Depression After The Loss Of A Pet | Ways To Cope With Grief | Rainbow Bridge | My Story of Pet Loss

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Elaine Le

Elaine Le

11 ай бұрын

Hi Friends,
I recently lost my cat, Hero to cancer. Depression after losing a pet was something I had to overcome. I also had to help my other living pets cope with grief. I'm sharing 11 ways to cope with grief after the loss of a pet. I hope this can help you recover and somehow help mend your broken heart.
Sending much love and light,
Elaine & Gatsby
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@malavewifey
@malavewifey 10 ай бұрын
My cat passed today, it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through so far. She was my world, my pretty girl & I’ll always miss her.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry Jasmine. 🙏 Please take care of your self. ❤️‍🩹
@JustVibingFullStop
@JustVibingFullStop 10 ай бұрын
😢So sorry for you loss. I know how you feel.
@malavewifey
@malavewifey 10 ай бұрын
@@JustVibingFullStop it’s triggered my anxiety, I’ve had a heavy feeling in my chest ever since, most times it’s hard to breath. Everywhere I go in my house i think of her cause she was always with me. I never knew a feeling like this, but it gets easier little by little day by day. I still have a kitten we had gotten for her to have a companion & everything she does reminds me of my angel. I have to hope that she is at the rainbow bridge happy & healthy ❤️
@zombiegrease72
@zombiegrease72 10 ай бұрын
I lost my boy Buddy a year and a half ago. I cry everyday. I truly feel for you.
@mandarawong4899
@mandarawong4899 10 ай бұрын
This is so sad , I'm so sad for you and for myself too as I face imminent loss of my beloved pooch xx
@samcyr7314
@samcyr7314 6 ай бұрын
My cat passed today. He was 18 years old and without a doubt the hardest thing I've ever experienced in my entire 41 years of life.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 6 ай бұрын
@samcyr7314 Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss. I felt the same way. It's so hard. My first night without Hero was a disaster. I hope you take care of yourself. Sending you much love, light and healing tonight. May your kitty RIP and watching you from above as your protective angel. 🙏
@belovedbeauty
@belovedbeauty 5 ай бұрын
I’m so so sorry for your loss. I’m in it as well- lost my boy of 20 years last month and it’s the hardest thing still ever
@angelamorris4304
@angelamorris4304 5 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. It's never easy.😢
@edwardianspice1
@edwardianspice1 5 ай бұрын
It’s hell isn’t it. I had to euthanise my cat in March and I’m broken x
@edwardianspice1
@edwardianspice1 5 ай бұрын
I still gag when I eat because I’m broken and I can’t swallow
@oneminutewonder77
@oneminutewonder77 3 ай бұрын
I put down my best friend yesterday, it's been a wave of emotions. Going from extreme sadness, to numbness, to relief, over an over. He was sixteen, he fought for me over the last few weeks because he knew I wasn't ready. Yesterday he came and laid on me, he put a paw on my hand and looked back at me and gave me his last head bump.
@madams989
@madams989 8 ай бұрын
I lost my cat 10 years ago. You never FULLY get over it but animals are so worth it if you want to really experience love and life in my opinion. His picture by my bed still chokes me up but makes me happy at the same time. With love comes sadness, but videos like this really help. I think I’m finally ready to get another one now.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 8 ай бұрын
@madams989 Thank you for taking your time to watch this video. I am also happy to hear that you are ready for another one. It's always so heartwarming to hear another animal about to get a forever home and about to be showered by so much love. 💖💖💖
@kandycandy1
@kandycandy1 10 ай бұрын
Loosing a pet is by far the most painful and emotional stressful experience I have had to endured. Is a very gutting and heart shattering experience. I do know my faith kept me sane. 😢
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry @kandycandy1 😔🙏
@kandycandy1
@kandycandy1 10 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle Thank you. I’m sorry too. Sometimes we wish we could have done a million different things to protect our babies but I come to realize they are a gift to show us unconditional love and joy. May they all be resting in peace waiting for us to meet again.
@sherinmadre
@sherinmadre 2 ай бұрын
All I could think about is million different reasons i could’ve saved her. I miss her
@inustwin123
@inustwin123 2 ай бұрын
My baby girl passed away last night in my bed right in front of me. This may be one of the hardest deaths I have ever gone through. She was my baby and my best friend. I feel so empty without her now….I miss her more than words can describe…
@the_glitter_is
@the_glitter_is Ай бұрын
My 18 year old soulmate kitty died 3 weeks ago. I went to a cat cafe today just to be around cats. I miss him terribly. Thank you for this video.
@gwynalison
@gwynalison 10 ай бұрын
My cat passed away 5 days ago, and yesterday's night was the worst because I cried and weeping for hours n' hours. I'm afraid to tell people that I'm going through depression about it because some of them might never care or will just laugh at me. It's still painful. I feel like I can't enjoy life again.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@gwynalison I’m so very sorry about your cat. 😔 people who don’t care or laugh at you are not your true friends. No matter what you go through in life, whether your friends understand it or not, they will be there to support you and love you and want to see you thrive. During the toughest times in our lives, we see the true colors of others. Just remember that tough times don’t last. Tough people too. You will be ok. Try to breathe and meditate. Sending you much love, light and healing. 🙏🙏🙏✨❤️‍🩹
@PattyandWillie
@PattyandWillie 10 ай бұрын
That's so true that people who laugh or make sarcastic remarks aren't worth your time or energy. Please accept my condolences for the loss of your beloved cat. Rest in Peace 🕊️ little angel 💗🐈‍⬛!
@PredatorPeyami
@PredatorPeyami 9 ай бұрын
i m lucky my wife sharing same grief with me, my sister also was very emphatical but generally people really dont under understand. cry, dont worry, we all crying
@anettehartmann8588
@anettehartmann8588 7 ай бұрын
I felt the same when my Abesch died on September 15 this year. I was like paralyzed and passive suicidal and I thought I could never get over it. I made a trip to London though I didn't want to go but it distracted me a little bit. Abesch is with me all the time in my heart and thoughts and I know he would not want me to be so sad. His buddy Nemo needs me bc he is so sad, too. Seek professionell help bc a depression can really get worse! I know how you feel.
@fatemaq363
@fatemaq363 8 ай бұрын
My parrot died today suddenly there was nothing I could do to save him but just hold him in his last moments. I can’t stop crying my heart is broken 😔
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
hi @fatemaq363 how are you holding up? I am just seeing this now and I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you much comfort and healing. Things will get better. Please take care. 🙏
@fatemaq363
@fatemaq363 6 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle hey sorry I never saw this response until now. Honestly my heart is still absolutely broken, in fact I’ve been crying just this past hour. I miss him so badly I can’t even describe it in words. He was like a little child to me 😔😔
@williammanser3863
@williammanser3863 2 ай бұрын
This morning my wife and I lost our first baby, our cat Ronnie, our 3 year old British Shorthair. He died suddenly and unexpectedly overnight. He looked like he was still sleeping, curled up on his perch. I've never felt pain like it, the sense of loss is unbelievable, not just for the last 3 years, but for the 10+ years more we were meant to have with him. He was meant to meet our children, grow up with them. Now we will just have to tell them about him. I am broken.
@AintIastinker
@AintIastinker Ай бұрын
I completely understand your feelings.. my cat died 3 days ago all of a sudden after 7.5 years and he was perfectly healthy before his death. I have always dreaded that moment but was also expecting it to happen further down the line. I’m distraught over this abrupt loss, but a small part of me is happy for him that he got to live his whole life happy and healthy.
