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@Ericalc37 8 ай бұрын

The light and positivity you exhibit alone will let Lucy go so far. You’re an amazing parent.

@shawnahouse8063 8 ай бұрын

The question about grieving what she might have been . She has endless possibilities. With your love and encouragement anything is possible. My son had an accident when he was 19 he was not supposed to survive. But he did and is doing things the doctors never thought he would. He recently got married. The possibilities are endless. You have the right mindset. ❤

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

I totally agree with you. I honestly hate even highlighting what she isnt doing right now because I have so much faith in her future! I mean I’m in touch with reality but I just choose to focus on all the good things. There are plenty of people in the world that will assume the worst and it’s up to us moms to never stop hoping and praying for the best. thank you for telling me your story!!

@Meow116 8 ай бұрын

spot on

@RJ-mw2gw 8 ай бұрын

Lucy seems like she is advancing by leaps and bounds! She is soooo precious!

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

💙💙💙

@KewBlinkla 8 ай бұрын

I feel the same! Every video it seems like she’s a whole different girl with diffeeent skill I didn’t notice before

@thecleaningteacher638 8 ай бұрын

@@KewBlinkla I completely agree. Kids are amazing like that…all that brain growth in action.

@gigidodson 8 ай бұрын

I am so grateful youve managed to come back to KZfaq. I miss you when you were gone. Though i totally understand why. Being able to see Lucy grow up and all the amazing things she has accomplished feels like such a privilege. Shining a light on a rare disability is doing something incredible. You and Grant were made to be Lucy's parents. Her advocate. Her biggest cheerleader. ❤

@melissaharley3237 8 ай бұрын

How are you even real?! You talk about how Lucy has such a good attitude - it’s so incredibly clear where she gets it ❤

@Topazdolphin23 8 ай бұрын

As a children and family trauma therapist, I so appreciate you sharing your experience so eloquently and vulnerably. I really think that listening to your reflections strengthens my ability to support the families that I work with by giving me a better glimpse into what they’re going through without them having to find the words. Your family brings so much light to the world and I’m so glad you’re still on here 🩷

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

I’m so glad it helps. It’s so hard to find the words in the moment and even if you have the words it’s very hard to say them out loud. I am able to sit in front of a camera and talk bc I had time to think about my answers but still there is plenty that is too hard to actually say.

@bianh5827 8 ай бұрын

16:52 Immediate tears “I didn’t have a life planned out for her”. You are an amazing person, you and Lucy are meant to be together. ❤

@ralucadu2002 8 ай бұрын

‘I let Lucy be Lucy in the world’ ❤ that is just beyond words ❤️you are a wonderful person

@abbymyers5072 8 ай бұрын

I love how you talk about your life and Lucy. You’re respectful without being patronizing. Too often the conversations we have around disability lack respect for the dignity of individuals and erase the joys and realities of the experiences. You’re a great representation of this and I’m so proud of your work in this space ❤ sending you, Luna, Lucy and grant holiday magic

@UofMFootball163 8 ай бұрын

You’re a 10/10 mom for a 10/10 kid, my gosh 🤩

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

that is too sweet!! ♥️

@beckyowen6753 8 ай бұрын

You are so inspiring. You should consider doing a TED talk or a candid speech about your lived experience. Thank you so much for sharing ❤ You are just simply nothing short of an incredible parent and human being.

@md8388 8 ай бұрын

I agree she is so well spoken and insightful ❤

@Bebs28 8 ай бұрын

You’re the reason Leighann -You’re the reason your community is so supportive and positive. All of us give you what you give us. 🥰

@geasty8862 8 ай бұрын

“What if she thinks, why did they leave me” I’m so sorry, this has me bawling in the middle of the airport. Praying that she will feel your love and presence even when you are gone ❤

@Keepinitreal55 6 ай бұрын

You’re that KZfaqr that never gets on my nerves. Everyone else pretty much has

@ceceliamaryn 8 ай бұрын

Been here since the "revlon honey balm stain", "shopping for sweaters in the target kid's section" days, and I just want to say how proud I am of you. It's probably weird to say that to a complete stranger but WOW you are a remarkably strong human and Lucy is such a little light. You two were meant to find each other in this lifetime. Happy New Year to you and your lovely fam!

