Hey everyone, our relationship therapist is here!

Dating is scary because no one wants there heartbroken :[ 😭

Dating for me personally has been extremely difficult because I have autism and I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 33 and because of not knowing for sure what was going on with me mentally before the diagnosis I took my self off the market for a very long time because I was not in a place mentally to involve another person and I learned that the hard way but it was for the better now that I have my diagnosis it’s I can move forward and I am at a place mentally where I want to start putting myself out there and I’ve said this before but I am grateful for this man’s videos not only do they make me smile but they assure me there are some amazing people out there 😊

Dude it sucks so bad. And bro you make me so much more confident about myself ❤ and you give such perfect advice and stuff THANK YOU.❤

These are good tips! I unfortunately have social anxiety, so it’s a struggle talking to random people, but I do live to compliment people :) I’ll definitely keep this in mind for dating and connecting in general, thank you! 🥰

Dating truly is scary, thinking that no one is rlly there for you. And heartbreak is awful. This man is so relatable and has been emotionally healing after my breakup.

Hey Prettyxboi, I can totally relate with you. I am an introvert, I think my dancing is so bad and hilarious, and I don't have many friends. It's definitely scary to talk to other people. Mostly guys for me I don't know what to say them. For the fact that I think they might be like "she's weird, what is she trying to do, or look at her such a fool." It's definitely complicated to talk to others because you never know if they can take what you do or say the wrong way. Like for example if I went up to a guy and said that he has a good vibe or that his hair looks good. I don't want him to be like "oh that girl likes me but I could never like her" or for him to be like "does she think she can flatter me or get something out of me with those sweet, cheesy complimenting words." It's definitely tough and confusing sometimes as to what a guy might be thinking when he see's you passing by. Or when you say hi and simply with him seeing what you're wearing. It kinda sucks sometimes to not be able to realize something or get the point of the other.

YES! THANK YOU! All of my girl friends think I’m crazy! ’ve never had a boyfriend and I haven’t dated much….but I’ve been on a few dates in my life. I’ve said yes to everyone even if I didn’t know if it was going anywhere! I went for fun and to see if they are compatible. It’s always hard for me cause I’m a big girl. But I’ve been working on my confidence and just say to myself “Just be yourself.”

The number one thing I started doing is break the pedestal my mind puts them on and get them on my level in order to get to know their personality.

That actually was helpful to me, as someone who never dated in my entire life, I found dating pretty scary cuz in this generation most dudes just want to get naughty, and I hate when they pushing it if I don’t like them. I haven’t got that much opportunity to meet people(if you got girl friends who has black parents you’ll understand why 😂😂) so I mostly get to talk to some guy online, but they all want only one thing….

how is he single. like my god. how tf is anyone gonna turn him down?

Yes it's very hard to date. You definitely need to learn to love yourself first and be confident it goes a long way❤

Thank you Adrian. I have those same feelings.

Growth is uncommon but worth it. ❤️

its scary because theres too many walking red flags

Thank you for your helpful insight and great advice!!

I love this. Its like this is the first time I've watched something helpful from you.

This really changed my mindset on dates thanks a lot I know it'll be helpful

Its scary to date😔

Dating is scary! Thank you for this video. I just don't know how many more times I can take my heart breaking. 💔

You have right. To be honest we shouldn't be obsessive about dating and just be yourself

I would like to see a video about putting people on a pedestal. I can chat it up with an Uber driver but put a cute guy in front of me and I’m a deer in headlights 😳

Aw Thank you for thinking advice ☺️

not the led sign in the background💀

It's true I still get anxious or excited to see my boyfriend after 6 years and we don't see each other much and on Friday we saw each other and it was awkward a first but we hugged each other and cuddle for an hour i miss him all ready 😭😭

It's very hard to believe a person with all your emotions

I love this sm ❤❤

Ok why is he so right tho 😂

Trying to date in highschool is scary

It's scary for me bc of high school 😂❤

Iv never been on a date... Iv always been single and im 21. I have anxiety.

The socially awkward people taking your advice and creeping the shit out of people 😂😂😂❤❤

Heyyy! Thank you so much ❤

Its scary because its hard to find someone good

agreed 100%❤

What about introverted girl who also have social anxiety and childhood trauma... dating or being with some will always be scary for us that's why we quite dating and trusting love...

please make a video on boundaries

Aw, I’d love to dance bachata with you!

I am your fan Mr. love doctor❤😂

Not the 69 likes bef I liked the video 😭

Yeah man I had a boyfriend he didn’t talk to me for 2-3 months of no we’re not dating so I broke up with him and he had liked me for about a year and then ghosted me

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I think it’s also scary because you don’t know how it’s gonna end lol

It is scary 😟 😢

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Hey

I was the firstttttt (Comment and like) Also I love your videos

Idk lol

Prettyxboi

yoooo how old r youuu

Umm hey, well im that girl who asked u out for valentine's, ik u no therapist but I FEEL LIKE DYING can you please just fucking help me i have no one and ure the only person i watch on utube

I will say that I "dated" in high school, I think it lasted about 9 months and the dude cheated on me with a childhood friend. Truth be told I'm very happy that happened cause I realized I didn't like either of them lol. I'm currently a junior in college and haven't dated since. I used to not compliment people often since I was scared of coming across as weird for picking up on whatever xyz trait someone has, but doing it has led to so many new friends in college 🤍. That advice was so useful! You're a real one my man!

PLS HOW ARE YOUR EYES RED?

It's scary because you don't know how it would end

First one ha

First one❤

Btw you like my comment on your other video and I just wanted to thank you so so so much for doing that because it’s probably like nothing to you but means the world to me cause of these Your cute Hot Sexy Popular Cool Loveable Perfect Funny Smart Handsome Therapist Confidence booster Husband material Girlfriend material Everything Charming And just generally THE BEST so thanks a lot ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Good advice! This is totally me I need to go out and put myself out there more often 🫤