Dealing with Mosque Anxiety & Worries About Going To A Mosque! REVERTS & WOMEN ESPECIALLY!

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I got asked a question about how to deal with masjid anxiety so in this video I give my tips for visiting the mosque starting with contacting them in advance to ask questions, particularly in regards to women's areas and jummah, this then leads to an introduction between yourself and the mosque.
Asking others to come with you to the mosque for the first time is a great idea if you are worried about going to the mosque and feel nervous.
I also talk about what to wear to the mosque for the first time so you feel comfortable.
I focus mainly on visiting UK mosques as this is where I live now but this will apply to mosques in many countries and these tips apply to Muslim women and revert Muslim women specifically.
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@logiic8835 2 жыл бұрын

To all revert brothers and sisters, do not be afraid, we will always welcome you with open hands 😊

@Muslim_Convert_Stories 2 жыл бұрын

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@shankhan-yg1tt 2 жыл бұрын

Especially if they're white as it lends Islam a lot of credibility, right?

@PoiroReilly 2 жыл бұрын

Assalamalaikum, I have my first visit tommorow. I'm really nervous. Thank you for your kind words. Puts me at ease my freind. Sukran

@bravemiguelde6584 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could find a revert wife free from culture

@logiic8835 2 жыл бұрын

@@shankhan-yg1tt No, we don't need credibility. Our religion is perfect as is, some unfortunately tarnish its reputation.

@user-sb8ob3yi4m 2 жыл бұрын

I am not officially muslim yet. Yesterday I went to the mosque for the second time with my muslim friend, and I was actually quite afraid to pray. My friend took me to the side of the line and I followed her. Mashallah it was actually easier than I thought. I didnt really know what to say, so I just made dua for my sister and family. May Allah swt make it easy for me to take the step and be honest with myself

@moramoon9517 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah guide you and guide us All. Did you revert? I hope things are easy for you 💜

@k-jenny Жыл бұрын

SUBHANALLAH Mày he ease the way for you, ALHAMDUILLAH. I’m happy for you, and may we praise ALLAHswt together and i with to see you In jannah INSHALLAH

@k-jenny Жыл бұрын

Wish*^ Alhamduillah

@success96954 5 ай бұрын

Welcome to Islam,sister. Reclaim your religion again. Remember you were a muslim once

@pzl3637 2 жыл бұрын

I Have low vision (legally blind) and went to Mosque for the first time. I was a little nervous on the way but as soon as I met the Sister I had spoken with on the phone, my anxiety disappeared. She was so welcoming and friendly and eager to show me around, introduce me to the Imam and his wife, a few other brothers and sisters and even had a welcome kit ready for me. I had called to see if the local Islamic library had any large print materials to further my knowledge as soon I plan to do Shahadah, InshaaAllah, and ended up spending a good couple hours chatting and hunting down a large print physical copy of the Clear Quran from a publisher she regularly deals with when purchasing library materials as she quickly realized that though she was prepared to give me a copy of Quran, the print would just be too small. I admitted I already had a regular print copy and then she insisted to call the publisher friend herself to ensure I get a copy I can manage. I’ve never had anyone work so hard for someone they just met. It’s heartwarming. Mashaallah

@pzl3637 2 жыл бұрын

I ended up praying for the first time in the Masjid. It felt right and I’m so glad I reached out.

@pzl3637 2 жыл бұрын

@@janik7883 this has nothing to do with the topic of discussion, please find a more appropriate place for these verses.

@anasbanaggar 2 жыл бұрын

@@pzl3637 welcome to Islam sister never mind this hater but if you have any doubt about these verses and you want clear explanation you can ask me or ask any Sheikh (Scholar) about them(don't be worry or shy to ask any and I mean any kind of questions in regard of the religion)

@gutfrets1693 2 жыл бұрын

how big is your city if i can ask? my area is very very small with not many muslims so i feel like the anxiety is greater since i would be such a newcomer

@k-jenny Жыл бұрын

SUBHANALLAH

@user-cc4rp6ox6q 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah I went to a masjid today and I was literally thinking "I wish I knew people who understood the anxiety this gives me" and then this video came up!!!

@user-cc4rp6ox6q 2 жыл бұрын

For context, I'm a revert

@sibusiso.mchunu 2 жыл бұрын

Same here its quite nerve-wracking!

@yasmin3530 2 жыл бұрын

It’s so amazing to see your confidence as a muslim grow mashaAllah! You’re giving great advice even to born muslims!

