Day 53 Sobriety & Reflecting on Loss: Reacting to Ren's 'Mackay' @RenMakesMusic

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DONT DO LIKE ME - DO THIS

DONT DO LIKE ME - DO THIS

3 ай бұрын

Today, on day 53 of my sobriety journey, I dive deep into themes of loss, life, and the imprint of those we cherish, through my reaction to Ren's poignant new track 'Mackay.' This song, a tribute to a friend gone too soon, opens up a space for me to discuss death-how it impacts us, shapes our perspectives, and the lessons it leaves behind. In this video, I share my personal reflections on the passing of my surf coach and dear friend, Tim Jones, whose guidance in both surfing and sobriety continues to resonate with me. His voice becomes a beacon in my moments of struggle, and when I'm out on the waves, I find myself hoping I've made him proud.
Death is a complex subject. It's not the end itself that unsettles me, but the journey there-the potential pain and the process of departing. Yet, in acknowledging this, we find a profound appreciation for life and its fragile beauty. This video is more than a reaction; it's an intimate exploration of sobriety, the shadows cast by drugs, and the enduring light of life itself. Join me as we navigate these deep waters together, finding strength in our shared experiences and the courage to confront what scares us, all while celebrating the legacy of those who have left an indelible mark on our hearts.
#sobrietyjourney #reactionvideo #renmakesmusic #life #death #recovery
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DISPUTE PROMPT:
This is my musical reaction, breakdown, and commentary analysis of the song. I intend no copyright infringement and this is not a replacement for listening to the song.
All the videos, songs, images, and graphics used in the video belong to their respective owners and I or this channel does not claim any right over them.
Copyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act of 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, education and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing.
Martin Hagström

