Damn…where can we go?! Stephen A. Smith breaks down viral “no first date” list

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9 ай бұрын

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@RRR-ox9ud 9 ай бұрын

If the woman likes you... you can take her anywhere.

@rogerblewett5595 9 ай бұрын

FACTS 💯

@reasedogable 9 ай бұрын

She want like you very long

@htxflow 9 ай бұрын

And she won't be recording you either

@andrelima5124 9 ай бұрын

Yup

@kbruff2010 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@jamochachoa7186 9 ай бұрын

I guess we're going on a picnic, and she can make her own food.

@nicolecurry8501 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 right

@jillianhajdasz9752 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@michelangelooliver2590 9 ай бұрын

That part 😂😂

@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 9 ай бұрын

I know this wasn't a serious comment, but I think a picnic is a great idea if the weather is nice.

@jamochachoa7186 9 ай бұрын

@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect No, it was 100% serious under the pre-tense of this specific scenario. And, yes I also agree that un-ironically, a picnic is a fine dating venture.

@jasonc2467 9 ай бұрын

Stephen A Smith needs to give out more dating advice 😂!

@Real-ez2lg 9 ай бұрын

Crazy thing is she looked mid af to be demanding this bs😂.

@Noin007 9 ай бұрын

Seriously! Like, “OK, Halle Berry!“ Who the hell do you think you are? 😂

@1MTW 9 ай бұрын

On everything

@HandSewnandGrownwithLove 9 ай бұрын

OK, so she has to be half white to have her own standards?

@5purplecups 9 ай бұрын

I listened to this at work I was laughing 😂😂😂😂😂

@sheilashort9717 9 ай бұрын

My first date with my husband was a cool pizza joint in our college town of Muncie, Indiana and we had so much fun just talking and getting to know one another. I remember I was so shy I didn't eat much since pizza can be quite messy and I didn't want food stains all over my outfit (jeans and cute t shirt). We fell in love and were married over 32 beautiful years until he died of cancer in 2012. I still miss him greatly and wish I could share a slice of pizza with him.

@DaMixWizard 9 ай бұрын

That was in 1980. Women in the 80s didn't think like these out of control women in 2023. Going to a pizza joint in 1980 was like going to 5-Star restaurant in 2023. You tell a woman today lets go to a pizza spot, she will look at you with the stank look🫤. I remember in 1997, while in college, me & my girlfriend went to Burger King, we both tore those whoppers up😅. These young men today are doomed, they need prayer dealing with these modern gals. RIP to your hubby

@Pjiggy 8 ай бұрын

@DaMixWizard The women you are describing have existed since the beginning of time. But, women like the one above have also existed since then. Though the prevailing attitude may appear to have changed, social media is not the real world. Find the right one.

@Ilovechicago100 9 ай бұрын

Stephen a is too funny 😂😂😂

@carlsagan2607 9 ай бұрын

White Castle as “the greatest laxative” is crazy Stephen A ☠️😭😭

@DoloJohnson-xc6wt 9 ай бұрын

Had to rewind that part never had White Castle 😂😂

@coreywatkins2426 9 ай бұрын

he not wrong tho white castle is good but it will obliterate your stomach

@CappolaJanitor-pe7kw 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂SAS had me crying... White Castle best laxative I ever had 😂😂😂😂 Facts💯

@T-Bechilln 9 ай бұрын

Lol 😂

@jamarjohnson6077 9 ай бұрын

Only coffee dates or a physical activity like hiking or gym. I took a lady to Smokey Bones once. She ate half the menu and took a steak to go. Called her to see if she made it home safe. Blocked!! after that never again.

@joebriggs5781 Ай бұрын

I actually was able to convince a girl to go on a date to play rec dodgeball with me and drinks after, and she said she was afraid of getting hit in the face. I told her it probably wouldn't happen. It did happen. But she laughed it off and we had a great time. I'm actually excited about this one! I like the physical activity date strategy a lot. It's easier to get to know someone in a setting like that in my opinion.

@J972M 9 ай бұрын

It also depends on how old you are as well. My lil nephew 16 talking bout he saving his checks from his after-school job to take this girl he likes out. I said kool where you taking her? He gon tell me "she said she only goes out on dates to nice restaurants, so we going to Ruth's Chris.." I said no tf you not! 😂

@rogerblewett5595 9 ай бұрын

Damn she bout to have that boy simpin out of this world lol.... He gon be in debt before he graduate.. reel that young buck back in lol

@FrugalFa 9 ай бұрын

Hell naw kid.

