Pursuing a woman properly shows your bravery, letting them pursue you too shows them your confidence. Balancing these two energies together makes a real man. Remember, not all women want a real man, just walk away in those situations. Men need to weed out women that are wrong for them, even if you think you love them, that is strength

The mistake we make as men we think if we have a very attractive female on our side we've found happiness and we forget to ask ourselves what value will she add in our lives

The most important relationship you can have is with yourself.

Sometimes just listening to you reminds me of what my mother used to tell me: Have some self-esteem!

I listen to both women n men coaches to balance out n take my own stance ....

Relationship shouldn’t be this difficult. The reason why it’s so complicated is because human beings have several bs going on in their lives-it’s unbelievable!!!

This makes so much sense. If you feel like you need her, you will over do it. But if she's a preferential addition, then you'll be sober and pursue well.

The female version of these videos is advice such as; have a queen mindset, shit-test him, play hard to get, be indecisive, do this with 20 other guys.

Def needed this because we all forget whats the right thing when your caught in the moment.

one of the best videos you have ever made .. Great point about happiness within ourselfs !

She likes me but i know I had to play the game for getting her

The answer is simple. Pay attention to personality. If she has low self esteem.. and you have high self esteem. Then obviously that relationship will not work. Simple!

This video is worth watching multiple times, so you can go out in the real world and apply the good stuff you teach 🙌

1) I setup a date. 2) Get off the phone. We will talk about it at the restaurant.

Oh my! This girl knows what she is talking about! Bravo! My hat is off to you Madam🙏

What you explain is similar to wanting a relationship and needing a relationship. I have become extremely close emotionally with a woman who is a 10 in any mans eyes. Beauty beyond compare, super sexy and sensual. I fell in love with her personality, she is the sweetest woman I’ve ever met. We will finally meet in February. I’ve made it clear I want her, and if we don’t have chemistry when we meet in person, there is no reason to continue our online relationship. She doesn’t understand why and said “you need me in your life”. I told her I don’t need her, I want her and she was hurt. She then explained what she meant and included herself, saying “we need each other...” Then it wasn’t so offensive. But once a woman believes you need her, she loses all respect for you. When you believe you need someone, you lose your own self worth and identity. If the person ends the relationship, you feel like life is over, but it isn’t. I had a wonderful marriage to the love of my life for 24 years when she died suddenly from opioid poisoning. Not an overdose, her body was too small for the minimum dose of meds prescribed, so she never “woke up”. I knew at that moment the heartbreaking feeling of losing someone you need. But that need grew over spending half our lives together, not from seeing her and wanting her.

Thank you Apollonia. The woman should be your fan and if she is not a good one, there are a lot of fans for great men. Allah bless you Apollonia.

I must admit that I think your videos are very well put together and you articulate everything so well, thanks for providing a lot of advice that many of us don't even think about.

I thank God for 2019, for bringing me love and giving me a God fearing Woman 👩, my child hood friend I have known for 10 years and so so good next year we are doing our introduction and we always bring the best out of each other, love and respect each other and pray for each other every day. And we love each other as individuals and we love each other as a Couple 👫 ❤️ and we thank God for the love 😍 he has given us.

Apo omg I’ve been talking to this girl and I said the same thing to myself. She’s good looking and she has a lot going for herself but I’m also the shiznit and I’m a prize that needs to be won!

There’s a girl that gave me butterflies and now I’m killing myself trying to pursue correctly. As we speak I’ve conveyed my feelings and she didn’t say no, she’s open to getting to know me and I’m definitely not in the friend zone, next step is to hang out with her in person more

Apolonia’s a smart, insightful and a deep thinker who understands the dynamics effecting men in relationship to ladies.

You are so good and so right I have found myself over Pursuing my last relationship which did not turn out Will never do that again .

Apollonia, great video. Very informative ... in the end as men we need to be confident and secure with who we are, focused on our mission.

my perfect woman is perfect to me,we make each other better...it's about what makes you better together..the right person you will start changing without saying anything...

Your words are true and it makes me feel like I need a break to find myself love. Thanks a lot.

