johns80schick Idleness isn’t biblical either. There is nothing wrong with pursuing a partner as long as it for the glory of God. There are examples in the bible where people pursued their spouses and were led by the holy spirit. Yes, we trust God to give us wisdom when we meet people and to know that if it’s not his will then it shouldn’t go far.

Are you married. Do you know how hard it is. Do you know how hard it is for a woman . You say it like God just gives us spouses and he is not giving them to everyone. He lets us find spouses.

I realized that too, at least for me. Every attempt I made to date was shut down by God. Eventually I had to surrender and accept that it’s not the place God has for me right now and that’s okay. It’s hard to accept but he knows best and there’s some peace to leaving it in his hands after dealing with so much nonsense.

God expects us to do our part too. Can't just pray that the future spouse will come knocking on our door...."Wow, that was easy!"

@@azmike3572 No but making sure that the things you are doing are of God's will and in his timing are important.

I'm in the same predicament, i spent most of my 20s in a serious relationship which didn't work out and i thank God for that now as i wasn't saved during that period and i was with an unbeliever. I then went online, met a guy and spent my late 20 and very early 30s in another relationship. I got born again during this period and left the relationship which wasn't godly as i grew closer to God and i had a realisation that i was searching for love to make me complete and i can only find true wholeness in the Lord. Being single and growing in the Lord and serving him has bought me great joy. Looking back, i realise that i made poor decisions about mates due to being desperate for love and anxious to get married. My decision to internet date was also due to the inability to cope with being single. I do not want to Internet date now although as a Christian woman in her late 30s i feel like lots of christian men in my age range are either married or hiding behind screens on dating sites wanting a buffett of women to choose from as opposed to striking up organic relationships and lack confidence to approach women...

You are right dear sister in Christ. So many so called ‘Christian men’ on dating sites do not have basic Christian values of ‘fleeing fornication’. From my experience, it’s a hard place to find a true purity- practicing male believer.

Are you really a Christian? Would a Christian use such a revealing profile picture? What is it you are trying to attract?

You do the same thing online as you do in person, the difference is that in real life you typically rule certain people out by default. You're still shopping but no one's put anything on display.

I absolutely agree w/ you ! I have tried dating apps in the past, before I got saved & it was never good. Now that I'm saved and walking in purity w/ the Lord, I am listening to the Holy Spirit and patiently waiting for my husband. I believe I will meet him in person, not off a dating app. God bless you ! Jesus is our first love & there's nothing like His love :)

@@jesusiskingofmyheartamen romana! I just watched ur testimony on ur channel on how you got saved and it’s so beautiful. I pray you and I find our husband or that God brings them to us😂 what church do you go to??

@@ModelingTabi Thank you so much. All glory be to God. Thank you Jesus 💕 I have been single and walking in purity for 3 years now and this season of singleness has truly brought me closer to the Lord and I am content in whatever His plan is for me, whether it includes a husband or a lifetime of singleness; I strive to serve the Lord in all that I do! :) I attend Calvary Chapel. What about you? 🥰

@@jesusiskingofmyheart amen! Praise God. I currently attend a home church in Maryland. I really like the church cus it teaches about repentance and forsaking sin unlike most churches now a days. I just wish it had more people my age

Same

Same!

May I ask on which site you met?

What site?

What site?

What dating cite????!!!

Did u have sex before marriage? Yea

How did it go?

@@sierrarowe5135 not very good I’m guessing

document.desiringgod.org/preparing-for-marriage-en.pdf?ts=1554405003

Mary Donovan or Christian women.

Huh?

Yep....

very true or they are hidden somewhere

Satan has taken control of this world. Especially in the young generations (teens thru 30s). If you don't believe me, just look at all the chaos going on currently and the majority of people causing it.