I’m a mother of 7 and I work nights aswell. I suffer from depression and I never thought another mom would understand how I feel everyday. Thank you so much for sharing and making me feel not so alone. 💜

New here. Girl you have to start NOW, making rules for your home. I have 3 children all close in age (8 year old girl - 6 - 6 boy/girl twins) and I taught them from toddlers to pick up behind themselves. We ONLY eat at the kitchen table. Doing just that will stop the crumbs and those smells in the bedrooms. If we are playing, we don’t move on to the next activity until we tidy up. Ex: playing with dolls, then 5 minutes later they want to do water paints. Sure! But we pick up dolls first and put them in the “doll bin”. make them help with daily chores. I promise it will make them think twice about being messy. Explain that they will have more fun time if they pick up behind themselves and not have to spend half a Saturday cleaning!!! 💖 best of luck

You have great taste in decor. Honestly, teach your babies a cleaning routine so they take it with them as adults. ❤

I love to read all the mom’s comments on here that are uplifting. It really helps me with my depression knowing that I am not alone in this overwhelming cycle of maintaining a home with children. When I’m not working I’m doing all of that plus the many other things it takes to stay afloat. My social life suffers because by the time I’m through I don’t have the energy to even be on the phone and I’m most likely going to fall asleep halfway through my show. I feel for you and all my sisters who wakes up everyday to face the storm and puts on a smile as if the sun was shining. Because the weather is not always pleasant!

Until you have a child who is a human tornado…you will NEVER understand…thanks for being real and vulnerable

As your kids get older it's still a good idea to clean their room every so often, its a great way to know what they are into and holding onto. If it's drugs, weapons or poetry, or a science project...you will know by cleaning their room every so often ❤❤

This is why anything my mama want/need she can have… One day those kids are gonna literally look back and realize how loved they were

Giiiiiirrrrrl!!!!!!!!!!! You got me at THE CLEAN CLOTHES ARE IN THE DIRTY CLOTHES HAMPER!!!!! I am so glad it’s not just me! Mother of 2 boys and a husband and baaabby the struggle is really real trying to keep our house guest ready. New Subbie…pray God blesses you with the financial wealth and mental strength to keep mommying 💪🏾

Try a 10-15 min reset each night. And then have them make their beds in the morning. Honestly, there is no help for the marathon cleaning sessions if we don't stay on top of it daily. My daughter is a hoarder. Imagine what that room looks like. She has gotten better, with a weekly cleaning, and then I deep clean it once a month. Hope it gets better, stay on it, Friend.

This is so real! As a mother of two, night shift hospital worker, college student and wife with depression and anxiety disorder alongside ADHD it's so hard sometimes to stay ahead!!!

Big claps to you girl, but ant no way!! My daughter is 5 and knows better and still learning. The first thing would have been washing all the clothes, bedding and curtains spot clean rug and got a throw rug 😮😬🫢we have to teach our kids discipline and cleanliness. May things get better for them and you

You did a good job and a lot of people don’t understand that being a mother, with more than one child will put you in a depression mode. Specially, when you feel you’re doing everything by yourself. Thank you for your video I can relate to you.😊

You did a great job, Mommy!!! I’d like to share a little advice to make your job a little easier (in regards to things on the floor)…. 1. Sweep/put EVERYTHING into one big pile. 2. Pick Out everything that you want to keep, as you do so, put them into piles by category. Toys, kitchen items, books, clothes, etc. ( while doing so you won’t have to bend over so much… You can sit and do this or have the children help you) When I was younger, my mom would say if it’s on the floor it’s going in the trash and then we would run and pick up all our stuff😂 3. Put all your items that you want to keep where they belong…. this process should be very quick because it’s already categorized. 4. Throw everything that is left from your original pile in the trash. 5. Vacuum

GIRRRL 🫶🏽 💯 You are FANTASTIC and so so REAL. I can relate. Every time i do this same thing, i talk to my 10-yr old daughter and she “promises she’ll take care of it from here”. I’m inspired to do it again bc of you, hopefully it sticks with her this time!!!❤🤞🏽

girl you did that please take several bows on behalf of being a great mother and still pulling through a true mvp and i totally agree build a community to build each other up its a village loved your video and beautiful babies as well...