I’ve been watching your videos for a little while, you are an amazing person, from now on I’ll watch videos of how to meet someone like you !! Forget my ex ! 💐

The way u break down things and make it easy to understand..., And helping real man who are vulnerable and in misery.., It is like, you extend your hand to those who have fallen bad and they are not able to come out... And u help them.., u pull them out of that place... U are a nice person Apollonia... This energy u wear, and the kind of person you are.. I like you 🙂.. I like ur energy... From India.

Best dating coach ever. Done. I'm not even using her products just videos. No on deep dives like this chick.

Right on Girl! Thanks for being passionate about what u do! It really matters to know your self worth...

This is one of the main differences between men and women. Men are poligamous in nature, we don't focus on just one woman, we have so much love for women that when we try to focus all the love on just one woman, it becomes putting her on a pedestal and we become unattractive to women when we are like that. But that's what society AND women demands from us - to love one woman and be there only for her. In this situation, when we focus all the love on one woman, we come off as needy, because we focus all the love for women on one person and therefore the woman has the power to stamp on our love and play games, and blackmail us emotionally. The society demands from us the game that is impossible to win. Man that puts his woman on a pedestal is unattractive to all women, including his own woman.. On the other hand, a woman that puts her man on a pedestal is very much attractive to her man, and very much loved. That's the difference. The solution for a man is to always be open to love and intimacy with other women. To let them compete for your attention, even in a long term relationship. Don't withdraw your love for women just because you now want to have the one girl. They compete over you, they are stimulated emotionally, and they love you and want to win your love. And you don't f.ck around, take care of your semen (your potential children) and don't give it for free. Stick your junk only into a woman that showed you and convinced you about her that she would take care of your potential children the way they deserve and be a perfect mother if they show up (Even if you don't plan it, take care of it, because there is a physical possibility that they show up).

lol Apollonia, i just started pursuing this chick and this video came out just at the right time to CLARIFY that im doing everything right (which i am). Girl... you da best!

Thank you for helping me see the difference cause I wasn’t aware until now.

this is a really great video, Apollonia. this is like the summarization of all your videos. thank you for this! :)

Very useful and insightful....these are great tips to ponder on... thanks. Keep up the good work..

Pursue women with a career and a JOB and no Bastards as luggage! Enough said!

LOVE EVERY WORD FROM BEGINNING TO END! You nailed it in this video Apallonia

Knowing the temparement of the person makes all the difference in the world in all things relational.

It's been too long since i watched the lovely Apollonia. Pretty good stuff Apollonia

Thank you so much for your advice. Definitely a lot easier to put in perspectives. Never to be a player but to kill the nice guy that people pleases.

It's true, having a woman in your life is usually not a recipe for increased happiness, at least not after a few months. But the ironic thing is, if having a woman is not going to improve my life, why do I need her?

this is one of your best videos! so much insight, thank you

Wow this makes a huge amount of sense!! Thank you for your input!

So much value in here 🔥🔥

We all need the happiness we get from someone else which is why you are married and why this channel exists. The key is, that you still feel valuable without them.

Love your content! A really powerful message here. I especially liked the 7 aspects of life which I need to improve, instead of trying to fix everything threw a romantic relationship.

The you much Apollonia I learnt lots from you since I started watching you videos... I in UK I love you lots bcos if am watching is like you talking directly to me thanks and God bless you with your amazing teaching x

Great video Apollonia. Happy Thursday beautiful 🌹

Balance is key.

Great content I made so many of the mistakes you mentioned in this video I lost who I was but i'm starting to learn about my own value which is great.

Great videos AP. I was a crazy over persurer. But I was happy in all areas of my life except romance. I was scared to death that I was never find love. I idolized all girls I thought were attractive and I didn't think I could be fulfilled without falling in love and getting married. I ended up with a bpd. I was codependent.

Amazing video. Thank you Apollonia, your videos have helped me so much this last month since my gf asked for a break.

Apollonia your videos are great, I've learned lots, thank you. You're gorgeous and dress suave too!

For me this was the most important video from you Apollonia, Thank you!

So perfect timing video with someone I am dating it answer questions I was thinking about ty A.P😊

I was a player most my life. The best way to get a girl is to have status and just grab her and act like she is yours. The sooner the better. They don’t care about who you really are

Thanks again for an awesome video. 🙏🏾

Self happiness is the most important value

3:50 We love you too, sister. Great fashion!

