DCMWG Talks Dating Rich Men, Virgil Abloh, Molestation + More

DCMWG Talks Dating Rich Men, Virgil Abloh, Molestation + More - Ep11. "Bring Your Kid To Work"

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DCMWG Talks Dating Rich Men, Virgil Abloh, Molestation + More - Ep11. "Bring Your Kid To Work"
DON’T CALL ME WHITE GIRL EPISODE 11 ”Bring Your Kid To Work"
Welcome Back! It’s that time of the week! On this episode Damona recaps the Thanksgiving holiday, no pregnancy vibes, the right way to remember Virgil Abloh, Quality NOT being under Control, women dating rich men…what about it?, addressing the seriousness and cases of molestation, voicemails & more!
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Executive Producers: Dave Mays & Brett Jeffries
Producers: Tom Flies & Dre Smith

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@Imanifaith93 2 жыл бұрын

So he can be big, health conscious, and be very hygienic, but he doesn't think any women can do the same? What kinda weird shit? 🤔

@kitamitchell9833 Жыл бұрын

righttttttttt like huh????

@mickimickz4277 6 ай бұрын

Most men who fat shame women are bbw’s themselves it’s so odd

@mysterious765 2 жыл бұрын

Trap got me tight. Ain’t no way he doesn’t like bbws and he a bbw. He’s really wild.

@domwin85 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@MsKizzy23 2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@sodamnsexy16 2 жыл бұрын

😭😂

@rellyummy9506 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Ny.Lynette 2 жыл бұрын

“I’m into fitness” meanwhile ya body says otherwise! I hate how men who are big themselves won’t date women who are “big” because all of a sudden that’s unhealthy 🙄🥴

@Suziee_Suee 2 жыл бұрын

Right😂😂😂 and not to mention alot of non-fat/ skinny women don't exercise or eat healthy either...

@queenjoycole9710 2 жыл бұрын

I came looking for this, I need him to stand up cause he looks the biggest at the table

@estrellamartinez2191 2 жыл бұрын

It's from Kevin Samuels lmao

@thefashionally2285 2 жыл бұрын

“ Fitness” food in his mouth!! 😂 he got some nerve

@rellyummy9506 2 жыл бұрын

But his mama and a few of his aunts is big girls #JustSaying 😂😂😂

@MissJemima 2 жыл бұрын

LMFAOOOOOOOOO @ the big guy that had the most negative things to say about big women.

@Wearenotfriendsxo 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@thriftyniftydoll3097 2 жыл бұрын

Always

@cashco.9861 2 жыл бұрын

Trap is way beside himself… him not dating fat girls and he’s fat. then trying to down play Mya 😂

@kitamitchell9833 Жыл бұрын

screaminggggggg

@lifeisbutadream207 2 жыл бұрын

I’m confused cause trap bout to bust out that jacket

@rellyummy9506 2 жыл бұрын

Can’t even zip it up

@NowYaCeeMe Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@cupofchi_ 2 жыл бұрын

Mona, your honesty on molestation and encouragement for therapy is so appreciated. Sending you continuous healing ✨

@reginahall7998 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the exact same

@Homentertainement2 2 жыл бұрын

It’s only one thing missed… I didn’t hear anyone bring up that woman are predators as well

@cupofchi_ 2 жыл бұрын

@@Homentertainement2 they most definitely can be

@marstomajormiracle5603 2 жыл бұрын

@@Homentertainement2 she actually does mention that! she talked a lot about lil boys that get raped by 20- something year olds

@prettysmallz 2 жыл бұрын

It’s ALWAYS the biggest man in the room that hates big women. And tell them how they should eat and live to be skinny, TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE 🤣🤣 get ya mans Mona

@theprettyygamer 2 жыл бұрын

Love Mona for speaking on r*pe/SA so candidly it speaks volumes to how our generation is really trying to break those generational curses that our parents passed down to us. It’s sad how common that is and how uncommon it is for victims to speak up.

@zerandrianmorris 2 жыл бұрын

Regarding the man she asked if he would date a big girl...Is he not big?

