Derek Hough - Hold On (Official Music Video)

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Derek Hough

Derek Hough

6 жыл бұрын

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After experiencing firsthand the effects of suicide in my extended family, I became curious of the human condition and how we could possibly reach a point where we felt that there was no hope.
The thought of someone suffering in silence, feeling alone and feeling like there is no way out breaks my heart.
This video represents that isolated loneliness we can often feel...especially in the wake of traumatic events. But in the end it's about reaching out for help as well as reaching out to help others. When we connect as human beings, we become stronger, and are able to share and let go of the burden one might feel.
If you or someone you know is going through a difficult time, don't be afraid to reach out. Life is definitely worth living.
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H.O.P.E
Hold On Pain Ends
"Hold On" is the first solo single written, directed, and performed by me, co-starring Kayla Ewell ("The Vampire Diaries")"
Proud to release this single in conjunction with the Movember Foundation. Go to us.movember.com/ to learn more. #Movember
My new single "Hold On" is out now: smarturl.it/derekhoughholdon
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@Anjushree
@Anjushree 6 жыл бұрын
*"Sometimes we think we want to disappear but all we really want is to be found"*
@lvsxnne5063
@lvsxnne5063 5 жыл бұрын
Anjushree Verma why is this me...
@breeness56
@breeness56 5 жыл бұрын
You are very correct!!!
@GetCraftyLemons
@GetCraftyLemons 5 жыл бұрын
We want someone to care!!
@pattis2641
@pattis2641 5 жыл бұрын
This is my soul, being in turmoil of wanting to keep fighting or leave and FINALLY stop hurting.
@GetCraftyLemons
@GetCraftyLemons 5 жыл бұрын
@@pattis2641 Man do I understand that!!!!
@ronscrazyfamily6654
@ronscrazyfamily6654 6 жыл бұрын
Derek Hough: You are that rare combination of genius, a scholar, and a gentleman for gifting the world with this emotional poetry. THANK YOU. For those in the direst of need, *HOLD ON*, dial 1.800.RESOLVE.
@renaeemorgan8914
@renaeemorgan8914 6 жыл бұрын
To anyone reading this...... I don't know who you are or what your going through but I want you to know you are NOT ALONE AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FACE IT ALONE! Speaking to someone about your mental health does not make you weak. IT MAKES YOU STRONG... and I know it seems hard right now but it will get better YOU WILL GET BETTER. YOU ARE STRONG, YOU ARE SMART AND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND MOST IMPORTANTLY YOU ARE LOVED. I DON'T KNOW YOU BUT I LOVE YOU AND THE WORLD WOULD NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU IN IT❤ So please stay strong and remeber it's ok to cry but please DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!
@natifnoguera
@natifnoguera 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@vloggingwithtiffanytv4287
@vloggingwithtiffanytv4287 5 жыл бұрын
renaee morgan that is so nice of you. that makes me believe that even if you don't know the person there the ones who cares about u the most. thank you so much.
@GetCraftyLemons
@GetCraftyLemons 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@thebearypotato6463
@thebearypotato6463 5 жыл бұрын
U say the world wouldnt be the same with me....i bet if i killed myself my family and friends would mourn over me for what a few weeks then they would forget about me...like they did my gram...they didnt forget her...but they did get over her...while IM HERE STILL BREAKING APART AND DIEING ON THE INSIDE CAUSE NOW i have noone....she was my best friend....im depressed.....i spoke up to my mom 1s but i dont think she understood what i was saying......i dont think anyone would....unless ur going through what i am....but yes ur message is encouraging....but not to me....i lost all hope when my grandma died....but still thankyou
@germainestratton8981
@germainestratton8981 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@forliberty1805
@forliberty1805 6 жыл бұрын
I was suicidal in high school and college. I didn't feel anyone loved me. I cried out to God to intervene in my life because I just didn't want to live. And He did in several powerful ways. I knew He was real and had a purpose for my life so I gave my heart to Him and accepted His Son, Jesus Christ as my Savior. I knew for the first time how much I was really loved when I knew what Christ had done for me on the cross. I've been living for Him ever since.
@kimberlysmith8299
@kimberlysmith8299 6 жыл бұрын
I am humbled...thank you Derek for putting this out there...someone out there is being saved at this moment..I pray.
@GetCraftyLemons
@GetCraftyLemons 5 жыл бұрын
It might be me. Have fought through many years. I'm holding on!
@KerryHuelle1999
@KerryHuelle1999 6 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am a suicide “survivor” and I emphasize survivor, because once we come thru, we must still learn to live, love and be happy. I had no idea I had a disorder (I like that better than illness 😊) like millions of others. We are taught how eat right, exercise, listen to our body, get physicals; but nothing about our mental health. Just imagine if every doctor took 5 minutes to ask just a few questions about our mental health. Soon, it would be as simple as talking about every other medical issues.. I loved your video! It is so hard to hold on..but if a hand reaches for us, the fall doesn’t hurt quite as bad.
