving and made me feel safe. She passed this Summer and it’s been so hard to cope at times.
@stevefurness6303
@stevefurness6303 Жыл бұрын
No one will ever understand what these lovely furry people mean to us.
@TrishCanyon8
@TrishCanyon8 Жыл бұрын
Condolences. It's such a loss to lose a beautiful friend.
@Krisztina.Williams
@Krisztina.Williams Жыл бұрын
@@TrishCanyon8 Thank you
@mint_soup9743
@mint_soup9743 Жыл бұрын
So many gsd lovers here. They are amazing dogs. I'm sorry about your Emma 💔
@mercedessanchez6844
@mercedessanchez6844 Жыл бұрын
Much light for her and a hug for you!
@pamgori8008
@pamgori8008 Жыл бұрын
I have only pet children..no husband I have worked at animal hospitals for over 15 years..3 horses..many dogs and cats..they are the most loving creatures on the planet..thank God they don't have our Egos..without them I would be lost..the pain I go through with each one is like loosing A piece of my own soul..it takes me months to get over..each and every time..but to ignore their eyes which are the window to their soul would be impossible.. BOSTON 🍀
@deec1601
@deec1601 5 ай бұрын
I lost my dog almost 11 months ago, I had him 16 years and I can still have moments of grief and tears when someone mentions him or I see a photograph. The grief was like being on an emotional rollercoaster, it was an all consuming pain but as time has gone on it has become easier to deal with. I don't think I'll ever fully get over it, I've avoided having another dog because I don't want to go through that again.
@elainetuck936
@elainetuck936 4 ай бұрын
I know this man means well and I really appreciate that. My dog was my everything and not just like losing a pet, he was my baby and I will never get over it
@bumblebee_mrs
@bumblebee_mrs Жыл бұрын
My favourite pet died 5 months ago, and I'm still devastated. I have a photo of him next to me every day and I talk to him. He was born in my house 13 years ago. I still have his mum.
@kellymc6812
@kellymc6812 Жыл бұрын
I just put my twenty year old cat to sleep 😢 it was such an honor to have been his human and to grieve him was and is a moments tough. Thank you for this ❤❤❤❤
@phoenixd9679
@phoenixd9679 Жыл бұрын
🙏❤️condolences
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
🐾🙏🐱💜
@terris7842
@terris7842 8 ай бұрын
I just lost my dog two weeks ago after 14 yrs. I realised that I had spent more time with him during that time than I had with any other living being. Now I really am alone. No humans, no other pets, just me. The stillness is excruciating. Thank you for this video. You have helped me with cptsd stuff before,but I stopped watching you there for a while. I was in so much grief pain tonight, I was desperately searching for some help and this came up. It has helped. Just having someone acknowledge that this grief is real and valid helps more than you know.
@carmensusma8148
@carmensusma8148 7 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Lucca on the 16 of Sep. It feels like yesterday… I miss him so very much. I know is hard but I hope you are doing better. I understand your pain and the fact that the house is silent. If you want to talk, please let me know. I don’t want you to feel that you are alone. Hugs goes your way. 💔🌹
@terris7842
@terris7842 7 ай бұрын
@@carmensusma8148 Thank you. I really appreciate you reaching out. I have my moments, but I am okay. I hope you are too. They leave such a hole in your life when they go. Hugs to you too. 💚
@runner2008
@runner2008 6 ай бұрын
I just lost my beloved cat Dixie. I feel like I have been punched in the stomach. I love her sooooo much. I understand your pain, you are not alone. I'm feeling it too. One day at a time. We will be okay.
@terris7842
@terris7842 6 ай бұрын
@@runner2008 I’m so sorry for your loss. It really is excruciating.
@runner2008
@runner2008 6 ай бұрын
@@terris7842 Thank you. And same to you as well on the loss of your dog. I am in the regret stage, thinking what have I done, I think I could have done more. I just pray she is not up there in heaven mad at me saying why did you do this to me. I am having a hard time. When I come home and she is not there to greet me, I lose it. I understand what you mean by the stillness is excruciating. I feel it too.
@mayaluna5881
@mayaluna5881 Жыл бұрын
I've lost my Labrador end of october after ten years. She died in my arms, I buried her in my garden, for two weeks her spirit was still around, but now, even that I feel that death is just a transition, the fact of separation and loss is hard to bear.
