I'm not saving anyone again ,I'm focusing on my life

I’ve been killing myself trying to save baby birds with broken wings my whole life only for them to get better and fly away from me. 🥺

Fixer's are the FIRST TO BE BROKEN! THANKYOU!! THANKYOU!!

Derrick you are right on time with this message, thank you ❤️🙏🏼

Yes! I tried to help my ex bf when he was going through it. Mental health is real. In the end, he hurt my heart so bad 😢

I am in this position right now. I'm going to be honest,, he is also narcissistic, insecure, cannot communicate at all there is none there, has no conscience so he's not in touch with his feelings, and he doesn't even understand the word EVOLVED! SO AS I SIT HERE AND TEXT THIS I'M THINKING SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO. BUT THE CONTENT IS TELLING ME I NEED TO PUT MY FEELINGS IN MY POCKET AND SAY THIS IS NOT WORKING WE CANNOT😢😊 SO ANXIOUSLY WANTING TO BUT HE DOESN'T SEE THAT I AM HERE FOR LOVE I DON'T WANT TO BABYSIT I WANT TO BE HAPPY.❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢

I. I refuse to do it again..not only for my ex and I have informed him of that but I have also started doing it with my relatives and so called friends. I am an empath and I'm proud to be one..I have given loyalty and love to ppl that took it for granted and used me . Now I'm by myself. I'm reflecting and working on being my best self..I pray and ask God to protect me and remove Anyone from my life that intentions are not good. I'm Saving ME now.💖💖💖

I just wish I would have had this information when I was 25 (I would have taken better decisions and would have saved me a lot of unfortunate and traumatic situations) Thank you, Mr. Jaxn

Am amazed by your level of analysis of empaths! This is life saving. Thank you

I!!! Not just stabbed in the back, stabbed in the heart too, and shot in the soul... he was a devil, and he tried to force me to be just as broken as him. Never again satan! Never again.

I can definitely relate to this as an empath. I needed to hear this. Thank you Derrick 🙏

'He may be meeting his Karma from some decisions he made along his way, and you're out there blocking the consequences....' Oh Derrick, isn't that the truth.

It's also called codependency...this was me & I'm now on my healing journey from sacrificing myself for others, I'm growing & learning how to love myself and know my worth.

Sir I swear this so true in these 40's I definitely understand what I can't take and I'm not the one that has to go through the BS and I ain't got time to coach or be that person that can wait until they wake-up or get the help they need

👏 we must consciously stop being empaths for people that don’t deserve it

I can relate to this word. I have poured out to so many (family and friends). It will drain you, but thank God he taught me to see it for what it truly is. I let it go, and Oh, what a relief it was. A big weight was lifted, and I learned to put in effect self-care for my well being. I Am Free!!! Thank God Almighty, I'm Free at Last!!! To God be the Glory. Amen & Amen! ❤❤❤

Thank You Mr. Jaxn… these Compassionate Ladies Really Need To Absorb This!!! 😏

Was used abused,taken advantage of😢 ... Never Again 😔

Who wouldn't want to hear this? He is preaching to the choir. ❤😢 dropping all kinda gems 💎 ✨️

This has been my deepest learning from this last relationship . ..empath role in a relationship. I ve learned better boundaries and became broken-hearted. I am grateful for the gift of insight into my own growth. You are speaking the truth. Empaths I've done this. There is an anxious attachment that grows is in reducing the anxiety for other there is an Imbalance that grows. The only surefire way is beautiful energetic boundaries and Security within that meets a securely attached partner.

The proper foundation (or lack thereof) built in the beginning sets the tone for the rest of the relationship.

This resonates so much. My empathy doesn't always extend to myself. I consider it toxic empathy when we have only learned to love others rather than protect ourselves. I can't express how grateful I am for your real talk. 😢

I’m 55, men my age are broken mentally 😢

As an empath I can say that our lives can be really hard. We constantly go on an emotional roller coaster and it can be sooooooo exhausting!😫

Amen and I was not trying to date and have had men and women try to take advantage because I was trying to help them.

😮 this came at the right time - thank you. I absolutely can relate. Tried to be there for him and help him.

Derrick you are absolutely right about Empaths and woman. What women need to maximize her Self and fulfill herself and beloveds. You Speak Truth and Understand the nature of the divine feminine.

Oh my god yes......I'm 53 and I now ...after all these experiences , I'm not doing it any more, thanks to messages like yours I can let go of someone and ick up myself again. Thanks a million!

Been there and done that! Regretted it every time..

Speak the truth, I have been there. And that hurt and I can relate. Thank God he got me out of that relationship.

You are right and I am glad that I am awakened to know my God shall supply all my needs and I can’t be any bodies God there is only One 😊

Nothing but the truth!!! Been there done that!!!! It’s imperative that we as empaths must set healthy boundaries to protect our energy…

You talking to me. I’m focusing on healing and taking care of myself.

I can relate to this from my past, breaking away from that relationship was the best thing I ever did

Exactly, you didn't break him but he will take it all out on you.