@DamIGood-ve1vk
@DamIGood-ve1vk 6 жыл бұрын
Kerry Huelle - Sheppard please hold on you're beautiful and you're worth it. I promise.
@boannanalrn3956
@boannanalrn3956 6 жыл бұрын
What you said about doctor' spending five minutes to speak about such things is crucial. The biggest reason that many of us continue to struggle is because no one took the time to explain to us that this is not a 'problem' but a medical condition just like any other. 5 minutes, just like taking a blood pressure. For all you doctors out there reading this....5 MINUTES. Help us when we are young to realize this is something we can openly discuss with our doctors WITHOUT being ashamed of it.
@lararichter231
@lararichter231 5 жыл бұрын
God bless you and keep you safe and happy.
@dardarkazzy4851
@dardarkazzy4851 5 жыл бұрын
I agree. I am a suicide survivor, 2 x. I never got help. I'm not afraid of death, I feel peace when I think about it. Can't explain that feeling. I think about it a lot and I don't know why. Ugh. My brain has so many thoughts running thru it and I can't shut them out. I feel pain all the time but never show it always put on on a happy face . What disorder do you have?
@gsp404faith5
@gsp404faith5 4 жыл бұрын
@@dardarkazzy4851 I am 50 and I've survived 5 x. If one doctor would have listened or talked for 5 minutes, my life and my children's lives wouldn't have been horrible. I have PTSD and BLPD. I still have to fight everyday. Talk to someone please. Everyone's situation is different, but there is help out there. It's not easy at all, but worth everything.
@chloejohanna31
@chloejohanna31 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derek. My neighbors mom hung herself a month ago and my boyfriend helped the body get down.. I didnt know them really but introduced myself to the daughter afterwards. Community is important. We all have purpose whether we recognize it or not. Say hi to your neighbors when they're walking their dogs, even if they never say hi back. Reach out to your friends. Dont tell people to not feel a certain way. It's okay to have emotions, even the bad ones. They are how we learn and experience life. But like the song says, hold on pain ends. I am 26 years old have been in the hospital twice at 19 and 22 for suicide but I never will again. I have learned how to cope, and that I have purpose and so much to give. Exercise, meditate, breathe, be in the moment. Return to the natural state of bliss we all deserve
@GetCraftyLemons
@GetCraftyLemons 5 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. Thank you!!
@natashaf4606
@natashaf4606 5 жыл бұрын
I didn’t expect be so impacted by this music video. Beautiful song, beautiful voice, beautiful acting, and well portrayed story. I love that this wasn’t about a romance magically ‘fixing’ people, but just two hurting humans reaching out to take care of each other. Thank you Derek and everyone involved in making this, a job well done.
@orelysnieves
@orelysnieves 6 жыл бұрын
Derek, Thank You! For raising your voice for those who can't.
@RosebeeVids
@RosebeeVids 6 жыл бұрын
Depression is so horriffic, the altered brain chemicals makes my brain believe evil lies. It encourages me to isolate myself from the very friends & activities that help me feel better. I'm grateful that after months of struggling & suffering I found a great Dr who got me the medication I needed to fix the chemistry in my brain. Please never stop trying to support & engage your loved ones with depression.
@simoneblum76
@simoneblum76 6 жыл бұрын
RosebeeVids they are two types of depression . One is the chemical imbalance and the other is live situation . I was always a fun person . I write songs I sing I paint and many other things . They come naturally to me . But my life situation dose not change what ever I did to change it . It gets worse and worse . A human can take it only for so long . I am trapped since 18 years now and everything I have to give and want to give , all dreams and hopes are gone . On my Bucket list is to learn dancing . It is a nice thought I expect nothing anymore .
@tishataray
@tishataray 6 жыл бұрын
Simone Blum God has a lot in store for you Simone and there is so much to do. Dont limit yourself and try something new..we want u here girl
@kellyshelley1427
@kellyshelley1427 6 жыл бұрын
I've almost lost my life to bipolar more than once. I'll live with it for the rest of my life but I refuse to let it bury me. Like you I have some solid help with this.
