Exactly! Angry over nothing

Sounds like you are having your monthly friend.

Relax, it's been proven men go through it, as well. It's just not called PMS. We also don't bleed for 7 days, of course.

I agree; My ✌🏾Sisters would have me for breakfast, lunch & dinner for 4 days (Approx:) every month. Now they're married. Whew.... Now their diet is on someone else. And..... I AM 💯%SINGLE 🙆 From, New Delhi, 🇮🇳 .....🙏🏽

I'll take marriage advice for 300

I didn’t see that coming for the first time

But she was acting crazy !

​@@Harry-bn5mp maybe fed up of being married to a toddler

@@audreykennedy90 Maybe so, but still acting crazy!

Debra was always like Marie

Judging by the audience reaction, they were thinking like Ray LOL

He really needed that slap.

big time smug

Even Deb was surprised Marie did that 😂

Smart

Sir, I agree; My ✌🏾Sisters would have me for breakfast, lunch & dinner for 4 days (Approx:) every month. Now they're married. Whew.... Now their diet is on someone else. And..... I AM 💯%SINGLE 🙆 From, New Delhi, 🇮🇳 .....🙏🏽

This is why I stick to dudes.

It's like you're QUIETLY walking through an active minefield. There's no reasoning or logic or communicating your way through it. Just quietly and gingerly move through it.

@@victorpradha9946 Unless you put your foot on the Mine activate button💥.....I.e- Say the wr🚫ng word... Accidentally..

LOL…

@community1949 Totally agree! That's what I went thru too!

@@lauracooper2526 And on top of that since there was me, my sister, and our mother we synchonized because that what happens when females are in the same living space. So we were all moaning and groaning at the same time. The hormones go through the air. I felt sorry a little bit for daddy but really not much. Like I said above men just don't get it - having monthly periods can be a nightmare at the beginning. Now that I am 75 I love it that does not happen to me any longer.

Honestly I've been man free for a few years and it's been so peaceful. Even my period is bearable.

It never made sense that they didn't move to another state but maybe Ray is just to tied to his mother's apron strings.

@@JonMacintosh-eh3rtwell in that flashback where they looked at the house Ray tried to talk Debra out of buying the house so they didn’t have to live next to his parents. She didn’t listen and we see what she deals with. And of course her excuse would be she was pregnant with twins and there was no blood going to her brain lol

I don't blame Ray for going golfing, to get away from smart eleck. She always puts Ray down. She thinks that she is so darned smart, but I don't think she is. I threaten to stop watching the show because of the way she always puts Ray down, but of course so does Robert because he is so jealous. I don't know why I'm still watching that show. Ray finally lost it and is telling Debra what he thinks about the way she treats him. It's really too much,. She treats him awful. She's sicking.

Ray big problem is a) he's a total momma's boy and b) he never helps Debra with ANYTHING around the house. He makes Debra feel unappreciated and he's not even sentimental enough to celebrate things important to her. My mother taught me to be participant in the household. On top of mowing the lawn, and keeping the cars fueled and maintained, I clean the counters and the bathrooms, sweep, vacuum, I grocery shop, I clean and cut the chicken and fish and lamb, I wash the pots the pans, I load, run, empty and reload the dishwasher. I even cook some meals. It makes life easier, plus I burn off my excess energy. BTW, my partner still loses it on occasion over the most trivial things more so during certain timeframes of each month...but I understand the biochemical impact. She also understands (to some degree) my sometimes 20-30 mins trips to the bathroom and my 30 min showers.

The episode where Debra and Marie prepare "together" a Tofu turkey for Thanksgiving is the rarest form of good tidings these two share without Marie getting on Debra's nerves with deliberate belittling and condescending wraths.

Occasionally they do bond like when they were trying to get Robert back with Amy.

Yes, as I did during my ladies' days years ago. But NEVER would I embarrass my husband in front of his buddies to take out my pain and frustration on him because my menstrual days were insufferable. It's wrong for Debra to do that to Ray, even if he comes off as lazy and indifferent toward her misery.

I agree but she did apologize because I think it just came out without her realizing and that happens to all of us but I agree that's too far. My husband pretends everything is PMS too but as much as it frustrates me I try my best to still be respectful​@@isabelbeckerman9226

@isabelbeckerman9226 , totally disagree! Have heart why don't you? Ray NEVER did anything to help Debra anyday!

​@@lauracooper2526But why did she shame him like that in front of his friends and brother Robert? I remember an episode where Ray stuffed food in his pockets at an important event. (yes, I know that was dumb of him to do something so gross) Because Deb saw his detestable act, Debra told a couple of gatherers she didn't know who he was. Ray was disappointed in her for mocking him in front of strangers, but she apologized afterward. I still feel Debra shouldn't humiliate him in front of his guests despite his lethargic attitude. She doesn't have a heart as a wife and mother of their children.

@@isabelbeckerman9226 Sometimes when your in a foul mood, its natural to care less what other people think. When I get hard days and I'm a bad mood, the last thing I care about how people see me. And doesn't have a "heart of a mother of their children", she is there for them, takes care of them, does the best she can and makes sure they are happy.

You mean, Marie? PLEASE!!!!! 🙄

In THIS episode, she was a great mother, but 99% of the time she sides with Ray.

Well one it is just a show and 2 if a woman is in the PMS or menopausal mode in real life that would be considered too far to shove someone into a bookcase

Did it happen to you perhaps, Josh?

@@isabelbeckerman9226 no

@@joshfactor1 Great 👍😆

Nice reference

Exactly

Exactly

This is why I'm the eternal bachelor. They're all crazy.

Congrats

Only women get away with it

domestic violence, from Debra. Not acceptable.

Exactly!!

I hate this episode. There's also other episodes where she gets violent but this is the worst one. If a guy slapped, pushed into a wall or elbowed a woman in the crotch he would be done and ostracized. I can take a joke but I just think this adds to the problem of men covering up abuse because it's accepted or they will feel embarrassed. Man or woman, no one should be abused.

@@krystal9256 agreed. this epitomizes how men are portrayed in media, and how it seems stupidly acceptable to ridicule them and verbally and even physically abuse them. NOT COOL AT ALL.

"Come on, comet!"

It is just a show😊

Then he NEEDS to be less LAZY.