Days in the life working “9-6” job | Coworker yelled at me😠, work trip to JB

Days in the life working “9-6” job | Coworker yelled at me😠, work trip to JB | Singapore Vlog

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@jonxho 6 ай бұрын

Hi Yul! Firstly, I've been watching you vlog ever since i chanced upon it here in YT and i must say, keep it up! As for your encounter at work, as a HR professional, i will suggest you to write in to your HR. Regardless if you're new or been in the company for awhile, no one should be put under such situation. There might not be immediate action taken to that colleague, but at least your HR colleagues are well aware of the situation. It will be good that you inform your boss as well that you've reached out to HR about the incident (He/she is your witness 😅)

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for the tips! Yeah I intend to let my boss know if I’m going to HR. Will prolly surface this at our upcoming perf review session

@SealedTime 6 ай бұрын

Feel like it’s SG culture to just not be very confrontational when we are screamed at so I totally get you. What I’ve learnt over the years is to treat their words and tone as a lack of depth in argument and empty words - It helped me mentally overcome the anger and fear since I just treated it lightly since shallow words do not deserve my attention and emotional investment and let myself enjoy my day without being affected by it. Might be good to be apathetic at times!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

I actually agree on the non-confrontational culture here. Even when we’re unhappy about something at work, we’d just complain to fellow colleagues and work goes on 😂 compartmentalising the distress does help in the short term. But I’d do something about it if I have to interact with her frequently. Otherwise she’d think she can get away with it every time.

@SealedTime 6 ай бұрын

@@yuldaze definitely! It’s also good to know when to stand your ground. I feel like we have to sort of take back the power from others when they think they have one-upped us by scolding us publicly or trying to exert some form of superiority, by letting ourselves remain in control and being unaffected. Not sure if I’m saying it the right way 😂 but yup!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

@@SealedTime Wahaha I totally get what you mean. I think it will also help make me feel a bit more “balanced” internally, kinda to redress my grievance!

@cheongkienchong7818 6 ай бұрын

Really looked like a hectic week at work. Hope you're enjoying your holiday!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you! It’s been a good break in Tassie 😌

@Byuldaph 6 ай бұрын

Have fun in Tasmania Yul! May the crystals continue to ward off 小人 at work! 🙏🏻

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you!💕

@Booktropes 6 ай бұрын

So sorry that u had a bad day at work…but your hubby r so sweet to buy you snacks when you were upset. 🥰

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you haha he knows how to cheer me up

@joycegoh8628 6 ай бұрын

I feel you girl. Been in that situation before as well. Got me so pissed that i couldn’t sleep that night cos I was too angry to sleep. These people have low EQ, they never change cos their boss let them get away with it. In the end, we get angry, it hurts us more, and the person probably isn’t even aware…. so best is to get over it, maybe let off steam with hubby, friends or close colleagues so you feel better.😊

@Jon-vs5rk 6 ай бұрын

right! i’ve been through this situation before! but unfortunately, i left barely just over year. couldn’t take it anymore 😪

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for this! Thankfully I was off for my holiday few days later so it gave me space & time to cool off

@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 3 ай бұрын

wow! that's incredible!! 😇

@sahana9901 6 ай бұрын

hope you are having a great holiday in Tasmania!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Having a nice break from the recent work madness! Thank you

@danielcheng4128 6 ай бұрын

You are back!