@3naturalBionutrition 9 ай бұрын

Save his checks for himself

@J972M 9 ай бұрын

@@rogerblewett5595 Brother, I'm telling you he was down bad. Talking bout, "She's different. I been trying to get with this one for months. " Asking me to drive him up to the gucci store. Me and his Pops had to sit him down 😂

@K124B 9 ай бұрын

gotta blame this system that makes woman think they deserve fancy shyt all the time... at 16, nicest place we went too was prolly movie theatres, otherwise we was getting food from McDonalds and other lil food spots around the way, carryout, Ledo's .. Dairy Queen, etc .. and girls didnt care at that age either, we just enjoyed the fact we were spending our OWN lil money and out with the opposite sex@@rogerblewett5595

@kengy1991 9 ай бұрын

I think ice cream is a good first date! If you include a walk in the park with that then it is even better.

@P_Crizzy360 9 ай бұрын

Not ice cream but frozen yogurt….

@rogerblewett5595 9 ай бұрын

Agreed 💯

@shanny0971 9 ай бұрын

Me too! I love it!

@cavalierfan1995 9 ай бұрын

Yeah if you and her are ten

@Willworld. 9 ай бұрын

There’s 3 things on this list I agree on. I’m not taking u to a family function on our first date that’s awkward. I’m not taking u to my house because i don’t know u like that. And we’re not going to church is too early for that

@qbqb99 9 ай бұрын

We miss Kevin Samuels. Happy and sad his talking points have gone mainstream cuz it proves he was right but its so watered down

@ayo2315 9 ай бұрын

You know woman can’t stand the truth 😂😂😂😂😂

@rogerblewett5595 9 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯. Kevin was the man

@clasijasi 9 ай бұрын

@@ayo2315it’s women not woman

@Rayruckus51 9 ай бұрын

She's a five ..maybe a six if you're drunk enough 😮

@bossplayermfs5972 9 ай бұрын

Alan Roger Currie has the best methods/solutions for men to deal with women.

@dimitrisbright9807 9 ай бұрын

I disagree with the coffee or ice cream date. Something real casual and laid back as a first date is ideal and a ice cream or Starbucks is perfect for that

@rogerblewett5595 9 ай бұрын

I agree those are PERFECT first date spots.. I always say don't spend money on the first date but if you just want too those are perfect spots

@emem2863 9 ай бұрын

Those are good if you're meeting for the first time in person from a dating site.

@dimitrisbright9807 9 ай бұрын

@@emem2863 A first date is a first date no matter where or how you met.

@emem2863 9 ай бұрын

@@dimitrisbright9807 Not true. If you met someone in real life before going on a date with them, there is a level of comfort you don't have if you've never actually met the person in real life until the "first date."

@themoneymakerchris980 9 ай бұрын

Agreed. Those are two chill easy going first dates.

@WTILL3712 9 ай бұрын

“I believe in the Lordt, and the Lordt has connected me to you “ 😂😂 Welllllll Talk to em Stephen A !! Episode too funny

@phyllisnickerson3767 9 ай бұрын

My husband of 44 years…we went to Dairy Queen! ❤

@TheWealthyChick 9 ай бұрын

Please school these youngins! I don't know when simple things became unacceptable. Congratulations on your 44 years of wedded bliss. 🎉

@JaydenHolland-wo4fd 6 ай бұрын

Yes, dairy Queen is amazing! 👑

@CastroJr15 9 ай бұрын

Facts on the White Castle 🤣, get the runs within minutes

@user-qy9hn1ii3l 9 ай бұрын

We need more of your opinions on various topics like this & more plz Mr. A Smith. We love you brother! Keep on 💪🏾 😂❤❤

@seraph741 9 ай бұрын

There's no such thing as a definitive "no first date" list. Just like with everything else in life, it's situationally dependent (i.e., there is a time and place for everything).

@user-hr9ul5sh8i 9 ай бұрын

It hit different when she thinks she worth more then cheesecake, meanwhile she's single tho and on a date😅

@greyyb8860 9 ай бұрын

And got McDonald’s on her lunch break

@ExpertYouTubeCommentator 9 ай бұрын

" look up sometimes, look quick! smile!" 😂😂😂

@SportNana1676 9 ай бұрын

SAS you got me rolling. Sneak a peek! 🤣

@jkalub 9 ай бұрын

He said White Castle is the best laxative 💀💀😂😂

@SeanDaNerd 9 ай бұрын

I was not prepared for the White Castle take😂

@Ducedaily 9 ай бұрын

Stephen A aint slick! He want all these restaurants as his sponsor 😂😂

@bigtimetv9109 9 ай бұрын

I like when stephen smith give his thoughts on other topics other then sports 😂

@genxsports8486 9 ай бұрын

There’s only one place I would not take her: seriously. That woman doesn’t even live in a gated community.

