I feel personally attacked

The therapy one sounds like something he should be discussing with his new therapist and not Reddit. 😂

The dad was definitely giving “best selling author” vibes. Like, “she has a PHD in my sarcasm,” like why he making the scene so descriptive like that?!

Nah the fact that her bf was MORE than comfortable with letting his gf STARVE because she got robbed? At that point leave him for your safety. Run, don’t walk, run.

The 14 year old's date refusing to even be seen by her dad makes me think he's definitely much older than her

Imagine calling to get therapy and the person on the line is like “Im sorry, call us back when you are TRAUMATIZED enough 🥰”

Deb: we are keeping it PG in here. Also Deb: *names her fan base “debussies”*

not the dad literally giving his daughter A PERMISSION TO DATE AT THE AGE OF 14 while also making sure that she is safe in a cool and not too invasive way and her being ungrateful 💀

Not only is the boyfriend a red flag but also the friends that wouldn’t pay for her meal or at least share theirs??? Like she even could pay them back as soon as she has her card

Not only does the girl who’s bf didn’t pay for her meal need to dump the bf but she also needs to dump her friends, because what friends are those who could just sit there and watch their friend pick the scrapes off of her bfs plate?!? 😀if that was my friend I would happily pay for their meal 🤦🏾‍♀️

It's heartbreaking how many ppl asking AITA are very sweet and are used, gaslit, etc. They're usually being taken advantage of or purposefully misunderstood and when they don't want to any more they're treated like the villain smh :/

“He said he had a good childhood” so did I. Then I realized I was emotionally and mentally abused by a teacher for 5 years. my mom having meltdowns because of her depression, dad in the hospital for months, and much more! Then I went to therapy, realized that no! It wasn’t all the happy! That ass made me so mad jeez.

I had a friend who got mad that I started therapy. We were online friends for years at this point both of us were aiming for art school and meet on one of those art forums. We would talk everyday and she would constant tell me about her problems l at the time I was a huge pushover since I was being abused at home and a way to escape the abuse was to just be quiet and do as I was told regardless of my feelings so I never told her no or anything like that. Apparently bcs I live in a country that has free health care and she didn’t (aka US of A) I wasn’t allowed to go to therapy since she can’t afford it. I think that’s when I realized how toxic she was I told her I’m going since I need to deal with the abuse I was going trough and wanted help and she threatened me with ending her life and telling me it’s my fault. She has done this many times and each time I would freak out and not know what to do since I didn’t know where she lived or how to contact anyone to help her. This time I was done I told her to go ahead and just blocked her I could care less if she is still alive or not bcs who tf does that to a friend.

I would bet my life on the fact that after girly left the restaurant, the boyfriend played victim and turned the entire story on his back to make her seem in the wrong

“your a good dad”……”and a good writer to…” had me rolling on the floor laughing 😭 NAH BUT FR HE WAS SO GOOD AT WRITING IT WAS LIKE A BOOK

“Is it bad that I would break up with somebody that did that to me?” OH NO NO NO NO it is *NOT* if you explained the situation of being robbed and then the man that owed you (who was also your boyfriend) really said oh well “starve then” like he owed ya and then told you no to getting food. I’m glad she left I would to

The last one i must admit i didnt think such a horrible and disgusting behaviour was even possible.

y’all let’s just take a moment to appreciate how she called us her *debussies* I feel so special rn 😭😭

I'm not a psychologist yet I'm just starting the career but the fact that person said "he makes therapy seen so casual and easy" it really hurts, like yes! Therapy SHOULD be seen as something easy and casual to do, like therapy is not something that you need some kind of requirements to get, you just need to want to get therapy and that's all, you don't need to have childhood trauma or any kind of trauma and the worst thing about it is that most people don't get therapy thanks to that harmful stereotype, because then people thinks that their mental health is not struggling or that they don't have any kind of trauma so they shouldn't get it and that's why we have so many teenagers and adults with mental health problems now. My point is that if you think that you need therapy or if you want to get therapy for whatever reason then just get it! It's your mental health and your life, don't ever let other people to tell you that you're selfish or a copycat just for wanting therapy.