@danielcheng4128 6 ай бұрын

lol. Other than e vadai, we written off e rest we ordered.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Yes WiFi finally worked at one of the accommodation haha

@carolsequeira8310 6 ай бұрын

Hi Yul, enjoyed your vlog..i hope you are enjoing your time in Tasmania.. stay safe & healthy Also..its nice that you didnt react or didnt know how to...I think your default of being patient amd calm when people are rude speaks volumes of your character......as long as shes not on your team..not your monkeys not your circus...eh.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Love this “Not your monkeys, not your circus” haha! Thanks for the comforting words! 🙌🏼

@juliettye25 6 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear, and especially when you’re in a situation when you feel stuck (not sure what’s the best decision to take forward). But don’t let this bring you down- the other person might have unresolved issues hence their action. By the way, is the thunder tea rice from Thunder Bowl? Lei cha fan here too- 1/4 Hakka!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comforting words! The thunder tea rice is from store of the same name, literally Thunder Tea Rice haha. Here’s their website: www.thundertearicesg.com/locate-us

@butterflyiing 6 ай бұрын

Sometimes it’s hard when people are unable to control their emotions, especially in a work setting. It might not even be a problem with you, they might be under stress at home or in their personal life and they don’t know how to separate themselves from it at work. It was good that you didn’t react and escalate the situation at the time. If you don’t feel comfortable reporting to HR at this stage, maybe speak to them (with a witness present) and ask if they’re ok? Or perhaps ask them is it the way you explained that they didn’t understand? It can be difficult being the bigger person, but sometimes it might be good in the long run.

@ColouredPixels 6 ай бұрын

🥺

@satealkoh 6 ай бұрын

Agree with @butterflyiing. Staying composed does not mean that you are weak and vulnerable but rather this shows your maturity in handling the situation. It is totally unacceptable that this co-worker yelling at you because there should be professionalism in the workplace. Having said that, if you are comfortable speaking to this co-worker (maybe with another person whom you trust), it is good to find out the reason why this person shouted at you. If in the end, you feel that this person does not show remorse for what he/she had done or exhibits persistent abuse/bullying, feel free to report it to HR as workplace harassment/bullying should be condemned for the sake of mental wellness of all colleagues at the workplace.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing the various perspectives! I gave the benefit of doubt and assumed she was stressed out, but it was not her first time being rude to others, even to those in more senior positions than her (made me wonder if she’s the daughter of our big boss or something 😂) I reckon the folks in my company are generally all nice & friendly so no one tried telling her off before.

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

@@yuldaze As the saying goes “Don’t make your problem into my problem”. As an adult she should learn how to manage her life & her emotions. If she feels its fine to go full mental on others due to stress or whatever lame ass excuse, then she jolly well womans up and takes it like a woman if someone else pulls off the same shit on her 🙄

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

Nothing like a Yul Daze catwalk to welcome the weekend 😂

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

😝

@ryantan5516 6 ай бұрын

Hope all is well and yul weren’t in a daze.😂 People relationship is the toughest to manage, but let’s give people a chance 😊

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

LOL punny!! Still giving her a chance to apologize but haven’t received any 🤣

@fowayne1 6 ай бұрын

have a safe trip~ :D

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@ratmaazizah4703 6 ай бұрын

Well done for keep being calm down since you are newbie at company and I am sure that everyone has that experience include me when was newbie at company, we don’t know how to react if got somebody scream at us, so let them away and just keeping do the best for your team,, but my opinion, after you are not newbie at company you should speak up and do it personally wisely 💪🏻🙂

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Agree with your sentiments. Sometimes I can’t wait for time to pass faster just to get through the newbie stage 😂

@user-tm4lm5yx1d 6 ай бұрын

I remember you were watching young sheldon in another vlog, wondering what you watching now on netflix? anyway your recommendation was good - I finished watching young sheldon already!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Oh I haven’t even finished young sheldon! Haha. But am aiming to watch S2 of Sweet Home next

@erdayokay7638 6 ай бұрын

Its ok Yul, if it really bothers you, you can report your collegue to HR. 😊

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

👌🏼🙌🏼

@tareginda 3 ай бұрын

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@wangyu60 2 ай бұрын

Don't be intimidated by this kind of rude ppl. If there's no direct reporting line btw u, just ignore his/her qns and let ur boss deal with it. Don't be nice to others w/o a good reason. This has nothing to do with how long u work in this company or whether u r in probation or not. Principle is principle. Workplace is to work, not making friends. The way u describe ur boss is also alarming. Rmbr he/she is also not ur friend. Be confident, set boundaries at workplace.

