Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

Please talk about post finasteride syndrome!

Ughhhh for an expert this guy does not understand nuance - 3x more death for men without kids or wife, how about looking into why doc? How about thinking maybe there are outliers in that data that drive that number?

4 children, omg

Are you guys able to change a thumbnail after the video has been posted? In the red box, I'm pretty sure it should be penises (plural) not penis' (possessive apostrophe)... All the best.

26 with 3 kids on 2,200 pound a month missus brings in 1,500 not that hard you budget and don’t have loads of luxuries it’s not impossible people did it during the war with families of 12 like my Grandma. Stop making excuses you’re scared of your only one job in life to reproduce. Stop reading into the propaganda. Find the woman you love settle down and have children!

Pfft, I'm 37 and make 44k a year. I save just over a grand a month on average. If I had a kid, basically all my savings each month go to just having them in care while I work. It's absurd. Even when my fiance and I live together, it's a massive drain on your finances. We both save about a grand a month, and you'd be wiping half that out JUST IN DAY CARE FEES. That's not counting the nappies, the food, the new beds, the speed at which they outgrow clothing, oh my god it gives me a nosebleed just thinking about it. Pass. MASSIVE pass on kids.

@@Dynasty1818 agreed I have 68000 saved and I’m not using that on a kid lol nope invest in my own future

Yep, late 30's and same bucket. Would I give up future progress for getting a home and investing for retirement and the ability to live life? Nope. Would like to, but it's just too damn expensive just living.

​@Dynasty1818 I totally hear you, and here in Canada, they don't make it easy for new parents. if you're Swedish, they are so much more advanced. here you get the feeling that they don't want you having kids. they gave me 6 months' maternity leave which is the worst thing you could do for the infant. I know that you said you are not going to have children, do you not think about the future if you were ever to become incapacitated which is very possible - I hear and see it all the time (I'm an RN), do you not worry about who is going to be your advocate? you guys are not thinking about this because you're in your 30s, I was the same way, but shit happens. plus you'll never know the feeling of a higher love than you could ever imagine for a child.

Well done.

the Caucasian race is decreasing all the time, more and more. we are going to be observed in the future in a history book.

Yep. I am 40 and on track to retire at 50 because I decided to never have kids at 28.

​@@michelleroberts6597and that's a good thing.

@@michelleroberts6597 given hiw white laydees treated me? That's a good thing. White laydees should have treated me better.

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

Yes, I have seen a few references to life in the US in the 50’s where a carpenter without a degree had 8 children and supported them on 1 salary……now both partners work and often live paycheck to paycheck, this is much more common than 50 years ago

Whilst houses might have been cheaper years ago, wages were also lower. My parents recall when it was the norm for the mortgage interest rates to be at 15%. And according to them the wages against the cost of a home was no better then than now & they lived through it. As for kids, it’s not for everyone, not everyone should have kids. But I’m also of the view that if people wait for a “right time” to have kids, they’ll never have them.

@@soapfan2700 houses were much cheaper, and the 15% mortgage rate made it almost as expensive , I am from generation X, you are referring to the time of my parents (the 70’s). It didn’t stop my parents, hence I am here writing this 😂, but my parents believe times are worse now (for young people than they were then ). You are right as well, even my parents were telling me that in the 1970’s there were people saying they would not have children because there were too many people already (maybe it was an excuse to not have them)

@@tobygrice6496see my parents who bought their house in the 70’s don’t see it as worse now. I even said “yes but weren’t wages better in relation to the cost of the house? And they said “no, not at all, it wasn’t easier then at all on that front.”

There's never a good time to have kids just like going back to school. It just happens or people just do it. If we all planned on planning for children, there would be very few children. It's all about our values. Young adults don't value children anymore which is why we see more single and childless people .

Has nothing to do with this, people used to be poorer than today and had kids. What has happened is women do not want them, it is that simple.

Or they could make better walkable communities where people actually want to raise their families in first​@@SilverWolvesScarletForestSnow

@@SilverWolvesScarletForestSnow many women plan on having kids but never do because the time isn't right. I'm behaviorist and community and family planning expert.There are many women who don't wants kids but many wait and wait for the right time that never comes. It's a combo of many things.