@melindamartin1876
@melindamartin1876 5 жыл бұрын
Over the last three years I have battled prescription pill addiction. It got really bad! With the withdrawals and depression, I almost left my family which is now unthinkable to me. My family and I are a very tight unit. I would close myself off and when things got really bad and I kept thinking why am I trying so hard to fight it. I know I’m going to make myself sound like just another crazy fan, but watching you dance or listening to this song got me through some really bad days. One day at a time!! Now I am eight months clean, I have my mind back and my family is stronger than ever. My daughter got me an early Mother’s Day gift and now I get to go watch you at the Fox Theatre tonight! I can’t promise the emotion won’t get to me. Lol I seem to be an emotional being these days. But it’s better than feeling nothing and being in that black void. So I am saying thank you!! I know you probably won’t see this but I’m thanking you anyway. God bless 💗💗 M. Martin
@fallingstar4060
@fallingstar4060 5 жыл бұрын
To the person who is reading this. Hold on don't give up I know saying is easy but doing is hard. When you feel alone talk with the people I am not saying that it's going to be better but it feels better or if you are 😡 U know what I do I broke the things not expensive things but that makes me feel better. But plz don't hurt yourself & there is always be hope so don't give up . I tell myself every time don't give up. So don't give up for people who love you . so be strong 🤗
@amycush3909
@amycush3909 6 жыл бұрын
Day by day Every day. Is a battle Is a battle Losing faith A fight each day, for survival For survival She said will anybody even know if I'm gone And I cant take another night alone And i say Hold on Hold on to me Hold on Hold on to me Looking back With every breathe feeling shattered, shattered You did your best Got nothing left, doesn't matter It matters She said will anybody even know if I'm gone Cos i cant take another night like this alone And i say Hold on Hold on to me, yeah Hold on Hold on to me When you're falling down Hold on Hold on to me Hold on Hold on to me Ooo ahhh When everything comes crashing down You know you know Its harder when your lies come out You know that you can Hold on Hold on to me Hold on Hold on to me When you're falling down Hold on Hold on Hold to me Hold on Hold on for me Hold on Hold on to me
@amycush3909
@amycush3909 6 жыл бұрын
This song is perfect i love it so much! Thank you nina for shouting it out too!
@merciasales4497
@merciasales4497 6 жыл бұрын
Muito obrigado!
@Strayhornsss
@Strayhornsss 6 жыл бұрын
Can you maybe put spaces in between each part?
@BhupinderSingh-vi4yt
@BhupinderSingh-vi4yt 6 жыл бұрын
thanks for the lycris
@Hannah-wh5jw
@Hannah-wh5jw 6 жыл бұрын
So underrated. The entire world needs to know about this song. I'm sure it will help so many people who are struggling.
@livingmember152
@livingmember152 5 жыл бұрын
I swear to God that if you can't trust anybody, you can trust Derek Hough. This how much faith I have in him. I really do believe he's a good guy.
@christifloyd6083
@christifloyd6083 3 жыл бұрын
This song hit straight to my soul today. Going through a rough patch and this was the reminder I needed.
@cherrireid9605
@cherrireid9605 6 жыл бұрын
That was absolutely breathtaking. There are so many hurting people out there in the world. We need to reach out to all so they have the strength to "Hold On". Thank you for sharing your talent and your heart
@amberburkett2325
@amberburkett2325 6 жыл бұрын
Cherri Reid yes 100%
@babygirlgibbs
@babygirlgibbs 6 жыл бұрын
Really hit home. That was me six years ago. If this is you now please hold on. It might not feel like it but there is Hope. I know there is because it found me and saved me. It will find you too.🙏💓🌹
@gigisunflower36
@gigisunflower36 6 жыл бұрын
I'm glad it did. You matter
@littlebigkicker
@littlebigkicker 6 жыл бұрын
i am glad u found hope praying for u
@simoneblum76
@simoneblum76 6 жыл бұрын
No there is no hope for everybody . It can go only so far and I am tired of people telling me hold on it will get better . It dose not it gets worse . I speak of years not just a few days or month
@arianedennison2395
@arianedennison2395 6 жыл бұрын
Simone Blum I don't know you and you don't know me but I know what you mean. I almost succeeded once, and that's when ALL THESE PEOPLE told me I have so much to live for and that so many people would need me. My reply? Where were they when I needed someone to listen??? Everyone expected me to just drop everything, listen to THEIR problems then fart rainbows, glitter, and unicorns. We both know that isn't real. I still struggle every hour of every day ... but I'm still here. I'm not going to tell you it's going to get better, it won't. I WILL tell you this - you matter. You may not even know how much but there is at least one person who would be devastated if you go. Life still chews me up and spits me out but I choose not to give in but to go on. I don't know you but I would shed a tear and feel horrible if you left out before your time. You matter even if you can't see it right now. You matter. Keep up the struggle, you're worth it.
@kristitaylor3549
@kristitaylor3549 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, needed to hear that
@cookieesncream5350
@cookieesncream5350 6 жыл бұрын
For those of you who feel there is no hope, please hold on... at least to the possibility that things will change in the future. I was like this for 3 years, and now have been much healthier for the past 2 years xx
@randomlyabby4258
@randomlyabby4258 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you just need someone to hold on to you for you to feel safe. But it’s hard when you are afraid to open up to people.
