Daughter Forced to Help out with Dogs She HATES! | Full Episode

Daughter Forced to Help out with Dogs She HATES! | Full Episode | It's Me or The Dog

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8 ай бұрын

Three chaotic dogs are causing a rift between their owners, requiring Victoria to show how to take back control and instill some obedience.#itsmeorthedog
US Season 3 Episode 5
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@prism1374 8 ай бұрын

So the mom made the decision to have three dogs for herself but expected her teenage daughter to help without complaint?

@hunter_deamonne 8 ай бұрын

smartest person in this comment section, so many people are blaming the daughter when it's absolutely the mother's fault!

@rmason5477 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely, that mum is

@Snookscat 8 ай бұрын

Teenagers can help, they’re not three year olds, lol.

@nicoleandersen5714 8 ай бұрын

I agree the mom got the dogs and is expecting the kid to clean up after them. Sounds like the kid didn't want them.

@fabulousporcupine3828 8 ай бұрын

@@Snookscat well it’s not her dogs, why should she be the one to pick up after them?

@christinagrieser5664 8 ай бұрын

Sorry, but I am with the daughter on this. She didn’t want them, why should she take care of them

@daniellamcgee4251 8 ай бұрын

Because they are family dogs, living in the family home. The more responsibility the daughter takes with the dogs, the stronger her bond with them will be, and the happier she will be living with them, and caring for them. It's a positive cycle.

@katphish30 8 ай бұрын

@@daniellamcgee4251That's not an explanation of why she should be solely responsible for their care.

@naomif9964 8 ай бұрын

@@daniellamcgee4251this mom didnt fulfill her responsibility of training the dogs and now the daughter has to take the responsibility to clean all the poop? nah. She can help feed and walk the dogs, not deal with their bad behavior. Training is the owners responsibility

@mopichen3549 8 ай бұрын

@@daniellamcgee4251true, but the dogs are badly trained and rarely walked, and still poop and pee all over the house. The question shouldn't be of who should clean it, but why they are still doing it. And while the daughter should help out, yes, it's the responsibility of the adults in the house to make sure that any pets aren't a danger to their children. Which these pets are, as they are constantly creating a biohazard zone around her.

@SobrietyandSolace 8 ай бұрын

@@daniellamcgee4251This is just as toxic as having too many kids and then expecting your children to parent eachother

@kerfluffle3781 8 ай бұрын

Its odd that so many people in the comments are calling these "family dogs" and using that as justification for the daughter to be stuck with 100% of the poop duty. A family dog is a dog that the whole family wants and enjoys, not just a dog that happens to live with your family. If the daughter didn't want the dogs, why should she be stuck with the worst part of having them and punished for her mother's willingness to leave filth to her.

@j800r_aswell 8 ай бұрын

The video title is clickbait and you fell for it. Just watch the content. She doesn't hate the dogs. If you live in the family home then you need to chip in, or pay rent.

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

Fortunately it's mostly just one person saying that. Most are with the daughter.

@CherryJuli 7 ай бұрын

@@j800r_aswellyou want a 16 year old to pay rent? I really hope you don’t have kids.

@CherryJuli 7 ай бұрын

@@abelievingchristiandamn your parents really didn’t love you, huh?

@dietotaku 7 ай бұрын

@@j800r_aswell she may not _hate_ the dogs but it still wasn't her decision to bring them into the home so it shouldn't be her responsibility to potty train them, walk them, or clean up after them. if YOU want a dog, YOU are 100% responsible for that dog, full stop.

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

Reading some of the other comments, I see I'm not alone in thinking the daughter shouldn't be the one with the job of cleaning up after these unhousebroken dogs. It was the mother who wanted them, feeling like having one child wasn't enough, and she was responsible for housetraining and cleaning up after them. They weren't the daughter's dogs, they were the mother's. I thought Victoria was going to call her on that, but didn't. To give her credit, the mother did seem like she was willing to put in the work with these dogs, and that's good. She hadn't trained the dogs at all, and I'm glad she's decided to.

@helentaylor7132 8 ай бұрын

All they needed was to be shown how.

@anonymoose116 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely. It's the mothers job to potty train the dogs.

@Dingobabee 8 ай бұрын

It's so frustrating to see Victoria ignore the fact that the daughter was picking up, just not the stuff she knew her mother just didn't pick up and left overnight

@helentaylor7132 8 ай бұрын

Apparently, your life has been so smooth that you've never gotten to the completely overwhelmed state of being. It's not pleasant. As they both learned a solution, they both grew as people. I admire both of them for embracing and enjoying the changes. A lot of bitchy, Holier Than Thou, people on here.

