Dekh Dikhayi | Short Film on Traditional Marriage in India | Women Empowerment | Why Not | Life TaK

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Жыл бұрын

In a clash between traditions and modernity, Gunjan, 28, a successful software engineer, agrees to participate in the ‘Dekh Dekhai’ tradition for her mother’s happiness. Watch this short film to know how she finds herself navigating through the labyrinth of patriarchy and uncomfortable situations. However, when Gunjan’s mother add a twist to the event, it sets off to unravel the fabric of marriage norms.
#traditions #marriage #whynot #modernfamily #dekhdekhai
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@surinsid5196
@surinsid5196 Жыл бұрын
It's better to be single than to marry into such family 😢
@puspitadas4917
@puspitadas4917 Жыл бұрын
Excellent... It's the women who are pulling down women... There is a bigger need for all moms to teach equality to their sons.. Then only society will change.
@talibdalwai1085
@talibdalwai1085 Жыл бұрын
Totally Agree
@lj6079
@lj6079 Жыл бұрын
So true, my friend was 28 when she decided to marry and she was told by the boy's mother that she is only suitable to marry a widower or divorcee.
@meghnamandawra9075
@meghnamandawra9075 11 ай бұрын
To be honest that is the real problem even much educated people still treat their son like a prince and their daughters as a burden and especially mothers and grandmothers.......I have tried to explain my family that you must not do such things and literally mere bhai ko sar pe chadha rakha hai.....ghar me khana tak uske pasand ka banta hai baithe baithe khana pani milta and and nani / dad is toh lad pyar hi karti rehti hai even after him throwing a tantrum ..shouting and being disrespectful towards them or even me ..I mean you guys don'thave self respect let it be i have mine..happy to be going soon from this house for studies.
@faibanu7684
@faibanu7684 10 ай бұрын
Yes,of course 👍 A MAN should be TAUGHT that HE is going to be responsible(for the rest of his life) for a person who was LOVED,CARED and BROUGHT UP SAFELY 👍.HE should DEFINITELY be a good PARTNER, IF He wants to bring a " PARTNER " into HIS HOUSE 👍 😏😊☺️😍
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 9 ай бұрын
@@lj6079what the heck. My cousin is 25 and a 27 year old boy’s parents said she is too old for their son
@deepakgoyal4997
@deepakgoyal4997 Жыл бұрын
Inki soch se to bada hi hai humara ghar - What a dialogue! I 👍
@indiangirl001
@indiangirl001 Жыл бұрын
Mu pr bolna chahye tha
@poojaiyer1309
@poojaiyer1309 Жыл бұрын
I was shocked when the guy’s mom rubbing the girls palm said she has soft hands with the fear of her not having experience in doing any household chores!😮
@prachiraizada8429
@prachiraizada8429 Жыл бұрын
Wow mother ho to aisi, tabhi ladkiyan equality pa sakti hain society me. Nirupama aunty rocks in every role 🤘
@prathamgodbole5055
@prathamgodbole5055 Жыл бұрын
As a boy, it is an excellent film in my opinion. We need more of such open minded mothers. And btw I can make Biryani 😋🍗🍚🍛
@Moon-ng9dt
@Moon-ng9dt Жыл бұрын
Veg biryani 🥺 Wait u r marathi right?
@prathamgodbole5055
@prathamgodbole5055 Жыл бұрын
@@Moon-ng9dt No I Don't believe in Veg Biryani. There is no Biryani without Meat 🍗 Yes I am Marathi
@dollys9936
@dollys9936 Жыл бұрын
@@prathamgodbole5055 you look like an open minded boy with good upbringing. How old are you ?
@prathamgodbole5055
@prathamgodbole5055 Жыл бұрын
@@dollys9936 I'm 17
@wgodsgrace_
@wgodsgrace_ Жыл бұрын
​@@prathamgodbole5055haha so true biriyani doesn't feels biriyani without meat
@shifakazi4679
@shifakazi4679 Жыл бұрын
In this short film , Gunman’s mom is very supportive standing by her daughter’s side otherwise there are many parents who do not think abt their daughter and place them in the hands of anyone
@sanian6521
@sanian6521 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@harmeetkaur2997
@harmeetkaur2997 Ай бұрын
Excellent depiction of equality between men & women. It tells that it’s time we broke the stereotype that burden and break women with age-old expectations. Kudos to the mother.
