DIMINISHING DYSPHORIA

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Ryan Jacobs Flores

Ryan Jacobs Flores

4 жыл бұрын

Hey all!
In this video I talk about some of my struggles with dysphoria and what I do to help myself get through it. Sending love and strength to those who resonate.
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@LeslieeGzlz
@LeslieeGzlz 4 жыл бұрын
Being short is really ok! My boyfriend is 13 years older and 5’1 which is my height as well. When we are together the least we think about is our height or age difference.
@garythe3rd905
@garythe3rd905 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Ryan, I just wanna say ur such a strong person ur proud for who u r. And ur an inspiration to a lot of people I’m transgender and I watch u all the time!
@redhood8141
@redhood8141 4 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing Comment. I totally agree 😊 Hope you are doing well
@garythe3rd905
@garythe3rd905 4 жыл бұрын
Red Hood I’m doing amazing how are u
@redhood8141
@redhood8141 4 жыл бұрын
@@garythe3rd905 I'm okay, just had a long day 🙂 its like 5:30 am here and my stupid self should be asleep hehe
@garythe3rd905
@garythe3rd905 4 жыл бұрын
Red Hood aha it’s 8:17 where I am at night
@OriginalOrangeJuice
@OriginalOrangeJuice 4 жыл бұрын
Love how strong of a person you are❣️
@SnowCatKroe
@SnowCatKroe 4 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and dude, I love you so much. You're so cool and your journey is so moving and inspiring. Thank you for posting videos like this!
@dakameiignade4749
@dakameiignade4749 4 жыл бұрын
Lovely. It truly is hard to deal with
@joe3869
@joe3869 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Ryan, I recently discovered you through tones and i, and I’m glad i did so, i will support you on this road, stay strong!
@RyanJacobsFlores
@RyanJacobsFlores 4 жыл бұрын
Joe 3 Thank you for your support! Tones is awesome 😁
@mynameisnike
@mynameisnike 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'7 and a lot of the guys I work with are significantly taller than me. I wear a binder and my chest isn't super flat, but I have gotten to a point where I just accept that i got some "man boobs". But before I accepted it I slouched a lot. So now I try and focus on having good posture, it makes me feel better and slightly taller. Its not always easy to do, I have had a co worker that has called me out and said " i thought you were a trans when you first started working here and then I realized you were a real guy" when I got offended and said "so are trans people not real?" He responded by patting my chest, which I took is what made him think I was trans. I didn't stop him and instead just stared at him as he did it, I figured he was trying to get some sort of reaction out of me which I wasnt going to give to him. I stopped talking to him, but because I am stealth at work I just dealt with it. It makes me feel insecure about my chest sometimes, but for the most part I just tell myself I have man boobies ha. My body isn't perfect, but I enjoy the things that have changed with being 3 years on T. So i celebrate those things. I love my broad shoulders, the hair on my stomach and legs, and even how my hands look more masculine! I dont want to be held back because of the things I cannot change, some times those things can bring me down and I'm not a machine so some days I wont be able to handle it, but I give myself that time to feel what I feel.and maybe i'll shave my face or wear my packer at home to feel more masculine and help me get back up.
@ashleyjohn
@ashleyjohn 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you man 🥰😍
@ryanflores3703
@ryanflores3703 4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you, same surname 💪👏
@shyryTsr2k
@shyryTsr2k 4 жыл бұрын
Hey bro! I'm very happy for you, I'm actually a trans guy myself and I'm 10 weeks (?) on T now and I'm curious.... Would it be better to do the injection on both thighs instead of one? I personally always inject on my right thigh but I'm curious if it'll be better in both 🤔 Congratulations again Ryan!! 😄
@Dee-pb3uc
@Dee-pb3uc 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had clear skin like yours
@ClaytonJay
@ClaytonJay 4 жыл бұрын
Great video
@phireeagle5530
@phireeagle5530 4 жыл бұрын
