Dealing with Anxiety at this time.

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Clarity for UPSC by Dr.Shivin

Clarity for UPSC by Dr.Shivin

Ай бұрын

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@ClarityforUPSCbyDr.Shivin
@ClarityforUPSCbyDr.Shivin Ай бұрын
Things do go wrong. I know this was an important video. My mic settings were wrong. My phone rang. But we have to get past this.
@Didyouknow786-x8m
@Didyouknow786-x8m Ай бұрын
Hi sir.. I am a female student from uttrakhand 5 years back i started my journey i have given 5 attemptsand always rejected by 2 3 exams ..becoming ias officer was my childhood dream...i was very clear so after grad i started preparing now i have came a long way...sir i am really depressed now...i really need help what should i do..now i have no where to go sir....in self doubts i was always a outgoing and brilliant student but now i am.really depressed...plz help me sir i am the only child of my parents ..
@Vickie2k24
@Vickie2k24 Ай бұрын
Mam plan B pe work kr skte hn aap ... sorry for the situation ​@@Didyouknow786-x8m
@aashnasharma1367
@aashnasharma1367 Ай бұрын
​@@Didyouknow786-x8m stay strong
@mahimajain2496
@mahimajain2496 Ай бұрын
​@@Didyouknow786-x8m hey, I really suggest you to take a break or some time out for yourself. It's okay to feel this way, but I hope you know you're strong and can withstand whatever comes. Please take care of yourself, and even if it sucks right now, it will get better.
@anonymousss755
@anonymousss755 Ай бұрын
​@@Didyouknow786-x8myou are warrior sister
@rashmisingh5203
@rashmisingh5203 Ай бұрын
I don't know if I am going to make it or not but one thing I know that this attempt has been about my improvement, my efforts and my hard work. I am proud of myself whether I make it or not. I am committed to giving it one more chance as I have immensely improved. Thank you Sir for your support and guidance.
@Pooja._thota
@Pooja._thota Ай бұрын
I'm writing it down just to tell myself "I'm proud of you" as I haven't heard from anyone....I was mentally exhausted with people's opinions and my parent's criticism. Despite all of this I still remember the sleepless nights,countless revision, scheduling,tears, trying to be motivated all the time.This was my third attempt & i want to remember myself that I worked hard till the 16th morning,i fought for very last minute but still due to silly mistakes I did wrong in some questions I'm bit disappointed for not clearing this time but I know next year I'm gonna see my name in the list I'm very very much confident But I was anxious about my parents reaction ...the whole world is trying to separate me from my dream in every way possible....my only concern is that I wasn't able to stay strong in all the situations , mentally exhausted, unable to concentrate,and felt like choking
@HarshitaRathore-il7dr
@HarshitaRathore-il7dr Ай бұрын
I am with you ❤
@DEEPIKAKUSHWAHA-hb1xo
@DEEPIKAKUSHWAHA-hb1xo Ай бұрын
We are with you
@A_human_onplanet
@A_human_onplanet Ай бұрын
It happens mam but I wish you clear this prelims inspite of those silly mistakes you made
@exoticindiaa
@exoticindiaa Ай бұрын
You would feel much more relaxed if you have a job right now. Trust me, clear some other exam in case you dont pass this year’s Prelims
@Beinghumane1
@Beinghumane1 Ай бұрын
Your situation is exactly same as mine, I thought this 3rd attempt was my last as I've done enough hardwork but I've done some silly mistakes due to lack of revision at last moment for some reasons
@shrutiagarwal3505
@shrutiagarwal3505 Ай бұрын
Shivin, you are a gem! You dont know what this video means to us💎
@rajneesh0211
@rajneesh0211 Ай бұрын
Thank you for always making me calm in all these uneasy situations ❤
@thatbrowngirl.
@thatbrowngirl. Ай бұрын
Gratitude Gratitude Gratitude! 🌻💜 Doc, I'm on the borderline, I don't know what the result is going to be, but yes I know I've worked extremely hard for the past year and I'm ready to face whatever comes my way. Thank you for being there.
@anusha5883
@anusha5883 Ай бұрын
Same my situation also
@Ank.-og2cw
@Ank.-og2cw Ай бұрын
Same my situation
@saurabhpatel3022
@saurabhpatel3022 Ай бұрын
​@@Ank.-og2cwkya hota h borderline ab toh ye bi smjh nhi aa rha
@S.Saharawat
@S.Saharawat Ай бұрын
Same here 😊
@artiparjapat9806
@artiparjapat9806 Ай бұрын
Kitnà score aa rha h
@rashmisingh5203
@rashmisingh5203 Ай бұрын
This moment is filled with so much anxiety, feels like my body is shaking.