@ashleys4652 8 ай бұрын

So glad you are back on KZfaq consistently. We really missed you and love seeing Lucy and the light she exudes. It's no accident she is like that because she has YOU as a Mom. ❤

@officerfrog 8 ай бұрын

I'm genuinely so glad that Lucy has You and Grant as well as You and Grant having Lucy 💞

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

💙💙💙

@maureenhamilton2297 8 ай бұрын

So happy to see you. It’s been a rough week and it’s just great to be able to sit with a friend and listen.

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to hear youve had a rough week. I really hope it turns around soon. thanks for being here!

@amy13b 8 ай бұрын

I'm a special needs sister who recently took over caregiving after the loss of my mother and I just want you to know you're a rock star, mama. Your willingness be be vulnerable will help a lot of people who don't have an outlet or feel like they can't share the truth of "It's awesome and terrible and the best worst thing" some days. 💕 (Also - I love your sweater, where did you get it?)

@maquillamelily212 8 ай бұрын

You’re amazing! I also had to take over for my granddaughter. We have this

@aobrien8282 8 ай бұрын

Please don’t apologize for sharing your feelings with your people. I think I speak for the majority when I say we would watch a 5 hour video of you responding to questions or decorating your house or going to appointments. That’s how love works. 🍪

@Barba_Fett 8 ай бұрын

I know you worry about her when you are not there to be sure Lucy is ok. But seeing how Sam looks at her I have a feeling he would never let anything bad happen to his bestie cousin. Not to put that on him entirely but just a feeling I get. Lucy is a special little princess. Ty for sharing her with us.

@ItsMilgurt 8 ай бұрын

Validation might be THE most important type of support you can get from someone. The first time someone gave me clear, strong validation for what I was going through was a huge turning point in my life mentally. This was such a great Q&A, I appreciate you being so open & honest about everything you've gone through. I love seeing Lucy's progress, you're right- she's the best. :)

@kellydececco9477 8 ай бұрын

Hi❤ I have a son with Down Syndrome and I felt every single word you said. Especially the part about how every second of your life and every detail revolves around your child’s disability and as much as others think they understand, they really have no clue. Thanks for your gentle approach. Lucy is sooo Lucky!

@emilywiltse 8 ай бұрын

I am a social worker at a pediatric hospital in St. Louis for medically complex kids and I really appreciate the perspective you provide. It reminds me to continue just showing up for the families I work with. You’re the best!

@user-hw7mo9vq4f 8 ай бұрын

I have been here since the very beginning like wrap nails beginning lol. I feel like I have literally watched you grow up and now I'm watching Lucy grow up. We were both pregnant at the same time and I had my baby girl 2 months early and you have truly made my perspective on life change so much and I'm so glad I have you to go to even if its just online

@user-iz8bf6qo3l 8 ай бұрын

I know you’ve said this before but I just can’t help but feel like there was a bigger reason you started this KZfaq channel and sharing your life with Lucy and bringing awareness to this community in such a beautiful way is why! I have followed you for so long and watching you now as the rockstar mom you are, doing all you can for your precious Lucy, is so inspiring. I’m here for the day to day, I’m here for the decorating and makeup, I’m here for your family, I’m here for it all! ❤

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

I totally agree. At the very least I hope I can give a small glimpse of what our life is like and help people understand and embrace people with disabilities more. But my biggest dream is for our story to inspire some billionaire to fund major research and we find a treatment for STXBP1. Long shot but I’m still going to hope 🙏🏻

@thecleaningteacher638 8 ай бұрын

Yes, this was the real real! Thanks for letting us be part of your journey. You got this, Mama. 💝🙏🏼

@aeriesstars 8 ай бұрын

My husband was dx with brain cancer when our twins were 9m old. The number of offputting but well meaning comments I received from then through his passing has been astonishing. I feel your pain on that one for sure.