@syedafarheen4148
@syedafarheen4148 7 ай бұрын
Awesome. If parents trust, understand and support their daughters , the daughter will be stress-free and far away depression
@kalindisharma7659
@kalindisharma7659 Жыл бұрын
Har Ladkiyon ki Maa ko thik aise hi behavior karna chahiye, .........Nice 😊
@prachialdangadi9663
@prachialdangadi9663 Жыл бұрын
Very nice video. Boys have to become men now n realise they are marrying a life partner not a ready maid-cook-caretaker. I remembered my dekh-dikhai n my poor hubby was so nervous but very honest in giving all information about himself that I fell in love on first day itself. Just like the girl in the video, I was more qualified than my husband and couldnt cook. but he never made me feel bad about it n I learnt slowly. All traditional marriages are not horrible nor scary ! It depends on the families n your future spouse. I am married for 15 years now n cant imagine a single day without my husband. It doesnt matter HOW you meet but rather you SHOULD meet the right person.
@beurself2690
@beurself2690 Жыл бұрын
I can see my mommy in her. My mom is my strength ❤
@Swatiagrawal28
@Swatiagrawal28 Жыл бұрын
Highly appreciated..why these questions are only for girls... nowadays both men and women works and contribute in the home expenses,so responsibility of domestic chores also need to be managed together and not just left for women
@cauhanronak
@cauhanronak 10 ай бұрын
Mam can marry a unemployed girl can girl do so
@vibebliss1515
@vibebliss1515 2 ай бұрын
​@@cauhanronakpadhi likhi naukrani chahiye
@AffectionateRocketShip-tv9kb
@AffectionateRocketShip-tv9kb Ай бұрын
​@@cauhanronak sir can you stop taking dahej
@cauhanronak
@cauhanronak Ай бұрын
@@AffectionateRocketShip-tv9kb Absolutely
@AffectionateRocketShip-tv9kb
@AffectionateRocketShip-tv9kb Ай бұрын
@@cauhanronak oh c'mon dahej in name of 'gifts' is also dahej. You can become a greater person by telling here that you will not take but when the girl family is giving, no one denies. Everyone is like if they don't have problem in giving then why should we say no. Right??
@deepikavashisht3076
@deepikavashisht3076 Жыл бұрын
So proud of such a mom. And the lovely lil sister ❤❤
@vsrig
@vsrig Жыл бұрын
Fabulous! It has been a while since Life Tak added something like this (after many “shorts”) Wonderful film. I loved the end “going to prepare the next set of questions” 😅😅😅
@sewaniguria7332
@sewaniguria7332 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video... I'm full agree with girl's mom.. Now a days all r equal.. Everyone should learn every works
@meenupawar6311
@meenupawar6311 Жыл бұрын
I wish all mothers support there daughters like this ❤
@Nbpratik
@Nbpratik Жыл бұрын
My husband can't cook, so after marriage I faced some household chores problem. Then we hired a cook maid and managed it well. Till date I have househelps who take off a lot of burden and helps in the smooth running of household. My husband helps me all out of house works including weekly rations, groceries etc.
@medhakulkarni2542
@medhakulkarni2542 Жыл бұрын
100% agree.Both r working so both should share equal responsibility.लडका जैसे थका हुआ घर आता है तो लडकी भी तो काम करकें थकती होंगी. पर नहीं, बहुसे ही सारा expect किया जाता है.बेटा बैठा रहेगा बहु आते ही काम पे लग जायेगी. कहीं न कहीं थोडा.......सा बदलाव आ रहा है. पर और थोडा ज्यादा की उम्मींद रख सकते हैं ?
@mehtalibra1986
@mehtalibra1986 Жыл бұрын
I just love this lady..we need these type of women in our life and society..
@survikumari7815
@survikumari7815 Жыл бұрын
One thing very good about Lifetak channel is that it keeps the climax like reality while it lacks in other channels. Very nyc video and younger sister acting is so cute... especially when she says Google 😂
@bandybond6454
@bandybond6454 Жыл бұрын
This reminded me of my dekhdikhai. When my mother in law asked me what all can you cook. I said very basic rice daal . She replied “no worries “ my son knows how to cook other things. You both can manage well. And that’s when I got fidaa on my MIL without even seeing who is the guy. But later on, when my marriage was fixed, some relatives had come to see me just for formality, and what they did was still shocking for me. They said “saree utne ache se pehni nahi hai, aao hum thik se pehna de.” And their real intention was to check my body.. and see if I have any lacking anywhere. I was so angry. I would have said No to the marriage. But my would be fiancé said, they are not even family. Some formality wale relatives. Why bother them. I also had such sweet experience with MIL I went ahead with marriage. It’s going to be 10 years now. My husband and MIL have been blessings for me in my life.