@Dingobabee 8 ай бұрын

@@helentaylor7132 I have been completely overwhelmed to the point that inaction is the only option I don't blame other people for not picking up after me in that state. The daughter is 16 and shouldn't have to be more responsible than her mother. She has every right to be frustrated and overwhelmed herself. I'm not being holier than thou, and I admire the endpoint, but that doesn't mean that ignoring the daughter's needs and statements isn't frustrating as hell.

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

@@Dingobabee I agree.

@gillianbrookwell1678 7 ай бұрын

@@helentaylor7132 It isn't up to you to judge what anybody else has been through in their lives; you don't know them.

@imalwaysright 6 ай бұрын

She wasn’t ignoring. She was looking at the bigger picture, and in the end, the approach she took had tremendous results for everyone

@waterbenderpoodles 8 ай бұрын

I feel bad for the daughter. Poop left out in plain sight overnight until the daughter returns so she can clean it up? The mother is told to get routine massages and chocolate while the kid has to take care of things at home? I hope the daughter is getting some break time too. :(

@helentaylor7132 8 ай бұрын

Are you jealous of mom? Daughter was VERY HAPPY to do her part once they had hope and worked it out!!! Jeezy Peezy

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

@@helentaylor7132 What a weird comment. Chill dude.

@waterbenderpoodles 8 ай бұрын

Agreed, @@Catbooks . Instead of discussing the points made, they question personal motives and deflect from the main point with logical fallacies. I fully agree that people really do need to chill.

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

@@waterbenderpoodles Agree, and I agree with your original comment too.

@anonymoose116 5 ай бұрын

@helentaylor7132 lol am I jealous of this absolute mess of a woman? 😂😂😂 not in the least. My dogs are trained.

@humanname99 8 ай бұрын

am I the only one really off-put by how much victoria loved doreen? I mean, diana did clean the poop even if she complained. doreen left it for her even though they're not diana's dogs. and then forcing her to scoop poop but giving her mother a spa day?? idk

@amycontreras410 8 ай бұрын

Ohh absolutely, just because the kid wanted dogs doesnt mean the parent is obligated to get them! She's just as much at fault if not moreso for the dogs being raised improperly gah (Coming back to add, the american episodes are more dramatized than the UK episodes so it could be something like that, catering to a narrative)

@Gemini-horrorchannel 8 ай бұрын

She does it because everybody in the family needs to pick up the slack of the dogs and each episode or else the training does not work. If not, everybody is on board and does the same exact training

@amycontreras410 8 ай бұрын

@@Gemini-horrorchannel she can hold both family members accountable, they both need some guidance on how to care for their pets. The mother is working a lot but only because she chose to get those dogs and she didnt teach her daughter to be responsible

@daniellamcgee4251 8 ай бұрын

I guess you aren't a single parent, so it's difficult to understand. And yes, dogs are family pets, and share a home with people, so they all have to work together with responsibility. Being responsible for health and well-being of another being can strengthen bonds. As long as there is good stuff in the relationship, too!

@humanname99 8 ай бұрын

@@Gemini-horrorchannel But doreen admitted that she sometimes leaves poop on the floor overnight so she can wait to tell diana to clean it. If I were victoria, they would both have been cleaning the horse poop. Leaving it overnight for your kid is wild and unacceptable

@catspaw3092 7 ай бұрын

I know when Diana turns 18 & moves out she'll be glad that she doesn't have to deal with her mom's dogs.

@ritabecker5625 6 ай бұрын

and I wonder if mom will be able to pick up the dog´s poop or if she finanly gives them away,what she should do at once, her daughter ist more important

@catspaw3092 6 ай бұрын

@@ritabecker5625 Diana will be like "Oh now I matter to you mom now that your other kids are gone." Diana wouldn't have cared if they had a cat instead.

@TheStormNight 5 ай бұрын

This is the one time teenagers should talk back and stand up for themselves. It's absolutely cruel gas lighting the teenager and manipulate her to do things she clearly never wanted to do, solely because of her mom's decision.

@debbiej.2168 8 ай бұрын

Interesting that Chubby runs to the daughter when he's afraid. Also, it seems a little cruel for Victoria to pretend that they're going out for a day at the zoo, and then makes the daughter clean up horse excrement. It seems like it's more important to teach the dogs how to behave well outside, so they can go out to relieve themselves more often. Then they won't have to clean up so much dog waste in their home. That's the biggest problem. Victoria doesn't usually seem so out of touch.

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

I noticed he ran to the daughter too. Didn't like it that the daughter was forced to clean up poop as a "surprise," while the mother got a spa treatment and massage as her surprise. The mother wanted the dogs but expected her daughter to clean up after them, and then Victoria reinforced it. My sympathies are with the daughter. Agree, Victoria isn't usually this off in reading situations, but she was way off here.