@user-dy4wo8xn2h
@user-dy4wo8xn2h Ай бұрын
Thank you so much❤. Whatever the result may be, at least there’s someone who is standing with us. Means a lot. Tysm
@manavchaudhary4672
@manavchaudhary4672 Ай бұрын
You are humanising this space in ways I cannot put in words. Thanks for being there sir. Only huge, heartfelt gratitude to you ❤️
@ayushmishra8083
@ayushmishra8083 Ай бұрын
You've somehow made me come to peace with the fact called "life" . I am at peace with the fact that there will be a desire to change a mistake , or be in control of the tide , but that's the fact to live and just be through it. And it feels like a vacation ! Thanks for the empathy buddy❤ ! Thanks for just being there !❤
@Akki575
@Akki575 Ай бұрын
Thank you Shivin !! You are such a great persona . Atleast someone who understands us the way we want to be understood! Your efforts are to be appreciated! I am on borderline. But I am proud how I worked this year with the commitment from last 4-5 months wasn't even taking break on sundays . You correctly said uncertainty always will be there . But this process makes us tougher and tougher. More power to you ❤
@Clarityofconcepts
@Clarityofconcepts Ай бұрын
I’m really scared for this prelims result. Uncertain part is my family forcing me for marriage. It’s like either clear a govt exam or marry a govt job guy. I’m terribly stuck. In marriage it’s been 6 guys who kept rejecting me for looks and all these are IAS/Ips officers asking for 20cr dowry. Yes it’s true. People from Up must be aware of it. Shivin sir you are so considerate. Please help me to find a path. I’m the object of everyone’s taunts and frustration. I’m trying my best to ignore but it’s hard. I pray often. My self worth is almost zero. My parents are extremely successful so I have a high pressure to perform. I want to appear again but life’s so hazy.
@anonymousss755
@anonymousss755 Ай бұрын
You are very brave seriously it's not easy to accept such things and still fighting you are true warrior
@loserang2877
@loserang2877 Ай бұрын
20 cr😮
@vimaladhithan1745
@vimaladhithan1745 Ай бұрын
UPSC exam expects ton of hardwork from aspirants but at the end the results may or may not be positive but ultimately we should try to live our life happily with other opportunities that we don’t look at it now All best for good things to happen 😊
@Clarityofconcepts
@Clarityofconcepts Ай бұрын
@@anonymousss755 thank you 😁
@Clarityofconcepts
@Clarityofconcepts Ай бұрын
@@vimaladhithan1745 true
@drstrange7835
@drstrange7835 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Sir. I used to prepare along with my brother back in 2018, He used to inspire me for this exam as he was also preparing and definitely going to make it but I always had a secure career like you so I did not pay much attention then unfortunately I lost him. I was shattered. Always depressed, anxious and on therapy as well. From the last few months I have started preparing again and gave my attempt. I don't know what is going to happen. Anxiety is prevailing. I am also not completely mains ready. I miss him so much But whenever I watch your videos, listen to your voice, I feel like he is with me, guiding me, constantly pushing me to work more hard every single minute. It's my brother's birthday in next few days and I don't know if I will be in the list this time or not but I will surely make him proud. Wherever he is, watching me pushing my limits, I will surely make this happen. Thank you for your valuable guidance Sir. You are a gem of a person. May god bring all the happiness, health and more success in the future for you.
@Justhuman5563
@Justhuman5563 Ай бұрын
What happened to your bro ? 😢..sorry for the loss
@karamveersingh2217
@karamveersingh2217 Ай бұрын
Being an academically bright child since school and college, I always felt like I could clear any exam, but my upsc journey had other plans. The biggest mistake I made was giving a non serious attempt in 2021, which took away my self esteem and all the enthusiasm which the first attempt brings. I scored 61. Then I put my head down and prepared for 2022. But, I missed Pre 22 by a whisker. It shattered me. 5-6 months I just procrastinated, I lost my vision. Under prepared, I missed Pre 23 cutoff by 15 marks. Now my self confidence was buried under the ground. I compared by current self with my younger self, the little boy who topped school exams and whose teachers and parents had high hopes from him. I was not even half of what I used to be. All I could see were my weaknesses, and my mental health was absolutely destroyed. Familiarity with upsc prep(comfort zone) and family support enabled me to give another attempt. I really really studied hard, honestly I felt horrible because my mental health was no longer a friend, everyday getting up was a struggle, the joy and enthusiasm had escaped my life. But somehow I kept going and I felt reasonably confident one day before Pre 24, and the reason was my competence. Now, according to answer keys my score is 80.67, in with a meagre chance, I am very anxious. Not because I won't be able to do anything else in life, but because I have lost belief in myself, the great gift I earlier had. The last 10 days, I have somehow focused most of my energy on improving my mental health, which is now my priority over any career prospect.
