Cynthia Amadi Spoke To Emeka Ike; He’s Not Happy His Son Dropped Out Of Uni To Work In A Restaurant.

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7 ай бұрын

Cynthia Amadi Spoke To Emeka Ike; He’s Not Happy His Son Dropped Out Of Uni To Work In A Restaurant According To Her.

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@joysreality 6 ай бұрын

No body is talking about the trauma this young man has suffered due to the marital crisis and parent separation.How do you expect these children to cope and turn out alright

@covidvaseline81 6 ай бұрын

I was just about saying that. Reactions from his peers probably makes it difficult for him to concentrate, or who knows if his father actually paid the fees he claims. This man has been talking since on the media and the one time the woman came out to defend herself, blogs are suddenly interested.....so sad

@topcattc76 6 ай бұрын

Which trauma? Nigerians want to be westernised so much that it is becoming so annoying.

@osazuwacollins4439 6 ай бұрын

This woman is full of wisdom. We need ladies like this in our society today

@mammaman8400 6 ай бұрын

When I was a teenager I wanted so much to become a star musician and didn't think going to school was useful for me. But my sister told me to become a good musician you need to be educated. My mum practically dragged me to getting a degree. I didn't become the star musician I dreamt of becoming but today I'm very proud of my degree. Every educated parent will want their children to be educated because they know the importance of education

@kylieking8163 6 ай бұрын

Just like daddy freeze always talking about his ex . Till she comes out 😂

@kobusingyejoan6820 6 ай бұрын

Still, something is not adding up for Emeka, As he is claiming that he was paying tuition at an expensive university, and giving pocket money to his kid, this means the kid was living a good life. Then suddenly his kid dropped out of university and started working at a cheap restaurant. If that kid is a spoiled kid, I don't think that even he will look for a job rather he will go to the streets and join the Street groups. Something from Emeka is not adding up. Emeka said his ex-wife took some of his properties, what Emeka is trying to tell the public now is that his ex-wife is not responsible enough to use all the worthy she from him and pay tuition to her kids after taking some of Emeka‘s properties. This man needs help.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

What are saying the boy. Mind is. On music, That’s. Why he. Ruin to his cause the father said no,, as off you don’t know youngsters if they Don’t have have there way

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

What are saying the boy. Mind is. On music, That’s. Why he. Ruin to his cause the father said no,, as off you don’t know youngsters if they Don’t have have there way

@florenceomotoyinbo962 6 ай бұрын

Look that Emma went through the university, would not have wanted anything less for her kids but the toxic marriage must have affected them.

@irenesimalike3962 6 ай бұрын

You are right. These people don’t want to be truthful with themselves. That young man is hurting because of what they went through

@henrynwokoro4751 6 ай бұрын

Fact

@ifeomaikegwuonu6185 6 ай бұрын

Giving an excuse for a failure is what baffles me about you. Some of our mothers rose beyond toxicity and pain just to see us rise above their mediocre. Then why make excuse for a mother whom her own husband equipped in education now want an unseen future of nuissancy in the community. Please look for another excuse. Suzanne is looking good and doesn't look an inch a mother making effort like our mothers of those dayz.

@ifeomaikegwuonu6185 6 ай бұрын

If I were to advise Suzanne to advise her son, I would tell him to pipe so low as to acquire all he could from his father especially when I am not sure if I can cater educationally for them. I do advise house helps who are not in a life or death situation from their bosses whom they can achieve positive lots from.

@AmayaRue2360 6 ай бұрын

It already says a lot that it took the ex wife and son speaking to shut Emeka up. He that has been dragging the wife for 10 years while the world did not put ring light for how that dragging will affect his kids. Ring light is only coming out now.

@francesiweha-onukwu274 6 ай бұрын

Daddy Freeze before you judge please invite the woman and hear her out with an open mind. The boy is already broken, he has to be in a good mental health before going back to school. Be realistic please.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

That’s boy looks over pampered that you see how he looks? He his healthy see his skin, pikin wan sing music let him go to achool

@adeyanjuuyoyo7009 6 ай бұрын

@@NgoziNwaimo Over pampered but humble enough to work for a small restaurant

@nubianprincess766 6 ай бұрын

Finally someone making sense. This woman hit the nail on the head! This young man who tried to use Davido as an example should know that Davido too had to go to school. His family almost disowned him because he didn’t go to school. And now that he has gone to school he said it was the best thing he could have ever done and he has developed skills that he would not have developed unless he attended school. So pls Emeka’s son should go to school. Even if he doesn’t use it just have it .. especially if his father wants to pay. And no more interviews. Pls let husband and wife deal with their matters.

@keta9479 6 ай бұрын

The abuse! The abuse! The abuse! Can we focus on the abuse. He is a monster. What a leap over all the atrocities. You expect a fantastic son when you damaged him from childhood.

@nanas.recipes_ 6 ай бұрын

Exactly my point. 😅people do have the slightest inclination of what abuse can do to children. I am even thankful that the boy is not into some terrible vices honestly. Whatsoever that child is going through is because of their parenting issues. Not every child can move past pain and abuse without help. That boy needs fatherly love and support but Emeka is carrying out the anger of his ex wife on his children. Like the saying, ‘ when two elephants Dey fight, it’s the grasses that will suffer’. I say it with my full chest, when you decide to bring children into this world, be ready to give your presence, encouragement, correction (in love), unlearn, learn and relearn. When you have four children, you have to be intentional as a parent to know what works for each one. I am a teacher and I see, hear what children go through and some don’t even want school to end as an excuse not to go back home.

