If Your Friends Don't Do This... They're Bad Friends! // Framework For Friendships Pt. 3

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Жыл бұрын

Do you have good or bad friends? If you're friends arent doing this, then trust me, they dont have your best interest in mind.
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@ilikesharonmorethaniloveyo5605 Жыл бұрын

The telling of a truth disarms the power of a lie.

@JayDub2000 Жыл бұрын

Unshakeable character Conditional love (gape) Unbridled honesty

@msjhelaire21 Жыл бұрын

Here to add some 🧂 Proverbs 27:6 is not an excuse to speak the truth to people however we want. The truth can be offensive enough (double-edged sword). We’re called to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and love is patient, kind, holds no record of wrong, etc. according to 1 Corinthians 13. There’s also a time and place for everything under the Sun (Ecclesiastes 3) so without seeking guidance from the Holy Spirit, we may speak “out of pace” with Him and damage the impact of the truth we are trying to deliver. Lastly, bullying, condescending, and the like are not biblical means of correction and truth telling. Thanks for coming to my TED talk ✌🏾

@msjhelaire21 Жыл бұрын

@mackavelli423mockery step talk lol I like that! I’m not exactly sure what you meant by everything in your reply but there’s definitely the other side of things where the person receiving truth has to be willing to receive it while not picking up every offense that’s caused (Proverbs 19:11). I’ve been that person. I was speaking more on how he talked about delivering unbridled honesty. We have to be careful to not speak unbridled honesty with an unbridled tongue (James 1:26).

@msjhelaire21 Жыл бұрын

@mackavelli423mockery amen!!!

@msjhelaire21 Жыл бұрын

@mackavelli423mockery thank you for sharing that. It’s very encouraging. God bless and Happy New Year 🥳

@teresamogavero8259 Жыл бұрын

Cannot thank this man enough for all he does to teach us😇feel so blessed🙏

@mariasolomon419 Жыл бұрын

Can't get life right if you don't get relationships right

@leahanderson30 Жыл бұрын

I'm a different type I've always been a people pleaser trying to break away from it but I've always told the truth which is another reason I don't have many friends I've always been honest to a fault

@gigga693 Жыл бұрын

This is my personality. Going thru this season you describe right now. May you be encouraged on the journey

@umohvictoria1834 Жыл бұрын

Ran here as quick as I could!

@fredstewart7270 Жыл бұрын

Powerful Teaching

@alexcianelson Жыл бұрын

You are a great mentor!

@leahanderson30 Жыл бұрын

I share too much

@sandralenagroenewald9589 Жыл бұрын

Thank God that I came across this

@nat-natc.8142 Жыл бұрын

I am loving this framework for friendship series. Please keep them coming Pastor. God bless you!!

@everythinggabby88 Жыл бұрын

Intellect is a key factor in my relational circumstances..

@tashaasopretty Жыл бұрын

I love this. This go go over alot of ppl head. Real friends show up and love you. They never intentionally try to hurt you & they also keep it honest with you.

@SistahJay27 Жыл бұрын

Okay, got it. I have to do a proper assessment before doing an investment. ❤

@thatokekana8420 Жыл бұрын

Sir, I think your offspring (if you have any) and/or siblings are amongst some of the most blessed offspring on our planet. 💛 You are amaaazing!❤‍🩹

@marquisinternational Жыл бұрын

This series is so so so important

@andrewiiliams8845 Жыл бұрын

All facts 💯💯

@shayzfine Жыл бұрын

Wow 🔥

@JNF7790 Жыл бұрын

Beautifully stated! I love this!

@brendanjarrell1949 Жыл бұрын

Dharius is so soft spoken, then that intro... BLAM 😂

@daniellewatts105 Жыл бұрын

THIS WORD!!!!!!

@finnianfinnian8359 Жыл бұрын

Blessing s

@TheJazzyWay Жыл бұрын

Mannnn this was so on point! This confirmed friendships i had to walk away from.

@l3g3ndgameryt40 Жыл бұрын

Amen Pastor Dharius.

@leahanderson30 Жыл бұрын

I love that intimacy =seeing into me

@Mosdefinitelyable Жыл бұрын

But how can we know what’s truly best for someone else? I hate when people try to change me.

@cpittman1527 Жыл бұрын

If it cant handle truth than it wasnt a strong relationship....PD TEACHHHHH PASTOR!!!

@kelishastevens1125 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@toshuakennedy4178 Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@neba_heals Жыл бұрын

Another GREAT teaching…thank you🙏🏾

@Mrudula... Жыл бұрын

Relational Intelligence 🔥 True friend may hurt u for a moment to preserve you for the lifetime...We need to do assessments before we do investments...🔥 If you can't handle the truth u cannot handle the relationship.... I get energy from isolation...Does this person have unbridled honesty🔥

@justbelit Жыл бұрын

great message. audio was a bit low though

@tonyabrown1147 Жыл бұрын

Love it

@ebonytriumph3816 Жыл бұрын

This is a very important topic, often we hear marriage but friends actually affect a lot and I wish this was discussed more.

