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DEALING WITH DISAPPOINTMENT | Motivation + Mindset Advice | Wu Wei Wisdom

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Dealing with disappointment - why your mindset matters! ~ Work one-to-one with David: www.wuweiwisdo...
☯️ EPISODE # 13 of our ‘Life Lessons’ teaching series
In this series Taoist monk and therapist, David James Lees, and wellbeing coach, Alexandra Lees, answer questions about YOUR life challenges and offer inspirational guidance and support to help you live in BALANCE, HARMONY and FLOW.
✅ IN THIS EPISODE:
Discover our practical insights and advice on how to deal with disappointment and manage your mindset so you can live a disappointment-free life.
In this episode we discuss:
~ What causes disappointment and is it normal or natural to experience disappointment?
~ How to handle your disappointed, upset and angry Inner Child.
~ The powerful difference between your ‘expectations’ and your ‘intention’.
~ Why taking self-responsibility and control of your mindset is vital when dealing with disappointment.
~ How to overcome and avoid disappointment in relationships and all aspects of life.
~ How to move on positively when bad things happen.
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We’ve also produced a full-length Wu Wei Wisdom MP3 TEACHING ALBUMS the Inner Child: ‘ONENESS ~ LOVING & HEALING THE INNER CHILD’ (album 4) Learn more here: www.wuweiwisdo... 🎧
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@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Did you enjoy this video ❓ Post your comments, questions & suggestions for future videos below - we’d LOVE to hear from you! ☯️ Want to work one-to-one with David? >> www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ ✅ OTHER VIDEOS YOU MAY ENJOY • The Highly Sensitive Person Explained: How to Survive and Thrive as an HSP ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rq-So7ul1KqapGQ.html • Be Happy Now! How to Avoid the Perfect Life Trap ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ar6Egcdymc7XqIU.html • You Are the Creator of Your Emotions NOT a Victim of Them ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jdB6mtaEmJynqHU.html • Letting Go of the Past: Childhood Trauma & Living In the Now ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m9WZjcipl6mdg30.html • How to Let Go of Old Hurt, Abuse, Injustice & Unfairness ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pJuffbemmZ7FfmQ.html • The Inner Child Explained: How to Love, Guide + Heal Your Inner Child ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eLNgn9CXp9KpYnk.html • Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency & Codependent Relationships ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gJefn7aLlt3dqmQ.html • Reparenting the Inner Child - PART 1 ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/idSUiteT0bzKYok.html PART 2 ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eL-Fq6SCvtbXe5s.html • Find Real Love: Inner Child, Mindset & Relationship Advice ➜ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8Vida-C19PGXX0.html ~~~ We’ve also produced a full-length Wu Wei Wisdom MP3 TEACHING ALBUM about the Inner Child: ‘ONENESS ~ LOVING & HEALING THE INNER CHILD’ (album 4). Learn more here: www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/ 🎧

@littlelizzie5092 4 жыл бұрын

After watching this Saturday, it’s been lurking about in my head, in the background. I’ve had to watch it again, This video is awesome. Having a little haha moment, on the 2 nd time of watching. Quite an eye opener talking about expectations. This , has Made me realise, actually. I am loyal. I am kind. I am super sensitive. So some of my red lights are because I expect others, to be loyal, and kind, therefore I Am hurt when they aren’t. So again, it’s re-parenting Little Lizzie. ♥️🙏🏼

@evian. 5 жыл бұрын

Beliefs are stored in subconscious and very often hidden from us. We say one thing and we do another and then we are baffled why life is not working for us. If you uncovered your core beliefs you can change them now, just as you are saying David, otherwise you will will be constantly wondering why you do what you do, if you get to that stage. I appreciate your teaching David and I not always agree with your form of delivery. Get easier on people because people are unconscious to their own beliefs.

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Evian, Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Why don’t you consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ David

@drmtokes 4 жыл бұрын

I've always agreed with trying to have conversations about expectations and agreements with others so that we understand each other. The hardest part for me has been parents who believed they "had the right" to shame and punish me to such an extreme that I consider abuse. My inner child says things like "its not worth trying to have those conversations with other people. Don't bother".

@WuWeiWisdom 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Michelle, Thanks for your comments. Relationships and conversations are a two-way street, you cannot maintain without the other sides participation. I would suggest you consider working on your own emotional reaction in these challenging parental situations because that is something you can affect and control. David

@drmtokes 4 жыл бұрын

David, I agree. This is another case of my inner child not wanting to accept my parents' unwillingness or inability to participate in these conversations.