@festusuche383 6 ай бұрын

You guys should encourage the boy to go and make peace father, for his own good. Instead of blaming Emeka Ike or his ex. Profound solution instead of deepling the problem

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

@@festusuche383Did you watch the interview because the boy said right before Emeka Ike granted the interview, he was trying to make peace with his family that was when he found at his father went online to say all these things and when he confronted him it there was more tension

@justemeka 6 ай бұрын

Focus on your life. You too like toxicity

@Theartofemman 6 ай бұрын

@@Daraa727both sides have a role to play in it that's just it

@pamela-sonyaovono4758 6 ай бұрын

So much wisdom from this beautiful lady ! Congratulations to you Sir for inviting her on this subject ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

It’s the fact that people are expecting more composure from a 20 year old who experienced abuse from his father-whether he, Emeka was aware of it or not- than a whole 50 something year old who put his family issues out for public discussion just because una no wan blame am. Emeka needs to be held accountable

@appliedwisdom13 6 ай бұрын

You need to be accountable too….let the man be lady

@Uncensored-Updates 6 ай бұрын

Ok let the boy remain in the restaurant

@edemaayonmi 6 ай бұрын

No parent will be happy about a child dropping out of school, I'm a parent when me kids do stuff I don't expect I say words I'm not even proud about😢😢i

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

@@edemaayonmiEmeka Ike that has lied many times. I’m sorry but I can’t just take his word like that. He already lied about never touching his wife when his PA admitted to him doing so. Take everything he says with a pinch of salt

@leticianamale8610 6 ай бұрын

Please distinguish between anger and psychopathic narcissism. Also, know that the behavior of the dad can explain why that child dropped out of school. He is emotionally traumatised by the abuse and separation during childhood. The boy has mentioned changing schools due to fighting during childhood. Have you analysed how the siblings are? Women subjected to narcissistic abuse go on to be very high achievers when they snap out of it. So, the trajectory that Emma has taken is not surprising at all. There is still hope for that child. He needs therapy.

@stellaayodeji2501 6 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for this comment. DF is always supporting the people of his likes like Emeka.

@RealCrimeInvestigation 6 ай бұрын

DF is frustrated and he's always happy to support frustrated and psychopathic men like him.

@abaraonyenonye6651 6 ай бұрын

Well Said

@femilicious 6 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@samblesselo877 6 ай бұрын

Even in Abroad you need a degree. Get a degree then you can do whatever you want period. I remember growing up my mom will always remind us that because she did not go to school that no child of hers will be an illiterate. Today all 7 of us are graduates and we all are thankful for that.

@iduokoko9326 6 ай бұрын

Thank God for the kind of mother God gave you. God bless her. God bless my mother too. Every good mother wants their children to have a proper foundation.

@kiv_daniels 6 ай бұрын

So how do you communicate that with your child, this is exactly what my mom used to tell me, that she didn’t have the chance to go to university so she would love for me to complete. When I went to school I focused and I studied, I passed my exams, left the school in peace without any issues. And even though sometimes things were not so good I always remembered what my mother said, I wanted to make her proud. I didn’t want to break her heart. So how do you speak to your children, if not for how some of us our parents talk to us, do you know where some people would be. If you want to do something, you remember your mother or father’s face and you’re like no I can’t.

@NaturalIdara 6 ай бұрын

Degree is very important. I have managers that can’t advance because they don’t have a degree, it’s hard for them now to go back to school bc of family commitments.

@marygloriaokeke1419 6 ай бұрын

From the point of view of an educator yes degree is important but you don't necessarily need a degree to be successful. For example the CEO of face book, Microsoft...... all dropped out of school a lot of well known individuals don't have degree. You have to know what your child's strengths are and guide accordingly. Also in this current age the old way of parenting does not work to me it's like existing in digital world but operating in analog mentality. Ameka neds to work on himself first and then help his family for he is a broken man and can't give what he don't have. I will keep this family in my prayers 🙏 ❤

@marygloriaokeke1419 6 ай бұрын

@lysangeng-wd7zq 6 ай бұрын

But how can that boy manage to continue schooling when the family environment is an abuse one. The children need peace

@christainaoyiliagu1301 6 ай бұрын

You have not heard from the young guy what really transpired.daddy freeze abeg go sort your problem with your first wife don't use your problem to attack the woman pls.i can see it in your questions

@Epic_explorer_1 6 ай бұрын

I tire oohh. He really needs to sort himself first. Just missing the point on purpose.

@khalilyahhamzie8735 6 ай бұрын

Some people were insulting the ex wife. The boy wants to be a musician. If it's his passion, give him your blessings. He is working in a restaurant, yes at a least he didn't go into armed Robbery o Emeka. Encourage him we will all not want to become a lawyer doctor,

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

To have a degree, have you consider if the music no work? He might two to 3 songs shut down what next? People were saying let streaming song after one day everything went down, how many of the is musician last? Do you want sustain them? Their degree they pick it and dust it and go to work, so make the child go they do waiter they collect 50k every month? You self no like the child

@khalilyahhamzie8735 6 ай бұрын

@NgoziNwaimo That's his choice. You cannot force someone to drink water. We al know what we want in life. Not everyone has heads for education my dear.

@keneekenee5706 6 ай бұрын

Growing up, I supported my mom wholeheartedly, believing she could do no wrong. You know women can work on their children's emotions, just to receive their supports . Now, as an adult, I find myself backing my dad, realizing he's not the villain I once thought. It turns out, he simply kept his own side of the story to himself. I regretted supporting mum then, maybe not supporting her would have helped their marriage

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

This is not about gender

@fluxnekta 6 ай бұрын

I can relate

@liliankamara4208 6 ай бұрын

I understand have lovely day 👌

@topcattc76 6 ай бұрын

My own experience is the same as yours!

