she just had a lot of training

His girl probably knows about it and only let him do it for the money

@@rachaelramos If that was true, he wouldn't have been lying to her on the phone before the date.

Hopefully, someone will find his Facebook profile and let his wife know what he's really doing.

Of not for

They need the content

This is EXACTLY what I was going to say. They knew, but entertainment comes before kindness. This poor lady took time out of her busy life to come here, and this is what they give her, smh.

I agree! This show was disgusting! No gotcha moment should ever have happened! Nix it at the start!

They need the drama for views

Maybe they didn't know how to approach it and since the call was right before the date, they were seeing maybe he would be honest that he's not monogamous but since he was closed off and deceitful the entire date then the crew decided to intervene for the womans sake. You can't judge the crew for how they approached it. I'm glad they outed this dirtbag

Garbage convo about moving furniture and being lonely

@@escape_from_consent_city and sloppy drunk sounding.

In what way? Her description for a loving partner was a moving man, and someone who does chores. And she sounded drunk.

A lovely 50 year old looking woman yes.

This is why I'm suspicious when a guy lists that as something he looks for in a woman. Either it means he's been cheated on and has trust issues, or he's a cheater himself.

🤣🤣 every guys says that. When there the game player 🤣🤣

“I’m looking for a woman who doesn’t play games” - like I do. There can only be one player in this union.

He’s a narcissist

He doesn’t want competition 😂

She should have locked a man down in her prime now she’s nearly 40 she’s got no chance of finding a top tier man.

@@jameshumphries5059 I disagree with that, there maybe not many good men out there, but it's not a complete lost cause for middle aged women.

@@sarahcellblockh1562 - You’re right it’s not a lost cause but we can’t deny the fact that men do like younger women. You as a women yourself will know how much attention you get from men age 18-24. And how much they changes when you’re nearly 40. The issue for older women is that they won’t lower their standards. You might get the 6’1, in shape, rich guy when you’re 19 but you at age 40. I think this is where feminism has lied to women because your best bet as a women is to find the best man you can in your prime and get a ring out of him, have children and focus on your career later once you have him locked down.

@@jameshumphries5059 you sound hurt lol

@@sssp7801 - It’s what I do for a living I’m trying to educate. It’s funny how whenever I tell the truth to women I get “who hurt you” haha “what’s your relationship with your mother like” I’m a married man with 3 children who has a great relationship with his mother. I’m telling women the truth because nobody tells you guys the truth.

No…he said “I do imitations”…..not impressions,,,,which shows his level of ignorance. But he does imitate a man looking for a date, but the reality is he is looking for a quick hookup. Creep!

His Arnold impression was horrible.

😂😂😂

This is top comment!!

Very true..

Amen to that ...!!!

that's why it's a good idea to see the guy's home as soon as possible or when things come to that

This is so true and extremely sad all we can do is be like the producer on this and call it out when we see it as much as we can give guys like this less of a chance they really don’t deserve the ‘privacy’

Well Said ❤

Yass is a town 40 miles from me.

@@pauljordan4452💀

It sounded like the producer was offended. Good.

They also let the date happen anyway without telling the lady only to call him out at the end to create/allow the drama to happen...

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 my stomach! 😅😆

While feeding the girl on the phone absolute garbage!

Or at least wants to be.

He's gonna tell her that it was an "acting" gig😂

He wasn’t cheating he’s a single man going on dates

@@jeanp1323 I truly think it was acting gig for both of them

​@@jeanp1323 more like gaslight her that it was acting gig.

i liked her too. but comon' can't judge a book by its cover in 20 minutes, especially ones so curated

well said. that's why a lot of women monkey branch. but then find out it's really a jungle out there

@@kabysummit5801 I've never heard the term "monkey branching"! Does it mean swinging from one person to the next but keeping a hold of the last person, just in case? I'm 56, haha!

@@Skeezer66 it's a term used in some of these yt relationships gurus talking about hypergamy, mainly in the female realm. Your definition is pretty much spot on. Women who will stay with a man through thick and thin are out there, just the current situation seems more dire.

@@kabysummit5801 Thanks!

I would bet that the more beautiful and successful a person is, the more likely they will cheat. They have more options and temptations to do so.

Well, that's a point, but the nice shy introvert guys will be looked over... my husband is like that and couldn't find anybody although he's good looking but without confidence and charming most guys are lost. And on the other hand there's these players 😂

Women go for them even when it´s obvious. They rather have experienced player than shy good guy.