@Muslim_Convert_Stories 2 жыл бұрын

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@syedahmed8015 2 жыл бұрын

The reverted Muslims are far better than us 💞

@syedahmed8015 2 жыл бұрын

Ma Shaa Allah ❤️

@syedahmed8015 2 жыл бұрын

Sister Love you ❤️ congratulations

@saf1999 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I thought I was the only one!!! I literally have mosque anxiety 😭😭.

@blususpect 2 жыл бұрын

Ellie may Allah (SWT) protect you. Your a genuine soul.

@sagpillai 2 жыл бұрын

So you're instructing your pagan moon god to protect the wandering mufti? You certainly have some powers. 😂😂😂

@amydastgheer9667 2 жыл бұрын

I went to Jummah for the first time by myself two weeks ago, and even though I have gone before for Eid prayer with family I was still so anxious! But I'm glad I went since the few other women that were there were so nice, which helped make me less anxious overall. My local mosque isn't far from my work and I felt really grateful to use my lunch break to go.

@tjf42193 2 жыл бұрын

Your hijab and outfit looks amazing and you have a beautiful soul keep on your spiritual journey sister HWYL!

@achievepeace 2 жыл бұрын

Love from Bengal state of india 🇮🇳 Allah bless you and make your faith strong

@pzl3637 2 жыл бұрын

One thing that helped me was watching a Mosque etiquette before I went. It helped clarify a few thing when. Praying in groups

@radzelimohdramli4360 2 жыл бұрын

To all my revert sisters please don't feel afraid to come to mosque. Mosque is god house open to all of us.

@Foxy_ladyYTSL 2 жыл бұрын

Salaamalikhum sister Ellie! I too felt scared going to the masjid for the first time but I enjoyed it. The people were friendly. I did get some looks as I'm a revert! But nothing unfriendly. People are respectful and kind I find. My local mosque is Green Lane Birmingham.

@treectrice9180 2 жыл бұрын

I only WISH I could attend GREEN LANE. I like watching khutbas and lectures from the brothers there. I'm in the US, so unless i cross the pond, KZfaq is going to have to do it for me. Congrats to you 👏🏼👏🏼💕💕

@trendzcollection2583 2 жыл бұрын

U look so pretty with hijab. Mashallah!!!

@doctorpacket6935 2 жыл бұрын

Modestly is real jewels of women

@paulbartlett1212 2 жыл бұрын

I am in the USA, so I don't know what the situation was like in the UK or other countries. When I took Shahada in 1994 in the only mosque in my area that I knew about and could get to, converts tended to be generally ignored. Not repulsed, just not particularly welcomed, either. They tended to remain quite isolated. There was no one I really felt comfortable talking to (and was not well formed in the first place), so when I began having problems, I was alone and eventually drifted away from Islam. As far as I know, my experience was not particularly unusual for that time. Whether it is any better today I don't know, as I am out of touch now. If you and other converts are welcomed into the mosques, you are fortunate.

@qasaaye23 2 жыл бұрын

I think you should not depend on others to believe in your creator.

@paulbartlett1212 2 жыл бұрын

@@qasaaye23 I think it can be a matter of judgment. Some individuals with physical disabilities may need assistance from others. Some individuals with mental disabilities may need assistance from others. And some individuals with spiritual disabilities may need assistance from others. If that were not the case, then why do we have teachers, counselors, and sheikhs?

@royalfinest 2 жыл бұрын

That is why it is important for the true locals to be in charge of the Islamic / Muslim affairs and establishment. Your problem still exists today, like in Japan and Korea where non-local immigrants are controlling local mosques for 'economic' reasons and seeking 'immigration refuge' rather than spreading the words. IMHO, local mosques must be controlled by locals.

@Iamamuslim3590 2 жыл бұрын

So you left islam because of some muslims? This is no way wise decision. You can make friends with revert muslims

@royalfinest 2 жыл бұрын

@@Iamamuslim3590 If any newly reverts dont feel 'welcome' in the house of Allah swt, then something was wrong with that mosques commitee (which I believe run by immigrants). Except for health and security reasons, whoever make mosques 'difficult' to enter and to utilise then they are indeed the enemy of the prophet and God.

@sajvealam8051 2 жыл бұрын

Allah guide all of us to the straight path Amin

@nassirismail 2 жыл бұрын

No worry.. Go to the mosque due to lillahi ta'ala. 😉😇. Every steps will be recorded by the angels (malaikah).