16:16 those friends are fake af. The boyfriend is a bum, how do you borrow money from your partner and you can’t even pay for their meal wtf.

I hope the kid from the dad story learns that her dad cares so much about her, as a teenager it might not be obvious at first but the date could have been a horrible creep, not wanting to meet her parents is a big red flag. I wish I had a dad like him

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THE DRAWINGS?? deb's got a side hustle in artistry now 😭

the last one threw me for a loop bc at first i was like “a relationship shouldn’t be so transactional and you shouldn’t demand someone to pay you back like that unless it was a large amount of money” i’ve had friends demand i pay them back for meals (when we go out to eat and it’s just easier to pay all together) when it’s easier to just go back and forth paying for both meals (it’s not perfectly even but we were both financially comfortable and i don’t mind it not being totally even). it just feels so transactional to keep a tally of how much i owe you. of course it’s not right to take advantage of a friend’s kindness and just be a money leech but that wasn’t the scenario. anyway, i feel like this situation is completely different. this person got ROBBED and their bf won’t even get them a meal??? i get being broke but goddamn why even go to dinner if you’re that broke? at that point, stay at home and figure out your life. also why do ppl date ppl they obviously don’t like. it does not feel at all like the bf likes his partner one bit 🙄

Imagine you feel horrible and feel like you need to talk about something, so you call a therapist and they’re like “Sorry, but i can’t give therapy. Come back when you have a little more, mmm, trauma.”

imagine a parent that would listen to your frustration, actually reflect, and even write a REDDIT post to get a better understanding of their actions !!! he's a gold tier dad

The fact that the last girl even told her friends and bf about being robbed, is beyond me. Drop them and get your money back at a small claims court💖

i feel so bad for the girl who got robbed😭😭 she got robbed and on top of that her bf who owes her money ordered a nice meal for himself and offered to give the leftovers to her and not to mention even her friends didn’t support her?? OP is definitely not an a-hole , HER (hopefully ex) FRIENDS AND BF ARE

My daughters father literally said this to me because I had my mom with me during my c-section. He didn’t go to any doctors appointments or even see me the entire time I was pregnant didn’t even show up when I had the baby. But had the audacity to get that I didn’t want him in the room. Lmao

The therapy one had a happy ending! People gave him good advise and he’s now going to encourage his boyfriend to get therapy and talk to his own therapist about his fears and insecurities. I love a happy ending! 💕

You falling for the author father was the most deb thing you'll ever do 💀

Saying "going to therapy should be like getting a check up or going to the dentist" was actually a really good observation. I never thought of it that way but it makes a lot of sense, someone's mental health can be just as susceptible to illness or stress as their physical health.

When I heard they were 14 and one didn't want to meet the parents my immediate thought was the "shy" one was probably older or was sketchy. As a parent you should never let your kids go off with someone you don't know, if anything happened you don't know anything about the stranger last with your child.

To the last one: She not in the wrong for being upset. She was robbed which is something very scary or even traumatizing. The boyfriend was not understanding and the a-hole. She gave him money too, so the least he could do is pay for her meal OR order something for the both of them. Idk if I would breaking up with him for this but if is how he usually treats her then that will be the final straw. (Also the friends need to be dropped, how are they siding with him)

The way the boyfriend in the last story is basically eating the meal from HER money cause he didnt even pay back yet UGHHH AND SHE DIDNT EVEN GET TO HAVE HER OWN FOOD

I was so so happy, when my partner and my friend both decided they also want therapy after I started one. I felt like it was a personal gift to me (of course it wasn't; I know that), to heal together and build new communication and support each other.

I hate when people feel like they have the “right” to be in a delivery room. The only person who has the right to be in there is the pregnant person delivering and any necessary doctors. All other people should be invited, INCLUDING the father.

One of my psychology professors pointed out that EVERYONE should see a therapist. It's not possible, partially because there aren't enough therapists, but EVERYONE can benefit from therapy. Therapy isn't just for trauma. Therapy can help you better understand your environment, your relationships, and your own thoughts and behaviors. Therapists can help you with communication with others, reducing stress in your life, developing coping strategies and working with your weaknesses, understand other people's viewpoints, deal with grief, manage anger or toxic behaviors, and more. And best of all, your therapist can tell you whether you're the asshole or not! There isn't a single person who couldn't benefit from a good therapy session.