@himanshubhati7643
@himanshubhati7643 Ай бұрын
Bro just relax.. if you have scored 80 ,it means you have sufficient knowledge and you might miss cutoff because here guesswork helps you to get that edge( i scored 109.09 in 2023, 72 in 2022, 80 in 2021 and this time hovering around 95.) work on making right guess, take risk(fortune favours the brave) only if you want to do this otherwise there are ample of opportunities to look for. Every individual is unique ,you might perform well at something else. Sorry for giving unasked advice but i could not hold myself when i read something relatable
@divyaanamik
@divyaanamik Ай бұрын
I am glad to see a person talk so empathetically about failures in competitive exams. Thank you, Shivin.
@vaishalisingh-ik4cd
@vaishalisingh-ik4cd Ай бұрын
Not opening telegram is the best advice! I was going paranoid about reading those comments under your post on the channel. I will start with not looking at my phone till evening otherwise I get tempted to open all the stress inducing apps. Hopefully, I slowly I can manage this paranoia until the results. A billion times thank you for the hand holding support you have given sir at every step of this exam and otherwise.
@rishikagupta6282
@rishikagupta6282 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Sir for your selfless support ❤
@Wtfomen06
@Wtfomen06 Ай бұрын
I randomly came across one of the videos of Shivin sir, talking about how he went through a bad break-up and loss of a loved one before 2022 prelims. I've downloaded that video in my phone and I have watched it like 1000 times by now only to realise that I'm not the only one with problems. I've dealt with depression in a very young age but i bounced back and now I'm dealing with stage 4 cancer of one of my parents. It is hard and we know the ultimate outcome of it but I feel the depression I had earlier prepared me for this. If I had not got diagnosed with clinical depression that time I wouldn't have been prepared for this in a million lifetimes. it's hard but it's worth it, I'm a gen z so I just take it as my character development! It's my first attempt and I have a chance of clearing this exam but even if I couldn't I'd bounce back because as Elle Woods said in Legally Blonde movie, "Like it's hard?" . Anyways thank you so much shivin sir for existing, I love you so much. I've followed you from your anonymous aspirant journey to now, every achievement and criticism of yours feels personal. The day I crack this exam it'd be because of you even my parents know that.
@Clarityofconcepts
@Clarityofconcepts Ай бұрын
Take care buddy.
@Dhanshree80
@Dhanshree80 Ай бұрын
You are strong,We are with u I can understand your feeling,I also went through the same process
@anonymousss755
@anonymousss755 Ай бұрын
Stay strong bhai... Sending lots of love to you
@rupalbhardwaj4157
@rupalbhardwaj4157 Ай бұрын
You are an inspiration! Hold your head high.
@FPL_Sassy
@FPL_Sassy Ай бұрын
Can you give the link of the above said video?
@kshamasharma4431
@kshamasharma4431 Ай бұрын
This is my last attempt.i missed prelims last year because of csat.this time i am clearing csat but gs is on borderline..i worked so hard this time made so many sacrifices. I didn't give time to my one year old baby...i did spend my days locking my self in room. Even he was crying outside i didn't not open the door. I don't know why i was so harsh because of one exam.. am totally shattered now..jb start kiya tha jor shor se pta ni tha ki upsc itna uncertain hai..apko sunne ke bad ansu rok payi hu...i promise that i will travel now i will stay strong and give time to my health and to my family .
@priyadarshini.t217
@priyadarshini.t217 Ай бұрын
I'm on the borderline. But, I'm proud of myself for the efforts I've made to reach this stage. You're a gem. We all love you ! Thanks for the positive words. ♥️🙏
@Prithm7
@Prithm7 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir for always being with us. You are a true supporter❤.
@DOLLY-pj8nd
@DOLLY-pj8nd Ай бұрын
Happy doctor's day , u are working so good for mental health of the aspirants
@versavibesp
@versavibesp Ай бұрын
Thanks . Shivin . It helped. You know the same thing but you wait for someone else to tell that what you feel is okay. That's the better part in your video. So thoughtful of you making such videos.
@DAEC-Khadarbasha
@DAEC-Khadarbasha Ай бұрын
Thanking you sir, For making calm and staying confident about our future.