@ednahchirchir1924 6 ай бұрын

Emeka has come out insulting the son and threatening the wife after the interview so it's not about supporting her. Emeka is proud and arrogant while she is calm and composed. Narcissistic people act good but in private are not. The boy was traumatized from childhood and needed counselling and understanding

@mzsho 6 ай бұрын

Very sad that we appear to be justifying abuse under the guise of that is how we were raised. We need to break this cycle of pain, starting by condemning it.

@TOOO951 6 ай бұрын

You're in daddy freeze channel, what kind of comments do you expect to see. How is daddy freeze himself different from Emeka?

@uwachristian9717 6 ай бұрын

Can you clearly state the abuse?

@femilicious 6 ай бұрын

@@TOOO951he too was abusive to his ex wife.

@jamesonuora5123 6 ай бұрын

Life is a process and from what she was saying, our parents wanted us to gain the ground first before we look for mat..no one is condoning abuse.. teach children that life is a process..just do it right..

@angela-bx6gu 6 ай бұрын

Daddy Freeze your degree don’t mean a thing if you’re blind to see what Emeka is doing

@topcattc76 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for this interview.

@triumph1741 6 ай бұрын

Myself was pushed by my mum to go take my final exams. Though I was truamaticed at the time and I'm grateful to God she did and love her so much. So I'm really suprised the mum is supporting him dropping out of school. Well na only them know wetyn dey happen...

@blacocloc2201 6 ай бұрын

This woman, u just dey here dey misyarn. Did you ask the boy why he dropped out? Is it to put pikin for school? What of paying the fees? Yeye talk! Anyone that has common sense can see Emeka lies a lot to cut join body. But common sense is a scarce commodity to Nigerians

@eliasobed5743 6 ай бұрын

I love this lady narrative, she knows the family and share the pain of the family, knowing they are hurting. I was very skeptical about the PA. Because Cynthia confirmed my taught about Emeka Ike's wife and that is an easy going, cool and calm lady. Lets not judge them. I just pray God rebuild that family. There is still hope and all is not lost.

@giftedchild9490 6 ай бұрын

Amen o amen

@Chrisugo 6 ай бұрын

Cynthia you've really been a blessing indeed . So good listening to you sis. Thanks Daddy Freeze for bringing her

@ukochiezeabata3803 6 ай бұрын

Nollywood actors and actresses are picking sides. It is now clear to me that they are promoting their upcoming movie. But they must know that Emeka has personerlity problem. Emeka is sick. Soon all of you singing praises to Emeka will turn your back on him.

@victorperemene2247 6 ай бұрын

Abeg go rest

@RAMayor 6 ай бұрын

Mumuish

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

This your comment no. Make sense,, Wait till your kid refuse to go to school

@anneaburime6942 6 ай бұрын

Do you want them to say what they did not s:ee?

@housetogo2005 6 ай бұрын

These people have not been through the kind of abuse these people have endured so they cannot understand. Particularly this man here justifying everything for Emeka Ike

@verajjingo6706 6 ай бұрын

I dont even know why thus case has become his reaponsiblity. Let the family be

@excellentgathering8168 6 ай бұрын

You just spoke to me God bless You

@oseremenilens3695 6 ай бұрын

I thank God i listened to my dad They see farther than we do I wouldn't be were I am today if i didn't listen to him. I am convinced my talent wouldn't have gone beyond our parlour

@WhoData5816 6 ай бұрын

Mother cuddle father discipline, all my successful friends always thanks their father

@hanson4christ496 6 ай бұрын

This interview was so intellectual If you listen with an open mind and be more analytics, you will learn alot

@Edith.Praise 6 ай бұрын

It's really not about the expensive schools you take me to, even if it was cheaper schools as long as "common decency " from a parent is missing, it will yield to nothing. Emotional Iteligence is very Key. I listened to the audio Emeka sent his son, iam broken.

@EdithEkete-vo4oo 6 ай бұрын

Auntie, pls, blf u conclude your decision, find also from his own son , what really happened blw him and the father. to know Who is the one telling the truth. Leave the crocodile tears, the father is crying to u. We have a bad father who can also lie against their children to get sympathy for himself. Thanks.

@seyioyetade 6 ай бұрын

True sha, but U know everyone lies sha, kids lie alot too, they lie alot pikin dey lie gan o 😮😮😮

@oseremenilens3695 6 ай бұрын

Nobody lie reach kids😂

@EdithEkete-vo4oo 6 ай бұрын

Also, nobody lie reach some fathers. Some fathers were evil .eg. evil yul edochie and Emeka ike. The same feathers.

@seyioyetade 6 ай бұрын

@@EdithEkete-vo4oo listen kids lie alot, all kids lie, am a teacher in pry and secondary sch, there is no innocent child, only children who are less manipulative, none is innocent, kid that U will caught redhanded, he will still say other tinz before saying the truth

@ozughatariebi3278 6 ай бұрын

Stop talking about someone's kids,fix yours first. I went through an abusive marriage and I am lucky to be alive , he took my kids and turned them into bad kids. it's so easy to sit outside of a person's relationship and speak about it without knowing anything about trauma and more than worse judge.

@yomiwilliams4368 6 ай бұрын

Cynthia Amandi:💥😊👍 I passed by because I saw her name, and has been a long time Facebook friend ( although I’m off facebook for now ) before I matched her face with seeing her in Nollywood. Amazing actor However, that’s neither here nor there. What I like most about her is her ability to be very lateral in her views. She always gives a well balanced and non sentimental views. Whenever you hear her speak publicly, on politically or social issues, pay attention to her. She’s an amazing lady 😊 I agree with all that was said in this post by them.

