you are just lucky, god bless

Our children are also settled abroad, we have visited them so many times, but never did we feel ignored or unloved. It is not a case of Desh or Pardesh, those children who love and care for their parents will remain like that.

Ms. Sen, is this your personal experience? If not then what is your source of info? I am a Scientist in America and coincidentally my Late ma's name was also ela. That's why I want to let you know that please do not blame the whole community. If you had such bitter experience, doesn't mean everybody does. I am single, I never had delivered a child but my parents used to come and stay with me for 6 months till the pandemic started and yes just to spent time with me and not as AAYAS......really sad to see the term you used. Feel sorry if your kids have done that with you but my Indian batch mates and co-workers that I know about have never ever done such.

This is bullshit . Stop this nonsense. Do not generalise. There many families including me waiting to get parents. Like every family have issue event in Indian cities there may be few families with isues

@@nm3247 you are exceptional case

I am sorry for your thoughts. May God heal your thoughts n wound whatsoever you have

@@nm3247 Actually it almost happened to my mother when my sister tried to get her to come over and stay with her. She had not told anyone that she was pregnant nor had she told my mother.After my mother came over I went over to meet her and my sister, and lo and behold she is ready to have the baby. She said she wanted tp surprise us, that she did indeed, but then she told my mother that she must stay with her and take care of the baby so that she can go to work, and go to graduate school. She expected my mother to cook, clean, care for the baby, have dinner ready, etc. It was never to my sister's satisfaction . The final straw came when my mother told me that my sister had asked her to pay part of the electric bill and the water bill, that since she has come to live with them, they have had higher bills! I dropped everything I was doing flew up to get my mother out of there. My sister is like..."I was just playing with her" nonsense. Then it all began to make sense....on her insisting that mother come to visit her and "stay as long as she likes". Apparently her Indian friends had also told their parents to come over for a holiday and then ended up staying; one mother who was elderly too, had her passport taken away by the daughter to use for blackmail and coercion tactics. had a ticket for my mother, and told my sister we are flying back the next day, that I had only come to pick her up. Sister was so mad..said I should have given her notice then she could have planned for a nanny to come in. Because I did not want to get into a major war with her, I kept my mouth shut, and I told my mother to do the same until we get on the plane to come home. I was so glad to leave my sister's place and come home with my mother where she can do whatever she likes and when she likes. My mother stayed with me until she passed away. In the '90s it was rampant in most majority Indian suburbs in California, New York/New Jersey, Chicago, etc. to call parents from India to care for the grandchildren. There have also been cases where once the babies are old enough and go off to college, the son or daughter will tell the parents who practically grew up their grand kids, that they need to move out or go back to India because the son/daughter wants "private time". there was a case of a son and his wife taking his parents to a mall and leaving them there and never picking them up again. I hope with the newer generations there have been changes.

Nehi mam, main to jitni bari ho rahi hu, utni mammi papa ki importance samajh pa rahi hu, i love them so much

@@susmitam611 sab log aapki Jeisi thodi hein...

@@mayurikashyap7205 hona to chahiye mam, parents ke bina hum log is duniya me aatihi nehi

@@susmitam611 sab log ye nehi sochte hein

I don't understand why parents want their children to be their shadow all the time. You gave them birth it was your decision to bring in this world so technically you have to provide them and they're not your insurance guarantee. You need to understand this world is hard enough with cut throat competition and all and with changing world world you can't follow what you were doing 30-35 years back. I also don't mean here that you should disrespect your parents but both needs to adjust with eachother for harmony.

Exactly that's the only point☝️.i agreed👍

Parents should understand??...and children?

That's why no kids no attachment some couples choose

U r right

It's not wrong either your case maybe different or few that you know.But this happens in most countries . Parents become secondary, it's only the intelligent smart children who know how to balance between partner and parents .

I also feel the same. People who stays outside India, they have more value of relations than current Indian children.

Exactly, even I have replied a few people who are supporting this matter. Even I live here in North America.

I absolutely agree, I am in US and all I want is either to go home or for my momma to come here. And so does all my friends. I have never seen this kinda behavior

ACCEPT PEOPLE AS IT IS N SEE THE Miracle in a life Be in God's Canopy 4ever

on account of what ? No moral mo ethics ??? ( get married to foreginen girl by giving money ??? And get citizenship.. Zero ethics zero moral .. What kind of cheap life this one ???.. Its really disgusting..

Sahi baat hai ,,,,,,parents har Jagah bacho ko blame karte hai ,,,,, kabhi apne ap ki mistake nahi dekhte ..

true no one should have!!!