@valstewart6661 7 ай бұрын

@Catbooks totally agree! The mom made the decision of getting the dogs. She should take on the brunt of the work. Her daughter hasn't had a vacation either and she's been forced into this situation. She didn't choose it. I think the dogs behave better for the daughter and she may find she enjoys the dogs now that they are under control. And did it never occurred to the mom to get a gate? Duh!! 😂

@sakume7969 5 ай бұрын

Honestly if they did that to me I would have flat out refused. "Nope. Keep filming all you want, it's not gonna happen. Later." Walk off.

@leorobin832 5 ай бұрын

Will later on they mentioned the walking routine that helps them go outside more so I feel like they dealt with how to get the dogs to poop outside more often off camera

@melt2947 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, didn’t agree with Victoria much in this episode. The mother is even more entitled now, good one Victoria! The daughter should just refuse. Not her dogs, not her problem. She’s 16, let her have a child’s life. This makes me so angry.

@PitbullJackie81 8 ай бұрын

Ridiculous! Why have 3 dogs if she can't look after them properly?! And then to expect the daughter to clean up the mess which only happens because the mother has absolutely no clue how to housetrain a dog?! Shame on you Victoria for making the daughter clean up her mums failures

@auranoxhighpriestess5475 8 ай бұрын

The whole situation starts out with Doreen explaining that she wanted the dogs because she only had one child. We don't hear anything from her daughter about wanting the dogs or even wanting to be part of the training and pet care process. These are clearly *Doreen's* dogs. I don't know why the daughter got dragged into the process and literally the worst part of the pet care process with the cleaning up dog poo. She was excited in the end when she was taught to properly train the dogs, sure, but that just seemed really pushy to assume she wanted in on the process to begin with when she clearly didn't want to be involved until she was forced. Just my two cents.

@morganablackwater2017 6 ай бұрын

She will soon have none child and only 3 dogs... If she would be my mother she would be off the family tree...

@melt2947 5 ай бұрын

Your two cents are correct. Shame Victoria can’t see this.

@happycook6737 8 ай бұрын

Doreen needs to clean up after her own dogs!

@marlepluto 8 ай бұрын

Usually I agree wholeheartedly with Victoria, but I really don't agree that the daughter should have to pitch in so much with the dogs. It sounds to me like mom got the dogs of her own accord. I keep a lot of pets and would never insist on my daughter helping with their care. That just seems really unfair.

@helentaylor7132 8 ай бұрын

Good Luck.

@AnimalChannel-np1uh 8 ай бұрын

I agree. I was really surprised at this. I never expect my family to help out with my pets even when I am sick because they are my responsibility and no one else in my family asked for them or wanted them so why should they be expected to help look after them.

@gillianbrookwell1678 7 ай бұрын

Victoria being a dog lover expects everybody else to love dogs, but what she needs to understand is that not everybody does and I don't blame the daughter; I wouldn't pick up after somebody's dogs either.

@imalwaysright 6 ай бұрын

So you have “lots of pets” and do _all_ their care, and work full, and do all the household and family care as well? Everything on your own? It’s not different when a spouse gets a dog without telling the other or the other wanting it - Victoria insists that everyone is involved, especially for training, otherwise it won’t work

@imalwaysright 6 ай бұрын

@@AnimalChannel-np1uhare others allowed to enjoy the pets lol

@e.blue37 8 ай бұрын

You can love and spoil your dog without letting them act out of control. I'm with the daughter, her mom didn't get one dog, she got three and now they're the daughters responsibility? Not more than the moms.

@kuceracm 8 ай бұрын

The kid didn't ask for these dogs. I agree so much with Victoria's tactics when it comes to dog training but she missed the mark with the humans here. The dogs are neurotic because Doreen treats her dogs like human babies because she sees them as a consolation prize for not being able to have more children, and Diana never wanted these dogs and it's unfair to force her to take care of dogs she never asked for, especially when it comes to cleaning up their waste. I'd move out at 18 and never look back if I were this girl.

@rogue7723 8 ай бұрын

Yeah this is gonna lead to _so much_ resentment, I can tell.

@lbdlars4484 7 ай бұрын

Quite frankly this woman doesnt deseve the child she has. She cares more about the dogs than her. Why would it be. Good thing for her to have more kids? She is a pitiful mother.

@gillianbrookwell1678 7 ай бұрын

Victoria is not always correct with her assumptions; If I had to put up with three unruly dogs that I didn't ask for, I would move out.