@patrickduvigneaud5857 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ExpertYouTubeCommentator 9 ай бұрын

this is the best segment of sAs, no side talk of all these sports media sideshow, this was actually kind of informative, light hearted, and funny, exactly what i want to hear on my Friday

@MichaelWilliams-pv1zg 9 ай бұрын

You can tell bro watches Martin all the time 😂😂

@christiancreasy5268 9 ай бұрын

Nothing wrong with coffee dates or ice creams. I did both and the women I went love it. It all depends on the person as well.

@CapeCod_y2k 9 ай бұрын

These younger women are too good for ice cream and coffee days s

@leesha4u 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely!! That's more talk time. If we mesh, there will be time for dinners.

@sunshinegirl8600 9 ай бұрын

I went out with this doctor and our first date he took me to the Cheesecake Factory😂😂😂😂I was really happy. Loved the food😂😂😂and he was so cute that I was happy just to be with him😊. I am just that girl fellas 😊😂😂😂not ashamed

@capricekobain2996 9 ай бұрын

He's a doctor so even if you and him had a car date you prolly would have been just as good

@capricekobain2996 9 ай бұрын

@@lonutta What woman wouldn't be a good woman and be on her best behavior on a date with a doctor even street walkers know the play

@rogerblewett5595 9 ай бұрын

The cheesecake factory is actually too much for a first date 💯 he's a doctor so he probably wasn't trippin but still.. it doesn't look like you guys ended up getting married soo 🤷🏾‍♂️... My man's should have kept it simple

@sunshinegirl8600 9 ай бұрын

@@rogerblewett5595 I broke up him him a month later. I found my true love. He ( husband today) had been in the US for a few months. No job. No car. No phone. He didn’t speak a word of English😂😂😂😂 Oh I was born in Brazil so was he. Today… 19 years later still strong. I’m old school guys. I see Potential. Period. Have. Great weekend everyone 🙏😊

@sunshinegirl8600 9 ай бұрын

@@capricekobain2996 nope…. not me my friend. He was a wonderful person. We were friends even before that. I broke up with him because God gave me my husband…. Who was really broke 😂😂😂😂 really broke. I see what the person has inside. That’s why I am still married with 2 wonderful children. My house God first, then my husband.

@WangHungLo 9 ай бұрын

This is what communication is for

@drkesrf 9 ай бұрын

If you meet someone from something like a dating app, coffee or a drink is appropriate. You don’t even know if you have in-person chemistry yet! No way I’m talking you to a $200 meal. At most we’re doing a casual dinner. Now, if it’s a first date with someone you already know, then I understand doing something nice.

@bossplayermfs5972 9 ай бұрын

A man is wasting his time trying to take a woman on a date nowadays the brother and author Alan Roger Currie has four books that he wrote explaining not only about female nature but how to deal with women and prevent you from wasting your time. “No Free Attention” is one of those books which is perfect for this subject matter.

@patrickduvigneaud5857 9 ай бұрын

Will definitely look into this thank you for this gem

@crash5189 9 ай бұрын

She prolly can't make a pbnj. Doesn't even know the ingredients

@kgrkid 9 ай бұрын

More like she can’t spell pbnj

@phyllisnickerson3767 9 ай бұрын

She’s not the one, sir!

@kbthegoat824 9 ай бұрын

this social media age is really disturbing...And what's with this you can't take them to the movies cause you can't talk? lOl you have plenty of time to talk before and after the movie, you can enjoy yourselves with a nice movie and talk about it later, you can have some cocktails or food before showtime.

@TheWealthyChick 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely! Studio Movie Grill or it's equivalent.

@JP-rw5cd 9 ай бұрын

I fucking love this guy on another level since this podcast 😂😂😂😂 he is a national treasure

@SuperDodgers2011 9 ай бұрын

4:45, why does he seem extremely offended by Olive Garden being on the list? 😂

@RayTheomo 4 ай бұрын

Im offended too. Whats wrong with Olive Garden 😡😂

@reggieprice6966 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 Stephen A is hilarious man ❤

@lakalajadizaja4332 9 ай бұрын

hahahahaha my man - the church part got me !