“Subscribe or I’ll bite you” love the positive energy 😭

I'm not a parent but it's very important to know who your kid is going with incase you get kidnapped it's a huge red flag that the guy was so sketch about meeting the girls father I wish teens knew about safety and just how important details like this are the dad wants to keep you safe you're lucky you get dates most dads say no all together

The last story tho, I can't imagine being around someone so toxic that they will not pay you back EVEN THO YOU GOT ROBBED and won't even pay for your meal, THEN GO AND ORDER SOMETHING BIG INFRONT OF YOU and say, "oh I can't afford to buy you food just sit there and starve" 😘😍

THE TEA IN THESE CONFESSIONS IS MORE FUN THAN ANY TWITTER SCANDAL

“Billy bob jr Age:American Job:harassing native speakers” why is this so funny to me 😭

I had to qualify for therapy, I’m not even joking. They talked to my mom and went At first I didn’t qualify, but they decided that I would have a few sessions to see if I did. It’s been around a year since then, and I’m still in therapy

Deb: “we are keeping this channel pg “ Also deb: *reads dirty wattpad stories rates thrist traps makes dirty wattpad stories* (Dad can u come home now i’m famous)

Ain’t no way the friends WATCHED her being fed literal SCRAPS AND SLOP and didn’t say anything or even offer to pay for her. I really hope that she isn’t associated with any of those people anymore and I hope the next time she goes out to eat she buys herself a nice meal and posts it for her (supposed) ex to see because girl you best believe I would’ve done the same.. Edit: OMG I just checked this comment and it has 1.8K LIKES? Thank you so much :)

Your braids look like they're made of gold, and I am HERE FOR IT.

The first story. Smth like that happened to me and my mom for speaking Spanish…….in a Mexican restaurant…..and our server was also Mexican and speaking Spanish. The Caucasity

Fun fact: The whole «checking if youre eligible for therapy” thing is like actually a thing in my country. You straight up can be refused help if they think you’re not sick enough, and the waiting lists can be yeeears long. A lot of people die just waiting for therapy. And even crisis help is hard to get, if you’re suicidal they likely won’t get you committed before you actually attempt, sometimes if they don’t think your attempt was bad enough they don’t do anything then either. It’s insane

The birth giving situation she is not the a hole…. She’s doing something deadly terrifying and excruciating and should be surrounded by love and support. It’s the entitlement for me.

OH MY GOD I’ve never seen another trouble maker before 😭 love him

I simply DEMAND 😩👏 more of these videos this is entertaining af

If your partner says "oh you can eat the scraps off my plate" instead of just like, ordering appetizers to share, nah. I'd toss his food on him, flip him off and leave. Like we're done, you're done.

"he made therapy seem so casual and easy to do" isn't that what it should be?? isn't that what therapists hope their patients feel like??

you make these stories so much more entertaining with your commentary and editing

girll. this is my first time watching you and absolutely loved it. the editing and personality were 🤌you really had me cracking

The therapy one…… YIKES!!! Telling someone that they’re not “messed up enough” to go to therapy is something that should be discussed with her therapist bc that is toxic

The therapist one rlly had me on the edge of my seat. Like yes of course u have trauma but that doesn’t give u the right to say someone who’s had a supposedly good childhood doesn’t “need” therapy. It’s for anyone who’s interested and yes there r always things to improve. To me it seems like HES the one undermining his bf. and for all he knows maybe he just inspired him to finally get a therapist to, it doesn’t mean he never had the thought of having one before. Sorry for the paragraph, luv you deb

Stop you're so charismatic and chill and hilarious at the same time and also like an artist too?? (no srsly the sketches helped entertain me and made me retain the info in this vid much better) bestie this is my first video of urs and I'm alr subscribing

DUDEEEE I TOTALLY AGREE! as i was watching i was like i would directly break up with a boyfriend like that. you are NOT alone LMAOOOO

The dad is correct to meet the people his 14 y/o daughter dates, teens are so impressionable and could easily get caught up with an older guy