@imalwaysright 6 ай бұрын

Y’all are so ridiculous it’s comical. Single mother, never had a vacation in over a decade, working, providing for her daughter, rescued a traumatised dog, clearly overwhelmed and in over her head. Victoria’s concern is the welfare of the dogs, and things weren’t going to get better if they both weren’t onboard and sharing the load.

@lbdlars4484 6 ай бұрын

@@imalwaysright With all that stuff on her plate it doesnt become honorable to then add a dog to the equation and start neglecting your daughter. She got the dog for selfish reasons and she is keeping it for selfish reasons. Her having it isnt good for anyone in the situation, i cluding the dog, although honestly i font give half a damn what happens to the dog.

@stolmich 8 ай бұрын

Always a bad idea, forcing kids to do stuff, they hate. This can lead to resentment, when their parents are at old age.

@m6666 8 ай бұрын

Seriously? Since when did a couple of chores ever hurt a kid! Parents are doing so much for their kids these days that they don't want to leave home (and who can blame them) they don't want to work, let alone get out of bed, and then they want the parents to pay for everything. It's the parents' duty to teach their kids some life lessons so they will leave home and get a job. They will get over their resentment well before you get that old.

@magicrose2189 8 ай бұрын

@@m6666the girl didn't even WANT the dogs. Just because her mother makes mistakes doesn't mean it's the daughter's responsibility to clean it up!

@BayMaxAcademy 8 ай бұрын

@m6666 I agree with Chores however she didn't want the dogs. They aren't her dogs so it shouldn't be her job. If she wanted them or agreed and then were family dogs that would be different

@morganablackwater2017 6 ай бұрын

@@m6666 doing house work and picking my mothers dog sh*t is two different things. It wouldn't fly with me, that mum needs reality check

@ericafecteau4145 7 ай бұрын

What a horrible mother. Honestly this is all so disturbing. These are the mothers dogs, that makes them her responsibility. I have 3 dogs & 3 kids. I take care of all 6 of them, my kids play with the dogs, cuddle with them and might help with cleaning up poo on occasion - but they get paid to help with such a nasty chore and are never forced to do it. My kids didn’t decide to bring living creatures into my house, I did, so they are my responsibility. This poor kid.

@DebbieWright-oz3yc 5 ай бұрын

I agree!!!!😊🎉

@nicoleandersen5714 8 ай бұрын

So my question to those people that are bashing the kid for not helping with the dogs the KID didn't want the dogs in first place. So if the mother has another kid is it her daughters responsibility to take care of their siblings? Cuz thats not a kids responsibility thats the mothers. Because you can reverse that and say when the daughter comes a mother i would now expect the grandmother to take care of the grandkids because of what she did with the dogs.

@Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984 8 ай бұрын

Exactly.

@margodphd 6 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@melt2947 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, this mother has issues that are beyond Victoria, yet Victoria picked up on none of them and then proceeded to REWARD the mother’s entitled and deranged beliefs by giving her a SPA DAY 🤡

@TRXMOM 8 ай бұрын

😮 DONT LIKE - BAD! why is the daughter being 99.9% responsable of the poop? When the mom wanted the dogs, and complains about “poop and pee and you didn’t pickup” ?! How? And why when the daughter/son brings the dog home they need to be responsible? 😂 Victoria ✌🏻 sorry but i think you didn’t see the full picture! 🤷🏻‍♀️

@gillianbrookwell1678 8 ай бұрын

Why should Diana clean up after her mother's dogs who she doesn't like? I wouldn't. Look after them yourself lady, you brought them in and didn't house train them.

@helentaylor7132 8 ай бұрын

Sigh, you miss the show?

@shellihart6588 8 ай бұрын

This lady is lucky she doesnt have a lawsuit against her for the amount of people that one dog has bitten.

@Jayyy048 5 ай бұрын

Victoria this is the first time I wholeheartedly disagree with you. Shame on you. No one family member is in charge of cleaning up messes.

@Skyevscat 5 ай бұрын

It’s always so frustrating to see parents decide to have more kids or more pets and then shove all the responsibilities onto their kids.

@xXSakuraTearsXx 5 ай бұрын

“So, these would be her siblings. They’re my children; there really isn’t even a difference.” I think instead of a _spa_ visit & a _zoo_ visit Victoria should’ve surprised them with some family _therapy_ visits. (&, no, none that include Diana’s ‘siblings.’)

@valstewart6661 7 ай бұрын

It appeared to me that Chubby went to stand by the daughter when he got scared. I think he senses she isn't as nervous as the mom and feels safer with her?? He did it twice... my imagination?