@walburgaefuetawung7828 6 ай бұрын

Emeka has been talking for 10yrs. His ex gives her side of the story she should come and explain herself because her son spoke his mind. The one who forcefully seize the children from their mum, not for keeps but just pained her. Who ruin the children, Emeka Ike. Their mum collected them after the divorce, who ruin them. Emeka Ike.. So, Emeka ruin his children.

@GloryTessy957 6 ай бұрын

Emeka left them with his family member and was still staying in the same estate with them.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

He was given custody of the kids by the court oo, then they share carry two small and he took the bigger one, but man has to hustle, the woman said they were living and staying with nanny and relatives, he send them to good school Atleast one guy on Twitter said they were mate at school that they guy they enjoy die, they drop and pick him, so they are wandering why this now? There is something not right I think music

@AbbaYusufAlamgir 6 ай бұрын

this interview is quite impactful!

@georgetitus-glover6228 6 ай бұрын

I can understand emeka ike now! Hpe both parents find solace and love their children!!

@florenceomotoyinbo962 6 ай бұрын

Emeka is an actor like Yul. At least the son is not into crime or yahoo yahoo. There us nothing wrong in working in a restaurant to earn decent living.

@oghoghoidemudia503 6 ай бұрын

What drop out from uni he is responsible paying is fees..make una the reason for talking rubbish 😊

@hanson4christ496 6 ай бұрын

Lolsss How can a big person like you be saying this So if u are a parent, and your child does this, hope you will applaud him and give him a nice treat for doing this, even if Emeka ike words are not right, people say things out of anger, you don't know wat happened next after that vn, if he apologized or begged For God person, the Media only shows u wat they want you to see to shape ur mentality And it's so amazing I will say that you are dancing to their tune Will you tell me that Emeka ike has not say any Good tin to his son since he was born?? Why didn't he record the good tinz and play online Think oo think before talking

@cis99 6 ай бұрын

Florence let your husband send your own child toTurkish school pay thousands of dollars and after send him to Uni Abuja then go withdraw him from uni and find him a job in amala joint to make a decent living

@keneekenee5706 6 ай бұрын

It's good if one think from a parent's perspective

@umaisaacamadasun31 6 ай бұрын

What is wrong if the boy went to university and better is life,

@DailyVibesHub 6 ай бұрын

Regina Askia is a loving grace and she’s so full of wisdom. The way she responds to everything and how she was able to navigate the conversation about Emeka Ike’s don and wife including d man himself taking about what the family needs and the cause/process of the man vents and how she wouldn’t throw him under the bus knowing he’s not as horrible as he was being pa instead is refreshing.

@NO-su1gi 6 ай бұрын

It's good to do interviews and continue to ask questions about why this and why that.... But in this case, you guys should just stop, freeze stop already! How many interviews do you want to do on top another man matter?? E don do abeg, you guys are just rubbing this matter in, just stop 🛑 This family needs our prayers, you guys are giving the matter more and more tentacles... Your interview is definitely not going to bring healing, only more division.

@AnnaKaali 6 ай бұрын

There is no excuse for physical abuse or any type of abuse. Children are allowed to follow their dreams, African parents stop this mindset of discouriging kids following their dreams. Emeka, you are cancelled

@larrydag1 6 ай бұрын

You're not wise. Allow your children to do whatever they want to do with their lives.

@uzochukwuchinedu3097 6 ай бұрын

Very unfortunate That is why the family is going haywire. Train a child the way he should go, not the way the child wants. Training a child has become abuse. Flog a child even the bible said foolishness abound in the heart of a child and only stick can correct it.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

This is way we are having so many useless young adult let them go how they want, abeg this your word no follow. Read your book of proverb in the Bible , the said foolish avid in the heart of a child but a touch of rod will lead him aright.

@AnnaKaali 6 ай бұрын

@@NgoziNwaimo If they have a potential on what they want to become I will 100 percent support them and provide my guidance.

@AnnaKaali 6 ай бұрын

@@larrydag1 This is not what I meant, I meant supporting there vision and dreams. I am that product of this mindset, I wish I had a bit of say of what I want to do in life instead of go to University and get a office job, silly mindset. There is more your kids can do with the talents and skills God gave them.

@faithfulgodfrey2020 6 ай бұрын

Degree matters in human relations which is a basic asset on planet earth. Wisdom can be applied by all but understanding takes hardwork to grow.

@lolajaiyeoba7717 6 ай бұрын

Hmmmn. God bless Davido, God bless his father

@florenceomotoyinbo962 6 ай бұрын

The problem is having happy and enabling environment. I had a nephew who wanted to be a pilot and did not see the need to attend a university despite gaining admission to unilag but wr sat him down to educate him on the need and even got a pilot to talk to him and he changed his views because of the happy home not forcing him. We told him he could study a related course like aeronautical engineering

@barazaalex7287 6 ай бұрын

ATLIST YOU COULD GET A PILOT TO TALK TO YOUR NEPHEW, DO YOU THINK EVERYONE CAN HAVE THAT??

@graceemate5355 6 ай бұрын

Good to see your face again gurl. You intelligently nailed this matter Cynthia ❤

@chibunduecheruo4807 6 ай бұрын

Why would he drop Out of school there is sometimes parents say things at of anger..but for the child to capitalize on what they fathers said to him isn’t right ..that words are to motivate you to prove him wrong..so please no father would spend any amount of money to his child to school and the child drop out..please if na una you guys would more than what Emake said..or you sold everything you had just to see your child succeed and your child decide to shatter your efforts it pains…pls

@findouthow1383 6 ай бұрын

It is the way their experiences are being generalized as the standard for everyone🤔. Well 🤷🏽‍♂️

@UduakEni-ot2fx 6 ай бұрын

God will help this family to stand firm and prosper.

