I can’t stress how TRUE is this video. Each and every line that you said is true. I came here as a student 3years back and I am from a normal middle class Indian family where parents took care of most of the stuffs and I didn’t really know how worse people in the real world could be. I was in a safe nest until I moved to Canada. Right from my first house owner(Indian, from the same state as mine), housemates, collegemates, few friends that I made, everybody were only trying to either use me, benefit from me, or be in touch/help you because they can get help from you in the future. Except for a handful of people who were genuinely concerned and selflessly helped. I used to cry a lot because of how naive I was to believe ppl and then get played by, in my initial years. Then I understood that to survive this I have to become strong, defensive, emotionally detached, take a stand for myself, talk back, absolutely not to rely on anyone for even a small help, not to share much especially about your personal stuffs, achievements or good things that happens to you. Many aren’t happy about your growth, learnt that lesson harder way. I really wish I had seen this kind of video and be prepared what to expect before moving to Canada. Thanks for such an open talk.. And that’s so true about hobbies, when I felt lonely I started revisiting my childhood hobbies and found happiness in my own company. Also, went to movies, concerts, museums alone and didn’t rely on anybody to do what I like the most.
@varshalsoni2539 Жыл бұрын
True same i was also same and experience same coming to canada
@DesiINtoronto Жыл бұрын
True
@visheshshah3062 Жыл бұрын
That's what exactly happened with me too in my last 6 months... ppl r so fake.. finally saw the real ,cruel and worst ppl . .... like how could ppl do with anyone.. and then those ppl only will start self victimization and will blame us.. I am like now fcuk such ppl and start living life without anyone..
@umavenkat3808 Жыл бұрын
@@visheshshah3062 I know right! That playing a victim and blame game is so true. Gaslighting people. More power to you.
@visheshshah3062 Жыл бұрын
@@umavenkat3808 Yeahh ikrrrr.. and same to u. Wish u the best life .. and more powers to u too..✌️
@srikanthreddy6626 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Don't let your loneliness make you reconnect with toxic people. You shouldn't drink poison just because you are thirsty .
@vickysinghsingh6919 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with whatever u have said … every single word worth listening… I was in UK for 5 years .. was in Japan almost for 2.6 years … went to Canada twice on multiple entry visa .. But I have concluded one thing… people here in India carries more values , honesty and sense of belongingness … they are more helpful and many a times a selfless help they do…. India and Indian culture is best in the world
@islamictalkwithsubtitles5998 Жыл бұрын
No doubt truly said👌🏻
@saifulmunna2183 Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right. I experienced all of them. It's a hard way to learn. If you're careful from the beginning and start to believe in yourself you won't get hurt.
@ManpreetSingh-wr6bh Жыл бұрын
Main 1 year se huun canada mein..yehi hain reality canada ki..bohot frustrated ho chuki huun ...apna country jaisa koi country nehi hain ..I love my India🇮🇳
@wever4798 Жыл бұрын
Me to aane ki soch rha hun
@Avyay10 Жыл бұрын
@@wever4798 India ya canada aane ki soch rahe ho?
@amittalks_ Жыл бұрын
@@wever4798 mat aao bro mentally torture hoyga to itna focus nahi kr paoge job pr or specially study pr . agr family situation achi h or financially best h to tab he aao aap nahi to bhul kar bhi mt aana akele fs jaoge or apne aap ko kosoge. agr family m koi phle settle h jha pr jaa rahe ho then u should definitely you must come
@wever4798 Жыл бұрын
@@amittalks_ bhai tum phoch gye ho udhar isliye bol rhe ho na ?
@wever4798 Жыл бұрын
@@Avyay10 yes
@mannatkukreja3255 Жыл бұрын
Yes agreed to you sir , even if a person is coming to canada people make you feel like its such a bad idea to study or work overseas , people try to put you down either its because of competition or it's because they want you to be socially conservative . Moreover few of them will genuinely make you realise what are the pros n cons of being in an abroad city n how u can push yourself towards the success so never let your failures dishearten u or your achievements overwhelm u at last stay motivated n think before trusting also making any of them your priority who are around you
@grewal2202 Жыл бұрын
It actually is not a very good idea to move abroad.
@daizygill2431 Жыл бұрын
It all depends on how motivated and positive we are for ourselves
@mubashshira Жыл бұрын
I am also in Canada for just over a year now. I am going through something exploitation, harassment, bullying, which makes me relate to this video SO MUCH! When we are so alone here, we are very vulnerable and can break very easily. It is very hard to keep going. Thank you for this video!