@Tina3292 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with Mona 1000%, behavior has to change when it comes to protecting kids

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@lendydiva11 2 жыл бұрын

Do Trap realized how dumb he sounds lol. Like for real he need to go back and listen to his response lol. And fyi I'm not a big girl but he sounds crazy

@djordan5960 2 жыл бұрын

Right!!! he talking like he not a big girl

@taj3651 2 жыл бұрын

I love how honest and hilarious this woman is! Glad I found her own platform I’m gonna binge these episodes

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@Chris512B 2 жыл бұрын

Homie is fat as me 😂. He particular about eating cheesesteaks

@seyven2669 2 жыл бұрын

He talking a lot of shit abt his “ preference” with that tight ass coat on😭✌🏽

@ayanapalms5436 2 жыл бұрын

😂

@TheLionsLove2 2 жыл бұрын

The show was great overall….BUT Mona’s hotel story at the end KILLED ME 😂😂😂😂😂. How are these people in the studio not crying laughing???

@forgivejordan 2 жыл бұрын

all that and then she said she cheated on him 😂😂

@TheLionsLove2 2 жыл бұрын

@@forgivejordan 😂😂😂 Mona is the GOAT

@AceLoozeCannon 2 жыл бұрын

The people in the studio with her might as well just stay home cause all they do is sit there and stare at her. 😑 Even when she’s talking to them ….*silence *

@The_JayWay 2 жыл бұрын

The segment on molestation was powerful and the transparency was amazing!

@ciahhh1373 2 жыл бұрын

As a brown skin woman with a lightskin mother, my mother would always tell me growing up that she would pray to have darker skin like me because growing up she went through alot just because she was lightskin, she felt like she always had to prove herself and be tough.

@cvaldez4937 2 жыл бұрын

What would you tell parents of light skinned kids? I'm ALLL ears to prelate my kids!🥺😭

@gingerlove9085 2 жыл бұрын

i would also like to add that just because you have a lightskin parent or parents does not mean your child will not turn out a darker shade. i would get asked if my mom bleached, if I've permed my hair, if I'm mixed because of my hair (I'm dark skin, and it quiet f annoying, I do not find it to be a compliment. you just sound ignorant). I just hate ignorance

@RobandSijay 2 жыл бұрын

@@cvaldez4937 good question, first have them understand that just because the world will treat them like they are better than or different, to not treat others less than and to recognize their privilege in the room. We are conditioned that "white is right" so having lighter skin they are closer to white in societies eyes. They will be "tested" and treated like they are soft because they are lighter, so prepare to defend yourself and don't look like a target. They won't be seen as the suspect/aggressor but the victim in an altercation so that in itself is a privilege they shouldn't abuse and pick fights. By default we have been conditioned that darker skin is tougher and so it can handle pain better, that's why excessive force is used against darker people. Your daughter may be seen as "fast" and a 403 and other girls will see her as a threat so be prepared to lose some "friends" along the way. Your son may be bullied and pushed to fight because of jealousy, however the world will see him white-aligned. Same with your daughter but the hierarchy goes white man, white woman, black man, black woman, in that order...so she may or may not "benefit" as her male counterpart. I say all that to say if they want something in life and focus and do well in school people will adjust to them vs someone darker having to adjust to their environment. This is all coming from experience of lighter family members and friends and even the unattractive ones are by default "accepted" into society because they are seen as the better option of the two.... so there's that too, people will want to befriend them, date them, etc all because they are light skinned. My mom's Mona's complexion and has no female friends, Women assume the "she thinks she's better than everyone" even her sisters. theres a video about pretty privilege on youtube that also explains more. Good luck

@kaylagurl98 2 жыл бұрын

Mona I gotta say this is probably the best episode fr. Your segment on molestation and being so open and honest with your own story is commendable and I give you so much respect for using your platform to shed light on such a serious issue in the black community and encouraging getting help and therapy. I tune in every week on KZfaq and apple podcasts and I’m such a fan but I have immense respect for you after this episode. ❤️ sending you love and light 🙏🏾

@alexneedstoknow1849 2 жыл бұрын

As a grad student in clinical counseling, thank you for your comments on mental health. Much love 💜

@AsiaAndrea 2 жыл бұрын

This is my new favorite episode ! Thank you for sharing your story but you’re so right about the victims taking up for the predators especially being in the family

@ezaserrano4677 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that you’ve been candid about your experience with molestation. It’s powerful to hear that especially with a platform like you have.

@BlackHappy___ 2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry you went through that! I’ve had multiple situations. One was from my dad. When it happened, I didn’t say anything. I completely agree! We need to talk about it and the lasting trauma. No matter how over it we feel. Love you Mona!

@dompiece8509 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability! You definitely blessed people with that one! I appreciate you sharing your truth

@Frija_the_goddess 2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU for addressing molestation. I try to open ppl eyes about it almost every day because it's a serious thing!!! I am the same way about my kids

@Imanifaith93 2 жыл бұрын

I admire your wisdom and open mindedness. Very real and not ignorant or superficial the way that society is today.