@pipsa.r
@pipsa.r 5 жыл бұрын
I think that this is a very important message to everybody who is struggling. And while I continue crying my eyes out, I applaud you Derek and everyone who helped you for creating this.
@zahiraesparza4751
@zahiraesparza4751 6 жыл бұрын
Derek is an amazing dancer and artist the best of two worlds 😍😍
@soulaesthete8563
@soulaesthete8563 6 жыл бұрын
WOW. What a powerful demonstration of both pain and purpose by Derek Hough. How wonderful he's using his incredible gifts to encourage others. Those who believe in a personal God, also know there is a personal Satan, a.k.a. the father of lies, who is constantly feeding lies of hopelessness, unworthiness, and despair into the minds of people. As the Lord Jesus said, "The Thief only comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy. I AM come that they may have life and have it more abundantly." (John 10:10)
@susanmartin3762
@susanmartin3762 Жыл бұрын
I mean of course he can sing too! These Hough kids are from another planet!
@ancarautoiu8803
@ancarautoiu8803 6 жыл бұрын
The fact that you are able to create something like this, which made me cry my heart out, even though I'm not suffering from depression, is absolutely amazing, Derek...keep doing what you do, because you are incredibly brilliant at it!
@cutiehaley
@cutiehaley 6 жыл бұрын
The whole video is visually beautiful and emotionally powerful! Also, this singing thing? Do it more often please 😍
@derekhough6513
@derekhough6513 3 жыл бұрын
I want to specially appreciate you for being a big fan🙏🙏🙏🙏.Thank for your nice comment on my post, it means a lot to me .I want you to send me a message via Hangout using my personal email through my indicated below also endeavor to add your name to the text so I can know you are the one texting because I don't reply unnecessary message Hangout email: houghd70@gmail.come
@maureengannaway8635
@maureengannaway8635 5 жыл бұрын
Powerful message. When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, KNOW that all you have to do is REACH out to SOMEONE and the light in that tunnel will get brighter and HOLDING on will bring you thru to a HAPPIER LIFE, one day at a time. Holding, pray...it wil get better to anyone who is feeling sad this morning...it will get better❤😊
@JoseHernandez-iq3fs
@JoseHernandez-iq3fs 3 жыл бұрын
A time of uncertainty has left everyone in despair. Just having a loved one in your life to talk to could be the difference. A friend, a relative a colleague even a stranger who is willing to help gives hope to all. To everyone out there, don't be afraid to reach out. Someone who cares will be there for you. God bless everyone in this planet we call earth.
@WellSea7
@WellSea7 6 жыл бұрын
feeling like a speck of dust, floating in thin air, not trusting your own mind, your own heart, its all unsure, even when you have faith in the after life, theres just sometimes when non of it is enough... and it is true people walk through ones life daily and they're all clueless as to how much pain your heart & soul are in....
@GetCraftyLemons
@GetCraftyLemons 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly how I feel!!!! Thank you!!
@trishaaudettemammadukes30
@trishaaudettemammadukes30 6 жыл бұрын
Derek this is absolutely moving and amazing. Very touching message and I love your voice Bravo everyone involved in creating this. 💋💞
@kuppperthompson
@kuppperthompson 6 жыл бұрын
Simply amazing. Beautiful voice. Great message Derek. You are a great actor too.
@taliyahh.m
@taliyahh.m 6 жыл бұрын
Trisha Audette i think what you said is very touching and right
@trishaaudettemammadukes30
@trishaaudettemammadukes30 6 жыл бұрын
Taliyah Milfort ty dear
@hannahgilley9461
@hannahgilley9461 6 жыл бұрын
This song would be perfect for contemporary on dancing with the stars💃🏻
@hannahgilley9461
@hannahgilley9461 6 жыл бұрын
Bravo,Derek.Bravo,Darling.You get my thumbs up👍
@lindadoss6521
@lindadoss6521 4 жыл бұрын
But for the Grace of God and finding a program of recovery and people who loved me until I could love myself, I don't live here anymore. This is so powerful! Thank you Derek Hough. I just sent this to a couple of folks that I know are struggling. I held on, and today I help others...haven't had a suicidal though for 38 years.
@amandabahma9700
@amandabahma9700 Ай бұрын
Happy birthday Derek. I hope you have a wonderful birthday today with your family
@kykitty1988
@kykitty1988 6 жыл бұрын
this brought tears to my eyes and more love into my heart derek i know now im not alone and i will hold on for you!!!!!!!
@NYmarissa
@NYmarissa 6 жыл бұрын
Derek, your talent to express struggle and triumph through music, dance, and storytelling is absolutely incredible. This is such a beautiful video/song that is so raw, emotional, and unfortunately a real issue that so many deal with everyday. It’s okay to ask for help, and hold on because tomorrow is another day. Thank you for shedding light on mental health/suicide awareness. 💜 “It’s always darkest before the dawn.”