@mubashshira Жыл бұрын
@Saddab Aalam Thank you so much 🥺
@nikhiledward Жыл бұрын
Save yourself don’t be manipulated by others …
@daizygill2431 Жыл бұрын
@@mubashshira just be aware of what’s going on around you that’s how clear can say to live alone with positive attitude
@harshaan_singh_grewal13 Жыл бұрын
@@mubashshira stay safe sister
@shashwatrajput6714 Жыл бұрын
Bro I can see the pain in your eyes and your voice. Be strong be happy yrr. I would have hugged you right now. You have shared a very good life lesson you are good person. Good things will happen to you.
@Aries32 Жыл бұрын
Mujhe bhi Ek saal ho gya hai yaha and I resonate with every single thing you said here ....
@jayaajmera7315 Жыл бұрын
Well Said Harry...🌸 Don't trust anyone blindly🙂
@daizygill2431 Жыл бұрын
Well actually not everyone same but yeah we have to know whether the person we are with or trusting is genuine and good hearted for us ?
@farhadchowdhury7172 Жыл бұрын
A very good advice for my son who studies at U of A and stays independent.I have shared him. Thanks harry for your helpful videos.Appreciate always.
@samridhimehra Жыл бұрын
Great video .. A lot of a people don’t tackle this issue and you covered it. In India too people are of this nature who exploit and use others but here we have the support of our family. We need to mentally strong and work on ourselves if we move abroad 👍
@thesearch7740 Жыл бұрын
Bye sab jagah h aaj ka time me first thing when you meet someone is getting in their skin , who they are , what does they think , what are their intentions and you know what m talking about. Your videos are thoughtful and thought provoking Stay strong and blessed bruh
@neerajlal1844 Жыл бұрын
best video so far brother, people use you as toy and we need to think of those who has put faith on us and have spend their lifetime spendings on our education. Make yourself a symbol of motivation.
@Bhuvviiii Жыл бұрын
I have experienced this back in India so I was already keep controlling my emotions and shifted my dopamine towards growing. Do focus on your goals only.....
@zarafshanaijaz Жыл бұрын
What a positive thought..keep it up
@niteshvashisht5867 Жыл бұрын
Great video, reality. That’s why I don’t use Facebook & Instagram it’s a big lie. Absolutely I fully endorse that.
@patelpavan5653 Жыл бұрын
Even if dont trust your relatives to and the best example anyone can relate by watching "The Illegal" in Amazon Prime.
@nishaahlawat9677 Жыл бұрын
Same things are happening here in India also. We fall for fake people and starting trusting them but it’s always good to learn from your mistakes.
@daizygill2431 Жыл бұрын
And also I have been deceived many times people are just more positive to Tak an advantage of instead of helping them
@1718sandeep Жыл бұрын
Bhai me 4.5 year London and Germany reh ke aya hu or ye sab situation se guzra hu tum ekdum 1000% sahi bol Raha he love you brother....take care brother
@asfiyafathima4562 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Really never ever compare with others. All are special and super stars to their parents. We must not be materialistic. Simplicity is the best policy.
@rajeshkadam4089 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this unique video. Thanks for showing emotional side of you.sending positive vibes. Stay positive and happy.
@sadimkhan2099 Жыл бұрын
I am here in United States, I am here long time, but I agree with you bro. wish you good luck.
@amitchatterjee9825 Жыл бұрын
I faced a lot of troubles by my own cultural people, so how can I expect anything from Canadians.
@sauravgodge2874 Жыл бұрын
Guys, also be very careful while signing the lease or any agreement for your housing. People here have faced lot of scams in housing as well. So, please read all the terms and conditions while signing the leases and yes don’t trust anyone blindly because yaha sab log bas aapka fayda uthane bethe h !
@muskanmulla7912 Жыл бұрын
Omg Harry i just started watching ur videos few days back and you are amazing!!! The facts which u add in ur videos that's great !!! I am coming canada soon I hope we can meet need to learn manythings from you ... All the best Keep going..❤️❤️
@shhrey3128 Жыл бұрын
It's just another phase of life .. stay strong people , you won't learn to deal with them unless you go through them. Every friendship goes through trial and errors then your true friend circle starts to build up
@upneet5908 Жыл бұрын
I would just say you have given wonderful msg... We students are hoping to listen more experiences from your life ... Because you have been experiencing and your experiences will be guidance map for many future students
@christinasandra2115 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much for such real message. Nowadays people don't talk about health and important things on you tube. This video is one of the realistic ones, and I am so glad bhaiya that you talked about it and made us aware of it. Thank you so much. Pls keep on guiding people like this.