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@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
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@Rickro72
@Rickro72 2 ай бұрын
Hear ya ,I will get back to ya soon, I need to keep mind mind occupied,last foronths have been bad for me since my father died on new yrs eve last yr. Then my landlord died so I have been evicted by his son basically,have cats,may have to surrender them,very hard for me to do.🙏✌️🤙
@valeriedonaghy701
@valeriedonaghy701 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your reaction to this beautiful tune and thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this comment! 🙏🏾 Amazing tune, really a beautiful tribute! Thank you for watching ❤️
@JoelMagnusson
@JoelMagnusson 3 ай бұрын
A deep and good reaction video...
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Joel! 🙏🏾
@SandraP3796
@SandraP3796 2 ай бұрын
His friend drowned and another guy also drowned trying to save him. Thank you for sharing and prayers for your journey. Subbed for more Ren.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Oh such a horribel and sad ending of beautiful people. Thank you for letting me know the backstory 🙏🏾 Ren coming up soon just going to feed me 😊 Thank you for sub🤩
@satyasunshine9737
@satyasunshine9737 2 ай бұрын
Congratulations in your sobriety,brother!!!! I have 16yrs.,but struggle w/ chronic pain,depression!!! I literally take it moment by moment,1 day at a time!!!! Keep on loving yourself,brother!!!!!🙏💛🩷💚🫶🙂☮️🫂
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 💙❤️💙 I am sorry to hear about your struggle. Congrats to 16 years. I want you to keep loving you also🙏🏾 Hope my videos can help you little 🫂
@HappyLifeAtTheBeach
@HappyLifeAtTheBeach 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences about surfing. I still have a fear of the ocean, so I love it from the beach 😅 See you tomorrow, my friend.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend! Yeah it is a scary place, i am not a fish... its not my world lol! But... i had to learn it looks so amazing and it was worth it! See you soon 🎉
@sigally
@sigally 3 ай бұрын
Such a wonderful reaction. Watching you watch the video was inspiring. 😊❤
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for those words, means a lot! More Ren coming tonight ❤️😊
@Irmelinis
@Irmelinis 3 ай бұрын
Very nice reaction! I like that you share your personal thoughts and experiences. Subscribed for more Ren :)
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, means a lot to hear that. More Ren coming up tonight :) Thanks for watching🙏🏾
@jktsful6059
@jktsful6059 3 ай бұрын
We could all use a friend like you had in Tim, keep strong , he connected with you and would want you to have your best life , stay safe
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Yes he was an amazing and solid friend. Im very happy that his KZfaq channel is a place i can go to when ever i need and want. Thank you for watching and for your comment! Stay Blessed 🙏🏾
@joanm2232
@joanm2232 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙏🏾
@Tessimistic420
@Tessimistic420 2 ай бұрын
I'm only 3 weeks late watching but I just found your channel today. Congrats on what ever day you are on now, Today is day 309 without drinking for me (only had/have online chat for my support everyone still drinking around me when they tell me congratulations with the smell of booze isn't the easiest 😂) Happy belated birthday
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Welcome 🙏🏾 Its day 76 today and 310 for you, congrats 🌼 I only use online Smart Recovery meetings, we dont have support here in Sri Lanka. I use Sweden, Hongkong Smart meetings. Haha i know that feeling and smell, i live in tourist area with party all year around. Thank you very much! Stay blessed 🙏🏾
@sampanther8854
@sampanther8854 2 ай бұрын
❤✌️🙏
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
❤️✌🏾🙏🏾
@francesdoll4039
@francesdoll4039 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and memories of Tim. Ren also describes himself as an addict. He drank and did drugs as a teenager. He stopped drinking when his after that last day he saw Callum Mackay. 13 years ago. He doesn't do any drugs not prescribed either. I wish he would talk about what went on in his heart and mind about stopping. He is so good at empathy and being vulnerable through his music, perhaps he doesnt see the need. Or maybe there ARE places that are just too personal. I feel such a sense of taw innocence in this video. Ren silent, unshaven, in a sweatshirt, with a rash on his neck from allergic reactions to treatment. I don’t think we have ever seen him in a video lije this and for some reason, it makes ne think of being born.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Well i use the word addict so people understand. I dont identify as an addict, i am Martin that has a problem with myself that makes me want to use drugs to get comfort. I just use the word addict so people understand what kind of issue i am talking about and for me to remember that i have this issue so i dont use again. But i am Martin a human like everyone else with struggles and a road to walk to fullfil what i want. It could be that it is a thing that does not have place on his plattform, he has many things going for him and if he has been clean for 13 years i guess is something that is no need to vent with people around the world. He share so much and somethings we have to keep for us self. Thank you for watching 🙏🏾
@francesdoll4039
@francesdoll4039 3 ай бұрын
@@DontDoLikeMeDoThis i remember Ren saying that anything that makes him feel good, he will do to excess, even internet/phone use. During the lockdown he bought a timed lock box that kept him off the phone 4 six hours. But he wanted to have self control. I wish you peace and balance.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
@@francesdoll4039 Yes we need to find whats feel good, but that can be a tricky one also. Just because it makes us feel good, down the road it could be harmful. Drugs was feeling good and in the start it did no harm. Reflection on the thoughts and feelings and consequence thinking is so important when dealing with yourself when having issues like this. Thank you so much, i wills you peace and balance 🙏🏾
@sigally
@sigally 3 ай бұрын
The way Ren tells us is through his music. He talks about what it felt like being prescribed medications that were addicting, the struggle with those and what it was like coming off them. Songs like Sick Boi, diazepam, Lost all Faith & Chalk Outlines. He brought it up briefly in his interview with Zach Sang too.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
