It is crazy how many moments we actually miss in life because we are obsessing about how we look or how other people might perceive us. And then we think back and remember those moments that were perfect, but we were worrying about something really pointless that we can't even remember now...

I'm gonna take some time to write this. So. I'm almost 18, in a few months, and been following your channel for more than 3 years. I went through emotional ups and downs, finals stress and different mindsets and I changed a lot. Thank you. And I mean it. I hope you know what an amazing impact you have on other people's lives. You're like a bigger sister that keeps on guiding herself and others with her. I wish you all the best and all the growth you're looking for. I'm looking forward chilling up with the new Youtober series. Feel hugged and loved 🖤✨

I used to really struggle with this but the older I’ve got the more confident I have grown. Age definitely helps.

I really liked this sort of style for the daily brew. Speaking without a guideline and using personal experiences. This was such a good video! ☺️

You should do a daily brew about relationship tips (boyfriends, friendships, family, est.).

Thank you for sharing this beautiful daily brew☕️✨. I so relate to this topic as I’m autistic so I’ve learned by now to be confident and to get involved more in conversations and to do more things myself. Your the best💛🧡✨!

I can t explain you how much i love your calming intro!! 🤗👌💕

I don't think Kalyn's ever been more attractive than in this video. She is so free in her body and her expressions etc... Like you can tell that she's let a lot of her insecurities go. It's amazing

I've never related more to anything than the the "fat" comment and response. I'm currently 1 year into an ED recovery. When I was asked what helped me get through my mental illness and ed journey, your videos was one of my responses. Thank you for being you!

Please do a longer video or podcast on this!!!!! In 2018 I had such a confident year but in the last few months I’ve been feeling less so and would love some more on this topic as your videos always really help me! 💖

how do these videos always come when I need them most? This means everything, so beautifully said

I freaking love how authentic you are - the biggest change I've recently noticed is that you started cussing here and there, AND I'M HERE FOR IT, I love that you're opening up and feeling more secure about these little things!

Love that you make these videos. They are really helpful for me. Thank you so much. Love you Kalyn❤❤❤

Lovely content. It's your way to speak your mind that makes me or all of us here, believe that things WILL get better anyway.. Cz if you can deal with, so can we! Please do one coffee talk on how can we focus on our goals while still going through emotional wreck/ heartbreaks/ vulnerability.. Because time slips away anyway but we keep waiting for the moment when we'll feel okay and start over. So much love! ❤

I think the fact that you do tarot and look more into astrology is amazing when it comes to trying to understand phases because I’ve been looking into it to thanks to you and it helps me see ways in which I am feeling what I feel sometimes even more intensely than other times. A lot of the time it’s deep and it’s within us but understanding astrology helps us see external universal ways that affect the peaks and lows of what we feel.

This channel is a BLESSING! 💓💓 you bless us all Kalyn! You helped me become organized and helped me with depression and overall changing my life for the better. Every time people ask me how I came so far I always send them you’re channel! Seriously I wouldn’t be where I am if it wasn’t for you

I love when your videos get weird! So relatable because you’re not the only one who has thoughts like that. Thank you 💝

I feel your content is been super raw honest lately and that's why it's super engaging. I'm happy to see you feeling better with yourself. You transmit so much calm, we all need a bit. You are great at communicating your thoughts girl! Keep the good work

This is everything❤️❤️ I’m loving this months daily brews soo much

We all feel insecure about something, but we are all unique, wonderful and beautiful. We just need to accept our flaws, embrace our weaknesses and love ourselves as we are. Knowing that we are a work in progress :) perfectly imperfect ♡ I'm glad I found your channel :) sending love

The whole time watching this... my mind was blown. Because of all the similarities in myself. I also had journal entries of lists of the things I needed to fix or change. Now I'm entering into a different space where I'm just really ready to love myself and stop listening to that darker side of me that always wants to be better or be more and just accepting transformation is a long process and it never ends, but that doesn't mean there is something wrong with the way you are now ❤

“We’re just the Universe experiencing itself”👀👀👀 Definitely going to carry that thought with me today! I loved the off the cuff feel if this video, it felt like an organic conversation with you💛 I love all the content you share ... thanks for being you❤️

