Diaspora Marriage Complexities

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Tilder LIVE ZIM

Tilder LIVE ZIM

Жыл бұрын

Tilder LIVE ZIM, Biggest Reality Talk Show In Zimbabwe-
Tilder Moyo-Karizamimba is a Zimbabwean radio personality who is well known for tackling sensitive social issues. She made a name for herself at Zimbabwe Broadcasting Corporation (ZBC)'s Radio Zimbabwe where she hosted a no-holds barred Sunday morning talk show which touched on various social issues. Some of the controversial issues that the programme has dealt with include those of satanists, child prostitutes, victims of rape and business people who use juju to enrich themselves. It was a phone-in programme and many a times perpetrators and victims called in airing their views and experiences making it worthwhile for the audiences to tune in. She also presenter of the Popular Tv Music Programme Ezomgido/Mvenge-mvenge on ZBCTV Before she left zbc for greener Pasture
Tilder left Radio Zimbabwe in September 2013

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@rumbie3934
@rumbie3934 Жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor you have wise words. I thank God for my husband he is my best friend, my pillar of strength, my cheerleader and a blessing in our family. It is very important to understand magifts atakapihwa naMwari if we understand them they will help us to build a beautiful marriage. Am a fast thinker and never forgets my husband knows that and uses those strengths zvotofamba, he knows l hate laundry he washes clothes nekutoyanika otondiudza kuti "don't worry ita zvimwe laundry is mine". He doesn't wait kuudzwa akatoona kuti am tired or busy unotowana abika or bath vana. He was raised well and he is also passing that to his children. Marriage is beautiful if you respect and understand one another..l wish we can all be happy in our marriages 🤗. Let us continue to learn from these teachings God will help us❤
@portiashava3023
@portiashava3023 Жыл бұрын
Waaaaal this is beautiful ❤️
@murielchitehwe6954
@murielchitehwe6954 Жыл бұрын
Makorokoto sis
@evangelistmakoni
@evangelistmakoni Жыл бұрын
pastor motowashe you are blessed you are full of wisdom.i tap into this anointing not to rush into conclusion. I love the way you handle these domestic issues. I'm not tired of listening to you....mune maitiro amunoita so andinofarira...munotora time yenyu kuteerera vanhu. keep it up pastor natete
@debrancube6024
@debrancube6024 Жыл бұрын
First couple, Mainin regererai murume wenyu , murume can date more than one lady same time asi ano choser only one out of them. Saka imi ndimi maka roorwa. Forget the past Mainin & mutarise future yenyu nemurume wenyu. Your hubby seems like a gud husband , forgive him.
@cleoisaac2140
@cleoisaac2140 Жыл бұрын
Agh !Pastor motowashe is a wise man. Ndadzidza zvakawanda pachirongwa ichi veduwee. Keep on the good work tete napastor
@vickymakovere5036
@vickymakovere5036 Жыл бұрын
Man can still lie chero vachichema.. ... just saying....
@nyariechahwanda6324
@nyariechahwanda6324 Жыл бұрын
Chete
@NelitaSithole
@NelitaSithole 3 ай бұрын
Wow
@sibuchanza5813
@sibuchanza5813 Жыл бұрын
Pastor thank you the way you handled the first issue, wow, ....bamnini thats just the beginning of healing, for a women it will start here and slowly heal, she may ask some questions again and again just continue to lets her know she is the one you love....that helps in her healing, and building trust...God bless your union. Pastor can you continue helping them heal.
@diasporanbuildingahomeinzi9622
@diasporanbuildingahomeinzi9622 Жыл бұрын
I agree Pastor handled it very well. Dai ari Choga angadai atukwa and the outcome wouldn't have been the same!
@mict5639
@mict5639 Жыл бұрын
@@diasporanbuildingahomeinzi9622 Dai yavhiringwa vhiringwa kkkkk
@nyaraylshonhiwa5521
@nyaraylshonhiwa5521 Жыл бұрын
Pastor and Tete thank you. I loved the guy for his willingness to get help. Also he was able to admit. He is a MAN.