@sadohpeter5554 6 ай бұрын

This is the most foolish and sentimental discussion I have ever watched. Keep siding Emeka for his actions, everything has its price. Nigerian parents scold their children, but not cursing them to fail. Try to know why that boy dropped out first before judging him, I nearly dropped out cos of cultism and oppression, if not that my parents were supportive, I would have dropped out, and the world would judge me. Emeka is a failure when it comes to parenting, he brought his family issue to social media, and now he wants people to side him and he keeps shedding crocodile tears. He needs help, he is really not ok. Daddy freeze, ur own is even worse, u are not in position to talk about married people cos u are divorced and u have pride.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

Nawaho

@Martinchinedu164 6 ай бұрын

O.P. You talk from a point of H8te and Pain. Heal bro. 😅 Ignorance is not a problem but admitting to awareness for growth is Key.

@sadohpeter5554 6 ай бұрын

@@Martinchinedu164 if I really want to talk in the place of hate, I will be on the side of Emeka cos I like his acting and still watch his movies everyday, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't speak the truth. Emeka has anger issue, go and watch Segun Arinze's interview, u will know that he is too temper. If that woman had stayed in that marriage, and died, we will still blame her for not speaking out, and now that his son is speaking out too, people are saying the woman has turned him against his dad. That boy said, at some point, he was fighting other children in school, as a result of that, he was always changing school cos of bad parenting. So tell me, why would u expect that kind of son to do well and not drop out of school. Let's be logical here.

@sadohpeter5554 6 ай бұрын

@@Martinchinedu164 and asking me to heal, maybe u should go and check urself if you have issues cos I am speaking from an angle of a father who loves his children and who will do everything to make my children succeed, I will keep blessing them always, and not cursing them.

@Martinchinedu164 6 ай бұрын

@@sadohpeter5554 If you read my comment on this post you will understand what I'm really saying. There's no truth in whatever the 3 parties are spitting out so far im concerned. If they really want to prove the truth. Then they should be matured enough to call themselves in a room or environment. Tell the differences and narrate there stories looking at each other face to face.. That's why I'm telling you for you to be supporting one Party due to the actions of the other you're pouring h8te and allowing ignorance set in by neglecting the other party. And let me point this out, Emeka son fighting and doing whatever he does in school is never a problem from his father. A popular saying quote; say no evil, see no evil, speak no evil. For a fact I know when my parents had there issues, you can never see me going to watch them, even when my mum will want to manipulate our minds. I'll tell her nothing concern me. I never picked any side. And I know today 6 of us as children not picking sides between this couples helped a lot in keeping this marriage. Growing up with a Neutral identity and not allowing parents problem get to you was something nobody thought me. I assume I'm too young for that and hence is none of my business. I never fought anyone and I'm the first to even advise any girl who gets beaten during a relationship to immediately serve breakfast. No amount of sorry should anyone accept. So clearly we all are responsible for our behaviors. You won't blame a father of someone who was old enough to pick side as a kid and now his over 20 yrs for his child behaviors. I was 15 years when my dad told me until I make my own money I'm not entitled to the least of his wealth. Then my eyes opened, immediately you are able to think and make decisions as a human being for yourself. Your behavior and pattern of growth lies in your hands. Omo, if only digging a grave could make the dead come back to life. Calling a spade a spade is right when the axe agrees they work in different dimensions and can never be described as equal.

@zobasworld4689 6 ай бұрын

Cynthia Amadi you earned my respect biko you’re full of wisdom

@superstoresng 6 ай бұрын

Cynthia Amadi spoke very well. Kudos!❤

@mattmathew9475 6 ай бұрын

This modern parenting who has it helped.....look at our kids see what they are doing misbehaving living a life of vidal loca....we that our parents trained with strict decipline....we are better today..we may not be perfect but we try to live right.

@user-td6vs4ef1g 6 ай бұрын

My dear I wish I could hug you now.........I know how many times i walked up to my mother that father wasn't my father and she would cry n told me that,she has never known any other man in her life and she will plead with me and talk me into seeing the good in my father ........my darling today i can never pray for a better father ..... .my father shaped me,my father is my hero today,my father taught me how to make money with my hands even when i never knew the value of money .....my father taught us simplicity,humility,focus,hardwork etc....my father would take me round town showed me the end of an obedient child and the end of a disobedient child.......now i pray for long life for my father so i could repay him.....for all the disciplines he gave me and my siblings......

@Edith.Praise 6 ай бұрын

Cynthia talk to your O.G as well, don't just listen to one side please do the same to both.

@titustobudei4677 6 ай бұрын

Fear is equal to respect. Appeal to kids of today, and you'd regret it in the future. My dad was also a dictator and was so feared, but looking back today i am greatfull to God for my father.

@iduokoko9326 6 ай бұрын

This our generation just want to be free. Na big problem oooo. Freedom to do what you want has caused more problems for the society today. When most don't find success at the end of their freedom adventure, they turn to crime just to cover shame.

@priscilliaeghomwanre489 6 ай бұрын

Get a degree its important.... Its adds to your personality. Forget all the father said,pls wait until u spend ur hard earned money on a child and in the end dropped out..its painful oooo

@pastorchidishekinah4739 6 ай бұрын

I am sensing that a lot of men are jealous of fellow successful men. I am amazed at how men attack emeka

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

This woman is claiming to have spoken to Emeka but I find it difficult to trust him when he has lied twice. He said he never beat his wife but his PA who came to do damage control said the wife started it first and He said she took his property but there are articles from years back with his land lord speaking which suggests that Emeka was unable to pay rent. There are so many loop holes in his story for him to be trusted. I thought we had learnt that already but apparently not.