@@chrisp7114 Which translates to they do not want kids. They used to want kids right away and a family and now they just say kids will get in the way of their life style. I'm not even talking about the crazies online in videos. Even the normal girl next door or the average girl in the office. They just aren't interested in having kids and just keep putting it off. When I was at school, their ambition was to meet "the one" and have a family, but that is all gone and now it's money money money.

Deep

Spot on comment

Man this hits deep because I had my son under such Dior circumstances like I doubt I would be here if it wasn't for him, I can't even write this without bawling because he saved me but the thought of not being able to provide for him makes me even more sad for him. I love him and I know he loves me but what if it's not enough and what if I end up making him feel the way I feel.. 😭😭

You're describing nature, these instincts are what ensures the species continues to reproduce. If it was entirely based on common sense, humans would go extinct. (that's not necessarily a bad thing)

I don't think women OR men decide in one specific moment which partner they want. It's something we decide over time, isn't it?

By then it will be too late. Nearly all the western countries are below the replacement rate. For example, it is predicted that South Korea and Japan will cease to exist in about 100 years. Some sources say "It has been pointed out that the Korean population may decline at a faster rate than in medieval Europe in the 14th century, when the population plummeted due to the Black Death." Even if the fertility rate in Korea picked up, it is too late for them at this point. Many European nations won't be able to support their future economies due to low birth rates. It takes present time children to work for your future retirement.

​@@slaviapolandia7541I teach young men to never get married and never have kids because its not worth it. Drizzle drizzle.

People have birthed babies into war zones and caves. All of human history has been more perilous than right now. Avoiding having children you otherwise would have because you've been convinced the world around you (which you can see and feel) is boiling, or because of a little temporary inflation, is dumb.

​@@slaviapolandia7541 it is too late already for the social systems around the west. For the population, not so much, it can recover. It has already done many times.

It will never be less expensive.

Currently dispatching Men in Black to your door. They should arrive within 24 hours to...take you away.

​@@EriPages😅

Fasting can be omitted

Good whole food costs more money.

@@EriPages 😂😂😂 why?

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. Globalmans case proves that.

You had kids at 21, motherhood is the only thing you've done with your life.

More than anything material, your children need love and emotional support and guidance. People birthed babies into caves and war zones, and here we are with the totality of human knowledge available to us in a little electronic box in our pocket. You're doing great.

I don’t think there is ever a “right time” and having them young you have the advantage that hopefully if you live a long life, you’ll be around into their adult years.

@@pez6905 the “only” thing. She’s done the MOST important job in life there is.

you definitely overcame the challenges and struggles

Yes, I agree. At the same time, most of my psychological trauma from childhood comes not from the abuse I experienced, but from the physically disfiguring effects from lack of medical care due to poverty. Plus, my height and brain development were stunted due to malnutrition from poverty.

I had the opposite sex problem, found a girl I liked and she seemed fine until her dad shook our infant child when I was 21. I had to flee with out kid and before I could even try to talk to my partner about it she took her fathers side (her was claiming I was just taking the kid away from her to gaslight her) Now I have 50% custody that neither the courts or police enforce so I haven't seen my kid since she was 9 months old and all I have are facebook photographs that I get sent by mutuals occassionally. Also them denying me my right to see her is part of a long game, you see they dont take child support from me, she knows that if she applies for CS, I'd be forced to see my kid by the government as a requirement, so to hurt me the most they chose not to take CS. So yeah no more kids for me, no more dating other people.

@kitkat0768 see mam if you think Life is hard enough then yes it is but is a way to make life more easier because you control 80% of your life 20% is destiny or god what you call what I suggest people to take courses on "Law Of Attraction :- To attract what you want" & "Face Reading - To understand people better" you can also get podcast on that topic

Move to Australia, let's hook up and have a child together. I'm serious. What could go wrong?

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@Hectorheroic Um, I'm already in Australia 🤣 . I think I'm past the point of having kids safely now. Did you know I was already here? That's funny.

disgusting. love has nothing to do with it. you were selfish and had a kid so you don't die alone.