@exemptangel7336
@exemptangel7336 6 жыл бұрын
Is that vikki from the vampire diaries?
@princesskk321
@princesskk321 6 жыл бұрын
Kitykat1103 R That's What I Thought Too
@lisamontoni6421
@lisamontoni6421 2 жыл бұрын
I have fought Self Harm and Suicidal Thoughts most of my life. Thank you for this Derek. Finally watched this. This is SO valuable timely and meaningful! Please take care and stay strong yourself! Grateful! Maria
@sandyg.3454
@sandyg.3454 6 жыл бұрын
Poignant, sad and hopeful.... because there is help if you reach out. I pray that people don’t suffer in silence.🙏🏽
@eyoree1977
@eyoree1977 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derek for this sad, but poignant video. You are going to reach so many people and help, more than you will ever know. I know all too well the pain of losing someone to suicide. You are awesome!!
@Anonymous-ej1jn
@Anonymous-ej1jn 6 жыл бұрын
Crucial message behind an amazing song. Loved it 💛
@candyarmstrong9147
@candyarmstrong9147 Жыл бұрын
I think this is such a powerful song and video. We never know what someone may be going through and if your hurting it can be hard to know what to do. But if your hurting, please reach out for help. I did and that’s why I’m still here today.
@hip4him2
@hip4him2 8 ай бұрын
❤OMG DEREK YOU can sing but I’m Not Surprised. You and Your sister are Gifted and Music is part of You, But I felt all the Pain and Brokenness in this video 😢 and obviously You also Understand🕊 Thank You for sharing this Anointed Gift of Hope for Everyone Hurting and Congratulations on your new Beautiful and Talented Wife💘 💒💍
@anthony5570
@anthony5570 6 жыл бұрын
Tears
@joydowner9648
@joydowner9648 6 жыл бұрын
Thankyou. Thankyou thankyou thankyou.
@tiadoll1365
@tiadoll1365 6 жыл бұрын
Why am I surprised? Anyone who can dance like Derek must have a voice to, I am very impressed. I needed to see this. That's Anita's reply 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵
@rashana7k480
@rashana7k480 6 жыл бұрын
There were times I felt I just wanted to go to bed and sleep and never wake up again. But I'm praying about it and I'm grateful that God helped
@HeatherAngel.
@HeatherAngel. 6 жыл бұрын
This song runs deep. Dance has been my solace during some difficult times in my life, but sadly dance isn’t always enough. Songs like this really help, thank you Derek. ❤️
@diana-alexandrai.5809
@diana-alexandrai.5809 5 жыл бұрын
The bliss of resistance must be divided with someone otherwise it's blankness. Almost for a year I wanted to die but I believed in God and in the eternal value that creates another higher value in an even larger ensemble. No matter how much pain we will endure. It is worthwhile to make our soul bright.
@breeness56
@breeness56 5 жыл бұрын
It's a battle to stay out of my head. It's a battle to not think of all the young people that I have known who are no longer with me. It's so easy for some to say hold on or stay with us, but there are not enough resources for grief. It takes over your mind, latches on tight and won't unlatch by itself. No one could have prepared me for losing a parent, a friend, a lover, a child.. When you figure out how, let me know...
@hope4kidsguate
@hope4kidsguate 6 жыл бұрын
Wow Derek I'm currently sitting in my car crying because this video. I currently have a friend who struggling with self harm and I feel like she feels like this. thank you for this thank you so much
@hannahgilley9461
@hannahgilley9461 6 жыл бұрын
Who sings this song?
@hope4kidsguate
@hope4kidsguate 6 жыл бұрын
Derek is singing it! You can look up him singing it live.
@christineblani4569
@christineblani4569 6 жыл бұрын
You are strength for everyone
@nicolettemonusko1424
@nicolettemonusko1424 6 жыл бұрын
Dearest Derek, thank you for being you & bringing your talent & light to humanity.
@sherrivonch6044
@sherrivonch6044 5 жыл бұрын
Been going through this w a fake smile for others for thirteen yrs... I feel happy when my grandbabies are here and the eldest cuddles me.
@michellerogers4561
@michellerogers4561 6 жыл бұрын
WOW!! what a powerful song, this song speaks volumes!!!
@linzeyreed7313
@linzeyreed7313 6 жыл бұрын
I am speechless Derek. It opens such a deep wound since my brother committed suicide. It has changed my life so profoundly. I wish I knew how I could have helped him. He kept all his pain hidden from his family. I know people are struggling and they feel they can't go on. But the loved ones left behind are left with such a huge hole in their hearts. It's so difficult to accept. We were left with such guilt because we should have seen how unhappy he was. We don't know why he felt that was the only way. It just breaks my heart. Thank you Derek for your caring heart; your ability to reach out and help others; and inspiring us every day to remember that the secret to living is giving. You are always giving of yourself and I feel so blessed we share the same lifetime. Incredible song; powerful video; you're an extraordinary man.