@nisharamesh2500
@nisharamesh2500 Ай бұрын
My birthday is within 2 days and this was my 1st attempt, i know I've given my best and i also got to know about my mistakes too! Whatever the results might be, I'm ready to overcome my mistakes in the further attempts. I'm accountable to only people who understands me for truly who i am and going to stay humble and grounded. Thank you shivin sir ❤
@SagarBhimraoSurwade
@SagarBhimraoSurwade Ай бұрын
Thanks Shivin for always being with US, God Bless You
@diljotkaur8845
@diljotkaur8845 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir for everything I know i can't make it this year & i know the reasons I'll surely improve myself this year & looking forward to prepare under your supervision. Hopefully I'll be done with this next year ❤
@rajeshwarik3818
@rajeshwarik3818 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Shivin sir for being there for us ! So grateful to have found ur channel. Whether ur prelims revision and monthly magazine videos or mental health support videos like this one, every bit has been of great help in this journey🙏✨
@prakritikhurana
@prakritikhurana Ай бұрын
Hello sir. This is my last attempt and chances of clearing are very bleak but thankfully I have a job of public sector Bank in my hand. I don't like my job, but until I get something I like, this seems to be a great earning option. I will write for state PCS for sure and will try to get a good rank there. I'm married for several years now, and I so proud that despite the responsibilities of home and my workplace, I persevered. Life has not been easy lately, but I believe, it is still beautiful. I would request you to please bring some women counselors on this channel as well so that women like me can relate and find solutions. PS: In this coaching industry of creating and selling fear, I see people like you very rarely to focus more on mental health and broader picture of life! Kudos! Thanks
@swetasoni4834
@swetasoni4834 Ай бұрын
You are really great!!
@Warrior0160
@Warrior0160 Ай бұрын
TYSM SIR FOR EVERYTHING♥🙏
@anushkakatiyar2192
@anushkakatiyar2192 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir for your support...you are a real coach....your insights helps me to be in present and have a attitude of ho jayega.....whatever I am supposed to do I'll do that at the moment without any speculation of future .....I'll face my fear and failure with a smile and calm mind. I'll accept the result whatever it will be and get ready for next year with ten times more confidence .....I'll fight harder. I promise.
@avinashverma9627
@avinashverma9627 Ай бұрын
The feeling of writing mains this year (in case i clear pre this time) is giving me as much scare as the feeling of not clearing prelims.😢😢😢
@ajaykumar-sp8ey
@ajaykumar-sp8ey Ай бұрын
Thanks Shivin. this video helps me to calm nerves. after prelims my mind has gone numb. believe me i have put my heart and mind into this exam. while in prelims i used to be focused and stoic ( calm and composed even though last 2 times i couldn't make into prelims). just after prelims is over, how much i try to be in control, my mind was caught with too much anxiety and fear though i dont admit .but its true. Iam US based software professional , left US in covid times. in the spur of moment i decided to take break from my profession and do something that satisfying. tbh i don't hate that job and simply i don't give any soul satisfaction other than financial freedom and growth. having been failed prelims twice after it, i don't know how to face family friends if i didn't get this. i know my mental health has to be a priority , but i say it many times to myself. that emotional baggage of failure is hard to take, how do i face my family whom i made financially weak as opposed to be comfortable if i continued my job. i somehow know, its just matter of 4-6 months to get family finance on track. how do i justify it now? how do i face friends. for some, i dont get it. why is he trying to leave everything behind when he is comfortable. its the question i face every time and sometimes from my family. for some, i am taking risk that worthy. tbh i didn't think much of them. now iam thinking how do i face them as utter failure forget about them, how do i get over . i will try not to think of it. but this failure is hard to get out of my mind. what is after this, i am able to make anything worthy later on, if i want to do anything i will be pulled down by my fear of failure. how do i get this man. i dont want to go to US on one hand and take job. on other hand it will help family financially and also give me a break. Sorry was thinking and typing at same time, maybe incomprehensible to some extent. i am just trying to let go
@heenahinu4435
@heenahinu4435 Ай бұрын
Thank you sooo much sir These words means alott for us ❤ Thanks for being with us
@moodchanger8888
@moodchanger8888 Ай бұрын
Thanku so much sir… for addressing the issues which are hardly talked about… helped a lot to deal with anxiety 😊
@Sushree_Subhalaxmi562
@Sushree_Subhalaxmi562 Ай бұрын
Whenever any uncertain idea comes to mind it's your motivation that once again lights up the soul! I just wish that u soon get through the examination and fulfill your wish to enter into IFS!😊 All my best wishes to you 😊!
@shivamkumartiwari1762
@shivamkumartiwari1762 Ай бұрын
Cleared the Prelims in my first attempt. Thank you Shivin Sir for your guidance.❤
@user-id3pg7ef3f
@user-id3pg7ef3f Ай бұрын
Grateful that you are our mentor 🙏🏻
@adityaanand1701
@adityaanand1701 Ай бұрын
Just want to meet you. I met with many people, I used to watch many people but you have something special in you. Your words is so much pleasant to my ears. Thank you Thank you and Thank you so much.
@ravindrapatidar5164
@ravindrapatidar5164 Ай бұрын
I'm getting anxious because my family members keep telling me I'll be writing the mains this year. Their overconfidence in me is putting a lot of pressure on me. What should I do?