@jayayo6392 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Ellie!! ❤️ This video came at the right time Alhamdulillah🙏🏽

@MoetVidz 2 жыл бұрын

from wandering queen to dawah queen. what a journey.

@sunymegh 2 жыл бұрын

Dear sister, we love you only for Allah (SWT). From Bangladesh.

@bella_m23 2 жыл бұрын

You're glowing sister! I know I should focus on the content but couldn't help but notice :)

@lowsers 2 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah! Thanks to your video I decided to reach out to a masjid in Bradford. I now have a weekly online lesson, I have been to the mosque several times now and I have taken my Shahadah! Alhamdullilah

@AmirAli-ok6hi 2 жыл бұрын

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@jenniferrathe7291 2 жыл бұрын

Oh , Ellie , you are one of the greatest women alive. May Allah bless you and your future.

@wariocheats9701 2 жыл бұрын

I have this anxiety. I’ve never been even though I’ve reverted in March. I am afraid people will look at me lesser cause I don’t know a lot and that I’m not born into Islam. And that I do things that are wrong

@Iamamuslim3590 2 жыл бұрын

All negative thoughts come from satan. Born muslims get very happy on meeting reverts because they know it is not easy to go against all odds and embrace islam. That's why ALLAH also remove all their past sins

@zayndavid6743 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Wario Cheats, We born Muslims consider You as Luckiest person You are reverted Muslim Allah Subhan wa Taala give you guidance now upto March your all sins before March are forgiven because of accepting Islam as your religion. It is all between you and your creator Allah. You will learn things and it will not be hard go step by step. Please note Satan i.e Devil Lucifer will make you think bad things each time read following: "auzu Billahe minash shaitanerajeem" meaning "O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the accursed Satan" if you have any question of any confusion or want to discuss any thing you can mention and ask from me.

@solsammany 2 жыл бұрын

Don't let that overburden you, we all started somewhere. I'm sure there will be plenty of people there ready to meet you and help you with anything you may have. May Allah bless you!

@wariocheats9701 2 жыл бұрын

@@Iamamuslim3590 you’re right. May Allah give me strength to overcome my fears

@wariocheats9701 2 жыл бұрын

@@zayndavid6743 thank you so much brother. I really really appreciate your kind words and support

@buny321 2 жыл бұрын

Todays topic Very Helpful for revert Muslims... thanks for tips😄

@user-xb4mn8rz7m 2 жыл бұрын

مبارك عليك الحجاب وثبتك الله على الصراط المستقيم تحية من الجزائر 🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿 🇩🇿💖💖😍

@brothersman524 2 жыл бұрын

It is optional for women to go to the masjid but it is good to go to meet new sisters. And I agree, the UK masjids are not as grandeur like the ones in Arab Countries and in South East Asia but most cities and towns in the UK have plenty of masjids. Being from Nottingham myself, we have a sizable muslim population and loads of masjids. All we need now from you Ellie is seeing you in Masjid Al Haram in Makkah

@eniturrahman9746 2 жыл бұрын

100 of 100 for you for narrating details to reverts Muslim to get into Mosque for the first time. Nice Narration.Allah bless you.

@mylifelizabeth 2 жыл бұрын

Masha’Allah ❤️ needed to hear this.

@hafeez_rumon 2 жыл бұрын

Sister.. Assalamu Alaykum..please would you talk to me...

@alessandrobenito3586 2 жыл бұрын

@@hafeez_rumon go away , creepy guy

@AmirAli-ok6hi 2 жыл бұрын

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@treectrice9180 2 жыл бұрын

Good tips. I agree completely. The various styles of dress for sisters in the Masjid really depends on who was there to work/prepare food etc, who had plenty time to dress before hand, and those who came and have to go straight back to work afterwards. This video was great. I'm going to be hitting my 3 month Mark as a Muslim shortly and believe me, I was wondering what was up with these things as well. My first time at Masjid was when I took shahada, and I think I was well dressed, but the leaning forward for prayers and hijab relocating itself is a real struggle. I have a2 piece for prayers at home. You did a great job explaining for "newbies"

@MashAllahMari 2 жыл бұрын

Literally one of my fears but InshAllah I will go to one next week :)

@AmirAli-ok6hi 2 жыл бұрын

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@sajvealam8051 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah guide all of ahle Europe on the straight path Amin

@permatacibubur1236 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ellie..its really inspiring me

@DavidBond85 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah mau Allah give you blessing to all your family ❤️

@user-dt7qf1me1v 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you, protect you & reward you.