@justemeka 6 ай бұрын

Focus on your life and stop expressing opinions on another person's life. There are things you probably don't know.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

Stop reading what’s out there, things are not always black and white, leave the family and focus on yours.

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

⁠@@NgoziNwaimobut yet you have comments on this channel given your opinion. Sekof my own opinion does not align with yours. Double Standards

@Daraa727 6 ай бұрын

@@justemeka That is what the comment section is for. To express opinions.

@femilicious 6 ай бұрын

@@NgoziNwaimoso ignore evidence and just agree with him😅

@Uncensored-Updates 6 ай бұрын

We are looking for parents who can take us to schools 😢but those with opportunity are lousy 😢

@hammedadekunle9826 6 ай бұрын

I swear

@christianapatrick4938 6 ай бұрын

No be small thing a lot of youths want to go to school but there parents doesn't have the money.

@pamelazindi6969 6 ай бұрын

How can he make someone of of a son he constantly shouts and rants at. Children need love and encouragement. Do not support bad parenting. It results in bitter individuals who are a danger to society. That is how rapist, armed robbers and abusers came about. Thry are mostly people with horrible childhood experience.

@Chrisugo 6 ай бұрын

Don't be so quick to conclude. Nobody is the best in parenting. He may not have got it all right but that is not an excuse in this case . Most of us also was shouted at, beaten , flogged etc, but it wasn't an excuse to drop out of school, in fact it was a reason to fight to be better . So don't come and blame any one person here . Emeka, his wife and that boy all played a part in this misfortune. If Emeka was so gentle and loving as many have said, and Emma was so calm and peaceful, and they used to love each other so much and could hardly do without each other then. That means something definitely went wrong somewhere . I still see a lovely family in all this. May the Lord heal , and restore them in Jesus' name

@peacendukwe 6 ай бұрын

Exactly

@hanson4christ496 6 ай бұрын

It's well, how do you guys even think and come up with all these things sef Parents u didn't know personally So bcos of wat the boy says abi People tell u only wat they want you to hear, so you see saying the boy is all righteous in this issue abi All is see is people picking sides and gender favouritism Not going for a solution for the family People are in pain if you don't know

@jerryjackson8615 6 ай бұрын

You must be born right b4 covid for you to reason this way. Did you even listen to this interview

@Seyi.O 6 ай бұрын

Na today Naija parent dey shout. This used to be normal na. We take the beating, face our book and make something of ourselves. GenZs are just weaker emotionally Ordinary wake up late, you go chop beating back then. These days, the child will say he’s disturbed emotionally and he is validated. Times are different. Emeka just used the old school formula for a GenZ especially one that grew up in Germany.

@ajaysinclairmusic7253 6 ай бұрын

My Dad sha doesn’t tell me to die

@DM-rh7ul 6 ай бұрын

I understand this very well as a parent who has a son who arrived from Kenya to study in the University in UK. Since he started doing factory job he does not want to study anymore. I went to his university to find out if he was attending class. The school called him for me since he doesn't pick my calls. He said l was shouting to him. God help this children.

@user-td6vs4ef1g 6 ай бұрын

Daddy freeze something must have triggered Emeka ike saying what he said......let Emeka Ike's ex wife and son release the full audio if indeed they want to be sincere or they are sincere

@eneebong5181 6 ай бұрын

Freeze you are wicked. That woman did not take him out of school. Please stop stating what you dont know.

@foxcnbc9802 6 ай бұрын

I agree. 👍

@Epic_explorer_1 6 ай бұрын

I just tire. I think at this point, he’s just being one-sided on purpose.

@kingsleytulasi8221 6 ай бұрын

The woman didn't help her son

@fatimamusa4428 6 ай бұрын

Everyone should hear Cynthia Amadi... She talked sense not Dolapo that was lying. Thank you Cynthia Amadi, may God use you to mend this home, tell Emeka to stop using foul word on sm.

@florenceomotoyinbo962 6 ай бұрын

Daddy freeze pls forget Emeka right now for any proper role in the life of his first family when he has another one he may be struggling with.

@toocheafrica7208 6 ай бұрын

I tire for you Freeze. Listening to you two tells me you don't even have a good grasp of the situation about the Ikes. At the root of all this brouhaha is a very broken/toxic and, I dare say, immature father/husband. A man who's supposed to be the head of his home, but very unfortunately doesn't just have what it takes to fill that role. Going to school or not is not the crux and should never even consume the amount of time it did in this dialogue. Going to school is so very secondary to the issues at the heart of the matter here. I am the first person to tell you that going to school is very important (anywhere in the world). But it's definitely not an ultimate. The lessons and values gleaned from a stable and progressive home, trumps even the best degree from Harvard. Michael can go to the best school but all that would be rubbished by my the trauma his home served him. Just listening to Emeka Ike, before I saw Emma's or her son's interview with Chude, it was very OBVIOUS that here's a child talking. I don't care how old Emeka is, he needs to grow up. He doesn't even have the maturity of a well adjusted adult. (My 23 year old son is so disgusted at him and says that all a lot of Naija parents have going for them is their age without the commensurate. maturity) My father who is a typical Nigerian parent, told us his children (as each of us turned 18) that the hallmark of an adult is that you make decisions and stand/live by their consequences, good or bad. It's only in Africa that we stifle young people and still expect them to grow up. The result is, the generalty of the people never grow up. Micheal is not a child by any standards and as such should not be dictated to what to do or otherwise. Wisdom would demand that Emeka RESPECTS his son and reason with him rather than ranting like a spoilt brat who must always have his way. I acknowledge that age confers some advantages on an individual, but hey, we live in a society where increasingly the younger ones are showing more good sense and maturity than people way older than them. What's the noise about NTIC(Nigeria Turkish International School)? My son got admission into the school, but after doing due diligence, I changed my mind about him attending the school. That Emeka paid so much does not equate to him making the best choice for his child. EMEKA IKE SHOULD JUST GROW UP!!!!!