@carleymcfarland5823 8 ай бұрын

My husband was in a motorcycle accident when I was 9 months pregnant and was in the hospital for a month, well past my due date. I would leave his hospital room, go downstairs and cross the parking lot to go to my OBGYN appointments and just cry to my doctor from all of the stress. Our baby is 18 months old now and my husband had his leg amputated 3 months ago secondary to complications from his accident. The postpartum anxiety has been so real! But still, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to go through everything you did with Lucy after she was born. Worrying about your own baby is a whole different kind of stress. I really look up to you and how you’ve handled this entire thing. You’re a true inspiration

@KewBlinkla 8 ай бұрын

Oh I just love your explanation of how you handle people talking to Lucy! My daughter (2) can communicate very well and even still if we see someone who is trying to talk to her sometimes she’ll say hi and chat and sometimes she just puts her face into me and feels shy. Sometimes I ask “if you want to you can say hello” and often she doesn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️ these little people are not obligated to do anything and I’m so happy you don’t feel pressured to “make her” interact or to explain anything. She is just Lucy, there is nothing else that needs to be said 😊

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

absolutely!! so much pressure is put on kids because we all love them so much and even strangers want to talk to them and have fun but that’s a lot for a tiny person! you sound like an amazing mom 💙

@melissawiggles4594 8 ай бұрын

As a parent of a child on Autism Spectrum I’m so grateful for all the support and love we have with her. I can somewhat understand how you feel with Lucy! I love seeing yours & Grant’s Love for Miss Lucy! ❤

@heatherherzberg7083 8 ай бұрын

As a parent myself, my heart broke for you when you spoke of your fears and realities when you and Grant are gone. I'm so so sorry that those fears have to be on your heart. Your advocacy for Lucy will foster anything she needs in the coming years. You are a champion of a mother, and I hope you know that. ❤️

@buckeye1213 8 ай бұрын

You talking about what an amazing attitude Lucy has, but YOUR attitude is incredible as well and is inspirational. You’re an exceptional mother, and Lucy hit the jackpot having you and Grant for parents. Thank you for sharing so much about your lives with us. Merry Christmas and many hugs.

@JamiesGirl1990 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing what not to say when a friend is going through something hard! It’s so helpful to have it spelled out because sometimes in the moment the wrong thing might come out, and it’s only afterward that you think “oh crap that was such a terrible thing to say to her”. It’s much more helpful to hear from someone who’s gone through it, without the pressure of being in the conversation

@smfrem367 8 ай бұрын

My father and his siblings took such wonderful care of their disabled sister after their parents passed away and it was beautiful

@christinet8458 5 ай бұрын

if i ever got a smile from Lucy, I would feel lucky for life ! have loved watching you for years & years and watching your family/life grow!

@kellyberry1113 8 ай бұрын

It’s incredible the way you advocate for your child. Love to see it 🥰

@sweetspicypepper 8 ай бұрын

You didn't luck out on your community - you fostered it! 💜

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

looking around youtube I just feel lucky 🥰

@arianatyksinski2704 8 ай бұрын

You didn’t luck out…you’re an incredible human who deserves & has reached other incredible humans. Thx for being you!!

@lisapoulsen5452 8 ай бұрын

Your honesty is always so appreciated🥰🥰🥰. Lucy will be the best she can be because of her hard work and your hard work. Amazing Mumma (and Dad)❤️

@thsecretme7754 8 ай бұрын

As a mom to kids with disabilities my idea of what my children would be was my idea. It was never who my children were. I have always felt like if I stay stuck in the grieving process, I cannot be the best advocate for my children. Being their mom is the best thing that ever happened to me. Seeing them go through this is the tough part. Like you said, I want their life to be easier, but I have to live in what reality is. They have taught ME so much and I just focus on that.

@kookienutquacker8692 6 ай бұрын

You and Grant are doing amazing raising your beautiful little girl. She will continue to thrive with your support and love. What you said in the video about validation is spot on. I too believe that receiving recognition and understanding is the best support you can get from another human being. It’s great when you know someone understands and can relate. Keep moving forward, one step at a time. Loved this video.

@RosarioMataH 8 ай бұрын

my best friend has always said that we choose our parents before being born, hearing you in this video talking about Lucy makes me totally believe it, you are the perfect Mom for her, she choose you 💞

@bg695 8 ай бұрын

12 minutes in and I’m crying. You are an amazing mom and an amazing person. I’ve been watching your videos since makeup in your apartment with space buns. You are so strong and so positive and all three of you are so lucky to have each other. ❤❤❤

@tinastanbaugh 8 ай бұрын

I’m so happy you don’t explain Lucy’s story to everyone. My daughter has a disability and she is an adult now and she works and people are constantly asking her about her disability and she doesn’t know how to answer. She gets tired of people asking her about it.