@rishabhbansal2168
@rishabhbansal2168 Ай бұрын
I have tried my best come what May. I have given every possible effort this time to make sure that this is the bestest attempt of me clearing upsc prelims .But I am not sure of making it to the exam. But yes I have tried to make up my mind for following a backup plan . Let’s hope for the best . Thank you Shivjn Sir for my contact support . Looking forward to get trained from you for mains too . Signing off :)
@SonamSingh-iq1lh
@SonamSingh-iq1lh Ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir much needed video! Whatever will be the result will see together!
@aniketmahadkar1088
@aniketmahadkar1088 Ай бұрын
Thanks Sir for you support and initiative it is really very helpful. Also thanks for understanding our feelings and trying to help us out.
@aimenmasih9733
@aimenmasih9733 Ай бұрын
This time I really worked hard on improving a lot of knowledge gaps. For the whole year I kept my pace with time. I sacrificed on a lot of things to catch up with every single passing time. I don't know what will happen , but my heart knows the everyday efforts I had put, and even in my depressing times I kept my positive mindset.
@priyankachauhan3789
@priyankachauhan3789 Ай бұрын
I am on borderline and full of anxiety and again on a trip but couldn’t focus on relaxing because of immense anxiety. Let’s hope for the best for everyone. Thank you Dr Shivin .You’re a person aspirants can rely on during time of anxiety and pressure
@RavinaTANWAR-pv3cg
@RavinaTANWAR-pv3cg Ай бұрын
😊❤ thank you so much sir 🙏🙏🥺🥺
@jonsnow4411
@jonsnow4411 Ай бұрын
Jaldi se mains ka daily Target tracking and current affairs initiative chalu karo sir. Time Kam he. Only 80 days😅
@nush2407
@nush2407 Ай бұрын
You are an angel sent by god 😭❤️
@Spa398
@Spa398 Ай бұрын
Please make a video for parents because somehow we will deal with our failure and will rebuild ourselves but parents trust and support affect us more than we think...their reaction impact us the most even if we know they are wrong and unfortunately most of the parents dont know how to support and trust their children..we are already broken but when we see our parents not trusting us, it breaks our confidence to the core..please make a video for parents in detail.
@zebanaaz2759
@zebanaaz2759 Ай бұрын
I just want to write that I could have worked hard in the last one month before prelims I should have revised the basics rather than overthinking and chasing vague things I should have revised my own csat notes it's a shame that c sat was so easy I prepared for everything beforehand but not revising all of it in the last moment was the biggest mistake I made but definitely I learner a lesson to not lose my sh*t for anything coming ahead and moving steadily even at a slow pace BUT KEEP MOVING IS THE ONLY MANTRAAAA LASTLY I want to thank you sir for everything for every effort for all the support thank you Also there is something strange with your voice today are you taking care of yourself?? Pls stay healthy we all have to go a long way together ❤❤❤❤
@akashsachin1999
@akashsachin1999 Ай бұрын
Your video never fails to give goosebumps anytime and everytime sir...This is the exact feel which i got from the last video before my prelims... I was very anxious and curious about the results throughout the day...I would've opened telegram numerous times today...But thanks for patting my shoulder in a much needed moment sir♥️No matter what i had consistently worked hard for the past 6 months and gave my best as much as i can...I should appreciate myself for this irrespective of the results
@anjalithaokar2725
@anjalithaokar2725 Ай бұрын
Roll no check ,Sir it was my 4th attempt couldn't clear prelims continusly 4th time , now deciding to take break from this exam , it's mentally exhaustively to give continuously and failing continusly , There is no backup , nothing while other PPL are getting good job 😢 Reason of anxiety What next ,now parents also say you are stuck in this preparation , PPL who are not soo gret studies in school doing great jobs and satisfied ,,, Also no backup , coming from humanities history' major , no scope to get good job Otherside my twin brother who got job at age 22 and earning well working in great work culture My close frd job amazing job in state pcs , I m judging myself
@Ram-qv2nm
@Ram-qv2nm Ай бұрын
Dhak dhak ho rela h....
@upsc73347
@upsc73347 Ай бұрын
Sir your one line was a lifetime stress reliever which i personally believe ," UPSC is the not the end, bahut sari cheejein hai jo hme khushi deti hain". But to be honest i m surrounded by some personalities who pressurize me that upsc is the only thing jo mujhe standardize kr skta hai. I know my result is goin to be negative but i hav improved myself be it ghanto baithkr pdhna ho ,apni vocabs, thoughts etc. ar mujhe na apne upar bht proud feel hota hai , 9-5 job krke attempt krna bht bdi bt hai result chahe jo bhi ho.