I have done that before trying to save these guys and they be to far gone and to this day it was out of my reach.

Wow you’re speaking directly to me. Thank you 🙏

Change your surroundings.. Never change who you are..❤

This is so pertinent to people whose nature is to help.

Spot on Derric....

Absolutely! I have been the internship way too many times

I needed to hear this, I am an empath an nurse and I feel all this… thank you.

My soul is drained ….. I need to save myself and move on. I need to heal.

I can relate to this message, I was hurt so bad , I thought I would never get through the PAIN. My heart has been broken from a very toxic relationship and the death of my sister. I am working on loving me and knowing my SELF WORTH.

Wow this was for me, I been killing myself trying to save my husband.

The more I listen to this video, the more I like it. Nothing but the truth💯❤❤

Yes, I can relate on multiple levels !

Derrick..zi am one of those "EMPATH'S"... people..This message is for ME!!...I know now what was going on with me.."ALL THESE YEARS"!!..NOW I KNOW KNOW... THANKS AGAIN ❤

Oh, so true. Thank you🙏

I feel this. It’s making me cry because it hits so close to home.

Guilty of trying to help..and i got broken but guess what i choose to heal ❤

Your TIMING is IMPECCABLY AMAZING!! THANKYOU

You are absolutely correct i'm N Empath I used to be a drug addict. 26 years Been clean 11yrs Someone I know, going through it try to help Them You're right, nothing but stabbed in the back and messed with. Don't save them, you're right again. No one was there for me. I had to pull my a** up out of the hole. Dig deep and get healthy, so that's what I'm gonna impart to him. I'm not gonna Save you, you must save yourself. Do the work, thank you for your content. Your authenticity, it's refreshing to see. Much love, much appreciation, much respect. Blessings on your journey.❤

It's hard to accept or admit that could be the problem!

Amen brother!!!! You are so right!!!!!!

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks Derrick. ❤

I really needed to hear this. This was an answer to prayer. Literally within hours. Thank you.

I can relate fully, that’s why I’m pulling my energy back from everyone!

I wish I knew this 20 years ago 😢

oh yes...absolutely..

Thanks Derrick😀

Yes, you are talking to me.

I have to admit, I'm there now. Working to break free.

My story My ex husband Thank you for this inspiration

Oh my goodness 😳. Thank youuuu 🎉 Wow. This is me. I. 😮 I was talking to someone online for 8 days every day for a few hours and I realized he's needing to be rescued but not in a good way. He believes he's right on everything. He's got a HUGE ego and I also realizes he never asked about me. Not once asked how I was or my thoughts or feelings 😮 I'm "dating with a certain level of conviction " !!! I can't love this more!!!!!❤ I'm a domestic violence survivor so I have trauma!!! 😮 i had never heard the void vs overflow statements! Wow.

I did this before and I regret doing it

Yep. Been there.

Thank you 💔, I’m realizing I love too hard.

True. Deeply true.

Its so hard not to help some you have fell in love with.

Wow you must have been reading my mind... Thank you so much Derrick...❤👍

Thanks for this confirmation!! Only God could give you the knowledge you have.

Good timing Derrick. Thank you

Wow! Exactly what my pattern has been.

Damn....my whole life. I needed this today. Thank you ❤

I got one of those right now!

This vidéo was for me. I didn t realize how empathic i was, and how it is ruining my life.i understand more now from where my problems come from

Got stabbed in the back too many times. I feel like I just wanna be in a hermit mode forever. It feels safe in the embrace of the Divine.

You are talking to me Derrick, thank you

I am an empath and hopelessly single because I am used or betrayed every time I turn around!

I understand all too well...

Im a cool person and i carried a lot of guilt when the people past lives failed i felt a scene of responsibility for that weather its true or not i felt and to this day it still a memory in the the back of my mind. I ask God to forgive me for pouring so much of my life into those situations.

My whole story in few words!!!! Thanks Derrick

Truth!!!

Deep and true! You are spot on. I needed to hear this. You are amazing, and absolutely right.

True indeed it happens and you have to fall back, it's a selfish person and world

I felt like that. I was so exhausted. Now, I have taken steps back.

SO TRUE!! I approved this message

Yes went through that 😢

Please repeat for the people in the back! Derrick this hit differently! Thank you 🙏🏾

My 2 past relationships i tried to save them and u know they just wouldn't listen and i poured more of me into them and one passed away, one is well lets just say not so a no winning battle i would never

For Sure ! I

I hear you. God Bless🙏☝️

That was me....all day. I'm making efforts to change.

Thank you for posting because I have been letting them know what I know the less that you think that a person knows the more that do and when it's more important to be important then to do something honestly from your my prayer for people like that that they will not the love that I have in my heart I refuse to give it away to those who choose not to feed love back into it

Im a full empathy and i have to watch being nice so much

I can definitely relate just went through it😢

Thank you for this truth, this is the most craziness I've every heard of. Out and staying out I I I

Confirmation. Thank you Derrick. Done with the cycles.❤️

I....and thanks for the video. This came right on time