@meenaiyer5856
@meenaiyer5856 10 ай бұрын
You are also a blessing to them
@sancharig5863
@sancharig5863 Жыл бұрын
I love this lady. She is soo graceful and good with her acting.❤
@rajk2677
@rajk2677 Жыл бұрын
Good message. It is important for the guy to also know what goes on into making a home. By becoming equal partner he will be giving a life lesson in equality to his kids too. Saksham is suave and cute as always.
@sukirtiverma3345
@sukirtiverma3345 Жыл бұрын
Amazing concept of the video 👌🤘. Here daughter' s mom is shown broadminded & supportive but usually we don't get to see these types of Mom in person . Either they show forcefully marriage or Emotional blackmail things . But these things end to need soon as possible.
@meghnamandawra9075
@meghnamandawra9075 11 ай бұрын
We need more such people in the society who are broadminded...I hope our generation becomes one
@sukirtiverma3345
@sukirtiverma3345 11 ай бұрын
@@meghnamandawra9075 Yes, we definitely need more people like this .
@meenaiyer5856
@meenaiyer5856 10 ай бұрын
All mothers are not same
@sukirtiverma3345
@sukirtiverma3345 10 ай бұрын
@@meenaiyer5856 Ya , that's true 👍
@shivangigupta4454
@shivangigupta4454 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video and the way girl's mother responded❤
@merlynmenezes_0106
@merlynmenezes_0106 Жыл бұрын
Western culture is all sharing in a way... Slowly we are learning to adopting it but that' how it should be... Can't pile everything on the woman....?! Beautiful content and msg @LifeTak transforming mindset...👍😍
@muthukasimani5098
@muthukasimani5098 Жыл бұрын
Excellent to see Nirupama ji ....what a natural actress.....
@humera121
@humera121 Жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the spot! Perfectly delivered.
@lowkyachandaka9677
@lowkyachandaka9677 11 ай бұрын
Ladka ya ladki both are equal. When a woman is working and sharing the financial burden of the family equally to a man then a man should also share the households. Well presented.
@sumaiyaferheen5653
@sumaiyaferheen5653 Жыл бұрын
Good job done by makers and actors . Brilliant concept . 👍
@shrutiadusumilli9450
@shrutiadusumilli9450 Жыл бұрын
Everyone should do this, my mom also faced the same thing when she got married so she taught my bro to know how to do household chores and cooking simple dishes so that he can stay by himself and take care of his future wife if she is sick
@tiat3456
@tiat3456 Жыл бұрын
A woman need not be sick for a man to contribute equally in the household chores
@shrutiadusumilli9450
@shrutiadusumilli9450 Жыл бұрын
@@tiat3456 Hey yes she also thought me simple dishes only to help because if we want to cook smthin special we can see the recipe and do it as we know the basis of cooking and she never told him not help equally and i was talking bout the vid so why r u so frustrated and plus my mom did not comment so why r u scolding her?
@Crystal-mx4gr
@Crystal-mx4gr Жыл бұрын
This was such a fulfilling episode ❤ loved it. I also want this kind of support from my family instead of getting pushed into an unwanted marriage. Soon from next year, i will be going through this kind of ordeal - dekh dikhai.. and i wish to meet someone humble and kind to be my life partner ❤❤
@shivangidixit1356
@shivangidixit1356 Жыл бұрын
Such a brilliant concept beautifully written and directed 🥰😘 and Kudos to the team which perfomed so well to justify the characters 🥰🥰
@mayasingh4855
@mayasingh4855 Жыл бұрын
Bahot vadia concept tha...ladki bahar bhi kam karey aur ghar ka bhi....ab time ye aa gya he...bete ki mummy ko betio jese beto ko bhi sare kam sikhaye tabhi married life achhi chalegi
@isha9560
@isha9560 9 ай бұрын
Such a lovely episode. Beautifully written and executed❤
@faibanu7684
@faibanu7684 10 ай бұрын
Beautiful 🥰 Hope this happens in reality at appropriate places and appropriate times 👍👏
@littlechamps9022
@littlechamps9022 10 ай бұрын
In the end I am also smiling...🤗perfect blend of story,emotions as well as casting...that 1 chutki lil sister..overall mind blowing short muvie..