@Emma-xt5ju
@Emma-xt5ju Ай бұрын
To the fellow aspirants ❤Irrespective of the result....we should be MAINS READY by Sep/Oct !!
@shivangi296
@shivangi296 Ай бұрын
I promise to not open telegram/reddit until the result is out. Reason for my anxiety : I’ll be honest - the first time I checked my marks, they were way below the super high cutoffs being predicted on 16th and I was very disappointed in myself. It was a sudden realisation that I would not make it this year. There were days of crying and coming to terms with the fact that I need to be mains ready by December. Tbh, those days of calmness knowing that I have a year to give my best shot now were better than the last few days. After a week, some of the answers that I got wrong started getting right by some answer-keys, the range of my marks started increasing and the predicted cutoffs started decreasing. That now puts me in the so called “border” if I get a few questions right. I still do not want to have high hopes, because even that score isn’t great, but predictions of lower cutoffs and discussions where people are assuring anyone in the 80s to start preparing are scary. This uncertainty is the cause of my anxiety right now. Still, I’m glad this would get over today and I’ll get to make a fresh start, whatever be the result.
@ayushkaverma5465
@ayushkaverma5465 Ай бұрын
Happy doctor's day to you sir😊 Thankyou so much for being our supporter always❤
@Sky-oy8zm
@Sky-oy8zm Ай бұрын
Thank you for motivation sir
@anjuyadav5259
@anjuyadav5259 Ай бұрын
Firstly , thanku shivin sir .. my second attempt ,l don't know ki es borderline pr hu hoga ya ni ... But maine work hard diya and apne efforts proud h daily targeting ke jariye use maine dekha bhi khud and aage results jo bhi , trust the process & yourself ..and . Hota h tabhi mains ki preparation karungi ni hota h tabhi mains prep rahegi .. jo bhi challenge ho face krne h and apne efforts and apne pr Trust rakhungi .... Thanks again shivin sir ,aapka sath es journey hamari strength ho .. ..
@mitv8096
@mitv8096 Ай бұрын
Hello shivin sir…. First of all thanks a lot for everything I know very I’m not going to clear this prelims. It is not easy thing for me bcz I did a lot of hard work, I read each every day above 13 hrs + , I never compromised even in my tough situations lot sacrifices, I’m heartfully telling I did very genuine hard for this prelims. I’m come from very poor educational background I completely from govt colleges bcz financially not well . My parents are not effort this preparation There is lot uncertainties. But bcz I learned lot things in preparation I Compare myself from last year to this time lot of drastic changes in my personality and preparation. Tqu sir
@Ruby-is8bo
@Ruby-is8bo Ай бұрын
Thank You for this.
@shivendrayadav6780
@shivendrayadav6780 Ай бұрын
There are just tears in my eyes,i dont make it public neither i share these thoughts .i dont know whether i will clear it or not but i am proud of that i worked hard for past 6 months. ..
@rakhidiwedi3487
@rakhidiwedi3487 Ай бұрын
Thanku so much sir🙏
@anonymousstar29
@anonymousstar29 Ай бұрын
Thank you shivin sir for making this video for us whenever I feel low and demotivated I listen your audio and you are like a bada bhai for us thank you so much
@Veronicadiaries7
@Veronicadiaries7 Ай бұрын
Thank you Sir 😌
@abhinavojha5546
@abhinavojha5546 Ай бұрын
Thank you shivn sir begin with us in whole journey❤️❤️❤️,it's really helpful, little bit nervous. But , I accept the reality, Whatever result...
@DeepakPaathshala
@DeepakPaathshala Ай бұрын
I started to believe in this line - Man ka ho toh achha, Agar na ho toh aur bhi achha ! hey... Shivin buddy ! I remember days when I used to see your videos you were practicising answer writing and share the same on youtube and also about your daily targets. Coincidentally, I also started giving the prelims from 2021, which was my first attempt. Sadly,since then I have not been cleared the prelims even for single time. I have the memory of the video, where the final results2022 were supposed to be out on the very next day, in which you shared the plan, if not UPSC, what you would be doing then- you chose Teaching, though you selected for the IRS. I dont know what am I going to do for rest of my life, but, for one thing I am sure we dont plan our life, God has planned something better than this. So, better we try to look for best available options. In the end, I wish you for your great Journey !
@kajolkushwaha4928
@kajolkushwaha4928 Ай бұрын
The tears in my eyes ,feeling like completely stuck . What happened next, don't know. But i am grateful for ur unconditional efforts. When I see u, feel like someone is behind me .Thanku u sir 🙏
@ynwa-jt9yz
@ynwa-jt9yz Ай бұрын
Sir mera iss baar prelims nahi clear hua hai lekin mujhe 2025 ka attempt dena hai par mera state pcs ka exam bhi hai aur aapka MMP program bhi shuru hora tha to sir abhi kis par focus zyada rakhu .