Children are becoming more entitled nowadays . If you continue to clean up after them, they’ll continue to take your energy and effort for granted . You appear to be a hardworking mama, but the children must learn how to assist you to lighten your load. I have an eleven year old and I had to threaten to throw some things away if she wasn’t willing to clean up after herself. It’s working! Your baby is a Cutie!

Sis, I feel your pain. Have you tried cleaning the room with your daughters helping you? I agree with you regarding getting them to do their own laundry. That should help them take responsibility for keeping their own tidy room!

Have you ever tried a daily chore chart for the 3 older ones? Example: Monday- pick all clothes up from floor Tuesday clean dresser Wednesday get all the trash up Thursday put toys away Friday pick up all clothes AGAIN😂 I know it’s hard but everyday make them do a chore before they can play with electronics!

You are so real. You are a good mom and work hard. The kids are loved. If the mess can wait, let it! Keep moving forward. Xoxo

Hi! Thank you for posting your videos. I just discovered your channel today and I'm really enjoying your content. I think your message is the most honest and real thing I've ever seen. At 57, as a mom of four and now grandma and caretaker of a 2.5 granddaughter, your videos hit me exactly where I've lived and make me feel seen. Thank you so very much! I know these struggles and you're doing a great job bringing reality to the difficulties of being a mom. I am off to watch more of your videos. You make me feel encouraged. Thank you for your posts. ❤

I’m a single mother of 1 and I work nights as well as a nurse. I feel overwhelmed many days and guilty for struggling with just 1 child. Thank you for showing your truth. It helps a lot to not feel so alone.

I’m about to tackle my daughters room, and needed to KZfaq some inspiration. Thank you!

sis you aren’t alone. i could relate to 80% of what you said 😢.

GIIIIRL! I just looked up a video and saw the cover photo and knew you were in the same boat as me!!! I'm a full time working mom of 3 in school and this is how my kids rooms look!!!! I do keep them to clean and it will stay clean a few days. I feel this 100%!!!! I also had PPD with all my kids.

I needed motivation today. Today is the first day off in a while for both my hubby and i and i got a baby sitter to watch our 2 yearold. I have an autoimmune disorder and have a few disabilities that keep me from pushing to keep the house clean everyday. I try so hard too and then my daughter she loves throwing everthing on the floor. Right after i clean i get so frustrated cause i legit hurt myself cleaning. I try and turn cleaning into a game but she just doesn't seem to understand yet. Im gonna keep up with her and hope i can raise her to clean up after herself. But i needed this video today to get my self up and motivated to clean the house and push through the pain and just do it ❤❤🎉

Thank you for your video! My children are all grown up, but for a while I suffered from depression. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You're strong and looking for ways to help yourself and others! I pray you get through this speed bump in your life! ❤

I just found your video randomly, and let me tell you, I can definitely relate. My daughter's room was always messy to and gross. Somehow, food was always hidden in some corners! This really shows the truth about motherhood and working moms. I appreciate this honesty and wish you all the well-being and love. 😊❤

You are truly such a good mom. I know how hard it is to work nights and still have to be a mom during the day. Sometimes I don’t clean at all because I’m just so tired from working all night. BUT my daughter is healthy and have everything she ever needs and most of what she wants and that’s what truly matters and from the looks of it, your children are happy too. You’re doing great mama!

I mean this. Your my truth. Im a mom of 6. Fulltime student and full time mental health worker and im dealing with being overwhelmed myself! Love your truth! You speak my truth!

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this mom. I too have suffered from major depression, anxiety, and panic disorder ( diagnosed at different times) . Unfortunately for me, I also have OCD and judge myself harshly if my house is not in order. I've found that taking the extra time to teach my children how to clean each room before supervising as they do it on their own has been a life saver. I've taught them we're all responsible for keeping our living space clean and peaceful. (Not including my husband because he's stuck in how his mom ran their house. For years he only maintained the outside and repairs inside). For my kids it was easier assigning them one corner at a time to perfect. They were easily able to master in small sections. They'd get a break, and go on to the next area. Started thus when they were each between 2-3 yrs old. Good luck to you. Also don't forget to seek medical attention because there are mild medications that can help wuth depression

Thank you for the honesty, I needed this for cleaning motivation

You should be proudof yourself just being able to get the energy to clean up while battling ppd and going to work is amazing . Proud of you 🤍🤍

A good helpful tip love is no food beyond the kitchen I can relate!!! And u are absolutely right a personal carpet cleaner is a great investment

I like that you’re a normal relatable person with relatable messes. You got this mom of 3 as a new subscriber!