@crstlprsn
@crstlprsn Ай бұрын
We also just lost our baby boy who was 4. He had a very sudden and unexpected medical condition pop up. We thought we had another 10 years at LEAST. It would have hurt just as badly 10 years down the road but losing them so young... It just doesn't feel fair. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@miramedicineway9672
@miramedicineway9672 Ай бұрын
Big hugs 🙏🏻🩷xxx i found my Girl on the bathroom like she was sleeping 😢 a month ago Its the hardest thing ever. What a blessing they where. Unconditionally loved 🥰
@laDeliASMR
@laDeliASMR 10 ай бұрын
My cat passed away 2 days ago. She was fighting to stay alive. I cried for an hour straight with her lifeless body in my arms. Thank you for this video 😞😞
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@dxllrious I'm so very sorry about your cat. I know, and I understand. Thank you so much for watching and I hope it helped you in some way. Sending you much love and healing. 🙏🙏
@PattyandWillie
@PattyandWillie 10 ай бұрын
So very sorry my friend. There are no words to take away the pain, but I truly believe we will see our beloved pets again. Rest in Peace 🕊️ little angel! ❤️🐈‍⬛🕊️
@Rjcgf-hk2ul
@Rjcgf-hk2ul 3 ай бұрын
😿😿😿😿😿😿
@sherinmadre
@sherinmadre 2 ай бұрын
That was me last night and I still can’t believe I can’t see her anymore
@Rjcgf-hk2ul
@Rjcgf-hk2ul 2 ай бұрын
@@sherinmadre I'm sorry for your loss (((hugs)))
@Bunz806
@Bunz806 2 ай бұрын
I had to put my best friend down yesterday. I never thought it would happen and I am devastated. I feel empty and so alone without him. I don’t know how I will ever get through this.
@Susspiria
@Susspiria 2 ай бұрын
I also had to put my sweet boy to rest two weeks ago suddenly. I’m here for you and I’m sending hugs. The pain is SO strong, but so is the love for our babies. ❤️‍🩹My condolences
@eliv2587
@eliv2587 Ай бұрын
my sweet boy was put down today. i have never felt such pain, i am absolutely empty and heartbroken. he was 14 and his liver began failing. he lost his appetite and went from okay to in critial condition incredibly fast. he was my childhood pet and i miss him so much
@Blasiiana
@Blasiiana Ай бұрын
Lost my boy just 3 days ago the same way for the same reason 😭 he was just 3 years old, I feel so robbed❤️‍🩹
@eliv2587
@eliv2587 20 күн бұрын
@@Blasiiana i'm so sorry for your loss. i couldn't imagine losing a pet so young, i would feel robbed too. i still cry every day for my boy, but at least we know they both lived amazing lives. hope you're feeling better ❤
@marissarottaris9049
@marissarottaris9049 18 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a beautiful black cat named Salem she passed away almost a year ago from stomach cancer. Putting her down was the hardest thing I ever had to do. It was the worst pain I've ever felt. I was stuck in a terrible depression as well. I eventually was blessed with a beautiful kitten another little girl. I named her Violet like the flower Violet. And she is perfect. I love her so much already. She's my shadow.
@username8171
@username8171 10 ай бұрын
Our pets really are the best companions.
@RRolon999
@RRolon999 3 ай бұрын
😢My cat Buster died today, he was 12 years old. I Love you SO MUCH 💞
@phil1pd
@phil1pd 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. Its harder to lose a pet than a relative.
@Susspiria
@Susspiria 2 ай бұрын
I’m sending you condolences, and some hugs. I lost my baby boy soulcat this month at 11 years old. I hope they can meet and play together. Sending you love, it’s so hard but we can get through this.
@Melody-SanDiego
@Melody-SanDiego 10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss, Elaine. My 15-year-old dog, Melody, passed away yesterday from a sudden heart attack. I'm devastated and crying uncontrollably. I miss her deeply and stumbled upon your video, which truly cheered me up. Thank you so much. I will definitely create an altar for her and write letters to honor her memory. I have a 14-year-old pug to take care of so I will be present for him. Once again, I'm sorry for your loss.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@melody-cu5nf oh no. I am so sorry for your sudden loss!! 😔 That is extremely tough. I know my words can’t bring your dog back but all I can do I send you love, light and comfort your way. Please take care. 🙏🙏🙏❤️‍🩹
@douglashughes
@douglashughes 10 ай бұрын
I cried when I watched the montage. Our cat died last week. I'm so sad. She was beautiful and our friend.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@douglashughes I'm so very sorry about your cat. 😔 Please take care of yourself. I understand the pain you are going through. Sending you much healing and comfort. 🙏🙏🙏✨
@mariloucieloagpalo7652
@mariloucieloagpalo7652 10 күн бұрын
Sorry for your loss of your cat Hero! All pets goes to heaven ! 💐✝️🙏
@HMcQ7891
@HMcQ7891 10 ай бұрын
Good advice. My cat, my sweet girl, died in my arms on Tuesday morning - naturally & suddenly, end stage lymphoma. Diagnosed the week before, she was paralysed with lethargy. Two weeks ago, she was fine - it came out of the blue. I spent her last days holding her & giving her every kiss she could feel, while she could still feel them. Said goodbye & told her I loved her. Gave her window time, to watch the birds & feel the sun & breeze - she loved her window sill. She was with me for nearly 20 years - two decades of harmony & content domestic simpatico. Most of my adult life. I am sick with grief & guilt for the lost seconds I could've loved her more. Even as she was dying, she would reach out with her paw & meow in response. Feel like I've lost the other half of my heartbeat. Feels unreal. She was a stray I took in, around 2006 - the sweetest, most emotionally intelligent animal I've ever known. Always present & loving. Everyday, her happy place was cuddling on my chest. I loved her more than anything. I miss her & never want another cat. I plan to get a tattoo of her paw prints.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@swansinleather I am so sorry for your loss. 😔 The time we have with our soul animals is never enough. Not even two decades. Please take care of yourself. Your soul cat wouldn't want to see you sick. Sending you much love and healing. 🙏💖
@sewndebisdream6953
@sewndebisdream6953 10 ай бұрын
​@elainelinle I still can't get over my 6 year old kitty Sweetie dying 2 weeks ago and 2days. I had to put him down because he had cancer. It makes me feel like a murderer. I'm such a mess. I miss my buddy so much!
@mandarawong4899
@mandarawong4899 10 ай бұрын
Love to all who have lost our beloved companions ❤💔❤
@SilverBush86
@SilverBush86 19 күн бұрын
My cat just passed away today. It is easily the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. I have spent almost my entire life with her. It hurts so, so much
@elfgirl2009
@elfgirl2009 9 ай бұрын
it’s been over a year and i’m still in such a deep depression. he was my entire world and my best friend.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 9 ай бұрын
@elfgirl2009 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Losing our beloved pet can take some time to heal. Try to ficus on the good and how you can honor your pet. Please take care!
@pamelaadl9559
@pamelaadl9559 5 ай бұрын
It’s hard to lift oneself out of depression. Maybe a new baby?
@nicolecatacutan4219
@nicolecatacutan4219 8 ай бұрын
I lost my 7year old cat last day. I was away when when she died, since my college university is too far from my hometown. My parents took her to the vet, I paid the bills, but them she didnt make it. Im in a deep grief, it really pains me that I didnt get to have her in my arms when she took her last breath. It still breaks me, to my core. I’ll truly miss her. She was a family and a bestfriend. I hope she’ll spend her 8 more lives wt me.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@nicolecatacutan4219 I am just seeing this now. I am so very sorry for your loss. I understand your pain and how deep it can be. I hope you are doing ok, and feeling a bit better now. It will take time. Please know that we are all here for you on this thread. Please take care. Sending you much love. 🙏
@TheHaHaEnigma
@TheHaHaEnigma 10 ай бұрын
I came home from work yesterday to my 17 year old cat dead. And I feel so crippled by guilt because my baby was right by the door as if she had been waiting for me. I keep replaying yesterday in my head wishing so badly that I stayed home with her.I had just took her to the vet the same day, and was waiting on the results of a blood test so they can come up with a diagnosis and treatment plan. I thought I had more time and that I had to work so I can afford her treatment. But I but now I wish I got her euthanized so that she would've been out of pain sooner and wouldn't have died alone. Thanks you so much for making this video. It makes me feel less crazy for being so devastated. I just keep seeing that image of her by the door and it feels like I have a spear in my chest.Also I'm sorry for your loss. You seem like the most amazing cat mom and an amazing person. 💛
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@TheHaHaEnigma Oh no! I'm so sorry you had to come home and see your cat passing like that. Please don't blame yourself. You did the best you could. We can only learn from what happened and do better in everything we do the next time. Your cat knows you loved her. Animals know. Keep your head up and take care of your heart. Write to her. Light a candle so she sees the light from the heavens above you are thinking about her. I'm sending you much love and healing and comfort. 🙏🙏🙏
@TheHaHaEnigma
@TheHaHaEnigma 10 ай бұрын
@@elainelinleThank you so much!❤ your words and along with this video are very comforting!I definitely will follow this advice. It also just nice to find people who can relate and won't just say "It was just a cat."