​@eotikurac you're the disgusting one.

Damn your bitter, how do you know there life? Your assuming from a hateful place ..​@eotikurac

​@@eotikuracReal

​@@ExpatTraderFXIts sadly the truth... There is little to no reason to have children. Its not like Life is perfect. The world is fucked Up.

Same in real life. I got married at 36 and had my only child at 37. Things have worked out well. It is nobody’s business what other people do. The pressure some put on unmarried and childless ppl is extreme.

They're triggered because people keep pressuring them, and turning low fertility rates into a selfishness problem versus an "it's almost impossible to survive and governments and banks are doing nothing to stop this/ are actively encouraging this" problem. I don't care that people want to have kids, it's their weird obsession with what I do with my gonads that I take issue with.

People are triggered because of people who don't mind their own business and bully people who do not agree with them. Everyone should be able to decide whether or not they want kids with being called names.

I've gotten more pressure about having children from random strangers than anything else in my life, and the irony is that random strangers don't have to raise nor pay for any child I might have. I don't want children, I never have. I don't want to birth a being to "take care of me when I'm old" (Ps I watched my great grandmother be alone and old until she got ovarian cancer and passed and she had 7 adult children so thats not a guarantee.) Or any of the other bullshit people justify for judging.

@@AlongfortheThrillAnd it’s always the bottom feeders in society who can’t even afford the children they have that have the most to say about people who are voluntarily childless. They act like they are raising some grand specimen of a human being when in reality most people’s children are basic at best. Really wish these fools would get over themselves bc there is nothing innately honorable about being a parent.

Yet every time house prices rise, the Daily Mail will have a headline about the "good news".

You have more energy when you are young, the modern generation is too lazy to parent and it’s best they didn’t because they’d only fuck more children up like themselves have been fucked

People should decide for themselves of course but it should be informed. They should know the chaos they will face when old if birth rate drops beyond manageable. Being old with a broken pension system, no doctor around will be very difficult. Less kids mean less doctors, less everything. So even though it is a personal choice it is a collective suicide if too many people don’t have children. They shouldn’t imagine that they will have the life they have now when they are 80. The system will have collapsed by then. Not even sure that immigration and technology will compensate. If you are 25 now and don’t want children, think hard first about the society you want when you grow old.

Amen ♥️

@@DC-oh1um my fiancee and I do want a kid, but raising only one child here costs 1 milion yen including being pregnant in the first place, giving birth, doctors, school, food, clothes extra stuff in general and that is a lot of money evem if both of us work, also we need a bigger apartment or even a house, insurance, car, gas it all cost money and you cannot simply force a couple that after tax earns 200.000¥ to have a child because they simply cannot afford to have one without being in debt, and I would like to live in a society where having and rising a child is as cheap as possible, but that is very rare im todays world and situation

@@user-yk9ie5wy5n yeah japans birth rate is so low it’s quite strange how the government aren’t encouraging and helping couples start families.

It is always an option, but people have their priorities set completely wrong.

@@dragana_petkovic and you have no right to say what their priorities are it’s not your life why does it concern u

​@@dragana_petkovicI teach young men to never have kids. It's not worth it for men.

​@@Bunny11344It concerns everyone, we're all human and will age. It is always an option to have kids up but only to a certain point that cannot be undone.

@@lyndonbauer1703 you know how many seniors who have grown adult kids who don’t visit them ever or even when they pass? I see it everyday at work. And what anyone does to their body or not do is none of your concern. If they want kids, great, if they don’t, fantastic. The world will continue to spin whether you like it or not.

I teach young men to never get married and never have kids because its not worth it.

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences! So glad you found the episode so interesting! Team DOAC ❤️

@@GomersPile01glass half empty

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

You do have a choice!

@@pamelaryan8753 I teach young men to never get married and never have kids. We are winning.