@stevefurness6303
@stevefurness6303 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that , I lost my parsons terrier 6 years ago I miss him so much, about 10 years ago I lost my job, money was really tight and I was doing some shopping and the lady on the till said "you have spent more on the dog then you have on on yourself" And I replied "whatever happens he will never do without I will do without before he does"
@jaydee8697
@jaydee8697 Жыл бұрын
I lost my lab almost a year ago and I still hear him laying down in the hallway and the bang of the linen closet ♥️
@Whgss
@Whgss Жыл бұрын
So sorry. ❤
@cici5904
@cici5904 Жыл бұрын
So happy ur doing this. I just lost my cat 🐱 Jake this past summer and am still grieving pretty deeply. I can’t even look at pictures of him it it’s still too painful. Ty 🙏🤍🌟
@oanaalexia
@oanaalexia Жыл бұрын
They're family members and it's natural to grieve. It's very good to find some guidance in doing it right. I wish all our loved ones lived forever. Celebrate the life Jake had rather than imagine a life without him. Celebrate those unique memories and think to maybe, in time, getting adopted, once again by another feline friend? Take care.
@thingi
@thingi Жыл бұрын
I lost my 🐱 Milo on the 10th January, he was over 18. The bond I had with my cat was stronger than any with a human I've had in my adult life. It does get easier, for months all you'll feel is pain but over time you will remember the happy times more than the loss. Oana is right, celebrate those moments, but they will only come with time. Thankfully my friends all 'got it', seek support from your animal lover friends, I bet you already know who they are. In fact don't even speak about it to non-animal lovers, all they'll do it upset you albeit unintentionally.
@lesliesantos8595
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
I feel you too.
@lesliesantos8595
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
@@thingi i look at the happy times and it hurts because i cant hold her anymore. Or give her things that made her happy. And i feel like i couldve done better for her.
@lesliesantos8595
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
@@thingi it feels empty being without her presence. And it could be because my bond with her was stronger than anyone else..she was my example to be brave and strong and fight everyday. For sure her loss made me realize the issues with my bf were so pointless...for her and my family i know i need to choose to focus on what really matters. I was away from her the week of her passing..the night before i didnt really stay with her too long because it killed me to see her blind and bleeding alot..because she was in the last stages of diabetes her kidneys were out..and man she still greeted me with an energy i couldnt greet her the same. I didnt want to accept that it was time to have her euthanized. Im not blaming my relationship with my bf but for sure i did that to myself.. had i known better i know i wouldve focused my attention on her more than anything else..
@genie674
@genie674 Жыл бұрын
I lost both of my dogs 3 years apart 8 & 5 years ago. I am still grieving. I also lost my Mum (narcissist) 3 years ago but the pain of losing my dogs is terrible and the worst. People say I should get another dog but I just can't. It's not logical but I feel disloyal thinking about getting another and also it's having to face the pain again. 😢
@Theowlhawk
@Theowlhawk Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing, anticipatory grief, of a pet that is going to pass, that pre loss, my last pet, and loss of 3 pets in the last 2 years, its like my home was a safe haven for pets, like they have all left, flown the nest in death ! Veterinary fees have sky rocket, its becoming very expensive to have a pet! I don't know life without pets! Rescues, (for all my life, ) abandoned, I just love animal Companionship ❤ their unconditional ♥, their courage, engagement, presence, loyalty, protection, a soulful connection, playfulness, their amazing heartfelt ❤
@gaelle4328
@gaelle4328 Жыл бұрын
Toughest part is when you know there is probably something you could have done better sometimes you actually could have so now you know better but there is also the part that you probably love the animals way more than most people because you actually trust them.
@bluenetmarketing
@bluenetmarketing Жыл бұрын
Your comment about trust is so incredible. That is one of their best qualities that I haven't found in too many people.
@sunshine9122
@sunshine9122 21 күн бұрын
This is so true. This is why I'm devastated over the loss of my 14 year old blind cat.
@sisaacs2
@sisaacs2 7 ай бұрын
I lost my dog yesterday and this video was very comforting. Thank you.
@garrettahern3813
@garrettahern3813 5 ай бұрын
Same, we just had to put max down our dog down today:(
@MariskaBrown
@MariskaBrown Жыл бұрын
My sweet 15 year old black lab Monty passed a few months ago and I have been seriously struggling. He got me through EVERYTHING and was part of my healing. My best friend. My baby. My confidante. Thank you RG. As usual, perfect timing.