@rachitbharti6254 Жыл бұрын
Came to Canada last september, easily relatable and every fucking word is TRUE. Good content bro, keep it up
@kiransharma7848 Жыл бұрын
Heartfelt. ❤...excellent content. I wish you dear Harry a very bright happy future ahead in Canada. Stay strong , focused & never give up....🙌🍀❤🌺🙏
@AmiParikh9 Жыл бұрын
Can’t agree more bro! Crisp and sharp 😢
@punjabiruler Жыл бұрын
Well Said harry I recently came to canada and thanks veere for giving me your experience... Cheers veere and stay bless...
@officialmahammaria61 Жыл бұрын
Yes u r right 👍 online bi log yahi kr rehe h emotionally attached kr k miss use krte h don't trust any person .....
@jagrutijadha4276 Жыл бұрын
1 no video.... ❤️ Ek bat India ho ya London ya uk kuch b ho trust to kidhr b ya kisi pr b krna nhi chahiye... Sb baju log farida hi dekhte h ..
@NamasteChatterjeefamily Жыл бұрын
The big problem is ... khud Indians hi Indians ko pareshaan karte hai Canada mein. They will group themselves based on the Indian states they belong. They will make you feel so alone by creating small small, petty issues which are not worth to notice or create ruckus.
@arkapravochattopadhyay420 Жыл бұрын
Because We have different language and culture.
@paramjeetkaur7245 Жыл бұрын
Very true I like your thoughts ! Good going brother
@sahilfit899 Жыл бұрын
You're doing really good brother and your mentality is also really great. Keep it up.
@crazzydough Жыл бұрын
So true .. even in work place (even 100 best companies to work for ) … u can find the culture diff .. outwardly they ll be showing the 32 teeth but in the end they ll have thr western gang and will talk behind ur back … it’s best that u focus on ur Carrier and not try to be friends in the work place like what we are used to in India
@rajjadhav7669 Жыл бұрын
This is so true bro, especially the part of fake flex you covered.
@phaniraj946 Жыл бұрын
I’m facing and coming across these sort of people everyday even now
@aanchalgoyal3463 Жыл бұрын
I agree to every single word you said bhaiya. I would like to say just one thing in life don’t ever trust anyone in life till the time you know that person in and out which means properly. Also a golden rule in life, Learn to observe the audience in the room before you can trust them completely in sharing about your life. Just move abroad only if you can live an independent life coz you should just trust yourself for a few years till you are ready to trust others.
@daizygill2431 Жыл бұрын
It’s very important before started sheeting anything whatever private or not
@aanchalgoyal3463 Жыл бұрын
@@daizygill2431 Sorry didn’t understand what you wrote. Can you please rephrase it?
@daizygill2431 Жыл бұрын
@@aanchalgoyal3463 hey sorry I didn’t get any notifications can we contact over social media so to talk fluently
@GAUTAMTHUKRXL-SSDD Жыл бұрын
Mere saath bhi aisa hua tha, i met 200 to 300 people whom i made my contacts. Let me make it more clear. For every 10 contacts, 5 never gave a fuck about me, 4 were negative and toxic and just 1 person would really help me if he or she could. From 300 people i met, only 30 were genuine. And that is not worth it. Just because of 2 3 bad roommates, i suffered financially, emotionally and physically and had no other choice except to return back to india. I wasted my 45 lakhs.
@ramakanttawde1593 Жыл бұрын
i like it. First time someone has told the truth of Canada
@roypinaki4u Жыл бұрын
Such things are bound to happen when people are not willing to open up themselves.. they will try to find abd be with people from their own state or region.. thinking they are trustworthy.. which more often is not the case.
@devpb0843 Жыл бұрын
i only want to say one thing and it's that never listen to anybody except ur parents and just follow ur inner intuitions. And be happY with Own company👍
@kritikasharma739 Жыл бұрын
Thats truely an inspiring👌👌 thanxs for sharing this
@amitbyn Жыл бұрын
Honest talk bro 🧡🌈.... We really want this kind of videos ..... Love from India 🔥🧡🫂 .
