Stop victim blaming this lady. She was young and naive and groomed into this type of relationship. She was made to think it's OK to be treated like this. This is how ppl become victims. Breaking the cycle of abuse is not as easy as what everyone thinks.

I'm glad that this sister finally found peace and love. Life is never easy which is why we must learn as much as we can so that we can make better decisions. For this important reason, in the US, it is the law that children must go through grade school ((K-12). And they are not consider adults until age 18. Enough time and education will be needed to get to basic adult maturity. So many of our brothers and sister could have been saved from this simple care. It is so unfortunate when parents do not understand this very important concept and do not know how to better guide their children. On wrong choice can forever destroyed a life. Use love and care in everything that we do, and give sufficient thought to key concepts that are so critical personal health.

Your son is breaking generational trauma within our Hmong community. Thank goodness he knew to call for help. He saved your life. 💜

There is truly no future with an abuser and someone with an addiction. The sooner you leave the better off you'll be. Ladies, please preserve yourself so you can still be a mom to your children. Examples like this story, the husband will still be a loser even if you are gone. They are not worth your life and being a mother to your children. I encourage more ladies who got out of abusive relationships to tell their stories. This would be one way of helping others who are in the same situation to know that there's a life after leaving an abuser.

His loving punches and kicks must tasted super good!!!

Great 👍 sister, you kicked evil man out of the house of your life.

Men like your ex-husband should NEVER get married because they only care about themselves and having fun with their friends all the time. The family means NOTHING to them. This type of man should be AVOIDED at all costs if a woman wants a successful life! That being said, you experienced what you did----the beatings and the lack of support from your spouse----because you didn't listen to your elders who could see your ex-husband's faults clear as day! Also, one beating is too many beatings...you should have left him after the very first beating, but you didn't because you thought he would change and that was a huge mistake on your part----when you don't learn the first time, then you will suffer again and again.

Sister...happy to know that you are free of your selfish EX!

Thank you, Jenny, for using the correct terms "iab liam". It was so awkward being used as "iab hiam".

Nrog koj zoo siab kawg uas koj dim niag txiv liam ntawd lawm. Peb ua neeg nyob ces ua neej tsis pom txoj hmoo. Koj yeej hais yog txhua los lus...ke ua ke kawm. Ua tsaug rau koj tham koj lub neej tuaj ua kev kawm rau ib tsoom txij nkawm.

Better late than never!

Nrog koj zoo siab ntsib tus hlub2 Koj rau yav laus os tus sister

Thaum hluas tau txoj txomnyem tabsis yav laus tau zoo lawm ces zoo tshaj plaws li os vivnaus aw...Nrog koj zoo rau yav laus mog cem2 koj los yog mob2 thiaj li cem xwb.

Niam lau nej txojj cai nyob meka.teb zoo kawg .kV nyob laj teb lawv tsi hlub poj niam li o

Chim siab kawg, cov txiv neej coj siab loj2 li no rau phooj ywg, kuv tus yog ib tug thiab. Nej tsis rau nws nkawm khau nej thiaj tsis paub tias uv vim muaj ib pab me nyuam & vim pheej tseem ntseeg tias nws yuav hloov. Ua neeg nyob ces muab 2-3 chance rau xwb, no more. Tab sis thaum twg siab tawv txaus lawm ces bye bye niag dev vwm ntawd.

Peb cov poj niam uas raug2 tus txiv ntaus thiab ncaws e pheej tsi nrauj ce vim ua neej nrog niag txiv tus yob xwb. Yog cov poj niam uas ua neej nrog tus txiv xwb no ce phem npaum ko nrauj ntev

Did you press charge against this abuser? Glad you finally see the light and got out of this marriage.

Wow what a crazy ex husband. He only cared about himself and his reputation it's not entirely his friends. Nws yog neeg pluag tsab muaj xwb. It's not your faut you were a good, caring and forgiving woman. I feel sad you went through so much to finally gert out of that abusive relationship but maybe it was meant to be because you met a good man that loved you. I am glad you have a happy ending.

Doesn't make sense. She doesn't have money to do her son wedding, borrowing $5k from her sister. How does she and her husband suddenly have $50k at the bank?

Thaum pib mas hais cuag yog puag thaum 80, ntawm li hais mus hais los ces yog tam sim no xwb zoo li tsi Muaj qab hau li os didn’t make sense

Ib txhia poj niam yeej nyiam kom mag ntaus. Vim twb raug ntaus los tseem phej nyob tiv tas zog naw.

Ntuj aws cas koj niag txiv es nim zoo kiag li kuv niag txiv thiab os tso qaib sib ncaws es thiaj li mag police ntes thiab ntag lau,lub neej lwj siab kawg nrauj lawm xwb

Yus nrog yus ruam es tseem cia nws ua phem2 rau yus niag pog ruam aw mag ntau tsi tau txaus ntag ces thiaj li yuav tos kom rov tau mag ntaus kom tav lov ntag es mam mus ces mob laug lawm lauj..

Me ntxhai aws cov txiv zoo lisko ce tsi txhob yuav Nws xwb zoo dua yog koj tseem yuav NWS Ce koj kawg swb Nws.xwb uaca koj yuav ruam ualuaj koj twb muaj me nyuam es koj tseem khuvxim Nws ualuaj vim koj txoj kev ruam kev ntshaws Nws xwb yog koj tsi nrauj Nws ce koj yeejyuav tuag ib hnub rau Nws txhai tes xwb tiag.

Yuav tau txiv ruam tsab ntse pluag tsab muaj los siab tseem phem thiab ces lub neej yeej poob qab. Koj niag txiv dev no mas ruam thiab tsis muaj hlwb tiag tiag. Cas tsis ntxov nrauj niag txiv xyob txhiaj no thaum tseem hluas.

Tos mag ncaws los yeej heev zog lawm thiab

Koj tus txiv siab phem kawg twb xav muab koj tuas ntau zauj lawm os.

It's too late for you. From the beginning your parentold yoi but you don't listen and you prefer to go alone with him Thats what you get. You don't need to tell y o ur story.