@michellegable4016 8 ай бұрын

As a future nurse who wants to work in labor and delivery. Your story has inspired me so much. Your story about the person who described that you were in crisis really spoke to me and I hope to be that solid support for someone who needs it one day too. You are doing great things for Lucy and the entire community that surrounds special people like her❤

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

I’m so happy to hear that. All the moms and babies will appreciate you so much ♥️

@stephanieniederer8135 8 ай бұрын

So glad to hear Lucy is mastering things more and more. My son is autistic, and was non verbal for years, as well as all the motor issues that come along with that. So i completely understand celebrating those things that may seem second nature to some. You're doing a beautiful job!

@anetabml 8 ай бұрын

Lucy could not have gotten a better mum! You are such a wonderful, caring and sensitive person. I love watching you and Lucy together and and admire your attitude and outlook on life. Hope everything goes well for your family and that you all have an amazing Christmas time ❤

@AmySaffle 7 ай бұрын

My twins are special needs. We live in a good school district. A school employee grabbed my son with level 2 autism. It didn't meet true "abuse" however the employee resigned. It's a long road but your videos make me feel better bc it's someone who understands and is so relatable. I adore you. Thank you so much for the videos.

@MeaganCrafton 8 ай бұрын

You are such an amazing mom. The way your face and voice light up when you talk about Lucy is so beautiful ❤

@mord8792 8 ай бұрын

LeighAnn, I watched this video multiple times and wanted to say thanks for your vulnerability and for sharing your life and precious Lucy with us. It is not your job to educate people on disability but you do and it is very appreciated. Just watching your videos has helped me learn so much and appreciate details as much as it is possible. Your grace and strength is humbling. And Lucy’s sweet and strong temperament is a true reflection of her mom, both nature and nurture. I also think for those who get to meet that they’re truly very lucky. She’s the best and you are the best mom to her.

@Josielovee12 8 ай бұрын

I love the postpartum nurses they are always super supportive in my experience ❤

@adrieneceleste 8 ай бұрын

It’s so nice to hear you say “ask questions”. Sometimes, I’ll ask a question and maybe a friend will say “no you can’t ask that” but you never know what someone is going through and MAYBE they want to talk about it.

@amberj3941 8 ай бұрын

LeighAnn I’ve watched you since the beginning. Literally since your CVS lip stain days. I absolutely love the mom and wife you’ve become. I am so beyond proud of you for being such a solid person for your family. Keep it up girl, you can move mountains!

@Michelle-il2cf 8 ай бұрын

Amen! Give your kid what she needs now in her life, regarding a wheelchair, etc - completely agree with you! You make the best decision for your girl at the present time, and then you make the next best decision when things change. Constantly throughout their lives ❤️

@Candace488 8 ай бұрын

Leighann- your strength is so inspiring. As a mom myself, hearing you speak so passionately about Lucy makes me so emotional. She is immensely lucky to have you, and what a gift it is for you to be her mama! Sending you so much love from California ⭐️💙

@shannonackley2526 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for taking the time and effort to share your experience. I think that it helps everyone to see the real experiences that we have as humans and creates more empathy.

@vivieni-g 7 ай бұрын

My lupus went out of control during pregnancy too, ours was born at 28 weeks, and your explanation of being in the hospital and being on edge for your baby/child all the time is so spot on. Also "the midset shift of almost losing your child then not losing them" hit my heart and took me back to the CPR in the MRI machine. You can't explain that shift to people who, thankfully, havent been through it. We are strong Moms and our daughters make us stronger as we help them grow and become their best selves. I hope you can get some relief from your years-long flare.

@sandyyatsko1670 8 ай бұрын

I'm not super religious, but God made the best parents for Lucy. You and Grant are the best she could ever have. I love seeing you working so hard for that precious little girl. P.S. I've been watching you since you lived with your parents.