@Kavyasingh-x3f Жыл бұрын
You are great....i accept you as big brother and always follow your footprints ... love you brother
@johnxina2712 Жыл бұрын
Dil jeet laitai ho paaji. Excellent video and excellent tips as always. Keep it up my man ❤
@Shah_Rukh_Ali Жыл бұрын
Kuch galat ni Bola bhai - you said what everyone here runs away from . Nice 💥
@manpreetmaan2709 Жыл бұрын
wah bhai..... no words for this video.. 🙌....
@Truthfulljudgements Жыл бұрын
Best video for upcoming international students in 2022
@dummydumber133 Жыл бұрын
clean loud and clear.. to the point.. speculation is very sharp
@ubaidkhan-wi2nt Жыл бұрын
Yaaaar Sir G totally Agree me khud bht br use hua,dost calls or mil kr 2 3hrs lga kr masly btaty ha hum khety ha importantace daita ha but wo just khud ka boj nikal kr gaib Ap ki btain vlogs bht achy hoty ha,hum sb ghr wly dikhty hai,love from pakistan
@apnatvharroz4476 Жыл бұрын
Brother I live in UK and I agreed with u 100%.in western countries scam is too high.
@karansharma-jq4vt Жыл бұрын
I am coming to uk can you tell about scams so i can avoid them
@hardikpatel6168 Жыл бұрын
Yes... you are right bro... Kind people ka misuse bahot karte hai log...
@dhaddanav8472 Жыл бұрын
Yes…I completely agree…its been 2 months here in canada and i got hurt from people several times. Really don’t trust anyone here….anyone…!!
@shree384 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot ❤❤ this really helps. Please make another video on Amazon delivery job as you said another video on that is coming.
@gajendranegi4489 Жыл бұрын
It's very important message your are giving . THANKS .
@satinderkaur9247 Жыл бұрын
💯%, yes , ground reality in Human life ,yoy are give good guidance for youngsters 👌👌👌
@freespirit8791 Жыл бұрын
I DO NOT CARE ABOUT OTHERS AT ALL. I DO WHAT I LIKE. I ENJOY LIFE THE WAY I LIKE. I LOVE MY FRIENDS, ACTUALLY I DO NOT HAVE MANY FRIENDS. I LIVE OUTSIDE MY HOME COUNTRY. I LOVE MY CURRENT COUNTRY AND LOVE MY HOME COUNTRY. I DO NOT MISS OLD FRIENDS BUT I DO THINK ABOUT THEM SOMETIMES. LIFE IS BFUL. I SAVE MONEY. I FEEL RICH BCZ MY EXPENSES ARE LESS THAN MY INCOME. I LOVE MYSELF. I RESPECT MY ELDERS. I DO NOT HATE ANYONE BCZ I FORGET EASILY AND FORGIVE THEM. I TAKE THINGS EASILY. I DO NOT TAKE LIFE SERIOUSLY BCZ ONE DAY WE WILL ALL DIE SO WHAT IS THE POINT. LIFE IS SO MUCH FUN. YES I AM LAZY BUT ALWAYS HELP OTHERS.
@deepakchatwani5403 Жыл бұрын
Thanks bro for this priceless information it means a lot 🥺❤️
@manjeetdahiya544 Жыл бұрын
Very good bhai.... Yee sab Canada hi nahi India me bhi bahut hai but one of the best video ever.
@abhaypuri3736 Жыл бұрын
Excellence video Harry ! Very true ! 👍
@shahidalikhan8011 Жыл бұрын
So damn true brother thanks for guiding❤️
@mayankchaudhary7068 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful How nicely explained complicated things.🎉
@madhurindian Жыл бұрын
Ye baat tho sahi hai, galat sangati se door raho.
@charanthiara8142 Жыл бұрын
India me bhi yahi haal hai, ashe dil valo ki koi kadar nai. Log bs apna kaam hi nikalte hai.
@patelincanada7 Жыл бұрын
I saw you bro at the BAPS Temple at Diwali last week, great content as always🔥🙌🏻
@DeepSingh-fl5qf Жыл бұрын
Hello Harry uber drive lyi vehicle kina old Hona chahida aa .
