trauma has been proven to alter ones perception of time, especially the time surrounding the traumatic event. To me, it sounds like, even after all this time, the memory is still so fresh in his mind that it's as strong as memories from only a few years ago, so he has trouble placing it.

@@theductductgoose Yup. The book The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk basically is this in book form. Traumatic memories, when remembered, depress the amygdala, which is the part of the brain that puts things in the proper time context. Most of the modern (and more effective) trauma treatments are about allowing the mind to put the traumatic memories into the proper historical context so that, instead of being remembered like they are happening, they are just bad old memories. A lot of the treatments seem to be about distancing the person from the memory while recalling it. It's a really good book. Put me on a path of dealing with my, fairly mild compared to some, trauma. One interesting thing about why memories become trauma is that traumatic memories often contain an inability to act while they happen. ie being trapped in a car after a car crash compared to being able to get out of the car. Which is why abusive people make so much trauma in the people around them. Because normally the abused can't leave the house/ situation. Anyway, I feel sorry for Sam and, while I'm sure OP meant no harm, not the best thing to laugh about.

​@@Badartist888 All of this is good, but I would point out that Sam himself played it off as a joke (which he has a tendency to do) and based on stuff I've seen from him I doubt he'd want people to feel bad for laughing at a joke he made, even if it is about something serious.

I think it was that he was getting Chevy set up in a hotel room for something and he was commenting on what the staff of the hotel must have thought of him.

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Chevy had been given a room in a hotel and Sam was operating as his assistant for the event. Chevy didn’t want the room and went home instead. Sam then invited a friend over to enjoy the luxury they were offering to Chevy. They ordered room service, but realized the staff thought Chevy was there, so the solution was for his friend to run into the bathroom and start up the shower and for Sam to answer the door and say Chevy was in the shower but he’d accept the room service for him.

These types of videos are the best ads for dropout

@@JLMac322 for real, i hope dropout knows that a lot of people end up subscribing to them because of compilation clips like this, including me and a few other people i know

they absolutely do, otherwise they'd be taking these videos down instead of posting clips on their own platforms in addition to allowing them to stay up @@anelephant9593

*NON SEXUAL

@@dndlee6872gone wrong!

@@dndlee6872bold of you to assume grant would ever be invited to a non sexual adult sleepover /j 😭😭

This is the correct reason to watch Dirty Laundry.

Related - if you have not seen the Bingo episode of game changer, you gotta. Best Lily Du laughs ever at the end

Just like he killed Pat

*allegedly @@WeatherInOrlando

sam riegel spent the first decade of his career in the entertainment business as a male escort for chevy chase

sam worked as chevy chase’s assistant. chevy got a free hotel room as part of an event but he didn’t want it and went home, so sam decided to sleep there and order room service for him and a friend on the event’s card. but then room service came and sam realized they’d expect chevy to be there, so he had his friend turn on the shower and lied to room service and said chevy was in the shower but he’d take the food. at which point he realized he looked like chevy’s sugar baby lol

I dunno who that guy is!

“who’s pat benetar?”