@blacocloc2201 6 ай бұрын

Don't mind our fellow Nigerians. It's why we suffer from Stockholm syndrome by applauding abusive parents and glorifying our oppressors. You would think that these personalities would have more to offer upstairs considering their level of exposure. See that lady here who is supposed to be a mother doing damage control for a friend at the expense of a young man's pain. 'Tears in Emeka's eyes" b4 nko? Is he not an actor? Na today we start to see crocodile tears? See how the young man and his mother were able to own up to their own flaws and errors while Emeka goes about galloping on a high horse as if he can do no wrong. Very arrogant overgrown baby. Who even comes on air to bash the mother of his children without any provocation? That says it all.

@user-jy6wl8hl2r 6 ай бұрын

God bless you

@juyinodeleye8567 6 ай бұрын

📌 THIS!!! 👊🏽

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

I wish you could tell us your childhood story if your parent left you to take decision of not going to school, and if you let your kids not to go to school, saying is effort of sending his kids to Turkish school as nothing buffles me, is not my concern though am not living with them and I don’t know led to his out burst it will still come out though, but I think all should be neutral

@neroabamusani2656 6 ай бұрын

Wen u bring ur family matter to the Internet, except negative advices. I was born in a family that my father n mother can't buy a book talk more of paying my school fee's. I'm happy today because I'm the one training my self in school. Education is the key to success.

@eneebong5181 6 ай бұрын

You are judgemental of the mother. No mother would want to watch her child without a degree. How do you know the mother has not tried. Why is the failure of a child the failure of a mother. Success belongs to dad. Freeze you need to freeze 😊

@rhymzyoronni3660 6 ай бұрын

someone can be calm and dangerous at the same time

@Aestheticsdairy 6 ай бұрын

So all of these actors and actresses lived with the couple through their marriage? It's funny how they think working with him is enough to dismiss what people that lived with him knew or experienced.

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

You don’t know anything about acting bah? These people travel to a location share a home for months days together, so they tend to know themselves, there behaviors are picked , if you want to know a person better ask the colleagues and immediate family. Colleagues they see the really person oo

@terryfidelis6711 6 ай бұрын

Remind Emeka's son that the so called Davido has a Degree too. He needs to do the right thing.

@johnfamous6316 6 ай бұрын

If 15 smart to get into University nothing stops 21 in getting married. Majority count's in life. 35 years Old is rilling a nation... And all her citizens are joyful. President Timubu is over 60 but Nigerian are crying in pain

@patriciahamilton2728 6 ай бұрын

Hey Baba J, I know you can make a difference here. I am betting on you to come through. I think you can motivate this young man to make dad, himself and you proud. I am Jamaican. I love Africa on a whole, but especially Nigerians

@jenniferosadebe8317 6 ай бұрын

I love this lady

@femilicious 6 ай бұрын

He was asking him to get education by telling him to jump in front of the trailer?. By telling him he has a son of the same age ao he is not important. ..please!

@faithedon6374 6 ай бұрын

Most sensible discussions so far

@dipitavanessa8522 6 ай бұрын

If Davido didn’t make it in music, he was born into one of the wealthiest families in Nigeria. Not to mention his dad insisted he must follow his family tradition and get a degree at least. Unfortunately the world of entertainment is quite a tough one especially in Africa… It’s great to believe in yourself and chase your dreams but you’re way better off having a plan B. Plus the more educated you are, the better equipped you are for every sphere in life.

@demaru4276 6 ай бұрын

Being raised by a single parent in a peaceful home may be enough 'trauma' for some kids, leading to maladaptive behaviors. Any child that goes through the constant family turmoil Michael went through requires some extreme form of grace to turn out right.

@caly24 6 ай бұрын

My parents fid not say those words to me while i was growing up. The fact that your father said it to you while growing up is not justified biko. You guys should stop capping. Just image what two grown up adults are justifying here. Whose parents abuse pass. I hear una. Una Weldone o.

@opeolojo5978 6 ай бұрын

A degree even helps to build a solid self-esteem as well besides every other thing.

@lukmanajalloh3678 6 ай бұрын

Emeka did not mean what he said to his son he said it out of anger some of us our parents said worse to us anger can make you do things or say things that we do regret saying or doing after.

@izunduchristophernwokocha8376 6 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

@chantelbrown4752 6 ай бұрын

That does not make it ok. Many African parents are toxic

@henrynwokoro4751 6 ай бұрын

💯

@gloooooooooooo 6 ай бұрын

It still doesn’t make it right. A parent shouldn’t say words like that PERIOD. We need to stop normalizing stuff like that. Those words hurt

@izunduchristophernwokocha8376 6 ай бұрын

@@gloooooooooooo when you are angry and depressed you might say worse. Lets wait till you get angry first

@foxcnbc9802 6 ай бұрын

Daddy freeze you miss the point always. Focus on the role of parent to redirect their children. A child may derail and make a mistake. There is still tjme to return them to focus. The worst way to do this js through the behavior of emeka. Call this out. Call out the bad behavior and do not in any way justify this. Then focus on the role of the parent to redirect the child to the right path.

@Hey-u1nu 6 ай бұрын

Some parents are ignorant in children and adolescent psychology to encourage their children to become better children

@yvettewilliams5967 6 ай бұрын

I’m out! So she is supporting parenting abuse in Nigeria because of her mother’s actions? Oh please!!!!

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

What’s parenting abuse?