@BuddhatheRockstar
@BuddhatheRockstar Жыл бұрын
Be kind to yourself.
@rebeccadelbridge2998
@rebeccadelbridge2998 Жыл бұрын
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My black lab Zero is 11, and is really slowing down. His hips are terrible, but for now he is happy enough being a couch potato. We come to him for cuddles and love these days, but I feel terrible that he can only do short walks about twice a week nowadays, and needs anti inflamitories, painkillers and rapigel. Black labs are everything. I wish you the absolute deepest love and empathy. I don't know how on earth I will cope when he goes, but I know it will have been worth the pain, to have had him in my life. Ive lost pets before, but this one, is different. Bless you, dear heart.
@Journeyoflove13
@Journeyoflove13 10 ай бұрын
My black French Bulldog of 15 years past away last friday and it's really hard. I could alnost copy paste your comment. Her food she did'nt eat is still in her bucket. Crazy perhaps. Just want to leave really everything like it was for at least a week. Upcoming weekend I'll clean everything. Then I take away one thing at a time. I'm not the person who can say goodbye to material things that have lots of memories attached to it. Hopefully you and everyone else here are doing better now. Bless you all. ❤
@Journeyoflove13
@Journeyoflove13 10 ай бұрын
​@@rebeccadelbridge2998 I had a stroller for my dog, because she only could walk about 40 meters with many stops. Think I looked senile with a dog in a stroller, but it uplifted my dog so much. It was like she had became kind of depressed and than so happy and relaxed again. She even had shoes on because of injured paws and a jacket for the winter. Completely senile, but I felt so lucky those problemsolvers excisted. Hopefully your couch patato will fit in some kind of stroller. Be blessed ❤
@lauraparkes6591
@lauraparkes6591 Жыл бұрын
My german shepherd of almost 12 yrs was just diagnosed with Lymphoma. She has been my emotional support. I am finally sorta free of a 43 yr toxic marriage where I was always the problem. 2 of my 6 children hate me because I left. I didn’t know what to call what I was dealing with, until I did. It is going to be hard to let my best friend, my confidant, my comforter and the one who has stood by me when others shunned and scorned and blamed and accused. I’m starting to realize that love is a true power and it’s real and it doesn’t disappear, it grows. I try to look at life now as a way to make every last minute with Ida-girl as minutes I can celebrate her. When she’s gone, I will morn for myself, but I can testify she has fulfilled her mission in this life, she returns to the creator valiant. What a gift I have been given ❤
@lauraparkes6591
@lauraparkes6591 Жыл бұрын
Quite frankly she is the best person I’ve ever met!!!
@marilynminer677
@marilynminer677 Жыл бұрын
Feel the same way about my Mainecoon cat, Amy, who was with me deeply throughout a very similar situation, nonstop, darkest of days. "Returns to the Creator valiant." Beautiful, exactly that. Such gratitude. Come into my heart, and there reside.
@Treezp1
@Treezp1 Жыл бұрын
Hi Laura, I'm Theresa. I agree with what you say about Love. Love has been & continues to be a powerful force in my life. I am so relieved & thankful that I'm able to feel Love, even though feeling so much sometimes feels hard 😭 Love makes my life rich & meaningful🙂 Be sure to take good care of yourself as well as Ida❤ It's called a *good* cry for a reason 😭😱🤗❤ Love T
@spiroguru
@spiroguru Жыл бұрын
you were lucky to have each other...mine also a male black german shepard died yesterday from lymphoma!!!my heart is broken!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!but i am thankfull for the memories!!!!!
@asdf4678z
@asdf4678z 4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️ I just lost a very dear pet and my heart is aching something dreadful.
@rjay7019
@rjay7019 4 ай бұрын
Mine to, my Dave passed 2/13/24 we were together for 15 years. He helped me get through the loss of my husband. I just feel so empty 😢
@ragtop_annie
@ragtop_annie 4 ай бұрын
I said goodbye to my little friend three days ago. I love you Joey. Thank you for being my friend for 14 years
@overseaoversea6602
@overseaoversea6602 Жыл бұрын
Who understands it is like a loss of your child, a very dear friend... Thinking about them with love. Thank you Richard
@crystalwomack8344
@crystalwomack8344 6 ай бұрын
It has been ok days and deeply depressed days for me lately when I lost Chase in May. I only had him for 4 years and he gave me so many great memories especially with my mom sickness and when I had COVID. I miss him a lot. Thank you for the video of comforting words. Doing my best to take it one day at a time.