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
At first when pastor said he is lying, ndatomboti vakurassika pastor until bamnini admitted that's when I realized how wise pastor is
@victorbvirakare4578
@victorbvirakare4578 Жыл бұрын
Wisest Pastor ever lived in Zimbabwe
@gee4690
@gee4690 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Motowashe is a blessing to us as a nation.. very wise 😊
@Mmmabvita
@Mmmabvita 7 ай бұрын
36:33
@modestamanatsa1770
@modestamanatsa1770 Жыл бұрын
Pastor you are the best marriage councilor of many a times. I like this program me so much.
@tinyikontsako6387
@tinyikontsako6387 Жыл бұрын
Mai vekuUK avo vakurumidza kunetsa .We are in diaspora and we are managing .2 jobs , studying and kids .Vana vanodzidziswa basa vari vadiki because @ 14 in Australia ...kids are working in shops , restaurants ...its teaching kids responsibility .Takavaunzawo anaShewe kuno n life inoshanda nekubatirana .Nyangwe akasashanda daycare n AU pair is expensive ....mI ava ngavadzikame
@monnietaah9583
@monnietaah9583 Жыл бұрын
Pastor we miss you. Can you please come back to the show.
@tafadzwahunde2041
@tafadzwahunde2041 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom there, thank you Pastor natete Tilda.
@emmamaringe5040
@emmamaringe5040 Жыл бұрын
Pastor na tete thanks so much amazing muri kubatsira vanhu vakawanda
@MCB88828
@MCB88828 Жыл бұрын
God bless pastor Motowashe for keeping it real👏👏. He is really an expert in relationships🙏🙏
@annamwase4938
@annamwase4938 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much pastor and tete tirikudzidza shuwa
@user-cx7qh7lx7j
@user-cx7qh7lx7j 4 сағат бұрын
Exellent show
@marthamahleza9597
@marthamahleza9597 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor and tete mukubata basa guru chose chokwadi tiri kudzidzawo
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Wait so bhangu get a prize for kuchema! She has waited so long for this apology! Please 🙏 let this woman let it sink in ube yaka uku vuma loku xolisa Lina!!
@bervelymoyo5159
@bervelymoyo5159 Жыл бұрын
You have wisdom I salute you pastor
@bchis8806
@bchis8806 Жыл бұрын
Avo amai vekuchado vabatwa nechigwere chinonzi Gatwick syndrome, vazhinji dzimba dzakaparara,
@cleoisaac2140
@cleoisaac2140 Жыл бұрын
Aiii the first guy made me cry.. hope murikurevesa mkoma wangu
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
He is sweet right? 😀
@memorymawire-pv6qd
@memorymawire-pv6qd Жыл бұрын
Pastor may God continue to bless you🙏
@dephinecee8815
@dephinecee8815 Жыл бұрын
First caller mainini makaroorwa but maiziya henyu kuti kune mumwe musikana ...I hope hamuzonwa mapiritsi ebp
@tmaktmak1464
@tmaktmak1464 Жыл бұрын
Muzukuru paivapo, tsuro na Gudo ku Durban. Well done Pastor
@sophiamuhomba5000
@sophiamuhomba5000 Жыл бұрын
Pastor ndakuombererai maoko mune mazwi emweya chaiwo panyaya yevarikuchando avo . I have the same situation
@fadziachirongo4280
@fadziachirongo4280 Жыл бұрын
Pastor good advice and wisdom as well, asi svutu iyo aiwa ndeye ma pimp.
@Lynn_1605
@Lynn_1605 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@omegagovero9199
@omegagovero9199 Жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂 iweka 😆
@prettinessmutongoreva2914
@prettinessmutongoreva2914 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tete na pastor tiri kubatsirika 👏
@mamo4121
@mamo4121 Жыл бұрын
tete na pastor makadii, good job🖤
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Sutu ye pepol wo! 😮pakanaka pastor Moto!
