I'm a single mother but I vowed I will never involve myself with someone's husband. I choose righteousness for the sake of my daughters and generations. Let me be viewed as a fool.

As I single mom, I never involve myself with a married man. Let me just patiently wait for the man destined for me

Wakiama full of wisdom Your lipstick is always on point💯

How i wish every girl could walk away from married men,,as young as i am and God having gotten me out of a very bad situation with a married man who lied to me but realized it when it was too late...i left him and erased him in our lives,i left him when my i was only 2months pregnant,gave birth to my beautiful baby girl,,I wish i could advise all young women! It is the worst choice you can ever make.

Hii ndio gospel nataka kuskia kila wakati 🎉🎉🎉🎉my namesake your are best

NGAI ombi-ire Adam mutumira noo tiatumia

Evilness is all over but God is coming to avenge for those who are oppressed

Esther is a lady blessed by God with a lot of wisdom and willing to share with others be blessed my sister and we'll make the 🌍🌎 a better place may God help us 🙏🙏🛐🛐🔥🔥💕💕

Superb show Monica/ Wakiama. Lots of wisdom society can gain from, congrats.

Best lesson learned... Thank you

thanks for the lessons, learning alot.

Love your teachings

I just love wakiama... thanks kagoni for the show

Words of wisdom thank you

This is so true,am a witness,I love it❤

what a nice topic so educational

My fav counsellor

Beautiful and lovely to see you two present this show in form of a conversation. Well done and keep it up. I follow you both from the UK. God bless you.

Its true what wa kiama us saying. When you pass the taste you and your children will be blessed always in Jesus mighty name. Amen

Very informative

Learnt alot from you wakiama

I love wa Kiama she is the best ❤❤

Wakiama you look soo beautiful 🎉😊

Andu acio ni arume tu....rugano rwakwa ni ruraihu muno rwa ruo na thiina,no uira wama,ahunjia aria matari akuure,matihunjagia ma,ona ni arata aa atumia oo acio mathukagia micie yene,,ni matuku ma muico andu aitu,mehia maraahakwo maguta magathogorwo ringi.....wui ..ni matua maatuire ma guthukia kwene

God bless you mama umenitoa bali

Wakiama, I love you and your teachings. Hi masomo ya leo, it's a hard pill to swallow, but one thing I love is the true teaching you give us. One thing nimesoma, goat wife always be smart.

I relive my pain and the words from the mpango wa kando every day! She called me all manner of names.......she wanted me gone after years and years of trying to build my home. It wasn't just her, but the hubby who contributed to this situation. God is the judge and the revenger. May both PAY dearly!!! There is NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED. ADULTERY IS A SIN. My side chick hope you read this.........

Devil hates marriage because he knows God ordained marriage

Hizi story za side chicks makes kagoni mad

WaKiama siku hizi tuna Wacha......I will forgive while in America Mami......I agree with Kagoni...

I remember a lady who was interviewed in another channel was told by the sidechick kojoa ulale. What a witch!

Hakuna side chick mzuri kindly respect God as a young girl n God will bless you

Truest.. Anyone or anything that comes between a married couple becomes death to that marriage. Wa kiama keep preaching the gospel of Christ on marriage.

Jane kingori🎉🎉🎉🎉

❤❤❤TEAM USA 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸WELL DONE ALOT OF WISDOM 🎉🎉🎉🙏🏽✅✅✅ASANTE SANA PRO.3:5

Normally its not easy i have gone through it but wee its only God who intervined

@ Wakiama n Monica.Kindly note: Sarah had told Abraham to sleep with Hagar but she still told him to send her away. No no no to two wives period.😢😮😠

Mpango wa kando ahikagio ni wallet ti muthuri,bona maskini wametulia kwa boma?

I'm a single mother for some years now and I even hate that name "side chick" if as a lady you don't have any plans with that man or the man don't have future with you,, please leave that family and wait for your own man for the sake of your generation

😢uuu .,....usiongee kuhusu mpango wa kando...wengi wife's tunalia coz men are Soo mad.Tumeyapitia mengi.God intervine for us,..but stick to ur home if Hana vita na wewe,.na usiongee sana...play cool.,..one dai atachoka an u shall see God's doing 😅😊

Hii nimeipitia siongei saana, unaweza jiua

Sidechic wa kwangu ako na 2 kids na bwana alipass unashangaaa yaaani a widow can ruin someone's marriage

Hmmm hmmm please U got it all wrong.... Talk to ur husband the men are the ones that are wrong... 😊

tutungate ningi ahona amuirie aaaiiii wakiama nawe ugutuonia uhoro

Wanawake mchunge hao marafiki wenu wengi wana changed wana kuwa sidechick 😅😅

Wee wakiama Kai uraria ciakwa? Muthuri eeraga muhik n ndaregire guciira kahii.i

Some comes back empty handed......they hate their wives

Guys let’s respect our marriage

Wakiama usiseme usuri wa sidech they're devo

Hata Mimi nitaachia class 6.Hii darasa imetushinda😅😅😅

Correct christian marriage from my type of christianity is between one man and one woman.Its indissoluble.Cohabitation is not a marriage but what it is:a cohabitation.When you interfere with a marriage,you are 'death' even if you are finally taken as a second wife.Separation doesn't need to be physical.A side-chick and a second wife are both marriage breakers.I don't think some of you bloggers are the right persons to advise others on marriage.