Interestingly though, people from lower income households often have the most children, and those of "middle and upper class" tend to think how you think, put off having kids, and have them later in life because they factor in finances. It would suggest that it is a choice, and those of us that wait simply think differently about the correlation between money and children. Those that don't have money but have kids anyway clearly don't prioritise money as a factor to deter them from having them.

@@natbizzle04 but those from lower income are often uneducated too.

The problem is that everyone that wants/deserves kids aren't having them early. Mostly due to the economy.

Or fertility problems​@@AGirlCalledNicole

"You'll never be ready." "You'll be ready and still feel not-ready" These are common things I've heard from fellow fathers. Personally I think you should wait until you're sure you can afford the kid, that means you have savings being made AND you have disposable income that you are't blowing on yourself or your partner. I think also having a kid before 25 is a mistake, most people spend their 18-25 years figuring out who they really are, now that they are out from under the thumb of their parents. After 25 is when you settle into that and it takes years to do that, so may as well have a kid during that slow process as it will morph you into a different, hopefully better person.

​@@Rexhunterjand some people may actually feel ready when they're older. We are all different. I would have had an abortion had I gotten pregnant in my early 20s. I had an unplanned pregnancy at 29 but I was in a place in my life where I could handle being a mom.

good bedside manner goes a long way

No it’s not 😅😅

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

you make good points. Quality post.

the conclusion you stated for the previous model was only applicable to a minority. There is really no alternative model, other than some new tech like artificial wombs which would likely not happen.

Societies will restructure themselves just as natural selection restructures life to suit its environment. That the current progressive ideology fails to replicate itself just means it will be outcompeted by the traditional ideologies that have a track record of replicating itself for thousands of years.

Too late feminism was the Trojan horse it’s over for the west and women are the ones that killed it

Abandoning what has worked for thousands of years to engage in a utopic social experiment and having it fail doesn't mean we have to go back to the drawing board and start from scratch.

Delay until you are 80 and then realise there is no doctor to look after you because a whole generation will have not had enough children for enough to become doctors? And no pension because the system will have collapsed? And no food because no one to farm? If you are worried about money, make sure you have a child! There are interesting reads about demographics if you want to look at both sides of the issue. If you don’t want children you need to project yourself in a society not as you see it today but in a society with few children and reinvent how it might work. Immigration, technology will fill some of the gaps ok but what else? And who will lead and manage these changes? Will it fall in the right hands? You may have a pretty chaotic retirement.

@@DC-oh1um AI will take care of us when we're old 😆

Except for the Arab immigrants. They get paid by the government to breed.

Yep, being an above average earner is often not enough now. I would like to see more podcasts trying to also link families/rates of children to the economy. This podcast was very good, but they didn’t touch on the economy this time around

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

You don't need a big house to have kids. They won't need their own room till atleast 10 years old. You've got time.

This part is so correct

@@PeterNolan-009 wow, sounds like trauma...I hear you bro

Agreed.

Womp womp

Who is going to take care of you when you are old? The government? LOL!

​@@jasonherriottSo that's the reason for having a child?I know a case of an old women who have 2 childrens that don't give a s**t about her.They wait for her to die, to sell her house and share the money.How about that?

@@jasonherriottIf you don’t have the money to provide a good, quality life for a child but would still conceive one with the expectation that they grow up and do just that for you - you’d deserve it if you died alone in misery with no contact from those kids bc that entire line of thinking is absolutely despicable. No wonder these kids are so messed up these days. The parents are a bunch of fxcking losers, smh.

Plus the brain isn’t fully developed until 25-26 years old. Yeah, I’ll take the 41 year old parents.

Historically, grandparents would have been around nearby to be a moderating and more patient influence on younger parents.

21- they don’t need to be perfect to have me .. I rather they have me young and get to enjoy being grandparents and GOD willing, great-grand parents. Would be a dream to see the family line grow!

Old people shouldn’t be having kids

@@rogenniedominguez8291 My children got to see three of their great grandparents. It really is an awesome thing.

Because that is what is promoted.