I think I prefer this kind relaxed video! Take those socks off, ditch the notes and it's ok if you forget anything! 💕

Do a hair care routine PLEASE and how to grow your hair

You don't even know how much I love waking up to your videos. Have a lovely day😀

I feel like you're the big sister I've always needed. Your videos mean so much to me, thank you thank you thank you

So candid! Absolutely bloody loved this! 💜 you take those reading socks off girl 🥰 the realer the better! X

Would love a longer version of this...glad that you are opening up more 🌻💕

your toothy smile reference totally hit home!!! my upper teeth are always exposed. I have this ridiculous toothy smile that made me incredibly self-conscious throughout high school. but when I first started dating my boyfriend one of the first things he said to me was that he loved my "never-ending" smile. we have been together for over 5 years now

thanks for being so transparent. needed this 🖤🖤

I love love love how you spoke about this topic!! cheers from Italy

Long time subscriber ❤️ u so inspirational it’s crazy. All love for u girly

This is EXACTLY how I've been feeling lately. Much needed

It was interesting to watch you film without your notes! I absolutely loved this video and can't wait to watch another one! Also, I've been thinking about the "persona" that I created for myself that always works, doesn't have free time, doesn't watch TV etc.. and then I thought... it's not human to be "perfect" all the time and do what we "should" do at all times... we are human beings, we mess up, we have quirks etc. And that's what makes us US! It's the same with our looks.. the image that media etc created of a perfect human isn't natural and it's virtually impossible to achieve. In conclusion, thank you for this video. It made më realize some things that I needed right now.

needed this right now, thank you 🧡

Yes, thanks again Kalyn! (: this was another helpful brew. I can relate to that one person that said that one thing that affected me. Also please don’t filter your tendency to say “at the end of the day” I actually really like that about you.

I know others might probably feel this too but I started dating 2 weeks ago after a relationship that left me deeply heartbroken. My boyfriend (was initially my friend) is so supportive and nice and he knows what I've been through but still embraced my scarred heart and he always reminds me he loves me and stuff but due to what I went through I don't quite believe it even tho I know he means it and he knows I feel insecure but he still loves me and Im just grateful for him. However im trying to do inner work as I want our relationship to be even better and I want to feel better about myself too because no matter what anyone says if you don't fix the way you think about yourself it's only gonna be a temporary reassurance

I absolutely love that you are so able to post videos of you without make-up, like when you're doing a routine video, when you go out for runs etc. It's really refreshing and it seems so normal to have you on camera looking super fresh with some colour in your cheeks etc. I don't really see any other youtubers doing this, although I get that it's becoming more common now with word spreading about self-love... but you've been doing it for as long as I've been following you which is years. It's one of things I really respect you for 💛

Hey! Could you please make a video on how to stay motivated even when you're feeling low? P.S. I love this video! You're amazing.

❤️🖤 I just love these daily brews so much

Favorite video yet! Thank you ♥️

Thank you for being so raw and real. 💜

My favorite video of yours so far! Currently going through the process of going to therapy and figuring my shit out, and I can't wait to come out on the other side

This was so good! Thank you kalyn!! I defenitly have internal and external insecuritys :( Its so not easy to work on them... But you are helping me with that. I Thank you for talking abot those important topics

dude, you just speaking like this and being authentically you is so refreshing. please do more dailys/dailies (what is the correct spelling 😂) like this ✨✨

Such an awesome video! Thank you so much for this!😍

*You SLAYED this talk. thank you.*

this Video literally. really. came at the exact time I totally totally needed it!

Your videos always help me so much!! ❤️❤️

Yes please for the podcast!

This made me tear up. I love this 🥺💕

I have my insecurities as well. Lately I have been working a lot on that as well. What really was a game changer for me was not feeling like I had to wipe all those insecurities out but rather having like a real talk with myself. Accepting that things are the way they are even if I decide not to accept that. Accepting that I am the way I am even if there are things about myself that I may not like. Acceptance really helped and I feel like it has become the basis for me to get even further with self love :)

This video is everything. Thank you for this!