@09swebb 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the openness. Most informative conversation about the Preferences on the BBW! 😌😂❤️

@Gossamer98 2 жыл бұрын

My mother never let me spend the night out growing up ‼️I didn’t get it then, but I understand completely now and I’m praying for everyone that had to deal with unfortunate circumstances 🥺

@MIracal09 2 жыл бұрын

This authenticity is everything! I’m here to see where Mona goes, she’s a star!

@OriginallyStupid 2 жыл бұрын

Wow , I’m really happy you chose to get a little personal ✨💕💕definitely can relate.. My child doesn’t stay anywhere

@ZodiKeesh Жыл бұрын

You can’t let mixed age group kids play together out of your direct eyesight either I never hear that talked about but it’s anther pain point.

@berniceg2632 2 жыл бұрын

You are hilarious… on a serious note I appreciate your candor and transparency these conversations are a reality and need to be had more often.

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and for the kind words!

@dimelo30 2 жыл бұрын

It’s the chunky average guy talking about mya being average 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

@RobandSijay 2 жыл бұрын

lol at him being "average" lol

@brandy9892 2 жыл бұрын

He’s busted

@EverydayGworl 2 жыл бұрын

I thoroughly appreciate your segment on molestation! Much love to you for that!

@unapologetic.byjuicyjai 2 жыл бұрын

“Older Boosie” 🤣🤣🤣 This is great content, Mona! Definitely tuned in ✅

@amalnubia4838 2 жыл бұрын

Mona, I congratulate you on your bravery and your honesty. It takes a big heart to put one's livelihood on the line to talk about something dark. I know exactly what you've been through because I was that child too. Plus you congratulating yourself on doing well talking about dark shit is why I'm such a big fan of yours 😂.

@tanyakborden331 2 жыл бұрын

Yasssss another awesome 1🎬 Good morning Mona🤩 #dontcallmeewhitegirl for President 👸🏽💐👍🏽

@sevinspencer3876 2 жыл бұрын

I was a victim of being molested listening to you speak help encourage me in so many ways and I just want to say God bless on all of your success

@louisianacookingwithkay 2 жыл бұрын

When I was 14 I almost could have been molested. My father and uncle's best friend touch my behind when I was 14. Shiddd yhank God I had a father in my life. I told the family he was the only one in the family that believed me. My grandmother was mad because she's a uppity upper class black older woman and she's one of those ppl that think about bringing shame on the family. She's big on her image in the family's image. Cuz she damn near raised this man from a little boy and when this happened he was in his late 30s. He was still a part of the family then. So like I said my grandmother she didn't believe me. She was mad (AT ME🤯) my father literally went off on his mother, and I believe that was the first time he ever talked back to his mother. That was never his character that was my uncle who used to talk back even in his 30s and 40s. he will go to my grandmother now my grandfather and bully her out of money. Anyway that's not the point though. My father was like that's why things like this happen to children, this is why kids don't tell because ppl don't believe them. My father took care of it. I don't know what happened. I don't know what was said. But get this my grandmother still talks to him on the phone, still loves him, and is still close with him BOOM!!💥💥 Now he's suffering for it he's having seizures and got all kind of health problems. So I can relate with you Ramona. We made it though. We both have a son and a daughter, and we're doing well for ourselves. We are survivors. 💪🏾💙💙👏🏾👏🏾

@milonkturner6624 11 ай бұрын

I love when you have the little ones on the pod she is soooo beautiful 😍 genuinely love u and the show Mona ♥️

@thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223 2 жыл бұрын

As an Chemotherapy patient I totally understand where Virgil was coming from wit his secrecy & not unraveling it to the world. I have certain family & fickle friends who are insensitive to my weight & my lifepath of battling cancer cells, I go to get my chemo next Saturday matter fact & I don't even tell many people about my immune illness anymore because they judge judge judge instead of understanding & love love love. Plus I've been molested by own sister at an young age so I know how that feels too!! Thanks for bein' you Don't Call Me Whitegirl, KZfaq suggested this to me I'm glad I chose to give your podcast my time.

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and we are wishing you all the best! Thanks for watching!