@archana3634
@archana3634 Жыл бұрын
Wow 😲 it's such a nice concept.... Just loved it😊
@jayati2385
@jayati2385 Жыл бұрын
Nice to see such a supportive family❤
@lucyeekumari1111
@lucyeekumari1111 Жыл бұрын
Every girl deserve such family and esp. her mother🙏
@prakruthic1723
@prakruthic1723 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video.....just Amazing 👌👌
@rupajeetamohapatra983
@rupajeetamohapatra983 Жыл бұрын
It's superb yaaarr.... Your content is so well... Well done
@divyamenon2018
@divyamenon2018 Жыл бұрын
Proud of such moms ❤
@Drhealthspirituality11
@Drhealthspirituality11 Жыл бұрын
Great..❤ Marriage is a man-made institution to run the society..end goal should be satisfaction God
@ministhomas
@ministhomas Жыл бұрын
Great ! Very true. Bold Mom. Congratulations
@nalinipriyagundlapuri5538
@nalinipriyagundlapuri5538 Жыл бұрын
Much needed episode....❤
@anushkaagrawal6821
@anushkaagrawal6821 11 ай бұрын
It's totally true..every mother should be like that
@Kavitaclasses
@Kavitaclasses Жыл бұрын
Excellent ,, always love ur messages given to society, hope we all in together will change our mentality
@roshmiray674
@roshmiray674 11 ай бұрын
Just loved it.... One of the best short films that I have ever watched.... This is what I call equality...... Why shud boys have all the fun....? ... Keep it up..... The concept was just too good👍👍👍😂😂 ....
@funnyfountain8349
@funnyfountain8349 Ай бұрын
I am soo happy to see this short film soo amazing ❤❤
@priyankaacharjee6373
@priyankaacharjee6373 Жыл бұрын
No words extra...just loved it♥️
@Anjalijha97
@Anjalijha97 Жыл бұрын
Mom kitni supported h 😊👏👌
@sharonvarghese7363
@sharonvarghese7363 Жыл бұрын
Ek dum sahi 🎉❤
@Sara.Rose.
@Sara.Rose. 9 ай бұрын
Great video! Respect is a two way street... Both sides have to show it for each other
@shashijain5084
@shashijain5084 Жыл бұрын
Wow !!!! Fantastic !!!! Loved it !!!! Maa hoh toh Aisi !!!! 😊
@saadhikakodatiy4241
@saadhikakodatiy4241 Жыл бұрын
A very beautiful concept Thankful to life tak for bringing up this topic
@aaradhyasharma1412
@aaradhyasharma1412 Жыл бұрын
The best story for equality 😂😂❤❤
@sindhumenon7383
@sindhumenon7383 Жыл бұрын
Nice content👌👌👌👌👌👌 it's a long time i was waiting for such video
@sri_techsavvy
@sri_techsavvy Жыл бұрын
Amazing as usual ❤
@neelamarya4535
@neelamarya4535 Жыл бұрын
What a supportive mom.❤
@Arjun70275
@Arjun70275 Жыл бұрын
Many of my college mates who are working women and are earning a good salary.......are still single and there parents don't force them to get married also. I think that if the girl is financially independent in today's times then she is doesn't requires a male figure or a husband in her life much 😊😊
@dr.rituranjan
@dr.rituranjan Жыл бұрын
Nirupama ji... Aati raha kariye. Aaj bahut dino baad Life Tak ka koi episode poora dekha ❤🙏
@prabhthind1502
@prabhthind1502 Жыл бұрын
Nice concept, equality. No difference between boy or girl.
@easycoding619
@easycoding619 Жыл бұрын
​@@-zeusalmighty-2812 can you hunt in a wild forest?
@umashastri9301
@umashastri9301 Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Keep it up!! Loved the to be bride's mom very much :)
@prabhap7108
@prabhap7108 Жыл бұрын
Great job guys as usual
@mrrudra_nandlala9480
@mrrudra_nandlala9480 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful concept
@ummsara5452
@ummsara5452 Жыл бұрын
Well said mom hats off to every mothers of girls to stand with there daughter
@sapna319
@sapna319 Жыл бұрын
Waited forever for such a video 😌😌💯💯
@manidipabanerji370
@manidipabanerji370 Жыл бұрын
Great concept This is how We should proceed
@sangeetasingh6645
@sangeetasingh6645 Жыл бұрын
Nyc n natural story of life❣️🌹❤️👌🙏👍
@annu1207
@annu1207 Жыл бұрын
Girl is lucky to have mother like that!