@sugakookie6303 6 ай бұрын

Not your imagination, the mom is a nervous person and the dogs sense it…

@PettyPatty.TM. 7 ай бұрын

Im the mom. I wanted all the animals in this house. Each has their own kid and thats fine, but im the one that cleans up after them. Im the one who feeds them. Im the one that brushes them. Im the one that takes care of nails. Everything. If I need help because I'm sick or something, I ask and the kids will jump in to help without hesitation. I couldnt imagine FORCING one of them to do anything just because im the mom 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

@earlinemcgahen3931 7 ай бұрын

In our family if one of us got an animal its that persons responsibility to take care of that animal. If someone occasionally helps thats fine but you buy it you take care of it. The mom is the one who should be cleaning not leaving it for the daughter to do

@beanieNX420 6 ай бұрын

The mother saying "they're like my children, there's really no difference." is actually insane. There is a huge difference between your human daughter and dogs you choose to bring into the home. There are some other issues in this home that this show is not able to address.

@Jayyy048 5 ай бұрын

What’s even crazier is if she really saw them that way then she REALLY shouldn’t expect her human daughter to care for “her siblings.” Imagine a mother yelling at her first grader to hurry up and change their newborn sibling’s diaper. Or better yet, making a newborn wait for a diaper change until that first grader is home from school.

@melt2947 5 ай бұрын

It’s a disgraceful thing to say. Shame on her 😞

@melt2947 5 ай бұрын

@@Jayyy048GOOD POINT

@alyssagggghik 5 ай бұрын

I thought this too. It’s one thing to say your dogs are like your babies but another have a child, be open about the fact that she wasn’t enough for you, so you made her a caretaker for your preferred dog children. Of course Diana is resentful I’m surprised she doesn’t hate the dogs more.

@AnimeWolf56 8 ай бұрын

i like to think the camera crew had to climb around the deck too haha

@everlienvanark7184 8 ай бұрын

Victoria is saying to the doughter why can't you help your POOR mother? That POOR mother wanted those 3 dogs so help yourself, your doughter did not ask for those 3 dogs but Victoria keeps commanding the doughter to do things for that "poor" mum not fair at all

@Who-sq4hi 8 ай бұрын

As much as I love Victoria. I disagree with somethings about this situation she's done.

@rogue7723 8 ай бұрын

Indeed. It’s _completely unfair_ for Diana that she has to _always_ clean up after the dogs that _her mom_ wanted and _failed_ to correctly potty train. I ordinarily _wholeheartedly support_ and agree with Victoria’s solutions, but this time I was like, “No. That’s just wrong” But hey, at the very least she only did it _one time_ so.

@gillianbrookwell1678 7 ай бұрын

I don't always agree with Victoria either; I find her to be bossy and controlling sometimes.

@Ghostlynoodles 5 ай бұрын

Yeah

@Onyx_or_Opal 7 ай бұрын

So, the video starts with the mom doing nothing and complaining. Telling her daughter to come clean up after them, for the first 5 minutes we see them. But "the daughter never does ANYTHING ever", so they decide to make her pick up after horses. Which she also wants nothing to do with and didnt ask for.

@karincartwright8752 8 ай бұрын

I'm not even going to apologize for thinking this mom is so WRONG. WTH!!!

@sweetabby1106 7 ай бұрын

Chubby is behaving like a puppy mill dog. I used to work at a shelter and helped rehabbed many of them. Victoria did a great job!

@jcalf3711 6 ай бұрын

"I have a degree...in poop" that just killed me 😂😂😂😂

@christinao8877 8 ай бұрын

The 16 year old got stuck with walking the dogs and her Mom got the spa?

@ashleyquam 5 ай бұрын

Would have been a good bonding session for the daughter to have gone to the spa too

@stephanies1474 6 ай бұрын

I made the decision to have dogs and only ask my children to help me...not do everything for me. It's usually only when I've been ill or am physically gone that they help. I can't believe how this daughter is being treated.

@whoami1654 6 ай бұрын

She got the dog for all the wrong reasons. So selfish. My ex got a dog without telling me and it caused so many arguments. I felt so betrayed & insignificant

@emmahales4897 8 ай бұрын

Why is the 3rd dog being ignored and not being walked? 😕😔. Not very nice poor dog.

@mettamorph4523 7 ай бұрын

Thumbs down on this one. Daughter didn't want or ask for the dogs. Mom wanted dogs, didn't train them and delegated the dirty work to Daughter. Hope Daughter moved out asap.

@darilynkrupp6309 8 ай бұрын

So many comments & I agree, dogs were mom's emotional support decision and her also busy teenage daughter was unfairly bearing 50& of the dog care; most of it resulting from lack of training/socialization. Once they were part of their family there was only a few options: 1) Train/socialize properly (Thank goodness Victoria helped with beginning that process.) 2) Rehome 3) Euthanize. I'm glad they both were happier that the first option worked. I guess I'm surprised that the mom being a teacher didn't realize right away that education/training was necessary, even crucial, especially with troubled animals.