Intelligent people don't make good worker-class citizens, they are thinkers, not workers. The ruling class (top 0.5% of the world) need workers, not thinkers. They can fleece a thinker every few decades for their science progression but beyond that they want everyone else to be working non-stop to support the economy that makes them feel good. This is all about controlling the 'peasants' and enriching the already ridiculously rich. People are looking at the core resulting problems and ignoring the main cause/source of it looming behind them, mostly because ignorance is bliss and addressing the problem that the boomers have destroyed the world economically and financially, is very uncomfortable for most people over the age of 40 nowadays. Everything goes back to the boomers, there were too many of them and they did not reproduce as fast as their parents did, so we have had a declining population ever since (besides Millenial generation block), boomers are also the recipients of the massive welfare hole called the aged-care pension or whatever your nation calls it. The aged care pension was a goodwill action the Boomers did for their parents because the war vets deserved a good retirement, then they silently stepped into that role too (retired/pensioner) and they outnumbered their parents 3:1, did not produce 2 children per family on average and now they are seeing their pensions/assets devalue because there are less youthful generations to work and raise that value. Instead of accepting the extremely good golden times are over, the boomers want to extract ever last little cent of wealth they can before they die. There are Boomers who are dying and donating their entire estate to charities while their kids suffer in the terrible financial situation their parents forced them into. All of my Boomer relatives have no finances left, they spent it all on vacations, TVs, Computers, nice houses, fancy furniture, new cars, etc. When they pass away there are no funds waiting for distribution among their few children/grand children. Every child in my generation (I'm the eldest from my generation by 7 years) is set to not see a single cent, or any land, or even an asset from any of our older relatives, we are extremely poor as a result and work non stop (or in my case I am disabled and unemployed/unemployable) my younger brother by 7 years is a mechanic at an auto shop, has been for 6 years now and he often tells me how worried he is for his partner because he just can't afford to move out from his partner's parents place no matter how many hours he puts in or how many cares he fixes.

Brother you could say that again.. Looks like gov assistance and jail have a great future ahead.

Welcome to the West.

@@tracesoflife9500 And because the smarter people realize life can be better without kids. Fertility rates go down with education.

If you were good and loving parents and were able to provide WELL for ALL your kids, it was a good decision. If not it was selfish and irresponsible.

@@chrystelelacroix4681guessing you don’t have children

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

Because...profit over people.

​@@hey_kudisco_podcastyou mean like in the divorce courts? Hm?

Because it’s done on purpose

Because the industries making this stuff has massive lobbying clout.

I teach young men to never get married and never have kids. We are winning.

Women don't need to partner with men these days. Sperm donation​@PeterNolan-009

@@PeterNolan-009with how the laws are set up in America, it’s not in their favor

@@zergslayer69 Not just the laws. It is the wide spread contempt of men that is also a big issue. There is no respect for men any more. And men know it.

99.99% of babies are an accident

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You would think "specialists" would...you know...know how to speak. He's a fertility expert, not a speaking expert 😅

@@CiprianFx59 I know 😬

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

I don't get it either. Especially older generations that chose not to have children even though they could have had them easily. Makes me think they never really matured. Growing up during easy times they got handed a lot by the war-generations, had a booming economy, decided not to get children, save the money and now expect other peoples children to pay their rent. I guess living through hardship of whatever kind makes people care less for hedonistic pleasures and leads them to value relationships and family more than they otherwise would.

I don't get it either. Especially older generations that chose not to have children even though they could have had them easily. Makes me think they never really matured. Growing up during easy times they got handed a lot by the war-generations, had a booming economy, decided not to get children, save the money and now expect other peoples children to pay their rent. I guess living through hardship of whatever kind makes people care less for hedonistic pleasures and leads them to value relationships and family more than they otherwise would.

The world has become selfish. They want to serve themselves first. If having a child means self sacrifice, they run the opposite way.

@@paulgrewal587 why should men sacrifice for laydees children? They are not ours. And they don't need no man. Remember? The issue is laydees. Not men..

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Excellent choice!

Yeah I'm having my first kid now and I was stunned how many things tried to stop me, from doctors to peer pressure, to medicine, to work and finances. All of it.

Vaccines?