@florenceomotoyinbo962 6 ай бұрын

All these are recruited by Emeka to defend him.

@tonyebiere551 6 ай бұрын

you dont have sense

@iduokoko9326 6 ай бұрын

Some of the guys talking rubbish here, their papa never call them in 5 years ooo.

@igboukwu 6 ай бұрын

Even Davido finished Uni and did Youth service.

@abeestarr1986 6 ай бұрын

Be angry amd sin not. Words cannot be taken back , Cynthia look how those words pierced you parents needs to stop doing that and we think its okay and stop degrading our children.

@nanas.recipes_ 6 ай бұрын

Most of us adults that was born in an African setting/environment experienced childhood traumas from constant shouting and screaming of our parents and we unconsciously are doing that to our children. The home/family should be a safe haven for the children but the adults that should be nurturing their children are at loggerheads and causing mental torture to the children. Whatever their son is going through, has an underlying background to what his parents did. Everyone deals with issues differently and the son needs help honestly cause he is struggling to process the issues he is having.

@samblesselo877 6 ай бұрын

Why do we always blame our failures to our parents?. Because of the Western world culture, now shouting in an African home is now a trauma. Your kid did something wrong, and you, as a parent, corrected him or her is now an abuse. Listen, I went through so many beating from my mom growing up, but you know what? That's what shaped me into the person that I am today. Abroad, there are so many kids that have parents that all they do from morning until night is drugs, yet those kids turned out good kids, So what do you call that? Good parenting?. A failed kid will always blame the parents. Is high time you start owing up to your own mistakes and try to make it right and stop blaming everyone else but you.

@leticianamale8610 6 ай бұрын

Exactly. Taking your child to expensive top-notch Turkish schools does not in any way heal the emotional damage caused by the father. The way Emeka is raging like a wounded lion because his ex has finally opened the closet and exposed his skeletons also bespeaks a sick mind in need of therapy. Unfortunately, his kind are so lacking in insight that they never reach out for the much needed professional help.

@Daizyonceagain 6 ай бұрын

@@samblesselo877 shut up! typing garbage..circle of abuse

@comfortuzoma3171 6 ай бұрын

Lots of points from this lady

@primetradixnevafomo5412 6 ай бұрын

This is a crazy story cause even Davido said his father stopped his career and he went back to school i.e University and graduated before he continued music. Now and can see you got to know both sides however this is a crazy story

@femilicious 6 ай бұрын

Did davidos father tell him to jump in front of trailer and that he has another son of his age and he is not important?

@F.Diversity 6 ай бұрын

Usually the abusive husband are very very nice to other people ti hide their bad side. Why did he bring those issues on the internet? He started it

@officialgentleman2652 6 ай бұрын

The VN played (not supported) was a response to something, what was Emeka responding to? He said he's being blackmailed. He said go and do it now as if the boy was threatening him with death/sucide. The issue with we Nigerians/Africans is we're too emotional and this robs us of the ability to reason; see beyond what's being said. Emeka Ike story has holes, his wives own has a lot too, the boy is pained and also seemingly manipulative, at a point i told my dad i think he doesn't love me, but today I adore that man. Another thing is some people find a way to continually tell themselves a lie until they believe it to be true, that's what this family is doing right now especially the boy, because he now hates his dad he'll taint his image in his head until he believes that's who his dad actually is.

@user-td6vs4ef1g 6 ай бұрын

My dear I wish I could hug you now.........I know how many times i walked up to my mother that father wasn't my father and she would cry that she has never known any other man in her life and she will plead with me and talk me into seeing the good in my father ........my darling today i can never pray for a better father ..... .my father shaped me,my father is my hero today,my father taught me how to make money with my hands even when i never knew the value of money .....my father taught us simplicity,humility,focus,hardwork etc....my father would take me round town showed me the end of an obedient child and the end of a disobedient child.......now i pray for long life for my father so i could repay him.....for all the disciplines he gave me and my siblings......

@remiademola3265 6 ай бұрын

So if your child states they would commit suicide you would encourage them to do it??? 😮😮

@christopherchikwe3144 6 ай бұрын

Let anyone say what they like , any parent who will watch their kid say bad thing about their ex while they are seated next to them, then something is missing. Even here in North America I have seen parent who will shut their kids up and still reminds them “ that’s you dad/mum”. When two elephants are fighting, it’s the grass that suffers. Let get marriage right and hopefully, all will be well. May God help us. Our parents have said worse things to us but that does not mean they don’t wish us well. We are still grateful to them for their guidance. Till date most parents still say worse and yet care a lot.

@theresaoamen 6 ай бұрын

God bless you ❤

@theresaoamen 6 ай бұрын

God bless you ❤

@theresaoamen 6 ай бұрын

God bless you ❤

@femilicious 6 ай бұрын

He was defending his mother and there is nothing wrong with that.

@liliankamara4208 6 ай бұрын

This is bad father. Children need love and support

@iduokoko9326 6 ай бұрын

How much love did you get? What young people call love is freedom to whatever they want, what parents call love is help hidden in discipline.

@liliankamara4208 6 ай бұрын

I was loved . I don't remember my dad wishing me to die let him do the right thing by loving his kids 🙏

@NgoziNwaimo 6 ай бұрын

How did he know he didn’t love his kids? Have you seen there old pictures? He was always laughing hugging his father, what changed? Go to school leave music he go small see say papa don travel he run to his mum. Then she happily allowed him to stay back not return to university he has gain admission and paid fee for two years? And started recording songs and working in restaurants, he can do better with some degree

@valentinaisiguzo1867 6 ай бұрын

His mother should guide him aright please. His father might be handling it the wrong way but the mother should fill in the gap. That boy sure needs some counselling or therapy.