I can do relate to this. My daughters bedroom always looks like this. I stopped cleaning it for her when she was 15 (she's on the spectrum, and has ADHD) I will help her if she gets overwhelmed by the mess but I won't do it for her. She's almost 18 now and I still find clean clothes in her laundry basket, but thats slowly changing since I introduced her to the washing machine and she realised that her clothes don't get cleaned, folded and back in her room by magic. Good luck teaching your kids to clean up after themselves. It's an on going task but they have to learn eventually.

I agree girls are very untidy I have that problem with my kid but my son is so neat crazy 😂

Thank you so much. U made me feel motivated to clean my musty crusty bedroom. Keep the hard work up! ❤

The best part is knowing it took you all day because of everything else you have to do as a mom. As a mom and wife with ADHD and I suffer from depression I always thought it was my ADHD that was the reason it took me so long to get different cleaning projects done around the house. Even though I have to stop and feed people, change diapers, put them down for naps etc. I just thought I was flawed and the only one this happens to. It's refreshing to see people clean who have real messes and I like the girls lights on the wall I bet they love that.

Love, prayers and my subscription. Keep pushing, your doing an amazing job. What has helped me was "a peaceful home" by elisabeth elliot, and learning from another older woman (who was a stay at home mom) that her kids clean everyday for 2 hrs. I am a full time, working preggo mom of 3, and i spent 1 hr each day teaching the kids to do laundry, dishes, and tidying up. I cook and huddy takes out the trash, this helps maintain daily life. ❤❤❤

I love the commentary and I feel for you, mama! Kudos to you being able to do all this with 4 kids. I have 1 and another on the way and I'm already too tired haha

First video I've seen of yours and im subscribed! This is real life we all go threw it! And girl I find clothes in the dirty basket with tags still on them!! Cleaning up to my kids means throw everything and anything in the dirty clothes. I get so mad because I have enough laundry to do!

Omggg! I just subscribed because of this video. You popped up in my feed and I can definitely relate to a couple of things in this video ❤🎉

Good job 👏🏻 getting it done ✅ I totally understand what you experience... Proud of you woman 👠 ♀️ 👑 Been there with the depression which pops out every now and then... And you have to get these kids doing something to help keep the home less chaotic.... You will be a little less overwhelmed I promise you 😊

One room at a time about to get it today. Thank you for inspiring ❤❤❤

So good to see/hear another working mama that's not afraid to admit that their life is crazy and the house isn't always spotless. I have boys and whew chile😅

Your video got me off the couch and cleaning house. Thank you 😊

This was a really good video I love they room and you did a great job you have really inspired me to start my KZfaq as a single mother of two kids I am finally moving on my own and I always wanted to start a KZfaq. Thank you so much for pursuing your dreams and not letting nobody stop you or talk you out of it. You are definitely letting god use you to change live keep going.

Omg I needed this I thought it was only me I have four kids and every since we purchased our home it’s been straight messy all they do is blame each other and I get every thing you just said smh I be in deep depression behind this I’m so happy to see that it’s not only me 😢

You go mama! Every week its always a struggle putting laundry back. But at 46 I've taken to hanging more than folding. I hang everything! I'm just loaded with hangers. Besides socks, everything needing folding such as underwear, and jammies just gets thrown in the closet

You are doing just fine ….just keep steppin girl, it’s when you can’t see the dirt and nasty that you are in trouble….❤️

Needed this today. ❤ the honesty

Good job non for having the courage and strength to do this !

I can appreciate your hard work and determination! At least you work at it, I've been to homes of young and mature women where you have to maneuver strategically! God keep you ❤

The only good news is that the kids will grow up and it will be easier. You are a great mom. Good job 👏🏻

Love this!! Completely relate! Watching from Kent uk xx

We as mothers have more in common with each other than we allow ourselves to be vulnerable with. I’m a mom of 3 teens and a 3 yr old and it seems like I can never keep the house clean. Constantly repeating things (especially to kids old enough to know better) is sooo depressing. We have to learn to be easier on ourselves AND other mothers/woman. I truly believe that’s step 1. Still working on figuring out step 2 lol