@SG-pj5zl 9 ай бұрын

Had this black girl I was gonna take to the fair for a first date. She pulled up to my spot and I came out and told her I was running 5 mins behind. When I came back out 3 mins later she had left and blocked my number. The entitlement is crazy these days

@robertedwards7430 9 ай бұрын

Steven A getting real talking about White Castle.......lmao😂 I love Olive Gardens house salads!

@garypeters2827 9 ай бұрын

Look up sometimes😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@stifler5062 9 ай бұрын

Look quick

@ryanbertson109 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love seeing this side of the man

@lourdesbourdier9330 9 ай бұрын

The list is great😂😂😂😂😂

@darshin95 9 ай бұрын

no KFC or McDonalds on there

@MadmanXXVII 9 ай бұрын

What's wrong with coffee as a first date? Find out if she can carry on a conversation and see if there's a vibe before you burn $200 on a dinner just to get ghosted.

@jandrousmc08 9 ай бұрын

I took a girl to subway on our first date, and then we went to an ice cream parlor where I accidentally kicked her chair and she fell backwards and dropped her ice cream on the floor. Not only did I have to buy her another ice cream, but I've also had to spend the last 10 years of my life with her and been married for 7.

@1millionmillionaires542 7 ай бұрын

If she was paying, that would be her to-go list !

@Unapologetically_Masculine 9 ай бұрын

I miss Kevin Samuels as well. He would have loved to discuss this topic.

@derricbert1366 9 ай бұрын

Man! Kevin would have ripped her a new one!

@davemerkury 9 ай бұрын

We can anywhere on the first date, but it’s a split. If we are both employed, can dress, drive, and have our own place to live, then we can split the bill. That way, no expectations can be made from either party. Especially, if she ain’t missing meals…😂😂😂…no simping, no simping, no simping…the ROI is not worth the risk…it’s a lot of lemon 🐈 out here…them walls are loose lol

@javianjohnson8746 9 ай бұрын

Great talking points on this topic Stephen A! I agree some of this stuff is just ridiculous

@Indigo_LaCrown 9 ай бұрын

My mom once told me watch the company you surround yourself with. If a girl is acting like this before your first date even starts that is the biggest possible red flag of a golddigger 🚩. Just because they're the loudest voices and mainstream /social media , it doesn't mean that they're representation of every woman on earth. My 3 strongest recommendation for any man who has that kind of money and wants to find a woman who loves you as a person and not an 🏧. *1)* Travel the world. Western women are not the representation of the woman gender as a whole no matter how loud their voices are. *2)* Be open to new views and possibilities. I'm not saying purposely date outside your race per se but, a new kind and better woman could lead to a new kind and better you. *3)* Don't flex your wealth. Flexing how much money you have is a *"Open Door Sign"* for gold diggers and fake friends

@user-vd8oc1it2h 4 күн бұрын

I've never had a problem. This is a social media thing.

@kimstuart7989 9 ай бұрын

All you gotta do on this one is refer to unc and ocho and listen to uncs story 😂

@stifler5062 9 ай бұрын

Lol. Lady:im trying to figure out What goes woith lobster 😂😂 UNC:Condoms😂😂😂

@spcasualwatcher 8 ай бұрын

Long time happy relationship. Started with me asking him out to dinner and I had no issue with my paying for it. People need to treat people how they wanna be treated not do everything for social media likes.

@treciacampbell2521 9 ай бұрын

My husband of 20 years took me to Olive Garden on our date 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ and not because we couldn’t afford it.

@marcusfrm6263 9 ай бұрын

Nicca said they breathing on it and allat shi😂😂😂😂

@cianogivens6823 9 ай бұрын

Stephen A Smith just gave us the best slogan for White Castles ever 🤣

@Rob-ml3vl 9 ай бұрын

I’m surprised this show doesn’t have more views.

@Zo_1987 9 ай бұрын

Stephen A. think he got GAME!😂😂

@shareefwilliams6561 9 ай бұрын

Anyone stop to think that maybe the other guy she’s sleeping with actually works at that particular cheese cake factory 😂😂😂

@openeyz 9 ай бұрын

I know White Castle was like "wait a damn minute!!!" LOL. SAS got em on that one.

@hyg71886 9 ай бұрын

Am i the only one that looked at that chic an said you should be thankful I'm taking you there lol

@Pure_Dog 9 ай бұрын

They want that BACKSEAT ACTION

@sandyasiedu8927 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 SAS u are player😂😂😂

@Allanfan20 9 ай бұрын

I actually find starbucks or a quiet bar during the week for a drink to be perfect.