@PattyandWillie
@PattyandWillie 10 ай бұрын
That's so sad my friend. So very sorry you had to come home and find your beloved cat had passed. Please know you did your best ...you can't see the future, and yes, unfortunately we don't have a choice about having to work. I believe you will see your beloved cat again someday. Rest in Peace 🙏🕊️ little angel ❤️🐈‍⬛.
@TheHaHaEnigma
@TheHaHaEnigma 7 ай бұрын
@@PattyandWillie Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤️
@PattyandWillie
@PattyandWillie 7 ай бұрын
@@TheHaHaEnigma Are you doing okay sweetie? I know you will never forget your previous little angel that you lost, but hopefully 🙏 your heart is healing a tiny bit each day. And...just maybe your beloved kitty 🌈🐈 has led, or will lead when you are ready, a new furry friend into your life. I truly believe my Garfield 🌈🐈, who passed in 2012, set in motion the chain of events that led my current cat, Willie, into my life. Please know I truly care....and I know our fur babies 🐈‍⬛🐈❤️ are never "just an animal". They are incredible living beings who truly bless our lives with happiness! ❤️ Let me know if I can help you in any way. Much love and comfort from Willie and I! 🤗❤️
@susanterry4276
@susanterry4276 10 ай бұрын
My 16-year-old dog crossed the rainbow bridge on June 30 at 12:15pm and I am still broken. He was pure joy, and we thought of him as the energizer bunny. And he was until just a week before he left us. He was always on the move, curious (translation: nosey), and with me always. He slept curled behind me every night and I'm so lonely without him. We had pictures of him all over the house before this devastating loss, and now I look at the pictures and cry because I know I'll never again feel his cold nose on the back of my leg while I'm fixing dinner - letting me know he was there just in case there was a carrot or bit of cauliflower I could spare for him (I always did!). What this has taught me is that we never know when the 'last time' something will happen might be - the last time he would bring me his favorite toy to play with, the last time he'll bark to call the family to dinner because he could tell by what I was doing that dinner was ready (he was so smart that way!), or the last time he would cuddle under my arm on the pillow while I watched TV in the evening, just because he loved being there. His sweet, loving face is etched in my heart, and I will miss him forever. His sister (also 16) is still with us, so for her we've had to dial back the crying because she was struggling. The day after he crossed, she started throwing up and had a runny belly. Unfortunately, she has kidney disease and dehydration is terrible for her health. So off to the vet we went and were told that after being together for all their lives (16.5 years) she would grieve for a month or more, and can feel our upset and anguish, and the best we can do for her is to be more upbeat around her so she can more quickly adjust to being an only fur baby. I will do whatever it takes to help her over this, and can't imagine how awful it will be when it's her time to go. I'm 63, and grew up with dogs in the family, so this is not the first time I've said goodbye to a beloved pet. But Kiko (and Missy) have gotten us through the loss of my parents and my in-laws - they always knew when we needed a special cuddle and would gently lick of the tears from our faces, while helping us to know that things would get better. What I wouldn’t give for more time….
@meredithmericle7487
@meredithmericle7487 10 ай бұрын
I lost Gumbo two weeks ago. The knot in my stomach is the worst. I have lost many pets over the years and try to assure myself that the pain will eventually lessen. I'll never forget any of them, but I know that someday I'll be ready to adopt another fuzzy one who needs a home. That's what Gumbo would want me to do. In the meantime, lavish love on Missy. It'll help both of you and take care of yourself also.
@smillailyas3974
@smillailyas3974 10 ай бұрын
May God grant you a beautiful reunion with your animal companions when you return Home
@anettehartmann8588
@anettehartmann8588 7 ай бұрын
I am very sorry, we are never ready for a pet loss, it is always too early. And, yes, we dont know time or hour of having the pet for the last time....😢
@Ash_3x3rz
@Ash_3x3rz 9 күн бұрын
My cat died today after she got bit by a big pit bull yesterday. I have had her since before COVID started. Usually I don't cry about deaths but this one made my heart break into a million pieces..
@sb6181
@sb6181 Ай бұрын
We lost our beloved dog and have never experienced such intense emotional pain, despite considering ourselves as resilient and pragmatic people. We both fell into unexpected depression with insomnia and a complete lack of appetite. If this pain happens to you, it is an expression of the love you and your pet shared and needs to be expressed. Take your time. Be honest with people. Be kind to yourself. There is no easy fix when this happens as the pain can feel unbearable but listening to your true emotions, crying, slowing your breathing down and being honest about your grief with others will ease the intensity. If you have no appetite, drink plenty of water
@KittyCatMo
@KittyCatMo 8 ай бұрын
Lost my senior girl, Chloe, 14 yrs old to congestive heart failure. She was hiding a murmur and had worsened her cough from collapsed trachea. Absolutely heartbroken. To all the pet moms and dads who lost their furry kiddos and are watching this video too, my deepest sympathies for your loss. We are in it together, you're not alone and this top shall pass. ❤ our kiddos are ok , suffering is over ❤
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@KittyCatMo I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you are feeling a bit better. How are you?? Please take care of yourself ok?
@nikkistephenson3026
@nikkistephenson3026 6 ай бұрын
Lost my 16 year old chihuahua Stylz last month from the same thing. I’m still devastated and heartbroken. I cry almost everyday. I am so sorry for your loss. This does help me to know I am not alone in my feelings.
@kconway82
@kconway82 Ай бұрын
I lost my sweet lil panther boy in August 2022. He had been sick with kidney disease for 2 years, but it was his hind legs giving out on him that became his demise. He was my roommates cat, but he quickly bonded with me back in 2018 and the rest is history. I miss him so much still and never thought I'd have such heartache over an animal. But, he was more than an animal, he was my baby boy, my soulmate - alas, he was my everything. I run a small business and I named it after him in his honor - to which I proudly share when I do craft fairs. Just remember: Not All Soulmates Are Human. I found a very meaningful quote yesterday and it really hit home. “Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give, but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in the hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
@KaitaoftheFourze
@KaitaoftheFourze 4 ай бұрын
My precious cat passed away at October 6, 2023 at age 18 cat age. She was having difficulty getting up on her feet and trouble breathing. The moment I saw her behavior, I had to take her to the vet. The doctor informed us she had respiratory distress, fluid in her lungs, dehydration. Then, my fear came true. It was very painful to see my cat go. For the past 17 years, she was like a daughter to me and we took care of her very much in great health! The last thing I wanna do for my cat is to cut off her thick fur ball for free, which is very pricey these days. I'm still in deep depression after her passing, it was the hardest choice for us to make.
@theeveshamgamer
@theeveshamgamer 4 ай бұрын
I had to have my cat Bindy put to sleep yesterday with those same issues as your kitty had. I'd had bindy since she was 8 weeks old in 2006 so same time aswell. She was really old and even though it was the hardest decision to make I know I made the right decision for her and she knew it too. I'm litterally broken so I'm feeling your loss, truly I am 💔
@cristinat.8639
@cristinat.8639 10 ай бұрын
I've lost my cat today, had her for 11 years...think I really needed to see this.
@anettehartmann8588
@anettehartmann8588 7 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss! I know how you feel.
@cristinat.8639
@cristinat.8639 7 ай бұрын
@@anettehartmann8588Thank you so much, so sorry to hear that also. I lost her in July and it's October, still can't cope with the loss..
@anettehartmann8588
@anettehartmann8588 7 ай бұрын
@@cristinat.8639 pet loss grief has no time schedule. Its different from person to person. Speak a lot over your loss with family and good friends. And seek help from a therapist, dont be ashamed of that!