@muskmelon21
@muskmelon21 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir!
@devendrapujari6285
@devendrapujari6285 Ай бұрын
Thanku bhaiyaa❤❤❤❤❤
@nitimishra9183
@nitimishra9183 Ай бұрын
Hopeful.grateful.freightened.anxious !!
@farhakhan7751
@farhakhan7751 Ай бұрын
At this time family's support is very important but what i am getting is that upsc is not in your destiny explore other options. I used to live in hostel after pre i came back home for a break without any books so they are like if u are not studying here then we don't think u would be doing there and that's why u fail this break me more than the result or anything right now feeling very lonely having suicidal thoughts i just expect to be someone there atleast from my family only just to hear what am i feeling but no one wants to hear a loser and i realised i am alone
@shivampushkar6791
@shivampushkar6791 Ай бұрын
First of all, You should know one thing that you are not alone, there are many facing same, even worst....... In life we are accountable to ourselves first then family then anyone else....... If you have believe in yrself, and ready to work hard them have patience yr time will come..... Maximum they can do is that they will stop supporting you and it's okay...still Many have already done it .... And you also can... Just have believe in yrself, in yr hard work...when you will be successful same people will start talking good about you... Even if they don't, it shouldn't matter... Be proud of yrself.... And always remember.. You are not alone as our Sir always say🤞✨
@nisharamesh2500
@nisharamesh2500 Ай бұрын
Happy doctor's day shivin sir!
@NitishDiwakar
@NitishDiwakar Ай бұрын
Please post the schedule or mains ready till December.
@vishwasr5136
@vishwasr5136 Ай бұрын
Happy Doctor's day Saviour❤
@jayeshvashisht4227
@jayeshvashisht4227 Ай бұрын
This is my 5th attempt,previously due to many reasons and hard luck 2 times failed by( .66,1. something, 2023 csat 65,gs 92)could not clear pre,latter got out in final post from ssc cgl exam,past month failed hcs mains exam may be by some margin,gave intelligence buero acio exam qualified and wrote mains this year most probably would make (if everything goes good),this year cse scoring 96-100 and csat 105 but as decided i am completely exhausted from mental fatigue and have no emotions left (like i had 5 years ago),got to know that everything in life is uncertain and atlast destiny plays the most vital role.Maybe this would be my end of upsc journey if not qualified for pre this time.
@exoticindiaa
@exoticindiaa Ай бұрын
Bro settling in Foreign is a great Plan B. Buy a nice car over there and travel alot, which 99% of IAS can’t in their life. And guess what, Canadian/European/Australian passport is much more powerful than Indian Diplomatic passport
@vaishnabiswas6414
@vaishnabiswas6414 8 күн бұрын
Sir, I know you read almost all comments from your students and that's why I'm telling you this. I was also traumatized at the deaths of my fellow aspirants, and I have seen those shocking, unacceptable, deeply toxic communication on your channel. Sir, believe it or not I was worried for you. I know how sensitive you are, how deeply all this would affect you, and I was secretly praying ke aap comments nahi pade. I wholeheartedly support your decision of closing the channel, supporting the students and prioritising your mental health. You probably know this already but I'm telling you anyway. The sad, harsh truth is that iss duniya me shayad zyadatar log aise hi hain. Spewing hatred becomes so important that the actual tragedy is forgotten. Last year, a student died at my university due to ragging. Everyone rather than empathising used the incident as a weapon to attack all students of the university verbally and even physically. Girl students who were not responsible or involved whatsoever for the tragedy received rape and death threats online. The media sensationalised the death like a crime thriller. A few weeks later all was forgotten. No one cared. Only the family that lost their child remembered and continued to suffer. Unfortunately sir hatred, negativity, toxicity bhari padi hai dunia me. Just one request iske lie ap please andar se toot mat jana. I hope you know how many people respect and admire you, rely on you. I don't want to burden you sir but aap ek prakar ke Jeetu bhaiya ho humare lie. I hope you saw how many people were defending you against the trolls. I hope, for both your sake and ours, you can shake off the negativity and come back for us. It will be such a loss sir if ye inevitable toxicity ki wajah se aapke jaisa ek rare ray of hope gets extinguished. I really really hope this comment reaches you. :)
@kumaradarsh8604
@kumaradarsh8604 Ай бұрын
I can relate to the exact same thing like in my mind ya maan ki nai ho paega hmse, date agey baar jae, its my 1st pre 2024 and understood the essence of 1 Second in the exam. also I open telegram only if I want to check what you have uploaded or related to optional bs etna hie... mast admi hain aap...