@polobuncharsiew 6 ай бұрын

have you try the thunder rice at tanjong pagar market? quite good imo

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Haven’t tried that! Not sure if got chance to go there for lunch again haha!

@Digitezy 6 ай бұрын

Your doing great in life! Keep it up Do you edit your video by yourself?

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Yup! Thank you

@Digitezy 6 ай бұрын

@@yuldaze I can save your time by editing them for you. If it's fine for you?

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@kavitabalakrishnan6219 6 ай бұрын

That's so awful to have your colleague scream at you. Hope you are feeling better. Enjoy yourself in Tassie. Look forward to the v-log as I've heard it's very beautiful.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you! Immersing myself in the Tassie wild life everyday I’m here haha

@Blazer433 6 ай бұрын

ya the pasar malam oyster puff not nice...sixth floor and maxwell one much nicer

@wonglizong6113 6 ай бұрын

Feel you having to deal with toxic colleague. Even from my side where I had some nice colleagues, there are also some toxic colleagues who somehow always that I am not doing enough stuff for the team when I am clearly overloaded with work. What I always do will be talking to them that is only work-related but totally ignored them once I finish my work and don't give so much dann if you know you are not in the wrong. But for your case, I hope at least your boss should stand up and defend you if your coworker(not from your team) screamed at you like that.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Man.. the toxic colleagues sound awful. it’s so important to draw boundaries at work to keep ourselves sane indeed.

@poldylove4855 6 ай бұрын

we are supposed to add hot water to the thunder tea paste no? haha thanks for your new way of eating let me try it out next time 😂

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

ARE WE SUPPOSED TO??😂 had no idea!

@tareginda 3 ай бұрын

What the heck ! Don’t bully Yul Daze ! Yikes 😱

@hey_nanabanana 6 ай бұрын

I am so sorry that happened to you and it appalls me how these so called professionals conduct themselves in a work environment. My advise is to report this to HR because it is a fact that you were yelled at. It is not your role to worry about someone else's job scope / role - this is applicable for HR and the co-worker who was rude to you. This is also a good indication of how well your company manages such issues. I hope you feel a little better now :)

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you, feeling much better for sure! Appreciate this perspective, esp the part on how this could be an indication of how company handles workplace harassment!

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

Considering your boss did absolutely nothing, I have little confidence in how your company handles such matters but never try never know.

@itzSoonz 6 ай бұрын

Yelled back! haha

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Kinda wish I did lolll

@Aruby868 6 ай бұрын

Sry to hear about your encounter with your colleague. Whr did u get your black top in the first scene? the one paired with shein pants

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Oh! Also SHEIN hahaha. Love it so much I bought it in 3 colours

@SK-ps2ps 6 ай бұрын

However long you’ve been with the company shouldn’t be the deciding factor as to whether you decide to report her to HR. It’s unacceptable to treat others this way, it really is. She sounds so recalcitrant and defiant of basic professional courtesy. I hope you make the decision that best sits well with you, and I hope work get better for you 😊

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thanks so much! Reading all your comments gives me a little more courage to do something about it!

@heatherch 6 ай бұрын

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@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

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@yara-kg6fq 4 ай бұрын

@@yuldaze hi! just wondering does the link still work? :(

@yuldaze 4 ай бұрын

@@yara-kg6fq Ooh strange, try this link? api-shein.shein.com/h5/sharejump/appjump?link=VBPaznC6SrP&localcountry=SG&url_from=GM7483239007797346304

@yara-kg6fq 4 ай бұрын

@@yuldazethank you!! works great now :)

@tlq4957 6 ай бұрын

im pretty sure.... im those that alight at YCK haha. and for the work thing.. if she does it again, especially in front of your boss, you can try standing your ground. if your boss is not on your side, then u might as well not be on his team. the idea is that you should or may try to use these occasions to show that you or your team is not a push over. (u may get admiration points from your team)

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Yeah, so many things I wish I did, on hindsight 😅 lesson learnt!!