@wowwowwow185
@wowwowwow185 Жыл бұрын
When my dog died it was the worst grief I ever felt so painful but still wouldn't regret having my dog
@Inv_Enot
@Inv_Enot 3 ай бұрын
I lost my pet dory years ago but it neverr gets easier for me… we put her down after her kidneys where failing and we could do anything, I would do anything to open my door and see her walk in to snuggle one last time… I just miss her so much she was such a sweet dog and I loved her
@j.m8480
@j.m8480 3 ай бұрын
I lost my best friend of 16 years today, my sweet sweet angry, grumpy kitty. I have never experienced this kind of grief - I was not ready for it. Thank you for this video.
@PaulRoseGuitar
@PaulRoseGuitar 11 ай бұрын
Yesterday we had let our beloved Springer spaniel go with acute kidney failure. Not 5 years old. An absolute catastrophe for us in so many ways. Thank you for this video, there's no stopping the pain so let it flow. It is after all an expression of pure unconditional love.
@pearljamin
@pearljamin 8 ай бұрын
I had to put down the only being that’s ever loved me unconditionally two months ago. Todays her birthday. I’m scared to grieve. That I won’t come back. There are no words for how much I loved my baby
@zitapatockova7182
@zitapatockova7182 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much,I just lost my Nelly yesterday and the grief is just massive. She made me a better person. She was special.
@pjm91788
@pjm91788 3 ай бұрын
It'll be 6 months on March 9th since my golden passed away. I know the decision I made was the right one because he was in lots of pain. But man i miss him every second of every single day. If i could give away 14 plus years of my own life to have him with me again I would do it in a heart beat...i miss my buddy. Nothing has been the same without him. Its all a mixture of emotions because I'm also going to be a dad to a baby boy in April. Lots of changes have transpired in a short time. I'm always praying for strength and guidance.
@therange4033
@therange4033 Жыл бұрын
As my dog has got older, now 10, I've thought of losing him. He has been with me through so much life trauma. Depression and more. He has been my furry crutch with his love and companionship. He is stubborn and clever, for a dog! I am mentally preparing a little bit for his walk over the doggy rainbow. So its not a complete surprise. I understand some pets wait for their owners in the afterlife. I KNOW he will be there, patiently waiting. That helps, a lot.
@raedarden9830
@raedarden9830 Жыл бұрын
Just lost my girl of 13 1/2 years. The poem which has helped me with the passing of my special babies is: "Rainbow Bridge". I believe. Treasure every moment with your baby boy. God bless.
@Max_Snellink
@Max_Snellink Жыл бұрын
My cat Bazzi died last night. This is the first KZfaq video in my feed.
@moirosalina
@moirosalina Жыл бұрын
An animal sees you, not your image. That makes a connection very authentic imo. It hurts like hell, what helped me (last year) was a counseler who really paid attention to my story and my sadness, she was very good at listening and after that one session I was okay; still sad but I was okay.
@tonjacech9868
@tonjacech9868 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this . I ost my chi Chihuahua 💕 in February she was 16. I have had her since a baby. I don't. Know how I could of went through the last 16 years without her ♡♡♡
@chrisdaniel5004
@chrisdaniel5004 6 ай бұрын
We lost our pet on 12/20/2023. I found this video and it did help with the loss our Newfie. Thank you Richard for posting this. It did help with the grieving process. Much Appreciated. Thanks again.
@TrishCanyon8
@TrishCanyon8 Жыл бұрын
When my Sheppard passed I held a small memorial for her. Guest who knew her came and were given an opportunity to speak about her. We had candles, incense and a buddhist-type memorial and a poster-size picture of her. It helped us all.
@ktmggg
@ktmggg Жыл бұрын
It's good to know people in your circle valued her presence as much as you did.
@rhondabrynko8393
@rhondabrynko8393 Жыл бұрын
Timely. 😢 Karma was my faithful beast and it’s still killing me… August 29th was a brutal day. Interesting that in your last video for calculating CPTSD I didn’t really tick all the boxes but holy shit, this pain lingers.