@chrisw9597
@chrisw9597 6 ай бұрын
Also had my cat for 11 years. He died last night, couldn’t sleep afterwards. He had kidney failure, and I couldn’t help but think had I put more effort in mitigating that, perhaps I wouldn’t have had to euthanize him. But I know these thoughts are self inflicting and it doesn’t do any good in the healing process. He was so energetic just two days ago and yeah…that was it. I’m burying him later today and the thought of him rotting is so absurd, I’m absolutely in denial of this.
@fighterinmkiwiscience3517
@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 3 ай бұрын
My dog died today, i can't able to handle pain😢
@lons5472
@lons5472 10 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss, I lost my guy after 14+years on 06/17/23. I pray for all of us and yes its been really rough ever since.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@lons5472 I’m so sorry 😞 please take care. Sending you healing vibes 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✨
@lons5472
@lons5472 7 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle , Thank you for sending and re-sending to all the others on here as well, 🥺😿
@etherealdeal1792
@etherealdeal1792 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for this. I’m so devastated by my baby girl, almost 16, being euthanized on 7/11. It’s so painful :( sending love to all those in similar scenario
@CarolWoosey-ck2rg
@CarolWoosey-ck2rg Ай бұрын
Lost my boy 10years ago - am still grieving for him ,all my boys,but as I had Patch for over 14 years the loss has crippled me - 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@sandihowe3235
@sandihowe3235 Ай бұрын
I just got home to find out that I lost my beautiful maltice dog Teddy passed away TODAY. He was such a good dog. I am so broken. I had him for 12 years. So many memories. This is too hard for me. 😢
@natsumi7534
@natsumi7534 10 ай бұрын
lost my doggo today, this was by far the most painful things i have ever experienced, been crying for 2 hours straight. I've had him since i was 7, i'm 15 now, i don't know if i'm ever gonna get over this
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@natsumi7534 I am so very sorry for your loss. 😔 I understand your pain. It's ok to cry. Let it out. It's part of the healing process. Try the guided meditation and remember to breathe. I am right here grieving with you. Sending you much love, light, and healing. Take care of your heart. Your doggo would want to see you smile from heaven. 🙏🙏🙏
@user-by5ew8uk3i
@user-by5ew8uk3i 3 ай бұрын
I agree,no more pets! No other can replace my baby boy! NEVER!
@BeccaL2016
@BeccaL2016 2 ай бұрын
We put our dog to sleep last night. Hardest decision I made and I miss him so much 😢
@sarat.1744
@sarat.1744 8 ай бұрын
So glad I found your video. So sorry for your Hero. Cancer really is a hellhole, for both pets and people. My Indy (my soul horse) passed away 1 year and a half ago after battling melanoma for 15 years or longer. She lasted out of sheer will and resilience and that's what I will remember of her. My soul dog passed away last december, right before Christmas. She was my companion and my baby's best friend, she only had love in her soul, not a drop of resentment even though she was a rescue. Animals really do teach us the most valuable lessons, if only we listen to their message.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@sarat.1744 I am sorry about the loss of your Indy and your soul dog. Yes, cancer sucks. I truly believe that our pets are dying from cancer from the diet they have. Like feeding kibble to cats and dogs. I agree they teach us valuable lessons in life too. I hope you are feeling a little better these days. It's hard. I thought of Hero today and just cried in the kitchen while I made breakfast. Sending you much love and comfort. 🙏
@j.r.3981
@j.r.3981 9 ай бұрын
The little montage at the end is very sad but beautiful. My cat died in January and she was almost 16. Elaine has some good suggestions if you're dealing with a loss.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 9 ай бұрын
@j.r.3981 Thank you so much for watching until the end for Hero's tribute. I am so very sorry for the loss of your cat. 😔 Sending much healing and comfort. 🙏
@chrisburgio6822
@chrisburgio6822 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for those tips on coping with pet loss, I had to put my beautiful girl cat Kyuss down two days ago and I am completely heartbroken, I can't believe she is gone,her and my boy cat Zephyr are my world and it hurts so much that one of them isn't here anymore watching this definitely gave me some perspective on how to get through this, to anyone else who has lost a pet I wish you so much love and peace,pet loss is one of the hardest things in life that anyone can go through.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 8 ай бұрын
@chrisburgio6822 I am so very sorry you had to put your love to sleep. It's so painful, I know. But just know that they are in nirvana now, free from suffering on this earth. Zephyr is counting on you to take care of him. But you can only do that if you take care of yourself. Please take care of your heart. Again, I am so sorry. Sending you so much comfort and healing right now. 🙏✨
@ezekieljames5564
@ezekieljames5564 10 ай бұрын
I lost my dog 6 months ago to the same kind of cancer as your Hero did, and I’m so sorry for your loss. This was the literal worst pain I have ever felt, not a day goes by that I don’t think about my buddy. I’ve been struggling so much with my grief and this video has given me so much insight and I want to heal so badly. I had him for 10 years (2013-2023) and I swear my childhood died with him since I got him when I was 8. I’m 18 now, I’ll be turning 19 exactly a week before the 1 year anniversary date. I spend as much time as possible with my other dogs because i know they’re grieving him as much as i am. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about him and miss him. I’ve now started keeping a journal and writing letters here and there just giving him little updates about what he can’t experience with me as we did everything together for 10 years. He never left my side for a moment and that won’t start now. Thank you so much for this video.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@ezekieljames5564 my heart aches for you. I am so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself and allow time to heal. Hero passed in April and I still cry about him. Our furry best friends are here to guide us and teach us lessons in their lifetime. Your childhood memories with him will always live in your heart. I'm not sure if you believe in reincarnation, but I do. I hope you and your pup will see each other again in this lifetime. If not, the next. For now, please take care of yourself. Sending you and your pack much love and healing. 🙏🙏✨
@nLITALYUSA
@nLITALYUSA 9 ай бұрын
I feel your exact pain. Even had medication.
@hollieverafter
@hollieverafter 2 ай бұрын
Your Hero is a beautiful boy. May God bless your heart with peace until you are reunited with him one day.
@marybethr7146
@marybethr7146 8 ай бұрын
Thank you Elaine for sharing your story. I lost my 2 old ladies - Mia at 15 and CC at 20. Mia passed right before Christmas and CC the day before Valentine's Day. I still carry so much guilt about not recognizing when it was their time earlier. I said I would never get another cat - I was done, got rid of all the cat stuff and bought new furniture. I baby sat for one of my neighbors while they were on a 2 week vacation, spending time with their senior kitty. I started to feel something nibbling at my heart and began searching online. Suddenly 2 older cats (a mom and daughter) appeared in my search needing to be re-homed. Now it's 4 months later and Gemma and Miss Fluff seem like they've always lived here. I truly believe the universe will let you know when it's time and guide you towards your next animal companion. ❤
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 8 ай бұрын
@marybethr7146 first, I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for taking your time to watch this video and also sharing your story. Gemma and Miss Fluff is so lucky to have you take them in to experience love from a human.
@mgm579
@mgm579 10 ай бұрын
My baby dog passed away this morning of advanced congestive heart failure. She was 14.5 years old. We fought the battle with meds, diet, fluid drainage, regular cardiologist visits and made it through 3 years paw in hand vs her 6 month prognosis. Everyone said to euthanize her but I prayed to god for her to go on her own time before she started to suffer too much and she did…. I loved and love her more than words can describe. She was my rock… the most kind, fair, protective and family oriented girl with the strongest spirit and character that pulled me through so many ups and downs. I can’t imagine life without her, I feel like an empty shell and can only pray that her soul is in a beautiful and happy place… I feel relief that she is no longer in pain and hope she knew how much mommy loved her back.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@mgm579 Oh no. I'm so very sorry. 😔 There is no doubt that you loved your pup. She knows this. Animals feel our energy. They see and feel the love. Sending you so much healing and comfort during this difficult time. Please take care of yourself, ok? 🙏
@mgm579
@mgm579 10 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle thank you so much for responding…. Your words are so very kind. Taking care of myself seems meaningless right now but I will try to get it together bc that’s how she remembered me. And I have two more dogs to take care of. They started to grieve over their big sister with me and we need to pull through it all somehow together. Thank you and god bless 🙏🐾
@valeenpineda4890
@valeenpineda4890 10 ай бұрын
Same situation so sad right now
@mgm579
@mgm579 10 ай бұрын
@@valeenpineda4890 I am so sorry for your loss. It’s sooo hard. Hang in there.
