I think your overwhelming charisma and his cute awkwardness overshadowed that he was kind of racist right at the beginning of the conversation

her rizz even works on racists 💀

The racist forgetting he’s racist 💀

She charmed the racist out of him 😂 she said “southern boyyy” and the prejudice left his body for a minute ahaha

he's the type of guy to call us "snowflakes" but he literally got offended so easily lmfao

THE COUNTRY ACCENT

back is not arched and toes are not curled, slippers and pots are ready for throwing

I'm just now realizing that deb literally has incredible rizz and ability to carry a convo.

NAH CUZ I WOULDVE SKIPPED RIGHT AFTER THE "IS UR DAD STILL IN YOUR LIFE" QUESTION.

"is your dad actually in your life or no?"....YALL THE RED FLAGS WERE LITERALLY RIGHT THERE OMG😩😭

See this is such a good example of how subtly toxic partners set up the dynamic. He forced you into an insecure position where you were fighting for his approval and when he rewarded your apologies by sharing more, it forced you to apologize for everything that made his facial expression change. Even when he said something that was a huge red flag about whether your dad is in your life, because there was a spark and you were being so open and charismatic, you wanted to continue the conversation. In short, you’re not a clown!!! His behavior was very intentional and very manipulative.

bro the racism really left his body with deb's energy we have no choice but to stan😭❤

now we know his masculinity is so fragile and that’s why he was upset about being called ma’am

The classic “I really thought he was different” trope. Damn, we got played 😩😩

HE WAS LITERALLY "no don't leave me🥺🥺" PLS WTF

4:36 I literally SCREAMED at this part- deb’s ability to flirt and look cute is so cool

The question “is your dad still in your life ???? I was gagged I died it came back to life 😭😭😂🤣

This clearly shows how your personality can even warm the most darkest people.

"You cracker barrel bitch" LMFAOOO HELP

I’m from Tennessee (I’m Afro-Latino) and I can confirm all the boys from that hellish state are just like that.

It’s crazy how they can have interactions like this with people of color and then STILL be racist towards us…

heart been broke so many times….darn u tanner. the potential. the ability. the accent. *sigh*

the dad question and the stare when you said "yes ma'am" 😭 immediate red flags girl

Deb has so much charisma she was carrying their conversation

Imagine being so crazy beautiful, that a racist forgets to be racist coz he's genuinly duped by that crazy cute personality... sis - you got the power, but in saying that, this man is problematic!!!

The way he just zoned out when you said "i don't expect ppl to be respectful here on Omegle, you know what i am talking about". HE STILLED. HE THOUGHT YOU KNEW 😭

5:43 Deb: Whats your name? Him: Tired Depressed Deb: 😯

Loving how she got Wattpad happily open

I love how he’s taking it personal with the country accent 🤣

girl I empathise with you so much, we're hopeless romantics and it sucks that the world doesn't have the view of the world that we do.

the way he was constantly guilt tripping you about his ‘depression’

babe you CARRIED that conversation he was so dry

Girl I'm so sorry you got caught in his Ku Klux Klownery 🤚🏾🙍🏾‍♀️

deb’s southern accent is just lovely 😌

3:04 "im not used to respectful people yk" ikr💀💀

the head tilt at 2:47 had me SLIDING DIAGONALLY ACROSS THE WALL- crying over the lost potential fr

deb: “i have to go” racist boy: “i’ll just sit here and be depressed” GUILT TRIPPING MUCH?!?!

He had so much potential, my heart is aching 😔

We all need someone like you in our lives I swear. Your energy is so infectious. Boy was doing less than the bare minimum in that conversation and you still managed to be engaging.

Her rizzz is CRAZYYY she is herrr

He was an insecure little man that made you apologize to him a million times. Toxic right from the start. I love your energy deb. Never change Edit: I will not be signing autographs at this time.

….I’m throwing bricks at Tanner 😭 HE HAD ONE JOB WHICH IS TO BE A GOOD HUMAN

6:00 gurl you started being a therapist 4 him. YOU need one after him

When he said "Wait, you have a dad" At the VERY BEGINNING; I knew

It’s totally okay , never feel bad for showing love or interest in someone, it just shows how human you are. You have a big heart and don’t let someone’s personality, attitude or character make you feel like a clown. Hope this won’t make you stop being openly genuine and loving.

“I’m not used to respectful people” deb said Deb finding out he’s a racist: Us: oh how the tables have turned

The POTENTIAL. I think it’s just ur flirting and charming personality that made me feel like there was potential. He was being such a red flag the whole time saying “I’ll just go back to being depressed” even a year later this video is so funny to me I love you deb and keep being charming 😭😭

the soft jazz in the background is actually killing me💀💀

Girl I am so sorry. You did not deserve that.

I couldn't even bear to watch past the ''is your dad in your life'' question...like kudos to your patience and charisma girl, my ass would have been on the skip button so fast.