@thomasmontella6481 6 ай бұрын

The stress you must have now and before must be unimaginable you are never prepared for something a bit different than you thought but both of you are big time rewarded in ways that no one else will get.,what I see is excellent compassion and love that bursts for your child and that is a category one gets it’s a privilege not a handicap♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@coribuer1384 8 ай бұрын

You have such a beautiful outlook on life. It’s truly inspiring

@liveloveresell2886 8 ай бұрын

I definitely get what you’re saying about being on display and vulnerable while you’re out in public. I had an older brother who had cerebral palsy and was in a wheelchair. We were always stared at, pointed at etc. We had a wheelchair van and this was back in the early 90s and it was pretty uncommon. That definitely got so much attention. I was 4 years younger than him and I can’t remember a time where I wasn’t acutely aware of others and my surroundings because of this. People and children can be unnecessarily or accidentally cruel. I have a 10 year old now and ever since she could start understanding the concept, I taught her to always be kind, compassionate and never stare at someone who acts or looks different. Kindness is free so spread it around❤

@jenf4616 8 ай бұрын

I’m a Houstonian too and KZfaq suggested your video not too long ago. I’m so glad to have found your channel. I needed someone like you. My daughter was diagnosed with Leukemia last year so can kind of relate to what you’re going through. Caring for your little one can leave you depleted. I am absolutely in awe from your positive energy and have been watching all of your videos simply for the positive vibes. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos.

@CaliMel184 8 ай бұрын

My OB asked me if my Dad was a smoker after he walked in the room at my appointment 3 days after he died unexpectedly. I was sobbing when I had to check in at the receptionist and was just stunned that someone would ask me that instead of just telling me they were sorry for my loss. It's so frustrating to deal with medical professionals who are completely lacking in empathy. Honestly you're absolutely right not to give people an explanation. It's not really any of their business about her medical history, so it's great that you handle it that way! People get really weird with children sometimes. Our toddler doesn't talk a ton and is 90th percentile and we've had adults and other children ask us in a really snotty voice why she's not talking more yet or demand that she talk to them! Or even get insulted because they think she is like 4 when she's 2 and we constantly have to explain that she's only 2 years old!

@ItsJennB 8 ай бұрын

It's so great that you just let Lucy have her own interactions with people and don't feel/give into pressure to explain details to strangers. As a disabled adult, that's something I really struggle with, when I can tell people expect an explanation from me. Hopefully she will learn from your reactions and grow up better equipped to handle those situations.

@alysamorley3570 8 ай бұрын

I’m disabled, and I’m an ambulatory wheelchair user. I loved hearing you talk about Lucy’s needs positively - as a way to foster her independence and help her live her best life. So many people frame disabled people as a burden, and we’re not. So many people other us and treat our needs as “special needs” when they are just our needs. Sending you and your family love!

@corgimom5626 8 ай бұрын

I really enjoy that you still share bits of your life. You are doing great and I love seeing Lucy learn new things and push new boundaries. She had a lot of cheerleaders out there.

@itsstephhsilly 8 ай бұрын

I’ve been following you for years. I kinda fell off when you took your understandable break. I didn’t know if I could relate to your content anymore since I’m someone who isn’t super interested in “family vlogs.” This is the first video of yours I watched in a long time. I’m absolutely amazed by you. You’re truly someone I aspire to be. When you said you don’t want people feeling bad for you, I totally related to that. I just didn’t know how to put it into words and you did it so beautifully and unapologetically. You sound so strong in your boundaries while remaining soft. I can tell you’re an incredible mother. You and Lucy are so lucky to have one another ❤️

@najetteroberts5553 8 ай бұрын

This is a great outlook and way to approach life with an ability challenged kiddo. She is doing phenomenal, you guys too. So great to see this as a special education teacher. It touches my heart. Rooting for you all to make all the strides she can make. Be well and Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 ❤️.

@ashleighbrooke8087 8 ай бұрын

I had my baby 6months after Lucy, every word you say is so inspiring and encouraging. I see Lucy and she is so amazing, she is absolutely so strong and just such a little light in the world. Hearing you describe her accomplishments and development is so uplifting and you are just the best cheerleader anyone can ever have. I know I’m late in the posting cycle to be commenting but you are an Inspiration, Lucy is an inspiration and I wish y’all the absolute best life. I’ve watched you for a very long time and seeing your journey has been such a privilege. Lots of love from Australia

@alexcabrera5273 8 ай бұрын

I have been watching you since the hair bun days… I’m so proud of you as a mom. It’s hard enough being a mom but your strength always brings tears to my eyes. I hope your are proud of how far you and Lucy have come! I hope you keep working on self love and keeping stress down low to the floor! ❤

@Saraisms 8 ай бұрын

This was a great Q&A, Leighann. Wishing you and your amazing family a great Christmas

@brontelex4016 8 ай бұрын

You are an amazing woman and such an inspiration. It's so kind and generous to share your life with us. I'm sure this is going to be the reassurance that a mother out there needs.