@KiwiSikh 2 жыл бұрын

What a lovely story of equality while visiting mosque.

@Sara-oc7hv 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much my dear sister ❤️❤️

@Mur76ad70 2 жыл бұрын

Peace be upon you, my dear sister. Praise be to God who guided you to the religion of God, the religion of truth, Islam. I ask God to make us happy in this world, and make me happy in heaven in the hereafter. Greetings to you from Palestine, Gaza, may God protect you, my sister, and I ask God to grant you success, O Lord

@user-kk5ew9iq4e 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video it has really helped me

@wahidshariff2469 2 жыл бұрын

Greeting from Singapore, to all reverts Ahlam Wassalam

@meribaaath4985 2 жыл бұрын

how nicely you present and explain. may Allah help you, all and new Muslims.

@MuhammadUmair-gk3bw 2 жыл бұрын

Jazak allahu khayran❤❤❤

@malikaeastonAllahfirstanfamily 2 жыл бұрын

Assalamu Alaikum, sister thank you. May Allah Bless You

@AmirAli-ok6hi 2 жыл бұрын

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@SalamAbass 2 жыл бұрын

Ma Shaa Allah 🙏. Nice advice. May Allah keep you safe and healthy. Aameen 🙏.

@hkadsaf9790 Жыл бұрын

Salam! Jazaki Allahu kheir

@sam_uk_123 2 жыл бұрын

Your advice is amazing

@user-pg6gx3zb2k Жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you sister and fill your heart with faith and happiness

@sunshineandautumn 2 жыл бұрын

Asalamualaykum Sister, love your journey, may Allah bless you always and surround you with Angels always 💕and reward you for every step and help us all in our journey towards faith and inshaAllah, Jannah Al Firdaus! Ameen

@azraaltaf7304 2 жыл бұрын

Quinn mashallah you look beautiful in the scarf!

@abdullahaligarcia2548 2 жыл бұрын

Ma'sha'Allah Tabar'Allah... you look amazing... In Hijab... May Allah Subhanah wa ta'ala... Bless you and give you guide...Ameen Rabbe'Alimeen...!!!

@samzee7747 2 жыл бұрын

Assalamu alaikoum ellie. Excellent video, mashallah. May Allah swt accept your good deeds.

@senjamalam705 2 жыл бұрын

masyaAllah...love yr transformation...

@yarawijaya9143 5 ай бұрын

MasyaAllah thank you sister 🤍

@mikk3150 2 жыл бұрын

The first time will make many nervous, but after that the more you go, the more at home you'll feel and soon you'll look back and wonder why u were ever nervous.

@phoolwalashafi6089 2 жыл бұрын

ALLAH HELP YOU IN EVERY GOOD THING'S

@GajahMengaumTheBruce 2 жыл бұрын

i remember praying in a mosque in Istanbul where everyone wear their socks during prayers. That was a new experience for me.

@osamamostafa1996 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha.. There are a lot of details, people don't have to know all of it. For an example, you can pray in your shoes in front of the mosque! Yes it is halal!

@GajahMengaumTheBruce 2 жыл бұрын

@@osamamostafa1996 thank you for the information.

@adeiadei9876 2 жыл бұрын

Maashaallah !

@ega15nov43 2 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah sis Ellie you are getting very mezmerizing, radiant and very pretty with jilbab

@goelnuma6527 2 жыл бұрын

Issues with lack of space for women in mosques in the UK however this is changing

@assolahiyyahglobal5699 2 жыл бұрын

Nice channel. May God bless and protect you always.

@shafiuddindin6899 2 жыл бұрын

God Bless you my daughter and God Bless all of your friends and family

@jsjdjjsjdj4050 2 жыл бұрын

ما شاء الله عنك منوره الله يحميك ويحفظك انت وعاءلتك الاسلام يعتنقه العقلاء والعلماء والمثقفين والمشاهير والاذكياء الهم ثبتهم وحفظهم من كل سوء وشر

@saleseastheritage 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah you look so amazing. May Allah bless you with barakah..

@salaheddinhouro3855 2 жыл бұрын

God protects you sister

@irfanahmed6411 2 жыл бұрын

Dear sister Allah bless you you are doing great work on this planet

@Nasreen7657 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah...you look lovely in the hijaab!