I love deb's little giggle it's so cute 😭

girl i love your energy and as someone who watching stuff with subtitles when i’m not deaf i’m so grateful you put a ss on screen

Talking about the therapy one, I literally had the best childhood I could’ve ever asked for and I’m still in therapy 😭 like girly that’s not how it works 💀

The fact that her friends thought it was low of her her to get up and leave, and she should just be polite and stay there 🤦🏽‍♀️

About the BF Going To Therapy one: I have had a much, much, much worse childhood than the guy who posted that AITA. But I am NOT going to gatekeep therapy. In fact, I actively ADVOCATE for "normal" people to go to therapy because it is HEALTHY. Therapists and psychiatrists help us understand how to process our emotions (and for others, our trauma) in a HEALTHY and POSITIVE way, and I think more people should really learn about how to do this stuff! And just because someone had a "good childhood" does NOT mean they're mentally stable. Plenty of people who end their lives have had a "good childhood" or have "seemed normal". It is NOT okay to tell someone not to get therapy just because you have trauma they don't have. I knew someone IN MY OWN FAMILY who passed away from a sudden pill overdose, and they were an incredibly cheerful and "normal" person! You NEVER know what someone else is going through, EVER. And it is fucking INSULTING that someone would think that way about other people. So yes, OP is 100% the asshole in that situation. NEVER tell people NOT to get therapy, and shame on him for thinking that way!!!!

i love your humor omg, just found my new favorite youtuber

watching this video HAS to be the most i have laughed in a while, like your humor and editting style is SO FUNNY I SWEAR TO GOD subscribed and will be binge watching your content

No because why was that dad’s confession actually good in terms of the writing 😭

The Therapist Gatekeeper definitely has some unresolved envy from his traumatic childhood towards people who are able to openly express their needs and wants and having access to a safe space. While the Gatekeeper mentioned that he had therapy when he was younger, he claims it was just sort of like making a pros and cons list for each parent. Seeing his partner just being able to up and say "I think therapy would be good for me because I feel like I could work on a couple of things in my life" pisses him off because he wasn't able to have that in his childhood, and he probably couldn’t properly communicate his needs to his parents like his partner did to him so easily. The focus was on his parents and their divorce, who's fault this and this was, not on their child and how it was affecting them. The way the Gatekeeper reacted to his partner wanting therapy was definitely shitty, but I can see why he acted that way if he has never been able to resolve his childhood trauma from the divorce and has had to be a parent to his parents, rather than living life as a child and having his problems truly dealt with. Good on him for getting therapy now after all that time; he needs it. Keep doing these videos, I like Dylan’s reactions to r/AITA submissions as well, and you both have great things to say about the submissions. If you’d like, you should also look at and include some of the comments under the submissions (what other people are saying/think about the situation, and whether or not they’d deam the submittor the “a**hole”). Dylan did that in one of his videos and I liked seeing his reactions to what other people had to say/ just him reading the comments in general. Love your hair by the way, the blonde is super pretty! I have been debating whether or not I should get blonde colored braids, but I fear it may look weird on me. May I ask what type are they, and how did you get the pretty curls at the top? :) Have a great day!

Girl, you NEED to do more of the these confessions!!!

I absolutely loved it and NEED a part two!!!

not that one guy gatekeeping therapy ☠️ his logic in questioning: “why do you always have to copy me 🥺🥺 be original for once 😒”

“The gf after eating a fresh bowl of oxygen for dinner” had me dying on the floor. I can’t Deb is soooo funny 😂

after that wonderful speech, i cant believe im not subscribed (no, i genuinely thought i was lol) deb is so funny omg gotta hit that sub button

new viewer here, and your humor is exactly what i've been needing these days. i love your vibe

you’re the perfect person to do Reddit reactions I’m so glad you made this!!!

idk if i should be intimidated, impressed, or scared after those confessions

this is the first video i’ve ever seen of you and you’re literally so hilarious 😭

this is my first video of yours but you are so insanely funny omfg 😭

brooo the birth one 💀 imagine how dehumanizing it is just being seen as a birth giver by your ex. Like, shes not even friends with that person at that point but shes expected to do something so personal and vulnerable as let him watch her give birth??? And not him being SHOCKED that she would say no to that?????