@lingiwemhlanga1018
@lingiwemhlanga1018 Жыл бұрын
Pastor I love your teachings, continue doing this you are healing us.
@nonnyvundhla4715
@nonnyvundhla4715 Жыл бұрын
Ava variku UK mwana ane 10 years angatadza kuisira brother cerevita here? Mai ngavasa spoiler vana
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
Nhai,isu at ten tanga takutobika sadza rinodyiwa nevanhu vese
@nonnyvundhla4715
@nonnyvundhla4715 Жыл бұрын
@@shamisomatora1248 Imagine munhu otoprotecter kuti mwana ngaasaita ndovaye vanozoti ku abuser mwana
@victorbvirakare4578
@victorbvirakare4578 Жыл бұрын
IYI MAIBATA PASTOR NATETE WELL DONE YEKUDURBAN
@fildakapikinyu2799
@fildakapikinyu2799 Жыл бұрын
What time does this program starts on Facebook plz help
@emptyyourheart9086
@emptyyourheart9086 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom iri panaMufundisi
@librajames7609
@librajames7609 Жыл бұрын
Ndinofadzwa nekutaura kwemuzodziwa waMwari..Chokwadi hapana chatingazvikudziridze asi tinongopa Musiki nguva yake iye opedzisa basa rake.
@bchis8806
@bchis8806 Жыл бұрын
Diaspora Cultural Crisis kuchando yanetsa Pastor, amai avo vane chindini, apo mavaudza chokwadi vanhu ava vainetsana vachiri kuzimbabwe, sando dzenyu Pastor 👏👏
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Finally the truth 😅!! That wasn’t so hard bhangu!!mxm
@user-xx4fg9mb3x
@user-xx4fg9mb3x 6 ай бұрын
Pastor mune chokwadi cha Mwari chinobatsira chaicho mapina bamunini veku tanga vaya vakataura chokwadi havo asi mainini ngavachidzidza kuti zvataurwa zvatotaurwa ngazvisasazoramba zvodzokororwa
@fadzairwaveya4338
@fadzairwaveya4338 Жыл бұрын
First woman uchazvipinza Depression yemhahara. Enjoy your relationship and move on. Life is too short to be miserable 💋 💋💋💋
@spikybuttrue8569
@spikybuttrue8569 Жыл бұрын
I think you've missed the point. Her enjoyment of her marriage is dependent on the existence of a marriage in the first place. That's based on trust. If there's no trust there's no marriage so what do you enjoy? Their marriage began yhe moment he was finally honest. It's good he came clean but it's going to be a lifetime process for her to heal now
@fadzairwaveya4338
@fadzairwaveya4338 Жыл бұрын
@@spikybuttrue8569 l wrote my statement after she had accepted his apologies. Am only trying to strengthen her at this point of forgiveness to move on and enjoy their relationship as life is too short to be miserable. We are saying the same thing but it’s how one perceives one’s contribution.