@brandonmiles86
@brandonmiles86 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, Linzey. I don't know you, but I just want to say that it's not you or your family's fault that your brother committed suicide. I planned my own suicide several years ago and almost went through with it. I hesitate to speak for your brother, but when I was in that state of mind, I felt like I was in a deep, dark tunnel with no light in sight. Death seemed like a rest and a relief. My family had no idea what I was going through because I was very good at wearing a happy "everything's fine" mask. So there is no way that your family could have known how unhappy he was if he was as adept as I was at pretending. My problems felt insurmountable and there is nothing that anyone could have said to make me feel differently. In the end I chickened out and asked for help. It's only through counseling and medication that things slowly got better. Please know that your brother's suicide had nothing to do with you guys and everything to do with him and how hopeless he must have felt. I'm sure that he knew that you guys loved him. I pray that you and your family are able to find some measure of peace someday.
@linzeyreed7313
@linzeyreed7313 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. I don't see it as you "chickened out"; I believe you found the courage to ask for help. I hope things continue to get better for you.
@zalethg
@zalethg 6 жыл бұрын
Know exactly how you feel my only sister commited suicide in August
@tishataray
@tishataray 6 жыл бұрын
Christy Snell ure a great writer. Im glad ure here
@plymouthcountysuicidepreve6387
@plymouthcountysuicidepreve6387 6 жыл бұрын
Linzey- sending you prayers and hugs. I too am a loss survivor. It is hard and we do feel the guilt. But we all need to understand that what our loved ones were / are going through is something we cannot even begin to feel. They did not take their lives thinking of us, those that are left behind. They only wanted to heal their "pain". I love this video and message it sends. I hope you will find peace. God Bless you and your family.
@riversmind1545
@riversmind1545 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is amazing.... Why isn’t a song like THIS blowing up the radio??? Just tells you that songs with a real message rarely get heard... I love this so much. So beautiful. I wish I had had a song like this when I was going through my dark times...
@alexandraframe6493
@alexandraframe6493 6 жыл бұрын
The world around me disappeared all I could hear was Derek’s words. Powerful song!
@destinystephens9691
@destinystephens9691 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. My depression has been worse over the last two years with the lost of 3 family members. I have felt like dying everyday. That i didnt belong here. But that is wrong because i do. Thank you for putting out this song and shining a light on this.
@katesimon2316
@katesimon2316 6 жыл бұрын
Destiny Stephens you got this God created you for a reason to tell your story and help people get through it
@Faith-je9bq
@Faith-je9bq 6 жыл бұрын
Destiny Stephens take it day by day . Sending you love and prayers ❤️❤️
@destinystephens9691
@destinystephens9691 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the kind words
@soapqueen2008
@soapqueen2008 6 жыл бұрын
Destiny Stephens my advice is anytime you feel that way go for a jog or workout it helps with depression
@destinystephens9691
@destinystephens9691 6 жыл бұрын
soapqueen2008 thank you!! For the advice
@sari743
@sari743 6 жыл бұрын
I’m speechless...thank you for this absolutely amazing video
@t.ellevision
@t.ellevision 2 жыл бұрын
Wow Derek, I already adored you, but this took it to a whole new level. Thank you for this! As someone who attempted to end my life due to domestic violence (hes in prison for 25 years now) I didnt want to live with it anymore. I wish this song would have been something I could have listened to then. Hold on guys I promise things do get better do not lose hope in yourself!
@darlenedunlap6324
@darlenedunlap6324 6 жыл бұрын
Having a daughter who was a Combat Medic in Operation Enduring Freedom, we deal with PTSD every day. This was such a true statement how it is for her. You have truly touched my heart.
@sahithimalireddy8640
@sahithimalireddy8640 6 жыл бұрын
This had an incredible message. This was me exactly two years ago. I didn’t feel like I was worth living and I tried so hard to fight it. This was amazing
@Gisefurimmer
@Gisefurimmer 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much Derek! Indeed, is so important to break that silence. Beautiful video and song, and very powerful message. Hugs from Argentina!
@orlanluna1492
@orlanluna1492 4 жыл бұрын
This is a great example of how people with similar pain and suffering traits are drawn together. Only they can understand one another and the pain someone is going through. Well done Derek, I hope that this echoes to all who need it most...
@crazylifewithchildstellalu2511
@crazylifewithchildstellalu2511 6 жыл бұрын
Derek, you are damn right. Everyone of us have to take care for their family, friends, neighbours etc
@luciece
@luciece 6 жыл бұрын
wow, this is so touching and inspirational. absolutely love the message, wish everybody could see it!