I recommend a area rug dark! At least will protects majority of the carpet👍🏼 I really relate to your life as a mom and the depression as well 😢. I only have motivation to sleep lately to avoid everything! Life isn’t easy. But us moms have to go to God for strength and peace! I live how honest and humble you are! Need more moms like u on this platform… not fake pretend to have it all together moms ugh!!!😩

I have 4 and this is how their room looks. My 3 older ones 8,7,4 have to share a room and so it looks like a tornado went through there. My 1 yesr old sleeps in my room and so it causes little people to think everyone is welcome and so then my room is a whole mess 😂 thank you for being real and being in this mess with us other moms ❤ we need more people like you who arent afraid to be real ❤

I have 7 and a husband. Believe me I know where you're coming from. One thing I do to keep myself sane is make sure my room is my peace. A no kids zone, unless with permission.

Your babies are beautiful!!! You are a good mother. All you have to be is good enough. If your house is messy sometimes, it's ok!! As my mom told me, one day your house will be clean & your babies gone. ----and she was right. I sure miss them being little.❤

I like the fact that this how it be in real life . Some of these people make it seem like they house always clean and all that when they know dam well is a mell and they cleaned before filming lmao but u show the real thing i can relate to everything u said ❤️ sending love ❤️

Just subscribed! Thank you for this video! I’m currently cleaning my boys room and girllllll it’s always a disaster! Thanks for the motivation 🎉

Oh babe, I’m a daycare worker, people would be surprised how fast they can destroy the place. All day I run around cleaning after them and staying on top of them cleaning up. Not everyone has time for that when it’s not their main job. Kids will grow and they will learn. Just keep doing your best mama!

I was just thinking about that when you said it great moms think alike, I do love the decorations.

My kids room would get just like that. So I relate to you . One day I was just done so I went in the and sorted all the toys in boxes took them out of the room. I only allowed a small box of toys in room. I rotated them every month. I also downsized their clothes to a 10 articles of clothing and1 pair of tennis shoes, 1 pair of sandals and 1 pair of slippers. Once they grow out of slippers I no longer bought them cause they never used them and 1 jacket. They grow out of the clothes so fast anyway : once the clothes didn’t fit I bought more but took out the ones that didn’t fit immediately. I wish you luck

Babe u are not alone. There was a time in my life when my kid’s room would be like this often. Now my kids are grown but suffer from mental health problems and sometimes her room will get like this now as an adult😢 we are all humans going through very real experiences, so be kind to yourself and each-other. Edit: I still have to take apart my vacuum almost every other time I use it 😖

I understand. I'm also suffering with depression. You are doing a amazing job keep it up

I feel you so much! I have 3 children 17, 8, and 7. Currently my 7 and 8 year old share a room and this is what will happen with their room within about a week or less after i clean it. No food or drinks allowed in their room but every time I'll find trash of stuff they snuck in their! And trash that appears out of nowhere! It's a constant battle! Now that they are getting a little older I'm a bit more strict and have them help a lot more but its still a constant battle. It's so nice to know I'm not alone!

Great job, MOM! And my daughter has that bed too is super cool it’s in my living room

You are amazing, mom. I am a mom of 5 children 😢they clean up behind themselves because they are bigger that your,but your decorating skills are amazing.

New sub here! Momma of 6! And girl I struggle with depression and I’m wanting to share cleaning vlogs and mom life! But I’m loving your channel! We got this mommas!!!!!! 🤞🏾🤞🏾

God bless you, I remember going through this a Mother and a wife cooking, cleaning I felt like I was on a hamster wheel. But then I turn 50 and told them I am done, I am no longer killing myself for anyone. In your case you have babies so be strong mama God got you.

When I refused to clean up my room, my mom put everything in a trash bag and gave me one hour to clean up. Everything left in the trash bag was supposed to be thrown away. Including clothes. Nothing would be replaced. Since that day my room was a lot more clean. 😅

Girl I came across your content on IG and just had to subscribe to your KZfaq channel just subscribed a minute ago and I already love your channel! 😊

this is literally what my little sisters room looks like 24/7 and when my mom says time to clean she shoves it all under her bed and in her closet 😭😭

I totally relate!!😢 then my cat has recently pee’d in her room!😡😡 this is a struggle. I just pulled the carpet out. No more carpet! I won’t even begin on what was under places, in that room. 😫 you got my full support.

