​@@nitekoreooh right cause you see the outcomes of alternate realities.

😭😭😭that’s the 4x Kroger champ

​@@spartan8696lmao

No, it is just what happens 9/10.

@@spartan8696ate

@@Roma-SRyanThe terminology you choose to get your point across is very interesting to me, I never looked at it the way you described it

That’s literally what boundaries is…to tell people what they can and cannot do around someone….

So, if I say I don't want my girlfriend fucking other men, that's not a boundary? I'm being controlling?

@@Roma-SRyan why having standards, boundary is insecure? A man is insecure when he don't tell what he want in the relationship, afraid if her leaving

bruh its not controllin when the person literally sets out the boundaries for the relationship to continue. Nobody is being forced to be in the relation ship so no its not controlling. If I tell my girl things I'm not comfortable with and tell her the relationship is not going to work if she does certain things I am not forcing the person to be in the relationships with me

Boundaries? But he can post shirtless pics on Instagram.

@@okaytsoneishe probably didn’t set a boundary for that and if she did I’m sure he would’ve deleted it or she would’ve left him

@@okaytsonei Boundaries are not used to tell other people what they can and cannot do, which would be controlling. Boundaries are established to help you plan and communicate your response to what other people say or do.” Boundaries are about the actions we are willing to take to keep ourselves safe and healthy

@@slimeylicob boundaries can be what the other person can or cannot, an example is you dont want you gf/bf to speak with their exes.. which happens sometimes

@@investa9772but saying that your current partner can’t talk to their ex or like photos or dance with other people at parties is kinda controlling isn’t it

😂😂

why do you think that? lmaooo

Facts

Duke’s a good F-ing guy tho 😂

@@izobelllecuz most women lie about how they want relationships 💀

Of course it is set for urself but the boundary is also a request of conduct of the other party for how u want things to continue. The intent is what gives it the distinction.

​@@BlackGodKing-oi2grwhy is he complaining when he has shirtless photos on his instagram

I kind of disagree because a boundary can also be set for your partner. For example, if I don’t like when my partner play fighting with me, then I can set that boundary. Another example is if I don’t like my man being flirty with other women, I can set that. Even if he doesn’t realize that he’s being flirty, I will make him aware of it and expect him to not doing anymore. That is a boundary. It’s the same vice versa. Men and women always have boundaries in relationships. Just because a man does it, doesn’t mean it’s manipulation or he’s trying to control her.

Wrong asf 😂

@@okaytsoneimaybe because it’s ig and not around bunch of women.Also she might not have a problem with it and I don’t think he was recording shirtless women with his meat out 😂

Unfortunately nothing will change if there are no consequences for talking recklessly and ruining people's lives as a result

But it can still be considered as a sexual gesture that was not consensual.

There is a difference but it seems many people do not know the difference. Asking of your significant other to specifically not do something that makes you uncomfortable is not “insecure, manipulative, and controlling.” People just have their own morals and standards.

Do you know the difference?

None of that shit was manipulative lol. He laid down his boundaries. If you ain't cool with it, leave. Don't bring that shit up on some fake "this has destroyed me" type shit a year later when basically nothing happened lol. We're so comfy in our lives nowadays that we consider taking down a picture on IG as emotionally abusive. Everybody desperate to be a victim.

Yes there is but people do try to cover up they manipulative behavior as that

@@gloriempaka9474yes they don’t have the same name or definition simple 😂

Yes she did😭😭😭

@@tyreek.6815 I mean her doing that shit with Usher not her energy my bad lol

I agree but that doesn’t change the fact she somehow lost his trust. So why didn’t she post that??

Exactly. No one should HAVE to, keyword HAVE, to change their job, hobbies, or personality, sometimes even friend group for their partner. No one should take their insecurities and restrict their partner from doing harmless activities.

Why is he shirtless on his Instagram tho? Double standards.