It's crazy that you didn't like your smile at one point because I've always been slightly envious of it!!💕

My favourite one so far! (I prefer the longer ones)

This was a good video and very helpful to hear your truths. Thank you for showing your vulnerability.

I like when you get a little personal with these topics, as it can help us to relate even more. I've always struggled a lot with insecurity, though I did hit a point a few years back where suddenly certain things stopped mattering anymore. It's funny though, hearing now that you were struggling a lot last year, when you look back it seemed kind of apparent. I saw a lot of comments back then that people couldn't relate to your content anymore or that they weren't sure they liked the direction, but I think you just needed to work your way through some things. Your content this year has been a nice balance between some of your older stuff and a new, more content you.

Everybody's different,just think how boring the world would be with everyone looking the same, there's someone out there who loves your flaws and wishes they had certain things i.e your figure,curly hair etc just think positive 😀 puts you in the right mind set

This is probably one of your best videos. Keep creating! Hugs.💙

Loved this, thank you!!

you are glowing!!! Such a beautiful old soul to this young beautiful lady . Bliss

SUCH AN AMAZING INSPIRING VIDEO!!!!!! I LOVE YOU KALYN💛

loving & appreciating the NO sponsorship model: thank you kalyn 🐸

You're my inspiration and i love you♥️

Tip : if u think someone is pretty & it kind of lowers your confidence start by telling yourself “but I’m pretty too”. I feel like it would help with self confidence & will help you stop comparing yourself to others!

You upload just when I’m about to sleep!!!! And this is 22 minutes long. Tomorrow I have something coming up that I’m anxious about though so this is perfect.❤️ P.S. a small KZfaqr xx I love your videos.

Thank you for this video. Love from Portugal 🥰

Thank you for this video. Seriously

"Look. How. Happy. That. Bitch. Is."!!! 😂 We love happy bitches. May we be them, may we raise them

this was really needed. thank u so much babe! love from india p.s I really really really miss your amazing hairstyles and that coffee mug resting in your hand😊

Longer koze daily brew yaay!

I always go back to when I had braces, and my younger sister (5th grade) used to call me, “brace face, metal mouth, train tracks!” That didn’t get as under my skin as my mother, who laughed every time she did so. I’m almost 32 now, and THAT has stuck with me, even though those days were so long ago.

Love her a lotss♥♥♥

My biggest insecurity is my face, I'm super pale, I got bright red crazy easily, a lot of the time for no reason at all, I've got acne and I've got some wrinkles that are super prominent when I wear make up. I've not figured out how to get over it the same way I managed to get over my body insecurities, and it's hard, and honestly if there was surgery I could get to fix all of it and I could afford it, I probably would as sad as that is

This whole video 🙌🏾💛

Love this!! Also, instead of at the end of the day you can say after all...or just keep it, nobody is checking

Very inspiring video!!

Very well spoken!

Finally! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

One of my insecurities is that people look at me funny because I walk a bit differently even when I know that probably nobody really notices it...

aaaaaaaaaaaaaah you're so cute

Can you please do a koze daily brew on your points of confidence? I don't see enough people talking about stuff they like about themselves, and I think if there are more examples of that kind of self confidence, then maybe people might find it easier to think that way. Here's my attempt at sharing, since it feels unfair to ask you to share about yourself without opening up in turn: Some of my insecurities: - blemished skin - the 20-30 pounds I've gained in the past few years - the way I have a tendency to get controlling and rambly when I get excited or worked up about something, and I forget to listen to other people and be considerate because I'm too wrapped up in my own head - not sure if this counts as an insecurity, but I tend to be afraid to think well of myself, because a few times I let myself feel more confident and then by some coincidence I got torn down by an authority figure for something that was clearly important to them, but not a huge focus for me (one example being email etiquette in University, as I hadn't really needed to write emails regularly before then)...having little issues pointed out always helps me grow and improve, but I have a tendency to let one criticism validate all of my self doubt... Some things I like about myself: - my deep brown eyes - my cute little nose - my lips - my ability to be open and honest about my struggles - my willingness to change and grow even when it's uncomfortable