@destinylbsna1808
@destinylbsna1808 Ай бұрын
Smjh nhi aa rha itna Darr toh 16th June ko bhi nhi lga
@pragyatomar9688
@pragyatomar9688 Ай бұрын
Thanks a lot Sir!
@PriyaAgnihotri-xx3dz
@PriyaAgnihotri-xx3dz Ай бұрын
Yes sir, dar to lag rha hai but ab jo bhi hoga dekh lenge maine apna best diya hai or aage bhi dungi chahe jis field mei jau,and thank you so much again air 🙏❤️, aap hamare sath hai to hum koi bhi situation deal ker sakte hai .and promise not to open telegram and Happy Doctor's Day sir
@geetabayyavarapu5067
@geetabayyavarapu5067 Ай бұрын
Being at the borderline is causing more stress..atleast last year I knew my attempt wasn't that good. But this time being this close to make it it's very difficult to handle.
@harshdeepsagar1
@harshdeepsagar1 Ай бұрын
have been working for 6 years. it was my 1st attempt, which i dedicate to my special someone (wouldn't have been possible to devote this much time to studies without them). so i will feel dejected only because I could not give them their due, and I would be deeply saddened if this happens. otherwise, I am happy and proud of my hard work.
@shanmugapriya4104
@shanmugapriya4104 Ай бұрын
Sir, if the scores we calculate through keys, is not even near the border, like 50 to 60 cutoff , even after 3 or more attempts is that we are not fit for the process??
@user-qe8mm2me3w
@user-qe8mm2me3w Ай бұрын
Thank you sir always concern about your students and I am last few and still now mentally disturbed and different of negative thought and uncertainty about life and family conditions everything disturbing me
@vyshnaviumadevi3528
@vyshnaviumadevi3528 Ай бұрын
Thank You😌
@arpithagovindaraju5535
@arpithagovindaraju5535 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir..!
@PalakSrivastava-bz8lz
@PalakSrivastava-bz8lz Ай бұрын
This was my second attempt. Missed clearing prelims by 2 marks in GS. I worked hard enough to clear this time to prove to myself that for me means>ends. I have to make sure that I am true to what I want to do. I have not analyzed my prelims score this year and would directly see the pdf now. I hope I remain sane after seeing it be it anything. I would look for an option B anyhow now. THANK YOU DR.SHIVIN ,YOU HAVE HELPED ME A LOT.
@uniquelifewithdeepika5558
@uniquelifewithdeepika5558 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir 🙏🙏
@harshininag5922
@harshininag5922 Ай бұрын
Sir please make a vidro for parents of aspirants talking about how they can support us. I sometimes struggle to explain this to my parents and your clarity of thought can be very helpful to both aspirants and parents.
@dhwanikajoshi2177
@dhwanikajoshi2177 Ай бұрын
This was my 2nd attempt but am not clearing Prelims this year too. Koi nai Next year dekh lenge. Let's see what happen. But Yes I can see positive changes in preparation than my first attempt and personality too. Thank you sir
@rachit428
@rachit428 Ай бұрын
i am writing this before prelims result . last year i have a feeling that i would fail due to my own non preparation of reasoning.and i failed in 2023 pre but this prelims i have done everything knowledge ,aptitude and most important confidence. this time i have a feeling that i am clearing prelims 2024 . lets see what god has decided for me hoping for the good
@lash120
@lash120 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir ❤
@saumyasurendra8329
@saumyasurendra8329 Ай бұрын
Uncertainty, I'm at peak of my uncertainty anxiety depression and fear.. dad's retired, marriage pressure, society's questions kya hua kyu hua ni ho ra to chodo kuch aur dekho,its all getting to me now but I'm fighting it and i will fight it,i have to remember that pressure and anxiety is a necessary part of this journey, uncertainty,a side by side things to study.. it'll always be that,i just have to learn to function with all of this emotions
@saumyapal7673
@saumyapal7673 Ай бұрын
I know I'll not Going to clear this year's prelims but definitely I'll work hard for 2025. Your guidance of target tracking helped me alot in this year's pre but I made few silly mistakes that was my fault. I'll start again with your guidance. Thank you so much sir 🙏
@automates2173
@automates2173 Ай бұрын
Sir Not able to find pyq preliminary questions in books like ncert Satish chandra and rs sharma and also Tamil Nadu ncert What to do?
@PalakTakhtani
@PalakTakhtani Ай бұрын
waheguruuu is on my sideeee.And nikal jayega !Yeppieeee..I am so readyyyyyy
@Ashwini1026
@Ashwini1026 Ай бұрын
Happy doctor's day sir 👨‍⚕️ Thank you sir💐
@amanparmar8533
@amanparmar8533 Ай бұрын
Thankyou thankyou thankyou so much god.....love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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