@trex-pubgmobile5390 Жыл бұрын
Very genuine video ❤ love you brother
@harman3288 Жыл бұрын
You are saying this but if a person from your home country and same community ask you for your help in finding job you say firstly send me payment then I’ll help you . Then why that person should trust you so easily and blindly that after getting money you’ll help that person ? Reply pls
@salimmulla8718 Жыл бұрын
App jo bhi bol rahe ho ye 100 % sachi bat hain life main goal nahi to o Banda life main kuch nahi kar sakata Thank for sajetion bhai
@salimmulla8718 Жыл бұрын
Muje aap ka no chahiye kya no milega kyu ki maine bhi canada ka work permit visa laga rakha hain but main jaha se kam karva raha hu o thoda dout full hain
@r.s.pgamersff7882 Жыл бұрын
Bhai you are like minded to me 2023 mein apko canada mein milta hu may mein❤️
@alexgray3301 Жыл бұрын
boht Kam ki baatein bhi batai Apne appreciate from Pakistan bro
@getgoingwithshilpi Жыл бұрын
Thanks very right . People should start telling what actually happens there . And not to blindly trust people there.
@abhinandankanwar1445 Жыл бұрын
Real life actually begins as soon as we leave our parents home. Till then, we are in a safe nest.
@anumori2022 Жыл бұрын
Hi me aapka blog regular dekhti hu me indiya me hu but muje aapki di gai mahiti bahot hi aachhi lagati Puri sachai se aap cenada ke bare me logo ko barahe ho so thenks and aapki laif bhi vaha aachhi ban jai good vish karti hu 🙏
@theshekhars Жыл бұрын
Very goods informative video making..
@ocanadashorts2726 Жыл бұрын
Cold country Cold people… Its been 7 years but still it happens Forget and keep attacking and then again get hurt 😔 Keep forgetting here people are nice till they need you… Even on call they be nice and ask what info they need once they got then they will say i will call u back lol call back never happened
@harhalaatkharab4587 Жыл бұрын
Love you harry broo 💕 hope to see u soon in Canada and tuhade videos mere laye bohut worth watching hunde haii
@diyagoyal9324 Жыл бұрын
Very informative video bro👍🏻 I really love your guidance Thanks 🥰 Keep guiding us like this❤
@goldminetelefilm524 Жыл бұрын
Sahi h bhai esa hi hota h be careful everyone
@dilpreetkaur7501 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Harry such a informative video
@singh66raj Жыл бұрын
Guys stay away from relatives 🤙🏻
@HarpreetSingh-tj4lx Жыл бұрын
Veer sahi bolya sb kuch jo vi tusi bolya eve lgda jive eh sb mere experience according bolya
@shivamjamdagni2719 Жыл бұрын
What is RT PCR test Where to apply for this Is it necessary (I am fully Vaccinated) When to apply for RT PCR? A covid certificate of the three doses is enough or I need to go for a RTPCR test pls reply
@e.n.dnatsudragneel3354 Жыл бұрын
Just when i thought i can be cured 🙄 ... Mere pas to yha bhi koi nhi h bhai kuch share krne ko .. akela he rhta hu sara din ab to adat hogyi h social media use krke sara din timepass krleta hu bs ...🙄iska mtlb jb m canada jouga to koi frq he ni pdega ...
@akhilesh9418 Жыл бұрын
Aapki video achhi ok lagi mujhe baki logo ka pata Nahi ye Aapne Jo bate boli hai wo sirf Canada me hi Nahi duniya har kone lagu Hoti Hai,hamesha simple life high thinking me rahna chahiye
@GagandeepSingh-co7di Жыл бұрын
Thanks Brother I have seen this in India so i am getting much prepare after watching your video.
@user-lt2hb2jp1g Жыл бұрын
I m coming in dec.plz anyone from Brampton or Mississauga help me out of finding accommodation ☹️
@Kiran-zohaib18 Жыл бұрын
You are right but Canada min he nhe ab asha har jaga huta ha 😉
@ajmaltaar4717 Жыл бұрын
Be strong in every situation ❤️
@aboutcanadawithkv6942 Жыл бұрын
Veera you taught right, very nice video. I know as I am in Canada from 1 year. Advise like big brother ❤
@harmansandhux Жыл бұрын
I'm very strong bro
@ishukant5414 Жыл бұрын
some people take money and never return
@kgandhi1 Жыл бұрын
Lots of strength to you ✨️
@nothuman1640 Жыл бұрын
Thank you brother for such precious info.... ❤️
@SURENDERKUMAR-ei3ir Жыл бұрын
Bhut ache bhaishab🙏🙏
@ZaraJavaid Жыл бұрын
You are too good bro ..... Well said!!! Stick to your roots.....
@Batman98cool Жыл бұрын
I was contacted by lot of agencies to move to canada ???? Even when I applied for Australia and Netherlands...they r saying they hav lot of openings in canada ????? Is it good to sign bond and come to canada