@DoranneB
@DoranneB 6 жыл бұрын
This is such an amazing and powerful song & video. Beautiful work bringing more awareness to opening up about mental health issues and suicidal thoughts. Let’s Hold On.
@shilohstore6086
@shilohstore6086 2 жыл бұрын
I'm calling it right now he's the prince on The Masked Singer
@ADayInLisasLife3947
@ADayInLisasLife3947 6 жыл бұрын
Derek, God has given you so many talents. Thank you for sharing them with the world. A few years ago, our family lost a dear friend to suicide. We miss her. Her husband and daughter ache for her. There was no indication of anything wrong.
@christieoverbay2607
@christieoverbay2607 6 жыл бұрын
Wow what a powerful video, I too have faced the struggles of losing a child. I know all to well how you haft to find someone to hold onto to keep from going over the edge..Thank you this is an amazing song.
@SoniaSchilingno
@SoniaSchilingno 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Derek for that video, I've been depressed all my life, and have tried committing suicide multiple times, I thank God for the people around me everyday. I've lost both my brother and sister to suicide all because our family didn''t want to talk about it with them. Thank you again. Be blessed!!!!!
@way2frizzy
@way2frizzy 5 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad to suicide in 2000. It's been 18 years and I still miss him so much. I know he's still with me in my heart and soul but I wish I could still have him around to hug and laugh with. Please, if you are struggling and feel useless, reach out to anyone, someone will listen. You are loved and wanted on this earth. Derek is an amazingly talented person!! What a beautiful collaboration. ❤❤
@laurakantner4904
@laurakantner4904 6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, my mind goes down that road-ask myself if anyone would miss me when I am gone or realized I am gone. So, this song, I could understand where it is coming from.
@samararani3082
@samararani3082 6 жыл бұрын
Amazing. Perfect.
@nicolelylewis
@nicolelylewis 6 жыл бұрын
wow, that was powerful and beautifully done!! it also hits close to home as well....great job Derek!!
@tammystaat3353
@tammystaat3353 6 жыл бұрын
What an amazing song! I have known many people in my lifetime that committed suicide here in America. It is heartbreaking to think they felt no one cared for them. We as a society should be more caring, compassionate and loving.
@RK-qs8ul
@RK-qs8ul 6 жыл бұрын
I pulled myself back from the ledge, I'm thankful I spoke out at a time, when it seemed no one was listening. It doesn't have to be someone you know, but please, if you ever feel that way, tell someone! You'll save yourself too, someone does care and you matter x
@cindyhavard5900
@cindyhavard5900 6 жыл бұрын
I LOVE DEREK HOUGH IS AN AWESOME SINGER ALONG WITH HIS DANCING.I MISS HIM ON DWTS. ITS JUST NOT THE SAME SINCE HE LEFT.HE NEEDS TO BECOME A REGULAR SINGER. I AM IN AWE AT THIS SONG SUNG BY HIM. I LOVE THE SONG FANTASTIC DEREK ❤❤❤❤❤
@amiegeorge4402
@amiegeorge4402 4 жыл бұрын
Papered all of em 4 YOU and give me all please
@emilyscorner2730
@emilyscorner2730 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I good chills and that never happens when I listen to a song great job.
@TheLadyAlphaDale
@TheLadyAlphaDale 6 жыл бұрын
My heart was aching watching this video. It struck a cord. I am sharing this because the word needs to be out there for hope, dreams, and peace.
@Collpike
@Collpike 5 жыл бұрын
I lost my mom 4 years ago sept 3 2014. Taking your own life isn't the answer. Derek this is so amazing brang me to tears.
@melanieannplans2666
@melanieannplans2666 6 жыл бұрын
Derek, thank you so much for using your gifts as a way to let the world know that there are people who care about those who are suffering in silence. I am so sorry for the loss that you've endured, and I hope that your creativity has helped you move on day by day as much as it is helping other people.
@derekhough6513
@derekhough6513 3 жыл бұрын
I want to specially appreciate you for being a big fan🙏🙏🙏🙏.Thank for your nice comment on my post, it means a lot to me .I want you to send me a message via Hangout using my personal email through my indicated below also endeavor to add your name to the text so I can know you are the one texting because I don't reply unnecessary message Hangout email: houghd70@gmail.come
@marybevan3445
@marybevan3445 6 жыл бұрын
Powerful and intense . Beautifully filmed and amazing voice .
@marybevan3445
@marybevan3445 6 жыл бұрын
hiphoparoo 😂😂😂
@charlenebrown7927
@charlenebrown7927 6 жыл бұрын
Am been. Very sad. And i pray. I. See this video and song and cry i feel better thanks.