@@PROVOCATEURSK I prefer shy good guys personally

@@PROVOCATEURSK SOME women Interesting that he tells her he is a crap person. She ignores that. They say people do admit who they are, on first meeting - but people think they are joking or don't listen. It is so hard to believe this attractive woman is battling. She needs to do some volunteer work at animal rescues, at wildlife rescues, at fundraisers for disabled people, and not tell people she is successful. Get to know the men there slowly, know they have the kindest hearts, and not let on about her success. Dress down a bit, too. How great to have someone think you are gorgeous, when you are looking your mankiest...

@@PROVOCATEURSK This lady was able to pick up on him being a problem almost right away. I personally would take the shy good guy any day,. Most women who go for guys like him are young and inexperienced at least when they first met them.

@@PROVOCATEURSK it sounds like you have a lot of cognitive distortions, biases, that inform your interpretations of others (women notably)....and likely yourself. Saying things as absolutes, is myopic and cognitively simple. It is a desperate grasp at certainty, to try to make sense of the world...the world is uncertain and unpredictable. Your "rules" of how you believe it to work, is so far off. You cannot categorize one whole half of the population, into extreme generalizations. It's wholly inaccurate. Most people pick partners based on their conditioning from childhood. There are 4 main attachment styles. Those are the biggest driver of who we pick and why. Also, many "good" guys, that are self-proclaimed...are far from. They are playing a persona, of a "nice" guy, with the manipulative intent, of getting what they want. A real good guy, doesn't have limiting beliefs like you. They are self aware, open, cognitively flexible, introspective. Develop some introspection and metacognition....you need to self evaluate, and question your thoughts a lot more.

I think he finds himself appealing.

I said same! He told her he was a rotter - and it is taken light heartedly, or seen as really modestly humorous, and people don't want to believe what they are being told.

The most horrible people often say that they're nice. I've seen that way more often than the bad person admitting they're bad. Most want to hide their shadow, not expose it.

@@other7128 if someone has to say they’re nice, they’re deff the opposite. Nice people don’t bother to announce things like this. They feel no need to.

@@weepinginanger exactly

@@weepinginanger my thought exactly.. and the same goes for "I'm a gentleman".

Or she might be just super suspicious about anyone she dates because 2 of the guys she dated were married 😬

I think it's someone he lives with but isn't married to because on the phone he said to them he'll 'be home early' and then he kept emphasizing that he's 'not married' like he thinks he isn't doing anything wrong because he's not actually married yet. So twisted.

That’s an amazing theory

wow , do you write short stories..?.good imagination...!

It's good they did air it. Hopefully, the woman he called was fortunate enough to see it.

Nah. An asst. producer overheard it literally seconds before the date started. By the time a decision would have been made to stop the date they would have had to make a scene in the middle of the restaurant and likely embarrass her. They handled it the right way. She already has a strong suspicion about him.

She saw that he was a playboy right away. I also was just: oh,oh,he is a player....and to young...

U think so? Maybe. I thought she did, but was guarded as hell, luckily, due to him and dudes like him. I think had he turned out to not be a flop she would have been into him. Poor girl

But how did they record him?

@@NecromancerTO It's all staged. They put the microphones on him first. Then he went on to talk on the phone pretending he didn't know he had the microphones on him? :))

absolutely, very deceiving and conniving in Alpha Narcissist type of way😮

It is horrible trust me, addiction is a sad thing to live with in your shadow.

@@capnfuzzybutt 🤗

she sounded very drunk.

They create unnecessary drama. They set up this situation for entertainment rather than helping people find love. For them, entertainment comes first. I noticed that when comparing the US and UK version of Kitchen Nightmares too.

It’s because it’s staged like everything else is here.

They're less classy... UK version is definitely better

Well you like genuine interactions whereas we like Jerry Springer for better or worse. That's the difference.

UK version genuinely tries to match people, the US version deliberately mismatches them (that’s putting the finger on it).

No, he doesn’t deserve Jennifer and Jennifer deserves better (I hope that’s what you were trying to say)

@@caitlingill Hi. Thanks for the evaluation. I meant: "Jennifer doesn't deserve to be treated that way. Sorry."

you can't background check a live-in girlfriend, only a legal spouse

She didn't brush it off. She was quietly tallying up the red flags with this chump.

She didn't though. In the bathroom you can hear she's dubious of him.

or his husband

@@deleater nice plot twist.

Word.

Yeah, Americans use it this way all the time!really frustrates me.

Well no second date so both uses work.

@@scottuto fair point, on this occasion

I concur.

He could of lie though

@@Maz-zb9uf well I think it’s pretty clear he did lie to get on show. And maybe the producers did some due diligence and he hid it well. But nowadays can find out quite a bit online via Google/social media and find evidence

He’s clearly not the sharpest tool

I agree. I’m pretty sure I’ve seen it on their channel before.

@@Em-fz5uh I've definitely seen this before but thought it was from the UK one...Unless it happened on the UK one too, but I remember that phone conversation being eerily similar.