@tommyhanvev
@tommyhanvev 9 ай бұрын
I really needed this video because losing my beloved puppy has been life altering and yet everyone around expects me to move on. I keep on saying this but our pet's love is purely unconditional and genuine.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 9 ай бұрын
@tommyhanvev I am so sorry for your loss. I know and understand what you mean. Many people expected me to just move on. It's not easy. Their love is unmatched. Sending you so much healing right now. 🙏
@susannoulton7634
@susannoulton7634 7 ай бұрын
You never move on I lost my 15 year old dog Jacky 4 years ago, and she is always on my mind. Ppl who say move on, really have no heart. I am so so sorry for your loss 😢🐶🌈💔💙💙
@deniseperez3156
@deniseperez3156 10 ай бұрын
I don’t think you understand how much you touched my heart tonight, I just lost my pug of 10 years. Unfortunately, it was the Sunday in Minnesota and unless you have $500 they won’t even look at shit.😢 I walked in to an emergency vet, where there was two people waiting for their pets to be seen, however, when I told the lady my dog is dying in my arms, the only thing she did was tell me I had to go somewhere else!!!! WTF is wrong with these people! Some of us love our animals, as if though they were our own children! And for a veterinarian to turn down a dying animal is some thing I never thought could happen! I am dying inside. I still cry every night, I wake up crying I hold his ashes next to me. What hurts the most is the I could’ve’s and I should’ve’s… But like my daughter said when it’s third time mom is just their time. I held him in my arms and told the little guy you can go to God no baby, he looked out the window and his body jerked… Almost felt like his soul was leaving his body. After that, he lost his bodily fluids, I was in so much pain, the people that we took him to after we’re so great to me, but I can’t help but think?? If I gave him some more water, or if I gave him pain medication, maybe even begged for anyone to help me more than I already did then maybe he’d be like today😢 After Praying I scrolled up and found this video. I want to say thank you very much for understanding. Seriously these rules for animals not being human. Need to change not everybody is rich, I am pending disability right now and because of that my dog is dead I know it sounds terrible, people say it’s just a dog, and I swear I wanna slap them, because I’ve never had a furry little guy. Love me as much as he did.. we’ve been through so much together, and every time I cried, he would jump in my lap… As if to tell me, everything’s gonna be OK mommy ❤ I honestly don’t think I’m gonna get over my little girl life for a long time. He has a little brother name Zeke, and all he does is mope looking out the window and when he hears me talk about Bentley he looks for him everywhere.🥹 anyway sweetheart I just wanna say thank you🙏🏼💕 and yes, we will see them again I believe that with my heart and soul👍💕🙏🏼😍😭
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@deniseperez3156 I just read your story. I'm so sorry for your loss. And the fact that the vet refused to help your fur baby breaks my heart. You still have Zeke, so focus your energy on him. I know it's hard. I feel your pain. But, please take care of yourself. Zeke needs you to lead by example. I'm sending you prayers and lots of love and light. 🙏✨
@susanterry4276
@susanterry4276 10 ай бұрын
I'm sooooo sorry to see what you went through! I just lost my 16-year-old dog exactly a week ago today. We were up with him all night as he vomitted and cried and I was heartbroken that there was nothing we could do for him except hold him and love him until I could call the vet in the morning to make that awful appointment. They tried to tell me that they were fully booked and couldn't see him, but to their credit, when I explained the situation, they squeezed us in at noon. I could rant about this vet office, but what good would it do? He was very sick and we knew it, and in the end they did what needed to be done with kindness and compassion. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. I also have another dog who is struggling with our loss and she is also 16 (they were never apart for all that time) and for her we've had to try to act more 'normal'. She looks for Kiko and seems so very sad and we can't explain it to her. So we're spoiling her and not leaving her alone while she makes the adjustment to her life as an 'only' pup. Give Zeke a squeeze and know that we understand your grief and I know you'll be with him again someday 💔
@smillailyas3974
@smillailyas3974 10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry about your loss. Pug is with God and at peace. Things couldn't have been any different as this is how it was destined to be and you did your best. I was haunted for decades about my first cat when she returned Home but I now realise that was our test. I loved and cared the best I could for her. Prolonging life of your animal kindred spirit when they are suffering isn't always the right solution although taking a decision on euthanasia will always be equally tormenting. We will all eventually return Home as this life is temporal. May God grant you a most beautiful, blissful reunion with your beloved Pug in heaven. You were a good, loving mother with a compassionate heart. I'm sorry you had to experience the lack of compassion from money oriented vets. Be kind to yourself and fully have faith that God is over all things and you did the best that you could under the circumstances. Be at peace, let it go and leave him in the care of the almighty Creator of the heavens and earth and all of creation 🙏🌺🩷🪴
@charmanderuno
@charmanderuno 10 ай бұрын
My Dog Coco died Tuesday, it was a sudden death, he was only 5 years old, and my only consistent companion, we had so many things to do. I was so mad with pain that I fought with many people just so I didn't had to think about it. I saw your beautiful video Today and now I understand better the loss of a pet. Thank you so much, and like you, will find a way to honor my pet by being a better person. So sorry for your loss...
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@charmanderuno I am so sorry for the sudden loss of your furry companion 😔🙏 Even when our pets have left us, they still have such an influence on us to be better. Sending you much love and comfort. 🙏🙏🙏
@rezkat6
@rezkat6 9 ай бұрын
my four year old cat, pumpkin died suddenly a few months back. i understand the pain your feeling and im so sorry. im sure he knew how much he was loved.
@marieke8369
@marieke8369 23 күн бұрын
Your memorial is beautiful! Thank you for sharing🥹❤️
@justethan2731
@justethan2731 19 күн бұрын
thank you very much for making this video for everyone who is currently grieving. It's comforting to know i'm not alone with this immense pain after losing my soul dog.
@cynthias1120
@cynthias1120 7 ай бұрын
Thank you, my 17 year old baby angel cat left this world in my arms two days ago, and I’m not sure how to even go through my day without him by my side.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 6 ай бұрын
@cynthias1120 I am just seeing your comment now. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know, It's so hard. Nothing feels right or the same. How are you holding up? Sending you much love, light and healing tonight, 🙏✨
@Gmail.comyama
@Gmail.comyama 8 ай бұрын
How do people get through the pain, suffering, torment, torture and anxiety? I wouldn't want to make the decision to put down an animal, i don't know how people cope. My Yorkie Benji was taken from me by a coyote. He had another 3-5 years of life maybe more. I thought I was going to take care of him forever and didn't think much about him dying. I knew his time was coming as he would be 12 yo in October. But it was him and I together as best friends. And a family connection with my recently passed mother who was his caretaker for most of his life. Can't believe he's gone and never coming back like he never existed. Now he's a fading memory of a beautiful friend of unconditional love.
@hailtothefire_
@hailtothefire_ 10 ай бұрын
On July 10th I had to put down my sweet cat, Brody. She was around 20 with all sorts of ailments, mainly kidney disease. I had her for a long, lucky 17 years. The pain is absolutely unbearable and I miss her every second of every single day. I unfortunately will have to make the same decision soon with my sweet baby boy, Timmy, who is also in his 20s with kidney disease (among other ailments). I feel like I am going to shatter into a million pieces when I lose him. 17 years is a long time and I've bonded so deeply with my babies. They're my world and now that one of them is gone it feels like a piece of me is missing. When Timmy goes, another piece will be gone and I know I'll feel hollow and completely empty. My condolences to everyone here who commented about their pets and their loss. "Grief is just love with no place to go."