@CassOneil
@CassOneil 6 жыл бұрын
I am the type that keeps my problems to myself because I feel that there isn't a way for people to really understand. I know what it is like to feel trapped and alone but thankfully i talk about my anxiety attacks and depression with my Papa and he truly cares and listens. I don't know where I would be without him. People really do need to open up and talk about their problems even if it is to a parent or a therapist. It really does help.
@MissMarisa10
@MissMarisa10 6 жыл бұрын
Omg it’s vicki from vampire diaries
@BaronessJames
@BaronessJames 6 жыл бұрын
Marisa Griego thanks. I was trying to remember where i know her face from
6 жыл бұрын
I totally forgot her name
@jennahoutari6494
@jennahoutari6494 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness you're right!! I almost didn't recognize her with the lighter, shorter hair!
@leapearldano4256
@leapearldano4256 6 жыл бұрын
I recognized her mouth. 😊 hello vicki
@dai.bcraw_
@dai.bcraw_ 6 жыл бұрын
I know
@claudianigro8157
@claudianigro8157 6 жыл бұрын
This song it's beautiful😍
@leoswallow361
@leoswallow361 6 жыл бұрын
We are in this time of changes. May Peace Be Upon You out of the dark into the light! Inspiring!
@gameboyphx
@gameboyphx 6 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Burnley brought me and...well, as someone who has fought this battle and continues to fight it, thank you. This video/song has moved me beyond words. I loved this.
@danielredding9205
@danielredding9205 6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, Derek. Bravo.
@kaylabrooks98
@kaylabrooks98 6 жыл бұрын
Love this song. . Powerful message. ❤
@cwhitmore7
@cwhitmore7 6 жыл бұрын
A battle I face everyday and everyday I somehow survive. This song has been on repeat for months now.
@mackenziehaynes2578
@mackenziehaynes2578 5 жыл бұрын
Oh wow my eyes are sweating a lot
@violetinthesun1756
@violetinthesun1756 6 жыл бұрын
Have always loved you, keep up the amazing work xoxo
@rvingdog
@rvingdog 6 жыл бұрын
This is incredibly powerful and moving. Thank you for sharing it!
@devynrohwedder8853
@devynrohwedder8853 6 жыл бұрын
This song makes me remember to fight. Fight for my life even though my daughter is gone. I miss you so much Scarlette. One year was not enough. Mommy will always love you. 2/14/17-2/21/18 ❤️
@jessicalove9225
@jessicalove9225 4 жыл бұрын
Up lifting go up and laughing laughing hugging in hope and faith laughting and appreciate
@briannapearson9089
@briannapearson9089 6 жыл бұрын
wow just wow!!! that was amazing I am so touched by that it was so good.
@dkozak851
@dkozak851 6 жыл бұрын
Bravo!
@mpeterson6771
@mpeterson6771 2 жыл бұрын
Hi doll! I just want to let you know how much this song meant to me after years of dealing with a TBI. I left my 3 baby boys home with Grandma to scuba dive in the Caymans with the love of my life (he still is). I left an athlete & came home an invalid. It hurt so much to have people (even my own family) judge me for losing my faith & I was on the verge of suicide for many years. I have finally found a miracle drug for my migraine’s, but in the years before that, you inspired me sweetie! I got angry with people from church telling me to pray that brain injury away & I became an advocate for the LGBTQ community. I always loved them & as a special Ed. Teacher, I excelled, but I never really knew what it felt like. I LOVE my Mormon family & I love the way you advocate for your Dad as well as everyone else. You’re a beautiful treasure doll!
@darcyane99
@darcyane99 6 жыл бұрын
I can not imagine! I have had my share of crap....but....this is beyond what I my small world has been exposed to! Had family and friends go thru this. BLESS ALL!!
@clarissaplaatjies
@clarissaplaatjies 6 жыл бұрын
Got so emotional watching this. Although I'm still struggling with depression I now know I'm not alone anymore. There are so many of us hurting in the world whether it's emotionally, mentally or physically and that line at the beginning is completely accurate especially for me. I feel like we as humans are slowly losing our empathy and trust in people because almost everyday you hear of or see something terrible happening whether it's in your own backyard or on the other side of the world, we are slowly becoming numb to it all. Thank you Derek for being a positive force in the world and using your God given talent to help spread that positivity. To share some hashtags from Jared Padalecki and Jensen Ackles #AlwaysKeepFighting #IAmEnough #YouAreNotAlone
@derekhough6513
@derekhough6513 3 жыл бұрын
I want to specially appreciate you for being a big fan🙏🙏🙏🙏.Thank for your nice comment on my post, it means a lot to me .I want you to send me a message via Hangout using my personal email through my indicated below also endeavor to add your name to the text so I can know you are the one texting because I don't reply unnecessary message Hangout email: houghd70@gmail.come
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