One of the things I struggle with is that I can't exercise very much due to having a heart condition. That in itself is very depressing because I am not the kind of person who likes to sit and do things that require sitting and not moving much. I am the kind of person who wants to push myself and work out and be a man that reminds me of Sylvester Stallone especially when he was in Rocky. Due to my heart condition I can't shape myself how I want so depression and dysphoria get extremely bad sometimes. I'm not even sure if I could start on t. A lot of times I wear baggy clothes so people can't see my chest and it helps. One thing that helped a lot is my husband's support and him getting me new underwear after I came out(again, there is a story behind that if you want hear it one day). A lot of days I struggle and I don't know what to do.
@natechenheng1380
@natechenheng1380 4 жыл бұрын
Hey I’ve got a question... was your name Ryan before? Or u changed it during the transition?
@spoons2075
@spoons2075 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video as always! I agree that working out does help. I was born female and identify as female but I hate boobs! I remember dreading puberty and them growing in. I had a reduction that helped soooo much and I was so happy at the way my body looked! I am super jealous of how a mans “boobs” are shaped and want that more than anything. After watching your videos I question if I have been suffering from like chest dysphoria all this time. Is it possible to trip out and be all upset about one body part for most of my life? I tried to look it up but what comes up is a lot of transgender things and I don’t identify as transgender....hmmmm. Thoughts?
@user-me7tr1hf6j
@user-me7tr1hf6j 4 жыл бұрын
I have so much dysphoria, to the point i got depression and axeity :(
@RyanJacobsFlores
@RyanJacobsFlores 4 жыл бұрын
Tristan Artin I understand that, I struggle with mental health too. Sending strength your way, friend ✨
@34weaselsinatrenchcoat11
@34weaselsinatrenchcoat11 4 жыл бұрын
same your not alone if u need to talk we can
@redhood8141
@redhood8141 4 жыл бұрын
Tristan Artin I've been there, I'm sorry you have to deal with this. Just remember you are amazing and there are people who will send you love whenever you need it
@jz6495
@jz6495 4 жыл бұрын
Hey ryan! I have this question and I heard so many different answers. does T make you grow 1-2 inches taller? or it doesn’t have an effect on height?
@shyryTsr2k
@shyryTsr2k 4 жыл бұрын
Well, if you start at a super young age like 12-13 you MAY experience some change in height but it's not really possible since T does not change your bone structures.
@3ilrahc356
@3ilrahc356 4 жыл бұрын
shyry T actually makes bones denser so there is possibility to grow as long as your growth plates haven’t closed yet, it is rare though
@lewysf8705
@lewysf8705 4 жыл бұрын
Do u have height dysphoria and any suggestions w how to deal w it?
@RyanJacobsFlores
@RyanJacobsFlores 4 жыл бұрын
Lewys F I do have height dysphoria, my weapons of choice are platform vans, volume hair products, and practicing good posture lol Apart from the physical ways I battle it, I try to re-ground myself and look at my situation from another perspective. And I kinda think about it like this: Just because I wasn’t dealt the cards I wanted in life, does not mean the cards I got are bad. So, I try to work with what I got. Because I know that worrying about my height won’t bring me the contentment I desire with myself. It doesn’t make me less. Hope this helps 🤘🏼
@user-me7tr1hf6j
@user-me7tr1hf6j 4 жыл бұрын
Lewys F i am 5’11 but my brother is over 6’5, and average height Where i live is 6’1, so i still got so much height dysphoria, it really sucks
@dakotasmith2457
@dakotasmith2457 4 жыл бұрын
You look really good
@pavanpatel335
@pavanpatel335 4 жыл бұрын
Post more my g
@froggieyt7300
@froggieyt7300 4 жыл бұрын
I have both depression and dysphoria and I hate it. It sucks. Everything looks... wrong on my body.
@JesusChrist-iw6ky
@JesusChrist-iw6ky 4 жыл бұрын
Shawn Kolmatycki LMAOOOOOO
@BigDawgMANE
@BigDawgMANE 4 жыл бұрын
How tall r u
@daniiamarilla628
@daniiamarilla628 4 жыл бұрын
Necesito subtítulos :(
@RyanJacobsFlores
@RyanJacobsFlores 4 жыл бұрын
A.D Agregaré subtítulos en mis videos futuros 😊
@JoeyVX
@JoeyVX 4 жыл бұрын
You want to grow taller or get wider? Hmmm how about “HGH”... that should do the trick. Or Mk-677, it tells your body to release more HGH and it’s legal! Your fingers will get thicker, your jaw will get more define and squared. Shoulders etc...
@Pozoe12
@Pozoe12 4 жыл бұрын
did you get married? lol
@RyanJacobsFlores
@RyanJacobsFlores 4 жыл бұрын
Roddy emotionally yes lol still working on the legal part
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