@LB-gq4jr 7 ай бұрын

Hi I hope you've had a wonderful christmas and new year you both do such an amazing job with caring for Lucy, even on the hard days you give her all your love and affection - then she smiles!!!! I really hope that you won't have to wait much longer for Lucy's wheelchair, it's not fair that you've had to wait this long for such a necessity I hope that you get it very soon. This is going to be such a brilliant year!!!

@etheldragreen2264 8 ай бұрын

Lucy is so full of light! She clearly gets it from you. Both you and Grant are Angels for how much you love, support, encourage Lucy.

@bambiroo918 8 ай бұрын

So good to see a new video. There were so many great questions. I was hoping someone would ask if Lucy has been seizure free recently.

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

she has been!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

@bambiroo918 8 ай бұрын

@@leighannsays ♥️♥️

@samanthakwait8782 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate how much you advocate for children and parents with disabilities. It’s a huge learning experience

@stephaniebenson7003 8 ай бұрын

I rarely comment but wanted to say I admire you and appreciate you sharing all of these things with us! I’ve been with you since your apartment days and you’re the only youtuber I watch. ❤❤❤ happy holidays to you and your family!

@jennameese8738 8 ай бұрын

Bless that counselor who told you you were in crisis and gave you permission to feel all of those strong emotions openly without suppression, and then, on top of that, gave you validation as to why you were feeling them. In a world where perfection and toxic positivity runs rampant, expressing “negative” emotions like extreme fear or sadness feels like a “weakness”, when in reality vulnerability is an absolute strength. I’m so glad you were able to hear her words and take from them what you needed. So much of mental and emotional health is wanting to put a reason as to why we are struggling, and usually we can’t pinpoint it ourselves because, as a coping mechanism, our minds will explain away and rationalize our situation to death. The mind will tell you “it’s not THAT bad”, or “someone else has had it worse”, etc. But having an outsider (especially a professional) looking in and saying “well obviously X, Y, and Z would be enough to break anyone down” can give you the clarity and space to start to understand. You have been caring for Lucy so wonderfully, but I hope you are also taking care of yourself, as impossible as it may seem sometimes. ❤️

@probablyhyperfixating 8 ай бұрын

So overwhelmed and stressed so so so needed this!!! Your videos sooth my soul lol

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

💙💙💙 im so glad youre here! take a breather, I was feeling that last night too.

@denisemcdougall5662 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely beautiful the way you communicate about Lucy with such grace. I’ve watched you for a very long time, before there was a you and Grant.❤

@susanvelez6534 8 ай бұрын

I have experience working with children like Lucy and it was incredibly fulfilling, My dedication to providing comprehensive care was number one. It's disheartening when others may not fully grasp the challenges of situations like dealing with a baby's health issues. I also understand your frustration with the situation in Texas.

@kathy-yq4qr 7 ай бұрын

You are a rockstar mom!! You are doing such an amazing job of taking care of an amazing person!

@PaigeYvonne1 7 ай бұрын

The comment you made at the end is so important. It's not always comforting to share what you think is a similar situation. When my sister lost her baby, everyone and their cousin was telling her about how they'd had miscarriages and knew exactly how she felt. She always got so angry because they didn't physically give birth to a baby that she knew early on probably wouldn't make it. They didn't have to plan a funeral. Not invalidating anyone's hardships but when you are already struggling it makes it that more painful.