@mrbayah9948 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah reward you from Nigeria

@Palas66 2 жыл бұрын

Mashaa ellah welcome

@asulaiman2901 2 жыл бұрын

thank you for this nice video

@mworldchef1273 2 жыл бұрын

Masha’allah just like to add, Jummah means Friday, I know we associate it with Friday prayers but when I’m context depending on what that context is it’s either Jummah if talking about “Friday” or Jummah prayer(s) if talking about what you did/where you been. Allahumma barik

@waheedmalik5538 2 жыл бұрын

Ma sha Allah sister you have changed a lot because I watched your vedios one year old. Now you are looking very nice & smart than one year before.

@arekmojopahit589 2 жыл бұрын

Love from Bekasi, Indonesia

@zahidgadiwa1n7la18 2 жыл бұрын

I saw your videos and I can say noor on your face is amazing mashallah

@hassanjaved1904 2 жыл бұрын

Hey how are you doing today you are just mind boggling 🔥 mashllah is cool that you are Muslim and I hope you will have a wonderful journey peace

@middlepath1388 2 жыл бұрын

Masha allah sister, you dont believe this... i really prayed for you. While watching your older videos 6 month old videos i prayed for this beautiful lady that make her steadfast in her deen and guve her time to take baby steps. Lovely seeing you in hijab. Very overwhelming and duas and lots and lots of prayers for you.hugs from kerala,India. Next you visit kerala i am gonna gift you something.

@Jablaka69 Жыл бұрын

It would be better to see her in niqab

@pazuzuxx 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful!

@xchaix 2 жыл бұрын

A very good advice 👍

@AmirAli-ok6hi 2 жыл бұрын

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@WISDOMLINES7 2 жыл бұрын

Asalamualikum sister..jazakallah..always feels nice listening u..b blessed..👍👍

@SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you and the sunnah of prophet Muhammad peace be upon him warm our hearts

@YIFYPIRATE786 10 ай бұрын

It can be daunting for all Muslims moving to a new area..

@mohammadasif2020 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah

@karanveersinghkevin968 2 жыл бұрын

COMING COMING COMING COMING COMING!

@eyadahmed8010 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you, sister

@joharimohdsalleh457 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah Love from Malaysia

@mohammedbezza186 2 жыл бұрын

Salam Alikoum, I hope that Allah protect and bless you.

@einas1995 2 жыл бұрын

Looking great on this hijab colour and style

@DonDi12 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah (swt) bless you❤

@tjf42193 2 жыл бұрын

Also to things where did you get your prayer dress and also I’m considering reverting To Islam and your videos are helping me learn

@moramoon9517 2 жыл бұрын

May god guide you and guide us all. Did you revert yet? 🥀❣️

@saboorali9851 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah always lead u to right path

@ranasarwar4620 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks nice ellie sister

@issoopdilloo8905 2 жыл бұрын

MashaaAllah sister

@latifaalsaadoun 2 жыл бұрын

A lot of love for you from SYRIA ❤

@hussainaledrus4796 2 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah, sister you are so bless, Allah have guide you. Ammin. from Australia

@abrahampermana1276 2 жыл бұрын

🇲🇨 Dear Ellie May Allah always protect you 😇

@AmirAli-ok6hi 2 жыл бұрын

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@jewelweed6880 8 ай бұрын

I don’t know anyone and I don’t connect with people easily. No one was unwelcoming, but they didn’t go out of their way to talk to me. I guess the burden of that is on me, so probably won't be making any friends. It’s not a requirement that I pray in a mosque, so I just stay home. Not how one makes friends, but at least I feel relaxed. Also, I don't lead myself too fast, often whoever leads prayer goes too fast. I don’t need it super slow, just a clear speech speed, sort of like the speech in this video or a touch faster. I understand people have work or family to get back to, but 40 seconds longer at prayer is not unreasonable.

@udinsimeleketemehe5699 2 жыл бұрын

I like your video and very useful

@Eman.Alghamdie 2 жыл бұрын

ما شاء الله، لا قوة الا بالله 💚

@samiulhaq4598 2 жыл бұрын

Allah bless you dear

@phxminnie Жыл бұрын

l have the same dilemma as a recent revert. My Muslim girlfriends live in another city, at least an hour drive from my home, so I need to find a masjid nearby to call home. I have emailed the nearest masjid and even though they responded quickly to my email, instead of responding to my questions about classes for new Muslims they asked me if I lived in Phoenix. I was hoping that the masjid would let me know when it was a convenient time to visit the masjid and have someone to meet me. I totally understand about mosque anxiety. It's not the same as visiting the mosques in Istanbul as a tourist.