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@m0nstaar_ I'm so very sorry about Brody. Wow, 20 years. You gave him 20 years of pure love and joy and I am sure he knows this. Sending you much love, light and comfort. 🙏
@publix19631963
@publix19631963 10 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your Loss... it is true what you said it's worse than losing a human in more painful then you can imagine I just lost my dogs 2 weeks ago and I'm still devastated but it's a process that I'll get better little by little it's the most painful process that I had to go through thank you for making this video.....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@publix19631963 I hope this video helped you in some way. I am very sorry for your loss and I understand the devastation. I'm sending you much healing and love. 🙏✨ Take care of your heart.
@publix19631963
@publix19631963 10 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle thank you..
@belovedbeauty
@belovedbeauty 5 ай бұрын
Lost my sweet boy of 20 years last month and it’s still the the hardest thing everyday without him. I feel like I’m walking around with a huge hole just empty waiting to hold him again. I’ve had him almost my whole life, 12-32, every home. I don’t know how people ever not miss their babies 😪
@bellablueheadlam7823
@bellablueheadlam7823 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your words and tribute to your beautiful animal companion. My best friend and soulmate Brooklyn died May 8th. He was a 100 lb. Goldendoodle. He did everything with me. We shopped together, went to the parks, bank, Starbucks and more. Everyone called him the most well behaved dog they ever met. He loved people, cats, dogs, and life. Today was difficult without him due to being a holiday. I have been attending pet loss support groups. I am allowing my grief. There is a neighbor cat that is not being taken care of very well. He would follow me and Brooklyn on our walks. I feed him daily and spend time with him outside. He looks through my window and I talk to him I feel Brooklyn sent him to comfort me. Thank you.❤
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
I am so sorry about Brooklyn. 😔 I don’t know if you believe in reincarnation. If you do, I hope Brooklyn makes it back to you in this lifetime or the next. Sending you love and light. 🙏✨✨✨
@jkc8407
@jkc8407 8 ай бұрын
I lost my 18 year old pomeranian yesterday at 9:20am. I feel like I can't breathe. My heart hurts. I can't go to work. I barely made it to the shower this evening. I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 8 ай бұрын
@jkc8407 I am so very sorry for your loss. It will take time. But please take care of yourself. Try the meditation video. Do breathwork to help. It will get better, I promise. Sending you love, healing and comfort. 🙏🙏
@jkc8407
@jkc8407 8 ай бұрын
@elainelinle thank you so much. I'm going to try the meditation and deep breathing. Your reply really helped this morning. Mornings are the hardest, I think. I wake up and go right to get his breakfast. I know you completely understand. 💔🐾
@ian-michaeljones8825
@ian-michaeljones8825 10 ай бұрын
I found out that my my dog Maximillian passed away last night in his sleep. He was my first pet and I only had him for 2 years. I wish I could have had him for longer but I’m so thankful for the time we had together. ❤
@embracedchimera5886
@embracedchimera5886 5 күн бұрын
Im over 3years out from my soulcat Fireball passing and I was bawling 2 nights ago. Ive never been the same person again.
@white_lotus6503
@white_lotus6503 4 ай бұрын
We had to put our 10yr old cat Sammy down after his heart suddenly started failing. The amount of grief I experienced from the loss was the most consuming soul wrentching feeling. I couldnt cope with it . It didnt feel real .He passed on 12.19.2023. forever loved and forever missed.
@jpgrygus
@jpgrygus Ай бұрын
im losing my little doggy and the pain is unbearable. i will never get over it.
@healingforanewlife1
@healingforanewlife1 9 ай бұрын
I lost my baby boy, Maxwell, 2 days ago. It was hard to eat, and to even shower after his passing. Max passed at 8 years old. I had him for almost 7 years. Grief about your pet (more like family) is very real. We have to love our animals with all of our hearts while they are still here and to not take their time for granted.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 9 ай бұрын
@sierrasmith550 I'm so sorry about your loss of Maxwell. I hope you are eating and taking care of your well being. Maxwell would be sad to see you like this. Focus all your energy on honoring Maxwell. IS there something you can do on his behalf? Please take care ok? Sending you hugs and much love and light.
@healingforanewlife1
@healingforanewlife1 9 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle I am honoring Max by feeding the strays in my neighborhood. I have been taking one day at a time as the best I can. I did start journaling as you have mentioned and even wrote a poem for him. Thank you so so much for this video, grief and depression is real after a loss of a pet.
@trivityart4636
@trivityart4636 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I lost my soul cat so suddenly last week. My roomate called me while I was at work and told me he cardiac arrested, and it was the worst day of my life. Every day following that has been surreal. I am a huge fan of meditation as well. It is nice to know that we are not alone in our grief and others share the same feelings and survive.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@trivityart4636 I am so sorry 😞 🙏🙏🙏🙏 sending you love and light at this difficult time.
@mandarawong4899
@mandarawong4899 10 ай бұрын
Yes , it helps to know we are not alone in our grief. I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 I'm facing imminent loss of my beloved pooch 😭
@PattyandWillie
@PattyandWillie 10 ай бұрын
Oh no.....that's so sad that this happened while you were away at work 😭. I am so very sorry. I do believe you will see your beloved cat again. Rest in Peace 🕊️❤️🐈‍⬛ little angel.
@TT-js4jn
@TT-js4jn 9 ай бұрын
I love animals so much and I can never have another one due to the fact that when they pass I can't handle it. Now I just love all my friends animals and that's hard enough
@robertbeining141
@robertbeining141 6 ай бұрын
Elaine, you are such a beautiful, enlightened soul. Among all the vids I have watched regarding mourning the loss of a fur kid, your vid by far is the most helpful and spot on. My Apple Blossom, tiger cat, went to heaven last Thursday morning. I have lost many loves in my life, but this one hit me the hardest. Apple was by far the sweetest, most tender hearted, loving being I have known in my 61 yrs on earth. All of your 11 healing items are imperative. For me, number 9, helping other fur kids to mourn and heal. Apple was 14 yrs old, had a heart episode at age 11, they gave her weeks to live, she fought and made 2.5 more yrs. Her bestie was the 2nd love of my life Betty Boop the tortie with tude. They were together since kittens and truly bonded as sisters. Betty is missing her big sissy so much, but with all the love, attention, and treats Betty needs, this Cat Dad will help her mourn and heal.
@reneeborjas1877
@reneeborjas1877 6 ай бұрын
Beautiful soul! Bless you!!!🙏🌷❤
@Murasaki.
@Murasaki. 11 күн бұрын
Lost my cat yesterday as this has been an especially difficult time for me. Thanks for sharing this video.
@rayjay7718
@rayjay7718 8 ай бұрын
I lost my 10 year old sweetheart of a pitbull last night and I’m crushed. Thank you for sharing this video, reminds me I’m not alone in these feelings 💔
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 8 ай бұрын
@rayjay7718 I am so sorry to hear about your pitbull. It is tough, I know. Please know that you are not alone. Sending you much love and comfort. Take good care of yourself. Your pup would want that. Sending you love and healing. 🙏
@Bird_b0nes
@Bird_b0nes 8 ай бұрын
I’ve lost 3 animals in the past two months, my greyhound and my two rats, I lost the second rat today, I just started recovering from depression but I’m relapsing, thank you for making this for us
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@Bird_b0nes I am just seeing this now. It is terrible, I am so sorry for your loss and you are going through all this. How are you holding up? Sending you much love and light! 🙏
@Bird_b0nes
@Bird_b0nes 7 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle i’m doing not terrible thank you for asking, it was hard, but i’m coping, thank you once again ❤️❤️
@kiiiiitykat
@kiiiiitykat 10 ай бұрын
I’m deeply sorry for your loss. Yesterday I came back from a short vacation and found my baby Blue had passed. He was my first budgie that turned 4 just a month ago. I wish I could have been there with him while he crossed the bridge. I know he wasn’t alone because he passed sleeping next to his brothers cage❤️ I’m so sorry to everyone else who is going through this pain. It is unbearable but I like to remember that he is always with me.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@kat6272 oh no! I’m sorry you had to find Blue like that and so very sorry for your loss. 😔😔 it must have been shocking coming home to that. I wish you much comfort and strength to get through this Difficult time. 😔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kaymungaray7359
@kaymungaray7359 4 ай бұрын
My cat died yesterday - hit by a car. Total shock and PAIN. I loved her SO damn much and she was only 2 and full of life. It hurts so much right now…😞
@mustangsally6500
@mustangsally6500 9 ай бұрын
Searching for comfort tonight. Just lost my dog Jack today. He was almost 14. Cant sleep, and miss his so much tonight. Thanks for your advice and kind words.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 9 ай бұрын
@mustangsally6500 I am so sorry very sorry about Jack. 😔 These couple of days will be the hardest. I understand it. Focus your energy on honoring your Jack. IS there something you can do in honor of Jack? Sending you much love and healing 🙏🙏
@mustangsally6500
@mustangsally6500 9 ай бұрын
@elainelinle Thank you for such a kind empathetic response. We are having him cremated. If reincarnation is real, that dog was someone else. He had the personality of an old soul.