@graham5990
@graham5990 9 күн бұрын
I just had to put my best friend of 9.5 years down Tue June 11 2024 and I am just lost. Got him when I was at a really low point in my life stationed in VA in the NAVY with no friends or relatives and was quite depressed. It was him and I for about 2 years before I got another dog, but it was always him that held the most special place in my heart. He is gone now and I still have my other dog, but I have never felt more alone than I do right now. I'm 38 and single with no kids so he was quite literally my everything. Tried to take my dog out for a walk yesterday and realized I hadn't been on a walk without my best friend Maverick in almost a decade only grabbing one dog bowl, seeing a ball, not hearing his bark at a knock at the door, not seeing his head poke through the bathroom door, no longer seeing his happy smile, no more of him resting his head on my chest and licking me every morning I wake up..........................I feel like I don't ever want another dog cause no dog can ever be or measure up to what he did for me. My life is just a wreck at the moment.
@Chiselchip
@Chiselchip 3 күн бұрын
Lost my baby bird today. hardest thing I've experienced especially when I came so close to saving it! What an innocent, beautiful creature!
@zoutsider88
@zoutsider88 5 ай бұрын
unimaginable pain. thank you for this video. i lost my four legged best friend of 14 years today. she was the sweetest, bestest, goodest, dog a person could ever want or have. i am sad, i will be sad, and i will honor her passing.
@sunshine9122
@sunshine9122 21 күн бұрын
My Lobo (dog) died ten years ago and it still hurts. I miss him so much.
@cynthiastogden7000
@cynthiastogden7000 3 ай бұрын
I am almost 79 and from the age of 11 when I lost my Mum to cancer and my first dog to a rta( when hardly any cars were about), I have loved and lost over 35 pets. The losses were all traumatic, some to be fair more than others but still I have pets and remember them all. They have been more loyal and special than any human has ever been. I could not have lived or live now without my furry ( and once feathered) friends.
@imalwaysme4332
@imalwaysme4332 Жыл бұрын
I lost my beautiful Cali the day after Thanksgiving last year 😪. She was my sweety🥰 I trusted a neighbor that offered to walk both my babies while I was at work. I paid her WELL! she had a key to my home (of course).... I gave her set rules for my Cali (she is a runner) . The walker knew not to EVER let her of her leash. Well, she did. I got a call at work....RUSHED to my Cali.... got her to ER..... She didn't make it....... The temptation to beat fire from the dog walker was overwhelming..... along with that urge, was my heart literally breaking..... it's been a bit over a year now. When I see this woman, my mind still goes to beating fire from her .... she never apologized, she's never paid for the vet bills or cremation.....the loss of my Cali still hurts, just not as bad..... still hurts to remember the good times 😪
@lesliesantos8595
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
Wow...omg i lost my best friend last Tuesday..and i still feel empty. And lost without her. She was my biggest mentor..when i asked for one she was the one i was looking for..and asking for. And i feel guilty. Because she had diabetes. I didnt walk her alot like i used to because i was too focused on fixing another relationship that i didnt realize to have let it go the issues i had with my bf. I know crying isnt gonna bring her back or fix what happened. But man.. she was so brave and strong. And she didnt like anyone to be crying. She always licked my tears away. Wanted me to be happy. Loved me and everyone no matter what they look like..how they were...
@user-wb5me1ur9e
@user-wb5me1ur9e 3 ай бұрын
I just unexpectadly lost my 4 year old labrador the other day, and no one ever talks or prepares you for the pain of losing an animal - I was truly not prepared for the pain that I would feel losing my dog. I am completely devastated and heartbroken, especially seeing her suffer the last moments of her life. I am trying to learn how to cope with the grief (as this is something that is not often talked about - the pain of losing your dog). Thank you for sharing this podcast, it did truly help me heal slightly and made me not feel so alone. Thank you.