@@mariahnotcarey3370 thats why its boundaries it’s something if u cant take u don’t date/marry now u cant get mad when someone gets mad at u getting thot shit when ur fucking married/have someone at home literally

@@okaytsonei that’s double standards TO U u BUDDY IDC ABOUT HIM OR HER MEN TAKE SHIRTS OFF HOW IS THAT ENTERTAINING ANOTHER BITCH WOMEN WILL DO SHIT FOR ATTENTION ON IG LITERALLY dont bring up double standards when women fully fuckin double standard everything that men can’t fucking do please

@@okaytsonei OR maybe because him being shirtless on Instagram was never an issue for her. Use your brain.

Exactly how I see it. Only reason i feel someone would do that is so others with cosign them and gang up on the person they tried to publicly shamed. He wanted high fives.

The embarrassment was made public by her

Because she embarrassed herself

@@cypher8499 No? She, a comedian and entertainer, posted a comedic video of herself at an Usher concert. The attention only came after her baby father made the comments. Literally no one would have cared if he didn’t open his mouth lmao y’all are in denial.

@@dajuiceman8870oesn’t matter if she is a comedian or actor. She did something that he didn’t like publicly so he has every right to do something back publicly to her. An eye for an eye you’re in denial bruh

Honestly feels like he handled it better. He didn’t complain about his relationship, just a random guy attempting to normalize a fetish. (Swinging)

Nope. Him and Adam22 arent on the same level. Lmao Keke is the star. Who is Darius? Her baby daddy/boyfriend.

​@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 I have no idea why some women reduce guys like that. For example: If a guy is the bread winner, it's not okay for him to refer to his wife/gf like "She's just a girlfriend. She's just responsible for looking pretty". It's not okay for both women and men to reduce their spouse as if they have no value.

@@AJXO-30dismissing black man is a woman’s favorite past time unfortunately (some)

@@Quentin_314after y’all hate on black women sure

It’s mostly weird because he wasn’t even under her page or her comments. He did a retweeted quote under somebody else’s page about her. It’s just so unnecessarily indirect and shady

The reason it seemed weird was also because of the tweets he was liking. He liked some really disrespectful tweets about her, but if she likes it....

Going to twitter about your relationship problems instead of your partner is bitch-made. He a grown ass man.

@@Blackmagic_874 keep that same energy when your girl is acting slutty in public and isn’t listening to you in private my guy

@@Stylzisahippie can’t get mad for someone reacting in the moment to something that was obviously something he disliked even if the way he was tweeting was indirect or shady. She probably wouldn’t of seen anything wrong with what she was doing if he didn’t call her out publicly cause women usually don’t listen to us man privately

That’s a fair way to look at it. However, you’re still lost on the fact that isn’t a boundary. You can’t place a boundary on a woman you are with to lose weight, that’s control. The only boundary he can place is on himself. As in if he is not comfortable with it then he can leave her. Again, he isn’t wrong for feeling that way but he is wrong for saying “do this because I’m right and you’re wrong.” Again if he doesn’t like it he can leave, that’s a boundary. Just like her not wanting to lose the weight is also a boundary. Just because you call it that doesn’t make it not controlling, it is. Date the people that match the people you want to be with. Don’t try to change people and call it a boundary. You are actively telling someone you know better for them than they do for themselves. That’s fucking delusional you aren’t them and vice Versa.

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@oneofone3770no it’s called looking out for her. It’s only control if he forces her to lose weight or do something. I don’t know the full story but if he did try to force her to lose it than it’s control but it’s the past people learn and grow up. Not wanting to also lose weight isn’t a boundary, it’s you just being lazy. Sometimes people are needed to be changed because of there bad lifestyle choices, no one wants a fat person bruh unless that’s your preference which is kinda 🤮

​​@@ygdamien826ow do you physically force someone to lose weight? Are you okay? Lol And she wasn't fat. I hate drama queens. Yall depressed Cause she gained a little weight.