@TruBeauty 2 жыл бұрын

BTW, I love your platform and Phelps too... All the shows that I've caught have been amazing. Keep doing your thing

@kordylegibson9431 2 жыл бұрын

This has became my favorite podcast and I’m trying to start one and this giving me inspiration

@dawrightleo13 2 жыл бұрын

I love this woman...she gon keep it 100000 no matter what

@YinYangTsang 2 жыл бұрын

I’m sending my daughter to boarding school in two years. She’s excited ☺️. It’s a wonderful option. And thank you for your honesty on motherhood. Like…🤯

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing!

@Username7110blu 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. Smfh

@atiamadiha1079 Жыл бұрын

@@Username7110bluThey be messing them kids life up Mona was just playing b!tches be delusional I feel you that was my exact thoughts SMFH

@JessicaSoto-nu8wq 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you what you said about being ok to tell your experience not taking away from anyone else’s well said

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@laosamoa7547 2 жыл бұрын

Mona!! Love the show!! Girllllllll big ups to you Many more blessing and many more shows I can’t wait to call live next show cuz I got a question and I’m so confuseddddd! If I know one thing from this show tonight you gon have the right answersssssss

@MzBRii913 2 жыл бұрын

You are dope and you relate because you remind of us regular girls! Keep shining love!!

@argh_u_mad 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome episode! I loved your clarity on molestation, thoroughly appreciated this entire episode. Your jokes are hilarious too! ☺️

@chantalregis2014 2 жыл бұрын

The more I listen to you the more I love your platform ❤️

@karina7944 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story ✊🏼

@martelvandyke5446 2 жыл бұрын

That last story at the end 🤣🤣🤣 oh my gosh. Mannnnn that's gone be with me forever.

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

😂 Thanks for watching!

@promisekimberly631 11 ай бұрын

Lmao i love Mona she had me screaming at the end of this interview 😂😂😂😂 girl not the shirt pulled over his head like a wrestler omggg😂😂😂

@fineadelphia 2 жыл бұрын

Yes we are Damona! Virgo women are great people! I love you

@Unseriousblkgirl 2 жыл бұрын

The issue is that (Colorist) people don’t know the actual meaning of preference because their preferences really be requirements.

@GigiM2014 2 жыл бұрын

That part. Having an attraction to tall slim men is a preference. When you’re always seeking out light skin women that’s colorism. Only dating white or other is a fetish. They blur the lines to fit their narrative smh.

@TayaSimmons 2 жыл бұрын

He said he particular. look at his aazz. The nerve. Tight ass coat belly hanging over his sweats. Cut it out.

@louisianacookingwithkay 2 жыл бұрын

36:36 🎯🎯 I'm with Ramona on this one. Mya is gorgeous and she is fine as hell now. She's independent, she's on her shit, she has a record label, and she's just doing the damn thang.

@kyk5400 2 жыл бұрын

With no surgeries or publicity stunts and scandals! 😭

@stephanie3978 2 жыл бұрын

@@kyk5400 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@YinYangTsang 2 жыл бұрын

The energy is almost perfect….hoping for one heavy tweak to the roster! 🤞🏾

@baddielaptop2714 2 жыл бұрын

Mona never stop, you're so amazing you instantly can make my day turn around. God has such a plan for you. The real dont always win but the smart do, and you both!

@LaFemmeNiaB Жыл бұрын

I swear 🤬 I must have rewind the episode to 51 mins. Almost 10 times. The sign language so I can turn my back on him has me crying laughing 😃 like it's the 1st time I heard it each time I rewind it. I ❤️❤️❤️❤️ this episode. Love you mama...I listen to you everyday. God bless. You deserve it all.

@raset7318 2 жыл бұрын

This was a beautiful show great discussion great awareness

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@louisianacookingwithkay 2 жыл бұрын

My mother-in-law was a cancer survivor. 💪🏾💪🏾🎗️🎗️ (They need a pink ribbon on here for cancer) She survived it the first time, but not the second time then she started having strokes. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I'm just grateful my daughter do remember her grandmother and how good she was to her.

@laamajon 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way Mona includes so much detail “T shirt over his head like a wrestler” lmfaooooooo

@brinarobinson7237 2 жыл бұрын

I'm obsessed with this woman and her podcast!!

@EBEEZYCL 2 жыл бұрын

I just found your podcast. Please keep being honest. Love it. 🔥

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@askalauna 2 жыл бұрын

The story about buddy being sad because his thang aint work with you spread eagle made me spit out my drink Mona😆

@realitea4898 2 жыл бұрын

“ When i don’t feel like arguin with that NiGGA imma just turn my FUCCIN back “ I’m weak asf 😂😂😂😂

@jay_hovita 2 жыл бұрын

Each week it gets better and better 😂😂😂😂 much success

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

😂 Thanks for watching!