@tomgambrel7519
@tomgambrel7519 8 күн бұрын
I had to put my dog Reggie down today. We spent 11 years together and he was definitely a part of my soul. I feel alone without him. Going to allow myself to grieve and heal. I love you buddy, and we’ll see each other again ❤
@cherrinepfister1231
@cherrinepfister1231 Жыл бұрын
Coming on 1 yr with the loss of my bpf, (best pet friend), my shadow, my help, my fiercest protector, silliest, funniest, truest, most loyal companion. I'm just now barely able to add up how the loss affected. Me. I look down and I don't know where the grief is because I was unfortunately not afforded an opportunity to feel the loss. It was tragic in nature; her death. And cruel. Too much to describe. I am cptsd and though she was not technically trained for it....she was my unintentional but much needed support dog. She instinctively gave pressure therapy before I ever heard the term. And she just could feel my very heart rate change. She was abused as a pup. I showed a Lil love and Turns out she picked me. And we shared so much in 8 yrs. She was hit by a car, survived parvo, had surgery to remove a tumor we thought would be terminal cancer but she again defied the odds! and in the end she suffered a cruel death while I was away. I didn't even have a body to recover. So idk about others but to honor her ì had to get up.....and walk again. Hope again. And who knows maybe one day another miracle could happen to me. I'm open. But till then I'll find a way to grieve properly and remember her with all my love. She was and is the best friend a girl like me could've ever had! Thanks Noodle.....for everything. C ya again. Psalm 36:6
@sunshine9122
@sunshine9122 21 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry. May Noodle rest in peace.🙏❤
@BuddhatheRockstar
@BuddhatheRockstar Жыл бұрын
I really really appreciate you talking about the loss of a pet. I rescue, I train and I volunteer my time with dogs. Sometimes I think of giving up for a lot of reason but that would be selfish.
@scorchedearthcreations
@scorchedearthcreations Жыл бұрын
Just had my pet euthanised a week ago due to illness. I did the same thing. I fully accepted the grief let it all out. I didn’t want to go through the same hell for months like last time and just embraced it. I’ve given away his toys etc. and not holding on to mementos like I normally would as that seems to prolong things. I kept one little thing. A week later and I’m ‘okay’ and just thankful for the time I had with him comforted in the knowledge that he was loved and had a good life.
@michellembarre5032
@michellembarre5032 Жыл бұрын
Never got over my MAXX-I swear if he was human he was my sole mate! Always w me, silent but big to protect. He reminds me of my favorite man…my 6’3 huge buff gentle giant grandfather
@kimberlyhelbing
@kimberlyhelbing Жыл бұрын
On Khalil Gibran, his poem referring to the amount of grief correlates to the amount of joy experienced- this was recommended to me by an animal communicator Sondy Kaska 💚 reading the poem helped me to somewhat define what I was feeling, I was a little better.
@michaelauldredge2112
@michaelauldredge2112 6 ай бұрын
Lost my dear tiny chihuahua this last Thursday and this video meant the world to me. Totally justified the deep sadness and devastation I've been feeling but I made a choice just to feel it all and I definitely don't regret. This absolutely sucks and its pain and time is slow...but I know if I just stay with the pain it will dissipate some day.
@LeeLocke
@LeeLocke Жыл бұрын
Thank you Richard. I am here crying. My head and heart are aching. I know what has to be done and feel sick. My Bailey is going to leave me soon. He has been suffering too long with diabetes. One of two dog twins that will soon be a rest. 🙏 Thank you for helping us right now.
@roma5770
@roma5770 Жыл бұрын
After you lose a beloved animal , if you can in due course open your heart again to a new one it is a testament to the love you received from the animal you have lost. Someone said that to me once & it just resonated. Love heals the wound it makes. It's the only way.
@loba49
@loba49 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing this. Before I had done any healing, losing my dog was beyond devastating especially because her euthanasia wasn’t smooth 😢. Just lost my sweet boy dog in August and the loss was horrible too but the healing I’ve done (including EMDR and your 30 day tapping challenge thingy) helped me handle it much better than before. I still tear up when I think of him but I’m not debilitated by the loss like I was for my other dog. So appreciate you! ❤
@MCP920
@MCP920 Жыл бұрын
Your comment stopped me. I knew the moment Bob was born into my life, the day he would leave would be very painful for me. I’m 63 and have never not had pets. I feel so naïve because it never occurred to me that it would be beyond brutal for Bob. I’d never known a euthanasia to go anyway other than peacefully for my pet. I’ll never forgive myself for taking him to a vet in a new town. I see it, hear it and cannot let it go. It was the most difficult experience I’ve ever had. I’m strong, but not that strong. 🐕‍🦺
@loba49
@loba49 Жыл бұрын
@@MCP920 I’m so so sorry 😔 ❤️
@Hootowls5
@Hootowls5 5 ай бұрын
​@MCP920 My daughter and I were with Kiki when she was put to sleep. We are severely traumatized. What an extremely hard thing to experience.
@lysajacobs1107
@lysajacobs1107 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video . My 12 year old dog died today. I am sad beyond words. I know he had to go and I am so lucky and grateful for his spending his entire life with me. My heart hurts but I d rather me feel sad than see him ever suffer any pain. He had degenerative myelopathy . I wish with all my heart I could have cured him . My daughter lost her soul dog and best friend and she’s sobbing. It’s her first loss. Today is just the saddest day for us. Thank you for your video.