Apologising is not being insecure, it's being respectful and thinking about other peoples feelings. And I think it's important and for some people, it is difficult to say and there are a lot of people now try to put apologising=being insecure or not being a stronger you. But apologising also shows others we are strong because we admit we made something wrong and it might not be a big thing but just hurting another person or making them feel less is being wrong. I know this video has nothing to do with this but YOU just INSPIRE ME to write what I think =D And this is just my opinion

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Overcoming fear of failure/not letting it cripple you is a topic I’d love to see from your point of view❤️

⛔ Mindset really is everything 🔴⚫‼. In times of struggle, or just in life in general, we are faced with two choices: let life consume you, or consume your life. This may sound like an odd statement at first, so I will break it down for you in simpler terms. Imagine that you are on a tropical vacation holiday, and the weather just isn't going the way you planned on it going. Instead of being sunny and beautiful beach weather, it is raining the whole trip. While this may be a not so great situation, you have two choices: you can either stay in your hotel room and complain about the weather all day, or you can go the beach and explore what the place has to offer, despite the rain. After all, your family paid all this money to go away, and you took a whole flight to get here, right? 🦁👏🏾 From Paul 👊🏾💪🏾👍🏾

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Amazing💓💓

Love ❤️

i think for me, something that makes me hold tight to my insecurities and not let go of them is that, they’re kind of a security blanket in a way. in other words, by hating these things about me that i (or society) deem(s) as “imperfect”, then i can almost beat other people to the punch. if someone were to say to me “your stomach isn’t flat enough” (not that anyone would say that) i could tell them “oh i already know that”. i guess in a way, feeling insecure makes me feel like i can justify having my imperfections. like, yeah i’m imperfect, but i know i’m imperfect, i remind myself everyday that i’m imperfect. no one has to tell me bc i already tell myself. as if people would judge me for loving such a “gross, ugly” thing about myself, and if i loved it then i’d be delusional. does any of this make sense? idk. it’s definitely something i’m working on because i know that it’s flawed logic and it does more harm than good.

Thank for these video make feel more comfortable with me greetings from colombia

Is there any way you could do a topic about how to handle or deal with jealousy? Like jealously in a well-rounded way. So, if your feeling jealous in your relationship, or jealous of other etc. I would love to hear about your take on how to handle this. Jealously is something i deal with because of my insecurities.

love your videos...hello from Syria 💖

The last part of this video should be repeated 12k times

i’m not kidding.. i’m so insecure about women cuz the i grew up. I have soo much insecurities n that’s so shameful to admit. I feel helpless n hopeless about them

I also don't like my smile but other people always comment that I'm more looser and smile a lot when I make videos with my husband =D So everyone loves my smile more than me and smiling is great we should all do it more =) So now I accept it a bit better (still cringe when I'm editing dough =D But I leave it in

My question is. How came you out of you're depression and anxiety i am so intrest of you're video's from it

Rly enjoy ur videos every morning! One thing I will say is try and do 1 video where u don’t say “I think that” or “I feel like” it’s a little repetitive 😊

If we were all suppose to look the same and act the same way why don’t we? If we suppose to fit this mould, why do people fall in love everyday with people that don’t fit into it? Well, because that story being told to us is not true. Human kind prove everyday to ourselves that it is not the truth. Yet we believe that made up story because we are pack animals. We need a leader and then we follow that leader until we die. We think we need to, to survive. I believe I need make up because all my closest humans tells me I need to. And we have been told that we need to wear make up by another human ranked higher then us. And then it just goes like that all the way to the top. If we try to see that humans do fall in love despite the story we have been told about perfection on the outside aswell as inside, I think we can seperate ourselves as beings from our culture, traditions and thoughts produced by society. Beauty is just a ”manufactored” concept to generate money from our insecurities (that also are manufactored by the same group of people).That is what I think atleast. The best way to find your confidence is to accept yourself for all the things you consider good about yourself aswell as the things you concider to be flaws about yourself. When you do this you will be able to love yourself unconditional and have a solid foundation to build on. It is okay to be good at something and it is okay to be limited regarding other things. You don’t need to put value on traits and features just accept them for what they are and try to be kind to yourself and others around you.

let's get a little end of the month blooper with all the "at the end of the day" comments =]