@aprilsealy357 5 жыл бұрын

Yall are helping me think rationally and this is healing me. Thank you.

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hi April Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZfaq Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzfaq.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

@ravenstroke9115 5 жыл бұрын

Another amazing video by my favorite couple👍👍 you just don't know how I changed watching your videos😍

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hey thanks Raven! Great to have you as a #supersupporter :)

@paulwarren8832 5 жыл бұрын

25.19....you are the CREATOR of your emotions, you are not the VICTIM....should be on the curriculum for every school, form the basis of an interview question for every job and be an integral part of every relationship...

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Paul, I AGREE !! Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David

@Mushroom321- 4 жыл бұрын

I could watch ya"ll all day!! If I could just hug you because of how much you've helped me.. 😧😼

@joannehenton4610 3 жыл бұрын

A useful ‘go to’ thank you Alex and David you’re very generous 🙏💜

@tube1010ish 5 жыл бұрын

I would love to hear your take on what a healthy intimate relationship looks like and what's the point of this type of relationship?

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hi PD, Thanks for your suggestion for a future video, we certainly put it on the list. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David

@moniquezmuda3924 5 жыл бұрын

I guess I am in the striving mode too. Today is Easter and I expected to see my mom but she had other plans. It made me sad but why would I expect anything different? When a person shows you how they are believe them. A person can only give you what they have. But it's still sad.

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Monique, Thank you for sharing your story, I would ask you to meditate on why you would choose to create sadness when the person is giving you what they have? You may also be interested to look at some of the videos where we talk about 'CCJ '( comparing, criticising and being judgemental ) - we have one coming up next Sunday on this topic. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David

@StaphyJr 4 жыл бұрын

Intention comes from the Latin _in-_ "towards" and _tendere_ "stretch; tend" even the roots of this word show a growth mindset.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this - it is very helpful and interesting! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZfaq Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzfaq.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

@anitagiacone4789 4 жыл бұрын

Stand this thing about expectations to a point but if you are for example a project leader and you are being paid to meet various expectations for your job and money how are you supposed to deal with that if things don't happen in the way that you are intending to. Things like a pandemic of course people somewhat can understand although of course there are legal issues and things that impact vary greatly if certain expectations don't happen but even during non pandemic times if you don't have expectations for intentions how can you do with that

@littlelizzie5092 4 жыл бұрын

Great video, x x

@WuWeiWisdom 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Liz! 😀 ~ Alex + David x

@scbuddoldschool5313 2 ай бұрын

So I am in a 10 year relationship and my partner lies to me everyday. I love him but he just continues lying to be! It is a hard decision; I believe I deserve better.

@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын

Hi, Thank you for sharing. It's important to trust your Shen spirit and recognise your own worth. Honest communication is crucial in any relationship. Reflect on what truly aligns with your values and what steps will bring you peace and clarity. Join our community for more support: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Kind Regards, David

@hayleyneal6558 4 жыл бұрын

ADVISE PLEASE: if your parents are emotionally abusive, critical and negative and overprotective, wanting to know everything in your life and nozy, still control me at 41 shall i distant myself and get my core beliefs and theraphy, shall I tell them unless you speak to me with respect i will not have a relationship

@WuWeiWisdom 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Hayley, Thanks for your question (I'm replying to the first unedited version of your post). As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. From the information you have shared with me, the first Golden Thread Process question I would ask yourself is "Why do I choose to let my parents still control me at 41 years old?" I believe that when you understand your core thinking and belief that support that statement the way you handle your relationship with your parents will become much clearer. You may also find this video on setting boundaries helpful: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qNd5idV80KeVdGg.html If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZfaq Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzfaq.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ David

@Mushroom321- 4 жыл бұрын

"Ye ) = intention.. ☺

@WuWeiWisdom 4 жыл бұрын

'Yi' = intention :) x

@geepers100 3 жыл бұрын

"I choose to be disappointed..." Maybe it's better to say "I choose my THINKING which results in me feeling disappointed." (?)

@after16years 5 жыл бұрын

First of all, thank you for great videos. I’ve been learning so much from you. Here’s my question. Child abuse has become a big problem in Japan. I can’t understand why on earth would parents would hurt their child. How would you describe what might be going on in the minds of those parents?

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

Hi after16years, We are very pleased that you are enjoying our videos. Thank you for your question, I don't think there's a 'one size fits all' answer. I believe you would have to investigate each case on an individual basis and in my professional experience emotional education is always involved. Why don't you consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David

@after16years 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much Mr.David Ms.Alex. Have a wonderful rest of your week.

@WuWeiWisdom 5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome - have a great weekend!