@Tainteddragon
@Tainteddragon Жыл бұрын
The cost is worth the price of love and being loved, the longer deeper you have loved the harder the loss. The honesty of my animals love - many furry faces over the decades, has been of great solace and joy. They have taught me so much, each individual history as connected to mine. Miss them all still, of course, but more fur faces need my love too. I take joy in that. Love and peace to all at this time.
@yasmindavidson5171
@yasmindavidson5171 Жыл бұрын
I lost my 20 year old cat in March, and in August my 18 year old cat also. I vowed I would never go through it again after losing the 20 year old, but when the 18 year old got sick, I knew I would get another one because I honestly felt I would go to dust if I didn't have a distraction and also another rescue to love. Not to replace the other two, just an extension of the ongoing love I had to give another one. I got a kitten who was 12 weeks old. Now 8 months. We're figuring it out, Flo and I. I don't think there's a grief mountain we ever climb to the top of, human or animal loss. You carry the loves and the losses always. I can barely talk about my other two cats I lost this year, it's still too raw. I was able to keep moving through the grief by continuing to focus on another rescue who needed a home.
@runner2008
@runner2008 6 ай бұрын
I completely understand what you just wrote. I just lost my cat, she went over the rainbow ridge. Knowing others feel the same way is comforting. Thank you
@Random_Patriot
@Random_Patriot 24 күн бұрын
My dog was everything to me. He was my best friend. It's been 4 weeks since I lost him. It's not getting any easier. I'm so damn devastated. The pain is so unbearable. I just miss him every minute of everyday.
@ayeshasingh30
@ayeshasingh30 Жыл бұрын
I lost my cat recently. She was my world and I had raised her since she was a little baby and she was about to turn 5 in a month but she suddenly got ill and passed away. The thing that hurts the most is she was so young and could have lived a much longer life. But I do understand that I would have grieved the same and felt the same pain even if I lost her at age 15 or 20 . But she was loved so dearly and adored by everyone in the family and she was spoiled by us. And that makes me happy to know she lived a life full of love and affection even though a short one . Love you Ginny baby 💕
@Stotinkica
@Stotinkica Жыл бұрын
I lost Lucky, my cat, 2 years ago and still I miss him and cry sometimes. I have other cats, but I miss him nevertheless. Thanks for sharing your experience and advice ❤️
@beckyr1668
@beckyr1668 Жыл бұрын
My dog, Jax, was hit by a car and killed this past Sunday and it has been very difficult for my family. This is perfect timing. Thank you❤️
@samymansion2431
@samymansion2431 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry 😢 my puppy got hit by a car this past Sunday and died instantly, this is devastating and still not able to accept it. Stay strong ❤
@beckyr1668
@beckyr1668 11 ай бұрын
@@samymansion2431 I'm so sorry. It really is very difficult. Try and hang in there.❤️
@madaboutflowers3136
@madaboutflowers3136 Ай бұрын
I euthanized my 20.5-year-old cat yesterday. It was so very hard, and I'm feeling incredibly sad today. I have complex post-traumatic stress disorder as a result of childhood trauma. I really needed to hear this video today. Thank you.
@ladyoflimerick519
@ladyoflimerick519 Жыл бұрын
Lovely to listen to this. Last my beautiful Sooty Scottie Westie cross a few weeks ago. I rescued her from a dogs home way back in 2008. She was 17. When she passed. She was family to me. Having a narcissist mother and being the black sheep child means that I prefer dogs as members of my chosen family I miss her terribly and her loss is overwhelming. But I know that my grief is a testimony to how much she is loved. I vowed to never get another dog as she was my "soulmate" dog. And this grief is like an illness. But I will in honour of her and the huge amount of love dogs bring into your world. The grief we feel is because they are such pure innocent souls. Our relationships with them is very deep. Beyond language and is tainted with baggage and issues as our relationships with humans can be. Thankyou. X
@marioricci6650
@marioricci6650 4 ай бұрын
I had to put down my beautiful Pomeranian, Ginger, today after 16 beautiful years. We were truly blessed to have Ginger in our lives. She would come running to me when I came home. Truly unconditional love. My heart is broken since I raised her since she was a puppy. Ginger would cheer me up when I had bad days, and was always excited to see me. Ginger was spoiled rotten, and she deserved every bit of it. Thanks for the video. I allowed myself to grieve and cried like a baby. Animals are truly a blessing in our lives!