@patriciamafusire8685
@patriciamafusire8685 Жыл бұрын
Can u imagine kkkkkkkkkkk vashoma varume vakadai vamwe vanomitisa kunze vagotadza kana kuti sorry kumkqdzi
@fadzairwaveya4338
@fadzairwaveya4338 Жыл бұрын
@@patriciamafusire8685 You get my gist- he apologised repeatedly- so if she may find peace to bury this behind the back of her head and both build a trusting relationship - pa apology apo kkkk
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
Nhai
@mhofu02
@mhofu02 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tete Tilda naPastor Motowashe interesting issues; avo sister vakauya kuchando ini ndinotoayinirwa kuno murume anoenda nevamwe apa imi makaita leg work yose. Wanayi nguva yokuenda kuchechi mose semhuri. Children learn what they live. Shandayi pamwe semhuri; best wishes;
@miriam489
@miriam489 Жыл бұрын
Wiz man poster ❤
@nancyncube2656
@nancyncube2656 Жыл бұрын
Phengai mai Sorobhie Pengai sezvamunosindiitira kumba
@blackcherry9344
@blackcherry9344 Жыл бұрын
At 10yrs mwana shld be taught kuwacha kusuka kana kurongedza madaily chores
@francissimangoh7134
@francissimangoh7134 Жыл бұрын
Kkkk Pastor vakomana ve gibhela gibhela
@ruthkunyongama7828
@ruthkunyongama7828 Жыл бұрын
Zverudo zvagara zvinonetsa
@TM-iz2ku
@TM-iz2ku Жыл бұрын
Aiwa mahousewife arikuchando munotibatira kuno hakuna mamaids veduwee housekeeping, childcare kuzoti kubasa kwako unenge waneta apa murume anongouya oti zete kugara iwe uchamhanya mhanya uchiita zvose that's not fair. Manje ini ndoita ndakanyarara and bonde halume ndenge ndichingochema kuneta
@fadzairwaveya4338
@fadzairwaveya4338 Жыл бұрын
@ TM kunonzi Kushanda se dhongi
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
Kkkkkkkk
@Ru5672
@Ru5672 Жыл бұрын
What is happening now that's making the lady look at the past zvekubatikana?
@spikybuttrue8569
@spikybuttrue8569 Жыл бұрын
It's not the past though. This issue has always been between them since before they got married, it's ever-present, and it's only now she's decided to voice her feelings because they're not going away. She probably shouldn't have married him with such a shaky foundation but she did and now they've got to work with what they have
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Ndi pastor neh lol 😝 injiva yeMasvingo lol
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Pastor ka “ it’s also healthy to lie??” Suka
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Bhangu is showing no remorse! You flirted wakahura technically yekumhamha!!
@silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811
@silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811 Жыл бұрын
Hayiwa newewo bvuma sorry kana usingadi buda apo
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
Kkkkkkkkk
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
This marriage should have never happened! Bhangu is a pathological liar!
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
Pisai munhu Mainini
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
She’s in the tub 🛀 lol 😝 pakaipa the story is too long futi
@tanyamilewski5700
@tanyamilewski5700 Жыл бұрын
The first woman has no right to be mad at her husband for lying. Because you knew all this before marriage so why didn’t you cancel the marriage and dumped him if you didn’t feel like his number1? If it’s true that he has never done anything like that ever again why are you still holding to what happened before you agreed to marry him? You had a choice to not marry him. If wondering if he married you just for convenience isn’t that exactly what you did? You wanted a fairlytale romance but you chose a complicated romance? Isn’t that convenient? He was not your number1 either cz yr number1 man loves you and you alone and stops things before you ask and tell you the truth, so why didn’t you marry that guy but married this one? Now you want him to uncomplicated things or create a fairytale where he only wanted you alone? That’s not possible. Either you dump him or you stop making him uncomplicate a situation you participated in when you agreed to marry him. I think realizing your own role in what happened can help you forgive your husband. Cz right now you feel wronged or cheated or second place yet you willingly got in that situation knowing all the facts. So own your decision Eg I chose to be happy from now on in OUR convenient marriage
@maiyeukai9346
@maiyeukai9346 Жыл бұрын
No man say you look beautiful my queen to another woman..There is only one Queen..the ruler of everyone. Svitsa dzakaoma veduwee. Wagara mumbamo unoona kuti yaaah murume anokuchinjira.....
@tanyamilewski5700
@tanyamilewski5700 Жыл бұрын
@@maiyeukai9346 she knew that before marriage tho
@natashamadzivire4226
@natashamadzivire4226 Жыл бұрын
Chipo unacho chekunyora
@emmanuelmangwiro9714
@emmanuelmangwiro9714 Жыл бұрын
Murume anoda imba yake uyo kkkkkkk
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
Kkkkkkk
@nosisamtshali5572
@nosisamtshali5572 Жыл бұрын
I think you people don't understand life in diaspora. Tete the woman who came in February and brought husband and kids, the matter was solved bur one sided only. You did not address the issue of man sending money back home behind the woman's back. That also needed to be addressed.