@@wendiewilliamson4227 Not all. Just a new novel one that we never used before

I was just having this thought the other day. It really feels like everything is stacking up against us, so much so that I don't think it could be coincidence unfortunately

There should at least be a 2-year gap between pregnancies for recovery time to reduce complications (you can look up studies for yourself), please be careful.

It’s great having children close together, I had 4 under 5 and while it was hard at first we are all very close because of it!

I'm in the 1% and can't stand kids so made sure I never had them.

​@@dedesunbeam9361Dont say that I was a kid once 🥺 (jk)

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

It's biology and physics. It's not a miracle.

people has nothing to steal, 100 years ago

Lol "they" did not decide to have kids at all. There was no birth control and wives had no choices so anytime grandpappy got horny she was likely to pop put another baby 9 months later with possibly some protection during breast feeding but not much as the Irish are also known for "Irish twins" I'm sure grandma was secretly miserable and I bet a bunch of them died on the birthing bed too.

stop complaining man.. if you cant afford it.. tough luck. I can and I plan to have more. You choose to live where you live. I choose to live in South Georgia where I can have an abundance of children.

Not for me, thanks. Always cats & dogs over kids. Too many people!

Unless you don't like them.

in poor countries with NO social security, having children are the social security... 15$ per month, a Thai retiree gets... A MONTH, if not worked for government, army, police, teacher...

Women sure love the freedoms they get here tho I wonder how many women have died for their freedom?

Pathetic feminist bs

It’s not the covid vaccinations 🙄

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Bingo

why would you have 3 vaccines?

@@sergeynewlayer we had to get a booster UK in order to fly and enter certain countries

These chemicals have had more time to accumulate in the generations that came after yours. Also, food was more nutritious back then, because the soil wasn't as depleted.

I'm with you. I'm a 72 year old woman who made absolutely certain I never had a kid. Been in a 20 year relationship with a childfree man and we have an awesome relationship, sexy and fun with lots of shared interests. We were also able to retire early and pay off the house. :-)

Pay off the house and leave it to who lol the state will auction it and so much for that ayy

Yes that’s smarter not to fulfil your one role in life at animal form.

@@babyj5184 you have the smoothest brain

#childfree rise up

@@babyj5184please stop. Most ppl who have kids have no love or energy for kids. They’re indeed like animals just giving birth to something that looks like you so ppl in your life don’t judge you.

​@@Dynasty1818 the Caucasian race will be able to be observed only in the history books.

Better to have young parents and extended families

Most women are to damaged by 30 to have kids with

​@@leyubar1we can't have it all

@@mastercheeks3017 that’s true. But you can have young parents and extended families. We did for most of our evolution

I had my first at 25, and perhaps my brain was still forming, but motherhood definitely changes you and your brain chemistry. The hormones and the instincts are powerful, and very much take over who you were previously. You’re never the same after. Your body and brain know what to do when a child is born.

Middle class people like him live in a bubble that's why

Wow. I know you had a hard time, but it is NOT necessary to have 10 million dollars in order to have children.

Awesome! I'm a woman with the same attitude!!! Would have never dated a man with kids or who wanted them since there was no way I was going to have one.

Each to their own but its a mindset I can't understand. Does it not get boring ? I spent up to my early 30s travelling/ going to nice restaurants / lounging around on beaches etc etc but found it meaningless and felt the same in the end.

And you really can't afford them after divorce.

@@PeterNolan-009 I wish the women who divorce men would make the men take them so they don't have to get stuck with the kids. lol

This is why it's best to ignore the opinion of society and do what works for you. At the end of the day society isn't going to assume responsibility for your kid or the consequences of having one. Yet random people are so intent on telling you how to live your life. They can stick one up their craw.

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

Remember fellas. Don't get married. Don't have kids. It's not worth it. My case proves that. Drizzle drizzle.

@@PeterNolan-009 And women, don't get married either and only date men with vasectomies. Then keep your favorite one. 🙂

its why many of us dont sub, once you do the algorthm bombards you with too much till you just ignore it.

Agreed.

Lately his topics aren’t doing it for me

Feel free to skip them

I subbed for business, and wtf is this...