I’m a mom of four and you’re helping me so much 😢I just want to thank you cause it is hard

Im a single mom and I do housekeeping for work, by the time I come home I’m so exhausted and have to start preparing for the next day and the last thing I want to do is clean after cleaning all day and yes sometimes it gets pretty bad. It’s hard but we got this !

Just found you on YT and I could relate. Glad I’m not the only one going through this.

My dear, i just press play listen to you speak and clean my house with you so its fun. Ty for the solid mutual conversation without words lmao 😅

When I say this Its in no way disrespect! You need to sit down your children and talk to them about the value of money and how important it is to keep your home clean and organized for your mental health. Also to just feel safe and clean with no stress! It looks to me like they dont respect the beautiful things mom buys for them (hince the dresser Im specifically speaking on🤔)! If my child damaged something I worked for, OOH NO SWEETIE, NO, NO NOOO NOT HAPPENING! You have beautiful things that most can't and will never have so treat it special❤ They need to learn this from mommy 1st tho! Have a family meeting, make it a fun time go to dillar genral and pick up a foam or poster board, markers, foitter, stickers, etc and make a family chore board and follow through on it daily so they get into a repetitive routine! Mom you have no idea how much stress this will take off your shoulders just having help and a clean home! I promise you it will start making you feel motivated and energized to do more and more! Remember, what their growing up seeing from mom & dad is eventually what they will mimic for their future with their families. Break that cycle now! Again, this is no shade at all just trying to help I know what your dealing with to well and I am on the outside looking in🤷‍♀️ What better then to hear my opinion it cant hurt! ! I used to clean my son's room and then do all his wash you know all the motherly duties Im suppose to do. But he got ungrateful and felt intitled for more and more! So when he turned 14yr this past March, I showed him how to do his own wash, cook good food not air fryer and microwave, real home cooked meals😋 I showed my son how to properly clean our home too. When I clean, I deep clean wiping down ceilings, walls,fans, base boards, etc. But I suffer from mental health issues as well and I get lazy and dont want to do anything besides lay in bed but then I get a throat kick back into reality, the show must go on😂🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I don’t have kids and I completely understand because I babysat my little cousins, and babyyy them kids will destroy the cleanest of spaces in 5.2 seconds. You’re doing great mama, keep up the great work! ☺️

You are a blessing to me.❤

My 8 year old daughter does the exact same with her laundry 😤😂 great idea getting them to do it themselves! Please do more cleaning videos! Love from England ❤

I'm a mom to 7 and I take care of my mom dad and help my sister with her kids I also take my son's brother on weekends and sometimes.i literally find myself crying in my bathroom so I feel you love

I am just happy that we have playroom ans not need to experience this on my kids room. But you are doing great. 😊

I relate OMG 4 now all grown, thus is real… full time working mother as well, it’s tough, father did help out around the house SOMETIMES, you doing well, don’t panic, 1 step at a time, it’s endless, ended up throwing the tiny toys out

Haha hold him I'm cleaning YOUR room. I felt that. I swear my daughter is a craft hoarder

You’re such a great mum

Teaching your kids to clean up after themselves is so important, from a young age. They will have hard time keeping their homes clean as adults if you always do it for them.

THANK YOU THIS IS REAL LIFE - NEROSPICY MOM AND WORKING ON MY OWN BUISNESS

I can sympathize with you and a full blown job. I would suggest making a chore chart for the kids that can help do and that receive a reward at the end of the week.

Yes, I went through it for 18 years now ! And still going through it!

I can relate to this, mother of three here, there’s ppl judging don’t pay attention to those with perfects lives.

Good luck ...i hope you get them on a schedule of cleaning WITH you...and make them clean their room every day..,.you are a good mom... just too much for just you..BUT YOU ARE DOING IT WELL👏🏾👏🏾

“I’m bending over the majority of this video, just think of it as a full moon” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I like the names you chose for them

I was one of the kids that was messy. My mom was always yelling at me when i didnt clean things "her way" but something i learned was parents cant always have control over their kids. Especially at that young age. Sometimes you gota just let them be kids for awhile. Its not your job to clean after them either. Let them be messy. As long as they are safe is all that matters.

Girlll when he said it’s you I fell out 😂😂😂 it’s always your own kids to play you out 😂😂😂

The children are taking advantage. They're taking advantage of your mental state and your willingness to do it for them. All they have to do is wait you out long enough and you'll cave and tidy their mess. You're not helping them or yourself by not training them to be tidy. You and them should tidy up together.