the girl: i have anxiety and i think those people are talking about me also her: im gonna go confront them

this is the first video i’ve seen of yours and i can already tell you’re gonna be one of my fav content creators

first video i’ve ever watched of yours and im OBSESSED !!! instantly subscribed, keep doing you please 😽

The lady that made a scene of people talking a different language... where does the confidence come from when she thinks strangers shittalk her? ☠ Edit: I loved the video, Deb, more wouldn't be bad at all! Also, bro if my boyfriend tried to be cute like that at a restaurant, giving me table scraps like a dog? Done and dusted. 🥰 Like, no.

Honestly the therapy one enraged me. Regardless of trauma or past if you feel you need therapy or even just want it go ahead. Nobody gets to judge why you get to go to therapy, because things effect people differently, so something one person doesn’t need therapy for another person could. I first went to therapy because of an irrotational fear when I was a kid, my parents didn’t think I needed it but they decided to try it. After doing therapy frequently we realized I had multiple anxiety disorders and some trauma from being forced into things that terrified me too fast. Therapy helped me and my family realize that I, unlike was first thought was not mentally healthy and probably never will be. It helped me realize that I need and always will need extra support, and to not be ashamed of it. Therapy is an amazing tool and I recommend everyone who can tries it at least a few times. Rant over, just wanted to complain about how gatekeeping therapy is awful lmao

So want more of this😭🤞🏽

This whole video was great! Love your theatrics and sketches but that beautiful pup stole the show and my heart, tell her give it back immediately! 😂😂❤️ SHES SO STINKIN CUTEEEE

Deb: “Why does everyone think I’m a furry??” Also Deb: “Subscribe or I’ll BITE YOU” 😸 *edit* Holy tysm for the likes 😭

Wtf if she's not comfortable with him being there while she's giving birth, why is there a problem? Like the audacity of this man.

hearing you speak french so nicely as a french girl just convinced me to follow you, also spanish is so easy and hard at the same time but i feel u it's so cool to just speak spanish

also i just found this channel and omfg i love u and ur videos so much already

Concerning the story of the girl who had her money stolen and couldn't eat anything at the restaurant : If I was her, I would have broken up with the boyfriend and then looked for new friends because...😬

as someone who is currently invalidating my own mental health, the therapist reddit post really got me. i've personally put off seeking help because i believed my trauma, childhood, and mental health was not as bad as others and therefore therapy can't be an option. also opening up to someone whom i don't know and being alone while discussing my problems seems so scary to me (it genuinely makes me feel anxious), i feel like i'll immediately start crying as soon as i speak and that i'll be judged for being so sensitive lmao. i recently had a huge rant about my mental health on a gc with two of my very close friends, it felt good finally being transparent and honest about my health to them. im so thankful that they appreciated me being able to speak about my slight childhood trauma and all the events that lead me to who i am today, i remember that they told me to try to get help. but like- girl i dont have time?? anyway the main reason i've kept telling myself not to get therapy is the anxiety, what if my problems aren't that bad and that it's just a phase and that i'll get over it? despite what everyone has been trying to tell me, my brain cant help but deny it and invalidate it. i genuinely feel so lost and wrecked. school is stressing me tf out, my self esteem has gone to shit, but i feel like it'll just go away over time. sorry for the long ass paragraph, whoever read through it ily and i hope you're doing okay

I love this type of videos, you just got a new subscriber🥳

Your doggo is so adorable!!

As for your favorite dad writer and his 14yo daughter, I think that situation is pretty normal. Though when it comes to dates, especially at that young age, you should be at least comfortable with saying a simple, "hi" to the parent of the person you're offering to take out. I mean, why be afraid if you have nothing to hide? p.s. that dad also really got me twirling my hair and smiling ;)

The stepmom is just one of those rude stepparents who try so hard to control and low-key harass their other partners children

first video i watch from you and ur hilarious girl!! your editing skills are on point 🤌🏼 bravo

You are literally so adorable. Subscribed 💞