@tracya.schneider7698
@tracya.schneider7698 2 күн бұрын
Oh, Love...I feel your loss. I have had to let go of six of my own Loves...(4) cats and (2) rabbits...It is INCREDIBLY stressful, saddening and heart-wrenching...I hear you. Sending supportive hugs.
@cindylynn
@cindylynn Ай бұрын
My dog died two days ago. I can't breathe. I really don't want to live. He was with me everyday for 14 years, through surgeries, heart aches, disability. I don't know how to go on. And I am so sorry about your cat. Thank you for the video.
@suzieque4222
@suzieque4222 19 күн бұрын
yes I feel your pain right now as after 17 yrs with my wee girl she passed 8 weeks ago today :-( came home from work today and began to bawl my eyes out !! THE PAIN HAS EASED A WEE BIT !! I began to meditate as many have told me it really does work !! so far they have been right !! sometimes it makes me feel worse but found out its just the pain leaving my body !! THE PAIN WILL EASE EVEN THOUGH IT FEELS IT NEVER WILL !! IT WILL I PROMISE YOU !!!
@Throwawaychannel-1
@Throwawaychannel-1 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for helping me let go. My cat died in December 2023, but I still feel grief about his death and cry whenever I see an old picture of him. It was a perfect day, the first snow day in a while, when I came home, and I received the news he'd been hit by a car and died on impact. Probably by a speeder, as it's a 20 mph zone where we live and he would've lived otherwise. He was only a year old. I miss him so much but this video has helped Rest in piece, Orion.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 9 ай бұрын
@demi-leighratcliff6260 First and I am so very sorry about your cat. 😔That is so tragic. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch this video and I am glad it helped you. I'm sending so much healing and comfort right now. 🙏✨
@Throwawaychannel-1
@Throwawaychannel-1 9 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle Thank you, your video has helped me a lot and, though I still feel sad, I feel better
@teacherjess580
@teacherjess580 10 ай бұрын
I lost Rico 2 days ago. I had him for 15 years. He was my handsome man, my best friend, and my soul animal. I miss him so much. He sent me this video. It came up on my youtube home page. Thank you so much. I will be writing a letter to my handsome man Rico Suave tonight.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@teacherjess580 I am so very sorry about your Rico. 😔 Thank you Rico for sending you this video from the heavens above. 🙏
@debstidham
@debstidham 6 ай бұрын
My little love passed away a year ago which broke my heart into I just go on without my little love I didn't want to go on without her I will cry everyday I miss her so much it hurts so much she was my world I had to watch her die right in front of me within a few hours I feel for anyone who's lost a pet you never get over it
@eddieforest6931
@eddieforest6931 6 ай бұрын
My 15yo cat passed a few days ago and I can't help but think of all the things that I could've done to maybe save her. The hardest part is realizing that she is now in the past and I will never get to hold her again. My fluffy girl, she was the light and love of my life.
@rocketdude2969
@rocketdude2969 8 ай бұрын
I feel your pain ....my Measly cat of 17 years past away this past weekend. She unfortunately had a bunch of health problems and they had to euthanize her . This one has hit me very hard , partly because she died two years after my Nijer cat and partly because I felt like it was my fault for not doing more for her health . Measly and Nijer where there for me when my mom and dad died of cancer . It's been very difficult and I'm slowly getting to the point where I'm not just crying or sitting . I've talked to friends and family and it's helped . I have heart problems and I can say this one almost put me in the hospital. I'm staying strong because I have two other cats and I help with my neighbors cat . I feel for anyone that has lost an animal. I know some day I will see them all again .
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
😔@rocketdude2969 I am so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain. Are you feeling better? Please take care of your health ok? Sending you much healing and comfort. I am so sorry.
@RachelLouiseSwann
@RachelLouiseSwann 17 күн бұрын
I am so so sorry for your loss, Elaine. Hero by name, Hero by nature, from what you say about your beloved boy, and the montage you created for him. I think you list so many good tips. My little darling cat of 19 years left me yesterday. Her mommy cat died thirteen years before on exactly the same date. I am devastated without her, but happy she is reunited with her cat family. And I will see them all again. Besides, I still have a young cat family (not related to my baby just passed) to take care of. I hope you still feel Hero's presence. There is nothing quite like it.
@rosaliabarletta8438
@rosaliabarletta8438 7 ай бұрын
Losing my beautiful Pomeranian Coal is the hardest thing I’ve ever felt it happened on August 7th kind all of sudden so it’s even harder to make sense of it it developed seizures in a matter of 2 days I had to make the ultimate decision and the vet came over he died peacefully in my arms I will never forget him he was almost 15 years old it was a love I never knew before he came into my life at 3 months old I hope he is waiting for me in heaven he was my angel on this earth the love was pure and unconditional not many people truly understand the pain you go through when loosing a pet Soulmate it’s a hard journey to travel but happy for having had him in my life even though it was such tough interruption of this wonderful experience 🌈🙏🏻
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@rosaliabarletta8438 I am so very sorry for your loss of your Pomeranian. He must be your soul dog. Sending you much love and healing. I hope you are feeling somewhat a bit better. 🙏
@pianistaline
@pianistaline 3 ай бұрын
Yesterday I had to put my baby Billy to sleep. He was suffering and in pain because of cancer. I’m devastated. He was my love and my best companion. Can’t find enough words to describe the feeling of losing him.
@dari_yana
@dari_yana 2 ай бұрын
I put mine to sleep yesterday too. Kidney and intestine metastasis cancer. Last days he started suffering and yesterday I gave the final word. I am sorry for your loss, for our loss. Putting to sleep and taking their life was the hardest thing and responsibility to do. They are not suffering anymore and are healthy and happy over there ❤
@Shanef-sk8ew
@Shanef-sk8ew 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words advice and compassion. I loss my Birdie 6 months ago. And it feels just as hard now as it did 6 months ago. What get me through is keeping in mind how much my Bird loved me and keep her pictures and memories close to me. Thanks again and sorry for your loss of your precious fur Baby❤️😺🐦
@donpodlas5546
@donpodlas5546 Ай бұрын
Yesterday, my heart broke into a thousand pieces I had to put my youngest cat down because of something he ate or perhaps contracted. I'm 75 and have been through this many, many times. It always hurts so much. I know that time and understanding will soften the pain, but right now, the pain is devastating. Peace and much love to you.
@Sofie765
@Sofie765 10 ай бұрын
Just looking for anything on youtube to help me ease the pain I feel after my loss today. He was only four years old and I feel like I failed him. Thank you for this video.
@goldensmom
@goldensmom Ай бұрын
My baby passed away on 22nd March which is like 2 days ago. He fell from second floor and sustained injuries. He died due to complete wrong treatment and negligence of the vet. Just so that he doesn’t stop getting his visit charges he kept on saying he’s fine and will be fine and didn’t refer me to a better place. This is my first time facing situations like this and I regret contacting that vet and everything that happened to him. I hope he finds peace in death and is in a better place. I love you GOLDEN and mom and dad is missing you too please be happy and peaceful wherever you are. 🕊️❤️
@carloscssr
@carloscssr 5 ай бұрын
You will meet again ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏. It's not a goodbye...