@morganablackwater2017 6 ай бұрын

50% ?! Only the daughter picks the poop cause that damn mother thinks she is her house elf!

@raeraebadfingers 5 ай бұрын

Okay I am definitely on the daughter's side in this one but I couldnt help but laugh at "I have a degree in poop!"

@Silver87sc 7 ай бұрын

Victoria screwed up. As someone who's own mom chose the dog over her daughter? I resent the hell out of that and i like Victoria a little bit less now. Bless that kid, i how she rips into her mom at some point.

@peacewarrior1175 8 ай бұрын

Victoria seems to make a habit of forcing family members to help who simply did not want a pet? It cannot work in the long run and I don;t know why she does it

@Gemini-horrorchannel 8 ай бұрын

Because if all the family members are on board with the training, it’s not gonna work everybody Hass to put in some effort or else the dog is just gonna go back to its old ways that’s just how it is

@Loki-and-Thor 8 ай бұрын

I’ve noticed that too. I really wanted a kitten, we have two cats now, and my hubby made the deal with me that they are my responsibility, feeding, litter, playing, getting up in the middle of the night if necessary, getting them in their carriers for the vet, etc. Our oldest cat is 4 and the youngest is 2 and I have stuck to our deal. Hubby will help out if I’m out and they need fed or if I’m unable to do it, like today as I have the flu. It’s so much easier and fairer doing it this way, he feels respected, I got my kitties and the cats are well cared for without arguments.

@m6666 8 ай бұрын

Because kids these days need to learn responsibility. If parents do everything for their kids, they'll never leave home or get a job.

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

@@Loki-and-Thor Sounds like you and your hubs have an excellent relationship. Good for you!

@Catbooks 8 ай бұрын

@@m6666 In this case, it was the mother who needed to learn responsibility. She wanted the dogs, she got the dogs, she didn't train them, and then expected her daughter to clean up after them. Nope.

@GamesAndShips 7 ай бұрын

The only animals I ever cared for as a kid were animals that were 'mine'. They were ones I asked for, wanted, my mom deemed me capable of caring for (depending on age), and we had long talks about my responsibilities to that animal. It doesn't feel like the daughter wanted the animal or if she did appropriate discussions on responsibilities were not had. That's all on the mom. If she made that decision alone, she can take care of the animals alone or rehome them.

@Jeng4280 6 ай бұрын

That was a great turnaround with the dogs! I was proud of the family for doing the work.

@schipperkeandcats3469 8 ай бұрын

This is one the mom if you want pets make sure everyone in the family wants the dogs or just get one dog so you can manage it at least im not blaming the daughter for not wanting to help honestly she had no saying in the decision

@alisemaleneohme4666 8 ай бұрын

My dad didnt want my moms dog. The only thing she asks him to do is to help her hold her when they need to clean the ears, maybe help hold the line when she pulls and mom is afraid of not being able to hold her back, and to try to use some of the commands to get her down and/or away instead of just pushing her away. That's it. Mom walks her, takes the poop, takes her to the vet, trains her, plays with her, takes her on training courses, watches over her when they have guests. It's mom's dog, so the help she asks of him should only be what she is not able to do herself or which is best for the dog.

@jenniferclick1238 7 ай бұрын

The first thing i do if i get a new dog is immediately go into training! Why do these people (not just these two) NOT train their dogs!

@TheKak933 5 ай бұрын

By addressing the worst of the dog’s behavior, Victoria did more for the mother daughter relationship than I expected. It’s brilliant !

@ValC-vn5vl 7 ай бұрын

Doreen is the nightmare neighbor and mother

@redpillmicky 5 ай бұрын

The tone of a persons voice is so important when training dogs, also body language is just as important

@mollybailes5161 8 ай бұрын

I have dogs and I dont ask or expect anyone to take care of them in any way. I can ask someone to help, for example if I am sick or something but I personally think its very wrong to expect it. They are my sole responsibility and I wouldn't have it any other way.

@rmason5477 8 ай бұрын

Train that woman then the dog can be trained, the mum needs to do the clean up

@teagoldleaf4137 8 ай бұрын

❄️

@daniellamcgee4251 8 ай бұрын

All need to do the clean up; they are family dogs.

@banannaomi 2 ай бұрын

1:40 "I completely killed a rainforest on my own just cleaning up after these dogs." 😂😂 4:20 she's so funny 🤣 25:52 "I have a DEGREE ...in POOP."