Monicah eti tuachie class 6😂😂😂

Am the wife

😅let me tell u Madam Wakiama,hapa inje goat wife wamekionanga

I wish I could tag someone

Genesis 16 8 And he said, "Hagar, servant of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?" "I'm running away from my mistress Sarai," she answered. 9 Then the angel of the LORD told her, "Go back to your mistress and submit to her."

Nie reke thikiririe tu

niu kubuo ndikubika tudu diweiru muru😢

With The Jovial Marriage Counselor ❤❤❤❤

Am going thru this now yaani this can mke 1 sink into depression sijui what to do...

nii onanii reka nemwo nguga ta wakagoni. Ndekwiyuruuuuuria riria atangihota kuhe ikeno niguo aranjokerera ati ndimuhiuhirie. Nii ninguremwo.

I wish naweza peana my stroi

Sasa sisi single mother tumezaa tutaa wapi vijana watuoe,na tena ulipatana na kijana anakupeleke mbio ili umuzalie mtoto wake pia,sasa inabindi tukubali wazee juu hawana haraka ya kuwazalia watoto,kwa hivyo wachaneni na sisi sio wote tunakubali kuaribu mbona za wenyewe ata sisi ni watu,ama munataka tutor wapi wanaume wakutuoa,lafu wanaume wengine kutoka inje uletwa na bibi zao

Niliolewa na kijana Hana chochote na nikaitikia shida ikatupiga nikaona niende Saudi ,,,after two years akaniambia anataka kwenda Qatar ni mlipie na nikaitikia but after amepata Kila kitu nimebakisha commission sister zake tukakosana nao after yeye kukuja kuambiwa instead aniulize pia yy alianza matusi and I was so ungry untill now should I forgive such a person mkikosana watu wao wanaingilia ukijiteatea pia mwenye amekuoa anakutukana am confused currently in Saudi sijawai weza kurudi nyumbani mpaka wa leo

This lady speaks exctly like my father maybe she is his sister muulize kama anajua babake

Hmm some men will never tell you they have a wife until You probably get pregnant. So what about that....?!...

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Monica tuko same wasup group roho ngumu the math is not mathing hizi lessons za physics na chemistry double double lessons aii reke hareme tondu ma unbani wi ruo

Supposing you had a side chick,not because you do not love your wife,not because you intend to leave your wife of 20 plus years,The side chick knows your wife well and she makes sure that she had a kid with you..Then on your part you love children and you would do everything to protect that kid ..though not ready for a second wife..The wife comes to know about it ..and though she trusted you so much..agrees that the side chick should surrender the kid to her.. but the side chick says NO..WHAT DO YOU DO IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES ?

Interesting 😊. The truth to this generation born from the 1970s needs to be told the truth!!! Their wives are NOT their mothers!! The mistakes their fathers made will cost them their marriages today!! If you are in a Christian marriage, the Bible does not expect a wife to stay when there is adultery. If the marriage survives, it’s a personal choice!! Another point, your husband maybe unfaithful while you’re still together and by an unfortunate circumstance, he gets a sickness. If he’s still in the marriage and you hadn’t left, be the Christian. If your are divorced. 1 Corinthians 7:15- you are not bound by such circumstances!!! God knows something about unfaithfulness. It’s deeper!!! When you save a marriage where it is clear adultery is the order of the day, live peacefully with the consequence of that SIN in your lineage to the 4th generation!!! Christian marriages are held to Biblical standards!!! Some of these marriages are kept selfishly because divorce has a stigma but the cost of staying is too much!!

First off all lets be honest, a number of "marriages" are not marriages, they are "come we stay" so therefore " “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder" DOES NOT apply. That is the first most important point!!!! Second, because people are doing "come we stay", even for 10+years and however many children, it is very fluid, when a side chick comes in, She is also looking for a come we stay with your come we stay! Your "come we stay" /husband can go ahead and "come we stay" with someone else! Why are we surprised!

Na teacher Stano aroigire eri niega gwa kameme

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I'm a single xtian lady hoping to get married well. These married men nowdays hata hawana aibu they don't care they come at you with full knowledge you know they are married but they think all single wemen are desperate for them. You are very wrong 🗑️. To me is an offence 😠

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Wa Kiama, pliz take a stand on this side chick issue. Do you support infidelity in marriage or not.

My husband alikuwa anaruhusu wanifanyie Kila mockery mpaka kupost picture zake kwa status namengine mengi but nilishidwa kufumillia mengi. Nakaondoka ineeded peace

What if a man is showing the txt to her wife za side check kuniheart nitafanya nini

Btwn the husband and the mpango wa Kando.. I think the husband is the one at the wrong... Most of us cames frm homes where greatgrandparent had three wives.. the mistake comes in when the intention of mpango wa kando is kuharibu ndoa

Monica, Wa Kiama will kill you some day wirh her humour

You both are on the wrong. Where is your wisdom as a lady? Whether you came from a polygamy background, but what's the Bible teaching?

Does a woman wearing fake hair really look good or she just feels good? Weave, not my thing