"Is your dad still in your life?" 👀 ahem... felt racially motivated

WATCHING THIS VIDEO 9 MONTHS LATER AND REALIZING THAT THERE IS SCOTTISH NATIONAL ANIMAL IN HER TABS I- 😭😭

ok everyone gather around the fire we need to debrief

Girl when you asked him to just talk to you I knew you were feeling something

4:25 DEBS GOT THAT SKIBIDI RIZZ (idk what that means)

“Is your dad actually in your life or nah” THAT SHOULDVE BEEN THE SIGN

The way I feel like slapping myself for smiling at the interaction in the omegle vid. I am just watching this vid to watch deb be the cute and funny person she is

I feel so... betrayed:( we should've known better than to trust a yt american man, deb we're here for you

girl im just seeing this now and don't u dare ever put urself down for smth like this. all this shows is how amazing of a human being u are. unfortunately, the rest of the world isn't usually the same, but that says way more abt THEIR character than yours. tanner don't deserve it ♡

She did all she could to temporarily end racism ♥️

Look at it this way. The person who commented that saved us ALL the embarrassment of thirsting over that man for TWO videos straight 🤷🏾‍♀️

As a gay man, I always *hopelessly* fall for the Tanners. Though it is completely different than racism, I can understand how freaking annoying and heartbreaking it is to let yourself like someone only for them to turn out to disrespect and hate the exact group of people/person you belong to. We should be allowed to crush on someone without the fear and realization that they hate us. Don't let the Tanners get to you bestie, he was cute in the moment but be thankful it was only a moment!

Girl Ima cry the emotional rollercoaster that this video put me on

Me taking notes on how the hell she carried that conversation

Girl lmao I had no idea why you were flirting with him when all he did was ✨the bare minimum✨. But you probably did him some good by giving him a positive experience with a POC.

HELP THE WAY WE WERE ALL OVER TANNER WE CAN NEVER HAVE ANY THING 😭

damn he actually seemed nice n all☠

Man im embarrassed to be from Tennessee 😭😭

Sending Tanner straight to the throws phone bracket

the scottish national animal tab still makes me giggle

this hurt my soul. and the way he was like “im so sadddd you r gonna leave me depressed” is such a tanner from Tennessee thing to say. sobbing leaving me heart broken. and he was doing so good and then god damn really tanner from Tennessee. ily deb #tannerfromtennesseehateclub

I know he went to bed thinking about her 😂

to tanner: i’m not mad, i’m just disappointed

Deb never trust a white boy with a southern accent you should know this 😕

i’m sorry they were so cute

The “wait is you dad actually in your life” @ 1:28 WAS THE FIRST RED FLAG

i had hope for tanner omggg deb i’m so sorry babe , i’m going thru it with you😩

GIRL HES FROM TENNESSEE WHAT DID YOU EXPECT 💀💀

omg, that was soo cuteee. I literally can't blame you for folding cause that convo was just so cuteeee

3:17 HE DEF KNOW WHAT U TALKING ABOUT CUZ HE THE ONE WHO B DISRESPECTING PPL BRO WAS HAVING FLASH BACKS

“This is kinda fitting, cuz its black history month.” STOPPPPPP- ITS GIVING RACIALLY MOTIVIATED 💀💀

I have no idea why people are saying you were doing the most. You probably felt a connection and your natural reaction came out flirtatious. Any other girl (or guy🤷🏾‍♀️) that was feeling him probably would do the same. And I hate to break it to some of y’all in the comments but black women have a right to flirt with or be with anyone they want. If the person end up being a narcissist, a prick or simply racist, we must keep it pushing. I don’t want any black girls discouraged from this. Tanner is not a representative of the male community or the white male community. In fact, he’s more so a representative of who you’ll find on a sketchy ass site like Omegle. You will find real love, Deb and black girls watching❤️ you need to just keep it pushing, learn from mistakes, and look in the right places.

Deb you are so gorgeous oh my lord. Don't feel dumb-- just shows how your kindness shines through!

Debb, your giggle made me smile.🥺

😂😂😂 nah that’s crazy

I can rlly relate to romantisizing a person, I honestly think it was u that made the conversation special or pleasant because u seem very charismatic and just like a sweet person who is honestly interested, that makes good conversation and connection. I rlly hope u dont feel guilty or bad ab it for too long bc ur awesome and negativity shouldnt keep u down! I hope instead u can learn from this, ofcourse setting boundaries and stuff will always be hard especially for an empathic person but by posting this u may also help others who struggle w these things even just by them relating to this bc I sure did:)

6:08 Miss gurll really became his therapist

NAHH IM SO LATE BUT LIKE MY GUY HAD SO MUCH POTENTIAL :((( YOURE SO STUNNING BTW OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOUR VIDEOS MAKE ME CRY FROM HOLDING IN MY TEARS

it’s the way you were being so genuine when he said he was lonely and he was being all nice to you and shit made me not even realise the “is your dad actually in your life” comment i’m crying with you

Ong this is true heartbreak we were all out here rooting for him and this happens, honestly Deb should not feel like a clown, we were all tricked by this boy! OMG THIS SAME THING JUST FUCKING HAPPENED TO ME ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!! WHY ARE COUNTRY BOYS LIKE THIS!!

Nah I’m sorry u had to go through that😔❤️

The moment we heard the dad question, the fact that he was a southern white boy from Tennesse and the fact that he went duck hunting should’ve told us all😭

Yo deb, as a black girl that lives in the suburban southern part of ohio, I fall for the racist country boys to and take a L…one day we will meet someone that will see us and not our skin..well I want them to embrace my beautiful black girl powers but ya know what I mean girl.😭stay blessed girl #throwintomatoes .💕😘

EITHER 90% OF GUYS ARE RACIST OR ITS JUST OMEGLE CUZ NOW IM LOSING HOPE IN THE MALE GENDER. screaming, crying, & throwing up rn

YOU WERE GIGGLING AND EVERYTHING AWW 😞

not the tab on the top saying 'Scottish national animal'- 💀 I love you Debssss!!!

when she said “it’s fun to listen” and he said “how?” 🚩🚩he doesn’t listen to people

I can't even watch this in peace. Everything he's saying sounds Racist now 😭😭

7:13 WAIT DID HE SAY IT AGAIN HERE IM CONFUSED

I’m rewatching this video and Realized how down bad deb was. 😔😔