@nryane
@nryane Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Richard. I agree with you. For pets, people, places, relationships, and things, I’ve learned to “BE SAD” for as long as it takes. When I’ve done that, I recover sooner than when I have attempted to resist the pain of grief. Blessings!
@alexfagan771
@alexfagan771 Жыл бұрын
Lost my little man and bestfriend still not over him..
@RUNNOFT71
@RUNNOFT71 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I have to put my 15 yr old dog Kingston, the greatest love I've ever felt, down on Monday (4 days from now), and I'm trying to prepare myself the best way I can, as he sleeps next to me right now. Looking at him while he sleeps and snores I kiss his head and he pops one eye open to see who's kissing him. I beg God for strength to get both of us through this, and I thank him for gifting me with a love that I'll never forget. But it's difficult. And I hope he knows how much I love him, with every single tear that falls from my eyes, I truly love him, and I already miss him.
@fr33bird.33
@fr33bird.33 7 ай бұрын
Sending so much love. My sweet Angel crossed on 10/26. 🙏
@countcoupblessings979
@countcoupblessings979 Жыл бұрын
The amazing timeliness of these are often so perfect . Boy I needed this one this week .
@nvzoqi2741
@nvzoqi2741 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have flashbacks to a situation when I asked some question to a psychologist(many years ago). We were talking at the time about grieving after a death of a child. I asked a question if the same applies to a loss of a dog. The psychologist replays with a disgusted tone "you are comparing children to dogs". That was a public meeting, so I felt embarassed. I responded that this was just a question, not comparing anyone to anything. But I felt really bad. You're taking a loss of beloved pet seriously and with wisdom. That's great and professional.
@hoohargh9945
@hoohargh9945 Жыл бұрын
..is real..and like every gut wrenching heartbreak and pain for the loss of ANYTHING we hold dear..Time is the only healer...We always remember everything fondly, ..u can't go wrong with animals really tbfrank ...the only difference to floof, feather and scale is there isn't a Will only a testament of Love 💜
@clarissavaida4058
@clarissavaida4058 9 ай бұрын
I’m watching this video over and over again on the first day without my beloved Ruby. Thank you so much for the wise and comforting words.
@daysure
@daysure 9 ай бұрын
I hope you will be able to feel better soon.
@clarissavaida4058
@clarissavaida4058 9 ай бұрын
@@daysure Thank you so much for caring. Every day is just a little bit easier but it’s hard to look where she should be and she’s not there. I appreciate your comment Dasyure.
@daysure
@daysure 9 ай бұрын
@@clarissavaida4058 I know how that feels I've had three guinea pigs pass away but it will get easier every day.
@clarissavaida4058
@clarissavaida4058 9 ай бұрын
@@daysure I’m so sorry. It’s amazing that even little animals can make such an big impact on our hearts. Take care!
@daysure
@daysure 9 ай бұрын
@@clarissavaida4058 ditto
@jaceyapila3271
@jaceyapila3271 Жыл бұрын
Nov 3. Rip My Teetee. It's been healthy to embrace acceptance of future grief in advance knowing this time would come. The echos of other pains was better than ever. I'm getting better. Thank you for your help. May your giving return to you multiplied.
@nryane
@nryane Жыл бұрын
I’m doing this for my 15-plus years old dachshund. I know she is likely to die in the near future, so I celebrate her, every day.
@allanfarran364
@allanfarran364 8 ай бұрын
I’m going through a tuff time at the moment, but it’s my 2 year old border Collie that helps me through it. Just having him next to me at all times gives me relief. Dogs are so much better than humans everything is unconditional with dogs.
@truthcooperator4683
@truthcooperator4683 Жыл бұрын
Much needed, thank you ❤️🙏
@TheVoiceInYourHeadd
@TheVoiceInYourHeadd 2 ай бұрын
Had to put my sweet Maltese girl to sleep ten months ago. I've never missed any living being more than her. She was pure light and I will never stop grieving her until I die.
@jamiylexum1491
@jamiylexum1491 9 күн бұрын
Man I glad I found you and can’t stop crying I tell you the god honest truth I didn’t even feel this bad when my dad and grandmother died 😢 I had to put my baby down after 16 years!! Long Live Rocky❤😢😢😢
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