@@okaytsonei no you don’t force someone to lose weight but you can make a suggestion to try too. If they don’t want to listen than they’re just lazy and don’t see nothing wrong with how they look. That’s literally how fat girls think bruh

@@okaytsoneiMan U in every comment I sad huh😂

Her job is to flirt with other man?

Just like how y’all ALL skip over the fact she did something to obey someone’s trust? Entertaining men? We don’t know so stop skipping over that.

They shouldn't have been together at all. Neither one seems ready to be in a relationship. She begging him and he's trying to micromanage her because of his issues he's addressing .

He didn't demand anything. Read the actual text.

Literally bro and he isn’t demanding anything from her and saying she can’t do those things

so people cant have preferences for their partner? and its not a "men" thing grow up

@@wunnamadam7679 like I said. U can’t use “preference” excuses to excuse ur misogynistic mindset, it’s control n ppl have to learn the real definition of words n apply it properly

@@PrettyAddict14 if he forced her I would agree with you but he literally just told her how he feels about it and gave her a way out I don’t know what is misogynistic about that but I think you need to think for yourself

@@wunnamadam7679 just cause u don’t say it disrespectfully doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Your boundaries can not be what someone else does with their bodies so u can keep making the excuses all u want it’s still wrong . U can’t wait for someone to change then be mad at them when they don’t conform to u

@@wunnamadam7679 he knew what she was beforehand still got in a . Relationship with her and then shame her for not following ur demands. No one has the power to change the person u want them to be

He never said she can't take pics in swimsuits...

He never said she couldn’t do it

She was completely wrong for posting those messages that’s very vindictive and maniacal a lot of women in wester countries have no respect for men and it’s disgusting smdh

he don't know you lil bro cut it

" weird vibes " 🤦‍♂️

She was not forced to be with him. He even said that if she don’t liked it then he’s not the one for her. It’s not that deep

​@@loon3y178he wasn't forced to be with her either. It goes both way. You have no right to change someone just because you are dating them. That is weird.

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 ok yea so? He didn't force her to change anything? The messages imply something else was going on that caused those boundaries to be the way they are. That's why they're not together anymore, its possible that he doesn't even have those boundaries with his current fiance because she didn't go against his trust like this girl did.

You’re all over the place. 1. That statement is very valid. Context is real stop acting like it’s not a factor and reality is based on context. Many people WOULD bc most people want themselves to look good rather admit their wrong doings in the heat of the moment. Stop lying like you’re perfect. 2. Sure he could’ve ended the relationship but that’s very odd to say bc why would you end the relationship just bc you have problems? If you don’t try to work through then why are you even with them? 3. Yes they could’ve sent different things but that doesn’t change the fact you’re basing your opinion off of her context. COMPLETELY skipping over the fact she did something that somehow obeyed his trust. Stop leaving that part out.

Other wise you’re right. He could be “insecure” but she is also wrong for posting private information which can get her sued

@@tyreek.6815 I'm not all over the place and stand by what I said. Looking at your points. 1. Context does matter and i'm not saying context is pointless but people use context as this win all lazy argument. Without full 100% context it's impossible to understand anything argument. Context won't always justify actions, and we can see when someone is in the wrong off of basic context. No one is perfect but why would that mean everyone had to be a raging jerk or has super shady things on their phone? 2. Why would that be odd to say? The wisest thing to do is realize a person you are with isn't compatible with you and move on, right? Why force someone to be something they are not? He got swept up by her but clearly her lifestyle is not compatible with what he is looking for. She is a surfer who models on the side. He wants a low profile modest women. From the start, it was a bad mix. His celebrity status probably compels her to want to stay in the relationship more. 3. The other part of that lazy argument is using the pretext that we don't know what she did. Which assume she did something bad or worse to explain said actions but we don't have that "context". Which you and many others are already building some negetive context to her past actions, with what? You guessed it no context. Again using the pretext of his actions as a reason she had to have done something bad. Anyway again wrong of her to post those texts and she is probably bitter about how it ended but both things can be true.