@kehaulani1467 Жыл бұрын

Wow, this is exactly what i needed to hear, which is how i feel after engaging fully in most of your teachings. This one, though, i played -> paused -> took notes...so many notes all throughout this powerful almost 12 minute video offering. The part about not just being this kind of Biblical Framework friend, but making sure the person "riding on the bus of my life" with me is the right person for that seat was the best way to sum this up. We can be the friend we need to be for the wrong person, and it will bring misery even while doing what is right. Which takes us back to Matthew 7:6 at the beginning of your lesson. Both need to be willing to Tell and Hear the truth. Honesty is so freeing -- John 8:31-32, also at the beginning of your lesson -- and brings such peace and calm to intimate relationships. Thank you!

@shariainspires Жыл бұрын

In addition, I never sugarcoat. I can be too honest but not in a way that my words hurt someone. I just believe friendship should be 50/50. I'm definitely an extrovert. I talk a lot but when I talk.. I'm speaking light, encouragement & authenticity. On the flip side, I listen too without interrupting and welcome feedback & advice.

@tracywigginsbossmoves9490 Жыл бұрын

This is a GOOD WORD PASTOR!! Thank you!! ❤🔥🙌🏽💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

@everythinggabby88 Жыл бұрын

Additionally, having couth when telling someone about themselves. Especially when it’s truly out of love…

@leahanderson30 Жыл бұрын

I'm ambivert as well

@evelynsierra5775 Жыл бұрын

I don't have any friends praise the Lord God got rid of all of them

@lr5637 Жыл бұрын

If it can't handle truth, it wasn't a strong relationship. 💯 aka C-Note from the Kinfolk PD!!!

@staceyculbertson6784 Жыл бұрын

Can ya'll please fix the audio on this channel. The information is awesome but hard to receive when the audio is all over the place.

@ajordan1847 Жыл бұрын

Yes, agree. I was listening through my headset, and the music intro startled me compared to the content. I was like, whoa, too loud. Hopefully, they'll read your comment too. It's a great message, but the audio needs to be better balanced.

@Toyz3578 Жыл бұрын

Maaaan that was good ❤

@ilikesharonmorethaniloveyo5605 Жыл бұрын

Truth never destroys a relationship. Truth exposes it. If it can’t handle truth it wasn’t a strong relationship.

@l3g3ndgameryt40 Жыл бұрын

Amen and thank you.

@victoriadream Жыл бұрын

my ex couldnt admit he was having an emotional affair with the women on the parkour team he was training privately & the receptionist at his job... i kept inviting the conversation to be open for discussion. he got frustrated & wouldnt tell the truth. i attempted to dump him over 50 times in the 8 month period we dated... he began displaying signs of closed off conversation after a month of our relationship starting. i confronted him several times. after chalking it up to my insecurity, he dumped me... i didnt see it coming. meanwhile all of these details became exposed. it ended very messy due to my inability to let it go that he was lying. i cant stop blaming myself for allowing this soul tie into my life. i keep apologizing to him. he will not respond.

@gigga693 Жыл бұрын

Let go and seek God.

@ttslb1995 Жыл бұрын

This Was For Me! I was just having this conversation about why we use "my friend" so loosely 😒??? I'm finding out that I truly have associates.

@demikacobbaboutmybusiness Жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor Dhaurius I appreciate all the teachings I have received over the past few years it have help me to understand and identify the areas of my life that was hurting me and others in my relationship, but I had to get emotionally healed because my truth may have been honest but it would not have been helpful there’s no relationship without truth because truth creates trust.

@leahanderson30 Жыл бұрын

I only have one friend from church God sent her to me to save me from death while I was having a stroke other friends I've had over the years took advantage of me for their own gain so I don't have friends I'm skeptical of some females one's I went to high school with still act like they're in high school so I pass on these people

@l3g3ndgameryt40 Жыл бұрын

Pastor Dharius you're talking about people who lie. Pastor my cousin was such a liar that she use to forget what she said. I just use to laugh at her because she sounded so stupid.

@DevotedLady53 Жыл бұрын

Amen ❤️❤️❤️🙏

@myraholmes1178 Жыл бұрын

What about "friends" who don't contact you unless or until they need your advice?

@amiblack8294 Жыл бұрын

Refer them to a therapist or just bill them :)

@myraholmes1178 Жыл бұрын

@@amiblack8294 you got that right

@shariainspires Жыл бұрын

I never understood why some people are so quick to call someone a friend. I tell my daughter all the time that everyone is not your friend and to not use that word so loosely. Thank goodness she learned this fast.

@chrissychrisfpv 20 күн бұрын

FACTS I agree!!!!! Why people ??