@forwork2601 6 ай бұрын

Great vid. You should have put her in her place, no one should ever be that disrespectful.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Really wished I said something but I was in shock ugh

@therestlessanxiouschild 6 ай бұрын

If she's done it before it's better to file a complaint, for me I don't tolerate BS and lack of professionalism in the workplace at all I despise it. Lol

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

I concur. Stress/mental/emotional & all that BS just doesn’t cut it. 🙄

@charbellevendiola7219 6 ай бұрын

U shouldve made her angrier and walk away laughing 😂

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

😆

@0210jl 6 ай бұрын

Hi, does fengshui world have a website pls?

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Yes! I think it’s fengshuiworld.sg. Better to visit the store in person imo, they will help assess your bazi before recommending crystals

@joshualee8151 6 ай бұрын

lucky i work from home all the time... the last time i had a supervisor yell at me.. i told her to STFU i dont answer to u and atleast i can count to 10 with my fingers... she lost some of her finger by sticking it in a light socket LOL... she cried in the bathroom n written me up... found out when i quit years ago i had over 50 write ups!!! even got written up for saying refusing to clean up actual feces someone wiped on the wall!! lucky my boss liked me ahahahaha

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

HAHAHA 50!!!! I think that’s the cultural difference between Americans and Asians(Chinese at least!). We tend to value group harmony over individual interest , maybe a little too much sigh

@ongzhangteng5790 6 ай бұрын

I have been messaging your IG story not sure if you received it haha 😊

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

I seldom reply to IGS due to too much spam haha

@dailycoffeecups 6 ай бұрын

Oh dear! Such a rude coworker! I’d think there’s no point raising it to HR especially when your boss didn’t fend for you at all. Perhaps you can put it into writing and send it to your boss so you can discuss when they review your probation. At least you have it documented for future discussion. Hope you won’t have to deal with her again! 🙏🏼

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

I think my boss was equally surprised at her behaviour but yeah I think I have to surface this somehow - whether to higher ups or HR, at least to deter such behaviour in future!

@MsKwave 6 ай бұрын

i think it is alright to feedback to HR about your colleagues behavior. Everyone deserve a safe and comfortable work environment^^ is just feedback on behavior am sure its ok.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Agree 100% on how workplaces should be safe & comfortable!

@CatrinaDaimonLee 6 ай бұрын

ur iphone cam good eh

@cicliolmo7152 6 ай бұрын

yes, you and the other colleagues who were mis-treated by this toxic employee should report it to your HR dept so that it can be documented. Documentation can show a pattern and therefore grounds to a valid firing. It's HR's responsibility to ensure that employees have a suitable work environment. Nobody should be subjected to that type of verbal abuse at any company.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Appreciate the advice!🙌🏼

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

And please enough with the “stress” excuse. I feel these days mental is used as an excuse for anything. Just look at defence lawyers. Regardless of the crime committed the number one excuse they always give is “mental” 🙄

@therestlessanxiouschild 6 ай бұрын

My ex-workmate verbally harassed me inside the production floor the next day I informed my team leader that I would file a formal complaint to HR. The process took 2 weeks but it was worth it! (:

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing, glad something good came out of the complaint for u! Fingers crossed..

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

Bullshit should not be tolerated plain & simple

@Skinnypnny 6 ай бұрын

Even if you don’t wish to report it to HR, your boss who is there during the shouting, should report it instead. I feel you, I was in that situation before

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

🙁 it’s sad how many viewers said they experienced the same before

@Skinnypnny 6 ай бұрын

@@yuldaze yes I first had that experience , but definitely not shouting but it was flipping the invoice at my desk for no good reason. But luckily my manager saw it happened, but I chose to leave the company(when they’re not doing good as well)

@P53eud0nym05 6 ай бұрын

Your boss actually kept quiet. Is he scared of the nutjob’s boss? 🙄

@George-gc2mt 6 ай бұрын

can I check how much did you pay for the black bracelet?