@sandeeforeshee3567
@sandeeforeshee3567 Ай бұрын
ThNk you with all i am for making this…ill return today to her favorite place in the whole world…my brothers house…it is there shes buried….i have her side kick still and your 11 ways are so good…hit hard..i know i can be better by the rest❤️🙏🏻
@justme24gb
@justme24gb 2 ай бұрын
We just put down our beautiful boy (cavachon) and I miss him terribly already. My heart is broken. We form such a strong and unique bond with our pets. They are family.
@V1PERB3ATZ
@V1PERB3ATZ 8 ай бұрын
Lost our young, innocent, shy and precious cat Pisana a few days ago. She was too young and was ran over had her only for about a year and she was so caring and always tried not to get in your way. Feels terrible, my first ever pet and I’m 20 I haven’t cried like this before, I don’t remember when I last cried? R.I.P Pisana 😞💔🙏😭 watching this video made me realise how similar our cats look as well. 😞
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@V1PERB3ATZ oh no. Im so sorry for yur loss. I am just seeing this now. How are you holding up? I hope you are feeling a bit better. Sending you much love and light.
@V1PERB3ATZ
@V1PERB3ATZ 7 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle I’m better but I still think of her everyday and see her pictures. Sometimes the empty feeling just comes back randomly.
@nhmisnomer
@nhmisnomer 4 ай бұрын
Hero was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your memorial to him. Thank you for your comforting advice ❤
@rogerzambranomusic
@rogerzambranomusic 6 ай бұрын
The pain never goes away.
@vickymoore4203
@vickymoore4203 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your video about your beloved baby Hero. I lost my Cairn Terrier girl Zoey on 02/26/2024 to a very sudden illness. She was only ten. I am a 69 year old widow with no children. My pets were my children . Zoey has been my constant companion and best friend ever. Her and I have been through so many challenges in her short life…she always received to most love and care I could provide for her. She was the best listener ever. After my husband (her human Daddy) passed away, she was so much comfort for me. So I understand your strong connection with Hero. I will forever miss my Baby Girl and I know she is in Heaven with her human Daddy, Mike. I held her in my arms as she left this earth. I have had four other Cairns before her, losing them was very hard also, but my Zoey Girl was my heart and soul. I now feel so alone…I live with my sister and her four furry babies, but it just isn’t the same… Thanks so much for listening. 🐾💔🙏🏼💔🐾🥲🥲🥲
@Its.Rouge.
@Its.Rouge. 8 ай бұрын
I just had my pet cat Oreo who recently just turned 10 years old pass away after suffering a sudden stroke on August 28th 2023.. It was the worst day of my life and with no warning... and it all happened when I was work only to come home to see the aftermath.. She was perfectly healthy.. After bringing her home from the vet, I spent 18 hours by Oreos side in hopes she would pull through only to pass away in my arms the next day.. Oreo was the most loveable, playful, spunky and most spoiled cat you could ever ask for.. She came into my life after showing up at my front porch on a cold winter day back in 2014 and did not want to leave, I brought her inside and she was loved since. Oreo was around a year old when she found me. I'm really, really going to miss my baby.. She was my sleeping buddy.. She has reunited with my other cat Blossom who I lost 5 years ago to this day from cancer.. 😥😥 -Derek
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 8 ай бұрын
@Z-O-R-O-A-R-K I am just seeing your message now. First, I am so sorry for your loss of Oreo. How are you holding up? It is a beautiful story about Oreo showing up on your front porch on a cold winter day and I am so glad you took her in and showered her with love. I know you miss her. Its been months and I still think and tear every now and then about Hero. Thank you for sharing your story with me. Sending you much love and light. Please take care of your heart. Oreo and Blossom are counting on you to do that! 🙏
@Its.Rouge.
@Its.Rouge. 8 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle It's been a rough road for me emotionally. Oreo got cremated 2 days later on the 31st. Her ashes came home the following Wednesday. The moment she came home, that huge weight was lifted off of me and I was finally at ease to be reunited. I cried once I saw the box she came in, but I was happy to know she's finally home. The moment she came back, I felt something rub my leg, looking down only to not see anything, only to know it was her spirit, she told me "I'm here now everything will be okay". I have another cat named Max who's 15. He's doing really well since he is now living alone. He's been getting extra attention, making sure he gets more spoiled. I plan to make a little memorial on the counter and have pictures next to her ashes. And I will say your advise helped me, and I personally want to say thank you.
@monaliang8126
@monaliang8126 6 ай бұрын
I had to put down my sweet 16 year old cat because of a dead end diagnosis. She was so sick but staying alive for me. Truly heart breaking 💔 the night that she was gone I felt like I was being shattered from inside out. She went through life with me. Moved from China to Canada with me witnessed my growth marriage divorce and found love again. Went through all the paper writing by my side when I was studying for my master degree. I felt completely lost without her😢 the pain comes and goes. But I do force myself to take walk in the nature. I find it helps.
@juliecolemannelson6849
@juliecolemannelson6849 7 ай бұрын
My jackjack was only 2 when he passed 10 months ago. The hardest part for me is the guilt i still feel. I still can't help but feel that I should have done more.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 6 ай бұрын
@juliecolemannelson6849 I know how you feel. Your jackjack knows you did your best. I believe it.
@juliecolemannelson6849
@juliecolemannelson6849 6 ай бұрын
@@elainelinle thank you. I really really hope so. I kept telling him how sorry i was as he was taking his last breaths in my arms. My only comfort was that he didn't seem scared
@monikaorehovec9475
@monikaorehovec9475 7 ай бұрын
my cat Lily died 3 days ago. She was only 6 months old, we adopted her in June and she was with us until September. I'm so depressed, I can't eat, I can't sleep. I keep looking at her pictures and videos. No one can replace her, she was the perfect cat for me and my family. I cry every day, night and I think I will seek the help of a psychologist. I still haven't adjusted to her absence.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 7 ай бұрын
@monikaorehovec9475 I'm so very sorry for your loss of Lily. It's ok to cry and you have to let out this energy. Focus your energy on something else. Is there something you can do to honor Lily? Maybe do something on Lily's behalf. Please know that we are here for you. Take care of yourself and your heart. Lily will want to see you healthy and smiling. Sending you much love. Take care.🙏
@Hardstyle_Queen
@Hardstyle_Queen 2 ай бұрын
This is so relatable. I just lost my 15-year-old, 16 in 6 months. I really blame myself that I probably could have helped her suffer less in her last moment. Last month's vet visit wasn't so good. She was severely anaemic (below the low norm), had high phosphate, & vomited often, most likely kidney failure. In the past few months, she became super close, sleeping on top of me & and being such a baby. But she was also finding a dark & quiet spot which I kinda knew something was up. Yesterday her condition worsened, the night before she was having trouble walking with her hind. Refusing to eat or drink for 2 days. Became super lethargic unable to move, barely opening her eyes with a runny nose. Looks super emaciated. My mom(a stroke survivor) was comforting her all night. Woke up to hear her last few loud meows, eyes fully open refusing to close, & breathing became slower. I considered PTS but it felt like it was too late with her worsening state & I didn't want to stress her out on a vet visit. Now I'm finding good places to do cremation. Have thoughts of taxidermy.
@bmaria8011
@bmaria8011 5 ай бұрын
it’s almost been year since my baby passed , around January 26th, and i’ve felt horrible this past year. nothing but grief and an immense feeling of grief . he grew up with me from 3 years old to almost 19. i didn’t even have any memories before him and his lost was devastating. especially because nobody understood and i felt as though nobody cared, not even my “friends”. it’s been a devastating experience but my goal is to support other people going through the same, i always try to reach out whenever i hear someone loses a pet and make it clear i’m there to talk to them.
@itsdiane2you11
@itsdiane2you11 10 ай бұрын
Your Hero looks just like my Gunner. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@elainelinle
@elainelinle 10 ай бұрын
@itsdiane2you11 Thank so much for your words and for watching. 🙏✨
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