@anas.3253 8 ай бұрын

I was not ready to cry watching this. Definitely made me realize I have a lot of trauma that I haven’t dealt with from when my daughter was born and when she was in the NICU. The second you said “You are in crisis” all of those feelings from three years ago came flooding back. I see you. I hear you. I love you. And even though I can’t now and will probably never fully understand exactly what you are going through with Lucy, I see a lot of myself and my daughter in you and your daughter. Please know that you are loved and know you are seen. 💜 You are such a good mom and your dedication to Lucy is luminous. 💜

@laurenjohnson8020 8 ай бұрын

Hi! As an OT I’m so grateful that you using and open to using equipment and devices that can help Lucy be more independent! So many parents I have worked with don’t see the value in that in between help because their focus is on the end result. Your presence, love, acceptance and positivity for Lucy is so evident! ❤ Thanks for being vulnerable with us!! ❤ PS- After your decorating video I had to more bows all over the place 🎀🎀🎀

@gabiudoff 8 ай бұрын

I recently started working as a teacher in a special education school and it's been so wonderful to hear your perspective on things through the years and it's helped me understand how I can best show up for my kids and families.

@TraceyPoland 8 ай бұрын

You’ve always been a good one but you’re just the best mama …. I admire you so much! Lots of love to your family! ❤

@9melissal 8 ай бұрын

I love the exposed beams! I can't believe you hate them.

@kt_rvs2731 8 ай бұрын

It's been so wonderful having you back! I love to see you and how your family has grown over the many, many years I've been following you. Lucy is incredible, and seeing you and Grant be her biggest cheerleaders is beautiful. ❤ Happy holidays to you and your family!

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

thank you so much!! Happy holidays to you too!

@Rtytanicj 8 ай бұрын

It’s truly been beautiful to watch you grow in to the person you are today. Super proud of you Leigh Ann 💜

@mayvm13 8 ай бұрын

I’m in awe of your kindness, grace and soothing advice… absolutely proud of you and loving your approach on the journey to a happy and fulfilling life with your beautiful family. Lots of love from NYC! Ps. My dad has suffered 3 strokes, 3 craniotomies and is thankfully alive and soaring… he’s in a rehab center atm (for two years) but it is our greatest hope to bring him home. Your videos enlighten me and encourage me to continue being his support and advocate.

@angelinalah 8 ай бұрын

I can definitely learn something from Lucy and her positive attitude ❤

@MoonChildLife 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Leigh Ann for being so open and honest You’re an amazing Mama ❤

@brokenhappy 8 ай бұрын

As a disabled adult (w/ a disabled niece & nephew), I appreciate you so much. You're wonderful 💛

@erinames7783 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing! You are so loved and Lucy too. I can appreciate what is happening for you and your family. My nephew was born with a rare condition and was in and out of specialized children's hospitals. He was having seizures and had to be tube fed. His life became easier once he got his button for feeding. As his aunt I felt special to be able to care for his needs and be trusted to care for him so his parents could go and have a date so that they could do other things when they had their nurses to support. I hope you and Lucy get her wheel chair soon and that she keeps making all these huge advancements! So many hugs for you all.

@heatherlobeck 8 ай бұрын

You're so amazing! This is how love was supposed to work all along! 🎉🥹

@leighannsays 8 ай бұрын

💙💙💙

@donnapecoraro3126 8 ай бұрын

Lucy is SO amazing, and very much due to all the work you put into her. i’m so sorry about the lupus flare, you’re doing everything. i never slept again once i had my daughter, and she had no health difficulties, so i’m glad you found some help to sleep, but just know, it’s a mom hyper alert thing. comments from strangers, oy, a bit invasive. you’re doing absolutely the right thing, and it is hard. we never got to see much of your house, it looks really nice, didn’t realize it was one floor. those farm-housey bits can be fixed, not a priority, but possible. you have the greatest attitude about Lucy’s disability, yes long term care of a disabled person is a very serious problem. i think faith and planning and trying not to dwell on it, i had my child late in life, and it’s heartbreaking to think I won’t be there because i can’t live forever. you are a role model for advocacy. i know you can make Texas better.

@NoRmAsJeAnS82 8 ай бұрын

I love how Lucy has matured you. 💕I appreciate the massive compassion that you now have in your heart also and being that sweet little girl’s voice and advocate. Most folks don’t and can’t ever understand things until they are in the thick of it in their own lives. You’re a good human Leighann. I’ve been here since you lived in your parents house and that Betsy Johnson MM watch with the Go Jane rings. You were one of my style inspirations for a long time. You’ve made us proud and you’ve come a loooooong way. 💚🧡🪳🍕🤍