@raheemhands5761 9 ай бұрын

Me and my fiancé‘s first date was hard rock Café. I don’t see that on the list so I took her to the right spot.

@Already713 9 ай бұрын

Dang that is a good spot good food and drinks to i feel that

@iii5091 9 ай бұрын

"What goes with lobster?... condoms" - Unc Shay Shay

@shaheemtaylor960 9 ай бұрын

Lmaoooooooooooo you have to disguise you want to sleep with her on the first date

@EJKBoxingandFitness 9 ай бұрын

That list is the list to use to choose where to take her on a first date. The park & a donut is a good spot too.

@Ahjusshi_Brown 9 ай бұрын

While every woman obviously won’t agree w/ this list 100%, I can understand the thinking behind why women wouldn’t like these locations (except for bowling, bowling is great) If anyone is confused why all these make sense, it’s bc these venues (1) don’t provide the right environment to get to know each other (like the movies, although i think a movie is a great supplementary option during a date), (2) don’t give a good first impression (instead, most of these are venues you’d go when you’ve been in a relationship for a while), or (3) aren’t the best location for safety reasons (on a women’s end, they’re always concerned with safety)

@KayGee247 9 ай бұрын

Looks like we going nowhere

@JSickPoker 9 ай бұрын

I’ve taken normal girls to coffee dates, bowling, Cheesecake Factory, nightclubs, bars for drinks, movies at my place all on first dates and have had no issues. A red flag is when a girl acts entitled and wants you to take them somewhere extravagant. I don’t even know I like you yet so why would I invest so much time and money in you yet?

@InvestBetter. 9 ай бұрын

And Western women wonder why no one asks them out anymore

@zetha5378 9 ай бұрын

@InvestBetter you see one woman doing this and you put all women in a box with her. 🤔

@stifler5062 9 ай бұрын

What women dont get is if a guy asks you out on a date he already thinking relationship. We spend money on relationships not dates..

@dashawsmm3647 9 ай бұрын

I have no problem with this list, I suggest from this point moving forward, that the women take the men out to whatever fancy restaurant they’d like to go to or whatever thing they’d like to do on the first date, i’ll take care of the rest you take care of first.

@a.e.mathis268 9 ай бұрын

Buffett hell no, hell no food just laying down people breath all over it 😂😂😂

@MrPottsTeaching 9 ай бұрын

Take a chick to an Ice Cream place or a little known spot with some Amazing EXOTIC Food. You got to put them on to Something they dont know about that's tha hook. Got to put some thought into it. Take them somewhere unique

@BimmaGyal-xb3sw 9 ай бұрын

Cheesecake Factory was a skit.

@trentonpower1823 9 ай бұрын

I can tell you where I'M gonna go, HOME 😂

@gheechiedan9299 9 ай бұрын

The HOUSE is the best place to take 'em! I got food in the fridge! 🤣

@eatshit8907 9 ай бұрын

People are gonna be pissed when they find out it’s fake.

@efrainmoralespellot3793 9 ай бұрын

We need more black men with platforms to give game to these young fellows so they don’t turn out to be so weird

@hotlover3000 9 ай бұрын

Lol No gym. She might need some work😂😂😂

@StopSixBruce 9 ай бұрын

My man let let that “nigga” slip at 6:04 🤣🤣

@Jalexander14 9 ай бұрын

Man he right about the White Castle, I ate it when I visited NY and bruh I was cool then like 20 mins after eating it I was like ohhhh no 😭😂 I had to drive while having a stomachache and no damn restroom was open in the area until I found a gas station lol all ima Say Is I was Feeling bad for the person cleaning that 💩 up 😂

@MicrowaveWalrus 9 ай бұрын

no starbucks??? maybe a local coffee is better, but.. ??? SAS doesn't drink coffee? how is that a bad date? makes you chatty as hell...

@herardlongchamp3963 9 ай бұрын

😂😂!! White castle

@datsapaddlin6449 9 ай бұрын

A reminder that they are not paying for anything as well but wanna be picky 😂

@5purplecups 9 ай бұрын

I took my girl to Chili’s for our first date, it was lit 😂

@datsapaddlin6449 9 ай бұрын

@@5purplecups Believe it or not my wife wanted to go to McDonald’s for our first date but she’s from Brazil and it’s more expensive over there 😂. She loved it lol.