@user-rt2ro7zh1r 8 ай бұрын

why she got 3 dogs if she can't even Manage to take care of them. and then she just Is expects for her daughter to help? it's the moms Sponsibility to tale ceremony of the dogs. she was the one who wanted it and just telling her daughter to do it?

@jacquibradley1598 8 ай бұрын

Iknow what I would say if I was the daughter, "Was I not enough for you", and "Why the heck am I doing your dirty work" You wanted them, Doreen, do the work!!

@Libbathegreat 27 күн бұрын

True, I guess Diana should be grateful that Doreen _didn't_ have other kids because she'd have expected Diana to do all the caring for them too. Parents like this are absolutely infuriating and deserve neither kids nor pets.

@RabbitAndTheLabBestFriends 4 ай бұрын

She said I have a degree in poop I about died

@dinomomruns Ай бұрын

I never force my kids to help with the dogs. They do it on their own and it makes me so proud. I make sure to praise them for their efforts.

@lisalo.lisalo 8 ай бұрын

She used the prong collars not correctly so of course the dogs were still pulling and didn’t follow her commands because she was also full of anxiety. But all the surprises she received are amazing.

@rachealjohnson9739 8 ай бұрын

THANK YOU 🙌🏼

@alexisgrey3633 5 ай бұрын

24.04 the horse is like 'dont look at me'.

@graciedrawz3195 6 ай бұрын

16:29 my therapist after a session 💀

@van-itjanet3569 5 ай бұрын

So great to see your videos again!!! SO hope the spirit moves you to attend the RTR this year so I can meet you in person! I have followed you & Deb. Joy since you began on You Tube! ❤

@ToxyBlack 5 ай бұрын

I remember as a kid (was around 8 years old) a relative I used to visit had an abused dog in their backyard yard and they said to never touch or even get close cuz would bite. Ofc as a kid I didn’t like to listen and because I was bored I kept being curious about the dog and felt pity, started visiting more often bring him food, throwing it from afar cuz I was still scared. One day I saw him wiggling his tail and I let him approach me more and he let me pat him. He was never mean or growl at me and actually loved me patting his head. Now as grown adult watching this video reminded me of him and throwing food from afar technique is real.

@stefgreen5237 8 ай бұрын

Lol that product placement was very strange

@candytoo3729 2 күн бұрын

Hopefully a good outcome. Much love to the fam and dogs. We have a dog that needed help and we thought we were doing everything right but each dog is special in their own way, Ours is a adopted yorkie which was never socialized. Go forward and learn.

@SelenaKincaid-ge6dk 6 ай бұрын

You know what's great. Saying over and over again. "i dont want a dog" "please dont get a dog I'm too busy to care for it properly" "dont get a dog unless your going to take it to the vet and bathe/groom it regularly" "i dont think you should get a dog if you never take it for walks or play with it/have time to spend with it" "i dont want the responsibility of a dog" And then they get a dog anyways that has adhd and refuse to refill the meds they came with or even take them for basic checkups or get them fixed, and you now have a full time dog they occasionally pat on the head before bed and nothing else. Its real fun.

@SimplyHolisticASMR Ай бұрын

i love victoria bro shes the best

@donnajohnson9324 5 ай бұрын

In Australia it's just one bite and the owner loses their dog and now the owner goes to jail and dog gets put down

@larac.7315 3 ай бұрын

Eduquer les chiens est une chose, mais transformer les maîtres en est une autre !!! bravo Victoria 👍👍👍❤

@teagoldleaf4137 8 ай бұрын

Awesome episode ❤ 🎊 😊

@amandatyrrell6414 3 ай бұрын

This woman does an amazing job at what she does (Victoria) we all do what we think is the best for our pets which unfortunately sometimes isn't always whats best for our pets donyiur research before getting any pets and then only decide if you can meet there needs

@marysnyder3717 5 ай бұрын

I am so surprised that Victoria is punishing the daughter who didn’t even want the dogs. Why couldn’t Victoria help the mother see that her daughter is being ignored and worked too hard for the mother’s hobbies. I can’t wait till the girl goes to college and the mom is stuck with all her mess on her own.

@eyrunsigrunardottir6977 8 ай бұрын

This was such a good episode and amazing to see the dogs get calmer.

@teagoldleaf4137 8 ай бұрын

😊

@sugakookie6303 6 ай бұрын

When I moved to a rural area with a big yard I got my Labs, my son isn’t a dog person and wasn’t really asked about it so I look at it as my responsibility to take care of the dogs not his. He does do minimal things like feed/water them and let them out( they have their own fenced in area) without asking but they are my responsibility.