@@sigally Hey does he have a song named Diazepam? I need to listen to that one. Thank so much for this comment! Sick Boi i did react to. Diazepam was i big one in my addiction.. damn i can miss that one sometimes.🙏🏾
@satyasunshine9737
@satyasunshine9737 2 ай бұрын
I can relate to you & Ren!!!!🫶🥰🙏💚🩷💟🌹🌈☮️🫂🫂🫂🫂
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
❤️🫂❤️
@manifesto63
@manifesto63 3 ай бұрын
REN truely is an amazing artist. so much feeling without saying a word. I thank you for sharing your memories and thoughts about your friend Tim. I think the older we get the more we realize that the number of "friends" we have is unimportant. What matters is being blessed to have a select few special people throughout our lives. I have not been afraid to die, but like you, I worry about the way it happens. Thank you for continuing his memory. Much love ❤🫂
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
He truly is! So happy he doing what he doing ❤️ Tim my man, yeah its so unfair i feel sometimes... but what he gave me, its just something else and i am so happy i was ready to open up for his wisdom. I agree! Thank you for watching my Friend! Much Love ❤️🫂
@Erndog67
@Erndog67 2 ай бұрын
Great video. Hang in there, I'm rooting for you. Being stubborn is a great tool. It worked for me
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 Yes it is, i agree. Hope you doing well 😊
@yolandescheepers7262
@yolandescheepers7262 2 ай бұрын
😥😥😥
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Life you know... It has it all ❤️
@Rickro72
@Rickro72 2 ай бұрын
I'm starting my road to recovery,most of my life has been controlled by addiction,I appreciate your honesty,I give me hope.🙏✌️🤙
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Hey 🤙🏾 So happy to hear that!!! Same here since 14 years old, its been a rocky road im 44 now! I will be here for you everyday with a new video and check out my videos from day 1. Give it a good chance and if anything just comment or add me on instagram and send a text! Lets Goooooo✌🏾🔥🎉
@philkaiser2313
@philkaiser2313 2 ай бұрын
Peace to you brother! I will subscribe to support your journey
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Welcome🙏🏾 Peace to you Brother! Thank you so much for subscribe, means a lot!
@margaretpickholtz8772
@margaretpickholtz8772 2 ай бұрын
Be well sir
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
I wish you the same! Thank you 🙏🏾
@donnaewe3692
@donnaewe3692 2 ай бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed ur reaction, love Ren! Thank you ❤ Really proud of you in your journey, new sub
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching, sub and your kind words, means a lot ❤️ Ren coming up again in a few hours!
@donnaewe3692
@donnaewe3692 2 ай бұрын
Awesome! Can't wait to check it out, thank you!
@Almcosta25
@Almcosta25 2 ай бұрын
My dear friend, thank you for sharing with us about this battle you have been fighting for so long. Life. I know the temptation of leaving it behind, a sort of misfit, one of the "Thalidomide children", with a body considered far from "normal". I was also tempted by anything that could ease my social anxiety. But I'm stubborn too, so I kept going, studying, working, traveling, dating. I believe in God, so I trust Him with my fears and faults. And no, I don't see myself as an example, whatever I achieved is an example of God's caring. You are a very special person and I wish you all the best. I trust you still have a lot to do, so you will not be apart from your animals. Ren is a very special person too and this composition is filled with emotion. You will be in my thoughts and I trust Tim is in Peace. Greetings from Porto, Portugal. Take care my friend.
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
My dear friend, thank you for watching and comment. I want you to know that your words means a lot and thank you for taking the time to express these kind words. 🙏🏾 Say hello to Porto from me! Be well and take care my friend 🙏🏾
@Almcosta25
@Almcosta25 2 ай бұрын
@@DontDoLikeMeDoThis thank you! I will keep visiting your channel and listening to the reactions, and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care my friend 🙏
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
@@Almcosta25 Thank you, that means a lot to me. Take care and stay blessed my friend 🙏🏾
@NiliG-wg6gd
@NiliG-wg6gd 3 ай бұрын
Subscribed to support you through your personal journey and for more Ren 🤗
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😊 More Ren will come, i have some other tracks on my channel with Ren also if you want to check them out! Wish you a great weekend 🙏🏾
@NiliG-wg6gd
@NiliG-wg6gd 3 ай бұрын
@@DontDoLikeMeDoThis yes I will 😊, your reaction only popped up for the first time in my recommendations today. I resonated strongly with what you were saying about your animals. I have a bit of a menagerie and their welfare after I'm gone is my biggest worry too. They support us thru so much, the weakest and worst of ourselves that we would and could never show to anyone but they accept us in our totality without judgement. We owe them so much for each day we breathe. Take good care of yourself so you are there to take good care of them xx 🤗
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
@@NiliG-wg6gd Algorithm seems to working for me 😊 Yeah agree. They are my biggest support and always so happy to see me, its amazing really how much love they give! Its family we are a pack. Thank you so much for for your comment❤ One of my dogs starts his fitness journey on Monday he dont know it yet but its time for little runs! After we changed house he started to be lazy and gaining weight! Someone told me yesterday, you are a personal trainer and you dog is fat... that hurt me hahaha damn it! Take good care and stay blessed! Big hug xx 🫂
@Tessimistic420
@Tessimistic420 2 ай бұрын
I believe when we miss someone the most, that is when they are closest to you. You feel them here but not physically. There is life after death on the other side in my opinion ❤
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Interesting view, yes feel like it could be like that! I would say it no death, just another state if you understand what i mean? ❤️
@Tessimistic420
@Tessimistic420 2 ай бұрын
@@DontDoLikeMeDoThis I do understand what you're saying ❤️ we all find out the truth one day.
@Tessimistic420
@Tessimistic420 2 ай бұрын
Sub'd today 329
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️
@Januaribarn
@Januaribarn 3 ай бұрын
Hm, do I hear a swedish accent from you?😁
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis
@DontDoLikeMeDoThis 3 ай бұрын
Det kan du ge dig på 😅 Yes Sweden here!
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