That makes sense thank you. I'm doing way better now. the only trouble is i'm 57. so I wish I had learned this stuff 40 years ago. After getting divorced and going through a 10-year dry spell for a second time in my life, I asked out somebody who's overweight and she is younger though, and the overweight is not perfect sexually, but I've learned that the love that she has for me is more important than a hot body. And I have to keep looking in the mirror to remind myself that I don't look 37 anymore also, and I am overweight as well. For a while there I thought maybe I was just with her as kind of a placeholder better than nothing woman. But as time has gone on, my love for her has grown little by little.

I swear, you're all gangster before you find a woman you're really into, then all of a sudden a switch just goes up in ur head. You are now trying so hard to secure this women... It's so easy to slip into a state where you're now trying to prove yourself to her. It's not a bad thing, but Never sacrifice your ur dignity in hopes of getting in someone's good graces. There is no woman so great that you can't find better. This is the mindset. And always remember that you're the Prize Get on ur purpose and watch needy behavior disappear

Thanks for having simple intros. Haha Good material. Thanks for adding value.

Thank you, Apollonia...!

Very informative, some of the best advice I've heard yet

All facts. I needed this 4sho

hEY, just wanted to say. -- You're great. good content and quite relevant and practically applicable. -- Cheers to your work

You are the best Apollonia!!

You are the best, honestly everything you said spoke to me. Thank you

You and Rom Wills the best on KZfaq 💯💯💯

The list. Single: love life negative 10.

May God bless your life Apollonia and the job that you do

Im startin to fall in love with this womens knowledge an wisdom for real.... Lol thought id never be attracted to a woman like that but damm! Lol she proved me wrong... 😁🔥💓

Great points especially the idolizing and equals part

Learnt a new word, authenticness

Fellas you shouldn’t need anyone. Love yourself no matter what if you need you become co-dependent and you will always be in relationships unhappy

should try to make advice with AMS

The thing is: I don't want to be with my ex to make myself happy, I knew she would piss me off and give me a headache but the thing is I was not happy with my life. Moving in with her would not provide me happiness but the pursue of living a new life was. We are completely opposite but she and I always found ways to be together, always. That's why I love her and love to be with her. But I wish to find my happiness through my work and hope to find her again.

Amazing tips about how to realise your own innate value and how to stop idolization. Completely on the money.

great video Apollonia

You have to have a full and complete life to share your completeness with.

Exactly what my ex girlfriend was doing honestly I'm happy that will broke up

You only know how much you love her❤ when you let her go......

My first love and last at first site was when I was 18 until I saw you Appollonia I’m 45 now

Apollonia, you rocks!

Great points to be use at all age ranges!

Glad you changed equals to something reasonable. Women don't want an equal they want someone they admire.

Over persuing has a deflecting effect

Hi Apollonia, thank you for your informative videos. I am new to your channel and have been working my way through your videos and podcasts. I do not think I have any specific issues with women or finding women. I am always trying to Improve my knowledge base and have found your videos to serve that purpose. So far there is one subject I do not see you addressing. Because you are at the pinnacle of what most men want and personify all which is desirable in a woman, it would be helpful if you would tell us how can we approach and acquire a woman like you. Any input you have on that specific subject would be most appreciated.

I’m learning a lot from your videos thanks!

watch entirely, thank you, amazing counseling.

You’re very intelligent Apollonia.. thank you for being here

7 different areas for happiness. interesting topics, thank you

I'm happy with myself but i could do with or without a woman because women don't know how to control their feelings and most women always looking for the next best thing no matter hot attracted they are to a guy there's always someone she finds or think is better

Very valid. Buen video amor

I like the new lil look u got going on today. Good video.

Let me takes this opportunity by Thanking you Sister Apollonia Ponti by taking you job very professional by Dress to kill on each and every video that your doing 😍👌👌

Best tip for men dating women, lie about lots of money!!!!!$$$$$$$$$$$$

She looks great in the thumbnail of this video. Even otherwise of course, but more so in the thumbnail.

I had to send a message how I wont be disrespected by this girl. I needed some clarity about what we are doing because I was getting vage responses and being ignored as if i dont exist or my uncertainty didnt matter... because we been out twice hit it off amazing but ran away when I showed serious interest.. i told her she dont care who she hurt, and I wont be disrespected because I just wana communicate, told her it ends.. She saw it no big deal

I love you apollonia