@yogiyoda 19 күн бұрын

Cute pups. Cute owners. Cute trainer

@user-ng4rv3mj7k 22 күн бұрын

I love it, it's how I party everyday 🤣 but seriously not cool that the daughter has to pick up the poop all the time , it's a shared responsibility to keep a house clean

@PotionsClub 7 ай бұрын

That poor boy, he just sticks so close to his people

@teagoldleaf4137 8 ай бұрын

I really respect Doreen's determination to not take the easy way out and give up. Even though she was tired and stressed, she kept trying. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat animals.

@jacquibradley1598 8 ай бұрын

But what about her daughter??

@Melantha_Twinzzone 8 ай бұрын

Nope, you're completely wrong, no disrespect or anything. It is so much easier to keep everything the way it is. Otherwise, she needs to find a house for them, what if someone doesn't want all of them, then she has to deal with 3 different people, what if they are bad to her dogs, what if she feels regret and anxiety after giving them away, what if she gives them away but then they are returned for not being untrained and she is blamed.... I can go on and on. Easier to just leave everything as is. So whatever perseverance you saw in her, it ain't it.

@morganablackwater2017 6 ай бұрын

And even more by how they treat their daughters...

@julesmpc1314 3 ай бұрын

This lady has such a great ❤! All she needed was guidance...the crappy neighbours could have offered it instead of a bad of 💩

@susied.3376 7 ай бұрын

😊❤Love it.

@atimidbirb 20 күн бұрын

At 18 the daughter definitely moved out and left the mom wondering why she is now no contact with her ONLY child and has poop in the house again lol

@dinosaurwoman 8 ай бұрын

I'm glad she made Doreen do it, but I still don't understand why Doreen was pushing Diana to pick up the poop in the house when she was perfectly capable of doing it. I do agree that Diana should've been cleaning it up when mom wasn't home, but they are Diana's dogs.

@jordanpier7491 2 ай бұрын

"I have a degree in poop" 😂😂😂

@rachealjohnson9739 8 ай бұрын

Put a harness on a husky and see them not pull 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣💀

@GrandMa-hm5mb Ай бұрын

The lady says the dogs are "her children." You wouldn't ask your child to clean up their sibling's poop. Victoria was way off here.

@walkingwithdogs8547 5 ай бұрын

There are many tools in the toolbox of a rehabilitation trainer, yes one is the prong collar in extreme cases but there are only two the one with the ends are polished over into round ends so they will not do damage to the dogs neck, the second is all the prongs capped with plastic caps. But the most important is that only professional should be licensed to use them, and will be checked yearly the same as a E collar.

@laurenschenck5355 8 ай бұрын

Fantastic techniques simple and positive and effective Love it ❤

@daniellamcgee4251 8 ай бұрын

Yes! 😊 Expect for the chocolate product placement. 🙄

@EbCeRe 8 ай бұрын

Doreen was acting so unresponsible, unempathic and ignorant! Not strange the dogs shows aggression, they're frustrated from lack of stimulation, excercise and security! They react on the stressed out energi from Doreen! Victoria met Doreens needs spot on instead of judging her. That shows empathy and wisdom! But I don't agree on how she treated Doreen since she didn't choose to have the dogs...I really hope that the poor dogs can become more safe and NEVER will have those horrible collars, ever!

@joancarrino890 4 ай бұрын

I don't see how it's fair for the mother to get three dogs and expect her teenage daughter to clean up poop and pee there's no way my daughter would do that especially a teenager. They usually have a life of Their Own

@anniewood8245 6 ай бұрын

I don't understand why Peaple don't just get one dog instead of 2or 3 when they are not able to handle them

@carialea 22 күн бұрын

The mom should've took ALL the responsibility because SHE wanted 3 dogs

@ashleyquam 6 ай бұрын

Anyone know the name of the harness and leash she is using?

@Libbathegreat 27 күн бұрын

Doreen says there's "no difference" between the dogs and her child, but in fact she treats the dogs like (spoiled) children and Diana like their maid. I guess it's lucky for Diana that Doreen _didn't_ have more kids because she'd have probably expected Diana to do most of the caring for them too. Parents like this are absolutely infuriating and deserve neither kids nor pets. And Victoria just piles on here!🤦‍♀Diana must've felt so gaslit. Hope she got away from this awful situation. Doreen @25:50 "i aM NoT tHe PRobLeM," said The Problem.

@joancarrino890 4 ай бұрын

Brains definitely don't run in this family and they are totally examples of the Staten Island stereotypes

@TheKak933 5 ай бұрын

The daughter lives in the home. She should have the respect for her working mother to help out!

@Luna_moon_1127 4 ай бұрын

So wait a minute the dogs are the moms pets. But the daughter has to clean up after them when they poop in the house….. like that’s not her responsibility, it’s yours . I’ve NEVER made my boyfriend or his family clean up after my dog