@mnet2912
@mnet2912 Жыл бұрын
At 10 vana vanenge vakuzviisira maCereals vega nekusuka bowl rake. Chns should be trained. This couple needs to work as a Team. Maybe they had a maid varikumba, adjusting can be difficult. They need to sit down and work together, vachitopa maduty kuvana.Nyaya yababa yemari yakaenda kumba haina kutaurwa nezvayo.
@tanyamilewski5700
@tanyamilewski5700 Жыл бұрын
Mmm tht man saying better to go back home and be poor than me helping you keep your visa is an enemy of progress. Good luck with that man. Family is important yes but not when they are dead due to starvation. His attitude is not progress friendly but selfish and me me me. You weren’t working 3yrs what was the plan? Aren’t men supposed to be providers if we want to talk about roles and places ppl shd stay in? If you are deliberately sabotaging while also accepting that you forget things isn’t that too much burden on the wife to compensate for all that while also trying to keep the visa? Don’t worry dear. I see you and understand your pain. Do what they suggested but if he doesn’t change let him go back. Goal oriented women shdnt be with men with no goals who also want to be number 1 in the relationship or be the leader leading the family to nowhere or in this case leading you to lose your visa and returning to Zim. He won’t mind so be careful.
@justkeepdriving6927
@justkeepdriving6927 Жыл бұрын
People don't understand until they are in the situation. Too much judgement and assumptions without having lived that life.
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
Enemy of progress achisukiswa ndiro here mwana aripo? Imi ka imi
@tanyamilewski5700
@tanyamilewski5700 Жыл бұрын
@@shamisomatora1248 what’s so special about washing dishes. Putting too much meaning in mundane tasks is another poverty problem. Does he die if he washes dishes in front of his child?
@shamisomatora1248
@shamisomatora1248 Жыл бұрын
@@tanyamilewski5700 where is enmity of progress kana achiti handisuke ma plates mwana akagara? There is nothing special about him washing the dishes if asked kindly coz harisi basa rake and there is nothing wrong kuti mwana ane ten years asuke ndiro a girl child for that matter
@tanyamilewski5700
@tanyamilewski5700 Жыл бұрын
@@shamisomatora1248 arisi basa rake based on what? Doesn’t he eat? I think it’s laziness to make a big deal about washing dishes. He is a lazy man. If he wants the child to wash them why not invite her and show her how to. Saying it’s this person’s job not mine when talking of a simple task is lazy.
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
What is she on about! Uya confuza lowu!
@slindsayharmon1086
@slindsayharmon1086 Жыл бұрын
So it’s not hama lol play cousins 😂😂😂
@princesstee6483
@princesstee6483 Жыл бұрын
First lapha
@beemadamombe3314
@beemadamombe3314 Жыл бұрын
kkkkk baba awo vano actor kuzoda kuchema kani kkkkkkkk
@ruthphilip5837
@ruthphilip5837 Жыл бұрын
T he woman is very wrong she’s spoiling the child she wants to do the job herself. She feels that her child is being used kuita. basa. Life in UK is different from Zim let’s not lose our culture. The husband is 100% correct
@spikybuttrue8569
@spikybuttrue8569 Жыл бұрын
I was a little confused by "are you able to handle the truth?". I guess we'll find out together once you've told me the truth but you can't withhold the truth based on your assumptions about my reaction. Ko what if every cheater states their partner anogona kuzviuuraya, surely that gives everyone the excuse to never tell them the truth. Thanks for calling this man out on his lies though. So many think they're lying to save their marriage meanwhile they're doing irreversible damage
@nyariechahwanda6324
@nyariechahwanda6324 Жыл бұрын
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