@jiyaaggarwalkalka
@jiyaaggarwalkalka Жыл бұрын
Superb great kash hr ladki k parents aisa hi sochte apni padki k liye🙏
@Kavitaclasses
@Kavitaclasses Жыл бұрын
We both r working,my husband always helps in house work,but many time he says ... मैने तेरा काम करवाया,,,n मेरा जवाब की थैंक्स,but बच्चे आपके भी हैं और घर आपका भी हैं तो काम आपने अपने घर का किया है😊 ,मिल के काम करें,मिल के बच्चो को संभाले,मिल के पैसे कमाए, एक दूसरे को आदर दे,,,bs खुशाल जीवन यही है, अहंकार नही लाए,n special thanks to life tak bhot acche content banate h aap ,hats off to u all guys,love u
@VPKALRA-zh2gk
@VPKALRA-zh2gk Жыл бұрын
Nicely scripted and nicely presented short film.. Congratulations to the entire team..
@Littlethings7296
@Littlethings7296 Жыл бұрын
Current topic of conversation🙌
@parulmehrotra4599
@parulmehrotra4599 Жыл бұрын
After so long it's a heart Wreatching video ..... So so so goood #inlovewithlifetak💌
@farheenkawchali1079
@farheenkawchali1079 Жыл бұрын
Awesome video.. strong mother 😊
@reemakc2714
@reemakc2714 Жыл бұрын
Wow ❤❤❤ just wow
@himuhimaja5402
@himuhimaja5402 Жыл бұрын
I always say my boyfriend to learn household works. If I want to work and earn, then he also need to do chores at home. That's mandatory for both.
@TamannaNath
@TamannaNath Жыл бұрын
Goosebumps ❤
@louannseeram2547
@louannseeram2547 Жыл бұрын
Well said and done as usual
@niharsaini532
@niharsaini532 Жыл бұрын
❤️ heart touching ❤️ sukriya barmbar ❤️🙏🙏🙏
@vishakhasharma7428
@vishakhasharma7428 Жыл бұрын
I think we need the second part of this video i really like it ❤❤ and actually this topic jise hamesha ya to daba diya Jaya hai ya fir jock me le kr chd diya jata hai
@ChandraRamakrishnan2015
@ChandraRamakrishnan2015 Жыл бұрын
Yes great message...kudos to the team!
@Muskan.1612
@Muskan.1612 Жыл бұрын
Amazing ❤
@anjankumarsarkar6243
@anjankumarsarkar6243 Жыл бұрын
A delight to watch life tak
@Akash_3120
@Akash_3120 Жыл бұрын
Great message ❤️
@anniemidha3371
@anniemidha3371 Жыл бұрын
Waoh ! What a concept
@Aman-fn1mc
@Aman-fn1mc Жыл бұрын
Very 👌 nice. This should become practical in today’s world
@ljey1978
@ljey1978 Жыл бұрын
Lovely and refreshing.
@vijayalaxmipatgaonkar8472
@vijayalaxmipatgaonkar8472 Жыл бұрын
Rightly said,about equality.
@alefiaa8266
@alefiaa8266 Жыл бұрын
Great video and topic ;)
@vijayalakshmianeesh8304
@vijayalakshmianeesh8304 Жыл бұрын
Very nice superbbbbb🥰🥰🥰👌👌👌👌
@indiangirl001
@indiangirl001 Жыл бұрын
This is so brilliant
@akanksha4885
@akanksha4885 Жыл бұрын
Very well done ✅
@rajyashreetripathi7472
@rajyashreetripathi7472 Жыл бұрын
Love it!!!❤️
@andalibpeerbhai8200
@andalibpeerbhai8200 Жыл бұрын
Superb. All parents shud follow this
@pankajamshivkumar4500
@pankajamshivkumar4500 Жыл бұрын
Awesome ❤❤❤
@Tirthpatel_1808
@Tirthpatel_1808 2 ай бұрын
Last 3 minutes was perfect 👌
My little bro is funny😁  @artur-boy
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