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Slightly over $400

@tareginda 3 ай бұрын

@@yuldazeomgosh you are not kidding when you say overpriced.

@joshualee8151 6 ай бұрын

howd u like the tomato ketchup lays? those arent american those are canada exclusives LOL

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

It’s our fave Lays flavor 😂

@lyingflatsingapore 6 ай бұрын

Why you and your hubby like chips so much haha

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

IKR 🤣 it’s our unhealthy pastime

@laichongchao8266 6 ай бұрын

Next time record the colleague shouting at you! If he/she dares to shout, you dare to film! 😡😅😅

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

It happened so abruptly I didn’t know how to react ughhh but witnesses aplenty

@NW_329 6 ай бұрын

Given your current position, I think your boss should be the one who reports to HR or maybe, complains directly to that person's boss 😶 but then, I'm not familiar with SG work culture.. Cheer up! And better focus on your work~ When you have the power someday, you can confront her if she dares to mess with you again. For now, just ignore that person's presence, there's no need to entertain their rude behavior.

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you! My bestie told me the same thing, to wait until I’ve garnered more bargaining chips at work to deal with her haha

@yeahwin 6 ай бұрын

So did she apologise?

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

She didn’t!😠

@juang6380 6 ай бұрын

did i spot an airpod max?! hahaha is it good? do u bring it out? have a safe and fun trip! if me, i will report lol because they’ll just continue stepping all over other ppl and not just u

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Thank you! I couldn’t bring myself to buy an AirPod max HAHA that’s from a Chinese brand called Anker 😂

@austinitel.2972 5 ай бұрын

Hihi, Did your colleague apologize after yelling at you? Sometimes they might be going through something personal in their lives. But if it is a recurring behavior, then it should not be tolerated

@yuldaze 5 ай бұрын

Nope she didn’t 😕 also not the first time she’s been rude to colleagues!

@StaryBroLez 6 ай бұрын

also why ur boss never defend you on the spot? such a coward

@Zackbeetle 6 ай бұрын

Ikr, sadly there are some bosses just doesn’t stand up for his/her staffs. Sigh

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

I think she was taken aback by the coworker’s behaviour too 😕

@francislacross1806 6 ай бұрын

This rude colleague off team. Is she same age or senior? Might give some idea why she reacted this way

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Looks older than me but we’re peers in terms of seniority

@francislacross1806 6 ай бұрын

@@yuldaze is she gen z or age close to our parents generation millennial?

@francislacross1806 6 ай бұрын

Cos both generation mindset differs especially in workplace

@chanhelmy 6 ай бұрын

Seems like you like beehoon alot ahh, haiya situations like that don't take things to heart lo. Just do you lo

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

I have mad love for bee hoon!! Haha

@StaryBroLez 6 ай бұрын

zz should have slapped her to assert your dominance and impress ur boss

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

😂

@dominiclim0601 6 ай бұрын

Why don't you film more contents with your husband?

@dominiclim0601 6 ай бұрын

Pivoting the channel to a more family centric content could garner more viewership...

@mondaymorningsun 6 ай бұрын

hahahahahaha omg hahhahah so rare to have people of ur age to believe in fengshui hahahahhaha they will say its a scam!!!!

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Wahaha I guess superstition transcends age

@ongzhangteng5790 6 ай бұрын

Did you have to inform your current boss that you’re meeting your ex-bosses?

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

Nah it was during after work hours haha

@flugelhh 6 ай бұрын

A colleague raised their voice at me too recently 🥲 I didn’t retaliate, but my blood pressure spiked and remained high for like 5 days after 🤣

@yuldaze 6 ай бұрын

LOL I feel you leh, I think I was very bothered by the incident for the next few days