@kyaraaquino1292 2 жыл бұрын

girl being a momma is hard, i ain’t even give birth but i raise my brother and sister, shout out to the mommas and big sisters that taking care of the babies !

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing!

@lovexoxo251 2 жыл бұрын

My parents never let me spend the night anywhere. I was pissed but my mom told me when I was an adult that she was sexually assaulted over her friends house. I wish she would have just told me why instead of always saying no, I thought she was being mean and I would cry and feel so left out as a child

@nydellnalls1494 2 жыл бұрын

This was real solid 💪🏾 Real Aquarius shit. You changing the game

@keelafayette5895 2 жыл бұрын

The guys just need a lil bit of light, not as much as yours but some type of light their part of conversation. Love the show 🥰

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Noted! Thanks for watching!

@JustNinaJustLiving Жыл бұрын

Awww us virgos love you too boo!!! Shout out to your daughter happy belated sweetheart!!! ♍️🖤🎂

@PhreshKartel2 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Mona! Love the show!!! I had to tune in on KZfaq cause on the apple podcast it’s hard to hear the guys!

@cleobadashian8029 2 жыл бұрын

when she said phelps kicked the dog down the stairs! 😂😂😂

@ladylondon13 2 жыл бұрын

lol hey amina ! haha this is adorable. im pullin up in a few weeks :)

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Can't wait to have you! Thanks for watching!

@naturalbeauty637 Жыл бұрын

I agree w/ Mona. Child predators position themselves around children and gain the trust of their parents in order to gain access. Parents need to be aware of this.

@fortherecordpodcastwdom.fo6404 2 жыл бұрын

Ya hair looks great Mona 😍

@cupofchi_ 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, s/o to your Virgo daughter ♍️. We are awesome fr

@tamiarodriguez3730 2 жыл бұрын

Daughter is so beautiful! God bless her

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind words!

@lizcooper1908 2 жыл бұрын

Way a minute. He bigger than both of them at the table. Lmaoooo. He right I hope those women run. Super judgmental.

@leahalireactz218 2 жыл бұрын

I love this girl soooo much, Mona you are so relatable g. Like real shit you my fav.

@TayaSimmons 2 жыл бұрын

Love YOu Monaaaaa . Praying for all your success to multiply. In Sha Allah

@iamt_alan Жыл бұрын

The DM got me HOLLERING

@giving7389 2 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate this

@CT-hz6mz 2 жыл бұрын

This is the best episode 🤠❤‍🔥

@youngj00 2 жыл бұрын

“My butthole looks nothing like it used to.” LMAO!

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@reginahall7998 2 жыл бұрын

First time here ! I love this show ❤️🤞

@breakbeatmedia 2 жыл бұрын

Welcome! Thanks for watching!

@RichChloe 2 жыл бұрын

Very good topics.

@alaysiaross3027 2 жыл бұрын

i really don't like podcasts an she the first person I'll ever watch 😭‼️ I love her fr, she we got the same personality. it's a cancer & aquarius thing.

@asialoveee04 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely agreed wit Mona about spending the night out. My child/children not spending the night out. I just can’t and won’t do it… Also I dated a big buy.. he spoiled me.. however I constantly saw sh*t stains in his briefs. I told him I saw it. I jus can’t do it. I’m big on smells and cleanliness. PSA (Wash your ass thoroughly!)

@Raeology95 2 жыл бұрын

its always the big girls who font like big girls.... SIR YOU ARE A BIG GIRL. and there are big women who eat healthy but they are not going to be super small

@preciousmahogany516 2 жыл бұрын

Good show

@louisianacookingwithkay 2 жыл бұрын

4:17 You do get the turnaround the reward is been going to college. that's what makes you proud that's the turnaround.👨🏾‍🎓👩🏻‍🎓👏🏾👏🏾 You know that would be the proudest moment of your life girl stop playing LOL 😂😭😭

@RobandSijay 2 жыл бұрын

this dude got a gut and talking about he into fitness... man work on yourself first

@ashantej7484 2 жыл бұрын

Aint nothing but a pinky promise 🤣🤣🤣🤣Dic Lips jokes on him 🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️

@Homentertainement2 2 жыл бұрын

Most epic collab will be linking up with Theo Avon. Yaw personalities are super creative, and uniquely funny and raw that would be dope! I’m telling you I just threw the oop!